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5 - What Winning Really Looks Like for a Man
Most men think winning means being right.
Winning the argument. Winning the negotiation. Winning the moment.
I used to believe that too. If I had the stronger logic, the sharper response, or the more dominant presence in the room, I thought I was winning. But what I didn't realize at the time was that I was often winning the moment while quietly damaging the relationship.
And over time, that cost is enormous.
In this episode, I break down the conditioning most men grow up with around what it means to win. We're taught that dominance, control, and overpowering the room are signs of strength…
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