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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yor
- 0:04Speaker 1: the Order Kerni Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before
- 0:08Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I
- 0:11Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land
- 0:14Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,
- 0:18Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming
- 0:22Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing
- 0:27Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for
- 0:30Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Let's get into it.
- 0:34Speaker 3: She's on the Money, She's on the Money.
- 0:57Speaker 4: Hello, and welcome to She's on My Me the podcast
- 1:01Speaker 4: Millennials who Want Financial Freedom. Today is Friday, which means
- 1:05Speaker 4: it's time to get the team together and celebrate you
- 1:07Speaker 4: the incredible She's on the Money community. Today, I'm going
- 1:10Speaker 4: to share some of my favorite money wins. Beck is
- 1:13Speaker 4: going to share some of her best broke tips, and
- 1:15Speaker 4: we're going to be helping to answer a juicy money
- 1:17Speaker 4: to Lemma, which this week is all about redundancy. We're
- 1:20Speaker 4: also going to unpack something U slid into our DMS
- 1:22Speaker 4: about which is all about navigating pay rises.
- 1:25Speaker 2: I feel like.
- 1:26Speaker 4: Tis the season and the financial year. We're taking stock
- 1:30Speaker 4: and it's just the girls this week, just me and Bet.
- 1:32Speaker 2: This is so nice.
- 1:33Speaker 4: Is nice?
- 1:33Speaker 2: We never get to spend that much time together.
- 1:35Speaker 4: This is love.
- 1:36Speaker 2: It feels so cozy. Do you feel crazy? Do you
- 1:38Speaker 2: feel cozy?
- 1:38Speaker 4: Cozy and safe and loved. I think it's just going
- 1:41Speaker 4: to be a good episode, you know, I think so.
- 1:43Speaker 2: I think.
- 1:43Speaker 4: So.
- 1:43Speaker 2: How's you we been? It's been good.
- 1:45Speaker 4: I have nothing exciting to report from me. It's been
- 1:47Speaker 4: very cold. I saw a post somewhere that said Australia
- 1:52Speaker 4: is the worst performing in like the world for installation
- 1:58Speaker 4: in housing, which I don't know what the standard of
- 2:00Speaker 4: that is, but apparently to be like above standard, your
- 2:04Speaker 4: house needs to sit at like eighteen degrees overnight with
- 2:07Speaker 4: no heating or cooling. And I'm assuming like different places,
- 2:10Speaker 4: it must be different, because like if you live in Iceland,
- 2:12Speaker 4: maybe totally you know what I mean.
- 2:14Speaker 2: I don't know the specifics, but.
- 2:16Speaker 4: I just saw this posts that said we performed really badly,
- 2:18Speaker 4: and I thought about it this week because every morning
- 2:20Speaker 4: I've gotten up to fourteen degrees in my house. How
- 2:23Speaker 4: do you know that because we have our thermostat tells
- 2:25Speaker 4: us of.
- 2:26Speaker 5: Course you have a thermo stuff for the heating. In
- 2:32Speaker 5: my mind, I'm like, you have like a little thermodon.
- 2:36Speaker 2: After you churn your butter when we checked the Seriously,
- 2:43Speaker 2: apart from that, nothing at all. How about you? Cool?
- 2:47Speaker 2: This week? This week? This week? What have I done?
- 2:49Speaker 5: You know, just like just doing a lot of freelance stuff,
- 2:52Speaker 5: started doing some videos for How cool is that?
- 2:54Speaker 4: I love him? I love seems like the nicest person.
- 2:58Speaker 2: He's so sweet, you know.
- 3:00Speaker 5: When I was like chatting to him about this video stuff,
- 3:03Speaker 5: he was like, I'm so grateful that you wanted to
- 3:05Speaker 5: meet with me. I'm like, what the hell You're Asha Gunsberg,
- 3:10Speaker 5: the Thesha Gunsberg.
- 3:12Speaker 2: It's like the literal queen coming back from the day.
- 3:15Speaker 5: And be like, oh my god, thank you so much
- 3:17Speaker 5: for me. No, thank you so much for meeting with me.
- 3:20Speaker 1: You know.
- 3:21Speaker 2: So sweet.
- 3:21Speaker 5: But anyway, so just been working heaps. Haven't been paid yet,
- 3:25Speaker 5: and that's okay. I feel like it's the same old
- 3:27Speaker 5: story with me every week, and like I'm broke.
- 3:29Speaker 2: I'm broke.
- 3:30Speaker 4: But one day you're in the middle of like a
- 3:31Speaker 4: tough cycle, like everything's changed, and everything's on like thirty
- 3:35Speaker 4: day payment terms or monthly payment. That's really I feel
- 3:38Speaker 4: like a lot of us have been in that situation
- 3:40Speaker 4: where you started a new job maybe and you finish
- 3:43Speaker 4: your old job, but you have like a month where
- 3:44Speaker 4: you don't get paid because you've come in like just
- 3:46Speaker 4: after the cycle.
- 3:48Speaker 2: Yes, oh my goodness. But then when you get that pay, god,
- 3:51Speaker 2: it's fat.
- 3:52Speaker 4: What are your payment terms on your voices? By the way,
- 3:54Speaker 4: that's a great question. I never really have been a freelancer.
- 3:57Speaker 4: This whole thing is new to me.
- 3:58Speaker 5: But I put, like I was trying to be cheeky,
- 4:01Speaker 5: and I was like, my date that this is due?
- 4:03Speaker 5: Is this what you're talking about, by the way, like
- 4:05Speaker 5: date the next Yeah, when you're catch So I put
- 4:08Speaker 5: like a week, and then they came back and they're like, actually,
- 4:11Speaker 5: it's thirty days for us, And I was like, oh, okay, Yeah,
- 4:13Speaker 5: I didn't argue, so I guess now it's like a
- 4:16Speaker 5: thirty day turnaround.
- 4:18Speaker 2: Yeah. Is that the norm? It depends.
- 4:20Speaker 4: Say, I know that a lot of businesses will process
- 4:23Speaker 4: the invoices monthly. My old corporate job, that was one
- 4:25Speaker 4: of my jobs was we process like the company's like
- 4:27Speaker 4: outstanding invoices and that was like a once a month tash. Sure,
- 4:32Speaker 4: but I personally feel like in this day and age,
- 4:35Speaker 4: there's no good reason to not pay within My payment
- 4:38Speaker 4: terms are fourteen days usually on my invoices, unless someone
- 4:41Speaker 4: comes back back with you and says, oh, can we
- 4:44Speaker 4: adjust that? And then normally I'm relatively flexible, but I
- 4:47Speaker 4: mean it's very inconvenient in your situation currently, and I
- 4:51Speaker 4: mean it is up for debate, Like they can come
- 4:53Speaker 4: back and say thirty and you could have said, can
- 4:54Speaker 4: we meet in the middle of fourteen or something? Sure,
- 4:57Speaker 4: Like it just needs to be agreed upon. But my
- 4:59Speaker 4: standard term on my freelance in voices are fourteen days usually. Okay,
- 5:04Speaker 4: maybe I'll do that. I didn't think to do that.
- 5:05Speaker 4: I was just like, oh, you know more than I do,
- 5:07Speaker 4: because I never even that's just about their processes and
- 5:11Speaker 4: make sure their life easy. They're like, we want to
- 5:12Speaker 4: process it within this amount of time, and I mean
- 5:14Speaker 4: it depends as well. Like I feel like at the moment,
- 5:17Speaker 4: you're in the position where we have all been where
- 5:18Speaker 4: you're kind of likeck, I'll just take what I can get,
- 5:20Speaker 4: thank you so much, Like I don't want to argue,
- 5:22Speaker 4: don't want to rock the boat, which is totally fine.
- 5:25Speaker 4: But I think once you're a bit more settled and
- 5:27Speaker 4: you know, a bit more feeling like you're in your
- 5:29Speaker 4: center of power or whatever, you can be a little
- 5:31Speaker 4: bit more like you can push back on it a
- 5:33Speaker 4: little more because it is not that hard to facilitate
- 5:37Speaker 4: unless they are literally just paying an accountant one day
- 5:41Speaker 4: out of a month to process things, gotcha. Generally speaking,
- 5:45Speaker 4: it can be done if it needs to be.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Yeah, okay.
- 5:48Speaker 5: I have this like funny thing that's like, you know,
- 5:50Speaker 5: when you argue back or like not it's not arguing,
- 5:53Speaker 5: but like you push back on something or you like
- 5:55Speaker 5: come back with like you try and meet in the middle.
- 5:57Speaker 5: In my mind, I'm always like, oh my gosh, they're
- 5:59Speaker 5: going to be like, actually, you know what, since you're
- 6:02Speaker 5: being difficult, we're not going to pay this ever, So
- 6:05Speaker 5: that's my fear.
- 6:06Speaker 2: But I will if you've already done the work.
- 6:07Speaker 5: If it can't work that right, they come like, no,
- 6:10Speaker 5: you're being annoying, We're not going to pay you.
- 6:12Speaker 4: No. I mean, I think it's probably good to get
- 6:14Speaker 4: out of the way a set of time, like when
- 6:16Speaker 4: you're onboarding a client, or when you're like speaking to
- 6:19Speaker 4: someone about potentially like working with them, it's a good
- 6:21Speaker 4: thing to just kind of flag or you have like
- 6:23Speaker 4: a generic email that you send with all of your
- 6:25Speaker 4: basic actes and c's or whatever, because then you can
- 6:27Speaker 4: kind of avoid that down the track. But yeah, otherwise,
- 6:30Speaker 4: like it's like anything, it's all up for discussion.
- 6:33Speaker 2: Okay, really good to know.
- 6:34Speaker 5: Actually, it has been a rough few weeks, as you know,
- 6:36Speaker 5: I think I want to live vicariously through other people.
- 6:39Speaker 2: So let's go through money wins.
- 6:41Speaker 4: Well done, it's done. It was very smooth. I've got
- 6:46Speaker 4: a bunch of really good ones. I'm going to start
- 6:48Speaker 4: with one from Malice, who said I went to Woolworth's
- 6:51Speaker 4: yesterday for a few items, and a lovely lady at
- 6:54Speaker 4: the self serve checkouts approached me to offer me a
- 6:57Speaker 4: gift basket on behalf of Woolworths because as they're trying
- 7:00Speaker 4: to help their customers out with cost of living. She
- 7:03Speaker 4: said it was a nice gesture and completely unexpected. And
- 7:05Speaker 4: then somebody else, Taylor, said she had the same experience.
- 7:09Speaker 4: So they must be just I don't know how they're
- 7:11Speaker 4: figuring out or deciding, but They're just randomly sprinkling little
- 7:14Speaker 4: my goodies to people.
- 7:16Speaker 2: Thought, I know I need to head to that war work.
- 7:19Speaker 4: I'm assuming it would be pretty much everywhere, but I
- 7:21Speaker 4: just thought that was a really nice I mean, you know,
- 7:24Speaker 4: really nice. They're making like record breaking profits and you know,
- 7:27Speaker 4: really screwing the pooch, but it's a really nice thing
- 7:30Speaker 4: for them to give some people to give fastt I
- 7:32Speaker 4: guess next, I've put the money in from Alana, who
- 7:35Speaker 4: said money loss. This one's a bit of a journey.
- 7:37Speaker 4: Money loss. Dropped an airport pro When I was out
- 7:39Speaker 4: in my walk money win. Found said AirPod pro on
- 7:43Speaker 4: the road. When I went back to look for Oh,
- 7:45Speaker 4: great money loss. Okay, it had been run over. I
- 7:48Speaker 4: see money win. Oh it did still God, sorry, this
- 8:10Speaker 4: is great money win.
- 8:12Speaker 2: It still worked.
- 8:14Speaker 4: Money loss. It only half since I told you it
- 8:17Speaker 4: was a journey's journey.
- 8:19Speaker 2: Money loss. It only half worked. So I bought a
- 8:22Speaker 2: new pair to claim on this year's tax.
- 8:24Speaker 4: Oh, it was all over the place that I do
- 8:27Speaker 4: actually have one extra money win.
- 8:29Speaker 2: Someone commented.
- 8:31Speaker 4: Catherine commented and said, if you take them into Apple
- 8:33Speaker 4: with your airpod's case because you've lost one or you've
- 8:36Speaker 4: had one runover or whatever, they'll replace it for cheaper.
- 8:40Speaker 2: And then somebody else said.
- 8:41Speaker 4: Apparently you can buy a single airport, like you can
- 8:45Speaker 4: replace just the one airpot.
- 8:46Speaker 2: Really email or something to I think it apple like
- 8:49Speaker 2: you can just buy a singular AirPod.
- 8:50Speaker 4: Which I thought was crazy because I just.
- 8:53Speaker 2: Assumed you'd have to.
- 8:53Speaker 4: I don't know why I assumed, but you just have
- 8:55Speaker 4: to buy a whole new one. And then I was like, well,
- 8:57Speaker 4: then you just have one extra airport in case you
- 9:00Speaker 4: lose one.
- 9:00Speaker 5: I don't know, well money lost, money loss again, because
- 9:04Speaker 5: there's people coming back and being like, hey, you didn't
- 9:06Speaker 5: have to do that, you could I know, Well.
- 9:09Speaker 2: It's all happening under this comment. That was the best journey.
- 9:15Speaker 2: I'm really sorry, Alana, but thank you so much for sharing.
- 9:17Speaker 5: I think that was absolutely, honestly amazing, so poetic.
- 9:21Speaker 2: I want more of these. Get out of ten for storytelling.
- 9:24Speaker 2: I love the storytelling. You good to know that you
- 9:26Speaker 2: can buy a singular pod.
- 9:28Speaker 4: As someone who absolutely I'm sure at some point in
- 9:31Speaker 4: my life I will lose an air pod. Yes, that
- 9:33Speaker 4: is so good to know. And I'm sure I've seen
- 9:35Speaker 4: or heard of people who have lost one and gone,
- 9:37Speaker 4: I have to buy a whole new one. How annoying.
- 9:39Speaker 2: Totally Apparently you don't have to apparently apparently.
- 9:43Speaker 4: Next, I've got money in from Claire. She said, money win.
- 9:46Speaker 4: She had over ten people RSVP no to were wedding
- 9:50Speaker 4: next month.
- 9:52Speaker 2: Great.
- 9:53Speaker 4: Someone replied and said, I love this outlook, and Claire
- 9:56Speaker 4: came back and said, I was getting so excited with
- 9:58Speaker 4: every note that came through because we hit one thousand
- 10:01Speaker 4: dollars that we wouldn't have to spend because of how
- 10:03Speaker 4: many people had said no ching. She said, hot tip,
- 10:06Speaker 4: do a weekday wedding. Not only will you say when
- 10:08Speaker 4: your per head costs, but some people are too busy
- 10:10Speaker 4: they can't even come.
- 10:10Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's actually a great idea. And it
- 10:12Speaker 2: sounds like no hard feelings.
- 10:14Speaker 5: She's she's so happy that's a wedding gift. One hundred percent.
- 10:17Speaker 5: Your gift is you know how people say your presence is.
- 10:22Speaker 2: Your lack of presence is a present. I feel like
- 10:24Speaker 2: that's a really positive way to spin it. Absolutely, I
- 10:26Speaker 2: love that. Well done, Claire.
- 10:28Speaker 4: Next, I've got money win from Angela, and she said
- 10:30Speaker 4: she's making use of free group fitness classes at her workplace.
- 10:34Speaker 4: She said, it's a strength and positive win for her wellbeing.
- 10:38Speaker 2: I just want to remind people YouTube.
- 10:40Speaker 4: I've been really into the YouTube yoga classes because as
- 10:44Speaker 4: you as I've said, I'm in my parts Princess era.
- 10:46Speaker 4: I'm loving it. Happily paid class but they're not cheap. Yeah,
- 10:49Speaker 4: and so I like to do yogur as well, but
- 10:51Speaker 4: I was like, I cannot justify having two sets of memberships.
- 10:55Speaker 4: So I've been yoga with Adrian. I feel like every
- 10:57Speaker 4: person on the planet knows yoga with Adrian. But you'll
- 11:00Speaker 4: hear me like you don't.
- 11:01Speaker 2: No, I don't.
- 11:02Speaker 5: But I'm also thinking like yoga's quite zen and then
- 11:04Speaker 5: like halfway through there's like the loudest KFC ad to
- 11:08Speaker 5: ever exist.
- 11:09Speaker 2: That I actually don't think I've had that problem about it.
- 11:13Speaker 4: I do like I turn the lights down, I try
- 11:15Speaker 4: and like set up like a yoga studio vibe but
- 11:17Speaker 4: a candle. Sure, I get it's like what if the
- 11:21Speaker 4: I don't care like the of your beautiful zen.
- 11:26Speaker 2: I'm just like in down with dogs in my mind.
- 11:32Speaker 2: That is the funniest thing. So it hilarious. Keep doing it.
- 11:35Speaker 2: Don't buy YouTube premium, just sit through the case through.
- 11:38Speaker 4: That just a good reminder, like if you're also wanting
- 11:41Speaker 4: to do your health journey and maybe a workplace doesn't
- 11:42Speaker 4: do them. Like there's so many people on YouTube who
- 11:45Speaker 4: do really awesome workouts, all different kinds too, and they're free.
- 11:49Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so good. We love that.
- 11:52Speaker 4: Last I've got moneyven for Emily who said money win.
- 11:54Speaker 4: I saved six dollars on fuel with seven to eleven
- 11:56Speaker 4: fuel lock this week, fuel the same.
- 12:00Speaker 2: Fifteen bucks one time. Crazy. Well, I can't believe it.
- 12:03Speaker 4: Checking out the areas too, Like I drove down the
- 12:05Speaker 4: coast the other day and petrol in my area was
- 12:08Speaker 4: like two dollost twenty. Went down the coast, it was
- 12:10Speaker 4: only eighty. Yes, I was on my app so fast
- 12:13Speaker 4: locking that.
- 12:13Speaker 2: Oh my goodness.
- 12:15Speaker 5: But I saw in Melton one dollar sixty for those paying.
- 12:20Speaker 2: How good is that? He was sixty.
- 12:21Speaker 4: It was a couple of days ago. So if it's changed,
- 12:22Speaker 4: doesn't it pain you? I like, I remember feel so old.
- 12:27Speaker 4: I remember when I was like a dollar twenty for petrol.
- 12:30Speaker 4: I'm twenty and now I like, if I saw a
- 12:33Speaker 4: dollar twenty, I would lose my damn mind. Oh my god,
- 12:35Speaker 4: I would be filling up Jerry, I was about to say.
- 12:38Speaker 5: I'd buy so many jerocans. Oh my gosh, those were
- 12:42Speaker 5: the days. Honestly, I remember there was a time when
- 12:44Speaker 5: it was eighty nine cents again like in like he
- 12:46Speaker 5: went up to one fifty.
- 12:47Speaker 2: It was like the standard and went.
- 12:49Speaker 5: Down at eighty nine cents. You remember those days. No,
- 12:51Speaker 5: it was a very short period of time.
- 12:53Speaker 4: I'd a mister you remember producer remembers during COVID those
- 12:57Speaker 4: were the days.
- 12:57Speaker 2: Those were the.
- 12:58Speaker 5: Days, COVID days. I missed that when everyone was sick, kidding.
- 13:03Speaker 4: And we all were nice and supportive of each other,
- 13:07Speaker 4: exactly for me.
- 13:10Speaker 2: Do you have some beautiful broke tips? Though? To I do?
- 13:14Speaker 5: I do have some broke tips.
- 13:17Speaker 2: This is this is so weird. This never happened before.
- 13:19Speaker 2: It's just a coincidence. I have some broke tips.
- 13:22Speaker 5: Okay, So I only discovered this this morning, and apparently
- 13:27Speaker 5: guys knew for a long time. And I think I've
- 13:29Speaker 5: been spending a lot of money, way more than I
- 13:31Speaker 5: should have been.
- 13:32Speaker 2: But anyway, so.
- 13:34Speaker 5: I'm sure some people have heard of Energy Made Easy
- 13:38Speaker 5: dot gov do AU. So basically I went on there
- 13:40Speaker 5: this morning and I'm with house Shop, which I already
- 13:43Speaker 5: knew probably wasn't the cheapest, but I just typed it
- 13:46Speaker 5: all my details and then it kind of came back
- 13:48Speaker 5: with what I could be paying every year.
- 13:50Speaker 2: Like it gives you like offers, you upload.
- 13:52Speaker 4: One of your bills, right, so it assesses I think,
- 13:55Speaker 4: based on like it's giving you an accurate idea, like
- 13:57Speaker 4: it measures the amount that easy used and your hairs
- 14:01Speaker 4: it to pricing other places.
- 14:02Speaker 5: I'm pretty sure yes, And I don't know if you
- 14:04Speaker 5: have to upload the whole bill, but it just like
- 14:05Speaker 5: there's a number on your bill that you just have
- 14:08Speaker 5: to like enter into there. So just like make sure
- 14:09Speaker 5: you have bill handy. There's nothing more annoying than when
- 14:12Speaker 5: you're like, oh, just quickly do this while I'm like
- 14:14Speaker 5: scrolling on the toilet and they're like, can we have
- 14:15Speaker 5: your literally everything you've ever needed?
- 14:18Speaker 2: And it's so annoying. But anyway, so just have a
- 14:21Speaker 2: bill handy.
- 14:22Speaker 5: That's all you need and then go on, just jump
- 14:24Speaker 5: on and see what you can get because it's so
- 14:27Speaker 5: much cheaper than I want to pay, and it's almost
- 14:29Speaker 5: sickening how much I could have had. But anyway, now
- 14:33Speaker 5: I usually do start with community broke tips, but this
- 14:36Speaker 5: week because I put something on my story yesterday and
- 14:38Speaker 5: if you're not following me at BECKSID if you like,
- 14:41Speaker 5: and I just I.
- 14:42Speaker 2: Wanted to run through a few little broke tips.
- 14:44Speaker 5: That people had, which I think a lot of them,
- 14:46Speaker 5: Like some of them are general knowledge. Some of them
- 14:49Speaker 5: you might not have even thought of before. One that
- 14:51Speaker 5: we did talk about a long time ago. I think,
- 14:55Speaker 5: actually this is so weird because it.
- 14:56Speaker 2: Was just us two last night. I spoke about this.
- 15:00Speaker 5: I coined in from the reject shop and save all
- 15:03Speaker 5: You'll loose change suah. And if that's like I remember
- 15:06Speaker 5: talking about it, and I was saying that I like
- 15:07Speaker 5: put fifty bucks in and then like within twenty minutes
- 15:12Speaker 5: like had my mail, clippers and everything that I could
- 15:14Speaker 5: find to try and open it back up. But if
- 15:17Speaker 5: you're not like me, it's a really good way to
- 15:19Speaker 5: Obviously you won't get like interest and things like that,
- 15:22Speaker 5: but if you just want somewhere where you literally physically
- 15:26Speaker 5: cannot touch your money, just like chuck in a coined in,
- 15:29Speaker 5: they're actually pretty good.
- 15:30Speaker 2: They're very very hard to open.
- 15:31Speaker 4: The way to set up the habit of saving too,
- 15:33Speaker 4: just like getting it. I mean, like if you're someone
- 15:34Speaker 4: who will take it out of your bank. It's so
- 15:36Speaker 4: hard to touch. The nail clips aren't going to do
- 15:38Speaker 4: the job. Like it's a good way to just get it.
- 15:40Speaker 4: Like some people will put all their coins in. I
- 15:41Speaker 4: know someone who would save all their five dollar notes.
- 15:43Speaker 5: Is another one, Yes, exactly, And it does feel so
- 15:47Speaker 5: good and then you become motivated and you can get
- 15:49Speaker 5: out anyway. I've got another one that says, only is
- 15:52Speaker 5: a small pea sized amount of toothpaste. You don't need
- 15:54Speaker 5: to cover your entire toothbrush. This person has saved so
- 15:57Speaker 5: much money, genuinely, like over the year by just like
- 16:00Speaker 5: reducing the amount of toothpaste you use. Yeah, you still
- 16:04Speaker 5: you can scrub the teeth, you can get all over
- 16:06Speaker 5: the mouth, but you just like half your toothpaste about
- 16:09Speaker 5: and just see how much you save. And it doesn't
- 16:11Speaker 5: seem like a lot in the short term, but in
- 16:13Speaker 5: the long term, like how much you spending on toothpaste.
- 16:16Speaker 4: Laundry powder too, reduce the amount of lady put in
- 16:18Speaker 4: exactly since when I'm sorry, I went to buy laundry
- 16:21Speaker 4: pods the other day, sixty dollars for how many I
- 16:26Speaker 4: couldn't tell you, Like if they were like the pre
- 16:28Speaker 4: made pods, not like the box of powder.
- 16:30Speaker 2: Okay, I'm sorry, sixty dollars.
- 16:33Speaker 4: It was half priced at like thirty four or something,
- 16:36Speaker 4: and I was like, are you very joking? I genuinely
- 16:40Speaker 4: could up like powder only from now on.
- 16:42Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Yeah, oh I couldn't believe it. Oh my god.
- 16:46Speaker 2: That's but even then, yeah, less powder saved you more money. Yeah, totally,
- 16:50Speaker 2: We'll just cut your pot in half. You could do.
- 16:54Speaker 2: That would be very very messy.
- 16:55Speaker 5: That tide pod sensation where everyone was like eating them,
- 16:57Speaker 5: that is weird, but I get it.
- 16:58Speaker 2: They do look very like nice and chewek.
- 17:01Speaker 4: They very plump, plump, like the squeezing of them. I'm like,
- 17:06Speaker 4: I just like have a little bit.
- 17:10Speaker 5: Another person says potato cakes are still two dollars for
- 17:12Speaker 5: three in a lot of places, so you can get
- 17:14Speaker 5: it for filling and tasty snack all the cheap.
- 17:17Speaker 2: Everyone's forgotten about the potato cakes. Potato cake totally, that's
- 17:25Speaker 2: more than enough.
- 17:26Speaker 5: I mean not for me. I'm gonna go with like,
- 17:28Speaker 5: I'm gonna say nine potato cakes, but that's still what
- 17:31Speaker 5: is that like six bucks?
- 17:33Speaker 2: That's a whole meal, you know what? I mean chicken.
- 17:36Speaker 5: You So if all els veils, grab yourself a potato cake.
- 17:41Speaker 5: Someone said, inherent intergenerational wealth. Great ones and so easy
- 17:47Speaker 5: to do. It's so easy.
- 17:49Speaker 1: Now.
- 17:49Speaker 5: This one I found was I really do think was
- 17:51Speaker 5: interesting and it does probably seem like a little bit
- 17:53Speaker 5: out of reach for a lot of people. But avoid
- 17:54Speaker 5: paying rent by living in a van and occasionally how sitting.
- 17:58Speaker 5: I guess if you're like a solo and I've literally
- 18:00Speaker 5: thought about this in the past, like buy myself a van,
- 18:03Speaker 5: get an anytime fitness membership, shower it anytime fitness.
- 18:06Speaker 2: Yeah, and then occasionally how sit?
- 18:09Speaker 4: I get van life stuff on my TikTok a lot. Yeah,
- 18:12Speaker 4: And it looked so fun, so fun, so fun. Another
- 18:16Speaker 4: good one is pet sitting or house sitting. Yes, a
- 18:18Speaker 4: friend of ours rate from mindlin your money actually house
- 18:21Speaker 4: sat for like a prolonged period of time. I think
- 18:23Speaker 4: she was house sitting and petty sitting for someone through
- 18:25Speaker 4: like a platform. I can't remember what it was, but
- 18:27Speaker 4: she lived there for I want to say, over a month,
- 18:30Speaker 4: Like it was a prolonged period of time. And you're
- 18:33Speaker 4: paid to like live, which is crazy.
- 18:36Speaker 2: Oh, you're saving so much money.
- 18:38Speaker 4: You're saving so much money, you get to live somewhere
- 18:40Speaker 4: nice and maybe in a cool location. Maybe there's a
- 18:43Speaker 4: fun little fairy friend for you to hang out with. Like,
- 18:46Speaker 4: it seems like all ups to me totally. Any downsides, No,
- 18:49Speaker 4: not that we can think of, Not that we can
- 18:51Speaker 4: think of. I'll leave it on this one.
- 18:52Speaker 5: Someone else said, cold shower as low as both your
- 18:55Speaker 5: gas bills and your therapy bills.
- 18:58Speaker 2: That is so true. I did go through a period
- 19:00Speaker 2: of cold showers, did you. I did.
- 19:01Speaker 5: And it's like you do have to work your way
- 19:04Speaker 5: up like that, like hyperventilating that you get. Honestly, I
- 19:07Speaker 5: didn't even flinch after like a few weeks of cold showers.
- 19:11Speaker 5: It's crazy. It's crazy. And it is so good for
- 19:13Speaker 5: the brain. I mean, it's got for.
- 19:15Speaker 2: Your hair too. Apparently it's good for your hair, it's good.
- 19:17Speaker 5: For your immune system. I didn't get sick at all.
- 19:19Speaker 5: So you're saving money on like cold and flu tablets. Now,
- 19:22Speaker 5: if you have a clinical you know, diagnosis, this might
- 19:25Speaker 5: not help you. But if you're just like generally feeling flat,
- 19:28Speaker 5: it could help you your mental health.
- 19:29Speaker 2: It's just like ice bathing. It's ice barth sort of situation.
- 19:33Speaker 4: Like I so many people say it's so good, they
- 19:35Speaker 4: feel so great, traila a lot, and I just don't
- 19:36Speaker 4: think I could physically get myself to I think my
- 19:39Speaker 4: fight or flight would kick in and my body would
- 19:41Speaker 4: be like no, like holding onto the sides, like don't
- 19:44Speaker 4: put me in, don't put me in.
- 19:46Speaker 2: Yeah right, it would be the help up.
- 19:48Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I could be that person for you.
- 19:52Speaker 2: Thank you from Welcome.
- 19:54Speaker 4: On that note, let's head to a really quick break
- 19:56Speaker 4: and when we come back, we're going to chat about
- 19:57Speaker 4: something that we have both experience, which is a redundancy,
- 20:00Speaker 4: and we get to unpack something that you, guys slit
- 20:01Speaker 4: into ot dms about which this week is all about
- 20:04Speaker 4: pay rises and how to navigate them. Don't go anywhere, guys.
- 20:11Speaker 2: Welcome back, guys. Here's our money dilemma.
- 20:15Speaker 6: Hi, there, have you got a money dilemma you just
- 20:17Speaker 6: can't solve? The Sheese on the Money team is here
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- 20:31Speaker 6: just find yourself on the show now let's take a
- 20:34Speaker 6: listen to this week's money dilemma.
- 20:38Speaker 7: Hi, I've just been made redundant and I'm pretty down
- 20:41Speaker 7: about it, to be honest. So I was wondering what
- 20:43Speaker 7: I should do when it comes to my resume. Should
- 20:46Speaker 7: I mention the redundancy or just pretend that I quit?
- 20:50Speaker 7: Is their stigma around redundancy because this is all very
- 20:53Speaker 7: new to me. Thank you.
- 20:55Speaker 4: Oh, I'm so sorry that you're going through this because
- 20:57Speaker 4: we've both experienced redundancy. Back obviously is navigating the waters
- 21:02Speaker 4: of that. And I think it's interesting because we I've
- 21:05Speaker 4: said this to you before, I feel like we both
- 21:07Speaker 4: handled it extremely differently.
- 21:09Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm.
- 21:10Speaker 4: Very excited because I feel like we've got two different
- 21:12Speaker 4: kinds of trains of thought on this.
- 21:13Speaker 2: Do you want first? Because you're lack in the thick
- 21:16Speaker 2: of it right now?
- 21:16Speaker 4: Sure?
- 21:17Speaker 5: Sure, sure, this is a really good question. On my
- 21:19Speaker 5: resume and my even my cover letters as well. I
- 21:23Speaker 5: mentioned that I had been made redundant because I kind
- 21:26Speaker 5: of wanted my future employers to know that I had
- 21:30Speaker 5: no intention of leaving the company, Like I am quite
- 21:33Speaker 5: loyal and I don't know if that's a thing anymore,
- 21:35Speaker 5: Like do people care about that, but I was like,
- 21:37Speaker 5: you know, I had no intention of leaving this place.
- 21:39Speaker 2: I really loved my job.
- 21:41Speaker 5: Also because I had only been in the role for
- 21:43Speaker 5: like a year, so I was like, I don't know
- 21:44Speaker 5: what this will look like. I want them to know
- 21:46Speaker 5: that I had no choice in this and I loved
- 21:50Speaker 5: this job and I love this kind of work. So
- 21:53Speaker 5: I made it a point to mention. But when you
- 21:57Speaker 5: look at me, it's been three months and I haven't
- 22:00Speaker 5: got a job so frillancing. I am frillancing at the
- 22:05Speaker 5: same place that I got made redundant. So it's it's,
- 22:07Speaker 5: you know, I've made those connections with me, those relationships,
- 22:09Speaker 5: and they say that they do know that I've been
- 22:11Speaker 5: made redundant, of course, but I feel like that's probably
- 22:15Speaker 5: more so because of the relationships I have unless so
- 22:18Speaker 5: the you know, they don't didn't have to like look
- 22:21Speaker 5: at my rasume or anything. So but if you look
- 22:23Speaker 5: at like the outside of that, it's like, oh, I've
- 22:25Speaker 5: not really had much success the field of looking of searching,
- 22:31Speaker 5: and so.
- 22:31Speaker 2: Maybe you shouldn't do that. I don't know.
- 22:35Speaker 4: I don't think that it's a bad thing. I think
- 22:37Speaker 4: that the circumstances of redundancy probably play a big role.
- 22:41Speaker 4: For example, you know, there's a difference between being laid
- 22:45Speaker 4: off as a part of you know, a thirty percent
- 22:47Speaker 4: cut across a business versus if perhaps your role was
- 22:51Speaker 4: proved to be ineffective. Not that it should matter, but
- 22:54Speaker 4: I think that people might sometimes perceive it a little
- 22:57Speaker 4: bit differently, like they you know, there's a risk in
- 22:59Speaker 4: the smaller scale that people might go, oh, like, was
- 23:02Speaker 4: it because that job wasn't needed? Was it because perhaps
- 23:05Speaker 4: they weren't you know, fulfilling the needs of the role
- 23:07Speaker 4: or whatever. So I mean, I guess as an argument
- 23:09Speaker 4: of that, I don't think it's a bad thing to
- 23:11Speaker 4: have it on your CV. I think, like, as you said,
- 23:13Speaker 4: it's a good way to explain the change, yea. And
- 23:16Speaker 4: I think that ultimately, like nobody should be held to
- 23:19Speaker 4: be at fault for being made redundant. And that's where
- 23:21Speaker 4: I say that we had very different experiences or like
- 23:25Speaker 4: can be redundan very differently, because I think you've been
- 23:27Speaker 4: so positive in your experience and you've just been really like,
- 23:31Speaker 4: you know, it is what it is, and you've taken
- 23:32Speaker 4: it on and you've copped it, and you're like it'll
- 23:34Speaker 4: be fine. I'll figure it out you like, which I
- 23:36Speaker 4: think is very reflective of your personality and just how
- 23:38Speaker 4: you take on life. But I remember it's been many,
- 23:42Speaker 4: many years, thankfully since I was made redundant and I
- 23:44Speaker 4: was a mess. I just I took it really hard.
- 23:47Speaker 4: And I want to say to our listener in case
- 23:50Speaker 4: they're feeling the same way, that your redundancy is not
- 23:52Speaker 4: a reflection of you as a person or you as
- 23:54Speaker 4: an employee, because I think when it happened to me,
- 23:57Speaker 4: I took it really personally and I felt like I
- 24:00Speaker 4: was a failure, and I felt like no one's gonna
- 24:02Speaker 4: want to imploy me because I got made redundant, and
- 24:05Speaker 4: it was really hard to separate myself and my skill
- 24:08Speaker 4: set and then talk myself up when I felt like
- 24:11Speaker 4: I had failed. So I just want to say that
- 24:15Speaker 4: as a little addendum in regards to the resume, I
- 24:18Speaker 4: think have it on there. I don't think it's the
- 24:20Speaker 4: worst thing in the world. I think it also allows
- 24:23Speaker 4: you to have that conversation when you're in the room,
- 24:24Speaker 4: if you're hopefully having an interview, you can chat through
- 24:27Speaker 4: the conversation or the experience a little bit more and explain,
- 24:31Speaker 4: not that you owe anybody in an explanation, but let
- 24:33Speaker 4: them know maybe what happens, Like, was it a big
- 24:36Speaker 4: workforce like change and unfortunately you just ended up on
- 24:38Speaker 4: the chopping block? Was it that you know, it was
- 24:41Speaker 4: a really small business and during COVID they had to
- 24:43Speaker 4: scale back and you were a fallout as a part
- 24:46Speaker 4: of that. There's so many different things that can happen
- 24:49Speaker 4: when it comes to the stigma side of things. I
- 24:52Speaker 4: want to say, no, I think the stigma mostly probably
- 24:55Speaker 4: comes from insight, like from us, like what I was
- 24:57Speaker 4: saying that I really did and I really took on.
- 25:00Speaker 4: I would hope that employers aren't holding something like a
- 25:02Speaker 4: redundancy against you. It's very different from being fired, and
- 25:06Speaker 4: maybe we should clarify in case there as anybody who
- 25:08Speaker 4: doesn't know the difference. When you're fired, it's because your
- 25:12Speaker 4: employer has decided that they feel that you're not fulfilling
- 25:15Speaker 4: the needs of your role in one way or another.
- 25:17Speaker 4: Generally speaking, maybe culturally you're not the right fit. Maybe
- 25:21Speaker 4: you know, the workload isn't quite aligned to what you
- 25:23Speaker 4: take on, or your skill set isn't quite right.
- 25:26Speaker 2: And obviously it's a much broader.
- 25:28Speaker 4: You know, you can be fired unfairly, and there are
- 25:31Speaker 4: all of these, like, there's lots of complex reasons I
- 25:33Speaker 4: suppose why you can be let go. But a redundancy
- 25:36Speaker 4: is very specific in that your role ceases to exist.
- 25:41Speaker 4: It's not a matter of oh, Beck, well we're going
- 25:43Speaker 4: to get rid of you. You're made redundant, but we're
- 25:45Speaker 4: going to put someone else in the exact same job.
- 25:47Speaker 4: Redundancy means that that role within that company no longer exists,
- 25:51Speaker 4: and as a result, the employee can no longer fulfill it.
- 25:54Speaker 4: And sometimes you're lucky and you can be put into
- 25:56Speaker 4: a different role in the same company, but sometimes, unfortunately,
- 25:59Speaker 4: that means that you are no longer employed.
- 26:02Speaker 2: Yes, you are so right about that.
- 26:04Speaker 5: Really powerful what you say about how the stigma comes
- 26:07Speaker 5: from within.
- 26:07Speaker 2: That's really beautiful, Steve, Isn't that I wanted to ask you?
- 26:10Speaker 4: Have you felt like when you've had to tell people
- 26:12Speaker 4: that you've been made redundant, maybe friends or family or
- 26:15Speaker 4: people around you, your network because you're looking for a job.
- 26:18Speaker 4: How have you felt doing that? Has it been relatively easy?
- 26:21Speaker 4: Have you felt any judgment or anything like that?
- 26:24Speaker 5: Honestly, worrying about judgment, never even for a micro.
- 26:30Speaker 2: Second cross my mind.
- 26:31Speaker 5: I think I was more just like, this is a
- 26:33Speaker 5: bit awkward, because it's like saying I've gone to a
- 26:36Speaker 5: car accident or something something that like people immediately kind
- 26:39Speaker 5: of like, oh, I'm so sorry, or like and I
- 26:42Speaker 5: think I'm so sorry.
- 26:43Speaker 2: That was my immediate response.
- 26:44Speaker 5: To you, which is honestly lovely, Like I personally like,
- 26:50Speaker 5: I know this is probably not a popular opinion, but
- 26:53Speaker 5: a pity and sympathy.
- 26:55Speaker 2: I love it.
- 26:56Speaker 5: Me please later on me, I love it, but I
- 26:59Speaker 5: guess at the start, I was like really sad. So
- 27:02Speaker 5: when you messaged me, I was like, this is so kind.
- 27:04Speaker 5: I'm really really grateful for your sympathy and your empathy.
- 27:07Speaker 5: And then toward now, because it's been so long, when
- 27:09Speaker 5: I tell people, I'd still like to tell people I'm
- 27:11Speaker 5: not working because I was made redundant, but the emotion's
- 27:14Speaker 5: kind of gone now and I'm still like in the office,
- 27:16Speaker 5: so I still see people. I'm not grieving the loss
- 27:19Speaker 5: of like the whole company in my day to day
- 27:22Speaker 5: and the culture anymore because I'm still here. So when
- 27:25Speaker 5: I tell people that, I'm more just like I just
- 27:28Speaker 5: feel a bit awkward.
- 27:29Speaker 2: I think I'm just like, oh, I just like but
- 27:31Speaker 2: I was made redundant. But hey, everything's okay. Now look
- 27:34Speaker 2: at me.
- 27:34Speaker 5: I'm having great time. So I think that's my only
- 27:38Speaker 5: concern in telling people. But at the start, I was
- 27:41Speaker 5: like kind of like, hey, I was made redundant. Can
- 27:45Speaker 5: everyone give me attention? Now, everyone give some sympathy, and
- 27:48Speaker 5: everyone showered me in gifts and love and it was
- 27:51Speaker 5: a really while it was like a really awful thing
- 27:53Speaker 5: to happen, the days that followed were like so much fun.
- 27:57Speaker 5: Like everyone was like messaging me, Like producer came over
- 28:00Speaker 5: and like sat on the stroop outside of my house
- 28:03Speaker 5: with me, and like we just like had a great time.
- 28:05Speaker 5: So yeah, I honestly haven't worried about judgment, and I
- 28:08Speaker 5: don't think anyone's judged me as well, like even Urry quite. No,
- 28:12Speaker 5: I don't think so. But I don't think people think
- 28:14Speaker 5: like that about redundancy. Even with like being fired, I
- 28:16Speaker 5: feel like it is different, but it's still, you know,
- 28:20Speaker 5: in this cost of living, this like kind of like
- 28:23Speaker 5: everyone's kind of being made redundant. No one really knows
- 28:25Speaker 5: what's going on, whether you're fired or made redundant. People
- 28:28Speaker 5: are kind of like it's gonna happen.
- 28:30Speaker 2: You know, what about you? How did you feel?
- 28:32Speaker 4: I remember I was really embarrassed, and I think that
- 28:34Speaker 4: comes back to internalizing the way that I was feeling.
- 28:39Speaker 4: And yeah, I don't think that anybody judged me. I
- 28:40Speaker 4: would certainly never judge anybody. You don't know anyone who would.
- 28:43Speaker 4: But I think again, like because I was feeling like
- 28:45Speaker 4: the problem was me and I was feeling like, oh.
- 28:48Speaker 2: My gosh, like I can't believe this.
- 28:50Speaker 4: I don't want to tell anybody like I really embarrassed
- 28:53Speaker 4: is the word that comes to mind. And like, obviously
- 28:55Speaker 4: I told the people around me, who were all same
- 28:57Speaker 4: as you, very supportive, very kind, but I think professional
- 29:00Speaker 4: sense I was like, well what do I do? And
- 29:03Speaker 4: so my one piece of advice, in addition to like
- 29:05Speaker 4: letting it go and being okay with it because it's
- 29:07Speaker 4: not something that you should feel bad about, is jump
- 29:10Speaker 4: on LinkedIn if you're not already on LinkedIn, because I
- 29:13Speaker 4: think like a little post to your network just saying hey, everybody,
- 29:18Speaker 4: I'm now looking for you.
- 29:19Speaker 2: You don't even have to go into it.
- 29:20Speaker 4: I'm mail looking for new opportunities in xyzed. If anyone
- 29:23Speaker 4: knows of anything.
- 29:24Speaker 2: Let me know.
- 29:25Speaker 4: I'm a big fan of LinkedIn for networking. I think
- 29:27Speaker 4: it's awesome for that kind of stuff. And you never
- 29:30Speaker 4: know who knows someone who knows someone that might be
- 29:32Speaker 4: looking to hire your role. So I would say, do
- 29:35Speaker 4: use your network as much as you can, put feelers
- 29:38Speaker 4: out to people you've worked with previously, all those kinds
- 29:40Speaker 4: of things. But yeah, ultimately, don't feel bad about it.
- 29:44Speaker 2: It's not your fault.
- 29:45Speaker 4: I love that and I completely agree. Not to change
- 29:47Speaker 4: the tone a little bit, but shall we talk still
- 29:50Speaker 4: career focused? Actually this is kind of in theme, oh group,
- 29:52Speaker 4: this week's money dilemma? Do you want to hear it?
- 29:54Speaker 4: Please listener set hi fam I've got a money dilemma
- 29:58Speaker 4: and any advice would be so appreciate it. I have
- 30:01Speaker 4: been working in the same company for almost two years now.
- 30:03Speaker 4: I've been on the same pay since internship through to
- 30:07Speaker 4: full time while taking on more responsibility. I thought about
- 30:11Speaker 4: changing jobs, but one of the teammates left the company
- 30:13Speaker 4: and I was off at their role at that time.
- 30:16Speaker 4: My manager said we could have the salary talk in
- 30:18Speaker 4: a few months. So I had been taking more work
- 30:21Speaker 4: for the same amount of pay. Fast forward three months
- 30:24Speaker 4: to today. I finally had the salary talk, but was
- 30:26Speaker 4: told the promotion didn't get approved and they will work
- 30:29Speaker 4: to get me there in another three months. I didn't
- 30:31Speaker 4: get the rais I was looking for, and they are
- 30:33Speaker 4: now hiring for someone new entry level, but at a
- 30:36Speaker 4: higher pay rate than me. My manager is aware of
- 30:39Speaker 4: this and said it's not fair. However, nothing practical has
- 30:42Speaker 4: been done. Should I still be waiting another three months
- 30:45Speaker 4: or is this assigned to leave?
- 30:46Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, nothing makes me more annoyed.
- 30:51Speaker 5: I think two because this is quite topical with a
- 30:54Speaker 5: lot of my friends, and actually we were just talking
- 30:57Speaker 5: about this off air. But I think some employers they
- 31:02Speaker 5: dangle a carrot, so you're like doing all the work
- 31:05Speaker 5: still and doing it to your best ability because you're like, oh,
- 31:10Speaker 5: I really want this pay rise. I'm gonna work so
- 31:12Speaker 5: hard to get there, and then they dangle this carrot,
- 31:14Speaker 5: they give you hope, and then you keep working really
- 31:16Speaker 5: really hard, so your output is like probably the amount
- 31:22Speaker 5: of like one and a half to two people, and
- 31:24Speaker 5: they're paying you very low. If I've understood this correctly,
- 31:28Speaker 5: the same rate as when they were an intern.
- 31:31Speaker 2: Correct. Yeah, that is outrageous.
- 31:34Speaker 5: That is not even like subtly gently paying you a
- 31:38Speaker 5: little bit less. That's like, this is so outrageous. Don't
- 31:42Speaker 5: stay there any longer because the longer you just try it,
- 31:45Speaker 5: just keep looking, maybe doing quit immediately because like turns
- 31:47Speaker 5: out it's not that easier to but just start looking
- 31:51Speaker 5: right now, because I can guarantee you'll find something that
- 31:54Speaker 5: pays better. And also the amount of time that you're
- 31:57Speaker 5: waiting for this pay rise that might not ever come.
- 32:01Speaker 5: Imagine like if you got something that paid like several
- 32:04Speaker 5: hundred dollars extra a month, what a difference it would make,
- 32:07Speaker 5: What a difference it would make, and how much more
- 32:09Speaker 5: money you would be on like what you're wasting money,
- 32:13Speaker 5: Not that you are, but you could be making so much.
- 32:15Speaker 2: I just think you need to look elsewhere maybe if
- 32:17Speaker 2: you can. I agree.
- 32:19Speaker 4: I think in two years you should have just had
- 32:20Speaker 4: a standardized pay rise, you know, in line with we've
- 32:23Speaker 4: spoken about, in line with inflation. It was very controversial,
- 32:25Speaker 4: but some sort of pay rise in a two year
- 32:27Speaker 4: period as a minimum, let alone with the jump from
- 32:29Speaker 4: internship to full time employee, which suggests a jump in
- 32:32Speaker 4: skill set and as our listener said, responsibility totally. I
- 32:36Speaker 4: think like everything that they have said, from you know
- 32:40Speaker 4: how long it has been, to the fact that they're
- 32:41Speaker 4: hiring someone at a higher pay rate than them, to
- 32:44Speaker 4: the fact that they were asked to take on you know,
- 32:46Speaker 4: their colleagues's role for the same amount of pay, it
- 32:49Speaker 4: all just says to me so clearly that you are
- 32:53Speaker 4: not valued or respected in your workplace. And I think ultimately,
- 32:58Speaker 4: even if they turn around in three months it's like okay, yeah,
- 33:00Speaker 4: like we'll give you a five percent pay rise and
- 33:02Speaker 4: you go, Okay, that's great, the lack of respect doesn't change. Yes,
- 33:06Speaker 4: Like you can pay somebody more and still be undervaluing
- 33:08Speaker 4: them or still be not recognizing the value that they
- 33:13Speaker 4: bring to their team or whatever it is that they're doing.
- 33:16Speaker 4: And I think that you probably get to a point where,
- 33:20Speaker 4: even if those good things do come, if you feel
- 33:23Speaker 4: like you haven't been looked after or haven't been valued,
- 33:25Speaker 4: that can be hard to get pasted too. And I
- 33:27Speaker 4: think that mentally it sounds like it might be weighing
- 33:30Speaker 4: on you a little bit, And I don't know that
- 33:32Speaker 4: that will go away even if you get what you want,
- 33:34Speaker 4: even if you do get that pay rise. So I
- 33:36Speaker 4: think I completely agree leaving to me is the only
- 33:40Speaker 4: sound option. As you said, make sure you have something
- 33:42Speaker 4: lined up before you go. But I think that waiting
- 33:45Speaker 4: three months in the hope that something will change, I
- 33:48Speaker 4: don't think that it will. No, let's run through what
- 33:50Speaker 4: everybody else had to say, though. We said, have you
- 33:52Speaker 4: experienced anything similar in your job?
- 33:55Speaker 2: This was so close.
- 33:56Speaker 4: Fifty one percent cent yes, I've been in a situation
- 33:59Speaker 4: exactly like this, and forty nine percent said no, I've
- 34:03Speaker 4: had no issues with this stuff.
- 34:04Speaker 2: Huh.
- 34:05Speaker 4: Next, we said, if this was you, would you stay
- 34:08Speaker 4: or would you leave? Two percent of people said I
- 34:11Speaker 4: would stick it out and stay. Ninety eight percent of
- 34:14Speaker 4: people said I'd.
- 34:15Speaker 2: Be out the door. Bab WHOA. That's it.
- 34:18Speaker 4: I think it's so clear to everybody that it seems
- 34:22Speaker 4: like there's only one option.
- 34:23Speaker 5: Yes, I'll read through some of the of course, two cents.
- 34:26Speaker 5: I was just gonna say, like, I don't. When you're
- 34:28Speaker 5: in it, you don't see it. So I think it's
- 34:30Speaker 5: really good too. I'm really glad this this person wrote in,
- 34:33Speaker 5: because now she can they can hopefully see.
- 34:35Speaker 4: Hopefully enough people telling you will make you feel good
- 34:38Speaker 4: about making the choice exactly. Firstly, somebody said don't let
- 34:41Speaker 4: them exploit you any further, Queen, which I completely agree with.
- 34:45Speaker 4: Somebody else said, review entitlements under the award. You can
- 34:48Speaker 4: do this on the Fairwork website because you might actually
- 34:51Speaker 4: have a case for being underpaid depending on what those
- 34:54Speaker 4: rates were at an internship level. Somebody else said in Australia,
- 34:59Speaker 4: the best way to get a pay rise is to
- 35:01Speaker 4: switch jobs. Times have changed from when loyalty paid off.
- 35:05Speaker 4: We've done a full even Victoria did a whole episode
- 35:07Speaker 4: on that on job popping, and it is true. Unfortunately,
- 35:10Speaker 4: the statistics don't lie. Somebody else said Red Flag read
- 35:14Speaker 4: the book work Won't Love You Back. I haven't read it,
- 35:17Speaker 4: but sounds like it could be really interesting. Someone did say,
- 35:21Speaker 4: I suppose a play Devil's Advocate. If you do stay,
- 35:24Speaker 4: ask for agreed upon KPIs for the next three months
- 35:27Speaker 4: and schedule in progress check ins fortnightly or regularly, which
- 35:31Speaker 4: I think is probably a good thing to say.
- 35:33Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 35:33Speaker 4: They also said any renegotiated pay should be paid from
- 35:37Speaker 4: the commencement of the role three months ago, so see
- 35:40Speaker 4: if you can backpay it, which I think are both
- 35:42Speaker 4: really practical ideas. If you do choose to stay, to
- 35:46Speaker 4: make sure that you're still being looked after. The person
- 35:49Speaker 4: who wrote all that in is actually a HR man.
- 35:52Speaker 2: Sorry.
- 35:52Speaker 4: She wrote lots of things in what's the Little Boxes
- 35:54Speaker 4: because you can only fit so many And she said
- 35:55Speaker 4: she's a HR manager and pay is primarily based on role,
- 35:58Speaker 4: so a change in responsibilit should equate to a change
- 36:01Speaker 4: in pay, yes, which obviously isn't what happened. Quite a
- 36:05Speaker 4: few people have said that she's being charged a loyalty tax.
- 36:10Speaker 4: Somebody said, no, you're worth and chase it completely agree.
- 36:14Speaker 4: Lots of people just saying this is a big red flag.
- 36:17Speaker 4: This is so disrespectful. You're not being valued, gir you
- 36:20Speaker 4: need to run like I can't even tell you. I'm
- 36:22Speaker 4: scrolling and scrolling and scrolling, and all of these messages
- 36:25Speaker 4: are echoing effectively the same sentiment, which is run baby. Literally,
- 36:30Speaker 4: couldn't have said it more concise, Get out of their girl.
- 36:33Speaker 4: Also name and Jane, I mean message es, Yeah you
- 36:36Speaker 4: got us know we're always curious, yes, curious, but yeah,
- 36:39Speaker 4: I feel like I really don't have anything to add
- 36:41Speaker 4: to that other than no, exactly what we said that
- 36:43Speaker 4: you feel like you're being undervalued and chances are ifyone
- 36:46Speaker 4: elsewhere you could earn more money doing the same, maybe
- 36:49Speaker 4: even doing less, and find a space that respects and
- 36:52Speaker 4: values you for everything that you're doing, because at a
- 36:55Speaker 4: bare minimum, that's what you deserve.
- 36:58Speaker 5: Yes, completely agree. Also get some revenge. Quit day of
- 37:01Speaker 5: never go back. I know it's not allowed, but just
- 37:03Speaker 5: do it.
- 37:04Speaker 2: You're like Policiy and just be out of there.
- 37:07Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, exactly, No, I think it's a great place
- 37:09Speaker 5: to leave it. Get out of there, girl, and you
- 37:11Speaker 5: got this agreed.
- 37:13Speaker 4: Thank you guys so much for joining us this week.
- 37:14Speaker 4: Victoria will be back next week, which is very exciting.
- 37:17Speaker 4: But it's been fun hanging out with you, Bexter has
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- 37:37Speaker 2: Bye guys. Bye.
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