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Latest / ShameOver - The Drink Less Podcast

Why does drinking less feel SO hard… even when you genuinely want to change?

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with licensed psychotherapist Merrilee Burke, LMFT, to unpack what’s really going on underneath overdrinking, urges, self-sabotage, and the “why can’t I just stop at one?” cycle.

Spoiler: it’s not because you’re weak, broken, or lacking willpower.

We dive into:

Why “sober or bust” messaging keeps so many people stuck

The truth about mindful drinking + moderation

How rebellion and people-pleasing can show up in your drinking

The surprising role childhood conditioning can play

Why tracking your drinking is awareness — not punishment

The simple mindset…

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