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- 0:06Hey guys, welcome back to Mom Gone Mild.
- 0:09If you're new here. Hi, I'm Lex.
- 0:12I'm your host. And yeah, I did something pretty
- 0:17on brand for myself this week. I filmed an entire episode with
- 0:21my sister and forgot to hit record for the intro.
- 0:24And yes, that is my baby Axel in the background.
- 0:28So there is a lot of mom brain. It's just really real over here.
- 0:33But I had to come on here and introduce my baby sister Sophia,
- 0:37who's not really a baby obviously anymore, but she'll
- 0:40always be my baby. She is my best friend, she's my
- 0:44confidante. She's one of my favorite people
- 0:47to record with. We just click.
- 0:49The vibes are always there, and she will 100% be back.
- 0:53I hope you guys love this episode as much as we love
- 0:56filming it. All right, so we are going to
- 0:59try these again recipes on my Instagram.
- 1:04Ready, ready. So I just tell you, like shot.
- 1:07Yeah, cheers. Cheers.
- 1:16OK, so I had a line that I was going to say, wow, these are
- 1:20actually not that bad, but that woke me the hell up.
- 1:26Yeah. Like I could smell the ginger
- 1:29before I drank it, but. OK, now I can tell you the
- 1:32secret ingredient is turmeric. I assumed because it was so
- 1:36yellow. Yeah, yeah.
- 1:37So it's anti inflammation. So I was like, OK, it wasn't
- 1:40bad. It was.
- 1:41I think I also put a little bit extra apple cider vinegar today
- 1:45too. It wasn't bad.
- 1:47OK, good. Good.
- 1:49I think it might also be like kind of like a placebo because
- 1:51it tastes so healthy. That I feel like, are you
- 1:55feeling energized? Yeah, like who needs coffee?
- 1:57Totally. All right, so yeah.
- 2:00So after this, I'm so excited our step dad actually is gonna
- 2:04be making tomahawk steak. Yeah.
- 2:06So shout out to Rod. And then we're gonna be going
- 2:09and playing poker. So yeah.
- 2:12Are you good at poker? No.
- 2:14OK, me neither. So I have to tell you, actually
- 2:16with Rod, we all went to Vegas and I was like, I don't know how
- 2:21to play poker. And he's like, just sit at a
- 2:23table. And I was like, what are you?
- 2:26I was like 24, OK, maybe a little younger.
- 2:29I don't remember, but definitely I was over 21.
- 2:31She doesn't remember. And so we're at the table.
- 2:33Oh my gosh, these people in Vegas are no fucking joke.
- 2:37This guy literally was like, if you don't know how to play, get
- 2:40the fuck off the table. I was like.
- 2:43OK, that's crazy. Yeah, and you know, Rod, he's
- 2:46like, hey, don't talk to her like that.
- 2:47I was like, oh gosh, and this is too much for me, so I left.
- 2:50And now I just play just the slots.
- 2:54I literally traumatized. OK, I've not played since, so
- 2:58I'm super excited about that. Yeah.
- 3:00But we're still hanging out with mom all the time.
- 3:03I know you hang out with her way more than me just because you
- 3:06guys are closer, but I know you have a little exciting news.
- 3:09Yes, so I think I mentioned this last time I was on, but I
- 3:13officially have my own apartment now.
- 3:18We are so proud of you, me and Randy, of course.
- 3:21And, you know, well, obviously she lives with her boyfriend.
- 3:24Yes, yes. So it's not technically just
- 3:26yours, girl, but basically. But yeah.
- 3:30So how has it kind of like, been being on your own?
- 3:34Like do you feel like an adult or?
- 3:36Obviously I do. Like I've obviously had bills
- 3:39like my car, my insurance, whatever, but I had to like go
- 3:43to three separate like things to set up, like the auto pay.
- 3:45So I had to do water and power, I had to do Socal gas, I had to
- 3:48do like the actual rent. Yeah.
- 3:51And I was like, there's a lot of money.
- 3:53It is, right. Well, I'm gonna be super honest.
- 3:55So I never really lived on my own, right.
- 3:58Like even though you were living with Chris, I never really like
- 4:00lived in an apartment. So I don't know, like that whole
- 4:03bill. Oh, that's true.
- 4:04Yeah. And another thing is like rain
- 4:05deep, not like he covers the bills, but like I mean he does
- 4:08cover them, but he like sets everything up.
- 4:11So I have no idea, yeah, even what you're talking about.
- 4:13So you have water powers. So that just came with your
- 4:16apartment? No, no, yeah.
- 4:18You have to make an account like for each little thing.
- 4:20And then also, well, first of all, I put my card on all those.
- 4:25Yeah. And then Chris would just like,
- 4:27send me money. Yeah.
- 4:28And then I think Chris just does the Wi-Fi.
- 4:31He was, that was his job. He was in charge of getting us
- 4:33Wi-Fi, which was very important. Yeah.
- 4:35Well, cuz he like wanted to bring like his PlayStation and
- 4:38he'll say we can't move in until we get WI.
- 4:40Fi that totally makes sense because that would also be a
- 4:42problem obviously with Randy. No, yeah.
- 4:45Oh, wait. Also, so they have like a
- 4:48maintenance. They have maintenance come like
- 4:51every Wednesday, like if you had to eat something like done or
- 4:53fixed or whatever. Apparently I had some friends
- 4:57over and I don't know what happened.
- 4:58Nobody remembers what happened, but I woke up and I was like,
- 5:01it's kind of hot in here. Let me open the window.
- 5:03Shattered. No, you've been there for three
- 5:06weeks. At that point I was there for
- 5:08like a week and 1/2. The window shattered.
- 5:12Well, obviously somebody fell into it because there was like a
- 5:15hole like it was kind of like, I think it was.
- 5:17I'm pretty sure it was me. I'm like so clumsy when I'm
- 5:21drunk but. I feel like that is one thing
- 5:23that we have a lot in common. Clumsy.
- 5:25We have issues. Are we OK?
- 5:27Are we balanced? I feel like sometimes my
- 5:29equilibrium is off, but OK. So what did you do?
- 5:32Did they like come in, replace it, charge you a fee?
- 5:35OK, so I was so scared to text my property manager because
- 5:39like, we checked, just got there.
- 5:41Like, that's a terrible first impression.
- 5:43That's embarrassing, actually. Also because nobody can
- 5:45remember. Oh, that night I think we'd
- 5:47probably stay up to like, 3. But also I'm thinking like,
- 5:50imagine being my downstairs neighbor and just hearing like,
- 5:55glass shatter at 3:00 AM. I'm like, Oh my God.
- 5:59But you know what? They moved out last week.
- 6:01Probably because you moved out. Oh yeah, they're probably, oh
- 6:06hell no, we're not starting this.
- 6:07They probably got rid of the old ones.
- 6:08You moved in and they were like, no, that was it.
- 6:10You know what? I think you're right.
- 6:11I think I pushed them out. Yeah, but.
- 6:13I will say what I've heard is being on top is better than like
- 6:19the bottom, like the first floor.
- 6:20So you're on the 2nd floor. I haven't been yet because she
- 6:22hasn't invited me. Well, that's true because I'm
- 6:24not like set up and ready like. But she has sent me an Amazon
- 6:27list to buy herself. Oh yeah, no shame in her game,
- 6:31but but yeah. So how is like everything else
- 6:36like? Do you miss Mom?
- 6:38Do you miss? Home.
- 6:39Like I mean, I I miss my family, but I don't miss living in the
- 6:48house. Does that make sense?
- 6:51I get it. Yeah.
- 6:52So you just like love, like that's your space, but you miss
- 6:55them. Yeah.
- 6:56Yeah. Yeah, that's but I've been going
- 6:57every weekend since I moved out. Yeah, she told me.
- 7:00She's like, it's like she's still here.
- 7:04She never leaves but I'm like okay well cuz every.
- 7:06Weekend I have to go and like get more stuff or like clean
- 7:10whatever I left or like whatever.
- 7:12We won't talk about what you left cuz.
- 7:15I've heard the story. Who knows?
- 7:17Who knows Gary? Now, like, I know that like,
- 7:21obviously Chris has like, leftover a lot at moms and slept
- 7:25over a lot at his house, but how is it like now just you 2 living
- 7:29together in your own space? Because I feel like it's so much
- 7:33different when you're in your own space.
- 7:34Like, I'm not going to lie. Like mom was like, she left the
- 7:36house messy and I was like, yeah, I remember like, my room
- 7:39was a mess. Yeah, when I lived there.
- 7:42But like, now it's like my own stuff.
- 7:44Wait. She said that about me.
- 7:46Oops. Oh.
- 7:47Started doing but anyways. But yeah, like I know, like now
- 7:51I take good care of my stuff because it's like my stuff.
- 7:54I. Don't know what, yeah, no.
- 7:55So I realized that I'm the clean one in this relationship, which
- 8:01is a crazy thing. I never thought I would be
- 8:04saying that because anyways. But yeah, so what's really
- 8:10getting to me recently, uh. Oh, uh oh.
- 8:14Sorry Chris, I opened up a can of.
- 8:16Worms basically it's because at his house, like his mom is like
- 8:20super super clean like she'll literally like.
- 8:23Oh, she cleaned up after him. So like he would go to work and
- 8:26he would come back and his room would be clean.
- 8:29Axel, Max, you're listening to this when you're older.
- 8:31I'm not doing. That Mexican moms and their OK
- 8:34and their babies, their sons, yeah, I feel like it's
- 8:36definitely a. Son thing, because yeah, I'm
- 8:39sure does she have the. No, she has all boys.
- 8:41Oh. She has all boys.
- 8:42And he's the baby. Yeah.
- 8:45But anyway, so his mom would just do that, you know, like he
- 8:47didn't ask her. She just did it.
- 8:48And So what he's been doing recently is like, he'll finish
- 8:51something and then he'll just leave the trash right there.
- 8:54OK. So or like, leave the dish right
- 8:57there or. And just like never go back to
- 8:59it. Like the other day, I think he
- 9:01cut himself while he was cooking.
- 9:03And so he went to the bathroom to get the first aid kit.
- 9:05Yeah. And then I go to the bathroom
- 9:07to, like, do something else. And there's like Band-Aid
- 9:10wrappers on the counter. The the first aid kit is wide
- 9:14open, OK. I do that sometimes, like when
- 9:17you're in a rush and you're hurt, like you just wrap it and
- 9:19then you leave. But I know a normal person would
- 9:23come back and clean it. But yeah, I'm very guilty of
- 9:26like Randy have find it like wrappers of band aids.
- 9:29OK, actually, one time I cut myself.
- 9:32This is really gross because I am a nurse and I should know
- 9:35better, but I actually left blood on the sink.
- 9:39I know obviously like not in a patient's home or like in a
- 9:43hospital setting, but yeah, work or something.
- 9:45Okay, no biohazard. Like, get the hell out of here.
- 9:48Okay, but yeah, so I've been like trying to tell him to not
- 9:53do that. It's been like a little tough,
- 9:56but. OK.
- 9:57But you guys are getting there. It has also only been three
- 10:00weeks. It's only been three weeks and
- 10:02that's the worst thing that I that has happened so.
- 10:05Like, I guess, yeah. But we've been cooking a lot.
- 10:09I know you tell me that a lot. So I do see like little stuff
- 10:12that you make. So like, what's your favorite
- 10:14thing? OK, we've made this.
- 10:17I think we made it twice now. We made chicken thinga, which is
- 10:20like shredded chicken and like kind of like a tomato sauce
- 10:24salsa type thing and then just like on a tostada.
- 10:27OK, Oh my gosh, it's so. Bomb.
- 10:29Do you put it in the slow cooker or what?
- 10:32Or boil it just in a pan? Oh, OK.
- 10:34Yeah, OK. But yeah.
- 10:36All right. Well, I'll have to try that
- 10:37once. I can show you the recipe.
- 10:39It is. I think it's pretty good for
- 10:41whole food because I have seen a lot of recipes of thinga.
- 10:45When I'm looking up recipes because I'm trying so hard not
- 10:49to be the whole ground beef, chicken, sweet potato, I'm so
- 10:53over it, over it. Yeah, see, we're not like and
- 10:56making very healthy meals. Yeah, yeah.
- 10:59I mean, I feel like that happens in the beginning.
- 11:02Like you always say you're going to be like, oh, I'm so healthy.
- 11:04But then like reality sits in and it's like, you realize, oh
- 11:07shit, I have to like, cook, clean and work and go to the gym
- 11:11and have a life. And it's just like, it's kind of
- 11:13like the fastest thing that you can make is usually not the most
- 11:17healthiest. No, Yeah, because I get home
- 11:19from the gym at like 9:00 PM, so we've been eating pretty late
- 11:21because he likes to cook together.
- 11:24Well, he sometimes he'll, I know romantic, but then I get home
- 11:29and then he's like all he starts cooking and then I get there and
- 11:33I finish helping him, but like I get home and he's like
- 11:35scrambling like. Girl, he's like that one, one
- 11:38game. What is it when you're like over
- 11:40here, over there, like cooking over, over?
- 11:42Overcooked. Yeah, that game makes me really
- 11:45anxious. No, yeah.
- 11:46It's like, what is it? The bear?
- 11:48I come in and he's like yelling at me, like give me this, give
- 11:51me this. And it's like, it's funny
- 11:52because the way they it's like, it's like I've been sitting
- 11:56there doing nothing. That's how he says it to me.
- 11:58But I literally just got home from the gym and then he like
- 12:01starts telling me. But like I already know like
- 12:03when I get home I have to fit and help cook.
- 12:05Yeah, yeah. But he just gets like, so like
- 12:08overwhelmed, so funny. You know what?
- 12:11I feel like that's like me and Randy, like I'm the one that's
- 12:14like freaking like with 20 pans. And then I'm like, what are you
- 12:17even doing? And he's like, I asked if you
- 12:19need help. And I'm like, I don't need your
- 12:21help that way. I need you to help me, like, by
- 12:23knowing what's the next move, Right?
- 12:24Right. And he just doesn't know it.
- 12:25So I just feel like he's in my way and I'm like, get the hell
- 12:27out of here. Yeah, yeah.
- 12:29And then at the end, we're enjoying the meal and I'm like,
- 12:31yeah, but you didn't even help. See, I do the dishes for sure,
- 12:36so. Yeah, he is.
- 12:37That's my job. Yeah.
- 12:38He's been getting a lot better with doing the dishes.
- 12:40I appreciate that, but it is a lot of work.
- 12:42When you first move in, it's very overwhelming.
- 12:44Yeah, cuz even though mom didn't really clean for you or do
- 12:50anything, it's like you always knew, you know, like she would
- 12:53if you left stuff in the sink or one of the boys would or
- 12:56something. But here it's like no.
- 12:58And then they pile up and then. I know it's so hard.
- 13:02I've been, it's hard to like at the end of the night.
- 13:05Well, because we eat so late at the end of the night, having to
- 13:06like clean everything. I'm like so tired.
- 13:09But now you guys have a dishwasher.
- 13:11We have a dishwasher and we don't use it.
- 13:13That is such a Hispanic thing to.
- 13:15Do I Never? I've never used a dishwasher in
- 13:18my life. Yeah, like you texted me, you're
- 13:20like, you're gonna have to show me how to use when I'm like,
- 13:22show you how to use when you put them in, put the soap in, and
- 13:25then it runs by itself. No, I've been using it to dry my
- 13:28dishes. Oh, gosh, I thought you were
- 13:30gonna say to store. I was like, do not use that as
- 13:33like a storage. I know people that do use it as
- 13:37literally a storage. Really.
- 13:40Yeah, Anyway, well, we're really excited.
- 13:43We can't wait to get invited if we ever do.
- 13:46I just need to finish. Do you have like furniture or?
- 13:48No, I. Do I have a couch?
- 13:50I have a table. I just it's not like decorated.
- 13:53I guess. OK, well just invite us over and
- 13:56I'll help. I'll cook you something.
- 13:57Yeah, Yeah. Whole Food approved you in 40
- 14:02days? Yeah, 40 days.
- 14:04I'll be over. So you used to go out a lot.
- 14:07Do you still go out? Is it different now because you
- 14:10can't like spend as much as you want or do you like still go to
- 14:14like concerts and like, cuz I know that was like your whole
- 14:18thing but now it's like, is it different?
- 14:20I know it only has been three weeks, but.
- 14:22No, but honestly in those three weeks, like I think that maybe
- 14:25the hard summer lineup came out and I was like.
- 14:29Yeah, cuz right now everything's coming.
- 14:30I would have bought tickets. It's just like, you know,
- 14:32because I want to go, but now I'm like, do I really need to
- 14:35go? So I didn't get tickets.
- 14:36Oh my God, she's growing up and. Then I also stop.
- 14:42No, it's so sad because I that's literally my thing.
- 14:45I just go to festivals. Yeah, yeah, concerts and
- 14:47whatever. I want to go to the Don Toliver
- 14:49concert, but that costs money. Yeah.
- 14:51So I don't know. I mean, I feel like it's like
- 14:54artists that I've seen you. Know, so it wasn't like a lot of
- 14:57them are kind of recycled, right?
- 15:00Like it's always like the same people I see that are like in
- 15:03lineups. Yeah.
- 15:04I mean, I haven't been to like a rave or like anything like that
- 15:08in so long. But even like, you know, I go to
- 15:10the like the emo ones and like it's always the same damn
- 15:14people, you know? And they just like bring in like
- 15:16maybe like four or five new bands and it's like.
- 15:19But it's still. I know, I know, I know.
- 15:22But I said, like, maybe Coachella is like the only one
- 15:25that I like. I'll do that.
- 15:27Like, I need to do that, Yeah. And then everything else I'll
- 15:29just have to think. So talking about Coachella,
- 15:34what? So the other day, like you put
- 15:37like that, Layla wanted to get tickets.
- 15:40Did she ever get tickets? No.
- 15:43Oh my. Get involved again.
- 15:44So one of the moms actually have one of the tickets.
- 15:47If she's still interested, I can reach out to her.
- 15:49She's not interested anymore. No, no, literally after that
- 15:51whole thing I was like, oh, OK, basically.
- 15:54OK, so we got to tell the story of what happened because it was
- 15:57so it was really embarrassing. I just feel like an idiot
- 16:01because okay, first of all, the way that you posted it, for some
- 16:05reason, I don't know if I had like a little moment.
- 16:07I mixed up the numbers and she said like 1 ticket for Week 2 I
- 16:12ran. As week and two tickets, yeah.
- 16:13One week and two ticket and I ran as like one week, like the
- 16:18first first weekend, 2 tickets, 2 tickets.
- 16:21Yeah. So anyways, I had kind of lined
- 16:24up like some tickets and like we were so excited and then all of
- 16:29a sudden I started thinking I was like wait, what weekend is
- 16:32this for? And the person I was going.
- 16:34To buy it for, because I think I was like, oh, they already got
- 16:36their wristbands. And she's like, yeah, yeah,
- 16:38yeah. Yeah.
- 16:39And then that's why I was like. And then I was thinking, I was
- 16:41like, oh gosh, like what did I even say to this person?
- 16:43And then I look back and I was like, oh crap, I asked for a
- 16:45weekend one. Yeah, so anyways, but basically
- 16:50she was getting FOMO because of Justin Bieber, right?
- 16:53Bieber Cello. Me too.
- 16:54I almost bought the tickets, let me tell you, just for that.
- 16:56And then I was going to bring Axel, ask mom to come with us,
- 17:00pay for a hotel, just go to Bieber and then come right back.
- 17:04I was this close because taxes had just came in and I was like,
- 17:08Ding, I can go. And you know, I was that's
- 17:11insane. And I was like, that is insane.
- 17:14Take out my mom. Nobody to like bring the baby.
- 17:17Yeah. Then I saw that and I was like,
- 17:18OK, I'm gonna just wait for like just him cuz I don't really, I
- 17:22don't really care for anyone else in the land.
- 17:24Yeah. So anyways, so she doesn't want
- 17:27to go anywhere. OK, well then she doesn't like
- 17:29you. She was gonna just full send
- 17:31like just be by everything like just for Bieber.
- 17:35Yeah. I literally was like when you
- 17:36guys said no, I was like, Dang, Randy, like, can we go to a
- 17:39Coachella? And he's like, sure, next year.
- 17:41And I was like, no, like the one coming up.
- 17:43He's like, what the Hell's wrong with you?
- 17:45It's in like 3 weeks. Yeah, I was like, OK, OK.
- 17:47Like I have to think about it. I was like, no, that's like
- 17:49super irrational. Yeah.
- 17:51Like imagine just load up the car for Bieber Axle.
- 17:56I was like, he liked the like he might like Coachella.
- 18:00I've seen babies. But yeah, that's just a no.
- 18:03Maybe one year we'll take him for sure.
- 18:05Not this year. I always like to come on here
- 18:07and tell, like, obviously it's not my life anymore, but it was
- 18:10a huge part of my life and exactly why I started Mom Gone
- 18:14Mild because, you know, I'm a former party girl that turned
- 18:17into a mom. Yeah.
- 18:18Now my life looks a lot different, right?
- 18:20But do you have any, like, crazy party stories or anything that
- 18:24you want to share with us? You can always keep everything
- 18:26anonymous, obviously. Like, I don't like to say
- 18:28people's names, but yeah. I do have like a Horror Story.
- 18:32OK like scary or like. Like kind of scary, could have
- 18:37been a scary situation. OK, but everything just works
- 18:40out for me. Like you know so.
- 18:42It's crazy. But anyways, yeah, sure.
- 18:45So West Hollywood, of course. Oh boy.
- 18:50So I went with my friend and basically, I don't remember what
- 18:56happened. And I don't think he also
- 18:58doesn't remember what happened. But we were like bar hopping or
- 19:02whatever. And then I remember we like,
- 19:04we're really drunk. So we got out.
- 19:06And after that I like kind of just like blacked out.
- 19:11Don't tell me you went to the Abbey.
- 19:12No, no, no, because. I was like notorious, yeah, that
- 19:16was my fault, It was my fault, but I had called yourself
- 19:19blackout. Yeah, so I had called Chris to
- 19:22come pick us up and I remember we were just waiting at the
- 19:24corner like by one of the bars. And then I don't remember what
- 19:27happened. And, and all of a sudden, like,
- 19:30I get woken up and somebody's like shoving me and it's like a
- 19:35security guard. And I'm sitting on the floor,
- 19:38like, by myself, just like next to the bar and everyone's gone.
- 19:43The bars are closed. Like, I don't know how long I
- 19:47had been napping there, but the security guard came up to me and
- 19:51was like, hey, like, are you OK? Like, are you with someone?
- 19:55And I'm like, yeah. Your friend's gone.
- 19:57Gone. So I'm just a girl sitting in
- 20:02the corner. Girl.
- 20:04Just a girl. Like this?
- 20:07No, I'm like. You're just Sleeping Beauty
- 20:09girl. What?
- 20:11Yeah. Like you woke me from my
- 20:14slumber. No, but I was in that moment.
- 20:17I turned. It was, it was also like it
- 20:20might have been like 3 in the morning because the bars close
- 20:22at 2. Oh my God.
- 20:24It was like, not people. No, it was close.
- 20:27There was nobody on the streets. Like I don't know what time it
- 20:30was. That's scary.
- 20:30And I was like, do you still have your phone?
- 20:33And I, I didn't have my phone. I had my purse and my wallet,
- 20:37but I didn't have my phone. And I'm like, like, what do I
- 20:39even do? And then he was like, you can
- 20:41use my phone, the security guard.
- 20:42And I'm like, OK, all of a sudden, like I'm still drunk
- 20:45obviously. And I can't remember a single
- 20:47phone number except my mom, I think.
- 20:51And so I called my mom, but at that point Chris had already,
- 20:55cuz I had called him to come pick me up and he had called my
- 20:58mom and said, hey, like is Sophia home?
- 21:01Cuz I can't find her and she's not answering your phone.
- 21:02Whatever. And and so I called my mom and
- 21:05she was like are you okay? Like Chris was calling me
- 21:07whatever. Anyways, Long story short Chris
- 21:11and ended up just driving around looking for me in West
- 21:14Hollywood. He ended up finding me and he
- 21:17found my phone with a hot dog vendor.
- 21:22I need the hot dog vendor. Because he's calling it and it's
- 21:24like ringing. And he was like, I think you
- 21:27have her phone. And then they just like hand it
- 21:29over and kind of just like, don't say anything.
- 21:32There's like here you. Go like this happens every
- 21:35night. No, you're used to it.
- 21:38And then my friend we recapped the next day.
- 21:41At first I was pissed, but then he told me that he woke up in
- 21:47somebody's car, like in the back seat of somebody's car, like
- 21:51random but like by his house like a random person.
- 21:56He does not know this person. Like they didn't give him a ride
- 21:58or anything. I think he just literally just
- 22:00like opened the door and like went in and.
- 22:02No he didn't. What the hell?
- 22:05OK so I have had really scary stories but I feel like that one
- 22:09really tops it. No, that was so scary, Wolf.
- 22:12He told me when he woke up he thought he was being kidnapped.
- 22:16Like to like some random like what the heck.
- 22:19First of all, the guy or the person just let them in the car.
- 22:23So I think the person just didn't lock their car and he was
- 22:27like, I don't know, I think he just got in.
- 22:30The person wasn't in the no car he.
- 22:32Was by himself in somebody. 'S car.
- 22:35I can't. I can't.
- 22:37But anyways, that was the most terrifying experience, but
- 22:40luckily everything worked out and it was fine.
- 22:44You are an MVP. My God.
- 22:46For finding the phone, finding the phone, finding me, her
- 22:50without a phone. Yeah.
- 22:51My gosh. Well, you know what?
- 22:53That is definitely a crazy story that probably will top a lot of
- 22:58our stories here. A mom gone mild.
- 23:00So congratulations. Thank you.
- 23:02And yeah, so interesting anyways, but I'm trying to grow,
- 23:07yeah. I was really going to say on
- 23:09that note, yeah. Have you like felt like you're
- 23:13maturing in a way? I mean, obviously it's not like
- 23:16you're going to move out and you're going to be like this
- 23:17like old grandma that's like staying in all the time.
- 23:21And just like, that's not like what I'm talking about.
- 23:23I'm talking about like, do you feel like now you're going to be
- 23:25like a little bit more like self aware and just like, you know, a
- 23:29little bit more cautious? No.
- 23:30For sure. I also feel like some kind of
- 23:33like guilt, like I'm too old to be doing this or like, you know
- 23:37what I mean? Oh.
- 23:40I was like literally before Axel's still doing stuff like
- 23:44this, but yeah, sure, whatever. It's not.
- 23:46Like I'm not doing it. It's like I'm still doing it and
- 23:48but then I feel more guilty. No, no, I get, I get what you
- 23:51mean. Like, I still was doing it and I
- 23:52was like, bitch, I think you're a little too old for this.
- 23:55But I mean, I would still go out on the weekends and.
- 23:57But like, I'm coming home like, late.
- 23:59Yeah. Yeah.
- 24:01So you have Coachella coming up. Yeah.
- 24:03How excited are you? Oh my gosh.
- 24:05What is it next week? No, two weeks, 2 weeks.
- 24:07So. Weekend one is next week, I'm
- 24:09gonna watch the live stream and then weekend 2 I'm gonna go
- 24:12camp, actually, and I'm really excited because this is Chris's
- 24:16first Coachella. Wow, you actually got him out?
- 24:20Which is crazy. So I've been 3.
- 24:21Years, you know, he's always heard DD and and like picks her
- 24:24up and stuff like she can do whatever she wants, but he will
- 24:27not like he just is not into it, which I think is good because at
- 24:31least one of you guys are like coherent and sober.
- 24:35Exactly. Yeah.
- 24:36But like he'll come with me. Like if like if I go to like a
- 24:39festival or concert, he'll come with me.
- 24:41But he just hasn't gone to Coachella because that's like a
- 24:43whole mission. I just feel like it's.
- 24:44Such a commitment, honestly. Yeah, like it's like you either
- 24:48and especially with camping, like maybe me and Randy were
- 24:50talking about it. Maybe like if we get like, you
- 24:53know, glamping in like a nice ass hotel with like, you know,
- 24:56if I don't want to see the people, I can just go to the
- 24:59pool. But that is commitment.
- 25:03Camping is commitment. That's why I'm like a little
- 25:05scared because it is a lot, yeah.
- 25:07But I think I think I'll have a great time.
- 25:10Honestly, last year it was the first year I went with like a
- 25:12big group and I feel like it was like life changing.
- 25:16Yeah, I do feel like if you go with like a bigger group, what
- 25:19I've seen from my friends, I've never been to Coachella.
- 25:22I've never been to Coachella because I just feel like, again,
- 25:26I don't like to camp at all. I'm very like, you know, we talk
- 25:31about everything here. I have a lot of stomach issues.
- 25:35So I feel like that is always like my number one thing.
- 25:37Like, what am I gonna do if, like, I need the bathroom?
- 25:40What, like I don't have time to be like pooping myself or
- 25:44anything like that. Like, I know I have really bad
- 25:46stomach problems. So that has hindered me.
- 25:49You know what? Hindered me throughout my life
- 25:51and that's why I've chosen not to ever go to Coachella.
- 25:54I am unburdened by those anchors.
- 25:59I don't know, it's a little DMI but I just think it's so real
- 26:02because honestly, like this happened to me camping.
- 26:05This is how I know that I'm not built for something like
- 26:07Coachella. What?
- 26:08So we are like campsite was like really far from the bathroom and
- 26:12I literally was like running there.
- 26:14Then I got there and there was like poop everywhere and then I
- 26:16was like Oh my gosh. And all of a sudden like I'm
- 26:19very shy with that kind of stuff.
- 26:21So like I sucked it backed in and then it was like I was
- 26:24constipated for like 5 days. So it's like, that's how my
- 26:27stomach it works. It's very wild.
- 26:29So that's how I know I'm not billed for things like that.
- 26:31And then I see horror stories that like in the shower and like
- 26:34people find poop and stuff like that.
- 26:37I've seen headlines. No, yeah, that's that's.
- 26:39So gross, Like I just can't, I don't know.
- 26:42I'm not into like communal I. Think it's because you just
- 26:45think about it like I think one time you told me that you don't
- 26:47poop at work. I think one time you.
- 26:48Told me yeah. So actually this was always my
- 26:50thing. I know now this conversation got
- 26:52into pooping, but we're just gonna go with it.
- 26:56But yeah, so actually what happened is like, my stepmom
- 26:59used to live really close. So like, I would call her and be
- 27:02like, hey, have to go to bathroom.
- 27:03She would like, pick me up from school, take me to the bathroom
- 27:06and then I would come back. So I have a really big phobia of
- 27:09that. So I feel like that is a really
- 27:11big thing. Like I my anxiety just cannot
- 27:14handle that. No, because you saying that you
- 27:15just like sucked it back. It's.
- 27:17Crazy. I know, I know it's actually
- 27:20really weird and it's like very concerning.
- 27:23I have really bad health problems with my stomach, but
- 27:27that's a whole nother episode. If you guys want to talk about
- 27:29gut health, I'm more than happy to.
- 27:32But yeah, so let's get into like I want to know.
- 27:35I know like before, like we're talking about like before and
- 27:38after, but what is your ideal weekend now?
- 27:43Honestly, I've been going out. I've been going out.
- 27:47So my ideal weekend, Go out on a Friday, then you got two days
- 27:51left of the weekend. Go on a Saturday.
- 27:52You only have that one day. You're like, tired, hungover.
- 27:55You don't enjoy the day. Yeah.
- 27:56So go out on a Friday, you know, Saturday.
- 28:00I've been seeing my family gym. Yeah.
- 28:06And then Sunday, like absolutely nothing.
- 28:08Yeah, that makes sense. OK, so we are different at
- 28:12different levels, obviously, because AI understand exactly
- 28:16what you're talking about. Before I used to what's a lie?
- 28:19Because I actually used to start Thursday, Friday, start chilling
- 28:22down on Saturday. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 28:25So usually when I was younger like around your age, I because
- 28:28I was also a hair stylist right around your age.
- 28:30So like I want to be honest, I didn't really hate it that
- 28:34seriously. So I would call out a lot.
- 28:36So I started on Thursday, Friday, like I would do half a
- 28:39day, then I would like get sick and then go home.
- 28:42But then I would like still go out tonight while you're sick a
- 28:46lot. I'm like, I know I have like
- 28:47really bad stomach problems. They're like just go home.
- 28:49And then I would just go out that night.
- 28:50Then Saturday I didn't work. So I would like day drink, then
- 28:53night drink. Then it was just like a whole
- 28:55thing. But Bender that was, yeah,
- 28:57basically I was on a Bender. Yes.
- 28:59That lasted for a while, but now?
- 29:02Yeah. What is your ideal weekend?
- 29:04Actually, I spent the ideal weekend last weekend on myself
- 29:07and I was so happy. So obviously Friday, you know,
- 29:10we just, I just hung out with Axel.
- 29:12Saturday it was like very nice. We went to like the farmers
- 29:16market and just had like such a nice day.
- 29:19I had a nice matcha. I just walked around.
- 29:22We did like our, you know, like we have the two workouts, one
- 29:25outdoor. So it was like a nice walk by
- 29:28the lake and it was just so peaceful.
- 29:31It was like that was my ideal. Then I saw like a nice movie and
- 29:35yeah, I know it was just like really relaxing, Randy playing
- 29:37his video games, super wholesome.
- 29:39Then Sunday I was like, OK, girl, like we're just going to
- 29:42keep this momentum going. Sunday I went to a Pilates class
- 29:47in Culver City. So I went out there and it was
- 29:51just such a nice morning. Like I went out there, I read my
- 29:54book and just like, met some people and it was just such a
- 29:58that was like literally my ideal.
- 30:00What would have made it better was probably getting like
- 30:03another matcha. I know I'm like in this whole
- 30:07module. Say a drink.
- 30:08No, actually that has been the easiest thing on 75 hearts
- 30:13really. I think because I went straight
- 30:15from basically postpartum. Yeah.
- 30:18So I wasn't drinking. Obviously I didn't drink during
- 30:21my pregnancy, right. So I, and then I only like I was
- 30:24kind of getting back into it, but even then it's like I was
- 30:27like, what if he needs me? I'm not really that into
- 30:29drinking. Oh, I get you.
- 30:30I get. You so now it's like I'm I
- 30:32really don't miss it. Like, I will see sometimes.
- 30:35Like, you know, I watch like, Bravo and Housewives a lot and
- 30:38I'm like, damn. Like that dirty martini looks.
- 30:41That's like the only thing that I'm like, OK, like I'll probably
- 30:44have one of those. Yeah, literally.
- 30:45I'll probably be off my ass after one.
- 30:48I already know. Yeah.
- 30:49Now like at the end of this. But were you not always a
- 30:52lightweight? I feel like even younger, yeah.
- 30:58I feel like I was a lightweight, but I just like kept going and
- 31:01obviously I would do other stuff, if you know what I mean,
- 31:05to kind of keep the party going. So I never went to like, so I
- 31:08would like, you know, it was a Bender, right?
- 31:10So it was like I would start feeling like 2 and then I would
- 31:14just, so I was like, I was just riding the wave and it was just
- 31:17like, that's how I did it. But now it's like I have like a
- 31:20couple drinks and I just feel like I just wanna go night,
- 31:23night. Yes, I know.
- 31:26Yeah. Another life, another life.
- 31:28I know when you asked if I wanted to do 75 part, I saw the
- 31:32alcohol part and I was like, I already know I can't do that.
- 31:35I already know, yeah, yeah, I know.
- 31:37I feel like that is like a huge thing for a lot of people.
- 31:41And with that, I do say there's always 75 soft.
- 31:45But even then I feel like I don't know if you'd be too into
- 31:47it because it's like only for social events.
- 31:50But I feel like for her, everything would be a social
- 31:52event. So she'd be like, it's a Friday,
- 31:54it's a social event. I do know.
- 31:55Yeah. Yeah.
- 31:56You only drink socially. It's like a Friday, Saturday.
- 31:59No, you want to hear how I ended up out last night?
- 32:01So I went to bed early, like 9:30 or something.
- 32:05I'm proud of you. I know.
- 32:06And then I got a phone call and my friend was at the bar already
- 32:10and she was like, can you come? I was like, OK, so I was ready.
- 32:14So you did. Go out last night you did I.
- 32:17Was literally asleep like for the night I got a call.
- 32:20You're like, raised up from the dead.
- 32:22You're like. No, that exact thing happened to
- 32:27me and it was like 11. I think it was 11.
- 32:29So it's like I could get there by 12:00.
- 32:31So I have two hours. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 32:33Anyways. Peer pressure doesn't exist in
- 32:36my. There's no pressure.
- 32:38Come out say less where say less.
- 32:42So actually, I'm actually really proud of her because she was
- 32:45supposed to be a guest a couple weeks ago.
- 32:48But yeah, so I she was like, also like, can you make me stay?
- 32:54Can you make me broccolini? And actually the day before we
- 32:58went out shopping, we got all this stuff.
- 33:00And then she texted me. She's like, hey, I'm super
- 33:02hungover. I'm gonna come late.
- 33:03And I was like, I already know where this is going.
- 33:05An hour or two passes by. She's like, I can't even get up.
- 33:08I'm the darling up. No room is spinning.
- 33:11I was like, I already knew this was coming.
- 33:13I don't know the last time I was that hungover.
- 33:16Sorry. I don't know the last time I was
- 33:17that hungover like it was. It's like the water was just
- 33:20being recycled like it was one of.
- 33:22The What did you do that night wasn't even that memorable, but
- 33:27she did ditch her sister. I don't know.
- 33:30I don't even remember. Oh, great, great, great.
- 33:32But yeah, I paid for it. OK.
- 33:37Yeah, I know. But anyway, so this is all to
- 33:40say I'm so excited for you. I'm so happy for you.
- 33:44Only good things are coming. And yeah, so obviously you're so
- 33:48young. Enjoy it because once you have a
- 33:51kid, everything changes. I swear it was like night and
- 33:54day. Yeah, I remember it.
- 33:55Like do you remember okay, you remember that Christmas party I
- 33:59had yes. So I feel like, and then I like
- 34:03found out like 2 days later, yes.
- 34:05My shift was so like abrupt. It was crazy because that night
- 34:10I was like dancing on tables. I was like, I had probably like
- 34:1540, I'm not exaggerating, 40 jello shots and they were all
- 34:19double S And yeah, after that, I like obviously never touched
- 34:24another drink after I found out that I was pregnant and stuff
- 34:27like that. But it's just like your shift.
- 34:29It happens so fast. Of course, this isn't for
- 34:31everyone, you know, I'm not talking about everyone because
- 34:33this is my experience. And you know, once after 75 hard
- 34:38is done. I would love to go out for like
- 34:40brunch Formosa, but don't ask me to go out after 9.
- 34:43I will not do that after 9:00 PM.
- 34:46Yes. Oh yes, because I need to be in
- 34:48bed. Actually, 9 is actually pushing
- 34:50it because I'm gonna be nice, but technically probably don't
- 34:54ask me out after seven. Got it.
- 34:56If I'm already out, then that's a different thing.
- 34:58But if you're expecting me to leave my house by 7, no, I'll
- 35:02leave at six and I'll stay out in daytime.
- 35:05Yes, Yeah, yes. I'm a big daytime drinker.
- 35:08I love, I love D drinking because my favorite thing is
- 35:13like being drunk, having the best time.
- 35:15Yeah. Being like coming home, like
- 35:18taking a shower, being in PJ's, watching a movie.
- 35:21And then I, like, drink water. I, you know, like, I just like
- 35:25hydrate. And it's like the next day.
- 35:27I don't even feel hungover. Yeah, obviously.
- 35:30The worst is when you literally party, party, party until like
- 35:342-3 and then it's like you go to bed drunk and it's like, oh, you
- 35:38look Gray and that's the worst. Like your eyes are hollow.
- 35:43And listen, I love to have fun like everyone else, but I'm just
- 35:47not there anymore. Maybe like when Axel's older,
- 35:50like maybe I'll start again, but but I also feel like I started
- 35:53really young, right? So I started drinking at around
- 35:57like 16. So I feel like I've done
- 36:00everything I've done. Like basically I have done
- 36:04everything I've done all the raves, I've done all like, you
- 36:06know, like all a lot of things. So I, I feel like I have, I'm
- 36:10not really missing out on it. So that's why I can really
- 36:12appreciate this side of myself. And I feel like that's going to
- 36:17happen to you because like, I know that sometimes there's
- 36:21pressure, like having a kid young.
- 36:22Yeah. And it's so nice when you get
- 36:25all that out of the way and it's like you really get to focus and
- 36:28enjoy being a, because you don't have like FOMO.
- 36:30Like, of course sometimes like I'll be like, damn, like
- 36:32Coachella, I would love to go doing something like that.
- 36:35But then I'm like, realistically, girl, you're not
- 36:38going to do it. You're going to be complaining
- 36:39the whole time in a tent with that damn wind.
- 36:42And it's just, it's a no for me. Yeah, first, like the heat and
- 36:46the wind and the heat and the wind.
- 36:48I'd, I'd probably like drive off the night and be like, I'm going
- 36:52home. Everyone would be like, where do
- 36:55Alexis go? And they call me.
- 36:56I'm already in bed and what the hell are you doing?
- 36:59Like don't call here. Have fun.
- 37:01Have your friendships change at all throughout like you like the
- 37:06years or anything like that? I mean, yeah, of course.
- 37:10I feel like maybe some of my friends that I was closer to, I
- 37:14made me not as close to anymore, but like, we'll still hang out.
- 37:17And like, I feel like it's just like changing your expectations
- 37:22for that friendship. OK.
- 37:24But I feel like if it's like a mutual thing, then I think, you
- 37:28know, it happens and it's fine. And like, it's not like I want
- 37:31to stop being their friend. It's just where we've gotten to.
- 37:35Yeah. Which is fine.
- 37:36Yeah. I just feel like that's also a
- 37:37part of growth too. Yeah.
- 37:39So it's like you're grateful for what you had, but it's like also
- 37:43it's like not what you need at the moment.
- 37:45Exactly. Yeah, Like if I had to like
- 37:46force, like our friendship to be at that same level for like,
- 37:50yeah, you know. Yeah, definitely.
- 37:52So this year we're super into manifesting here.
- 37:55I've really gotten into that, like just speaking out into the
- 37:58world what I want. A lot of that has really helped
- 38:01because I feel like I've been getting, I've been receiving
- 38:04everything. So is there anything this year,
- 38:07I know like we're already in April, but I feel like every
- 38:10month it is like a new start. Is there anything that you like
- 38:14are like manifesting or hoping that happens any new?
- 38:18Goals. New goals.
- 38:20I mean, I think I just want to finish my apartment and then I
- 38:26guess figure out what I want to do with my career long term.
- 38:30Yeah. I'm kind of just like in the
- 38:33kind of what is it like middle ground right now where I'm like
- 38:36I have a job, you know, the job market is like really slim right
- 38:40now. But she's thin.
- 38:43Yeah. So I'm not like super concerned
- 38:46about that just because, you know, that's out of my control.
- 38:49But I feel like just figuring out what I want to do.
- 38:53I mean, the good thing is you have a job now.
- 38:54I know. So that's always obviously the
- 38:58best thing is to not leave your job until you find another one,
- 39:01unless of you're me, because now I'm looking.
- 39:05But you know what, I feel so much better.
- 39:07I feel like that just where I was before, there was no knock
- 39:12to like obviously the people, but just the industry.
- 39:15It was really hard. Hospice was something that was
- 39:17really difficult for me and coming through this postpartum
- 39:21depression, I just felt like it was just something that I need
- 39:23to like now I want to like either like work with like
- 39:26children or something a little bit more uplifting because to be
- 39:29honest, Hospice, you have to have really thick skin.
- 39:32And you know, I was seeing the messages of all these patients
- 39:34that were passing and it was just like Ding, like my heart
- 39:37just wasn't in it anymore. And I feel like if your heart's
- 39:40in it, especially for something like Hospice, you really need to
- 39:43take yourself out. Draining.
- 39:44Yeah, it can get really draining.
- 39:46So if you're not mentally in it, you can get really lost in it,
- 39:50which obviously, hey, that's why everyone has a purpose.
- 39:53That's why there's so many specialties in nursing.
- 39:56So I'm just like, really excited for that next thing.
- 39:58I mean, you never know. But then again I am falling for
- 40:00like scams on LinkedIn. A job for like $50.00 to be like
- 40:07a secretary. I'm like, oh, it sounds good.
- 40:10Then I'm like, you know what? This sounds sketch.
- 40:11Yeah, like probably not real, but we're looking.
- 40:14We're looking. So I since you're here and
- 40:18usually it's just me, so I'm not going to ask myself questions
- 40:21because I'm not that crazy. I want to play a little game
- 40:24called Hype or not. Is it cringe to put your whole
- 40:28life on the Internet? I like to post all the time to
- 40:33like basically a journal your life and you can be honest
- 40:40because I know I do this. I would say, I mean, I would say
- 40:46it is a little cringe, yeah. But I mean, I'm obviously I'm
- 40:51your sister. Like I'm interested in your
- 40:52life. Yeah, because she is like
- 40:54complete opposite of me. Like she The only story I've
- 40:59seen in a long time is the one about Coachella.
- 41:01Can somebody? Find me a Coachella.
- 41:02Yeah, that like, and that's like the only thing she posts like,
- 41:05so randomly, like you went on a New York trip.
- 41:08So you, you did like, do like a photo dump, I think.
- 41:11Yeah. But like, it's very rare that
- 41:13you put, like, anything out there.
- 41:15Yeah, I am. Complete opposite.
- 41:16Since last Coachella, I've only posted once.
- 41:19Yeah, yeah. Mysterious.
- 41:21Yeah. So to you it's cringy.
- 41:24To me, it's not because it's my life.
- 41:28I really feel like this is like a huge thing right now.
- 41:31I don't know why it's so trendy. I feel like I've always
- 41:34personally liked it. But matcha, like matcha.
- 41:38I know I feel like and especially like matcha with
- 41:41Pilates or matcha with yoga. Yeah, OK, good.
- 41:44Now we're on the same level. Matcha, but it is.
- 41:47A lot of places like I've seen like La La Land, right, they
- 41:52have carrot cake matcha or some do carrot.
- 41:56Yeah, because of Easter. It just came out.
- 41:59So I was like Ding, like, of course, now that I'm on the 75
- 42:01hard, OK, everyone's coming out with everything.
- 42:03Oh my. Gosh, no.
- 42:04Yeah, I went to the La La Land Reserve because that's in
- 42:07Beverly Hills. That's where it works.
- 42:09Yes, me. Yeah, they have.
- 42:11It's like so pretty in there. Yeah.
- 42:13Oh my God, it's so good. They're matcha's, really.
- 42:15Yeah, so actually I'm making like a whole list of things that
- 42:19I want to do after 75. Hard.
- 42:21Oh my. God.
- 42:22There is. I want to start trying all the
- 42:24watches around. I have tried La, LA lands
- 42:27because we went in Orange County.
- 42:28But also it was so clean that I was just like clean like yeah,
- 42:35because I can't have like crazy add insurance or syrups or
- 42:38anything. So it was like literally.
- 42:39Oh, when you went, you were already on Sunday.
- 42:41Yeah, so I was like, I literally had like watching water.
- 42:43So I was like, this kid be the same matcha that everyone's like
- 42:47so obsessed with. Oh.
- 42:49No, I get like, well, I don't know if it's they have that
- 42:51there, but I get like a banana shabbir that's.
- 42:53What I'm trying to like, I want to try like those kinds of
- 42:56things because obviously like I can't even have the Starbucks
- 42:58ones because I found out that they were like pre made.
- 43:01Oh, we know that there's something wrong with Starbucks,
- 43:03but I just can't. I know.
- 43:05So I'm in this whole new soft live healing era.
- 43:09Is that cringe? No.
- 43:11OK. Hype, hype, hype.
- 43:13OK. We love that.
- 43:14We love that. Yeah.
- 43:16All right, so we're not in them, but situation ships like if your
- 43:23friends are telling you about like obviously like guys or
- 43:26girls or I feel. Like when people say situation
- 43:29ships, they're referring to like we're dating but we're not
- 43:33labeling it. Or like one person wants to date
- 43:35and the other one doesn't. So that yeah, no, I don't agree
- 43:40with that, but. If it's just like.
- 43:41You're hooking up, you're in like.
- 43:43If you're both yes and you're just hooking up and the other
- 43:46person is not like longing for the person and you know it's
- 43:49never gonna happen. Page.
- 43:51Yeah. If you guys are on the same page
- 43:52and you guys both agree go for it, then yes, yeah.
- 43:55But if one doesn't and the other one is like secretly in love
- 43:57with them, then that's crunch. Yeah, that's cringe.
- 44:00Either move on or tell them or yeah.
- 44:03OK, double texting. I do this a lot.
- 44:08I do like text, text, text, text, text.
- 44:11Like I'm out. Sometimes I look at my phone,
- 44:13I'm like damn. Like I text like people five
- 44:15times when it could have been like a one.
- 44:17Text. You know what though?
- 44:18I feel like I sometimes don't even respond to text.
- 44:23So then when I get that double text, I'm like, oh thank God,
- 44:25because I wouldn't have remember.
- 44:27Yeah, you are. Actually notorious sometimes I'm
- 44:29not texting, but I know I know and I'm like I.
- 44:32Appreciate a double text. Will I send a double text?
- 44:36No. I'm actually honestly, I'm
- 44:40honored when you text me back so.
- 44:43No, I double text. For her would be like crazy.
- 44:46I texted you this morning. I was like, good morning,
- 44:49exclamation mark. And she's like, Oh no.
- 44:51In my head, I was like, here we go, here we go.
- 44:55The excuses. I went out last night, can we
- 44:58reschedule? And the problem is that now they
- 45:01have actually, it's really hard to reschedule anything because
- 45:05your girl is busy. Yeah, that's one blocking
- 45:09people. A block is.
- 45:12I feel like a block is crazy. Yeah, yeah, like you have to do
- 45:16something really crazy to me to block cuz sometimes I'm like
- 45:20I'll see the text and I'm just like laughing in my head like ha
- 45:23ha. Like I'm not gonna reply.
- 45:24Yeah, but like to block Someone Like You really gotta annoy me
- 45:28to block you. I feel like block on the phone.
- 45:31Yeah. Like that's like if somebody is
- 45:33literally psychotic. Yeah, blocking on Instagram.
- 45:36You talk on Instagram. Let me tell you no, because this
- 45:40is what I've learned. So sometimes I think maybe I
- 45:44should block people because why should I give them access to my
- 45:47life? Right.
- 45:48Now my point, my thought has changed to let them have access
- 45:54because they will see now how much I've grown and how much
- 45:58success I've had. Am I super successful?
- 46:01No. Am I delusional about it?
- 46:03Yes, yes I am. I think that I'm this huge
- 46:06influencer in my mind because I am manifesting.
- 46:09So go ahead, watch my videos, give me my views.
- 46:13But I do see that they do view my videos.
- 46:15But yeah, no likes, no comments. It's fine.
- 46:18Yeah. Sophia, thank you so much for
- 46:21being here finally. And honestly, you are my most
- 46:25viewed guest, so we will probably have you back on.
- 46:29Yes. We always have so much fun when
- 46:32Sophia is here. I think usually my episodes are
- 46:35maybe like 10 minutes, 1215 Max because honestly sometimes it's
- 46:40hard when you're just talking by yourself, but when it's me and
- 46:44you it's like an hour long. I know I'm like, do we talk this
- 46:47much? Like when we're just hanging
- 46:48out. We don't, which is really weird
- 46:50because yeah, I just feel like we have a lot of opinions.
- 46:53But it has been such a pleasure to have you here on Mom Gone
- 46:57Mild. And like always, I love you
- 47:00guys. Thank you guys for being so
- 47:02supportive. And also a little update because
- 47:05I like to update about 75. I am now on day 35, which means
- 47:10I have 40 days left. And like I always say, if I can
- 47:13do it, so can you guys. And lately I've been having like
- 47:17little mini giveaways on my Instagram.
- 47:20Like yesterday I had like a coffee one and it's not gonna
- 47:22like always be like a crazy big one, but I have been wanting to
- 47:26do that for you guys because I love you guys so much.
- 47:28So please follow me on Instagram at mom gone mild under score
- 47:31podcast and go ahead. And if you haven't binge
- 47:35episodes, one through, I believe we're on 17 today, so one
- 47:38through 16 and then obviously this one when it comes out.
- 47:42And again, I love you so and I love you guys and thank you guys
- 47:47so much for listening. Bye.