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Why Nice People Stay Stuck | Social Intelligence Briefing

Do you struggle to say no, set boundaries, or ask for what you need because you're afraid of disappointing people? Being too nice might feel like the best way to maintain relationships and avoid conflict, but constantly putting other people's needs first can lead to resentment, burnout, and feeling unappreciated. The problem isn't kindness—it's people pleasing disguised as being a good person.

AJ and Johnny break down why people pleasing and approval seeking make it difficult to be assertive, even when your boundaries are completely reasonable. They explore the psychology of saying no, why…

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