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Be Real, Not Nice: You've Been Calling It Love
The feeling in your body when you met them — that pull, thatelectric recognition, that finally — felt real. It was real. But real doesn't always mean right. Your nervous system doesn't distinguish between love and familiarity. It distinguishes between safe and unsafe. And if what felt safeearly in your life was conditional, earned, and contingent on your usefulness — that is the frequency your system learned to call love.
This episode breaks down exactly how wound recognition disguises itself as soul recognition, what it actually looks like in practice, why you kept choosing it, and what…
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