Episode 36 | Reciprocity - Where'd You Go?

Figuring It Out with Rachel Lee · Jun 10, 2026 · 10m

This episode is probably going to ruffle some feathers.

Everywhere you look there’s content telling men what they should do for women. Provide. Protect. Create emotional safety. Communicate. Be patient.

And a lot of that is valid.

But somewhere along the way the conversation stopped being about healthy relationships and started being about one person doing all the giving while the other does all the receiving.

That’s not reciprocity. That’s an arrangement.

In this episode Rachel Lee gets into what reciprocity actually means in real relationships, why we model relationships more than we teach…