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- 0:00Nancy May: Hello everybody, it's Nancy May, the co host of
- 0:04Family Tree Food and Stories.
- 0:06My other co host, Sylvia, is off cooking and dishing up something
- 0:11really special for you all.
- 0:12But she'll be back on another episode.
- 0:15This one is me cooking.
- 0:17And my friend, Bobby Hedgling Taylor.
- 0:20He's just pulled up a chair to our table and he says he's sitting in his
- 0:25grandma's chair, which I absolutely love.
- 0:28But Bobby is a trapeze artist, actor, singer, dancer, acrobat,
- 0:33impressionist, author, aerial sequence choreographer, say that three times
- 0:37fast, stand up comic mixologist.
- 0:40I like that one especially if You're listening on a Friday or not.
- 0:46Maybe Monday.
- 0:47Maybe you need that on a Monday.
- 0:48Teacher and coach.
- 0:50And just behind the scenes, I can't mention the name of the show,
- 0:53but he is going to be on a well known show that we all know about.
- 0:59And we'll keep an eye and ear out for that one.
- 1:02And I'll let you know what's happening later on, as soon
- 1:04as we're able to release that.
- 1:06But Bobby wears many hats.
- 1:08And one of them is.
- 1:10His ability to share the stories of his life growing up in Pennsylvania on
- 1:16what he refers to as Ravioli Mountain.
- 1:19So with that, Bobby, welcome to our table, and I'm so glad that you're here.
- 1:25And, pick up a fork and let's dish in.
- 1:27Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Yes, I'm sitting in Nona's chair.
- 1:29This is her.
- 1:30This is her blue velvet chair from the living room.
- 1:32and, just behind me is the table that I learned how to, make pasta.
- 1:38And I was saying before, too, in our preach chat, cut fabric because my grandma
- 1:42taught me how to sew and make clothes.
- 1:44Nancy May: I want to hear about that table because you and I have talked
- 1:47about it, but I think kitchen tables, no matter how beautiful they are or how
- 1:53beaten up they are, we had a round beaten up table that it was our family table.
- 1:58Everything happened around the table, right?
- 2:00There's so many stories that happened around our kitchen
- 2:03tables, our dining tables.
- 2:05And I guess now we're Kitchen Islands, but yours is really incredibly special.
- 2:11And I want you to share the story of your grandma's kitchen
- 2:15table and what you learned there.
- 2:17Well, when I was growing up, the kitchen table was the center of the family.
- 2:22So my grandma was the matriarch.
- 2:24And so everything happened around that table, family dinners every Sunday.
- 2:29and I would, I, in the seventies, I lived with grandma for part of
- 2:33that time because she, she was ill.
- 2:35she had colon cancer.
- 2:36We didn't find out until much later, but she beat so I learned how to
- 2:40make pasta on that kitchen table.
- 2:42We would sit there and it was always during the holidays because when it was
- 2:46the colder months, she would make buckets of buckets of pasta and, ravioli and, And
- 2:54I, my job was I needed to make sure there was plenty of firewood in the living room.
- 3:00She had a, she had a wood burning stove then.
- 3:02She had regular heat, oil heat for the rest of the house, but the living
- 3:06room was, was heated by the fireplace.
- 3:09And it was my job to get firewood because when we would make the pasta and make
- 3:13the noodles, she would take every chair, from the dining table and straddle a
- 3:18broom handle covered with flour and drape the noodles over the chairs.
- 3:22And we had drying racks of chairs and noodles all around the living room.
- 3:28I can see this picture.
- 3:29the maze of the noodles, like getting in and out of the
- 3:32right?
- 3:33and the fireplace.
- 3:33Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Yep, and her Christmas tree would be up and I would
- 3:37fall asleep on the couch because it was my job to keep the fire going all night long.
- 3:41So she had this tiny little loveseat that faced the fireplace.
- 3:45So it was warm and I would fall asleep with the Christmas tree light
- 3:51on while all this pasta was drying.
- 3:55And then she would just give it away.
- 3:57She would make sauce.
- 3:58And she would jar it mostly at the end of the summer, which is what I'm doing now.
- 4:02I have a little bit of a family, garden in my backyard.
- 4:04My landlord let me use a little plot.
- 4:06And I've been growing tomatoes.
- 4:08And this year I grew San Marzano's.
- 4:10And so I've been making jars of sauce and sort of reliving that
- 4:14tradition with her through my grandma is giving everybody homemade pasta,
- 4:18And a jar of sauce at the holidays.
- 4:21And being a mixologist also, I was a bartender for many years.
- 4:25I also make my grandma's limoncello, fragolino, and blueberry limoncello.
- 4:31And I make little shots of those
- 4:32Nancy May: What's Fracolino?
- 4:34Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Is a strawberry liqueur, It's the same
- 4:36as, same process as limoncello, it's just made with strawberries.
- 4:39And she used to make it with pistachios, she used to make it with, uh, lemons,
- 4:43she used to mix different, flavors, like, depending, if there was a lot
- 4:47of blueberries, she'd make one with blueberries, strawberries, lemon.
- 4:50She'd always have lemon peel somewhere, there was an orange one she made.
- 4:54One year she made key lime.
- 4:55So it's basically an after dinner.
- 4:58Um, well, Italians drink it before the, before
- 5:00dinner,
- 5:01Nancy May: Well, I am familiar with limoncello.
- 5:03My mom and I were introduced to Limoncello on a trip that we took together in Rome.
- 5:08And we were in Sorrento overlooking the back hills and just in a little old
- 5:12hotel with some friends and the waves crashing on the, on the bottom rocks
- 5:17and sipping Limoncello in the afternoon.
- 5:20It was just delightful.
- 5:21Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: That's amazing.
- 5:23that is primarily how I grew up.
- 5:27grandma would make those.
- 5:28For the holidays, and they, and she would also, she made prosciutto as well,
- 5:32which is another, like, completely out there thing that, and she used to make
- 5:36her own soap, in fact, this is a bizarre story too, but there was a giant witch's
- 5:40cauldron on the front lawn, and I said, well, well, it's just for flowers, right?
- 5:44She said, no, we used to make soap in that.
- 5:46So when you make soap, you
- 5:48have to render the
- 5:49Nancy May: with lye and, and everything
- 5:50else.
- 5:51Yep.
- 5:51Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: So she, so that makes a horrible smell in your kitchen.
- 5:54So that's why they had the cauldron on the front lawn.
- 5:57They would render the fat in the front lawn
- 6:00Nancy May: So these are the, this was the fat from the farm animals
- 6:02that eventually were
- 6:03Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: that from the beef and beef and, and the pigs.
- 6:06Yeah.
- 6:06After the slaughter, we would get the fat back I wasn't born when the.
- 6:12So by the time I was born, the cauldron was filled with
- 6:14dirt and it had flowers in it.
- 6:16She turned it into a planter.
- 6:17Nancy May: appropriate setting for, I guess, clean soap at
- 6:21some point, right?
- 6:22Fresh
- 6:23Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: yeah, I remembered when we, you know, I
- 6:25mentioned to you before the house was foreclosed, and I remember going
- 6:29under the kitchen sink and finding the tiniest little ball of grandma's soap.
- 6:33I wanted to keep it, but it was so nasty.
- 6:36I just threw it away.
- 6:37As it was, but I remembered that it smelled really bad.
- 6:40It was really, I mean, she's gone 35 years.
- 6:43So it had to be there that long.
- 6:45It was so far back in the cabinet underneath.
- 6:48and it was a ball that she had.
- 6:50It was like the size of a,
- 6:51basketball.
- 6:52And
- 6:52Nancy May: hello, OxyClean, you know,
- 6:53Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Yeah, she would have a knife that she would shave
- 6:56bar, off and give them to people.
- 6:58And, you know, it was a good, it was decent soap.
- 7:01it didn't smell bad, but it didn't smell
- 7:02good either.
- 7:03But it was soap,
- 7:04Nancy May: it made you clean and that's, I guess why we have,
- 7:07lavender smelling soap.
- 7:08and maybe limoncello smelling soap.
- 7:10Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: You know, that would be awesome.
- 7:12Yeah, so I make my own lemon shell, but grandma had a shelf in the basement
- 7:15where she would put all the bottles.
- 7:17And, so that whatever she was making, and then when there was a dinner, it was
- 7:22a very strange house because going into the basement was a closet in the dining
- 7:28room, and you had to lift up a door inside the closet and go down into the basement.
- 7:33It was very old school.
- 7:35And there was one light and it was very dim, but there was a bottles and
- 7:38she would say, go get the fragolino, go get the lemon jello, whatever, but
- 7:41it kept it nice and cool down there.
- 7:43celebrate.
- 7:44Nancy May: That was life in Pennsylvania.
- 7:45I, I can hear the, squeaking open the
- 7:47Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: the creaky door.
- 7:48to the
- 7:49Nancy May: like, we'll be on days we should be making the glup,
- 7:51Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Yeah, exactly.
- 7:52Exactly.
- 7:53You know, it was always terrifying going down there.
- 7:55But then when I was really young, she was still making prosciutto.
- 7:58So they would be hanging in the basement, covered in cheesecloth.
- 8:02And, so it was very, very, you know, interesting
- 8:04way to grow up.
- 8:06Nancy May: it was a simpler time and I think, sometimes we look back at the
- 8:10times that our grandparents had, if we were fortunate to be, if they were
- 8:14fortunate or we were fortunate to have them around as we were growing up.
- 8:17Yet, some of those simple times were not so easy over the years.
- 8:21And you mentioned in, in a previous conversation, a story about your grandma's
- 8:27pig farm and the story of lucky the pig.
- 8:31I'd love to hear you share that because it's so important.
- 8:34And, we'll tell you, listen to the end of the show because there
- 8:38is a hook to the end of Lucky.
- 8:42That's all I'm going to say.
- 8:45Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: so Lucky the pig.
- 8:46Now this was a legend.
- 8:47I was either just born or wasn't born yet, when all of Lucky's story came
- 8:53out, but it was always a family legend.
- 8:54That's why in my, my cookbook that's coming out soon, please God help me,
- 8:58Nancy May: Just so people know that book is going to be called ravioli Mountain.
- 9:02Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Escape to Ravioli Mountain, a Memoir in food.
- 9:05Nancy May: and we'll share that information for you too, once,
- 9:08Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: It's just not ready yet.
- 9:10Nancy May: Well, we have our family tree food and stories.
- 9:11we'll send that to you.
- 9:12Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Well, so lucky.
- 9:14when my family moved to the mountains in Pennsylvania, post World War II
- 9:19was the hardest time for most families because we were wiped out as far as
- 9:24like finances because everybody had to contribute to the war effort.
- 9:27So food was rationed.
- 9:29I still have my mother's ration book from when they were
- 9:31rationing food.
- 9:33And it's a little book that you have stamps and one was
- 9:36for sugar, one was for flour.
- 9:37All the necessities were rationed and you only got a certain amount each week.
- 9:42And so I still have a ration book from the war.
- 9:44but That's how a family becomes successful, by taking care of
- 9:49themselves, living off the land.
- 9:50My grandmother had a garden, had a pig farm.
- 9:52Nancy May: Well, then now we take care of ourselves, right?
- 9:55Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: I mean, I do.
- 9:56I honestly wish I had more land.
- 9:57I would be farming every day,
- 9:59I just came from the garden, and I pulled a whole bunch of tomatoes that are still
- 10:02growing in my garden right now, but, so Lucky was the stud pig of the farm.
- 10:08was the only male pig that was allowed to be.
- 10:11in the barnyard with the ladies, if you know what I mean, and he also was
- 10:15the only, he was a trained pig, my grandmother trained him, he would,
- 10:19apparently he would sit, he would roll over, he would shake, um, and he knew
- 10:25how to open doors, he was very smart, and he would come into the house, And
- 10:29fall asleep in front of the fireplace, the same spot where I was making pasta.
- 10:35Nancy May: I'm presuming that Lucky was a clean pig, too.
- 10:38Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: you know, no pig is clean.
- 10:39However, when it came to him being in the house, apparently there was
- 10:43a rug that he was allowed to be on.
- 10:45and it was only certain times during the day.
- 10:47It wasn't like he just let himself in.
- 10:48However, there's a story.
- 10:50but, He was very smart and there was one time when grandma needed
- 10:54to go to the store and she left the front door unlocked, but
- 10:58it was very easy to get into.
- 11:00It's a very, you know, it's a country house, no one locked their doors.
- 11:02So Lucky let himself out of the pen, he walked to the front door, he opened
- 11:07the door and left the, left both the gate and the door open, went in front
- 11:11of the fireplace and passed out cold.
- 11:14Now, There was an entire litter of piglets that were born.
- 11:18Had to be 12, 13, maybe 15 piglets that were born.
- 11:22And so, the sow and the babies.
- 11:26decided to join Lucky in the living room.
- 11:28Nancy May: it was a family affair.
- 11:29Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: a family affair.
- 11:31He's still asleep the whole time, but the piglets got into everything.
- 11:35They opened the refrigerator door.
- 11:37They ate all the vegetables.
- 11:38they got into the cabinets that had their baking supply.
- 11:41So they're covered
- 11:42with molasses.
- 11:43They're covered with corn syrup.
- 11:45They're covered with flour and it's
- 11:48Nancy May: piglets, right?
- 11:49Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Oh
- 11:49my God, yes.
- 11:50and she comes home and Lucky's still passed out, but there are
- 11:54piglets scattered everywhere.
- 11:55There's flour everywhere.
- 11:57So, after that, Lucky wasn't allowed back in the house unless he was supervised.
- 12:01Let's put it that way.
- 12:02but he lived to be a very ripe old age.
- 12:04He was not bacon.
- 12:05He was not country ham.
- 12:07he actually passed away in his trough from what I remember.
- 12:10That was, he was mid, he was eating and he, very old pig, just made
- 12:14it across the rainbow bridge.
- 12:16Nancy May: Well, you know what?
- 12:17That's a very appropriate story where the pig dies in his food on the
- 12:22Family Tree Food and Stories podcast.
- 12:24Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: you know, I, here's the thing, I'm not a
- 12:26vegetarian, but I understand why people choose to become vegetarian.
- 12:30And I understand why we have certain, Stigmas around being meat eaters
- 12:37or growing up on a farm, you were desensitized to the slaughter, even
- 12:41though I would never saw the slaughter.
- 12:43We always sent the animals out to be processed.
- 12:45How so I never I mean, that was my mother's way of protecting us
- 12:49to, it was her way of like, it was a little bit of non reality
- 12:54there.
- 12:55Nancy May: don't need to see that.
- 12:56Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: no, no, and also It was the way that our
- 13:00family survived the winters.
- 13:02You know, if we had a cow, and the cow, would disappear.
- 13:05Oh, she ran away, you know, but then, but then a truck would
- 13:08arrive with, all these butcher
- 13:11Nancy May: Yeah, my sister has a farm in Oklahoma and they have cattle.
- 13:14and I said, just don't let me know the name of the cow.
- 13:17What I'm eating.
- 13:18Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: right, it's hard because that's like one of the hardest
- 13:20parts of farming the reality of.
- 13:23processing the animals into a viable source of meat.
- 13:27but there are ways to do it humanely.
- 13:29Nancy May: Well, and it's also a way to, you know, they say getting closer to
- 13:33your food, where everything comes from.
- 13:36it comes from the soil, it comes from the fields, it comes from
- 13:40the animal, and I hate to sound trite on, life is a big circle.
- 13:44But if you don't understand where your food is, then you're probably
- 13:48going to waste a lot more of it too over time and just not appreciate
- 13:52that something actually lived and died so that you could survive.
- 13:56Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: And I feel like that was the reality
- 13:58of post World War II families.
- 14:00the economy was terrible, and people came back from the war, and then they
- 14:04were like, well, what do I do now?
- 14:06and I found this out, there's a huge Italian, not, I don't know
- 14:10what you would call it, um, like, settlement in West Virginia.
- 14:14And why West Virginia?
- 14:15Well, West Virginia, turn of the century, there were coal mines.
- 14:18So Italian immigrants, Irish immigrants, because there's Italian and Irish
- 14:22in that area, they would go to West Virginia because the coal mines there in
- 14:26Pennsylvania, that was where you could make a living working in a coal mine.
- 14:30And you could provide for a family, you could buy land,
- 14:32and you could build a house.
- 14:34so, when I was working in West Virginia, God, 2017, Um, somebody
- 14:40brought me a pepperoni roll.
- 14:41And I'm like, what the heck is a pepperoni roll?
- 14:44I've never heard of such a thing.
- 14:45Well, so it's actually pizza
- 14:47dough.
- 14:48Nancy May: oh, I've seen it up
- 14:50in Connecticut and you
- 14:50roll the pieces of pepperoni in it and
- 14:52Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: yep, You take the pepperoni and cut it into a strip.
- 14:55And you roll it up, and you cut it into little rolls.
- 14:58And you bake it.
- 14:58And it's portable and it can be eaten hot or cold.
- 15:01So they could keep it in their overalls and take their
- 15:04food down into the coal mine.
- 15:06And that's, that was the way that the town created something that
- 15:11was easier for people to transport.
- 15:14Like you couldn't, yeah, it literally was pocket food.
- 15:17You wrap it in, settle in, in foil,
- 15:19put it in.
- 15:20And you know, you're down in a coal mine.
- 15:22Most of the time you stay down.
- 15:24So everybody would bring like their lunch pail, but it was
- 15:27filled with pepperoni rolls.
- 15:28I never had one until I was there.
- 15:29And they were absolutely delicious.
- 15:31And there's no sauce on it, so it's just pizza dough and pepperoni.
- 15:35So, it was just a fun little nugget of, Italian culture that I didn't know about.
- 15:41Um, because when I, you know, I grew up in the Poconos, in the Pennsylvania
- 15:45mountains, where, it's like a melting pot
- 15:47Nancy May: I don't think of Italians in the Poconos.
- 15:49I
- 15:50Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: No, it's not.
- 15:51Nancy May: the Poconos.
- 15:52Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Right, exactly.
- 15:53But that's where, that's where they settled, because
- 15:56they were able to find work.
- 15:57They were able to buy land.
- 15:59My great grandfather and my grandfather bought this huge plot
- 16:02of land on the top of a mountain.
- 16:05And my great grandfather sold the plots of land to each one of his children.
- 16:09He had 13 children.
- 16:10and he sold it for 1, and I still have one of the deeds.
- 16:13Because in Pennsylvania law, you can't gift land.
- 16:16Um, land, you have to at least pay something.
- 16:19So they, each person bought a plot of land for 1 and they
- 16:23all built their homes there.
- 16:25So my grandmother's house was built right across the street from her father
- 16:29and those houses are still there.
- 16:31But unfortunately, after the foreclosure in
- 16:332009, um, they've just been sitting there rotting, which is.
- 16:38breaks
- 16:38Nancy May: it's, heartbreaking to see old homes and the history and the
- 16:41stories and what has gone on behind those closed doors that you don't know about.
- 16:46we're in a small town in Florida, in Brooksville, and you see some of those
- 16:50old houses that That are now being restored and loved and taken care of.
- 16:55And it's so exciting to see new young families who are truly
- 17:00interested in community and coming together and sitting at the table.
- 17:04And.
- 17:04Being families again,
- 17:06as
- 17:06opposed to,
- 17:07Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: That's what, and that's my message from my book.
- 17:09My book is stories like Lucky the Pig.
- 17:11There's stories about, being lost as a toddler and, then being found
- 17:16under the kitchen table with a pound of butter and all the family dogs.
- 17:19You know, little stories, little nuggets of my life growing up that I remembered,
- 17:24and they're in between the recipes.
- 17:25And I have all my grandma's recipes in here.
- 17:28I just made her sauce again.
- 17:29Like I said, I'm making them
- 17:30for the holidays.
- 17:31and I
- 17:32make little
- 17:32shots
- 17:33for everybody.
- 17:34Um, so this
- 17:36Nancy May: neighbor because I
- 17:37would probably
- 17:38not leave
- 17:38Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: something.
- 17:39Nancy May: I'm not
- 17:39sure I'd be able to get up off of
- 17:40the chair with all the
- 17:41Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: it's,
- 17:42Nancy May: I'd
- 17:42probably be eating
- 17:43Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: because I run a trapeze school, I have family dinners
- 17:47with my staff here every now and then.
- 17:49So, because there are a lot of dietary restrictions, so I'm learning about
- 17:52how to make things gluten free, and how to still make, how to still
- 17:56make a gluten free pasta
- 17:57be
- 17:58delicious.
- 17:58Italian.
- 17:59And exactly.
- 18:01So I did that for, for them.
- 18:03And I had like an entire gluten free baked ziti and I made up a recipe,
- 18:09actually, butternut squash baked ziti.
- 18:11One of the best recipes I've
- 18:12ever
- 18:13Nancy May: Well, you're going to have to come back and we're going to go over
- 18:15some of these other stories because the whole gluten free, movement, is big.
- 18:19And there are lots of stories on how we tweak
- 18:22grandma's
- 18:22recipes.
- 18:23Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: I, yeah.
- 18:24And I learned so much by doing that, by just like check, trying different
- 18:28pastas, you know, looking at the way people make bread without regular flour.
- 18:32and, this is one thing and I'll leave you with, my mother always
- 18:35said, if you come away from my table hungry, it's your own damn fault.
- 18:41She always had something for everyone.
- 18:44And that's what I, I, that is my legacy, because
- 18:48anybody comes to my house, if they have a dietary restriction,
- 18:51I will have something for them,
- 18:53Nancy May: They are truly a guest in your home and a guest at your table.
- 18:56Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: Absolutely.
- 18:57Thank
- 18:57Nancy May: Yeah, that is, that's a beautiful story.
- 18:59They're beautiful stories, Bobby.
- 19:01I love
- 19:02Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: you.
- 19:03Nancy May: Well, on that note, thank you so much, Bobby, for being here at, I say,
- 19:07our virtual table at Family Tree Food and Stories, because family is really.
- 19:11the heart of where we all started,
- 19:14And like Sylvia and I like to say, every meal is a story
- 19:18and every story is a feast.
- 19:19Bobby Hedglin-Taylor: That's beautiful
- 19:20Nancy May: Take care.
- 19:21Bye Bye
- 19:21We'll see you soon.