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oj simpson & valentine's day · Top Five

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  Speaker 1: Go all right, we rolling?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so. Can y'all hear this?
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  Speaker 1: Hello? Hello? Okay, episode three we are back.
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  Speaker 3: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: Give it up for consistency.
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  Speaker 1: Give it up for us for doing what we said
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  Speaker 1: we would do. I am Kaylin sitting across from me
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  Speaker 1: as Jason. This is the Top five podcast. Hello. Hello,
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  Speaker 1: we are Bessies co workers on a morning radio show,
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  Speaker 1: and you know we're just chilling.
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  Speaker 2: I guess I feel energized.
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  Speaker 3: This goes out on Friday, However, we are recording earlier
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  Speaker 3: in the week, and so I feel way more energized.
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  Speaker 3: I feel like our last episode we had to reschedule
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  Speaker 3: because of travel and such, and it was you were
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  Speaker 3: talking to a shell of a person. So I feel
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  Speaker 3: much more fulfilled right now.
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  Speaker 1: Good fulfilled? Oh god, I can't remember the last time
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  Speaker 1: I was fulfilled. I've been poured into Yeah, okay, good. Well,
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  Speaker 1: let's see how long that lasts this week. I'd be honest.
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  Speaker 1: I didn't like the last episode.
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  Speaker 2: Well I didn't, okay.
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  Speaker 3: Also, like, I'll say something about me too, is I
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  Speaker 3: I love that you listen. I cannot go back and
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  Speaker 3: listen to anything that I do, whether it be a
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  Speaker 3: podcast or a show like like if I record a
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  Speaker 3: show and it airs on the weekends, like I cannot
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  Speaker 3: listen to it.
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  Speaker 1: So I agree, and that's probably why I didn't like
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  Speaker 1: the last episode. Okay, but I will say I really
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  Speaker 1: liked and I don't like listening to myself. I think
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  Speaker 1: that's pretty normal. But I do have certain crutches that
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  Speaker 1: I use that I'm probably more aware of than other
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  Speaker 1: people are aware of, and it's just because of things
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  Speaker 1: that I'm trying to avoid doing on air. So when
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  Speaker 1: I listen, I think I'm maybe more critical than someone
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  Speaker 1: else would be. But I just felt like I am
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  Speaker 1: very adhd If you couldn't tell, it's like things are
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  Speaker 1: all over. But I felt like I was just like
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  Speaker 1: screaming at you the entire time.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't think I didn't feel screamed, scrummed, scrummed.
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  Speaker 1: Da scrummed down. Yeah, And I just felt like, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: we both were like tired, but I just felt like
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't speaking very clearly. I was saying I'm a lot.
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  Speaker 1: It just I didn't I didn't like it.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I I mean, this is getting very you know,
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  Speaker 3: close to it, But I think like the point of
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  Speaker 3: this is like we're not supposed to be perfect, right,
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  Speaker 3: We're just supposed to be ourselves, so you can like
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  Speaker 3: have crushes and you can do whatever you want it true.
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  Speaker 3: This is this is a lawless land, this podcast top
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  Speaker 3: five land. So you just you say to your heart's content, no,
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  Speaker 3: that should be should be your number one through three
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  Speaker 3: on your list of two five things.
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  Speaker 2: That you love.
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  Speaker 1: I need to stop saying what.
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  Speaker 2: Do I say? A lot? You noticed?
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  Speaker 1: I don't notice this ever with you, but you have
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  Speaker 1: said that you want to stop saying like I do?
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  Speaker 3: Well, Yeah, someone called me out. They said that it
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  Speaker 3: was unprofessional. The amount of times I say like, but
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  Speaker 3: do I say.
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  Speaker 2: It a lot?
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  Speaker 1: I think we a lot of us do I do?
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  Speaker 1: It's something I want to stop. I want to stop
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  Speaker 1: with the likes, and I want to stop with the alms.
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  Speaker 1: It's very hard for me to put a sentence together,
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  Speaker 1: so sometimes I need a moment.
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  Speaker 2: I'm lucky I made it this far. Okay, I just.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't like it, and I'm sure you're not supposed to
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  Speaker 1: call that out, but yeah, I just just I'm just
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  Speaker 1: being honest. I didn't love it and it was because
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  Speaker 1: of me, but working people loved it. The last episode. Yeah, okay,
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  Speaker 1: because I promoted on purpose what I hated it.
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  Speaker 2: You're sidelining our own podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Did you share it? I never seen you once.
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  Speaker 2: Share what is tagged of me?
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  Speaker 1: Oh okay, mister, you could go in your little app
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  Speaker 1: and share.
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  Speaker 3: But someone listened and they sent me a list of
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  Speaker 3: jail shows I should watch.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so one person liked it. I'm just saying, I
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  Speaker 1: hope we can. I hope I can do that this week.
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  Speaker 1: I'm speaking.
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  Speaker 2: I know there's a bar that I need to hit.
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  Speaker 1: I ruined it. Well, first of all, you don't share
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  Speaker 1: it either way. You wait for me to do it
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  Speaker 1: and wipe your ass, so you be sharing it too.
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  Speaker 1: But I was just ashamed of.
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  Speaker 2: My just show up.
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  Speaker 1: One thing about me is if you want to calm
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  Speaker 1: at me with some hate, just know that I've already
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  Speaker 1: said it to myself five times in the mirror that morning.
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  Speaker 3: So do your hundreds of thousands of followers. We're gonna
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  Speaker 3: go straight from episode one to three.
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  Speaker 1: Hundreds of thousands or episode I'm putting it up there.
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  Speaker 1: I'm leaving it out there. But I was ashamed of myself.
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  Speaker 1: Oh no, I am unmedicated, and I just didn't like it.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to learn from it and go better.
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  Speaker 1: I will say I really enjoyed the first episode.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So I hope future you that's listening to this
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  Speaker 2: right now is enjoying yourself.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, I hope so too, because I don't know. How
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  Speaker 1: was your Valentine Day?
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  Speaker 2: It was good?
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  Speaker 3: Uh we went to our normal taco spot. Yeah, went
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  Speaker 3: to Peppies. Saw my girl Ashley, which is our server.
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  Speaker 3: Nothing super, So I sent him the cookies, and uh,
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  Speaker 3: he works. My boyfriend works in the gay Rage. He
• 5:05
  Speaker 3: has his own mechanic shop. Yes, he's a game mechanic.
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  Speaker 3: He's my little unicorn. He's the straightest gay man ever
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  Speaker 3: or no, yes, straightest gay man ever. Oh yeah, he's
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  Speaker 3: very straight presenting, and so I sent him. I sent
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  Speaker 3: him Crumble every Valentine's Day and usually for his birthday too,
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  Speaker 3: just because he really likes that. And so I did
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  Speaker 3: that and he was like, uh, you, there's a delivery
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  Speaker 3: here for you, because I guess, like I put on
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  Speaker 3: the thing, like I put in the instructions, this is
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  Speaker 3: a Valentine's Day present, Like it's for Mike, like the
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  Speaker 3: name of the shop, like go there and like deliver
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  Speaker 3: whatever and he's like, they put your name on the card.
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  Speaker 1: You damn. I was like shit.
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  Speaker 3: So then I actually went there later because I had
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  Speaker 3: to get my car serviced, so I did that.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get an oil change.
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  Speaker 3: But then later we went to Peppi's and uh, let's
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  Speaker 3: see what did I get? I got, Oh, I got
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  Speaker 3: my favorite. They asked if we wanted the Keeso. I
• 6:12
  Speaker 3: was not that hungry, so I said no to Keeso
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  Speaker 3: that day.
• 6:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
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  Speaker 3: But then I did do my burrito bowl, which is
• 6:20
  Speaker 3: like my new thing. I make little nachos and whatever
• 6:22
  Speaker 3: I had. I actually had a second Margarita. I was lit.
• 6:26
  Speaker 3: I did second because after one, I'm like already messed up.
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  Speaker 3: So I had a second one, like.
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  Speaker 1: One Margarita will do it too.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, the on the rocks, like I'll feel
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  Speaker 2: it after one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: And then she was like it's Valentaine's Day. Do you
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  Speaker 3: another one? And I'm like, I'll do a little one.
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  Speaker 3: She's like, well, they're the same price as the medium one.
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  Speaker 3: It's like oh no. I was like Dad's gonna be mad,
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  Speaker 3: and Mike's like, no, get him another one. So we
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  Speaker 3: got another one, and then we did a tequila shot
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  Speaker 3: and she wanted to do more shots. I was like,
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  Speaker 3: I just can't like it, Like after you if you
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  Speaker 3: didn't listen to the last episode, I was, I had
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  Speaker 3: a little stomach bog, and so I'm a little leery
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  Speaker 3: of what I'm putting in my in my belly since then,
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  Speaker 3: just because I'm not one hundred percent sure we're back
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  Speaker 3: to one hundred percent. So it's like, I don't want
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  Speaker 3: to be sick all day tomorrow.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, did that came home and passed out?
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  Speaker 1: Did anyone get LUCKI or no?
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  Speaker 2: No?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, yeah, no, sounds like a normal Valentine's Day.
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  Speaker 3: I know, Yeah, Sunday morning, so it was a whole
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  Speaker 3: nother day. Yeah, before anything happened, Yeah, thirty six hours.
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  Speaker 1: But I wouldn't want to after Mexican food either.
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  Speaker 3: I just yeah, I just I also like, I'm not
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  Speaker 3: a napper, so like obviously we get up very early
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  Speaker 3: for our job. My arm goes off at three am
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  Speaker 3: every day, and so I didn't nap. And then once
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  Speaker 3: I get to Margarita's and a shot at tequila in me,
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  Speaker 3: like my eyes are closed, girl, like it is doors
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  Speaker 3: are shut locked. Yeah, like we are in bed yeah,
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  Speaker 3: like whatever. So, yeah, I put on live PD or
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  Speaker 3: whatever it's called. Now I'm patrol live and just pass out.
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  Speaker 1: That sounds like the perfect Valentine's It really was.
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  Speaker 2: I'm happy with it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, and she should be like my life is very boring,
• 8:09
  Speaker 3: but I like it that way, like I I don't.
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  Speaker 1: Know, that's good, right, yeah, I mean we did the same,
• 8:13
  Speaker 1: we went out to eat it. It was, it was good.
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  Speaker 1: I left him in the morning. We have an alcohol
• 8:20
  Speaker 1: plug who shall not be named, who can get and
• 8:24
  Speaker 1: I still paid for it. But who can get any
• 8:25
  Speaker 1: kind of wild bottles you could imagine street liquor. I
• 8:30
  Speaker 1: will not reveal my sources, but there's a specific he likes,
• 8:32
  Speaker 1: eh Taylor, And so I got whiskey. It's a whiskey.
• 8:36
  Speaker 1: We're both whiskey. Yeah. Yeah. If you just look at him,
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  Speaker 1: you know he drinks whiskey and you wouldn't think that
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  Speaker 1: about me, but I do too. But it's eh Taylor,
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  Speaker 1: and I got him like a boogie bottle of it. Again,
• 8:46
  Speaker 1: still paid for it because he was like, I know
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  Speaker 1: where you got this bottle. I'm like, excuse you, sir,
• 8:50
  Speaker 1: But I left him that in the morning in a
• 8:52
  Speaker 1: card and some little heart thingies and his favorite snacks.
• 8:56
  Speaker 1: I was just like whatever, and then he we are
• 8:58
  Speaker 1: both people who just prepare actually feel bad and like
• 9:01
  Speaker 1: think we're not doing enough and want to do things
• 9:02
  Speaker 1: for other people. So then he felt sad that he
• 9:04
  Speaker 1: didn't leave me anything, and I was like, sir, you
• 9:06
  Speaker 1: left me a handwritten love note in the door. Yes,
• 9:09
  Speaker 1: which he regularly does, and that's not for me. But
• 9:11
  Speaker 1: the reason I did something in the morning is because
• 9:13
  Speaker 1: I knew he was taking me to dinner, and I
• 9:15
  Speaker 1: don't like when people do things for me. It makes
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  Speaker 1: me very uncomfortable. So I was like, I just want
• 9:20
  Speaker 1: to do a little something for him because I know
• 9:21
  Speaker 1: he's gonna pay and it's going to be this big date.
• 9:24
  Speaker 1: But then he came home with some really boogie perfume
• 9:27
  Speaker 1: for me, and I was like, so I did something.
• 9:29
  Speaker 1: We don't do gifts. We're not doing gifts, just this
• 9:33
  Speaker 1: tom Ford uh boogie perfume. Okay, I forget. I have
• 9:37
  Speaker 1: the Taylor Swift one two. I think Santal blush is
• 9:41
  Speaker 1: what Taylor Swift wears. I have two of those. I
• 9:42
  Speaker 1: bought it, yes or asked for it for Christmas without
• 9:44
  Speaker 1: smelling it. Just because if Taylor wears it, I'm gonna
• 9:47
  Speaker 1: wet it. It doesn't matter. So he got me another
• 9:49
  Speaker 1: tom Ford one, which again like way too extend, Like
• 9:51
  Speaker 1: you're already taking me to dinner. You're crazy for that
• 9:54
  Speaker 1: very appreciated no, And so then he had two reservations
• 9:58
  Speaker 1: wanted like a speak easy cocktail lounge, which is very
• 10:02
  Speaker 1: funny because I didn't know straightman don't like if you've
• 10:05
  Speaker 1: been somewhere with someone.
• 10:07
  Speaker 2: Else, oh like on a previous date.
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  Speaker 1: Well, that's where their mind goes. I had just mentioned, oh,
• 10:12
  Speaker 1: great toys, and he was like, you know, and I've
• 10:16
  Speaker 1: had the situation happen to me before.
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  Speaker 3: Right, there are so many places, but like so many things,
• 10:20
  Speaker 3: we had to put it through that filter, right.
• 10:22
  Speaker 1: And I said to him, I'm a woman about town,
• 10:23
  Speaker 1: which didn't make me sound great, but I was just saying, like,
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  Speaker 1: I have been here for ten years in this city,
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  Speaker 1: and yes, I've gone other places with other people. And
• 10:31
  Speaker 1: it was two dudes that I was there with, not
• 10:33
  Speaker 1: two dudes I was dating, but at the same time
• 10:36
  Speaker 1: that two guys. No, but I've noticed, like streatman don't
• 10:39
  Speaker 1: like to say if you've been somewhere before I think
• 10:40
  Speaker 1: they want to show you something new, and then when
• 10:42
  Speaker 1: you say that, they automatically assume.
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  Speaker 2: And he is like a hunter gatherer.
• 10:46
  Speaker 1: Probably he didn't get mad at me. He was just like,
• 10:49
  Speaker 1: I think he was bummed. I had been there before,
• 10:51
  Speaker 1: and I think then your mind goes, well, I'm sure
• 10:53
  Speaker 1: you were here on a date, which I again it
• 10:56
  Speaker 1: was like guy I was dating and his friends, so
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  Speaker 1: I wasn't really a date, but I had been there before.
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  Speaker 1: It was wonderful. We had deep fried saltines at this bar.
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  Speaker 3: Saltine saltines. Oh, I thought you said like taltines. I
• 11:07
  Speaker 3: was like, what's that.
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  Speaker 1: I can't talk. Okay, saltines.
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  Speaker 2: Saltines.
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  Speaker 1: That was on the menu.
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  Speaker 2: I saltines.
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  Speaker 3: So saltines are already well they're baked, probably right, but
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  Speaker 3: they're already like crunchy, like as if they were fried.
• 11:19
  Speaker 3: So they're like breaded.
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  Speaker 1: They're deep fried. Let me see if I can find
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  Speaker 1: the photo. No, not breaded. They were just darker in color,
• 11:25
  Speaker 1: but they were on the menu. I was like, I
• 11:26
  Speaker 1: have to try this because we just got snackies at
• 11:29
  Speaker 1: the cocktail or here. They're like darker, Oh, looked like
• 11:35
  Speaker 1: gram crackers. Yes, and it came with that pimento cheese
• 11:39
  Speaker 1: and olive. It was so good.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, I would just put that whole plate
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  Speaker 2: in my mouth.
• 11:44
  Speaker 3: Oh and someone got looks like, we have to put
• 11:46
  Speaker 3: this photo out, but it looks like is that a
• 11:49
  Speaker 3: cucumber or something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. We we both were eyeing two drinks, so we
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  Speaker 1: each got one and then he obviously took the shittier
• 11:55
  Speaker 1: one when we got them, but one was tequila the
• 11:59
  Speaker 1: cucumber one, and one was mescal. Do you like mezcal?
• 12:02
  Speaker 2: I never had it.
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  Speaker 1: It's very like.
• 12:05
  Speaker 2: It.
• 12:05
  Speaker 1: I want to say it's in the same family, but
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true, but they always think
• 12:08
  Speaker 1: of them similarly. But it's very smoky, so if you
• 12:11
  Speaker 1: like smoky, almost like sometimes chemically, but not in a
• 12:15
  Speaker 1: bad I don't know smoky taste. So anyway, so we
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: went there appetizers, then we went to another really good
• 12:22
  Speaker 1: restaurant planned plans, I know, and he said for months
• 12:25
  Speaker 1: he's had these and I'm like, you're crazy for that.
• 12:28
  Speaker 1: But it was one of the biggest snowstorms.
• 12:31
  Speaker 3: Ever, so we're like, yeah, it came down really bad
• 12:34
  Speaker 3: during dinner and we were like, oh shit.
• 12:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah. We went inside. So the first bar, the cocktail bar,
• 12:39
  Speaker 1: we went inside. No snow came outside after the cocktail
• 12:42
  Speaker 1: bar because it's dark in there. There was snow everywhere,
• 12:45
  Speaker 1: and we were walking to dinner like judging through snow.
• 12:48
  Speaker 1: And actually we were walking to dinner and the spot
• 12:50
  Speaker 1: where we first kissed was there. Oh, so he took
• 12:53
  Speaker 1: me by there. I know, so sweet. I didn't remember,
• 12:58
  Speaker 1: like I thought it was way different because I was drunk,
• 13:00
  Speaker 1: but he was like, come here, and so we kissed there.
• 13:03
  Speaker 1: That was very cute, and then we had dinner. But
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: we throughout the night we were having like very serious
• 13:08
  Speaker 1: conversations because we haven't really caught up. We were traveling
• 13:10
  Speaker 1: all week, and so some conversations required tears. I know,
• 13:17
  Speaker 1: I'm serious. I know, so like the waiters must have thought.
• 13:19
  Speaker 1: But some of them were happy tears some of them,
• 13:21
  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's just very funny. It
• 13:22
  Speaker 1: was a funny Valentine's date to like have these yeah. Yeah,
• 13:27
  Speaker 1: but it was good. It was good. And we also
• 13:29
  Speaker 1: couldn't hook up because of my duty is so very
• 13:32
  Speaker 1: much and I was a shell of my like I
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: was like, I want to go home, I want to lay.
• 13:36
  Speaker 2: It would be having sex with not me.
• 13:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not present, no yeah, no, which I mean fine,
• 13:41
  Speaker 1: but we just couldn't fine whatever. But yeah, so that
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  Speaker 1: was our night. But it was very nice all the planning.
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  Speaker 1: I like Valentine's Day. I don't put a lot of
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  Speaker 1: pressure on it. I just think it's fun to go
• 13:55
  Speaker 1: out to dinner and have a special occasion.
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  Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm.
• 13:58
  Speaker 3: Not we my boyfriend is channeling Shane and he actually
• 14:03
  Speaker 3: shouted him out and I was gonna tell you this,
• 14:04
  Speaker 3: but then I figured we would wait. We were at
• 14:06
  Speaker 3: dinner on Saturday night. We went and got pizza and
• 14:09
  Speaker 3: he like turned his head and like he's letting his
• 14:12
  Speaker 3: neck beard grow, and I was like, oh, I was like,
• 14:16
  Speaker 3: what are you doing?
• 14:16
  Speaker 2: Like what is this?
• 14:17
  Speaker 3: Because I like some scruff, but I'm not like a okay,
• 14:20
  Speaker 3: so I like when there's like a long beard. Yeah,
• 14:22
  Speaker 3: but like it's like the process to get there is gross, right,
• 14:25
  Speaker 3: like especially like on the neck, Like to me, that
• 14:27
  Speaker 3: grosses me out. And he's like and he is gray obviously,
• 14:30
  Speaker 3: which I'm fine with. I like salt and pepper anyway,
• 14:32
  Speaker 3: but like it was like it's like long, but it's
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know how to describe it. It's like lays,
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: but it's long. It's not like out, it's like long
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: right than So I was like, what are you doing?
• 14:41
  Speaker 3: And he's like, I'm gonna look like Shane and I'm
• 14:44
  Speaker 3: like okay, So I'm like, like your beard, the beard
• 14:48
  Speaker 3: goals are coming through.
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he's my boyfriend, has a very big beard. First
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: person I've ever did with that size of a beard.
• 14:55
  Speaker 2: But he doesn't always have my hand in it.
• 14:57
  Speaker 1: It's yeah, no, I I do a little tugs times.
• 15:00
  Speaker 1: It's it's an art though. He's at the He gets
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: his beer trimmed once every two weeks.
• 15:05
  Speaker 2: I think, like someone trims it.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he goes. He does that. He shaves the segs
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: of his head, so it's very it's very much. I mean,
• 15:11
  Speaker 1: that's way more than I get my hair done. Hat
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know. He's like the short like sides
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: haircut and then the it's long on top and he
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: has curly hair. So it's cute. It's like a little
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it's like a foux hawk or what.
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: But yeah, that's Valentine's Day.
• 15:29
  Speaker 3: Yeah, wasn't anything to write. This weekend was very the
• 15:33
  Speaker 3: for me. Yeah, just like I needed to just lay.
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: I needed to, but I felt like I couldn't because
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: we spent one of the days in the emergency room.
• 15:44
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but.
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Maybe i'll maybe I'll use that for my crash out
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: of the week or touch on that for the crash
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: out of the week. But yeah, he ours in a
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: big city, are or wild and he's okay. We went
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: for my boyfriend, question mark we have. We left with
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: some more questions, but he's fine as we right now,
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: so that's good. But yeah, I'll save that maybe.
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well mine's medical too, so well okay.
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I but I wanted to lay the entire
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: weekend and I really couldn't.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I need to like adult, like my I can't
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: stand like coming back from a trip and like my
• 16:23
  Speaker 3: boyfriend will not touch the fucking laundry to save his life.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: I'll nother just like not wear pants then wash them.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: He actually bought six new pairs of pants on Amazon,
• 16:32
  Speaker 3: probably because his Worldney was away. Yeah, so I just
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: need like every hamper was like overflowing, Like I just
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: needed to like do that, you know, like get my
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: life back on track.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we had are so chaotic. Same. We had Monday
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: off and I did all the laundry in the entire house.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: I don't. I do not want him to do my laundry.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: He so desperately wants to. And I have so many
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: things that I hang dry, and I'm like, just don't like.
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: And it's I'm not a huge gender person, but truly,
• 17:01
  Speaker 1: if you deep clean the oven, bath and toilet, I
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: would like to do the dishes in the laundry. And
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I know that sounds like I'm a housewife in the
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: nineteen fifties, but I don't mind doing those chores and
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: I would like to just take those over if you
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: can do the ones I hate.
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, some chores I like. Some chores I don't like.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: I will clean anything, but I will not I hate
• 17:21
  Speaker 3: clean the bathtub for some reason.
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like I just like.
• 17:24
  Speaker 3: And also like he comes home obviously he's a mechanic,
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: so he comes home dirty as well, right, and like
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: gets in the bathtub, but now to the point where
• 17:31
  Speaker 3: he uses dial as like.
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: The first wash, so but like it.
• 17:39
  Speaker 3: Works because like it gets all the grease and everything
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: off for dishes. Yes, like what they use on the
• 17:44
  Speaker 3: baby ducks and the oil spills, that's what he's using
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: to So he'll like wash his arms and everything with
• 17:50
  Speaker 3: dial first to get all the like grease and stuff off,
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: but in the interim it then cleans the shot work too,
• 18:00
  Speaker 3: like so like there are like there aren't like grease
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: like black grease stains on whatever on the shower because
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: of course we have a white tub and shower because
• 18:08
  Speaker 3: it takes all the dirt and grime with him, and
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: then he does like body wash after that.
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: Okay, are we okay with the camera? Is there?
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: I don't care about it works, so moving right on
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: you to worry.
• 18:19
  Speaker 2: About the impact of this like it's working and I
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: don't have to clean the shower.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Oh I love that for you. And I'm not gonna
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: say I'm not gonna say shit. And you are booked,
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: busy and blast, so I want to we can't talk
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: for hours on end this time. I want to get
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: into our top five because you have a meeting after this,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: and you told me about it, and now I get
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: anxious for you to have a meeting. Sorry, I didn't
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: mean to make you anxious, No, I just I mean
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: it's good. I need to be short winded, and I
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: wanted to cover this at the beginning. But it's called
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: top five because we each pick our top five favorite things.
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, god, yeah, I got it.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I just it was one of my things that
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I wanted to, you know, sort of recap. These are
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: all very inside notes that I have for myself.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: We're not getting a share this time.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Well we know we're not getting one from you, but
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: I will share this episode.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: Hey, great, and I will share it as long as
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: you're tag me.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, the link doesn't work. The reason I
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: don't do it is because the link doesn't work.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: Okay, you repost the link with a link. Yeah, in
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: the so I'll repost and then add a link.
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: Okay, if you need me to tag you so you
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: can post it, just remember to add the link.
• 19:28
  Speaker 2: I will do that.
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, you go, first link.
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: So the first thing I'm obsessed with is oh J. Simpson.
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: I know, and I'm late.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: I'm late.
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I know, I'm late to the bandwagon.
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: However, that's the way I'm looking at you. Why are
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: you obsessed with? Okay Simpson?
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: Not him?
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: No, okay, not him is like a being the case. Okay,
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: I'm very infatuated with right now, and I know I'm
• 19:53
  Speaker 3: late because there's been a million documentaries and a million
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: like scripted shows like all this stuff. However I watch
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: any of that, okay until recently. Okay, I knew about
• 20:05
  Speaker 3: it obviously, just from like pop culture. I don't remember
• 20:09
  Speaker 3: physically watching The White Bronco, but it is ingrained in
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: my brain, as I think probably every other American at
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: that time remembers The White Bronco. I think ninety four,
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: ninety five. Okay, so I was like five. I was
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: going to say so, but like I'm familiar with it,
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: of okay, and like I'm familiar with the Kardashian of
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: it all, like I whatever that is like the tip
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: of my like whatever. And then when that show came
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: out that I think was the scripted one that everyone
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: was like aout, yes, and Marcia the woman played Marshaw
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: whatever her name is, and so like I remember that, yes,
• 20:47
  Speaker 3: all right, yes that show. I didn't see it, but
• 20:51
  Speaker 3: like I was in the orbit, so like I retained
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: some stuff, right. But then on our trip to Salt
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: Lake again, I had to fly different flight than.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: You, so I don't remind me, right.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: I watched the latest documentary that's on Netflix right now.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you mentioned a new OJ documentary.
• 21:08
  Speaker 2: New one why.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know, he allegedly did it.
• 21:12
  Speaker 3: I know, and I thought that way until I watched
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: this documentary. So I think, like this documentary was made
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: in a way to show the other side, right, and
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: so me not knowing I was and I do think
• 21:29
  Speaker 3: I think he did it. Still, so I wouldn't go
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: against that I think he did it. But now it
• 21:35
  Speaker 3: made me look at court cases differently because of all
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: these reasons that the defense showed why there was bias
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: towards OJ and so now my biggest question in my
• 21:49
  Speaker 3: life was like, Okay, how all this evidence and why
• 21:54
  Speaker 3: did they find him not guilty?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Like what we didn't fit right because the.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: Glove didn't fit.
• 21:58
  Speaker 3: But that wasn't even like the biggest part, but like
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: the jur I was like, how could the jurs sit
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: there and be like not guilty?
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: Like what could have went into that? And again me
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: not knowing the ins and outs, Like I didn't.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: Know, right, so you learned about like the race wars
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: and everything. Yeah, yeah, like all.
• 22:10
  Speaker 3: That stuff that was going on, but then also like
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: the racist cops that were like involved in the and
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: so then it made me start thinking like and I
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: felt back because I was like oh, this guy who
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: started the investigation. I was like I could fuck with
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: this guy, Like I like this guy, and then he
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: turned out to be a huge racist, and so I'm like,
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: oh my god, so like.
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: My baby, everywhere they be.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: Your own people, and so I'm like, holy shit. And
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: then like seeing all that, I was mind blown.
• 22:34
  Speaker 3: Like I was like, now I went from being like
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: what stupid people saw all this stuff and was like
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: he didn't do it just because a glove didn't fit
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: over a latex glove that they made him put on beforehand, right,
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: So I'm like that's like, how could that? Then it
• 22:53
  Speaker 3: turned to be like, Okay, I do think he did it. However,
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: the prosecutor should have had a better case and should
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: have had their shit like sealed up better, because you
• 23:04
  Speaker 3: shouldn't be able to be clocked in every like what
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: is it? Uh, not advice, but every like witness and
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: every piece of evidence that comes in the other side
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: has concrete details of why that shouldn't be counted or
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: it could have gone the other way whatever, Like y'all
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: didn't do a good enough job to like seal that
• 23:23
  Speaker 3: because you have all this evidence, but you didn't present
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: it in a way that like whatever. So I was like,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: now I can sort of see like how the conspiracy theorists, Like,
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: now I get it. I don't still don't see how
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: you think you didn't do it, because that's but.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Like now I'm starting to understand.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: And they had a jur on there that got to
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: talk about like why they She was just like there
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: wasn't enough, like there was no piece of evidence that
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: couldn't be explained another way throughout actual DNA fact like
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: whatever that they presented that could have been seen a
• 23:59
  Speaker 3: different way. And so I was like, oh, like that
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: makes sense. So I've just been like mind blown, like
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: even like right now, like I'm having chills just thinking
• 24:06
  Speaker 3: about it because I'm like it just seems like something
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: that you thought your whole life is like completely a
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: different way. And that's like where that I was like, okay,
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: like this is fucked up.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the case was very nuanced, very very nuanced, and
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: it's I don't know if it was like the first
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: of its kind to be this huge because there were
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: so many factors. Right. I actually saw Johnny cockran I'm
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: sure you learned about him walking down Rodeo Drive maddenly
• 24:29
  Speaker 1: before he died that's great, Like my one celebrity, I
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: saw him like crazy, I'm like, that's not who I
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: want to see when I came to La. But just
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: as a little girl, I wasn't you know what I mean.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: My dad's like, that's Johnny Cockran. I'm like, who the
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: hell is that? But I I did see him one time.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: But yeah, there's so many layers, I think because it
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: does involve the kardash like Robert Kardashian and then his
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: wife was friends with like just all of it. It
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: seemed like one of the first cases to be that
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: people were so enthralled and in that way. And I'm
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: sure there were others, but it just seemed different. It
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: was very nuanced from everything I've learned about it. Obviously
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: I was I'm a little younger than you, and so
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: I was too young, but I knew I watched the
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: Fax thing. I actually listened recently to maybe it was
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: the First Degree that I talked about last week, but
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: an episode about Ron Goldman. It was right because he's
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: like they call him the forgotten victim because it's all
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: very much about Nicole and OJ and the Kardashians, and
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: this innocent guy got killed in a horrible way.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Just because he was in the wrong place, in the wrong.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Time, one hundred percent with those glasses, So you should.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: It's very nuanced. A lot of people think. Some people
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: think he had helped some people think his son helped him.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: It's just so crazy too that like the world I think,
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: Like when I'm thinking of like a court case, you think, like, okay,
• 25:47
  Speaker 3: like that's the sole focus, like you're looking at the
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: evidence in the courtroom, and like what's being presented in
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: X y Z. But there's so no matter how hard
• 25:54
  Speaker 3: you try, the outside world just like has to affect
• 25:58
  Speaker 3: the outcome of something. That's so curious. And like the
• 26:01
  Speaker 3: fact that like everyone was like rising up to like
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: cheer for oj O'm like okay, I get like the
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: evidence biased and like racist cops all this stuff, but
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: like he did it, and like now you're.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Out here just like.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, yes, maybe if I was like in
• 26:19
  Speaker 3: that time where I could see who he was as
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: a celebrity, all I know of him is like that
• 26:24
  Speaker 3: he probably killed like I know, you know Juice, Like
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: I don't know anything about him other than that, Yeah,
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: like that's what I know him for.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So and I don't want to misspeak, but I
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: do know that it's sometimes it's like you know, and
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: and like I said, racism plays into it. All this
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: stuff plays into it. But when you're a black man
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: who's beloved and people idolized you, I think, you know,
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: some people may have not wanted to believe it was true.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Some people may not really think it was true. Certainly,
• 26:51
  Speaker 1: racism is always a factor. So I think it was
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: just all of those things coming together in this wild case.
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: And they really had everything. It had like everything for entertainment.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: You like, because everyone loves a car chase, you know, people,
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: the house, it's it's all of it, and and it
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: rich people, rich people, celebrities. Yeah, it was a lot.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: You should Are you going to watch the FX?
• 27:16
  Speaker 3: I should, yeah, because now I'm sort of like I
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: want to get now that I saw something that sort
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: of like waivered, like where I could poke holes and
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: this stuff, like I do kind of want to deep
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: dive just to see like other perspectives of it, you know,
• 27:28
  Speaker 3: because every documentary you watch it's always slanted one way
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: or of course, like nothing that's truly like non political
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: or whatever.
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: Of course, and the system was designed to give people
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: a fair chance, a la juries and stuff. But speaking
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: of Kardashian, I think that's why Kim is so passionate
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: because it is a flawed system. I mean she's freeing
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: people who either didn't deserve to be in jail for
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: for that long or deserve a second chance. I mean Alice,
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I forget her last name, but one of the first
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: people she freed, I mean weed, I think.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Right, yeah, you know, like a life sentence or something.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: Right, Yes, So I think that it is still a
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: very flawed system. It's interesting to learn about it now.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I do think. Also, he quote unquote won that case
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: and then it didn't. He wasn't he found guilty in
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: like a.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: Civil yeah, which was like the quickest case ever, Like
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: they was found right, like he was guilty civilly so
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: and he was supposed to pay money. But also I
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: think something that we're spending a lot of time on this.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: But one thing, I'm sorry because you needn't get to
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: your way. But one thing that I thought was really
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: interesting was like you get awarded I think I warded
• 28:28
  Speaker 3: like thirty or thirty five million dollars right or anything
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: to the families they the court does not help you
• 28:33
  Speaker 3: get that money, Like you have to then contract out.
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: If you're do it yourself, I don't even know how
• 28:39
  Speaker 3: you do that, but then you need to contract out
• 28:41
  Speaker 3: to screen. Right, So then some entity who then goes
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: and is supposed to like take the money from him.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: So like again they haven't gotten a single dime until
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: this day, like of anything. Right, It's so it's so
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: crazy to me that, like you're a word all this
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: money and then the state won't even help or mandate
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: that you get it.
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: And then they pop him for something else. The memorabilia.
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you ever got that. Put him away,
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: and then he comes out, he escapes all that quote
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: unquote or whatever. They get him for something else. But
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: then he's if I had done it, here's how I
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: would have done it.
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: Maybe he's just an awful person.
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: It's like it's giving we're heading a plain sight. He
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: made he made weird jokes. Remember he made that weird
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: joke on that show before he was I mean it was, Yeah,
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: it's very interesting. But I do like to listen to
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: if I find a case that I find fascinating or
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: we were too young for I like to watch all
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: the documentaries, listen to all the podcasts and here are
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: the different things. But it certainly was a crazy ass
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: thing that happened obviously that you know. You should watch
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: the Effect show. It's good, all right. The first one
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: is my longest, and then we can power through the rest.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: My first one is just Paris Hilton period, Paris Hilton period,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: because you made me, you said something that made me go, okay,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: I want to pick her for one of my five.
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: But it's there's so many reasons that I love this woman.
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: First of all, her book. You were talking about listening
• 30:02
  Speaker 1: to a book on like an audiobook, her memoir, and
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: I usually follows up to podcasts, which we've talked about
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: it nauseum. But her audiobook specifically is narrated by her,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: and it's perfect to fall asleep. Her voice in it
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: is very calming.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Which voice are you getting?
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: You are getting? I think from what I can remember
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: mostly her real voice, most of her real voice, but
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: all of it's fascinating. I think you know obviously that
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: you know that that was a character, the dumb blonde thing,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: and I just love.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: That she was able to just like make people believe
• 30:37
  Speaker 3: that and like just to have people in the palm
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: of her hand.
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: And the only reason she had that voice we don't
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: have a lot of time was because they needed her
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: to be that on the Simple Life. She stuck with
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: it because she's smart, made her bag, she's actually well, yeah,
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: she is smart, and she's actually one of the smartest, kindest,
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: biggest angels on this earth. I think that we just
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: like don't give her her flowers. And I've met her
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: at Coachella and she danced beside me posts for photos,
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: kiss kiss, kiss, like sweetest angel. We've interviewed her on
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: the show, and once you find out what she has
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: been through, your respect for her will grow exponentially. And
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: she's doing a ton of good work for kids who
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: go to those boarding schools where she was abused. So
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: her memoir, I'm recommending audiobook version if you like it.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I'm recommending her reality show Paris and Love, which is
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: on Peacock This Simple Life, of course, but Parison Love
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: was actually a very underrated reality show. It's amazing. You
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: see all sides of her, you see why she is
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: the way she is. I think no one can leave
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: watching those two seasons and not be just in awe
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: of how wonderful she is and what a good person
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: she is, so I highly recommend binging those two seasons
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: of Paris and Love. She has a lot of hard
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: conversations with her mom about things she went through. She
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: opens up. She's just a very strong, kind, to her
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: core person, And so I just want everyone to consume
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: everything she has, specifically that show and that memoir if
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: you're looking for a good read, because she's a really smart,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: wonderful woman and she's been through a lot, and I
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: just love her so much.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: Icon and she's a music superstar, music supers, nothing but
• 32:13
  Speaker 3: banger right, totally, That's.
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: What I was saying. But she is also the person
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: who made me realize that like ADHD, because she has
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: it really bad. Oh okay, and she yeah, she actually
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: was watching a documentary from this doctor and met with
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: him and learned about it, and she struggles with it
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: really bad when she talks about in her memoir. And
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: she was the one who made me realize, like, this
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: is sort of a mental health thing that affects your
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: life a lot more. I know people with ADHD have
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: a higher risk of committing suicide. Like there's just all
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: these things that it's not just you can't sit still
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: when you're in class. There's all these other things like.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Not looked at as like like a mental.
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Health issue.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's more of like a behavioral thing.
• 32:53
  Speaker 3: But right there's obviously chemicals and everything that go make
• 32:58
  Speaker 3: the behavior exist, you know, Like I.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: Don't know if that makes sense.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: And you never would think like, oh, Paris Hilton has this,
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: but the way she went on Armchair Expert, which is
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: another podcast with Dak Shepherd, and she's the one who
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: made me go, oh my god, this is affecting your
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: life in all these different places, and you just thought
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: you can't pay attention, and I mean something out like
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: being very impulsive, Like there's just a ton of things
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: that once you learn. She calls it your superpower. But
• 33:21
  Speaker 1: she's just so smart and I've learned so much from her,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: so I just wanted to give her her flat.
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: I love somebody.
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: I love like the fact that like she at least
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: like when everything was, you know, in the early two thousands,
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: when everything was like nuts and paparazzi and everything, like
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: I mean it's still nuts now, but I feel like.
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: It was way more unhinged then.
• 33:38
  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I feel like I almost thought that she
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: was like a victim of fame, right, But I feel
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: like the reason why I love her so much more
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: is maybe she was at one point, but like now
• 33:47
  Speaker 3: she just she's just good at playing the fucking game.
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: I just respect people like that that can, like you're
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: she's yeah, you thought she was dumb all this time.
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: She's five steps ahead of where we're thinking at all times.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Like I think is like that. Taylor is obviously like that.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: Like it's those type of people that like know how
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: to just fucking work like and that's and I love
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: that because I'm not that smart, and I think that,
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: like you are turning something that could be so painful
• 34:14
  Speaker 3: to you, but now you're you know how to play it.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: You know how to play everyone to like for your benefit.
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: I don't know that's really smart, No, And to not
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: have the ego to go I don't give a fuck
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: if all these people think I'm dumb. I'm gonna keep
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: doing it all the way to the bank. And I
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: know I'm smart and the people that know me know
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I'm smart, So I don't care what you think.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: And your real fans are in on it and they
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: love you for it no matter what, And those haters
• 34:36
  Speaker 3: are still going to buy and watch and interact and whatever,
• 34:38
  Speaker 3: just because one.
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: Hundred percent and the voice thing, I mean, they talk
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: about it a ton. If that's something that annoys about her,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you specifically need to bring to that shot
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: because you would love it. It's it's not a light
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: reality show. They go heavy, they go she talks about
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: all of it. But I sometimes notice I'm in a
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: situation where I'm uncomfortable. I like use a higher voice too,
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: So I just I don't know. It's all very interesting
• 34:59
  Speaker 1: to me. I know, you know how wonderful she is,
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: but I really am screaming from the mountaintops that you
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: need to consume all of her content. She's a wonderful person.
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: I love her. I know you to shoot number two.
• 35:09
  Speaker 3: Hard, right. And I realized this the other day. I
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: am in love with shower music.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Do you listen to music in the shower?
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I uh brought I have a Bose speaker
• 35:23
  Speaker 3: that I have in my in my bathroom and I
• 35:27
  Speaker 3: brought it to our jingle ball show to have music
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: in our little green room working area.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Left it there.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: So surely took that right.
• 35:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, I'm not even gonna call it
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: because I don't know that anymore. So it was like
• 35:39
  Speaker 3: two weeks where I didn't have a shower speaker, and
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I realized how much it like affects my mood, like
• 35:47
  Speaker 3: I have to, like I almost look at it. I
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: look at like two things during my day that are
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: like cleansing for me. One is my drive to work.
• 35:54
  Speaker 3: My drive home from work socks because of the traffic
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: my drive to work. I have a specific playlist I'm
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: gonna listen to every day, like I pre plan it out.
• 36:03
  Speaker 3: I like have my fresh coffee where like you know,
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: I can get here in like twenty some minutes.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: Shaded.
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: Yet no one's pissed me off yet. I've started to
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: keep my phone on. I put it on do I
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: disturb overnight? But I still keep it on during my
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: drive to work, and I don't turn do I disturb
• 36:21
  Speaker 3: until I get in the parking garage here because I
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: realize how much I value that time. But also I
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: value my shower time too. And now I have I
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: got a new boat speaker for Christmas, and so now
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: I have it hooked up and we're like good to go,
• 36:33
  Speaker 3: and so now I am.
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: Back at it.
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: But I realized that like I if I don't have
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: the playlist right in the shower, it doesn't hit the same.
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, can you not just when you didn't have this
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: speak or could you not just play your phone?
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: It's a loud enough, Okay, I need a certain volume
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: because we have to have the fan on and we
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: have to like you know, like I need it at
• 36:55
  Speaker 3: a certain volume. I need a really loud like I
• 36:57
  Speaker 3: need to like, am I Am I doing a world
• 37:00
  Speaker 3: tour today?
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: Am I?
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: Like?
• 37:01
  Speaker 3: Is it more of a zen moment? Like I need
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: to like whatever? And like Michael, be so mad because
• 37:06
  Speaker 3: I'll be in the shower for like a half an hour,
• 37:07
  Speaker 3: but like I need to make sure it like hits right.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, wait till I we're gonna elevate you. Because
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: showers for me are like very religious experience sometimes if
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: I'm if I'm having hard day, or if someone I
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: love is, I say, get in the shower and pretend
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: you're washing it off, like it's so cleansing for me
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: to and I take my skin's gonna fall off because
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: I'll take more showers than necessary if I don't feel well.
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: I'll lay in the shower if I don't, you know.
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: But here's where you're you're needing to elevate. Okay, you
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: know how I bought you one of those lights, yes
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: that you know do the does the stars or whatever
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: on the ceiling. We got a very small light for
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: our bathroom. It's multicolors and you can choose the colors
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: or the vibes for the situation. All the lights come
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: off and those lights come on all over the ceiling
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: and it's just with the music. It's religious.
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: I need that.
• 38:00
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: And it's just very tiny so it doesn't take up
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: much space. And the remote. Like I said, if you're
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: feeling green, if you're feeling blue, if you're feeling red,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: it's going to be mad. Yeah, yeah, mad. But it's
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I feel the same way about showering. It's very important
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: to me. Yeaowers. Showers are everything to me. Okay, so
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I feel you. And sometimes it's music, we might be
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I might be in a bad spot if it's music
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: because usually it's like a podcast or something that I'm
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: catching up on. Yeah, if it's music, I might really
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: just need to feel a vibe. And yeah, then everybody should.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you. If you're listening and you haven't done
• 38:37
  Speaker 2: shower music, you need you need to do it.
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: That means you a nice speaker, Yeah, you need to.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: And the drive. They say that those are the times
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: that you can connect with loved ones. The easiest are
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: on drives like that in the shower.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I do think I realized it this morning. Is
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: on the way in, I thought of two people that
• 38:56
  Speaker 3: I haven't talked to. They're still alive. Oh, I haven't
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: talked them in a while, and so like I was like, Okay,
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: I wonder if it's like a sign that when I'm
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: at sort of this high time of my day that
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: these people are coming in my head, like I should
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: message them, you know. And one person I did message
• 39:13
  Speaker 3: both one person like actually hit me back that they're
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: like going through something. So I was like, oh, like me,
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: like maybe that was like the universe like telling me
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: like check on people.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: It is. Oh anytime you get those thoughts, I believe
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: in it. But I think it's because as humans were
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: so connected to all these other things and doing a
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: million things at once. But in the shower or on
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: a drive are the times you're most I think connected
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: to yourself. A lot of people say to meditate state
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: at that time or if you do want to talk
• 39:38
  Speaker 1: to loved ones. It's a great time for that because
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: there aren't as many distractions and you are truly like
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: hearing that inner voice. Yeah, that's so probably. Yeah, honestly,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: that's crazy that you said that. Yeah, no, I think
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: that that's very true. I feel that. Let me switch
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: up because you talked about music. Okay, so Next is
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: just an album, but we needed to discussed and it's
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: been out for a minute. I texted you the second
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: I heard it for the first time, The Secret of Us.
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: Oh yes, I realized that Gracie Abrams is very much
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: having her moment right now and a ton of people
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: know about her. That's so true, is very viral. She's
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: everywhere on tour with Taylor at the fire Aid, been everywhere.
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: But if you have somehow not heard this album, it
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: is a no skip album. Every single song is a banger.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: You talk about cohesive albums, it is wonderfully cohesive. I
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: can't believe that the deluxe version was hoarding. That's so true,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: because that.
• 40:38
  Speaker 2: Was a wild move.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: Gracie, You're crazy for that. I think she's beautiful and
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: so talented, and it pissed me off because some people
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: are like, did you know she's a NEPO baby, don't.
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: I don't care if she's an alien from outer space.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: You can't be that talented unless you're that talented. Okay,
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: so shut the hell up. But if you have not
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: heard that album, it is a no skip album. Obviously
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: you need to like a girl with a guitar and
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: you know the style of music that we like. But
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: I highly recommend she is just that album.
• 41:08
  Speaker 3: Is that I love about that album too, is like
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: she's very much like a whisper. She can be like
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: a whisper girly, especially like in her earlier albums, Like
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: I feel like she very much could do like the
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: thing right. But what I love about like a lot
• 41:23
  Speaker 3: of songs on that is like she goes like full voice,
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: full like power, and like it's so beautiful, like she
• 41:30
  Speaker 3: doesn't need to do like all the I mean, I
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: feel like the Whisper stuff is tender and I love
• 41:34
  Speaker 3: those moments. But like I was looking at, my favorite
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: song on that album is Free Now.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: That has to be. I think that's my absolute favorite.
• 41:41
  Speaker 3: But then there's also on the the Lox there's the
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: live version, which honestly I'm usually not too big on,
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: like live version recordings, but like her versions of songs live,
• 41:52
  Speaker 3: especially the three she put on that are like better
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: than the original. Yeah, I'm like wow, And I love
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: a live queen. Like that's how I feel about Kelly Clarkson,
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: like she is my everything of all time. But when
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: I go, when you see Kelly Clarkson live, it's like
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: a religious experience.
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: Like when I went to.
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: Kelly actually played on my birthday here this was like
• 42:12
  Speaker 3: whatever the last seven eight years ago, and like when
• 42:15
  Speaker 3: we went, like I of course go with a group
• 42:19
  Speaker 3: of people that like are nowhere near as big as
• 42:21
  Speaker 3: stands as I am. It is, because no, it is,
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: but like people are like I get it now, like
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: being in that room and it's someone that like can
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: sing their ass off and like being surrounded and like
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: taken over by you, like I literally called my baptism,
• 42:34
  Speaker 3: Like it's a religious experience. And when I did, I
• 42:36
  Speaker 3: was in New York when Gracie did jingle Ball and
• 42:38
  Speaker 3: I didn't see her set, but I was backstage for it.
• 42:41
  Speaker 3: It was the loudest I've heard of a crowd ever.
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: Like every single word, I'm like, oh my god, she
• 42:47
  Speaker 3: she's been blessed by Taylor.
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: I think she got there on her own. She has
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: been blessed by Taylor, and even the song she wrote
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: with Taylor is a wonderful story. They were absolutely wasted
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: when they recorded it, and I love that someone wasn't
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: that the fire? They said something on the fire? Yeah,
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: And I love seeing drunk Taylor. I love her so much,
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: but I love if we want to get nerdy about it,
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: it starts out with Gracie singing and then Taylor's just
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: doing hushes of her voice, and then they do this
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: transition of like Gracie's voice to Taylor's voice, and I'm like, like,
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: I don't know, I have Yeah, I feel like.
• 43:20
  Speaker 3: Loves I feel like she there's been like and this
• 43:23
  Speaker 3: is this is the same as Kelly Clarkson as well.
• 43:25
  Speaker 3: Kelly has said, I don't know why we're like trying.
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: I'm not trying to parallel them. But it's just funny
• 43:29
  Speaker 3: because Kelly Clarkson has said, like she loves doing background
• 43:33
  Speaker 3: vocals more than doing like main vocals, Like she loves harmonizing,
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: She like whatever. I feel like Taylor is very much
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: in that same lane where she loves the production of
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: things and loves like sort of mashing her voice and
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: whether it was like her song was with Lana or
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: like whatever, like mashing them the other two almost at
• 43:48
  Speaker 3: the point where like you're like, wait, who's singing?
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: Like it sounds like one voice.
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: That is so cool, And I just picture that was
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: all planned, you know what I mean, like the switcheroo.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Like when I first heard it, I screamed because I
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: heard her voice come through, but like I know know
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: what was planning for them to harmonize together and then
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: heard it like pitch match Gracie and to just seeking.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: I'm nerding out about it, but it's so cool, iconic,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: amazing album, no skip, Yes, I love it.
• 44:15
  Speaker 3: So this nice one is a new obsession of my
• 44:18
  Speaker 3: When I went down at Rabbit, it's so really gonna
• 44:22
  Speaker 3: think I'm fucking nuts.
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: The lore of Lauren Hill.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay again and where have you been?
• 44:33
  Speaker 3: But okay, like this is all this podcast is actually
• 44:36
  Speaker 3: just me realizing things.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: It's a year of realizing stuff for sure. For Jason,
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: I'm realizing things. Yeah.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: But this was all sparked because I was watching clips
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: from the SNL weekend the fiftieth anniversary and the Fuji's.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Performed you have to watch all of the I need.
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: To see both nights. Was there anything on Saturday or no?
• 44:56
  Speaker 3: It was just the music thing on Friday, and then
• 44:58
  Speaker 3: like the show show on Sunday, was or anything on Saturday?
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: Or am I like messing up the dates?
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: Oh?
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: I thought one was Saturday one, but you might be right.
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: Friday and Sunday I knew, But there were other specials
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: that were out prior. Okay, So there's a music one,
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: there's the episode, then there's just the actual show and
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: everybody's auditions and stuff. I thought there was another, and
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: then there's like the Quest Love one, but the music
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: one it was new. Yeah, that was like a concert.
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: It was a concert, and then the Quest Loved one
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: had already been out. But I think you'll like all
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: of them. But you'll streuss too, just thinking about the logistics.
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: Of right in that realation, it's gonna give me.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 45:39
  Speaker 3: So Lourene Hill I saw her perform and basically all
• 45:43
  Speaker 3: I obviously I know the Fuji song songs. I know
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: like whatever was on the radio. I know like her
• 45:51
  Speaker 3: album was iconic and all of the radio hits that
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: she had off that, But I never like Deep Dove
• 45:55
  Speaker 3: into her career because I always thought like, oh, she
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: was just always famous and she's just had this really
• 46:00
  Speaker 3: awesome first album and then sort of like propelled that
• 46:02
  Speaker 3: to whatever. But then I also knew just from like
• 46:04
  Speaker 3: working and like whatever, that she's has sort of this
• 46:06
  Speaker 3: reputation in the industry as being unreliable. You don't know
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: if she's gonna show up or if she does, how
• 46:11
  Speaker 3: late she's gonna be what you're gonna get like this
• 46:13
  Speaker 3: that the other. So I did like a deep dive
• 46:16
  Speaker 3: of like who she was, like what happened like along
• 46:22
  Speaker 3: the way whatever, and so like obviously she was in
• 46:24
  Speaker 3: the Fujis and she also she was also the sisterrect too, right,
• 46:27
  Speaker 3: so like I knew her of that, but she did
• 46:29
  Speaker 3: the Fujis and then she like broke out and had
• 46:31
  Speaker 3: and had this massive albums.
• 46:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, The mis Education of Lauren Hill.
• 46:35
  Speaker 3: One Album of the Year, huge right at the Grammys,
• 46:38
  Speaker 3: had a huge year, and then unbeknownst to me, she
• 46:41
  Speaker 3: has disappeared, like she's just gone. And so I was like, how,
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: like why, like because I along with I think the
• 46:48
  Speaker 3: rest of the public at the time, and I was
• 46:49
  Speaker 3: even watching some recent interview not even interviews, but like
• 46:52
  Speaker 3: people sharing their opinions online about Lauren Hill, which is
• 46:56
  Speaker 3: because I'm going down this rabbit hole right of like,
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: well she only had album, Like she had one album
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: like disappeared and I was like, wait, so I go
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: on look at a discography. She had one album, and
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: I was like, and then a live version of an album,
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: and then she popped up at MTV unplugged and did
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: a show and that was it, like no more original music,
• 47:12
  Speaker 3: Like literally Mike dropped one album and like dipped, and
• 47:14
  Speaker 3: like I originally was like, how do you just like
• 47:19
  Speaker 3: disappear with that?
• 47:20
  Speaker 2: Like how were you?
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: Just like Okay, I did this and now I'm out right.
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: But then as I researched more, she was having just
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: a very hard time with fame, very hard time like
• 47:29
  Speaker 3: personally going through stuff. She wanted to have babies, she
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: like wanted to do this whole thing, and it like
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: really made me take a step back and sort of
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: think about it as like, dude, like you could do this,
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: You could have like this killer career. You can have
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: this amazing, amazing you know a couple of albums with
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: your group. She went solo, had an amazing album solo
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: and then dip and like live a semi normal life, right, Like,
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: granted she was dealing with demons and everything, but she
• 47:54
  Speaker 3: was able to have kids and sort of raise them
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: and whatever and then pop out and like do tours
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: and shoot show when you want to, Like that's pretty dope, right,
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: And the power it takes to not I was more
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: like so like enthralled with the power that she had
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: and like the willfulness to sort of be like, okay, yeah,
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: like I put my heart and soul into this project.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: I let it out.
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: It was huge, and but I'm not comfortable in this space.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: I'm not comfortable dealing with people's opinions. I'm not comfortable
• 48:24
  Speaker 3: people telling me what to do, Like this is art,
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: this is not supposed to be like this. And she
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: did it, and I'm sure she went along for the
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: ride and she did all the shows and she did
• 48:31
  Speaker 3: everything that needs to do to have a successful album.
• 48:34
  Speaker 3: And then be like I don't like this, so by right,
• 48:36
  Speaker 3: and no matter, everyone's always gonna want more and more
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: and more and more and more and why are you
• 48:39
  Speaker 3: doing this? And why are you being lazy? And why
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: aren't you working and blah blah blah. But to have
• 48:43
  Speaker 3: like the mindfulness which cannot be easy to sort of
• 48:45
  Speaker 3: be like all right, no, I'm gonna do this my
• 48:47
  Speaker 3: way and I'm out right like was just so inspirational
• 48:51
  Speaker 3: to me. And I was like, Wow, she has not
• 48:53
  Speaker 3: deserved to be dragged or whatever, because she this is
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: all art. Like what you're doing is art, and you
• 48:57
  Speaker 3: do it. You should be able to do it you
• 49:00
  Speaker 3: want to and how you want to, not when a
• 49:02
  Speaker 3: label tells you you need to do it, or management
• 49:04
  Speaker 3: tells you you need to do this, or deadlines or whatever, right,
• 49:06
  Speaker 3: and she was very much like, no, and I'm gonna
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: come out and you can buy tickets to see me.
• 49:10
  Speaker 3: I may or may not show up, but I'm gonna
• 49:12
  Speaker 3: wear something fucking amazing and deal with it, right. And
• 49:15
  Speaker 3: I just I just I love sort of educating myself
• 49:18
  Speaker 3: about that and then like taking that and being like okay,
• 49:21
  Speaker 3: like that's actually there are learning lessons along the way, right,
• 49:25
  Speaker 3: And so I don't know, she just really impressed me
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: just as a she's dope.
• 49:28
  Speaker 1: Recently on an award show, and I mean within the
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: last few years, she had one of my favorite quotes
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: and I don't want to miss quote her, but it
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: was her addressing I asked being late and just being like,
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: you will think me for being late, Like it was
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: just very much like I'm gonna do this and you're
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: gonna be okay with it because I'm here and basically
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: very much my presence is my present. But I don't
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: remember how she said it, but that's one of the
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: things I remember most about her within the last few years.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, she's very talented, and we need
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: those outliers, I think, because there are people who will
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: just be a pop is it pog in the machine
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: or isn't that a thing something in the machine in
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: the machine. I know, you're something in the machine, whatever,
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: something in the armor, and be like or whatever. I
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: don't know, but you'll be like, Okay, this is just
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: the way things are done, and so I'm gonna keep
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: perpetuating it. But we need those people like the Chapels,
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: who can be annoying in the time, but it's like, wait,
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: you don't like the way this isn't working for.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: You, and you're gonna do it your own way.
• 50:23
  Speaker 3: That's actually such an amazing comparison because that's honestly, she's
• 50:25
  Speaker 3: like the modern day version.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: Of that, right and I'm sure now everyone's giving Chapel ship,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: but maybe if something changes, she'll be, you know, regarded
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: as one of the greats for speaking up. I don't know.
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: I just think we always need those people and.
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: They're gonna sell your soul just to be famous, but
• 50:41
  Speaker 3: but do it because of your art and also like
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: the fact that you like, she sells tickets now the
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: fans very much are on the bandwagon of we might
• 50:50
  Speaker 3: not get her. Or also there's like versions of songs
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: that she does from the mis Education album that people
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: just don't like now, but she still does it because
• 51:00
  Speaker 3: she's like, fucking no, I'm going to slow this down,
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: or no, I am going to do this acoustic or
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: with just a piano whatever, and you might not like it,
• 51:04
  Speaker 3: but fuck it, and people are still coming like to
• 51:06
  Speaker 3: see her.
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: Art, a true art, you know.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: It's like it's like wow, like that's just so cool,
• 51:12
  Speaker 3: like to just have that power and you don't even
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: need to have this huge discography of letting out albums
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: every you know, yeard a year and a half to
• 51:19
  Speaker 3: like get that, you know, like you can be an
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: icon just from putting out one amazing, like piece of work.
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know, right, cool, because I'm sure how many
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: times are artists oh I'm talking to my phone apparently
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: in my series? How many times are artists just like
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: pumping shit out because they're on a schedule or they
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: promised to label three albums or yeah again, we're taking art.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: I mean in our industry, it's it's taking music and
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: doing numbers research. I just my brain doesn't work that way.
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: I'm a creative Thinker's something like, we have numbers to
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: support a song that's art. I don't know, it's very so.
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: I I mean, she's dope. I'm glad you learned about
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: Lauren Hill. I know you're proud of you. I love
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: this for you. Okay, where do I go with this one?
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: Because I have nothing similar? Now? Okay, let's talk about
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: food for a second.
• 52:03
  Speaker 2: Okay, oh good. My next one is the food.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: Okay, perfect. I need to talk about just salad. Okay,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I need to talk about it because and if you.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Are like a chain, like I don't know, are there
• 52:13
  Speaker 2: a lot of just salad?
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: It is a chain, and they sell salad there if
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: they don't have any, if they sell smoothies and raps,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: but I don't know if they have them I know
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: they have them in Illinois where we are. There's two.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: I can think of three. I can think of it
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: a small radius, so it is a chain. But I
• 52:30
  Speaker 1: don't know where else they are. But they they made
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: me love like salads. They made me love salads. I
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: was always anti salad. I was convinced that my skinny
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: bitch friends were eating salads and going mmm. I thought
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: they were lying to me. I'm like, you are not
• 52:46
  Speaker 1: going to tell me that that leaf situation is good.
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: I'm not a rabbit, I don't. I mean, I don't
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: want a salad, and I certainly am not going to
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: have a salad as a mood okay, or as a meal. Okay.
• 52:59
  Speaker 1: I crave just salad.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: You do talk about just salad a lot, like it's
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: a salad day.
• 53:04
  Speaker 1: I love, and a couple of us do that. Well, yeah,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: I could use a few more deals. And it is
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: very expensive, but that's because it's real food. And they're
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: also very environmentally conscious, which I love. But they made
• 53:18
  Speaker 1: me crave salads. And when I was a little girl
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: who loved pizza and pasa and chicken tandies, which I
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: still do. Yes, carbs are everything to me. I never
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: thought that I would go, I'm going to treat myself today.
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: It's going to be a salad, right, Yeah, and their
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: salads are so fuch the good too, like my mouth
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: it's getting white.
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you like a just salad sad? And I don't
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: do salads like that.
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: Me neither, because I'm not meat. First of all, it
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: would take eight hours for me to make some sort
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: of salad that taste got at home.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: I'm just doings.
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: It's too much. It's too much. I'm not doing that,
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: but just salad. There's not much more to say other
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: than it makes me crazy. I could eat a just
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: salad every day for the rest of my life. I
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: get the same thing, and I could be like, it
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: would be a treat for me. Now I do get
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: the bread on the side.
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well they give you bread.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: But it's about balance, well, they ask me, and I
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: say yeah, I say I actually every time it's it's bad.
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: But that if there is a just salad near you again,
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: not getting paid for this wish I was. Those are
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: the best dam salads in the entire world. I've tried
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: them all. I tried it. I'm not going to name them.
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: I've tried the other fast food salad situations. It is
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: worth it. And those are the best damp salads I've
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: ever had my entire life. I creep salads. I want
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: to sometimes have a drunk sala. They're not open. That's
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: how much of a drunk salad.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: The hell oh that I could never I'm not with
• 54:38
  Speaker 3: you there, right, But it's just salad.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Going along with your food thing. I have a new
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: found love. It was a previous love and now we
• 54:48
  Speaker 2: are getting back into a relationship together.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: Panda Express Yeah, almost like just salad like it.
• 54:58
  Speaker 3: You know it is, but it is you know, you
• 55:02
  Speaker 3: know what you're gonna get, and it's gonna slap everything.
• 55:06
  Speaker 3: And I ate Panda Express in my car the other day.
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: That's where we're at in life. Couldn't wait till when
• 55:13
  Speaker 3: I get home, and I just wanted some chow maine
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: and rice. I do a mixture. I do half and
• 55:20
  Speaker 3: half and then any thing whatever. The first thing I
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: think you see that has mushrooms is usually what I get.
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: That's mushrooms.
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: And they do mushroom chicken, yes, and it is fire.
• 55:32
  Speaker 1: It's the Panda Express that we had when we were younger.
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: Because I have gone in there recently too, and they're
• 55:38
  Speaker 1: like they're ad and ship.
• 55:39
  Speaker 2: There's two counters of different options for you.
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: Before it was like do you want orange chicken or
• 55:45
  Speaker 3: like whatever, steak or beef quote unquote right, yea, Like
• 55:50
  Speaker 3: now it's there's They were like, do you want an appetizer?
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: I was like no, but what do you have?
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: And they they have crab racoons, they have a spring roll,
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: they have.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: Egg rolls, Like what it's time? No? I was like this.
• 56:08
  Speaker 1: Slaps yeah, and it does.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: I I just love something that gives me stability and
• 56:14
  Speaker 3: I feel like, yeah, it's impossible to go to a
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: Panda Express.
• 56:19
  Speaker 2: It's kind of like I guess, like a Taco Bell.
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: You know what you're gonna get, right, It's not authentic,
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: but it's everything. It's a different category and it's delicious. Yes,
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: there's a time and a place.
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: Yes, I know, I don't know if I'm gonna eat
• 56:33
  Speaker 3: it a regular I don't think it's going to be
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: in my regular rotation.
• 56:36
  Speaker 1: It probably shouldn't be. But like no, shade right, I.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: Mean maybe they use MSG. I hear it's bad for you.
• 56:42
  Speaker 3: I don't know what that is, but like you know,
• 56:46
  Speaker 3: I was like, wow, I have to give big ups
• 56:49
  Speaker 3: to parent Express.
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: I recently, and I may have told you this, may not,
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: went to a dinner, a full dinner at a nice
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: spot eight and then I left to walk home because
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: I walked everywhere because I'm crazy. Went to walk home
• 57:06
  Speaker 1: and they had put in a brand new Panda Express
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: right on my walk home. You know what I did.
• 57:12
  Speaker 1: I got a second dinner. Hell yeah, I got it,
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: and I carried it home and I ate it. I
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: had two dinners because I was like, holy shit, there's
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: a new Panda Express, and I like, you don't have
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: it all the time, but I got it. I had
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: two dinners. I left dinner and got another dinner.
• 57:26
  Speaker 2: But you can have leftovers. But also I.
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: Tricked myself into thinking if fast food is not fried,
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: it's good for you, which is not true. However, in
• 57:36
  Speaker 3: my brain, I'm like, I'm not eating fried foods, which
• 57:38
  Speaker 3: I've been doing pretty good at minus our trip to
• 57:40
  Speaker 3: Utah which I fell off the wagon and always but one.
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: But like, I'm trying not to eat fried foods. I'm like,
• 57:46
  Speaker 3: it's not fried, you're.
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: Oh, because what I get is fried? I mean, oh,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: I mean an orange chicken.
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: I don't get orange chicken. Oh okay, I got the
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: mushroom chicken. It's like, oh, it's all okay. Yeah, I
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: mean I do boiled chicken.
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: That makes me sick. It makes me realize, Like I
• 58:02
  Speaker 1: do think I might have put that idea in your
• 58:04
  Speaker 1: head because I was trying to say, oh, you're doing
• 58:06
  Speaker 1: so well with fried food. But I do feel like
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: taco bell is in its own category because it isn't fried.
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: I do. It has to be slightly better for.
• 58:15
  Speaker 2: You than the worst.
• 58:19
  Speaker 1: Frida is good. Yeah, okay, what's the next you try
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: to do? Okay, short but sweet walkie talkies. You're laughing
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: because you know I am saying this, but I I'm
• 58:35
  Speaker 1: telling you, if you live with someone or people get
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: walkie talkies, it's it's one of the best moves that
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: I've ever made. So I always joke with my boyfriend.
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: We have very we live together, and we live together
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: in a tiny apartment, so it's not like I live
• 58:50
  Speaker 1: in a palatial palace where I would need a walkie talkie.
• 58:53
  Speaker 1: But there are things. He goes to bed a lot
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: later than I do and I don't sleep ever, so
• 58:59
  Speaker 1: I need a very calm environment. So like I have
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: to wind myself down like I'm a baby. We're putting
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: sound machines on, We're putting what is it a mobile
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: on the ceiling that baby's I.
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: Word we're doin And yeah, I don't know.
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: I don't have any babies right now, so I just
• 59:14
  Speaker 1: but I have to. It's very much a process, and
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: I have to put myself down like I'm a baby,
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: and so he I can't, like see the light in
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: the living room. I can't, like I have to. So
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: there are things I need to ask, like, you know,
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: can you turn the TV down? Or if I think
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: of one of the million questions I have as I'm
• 59:30
  Speaker 1: falling asleep, I might need to ask him. And walkie
• 59:33
  Speaker 1: talkies are the answer because I would call him and
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: that was really stupid because we're in the next room
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: right But sometimes he wakes up earlier than me. He
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: turns the walkie talkie on, he leaves it by my
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: head so that I don't have to go where are yet? Baby?
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: Like a little baby monitor. We've gotten walkie talkies. It
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: makes things so funny and fun I talked about it
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: on the morning show We're on, and someone texted that
• 59:54
  Speaker 1: they do that as well in their household, they have
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: a bigger house probably and kids. But if he want fun,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: and we got kids walking talkies because we thought it
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  Speaker 1: was funnier. But if you want something fun in your
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: household instead of like talk, get a walkie talkie instead
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: of texting or whatever? Do you are you running insanely
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  Speaker 1: lyon okaype have.
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  Speaker 2: Like fifteen minutes?
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: Okay, what's I have a funny walky talkie story too?
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 3: Because my dad. So, my parents moved out of my
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: childhood home like a year and a half ago and
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 3: moved down like like a half an hour south from
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 3: where they are, so it's like a forty minute drive
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: for me. So my dad instantly became friends with his neighbor.
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 3: His name is Frank, and Frank bought them walkie talkies.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: So now like ones in my parents' house by their
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: living room, by where they sit like their chairs to
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 3: watch the TV, and then ones in his house and
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: they care around me and they're like, yes, they will
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: walk you talk fun.
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 1: That is so fun. Like walkie talkies really make you
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: feel like you're a little kid. You forget like you
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 1: you have a job and responsibilities and health insurance and
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: existential dread and you just you're on a walkie. I
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 1: love this. That is the cutest thing I've ever seen,
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: because sometimes, you know, Texas, just people could ignore it
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: or whatever, just.
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  Speaker 3: Bund some with everything else. Walkie talkie differentiates you from
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 3: everyone else, right, a different level.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: If if they don't answer, they're not available, right, you
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: know what I mean? I love that.
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that. I didn't know that.
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 1: That's hysterical. Okay, is it? You go?
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 3: My last It's an album and I don't.
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: Know if you're going to roll your eyes or not.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: But Alessia Karra is back.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: She dropped a new album. Okay, was she ever here?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: No one knew?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 1: Okay, I met her. She's so sweet, she's so sweet,
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 1: she's so talented.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: And she had her first album which was very pop.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's when she had Here and Scars to Your
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 3: Beautiful and like all that type of stuff. Right, and
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 3: she had the song with Zad, which is a banger. Okay,
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 3: I forgot about stay love that song. Yeah, okay, yeah,
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 3: And so randomly I saw popped up Unless your Car
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 3: has a new album, I'm like wait, because she let
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 3: out albums since then. I was not a fan, Okay,
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 3: like I was because I felt like she very much
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 3: like she had that push from the beginning. Then she
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 3: let out some stuff that was like I feel like
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 3: they're trying to make her into like remember I don't
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 3: even remember this era, but she was wearing large suits.
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 2: Do you remember that? Like that was weird, right, she.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: Was very anti popstar. Yeah, but we didn't need try
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: too hard.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: Ye, yeah, we didn't need to go that far anyway.
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 2: So there's her new album.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: It's called Love And I didn't know the second work
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 3: because I had to look it up and I had
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: to the little speak to talk thing, but it's called
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 3: Love and hyperbole no how to spell purply and and
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 3: I gave it a listen over the weekend and I
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 3: actually found myself going back to it because I honestly
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 3: feel like it's a little bit like she's being authentic now, okay, okay,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 3: And what I.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: Mean by that is like.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: It's not one genre like she's there's some country like influences.
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 3: There's like acoustic. Some songs are like straight acoustic. There's
• 1:03:11
  Speaker 3: some like hard rock shit where it's like hard guitars,
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 3: like drums like whatever. Some funk there's like a little
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 3: bit of like discoy funk like a d I don't
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 3: know which song is the single, Like honestly, I don't
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 3: even know if she, like who knows that? Like literally,
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 3: there's a song called Fire on there that starts really
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 3: I love, like a crescendo in a song. Yeah, Like
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 3: it starts really slow like whatever, but then it like
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: explodes to the point where she's belting, and I was
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 3: like whoa, Like it was in my car. I was
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 3: like WHOA, Like this is like insane. So if just
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 3: give it a listen. If you're looking for something, it's
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: called love and hyperbole. My favorite song is called Fire.
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: It's worth just like that. It's forty minutes long. I
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 3: was like, you know, it's worth just like give our
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 3: shot because she gave us so much like she gave
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 3: us some bops back in the day, Like and I
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 3: feel like she's finally like doing something that she likes.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: So shouts out Alessia Kara.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: Okay, I'll give it a listen. I do really like her.
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 1: She's talented.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: She's so talented.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: All right, I'll give it a listen. My last one
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: we talk about and I'll speed through this because we've
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 1: still got to do our hate and our crash out
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: of the Week and you gotta go. I'm speeding through it.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: We talked about miss Kim Kardashian earlier in the episode
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 1: Skims Period Skims Period. I don't care if you don't
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: like the Kardashians. If you can't stand Kim, take her
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: out of it. Skims is one of the greatest companies.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, the product doesn't lie. The product speaks
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 2: for itself.
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: The product speaks for itself, and so does the customer service.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: I've had to deal with customer service a couple times,
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 1: one being that my male person decided to take my
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: package of Skims and put it in the dumpster down
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: below my building.
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: That was with a.
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: Photo that's wild and they were like very much like, okay,
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: you know, give it another look. If you can't find it,
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: then come to I said, listen, this is where the
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: picture is. Unfortunately I never got it. And I'm sure
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: they get people trying to scam they after they did
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 1: their due diligence. They they have helped with every issue
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 1: they have recent stuff, no questions asked, and obviously please
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: don't take advantage of it, because I don't want them
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: to stop doing that. But the product is insane. I
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 1: have never bought someone. I bought my boyfriend, who very
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 1: much is not a Kardashian lover, skims Choni's. They're good.
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 2: They're so comfy.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: I think even tweeted like, if you told me a
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 1: year ago I'd be in Kim Kardashian underwear, I would
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 1: have told you you're an idiot. But my girlfriend bought
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 1: them for me, and I am now like the quality.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: I will say sometimes the sizing can be off. I
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 1: have gotten some thongs that don't even fit over my labia,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: so I will say I mean truly. A tortilla chip
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: at a Mexican restaurant was bigger than I think. Someone
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: measured it on TikTok. Then the spot for my little Vigiene.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 3: Chloe asked back in the day, Chloe wanted to make
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 3: sure that the white.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: Girl is she did you know?
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 1: No, I'm not a wide, said gurly. My vaginas I
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: think still normal size. But the sizing can and what
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: is normal right? But I did, I'm saying order my
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 1: normal size, and certain styles are a little bit smaller
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: or designed to be a little bit smaller. So just
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: beware of that. Anything that says fits everybody is a
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 1: good place to start. The material is insane. My mom's
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: not a Kardashian person. I got her hooked. It's a
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: gateway drug skim skim skims. I can't tell you how
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: much it's worth it. And the prices are affordable compared
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 1: to they are.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: They are cheaper than I thought they were going.
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: To be made from her. And also just like comparatively,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: something called the pink tax and women's products and clothing
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: and everything is more expensive. She she put it at
• 1:06:41
  Speaker 1: a good price point. Now she does do collabs with
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: you know, adult chinga ban or whatever. But I cannot
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: praise skims enough. Wanted to, you know, have a critical
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: eye for it. She did that, She did that, She
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: did inclusive.
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 2: She's a business woman.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 1: It's comfortable when I have my skims on. I feel
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 1: rich and it didn't cost me that much.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: I feel sexy. It's like form and I'm like, wha bitch.
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: Am I sexy? Yeah?
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: I'm sexy.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: I feel that. I know you have your skims, but
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: I just feel like if you've been thinking, I don't
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: know if I should trust the hype or I don't
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 1: want to support her. Fuck it, it's the best thing, right,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: Fuck it? What's something you hate.
• 1:07:20
  Speaker 2: Going back to showers? Okay, we're going to talk about this.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 3: Okay, I just did a whole segment about why I
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 3: enjoy my shower time.
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: What could be fucking worse than ending the shower than
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 2: by getting out and opening that curtain and feeling that
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: cold ass air?
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: Okay. I thought you're gonna say having to shit, because
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: that's my.
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 3: Least Oh no, no, that doesn't happen to me in
• 1:07:45
  Speaker 3: a minute while I'm in the shower.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: It's it.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 3: It is the worst. It is the absolute worst. And
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 3: we keep our house extremely cold. It's at sixty seven
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 3: degrees at all time.
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 1: It's hard in the winter.
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 2: And right now.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 3: When I'm like a warm, little cozy baby in the shower, yeah,
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: you know, grounding, yeah, bathing myself.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you gotta be on the to ground.
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 3: But okay, this is the closest I get to grounding,
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 3: and that war, that cold ass air hits you like
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 3: a fucking wall.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: I hate that.
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Can we get you like a space heater for the
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: bathroom or something? I mean I hate that too.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and you normally, like when I was at my
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 3: parents' house, I would leave the door closed and it
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 3: let the but now we like the wall is weird
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 3: and a condensation builds up all of shit, so we
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 3: do live the door open a crack when we're showering
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 3: to like the airflow. So it's the cold ass house
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 3: air coming in and hitting me when I get out.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: Of the show.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 1: I hate it. I leave the door open for the
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 1: dog too, and I can't shave because I have goose
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: bumps and then it gives you a rash. But I
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 1: hate the cold air. Yeah, it's but I feel that. Yeah,
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: I feel that. I don't know how to fix that
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: for you if you're leaving the door open, though, effix
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: or something I hate, okay, something I hate. Really, I'm
• 1:08:57
  Speaker 1: trying to think if there's something okay, okay, really quick
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: something I hate the for you page on Instagram. It
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 1: is no longer for you. This is not for me, okay,
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: so I don't wait, do you mean your feet or
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: like your explore page? Okay? Sorry the okay, got I
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: got it.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: I don't ever go on that.
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: Okay, but if I excellently click it usually it's just
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: like monkeys, because that's like what I that's what I
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 1: look at monkeys and or swift or something, you know
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: what I mean. And cows that's that's that was when
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: it was for me. The for you page that is
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: for me right that is very specifically for me. The
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: for you page is no longer for you. If you
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: do go on it right now, I bet you you'll
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: see some scary at ship like this first thing explaining
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: a skin tag or a pile. I don't want to
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: know what that is.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: This is like getting barnacles off of a dolphin.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: This is peeling something off the bottom of someone's foot. This,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 1: this ro tissery chicken is now standing up and has
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: tits and is walking. I don't want that. That is
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: not for me. Gross skin boils. This they're straight up porn.
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: I don't watch porn on Instagram.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 2: How often should you watch your bed?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe that's for you. I don't know, but
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 1: this is not Where are my cows? Why are these
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 1: women naked? Which? Oh god, sane, they're They're doing something
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: with barnacles too. I don't like it. What is this?
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 1: This is not for me. This is not pump pimple popping. Stay,
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: it's not for me. They're scary shit on the for
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 1: you page. Something a guy's thinking. See, I can't even
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 1: repeat this. It's not for me. It's not for me.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: Some why and what did I do that makes you
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: think that this is for me?
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: I don't think. I think something's wrong, spiders, toe, fungus.
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think that something's going on with this
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 1: whole thing. It is not for me. I'm very upset
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: about it. Where are my cows and my keys? Crashed
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: out of the week really quick before you crash out,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: literally crushing right now.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 3: The reason I cried this week latest one TikTok got
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: me army surprise videos. Oh yeah, bawling. Yesterday there was
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: a sister coming back from the Marines whose brother was
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 3: in the hospital. And every time, oh my god, uncontrollable.
• 1:11:15
  Speaker 1: That's understandable. I first cry for that. I didn't think
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: to cry for that. Mine was. And there's so many
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: to choose from. But like I mentioned earlier, my boyfriend
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: he was throwing up for like eighteen hours before we
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: went to the er. It was so bad. I know, Yeah,
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 1: he's in like pain.
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: From the position and yours heard from Oh.
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 1: And it was like the The Exorcist puking where your
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: body's just trying to get rid of a poison, so
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: there's nothing in there. But you're like, you know, you
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: sound like you're possessed. Yeah, it was. It was a
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 1: horrible experience. We know he's not in like immediate danger.
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: We have some questions, we have some follow up appointments,
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 1: like he god willing, will be okay. But I did
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: not cry in the moment that we needed to go
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: to the hospital because sadly, I'm very good in an emergency.
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: I'm calm, which is my mom. I used to be
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: proud of that my mom. A therapist told me that's
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: for a very sad reason. But we will not be
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 1: touching on that. I kind of disassociate. I don't like
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 1: the hospital, but I remove myself. I noticed myself like
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: disassociating the entire time. I was very I could sit still,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: I was steering straight, just keeping his family up to
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 1: date whatever. When we got home, I cried because he
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: won't allow me to take care of him. But that
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: is such a dump, Like we go through this whole
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: scary day. They're testing things, they're doing things to you,
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: they're poking you, they're proud of you. But we get
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: home and I want to send him up a little
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 1: station on the couch, and like said, and we are both,
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: like I said, people who want to do things for
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 1: other people, and it's very hard for us to let
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: people do things for us. So he kept Even at
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: the hospital when he was puking, he insisted I walk
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 1: in front of him because he's a gentleman, and I'm like,
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: so I finally lost it and said, you're please let
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: me help you.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 2: You're sick, you're sick.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: No, he really was sick, and I because he wasn't
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 1: letting me do specific things for him, and that it's
• 1:13:03
  Speaker 1: the dumbest thing after someone is puking for eighteen hours.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: They don't want to look at someone and go, why
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 1: are you crying? And I'm like, does I may help you?
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: But that was the dumb crash out on my end,
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 1: so completely fine during the scary part. Sad that he
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: wouldn't let me set him up a station on the.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 3: Probably, and also like going through all that and then
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 3: I think it hits you after like the gravity of everything,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 3: so it's like a culmination of things, probably, but.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 1: He's probably like, bitch, like I'm I've been through it,
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 1: and now I'm hugging you because you're crying. Because I
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: am like fixing my own soup and doing my own stuff.
• 1:13:34
  Speaker 1: Dumb mass reason to cry. But you know, it's all good.
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 1: He's okay, now, he's not puke anymore. But this is
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 1: a dumb reason to cry. I guess I just wanted
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 1: the tension back on me. I don't know, but I
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: don't know. All right, you got to make your meeting.
• 1:13:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry to cut this short.
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 1: Thirteen.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 2: No, we do it.
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 1: Under an hour, okay, all right, well let's let's cut this.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 1: Bye bye,