Emotional Needs vs Emotional Strategies
Emotional needs are the internal conditions required for a human nervous system to feel safe, settled, and capable of connection. They exist so the body can regulate emotion, restore capacity, and stay present in relationship without living in a constant state of threat. Emotional strategies, on the other hand, are the learned behaviors and patterns the nervous system develops when those needs are not consistently met. Strategies are not needs. They are adaptations. They help us cope, function, and survive in environments where safety, rest, support, or connection did not feel reliably…
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