When Your Teen Says “Later,” Ask This One Question

IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective · Jun 11, 2026 · 25m · transcript

"Ask Ben a Question"

When your teen says, “I’ll do it later,” it can feel like they are ignoring you, avoiding responsibility, or trying to start a fight.

But “later” does not have to turn into a power struggle.

In this episode, I’ll show you one simple question to ask when your teen says “later”:

“What time later?”

This question helps your teen move from vague promises to a real plan. It gives them a voice without giving them control of the house. And it helps you stay calm, clear, and in charge without nagging, yelling, or giving in.

You’ll learn why “later” triggers parents so much, why…