Sexless Marriage? When You Feel Like Housemates Who Share a Bed | DAMSex
‘We used to be so passionate. Now we’re housemates who just happen to share a bed. I’m scared we’ve lost something we can’t get back.’
IIn this episode, sex and intimacy counsellor Debby Poort answers it.
This month on DAM SEX, Eva and Debby go into Emotionally Focused Therapy — the attachment-based model that reframes ‘we have a sex problem’ as ‘we have a connection problem.’ They talk about the pursue–withdraw cycle, what it looks like in real couples, and why both people in the cycle are doing the exact same thing: trying to get their needs met.
Plus: the A.R.E. framework (Accessible…
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