Latest / Millennial Mental Health Channel / Top Lawyer and Author Jessica Childress Talks Toxic Workplaces
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- 0:00And so I think the information, just knowing Okay, something bad has happened,
- 0:04the acknowledgement's important, and then the courage to actually pick up the phone
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- 0:48Irena. Hey, guys, welcome back to MMHC. We have a really
- 0:53special episode for you today. Eddie and I get a lot of emails from
- 0:57people wanting to come onto the show to talk about their books or their projects
- 1:02they've been working on, and every once in a while we get an email
- 1:04from someone we feel like would be a great fit for the show, and
- 1:07we have them on. Our guest today is Jessica Childress, and after reading
- 1:12her bio, Eddie and I couldn't wait to get her on the show.
- 1:15In the past, we've talked about how a toxic work environment can really impact
- 1:19your mental health, and the numbers back us up. A survey from the
- 1:25American Psychological Association showed that nineteen percent of workers say their workplace is vary or
- 1:30somewhat toxic, and those who reported a toxic workplace more than three times as
- 1:34likely to have said they have experienced harm to their mental health at work than
- 1:40those who reported a healthy workplace, so fifty two percent versus fifteen percent.
- 1:46Our guest today, Miss Jessica Childress, is an author of a new book
- 1:49called Peace, Leaving a Toxic Workplace on your Own Terms. She's an attorney,
- 1:55she works in this area, and she was willing to answer all Eddie
- 1:57and I's questions. Here's her bio. Miss Childress is the managing attorney and
- 2:02founder of The Childress Firm, PLC, a boutique employment law firm based in
- 2:07Washington, d C. Miss Childress holds a bachelor's of Arts and Government and
- 2:12African American Studies from the University of Virginia and a Juris Doctor from the University
- 2:16of Virginia School of Law. Miss Childress graduated Phi Beta Kappa and with High
- 2:22Distinction from the University of Virginia in two thousand and seven. She has served
- 2:25as an attorney for two global firms and as an attorney for the United States
- 2:30Department of Justice. She's been the recipient of several honors, including the National
- 2:35Bar Association's twenty and eighteen Young Lawyer of the Year Award, the Washington Bar
- 2:40Association's seventeen to eighteen Young Lawyer of the Year Award, the National Bar Association's
- 2:46forty under forty Best Advocate Award, the Kim Keenan Leadership and Advocacy Award,
- 2:53the Greater Washington Area Chapter of the National Bar Association's Rising Star Award, and
- 2:58recognition by the National Black Lawyers as one of the top one hundred Black Attorneys.
- 3:04You can see why Eddie and I were so excited. So without further
- 3:07ado, let's get right into it. Welcome Jessica. Thank you so much.
- 3:14Justin and Eddie, I really appreciate your time this afternoon. It's really
- 3:16a pleasure to be here. Well, if there's one thing I know about
- 3:20lawyers is that you have a lot of billable hours. So we appreciate your
- 3:23time because I know you are probably very busy. Now you all are busy
- 3:29as well. You're doing incredible work, So thank you so much for having
- 3:31me. All of our time is valuable. But this is really a pleasure
- 3:35to spread important information. Yeah, we're excited to share a little maybe like
- 3:38a little different sector for our listeners of just like what's out there in the
- 3:43world. I think the topic of just like workplace discrimination, harassment, retaliation,
- 3:49even the phrase of like toxic workplace it's probably something that unfortunately a lot
- 3:53of us are familiar with her, have seen, have heard about. So
- 3:57I know any information that you're gonna have today for our listening is going to
- 4:00be super helpful, either in the near future or in the distant future.
- 4:03It's all super helpful. So thank you my pleasure. One of the main
- 4:08reasons why we wanted to have you on the show is because you did just
- 4:10write a really excellent book about toxic workplace environments and breaking up with toxic workplace
- 4:15environments. It's a topic that's gaining a lot more traction. More and more
- 4:18people are talking about it. We had the great resignation in the wake of
- 4:23COVID people and we've talked a lot about it on the show. People are
- 4:27really tired of a workplace environment that takes advantage of them, that doesn't prioritize
- 4:31their mental health, that prioritizes money and profit over the actual well being of
- 4:36people. So when we have the opportunity to bring you on the show,
- 4:41we're like, yes, this is amazing. So tell us a little bit
- 4:44about your journey into writing this book and how you got into this topic.
- 4:48Justin and Eddie, again, thank you so much for your time this afternoon.
- 4:51It really is a pleasure to speak with your audience. I have always
- 4:56wanted to be a lawyer. I wanted to be a lawyer when I was
- 5:00probably eight or nine years old. And I think one of the reasons behind
- 5:04wanting to be a lawyers that I just hated the idea of injustice. So
- 5:09I was the kid who was standing up to bullies, you know, on
- 5:12the bus and on the playground and just calling out anything that was unfair.
- 5:16I know, I'm probably got on my parents' nerves because I was always like
- 5:20this is on pair and telling me the reason behind that, and really getting
- 5:25people to justify their decisions. So just a short synopsis of my life.
- 5:29I went I was on the high school debate team, on a debate team
- 5:32called the Lincoln Douglas Debate Team, where we advocated for positions on very interesting
- 5:40topics whether companies that violate or whether countries that violated human rights should be subject
- 5:46to economic sanctions. Was my first debate and I was in tenth grade,
- 5:50I know, actually ninth grade, I believe, debating this topic, which
- 5:55and it just stuck. I mean it stuck with me because that was just
- 5:58such a you know, a random time, but an important one. So
- 6:01those were the types of topics that we debated, and there were topics of
- 6:04justice. And after high school, I went off to UVA. Was on
- 6:10our student judiciary committee my first year and we were my panelists, my judges
- 6:15and I. We were judges on the judiciary committee, so we set on
- 6:18panels where we adjudicated cases of student misconduct involving first year students, which was
- 6:26incredible. And then I went off to after my first year to be a
- 6:30counselor on the Judiciary committee representing students who were involved in violations of the university
- 6:36codes of conduct, and we also had the opportunity to represent the university in
- 6:42cases against students and represent the position of the university. And then I went
- 6:47off to law school and the rest is a bit of history. My first
- 6:51job was clerking for a federal judge, where I had the opportunity to see
- 6:58employment law cases that came through the court. And then after my clerkship that
- 7:02was a year long, I went off to work and what's called big law
- 7:05and the industry, So that's big corporate law, representing some of the best
- 7:11companies in the world in employment disputes. So from a management side perspective,
- 7:15so I got the opportunity to create employment handbooks, employment policies, conduct trainings
- 7:21on best practices and employment law, and educate employers on key employment laws that
- 7:28they needed to know, and even do employment litigation, which is what I've
- 7:32done throughout my career. I did a brief stint at the Department of Justice.
- 7:38I'd like to say that I did time because I have worked for the
- 7:41Bureau of the Bureau of Presents is the organization or it's the federal agency that
- 7:48they're the administrative body for the Bureau of Prisons, and so I did employment
- 7:54side work, management side work there, and I just got a lot of
- 7:58experience work with the EOC and handling discrimination and harassment cases for management side officials
- 8:07who were working in prisons, and so that was just an incredible experience and
- 8:13I just gained so much experience trial experience in that particular position. Then went
- 8:20off to Big Law, went back to Big Law again, and then in
- 8:24twenty sixteen, I opened up my own firm where I now represent both employees
- 8:28and employers and employment law disputes. I conduct internal investigations for companies who are
- 8:35undergoing investigations about any employee misconduct, and I conduct trainings about how to create
- 8:43safe workplaces, how to create respectful workplaces. And that's really just what I
- 8:48love. I love educating employers about best practices because no one wants to work
- 8:54in a toxic work environment. And I really don't think people intentionally try to
- 9:00create toxic work environments, but a lot of toxic work environments is well,
- 9:03I'm sure we'll talk about are born from ignorance and not knowing what the requirements
- 9:09are, not knowing what you're actually saying or doing that could create an unsafe
- 9:13workplace for people. And so I really want to help organizations understand their obligations.
- 9:20And then if these organizations don't understand what their obligations are or not compliant
- 9:26with those obligations, I think it's important for employees to understand how to lead.
- 9:31So that's really what brought me to writing my book, and we can
- 9:33talk more about it as we go on in the episode. But that was
- 9:35my quote unquote brief synopsis. No, that was great. I think it's
- 9:41it's cool to see your whole journey. I really appreciate your story of like
- 9:45when you were younger, of like ever since you're like eight nine years old,
- 9:48wanted to be a lawyer and standing up for basically what's right and going
- 9:52about making the right decisions or what's fair for people fair and just do you
- 9:56feel this might be a little too like existential But do you think like the
- 10:01young Jessica and her want to do things that are right, or your clerkship
- 10:07and your early experiences or is it a combination of both that really led you
- 10:11to specialize in things like workplace discrimination, harassment, and retaliation. So,
- 10:16Eddie, that's a great question. I think that I have always wanted to
- 10:20be a civil rights attorney, and I knew when I was an undergrad.
- 10:24I think at the end of my undergraduate experience, after doing some clerkship or
- 10:28doing some internships when I was an undergrad, that I wanted to be a
- 10:33civil rights attorney and protect civil rights in some way. I didn't know if
- 10:37that would be educational civil rights. I didn't know if that would be housing
- 10:41civil rights. But I did know that I just could not tolerate injustice and
- 10:45I really wanted to change institutions. And when I got to law school,
- 10:50I think the natural trajectory for or just the common not natural, but the
- 10:56common trajectory for students who went to my law school was to go into corporate
- 11:01law. And so that was just kind of a natural path. It was
- 11:07just it was just the common path. Many many students did go into public
- 11:11service. I did go into corporate law, but I wanted to do something
- 11:16that would still have a civil rights component. And employment law has I mean,
- 11:20the Civil Rights Act of nineteen sixty four. Title seven of the Civil
- 11:24Rights Act of nineteen sixty four is the pre eminent civil rights law, so
- 11:30that protects against discrimination on the basis of the race, age, color,
- 11:35national origin, sex, pregnancy, so actually pregnancy, there's a separate act
- 11:41for that, but this is the pre eminent civil rights statute, and that
- 11:45is really what you are arguing when you are taking on a case involving employment
- 11:52civil rights. Primarily their state analogous statutes, but the Title seven of the
- 11:58Civil Rights Act is really what you need to know. And then states have
- 12:01their own version of their civil rights statutes. And so this was just a
- 12:05way for me to still be a civil rights attorney, even though when I
- 12:09started practicing, I was representing only management side officials. And I think you
- 12:15brought up a great point there that there are certain things that you can get
- 12:18legal help for in terms of if you've been discriminated on the basis of race,
- 12:22religion, and recurignancy status. And that's I think an important point.
- 12:26And expand on that a little bit, like when do people start to seek
- 12:31legal help, because I think a lot of people work in a lot of
- 12:33toxic work environments, but I'm not sure if they know when you can actually
- 12:39start trying to get a lawyer, maybe start to look into discrimination, harassment,
- 12:43things like that. So what are your thoughts. It's really hard for
- 12:46people to recognize that something is going wrong. I think people want to believe
- 12:52that the best in people, and so even thinking, Okay, something is
- 12:58awry here, you know, I really need to talk to someone about it.
- 13:01Even talking to the people in your friend circle or your family circle could
- 13:05be hard because you don't want to think that something is going wrong. So
- 13:09talking to a lawyer, just picking up the phone or sending an email to
- 13:13say, hey, I want to talk to you, that can be a
- 13:16very very hard step because it first takes the acknowledgement that something has arisen to
- 13:20the level that legal counsel needs to come in and be an advocate. So
- 13:26I think it's really really important the step where I think people should know that
- 13:30when people should actually consult with an attorney. I think it really is when
- 13:33you feel as though you really can't take this environment anymore, or it could
- 13:39be an assault, you know, if it's something if you're assaulted, you
- 13:43know, you know, I think you know that you've been assaulted, right,
- 13:46it's pretty obvious, if that's an obvious example. But even so,
- 13:52you can still even with an assault, you can still feel shocked. You
- 13:54don't know what to do, You're you're still wondering, hey, did that
- 13:58really really happen, even though it could be very obvious that it happened,
- 14:01And so it takes an acknowledgement first that something bad has happened. I think
- 14:05that sometimes it's the people around us that tell you, hey, I think
- 14:09you should this might be a violation. You know, I really think that
- 14:13you should talk to someone about this. In trainings that I give, and
- 14:16I think many many people who give anti harassment trainings, they do go over
- 14:22what the law requires. I mean, if you're not giving that information as
- 14:24a trainer, not really sure what you're doing because you I mean, that's
- 14:28the baseline. It's that you have to inform employees and employers about what the
- 14:35law is. And so if you're but that training often happens once a year,
- 14:41so it's not as and this is not the training. You know.
- 14:43I'm an employment lawyer, so I think all of this is just fascinating.
- 14:46But if that's not your job, you know, you you might just be
- 14:50checking the box. You might not retain that information, and so you might
- 14:54be wondering, hey, like what is discrimination? What's harassment? Did this
- 14:58happen? Where's my ployment handbook, how do I report? And so it
- 15:03can be very hard just because of the information disadvantage. There could be you
- 15:07know, someone might not even have their employment handbook to know how to report
- 15:11something, or to know how their company defines harassment or discrimination, or to
- 15:16know how the law defines harassment and discrimination or toxic work environment. And so
- 15:22I think the information just knowing, Okay, something bad has happened, the
- 15:26acknowledgement's important, and then the courage to actually pick up the phone and call
- 15:33someone and to call an attorney. I think that's really what's required. Having
- 15:48a hard time like knowing when it's like something is going wrong, like like
- 15:50resonated with me a little bit. I can this is like subjective, but
- 15:54I feel like probably my last employer and maybe even the first two, like
- 15:58there's some things or I just had a really hard time and I had a
- 16:00hard time getting to the point of saying that like something was wrong for like
- 16:04a bunch of different reasons. One that stuck out as you were sharing that
- 16:08is like maybe I just need to be more grateful that I have this job,
- 16:11and I just need to be more appreciative that I get to work here
- 16:15and I love other pieces of my job, so if I like that,
- 16:18then I have no reason to complain. So as you're saying that, I'm
- 16:21like, oh, man, like that's really sticking out to me. And
- 16:22I'm sure a lot of people, a lot of other people probably have felt
- 16:26similarly that it's like it's hard to ask for help already, and maybe I
- 16:30should just be more grateful of what I have in front of me and like
- 16:33just let the other things like slide away. Absolutely, Eddie, I mean,
- 16:37that's one thousand percent correct. I think that there are many considerations to
- 16:42making a report. I always train employees and employers about the importance of making
- 16:48a report of discrimination or harassment because internally, not even externally, but internally,
- 16:55because the company has to know that something wrong is going on so that
- 17:00they can then take action to correct it. But it can be very difficult
- 17:03to say something internally because you are afraid that you might lose your job.
- 17:10You go through the feelings of should I feel grateful just to have this position.
- 17:14Many of us are caretakers, many people are parents. There you know,
- 17:18we have to have money to live and so these are this is our
- 17:21livelihood right, and so reporting something could mean, if a work environment is
- 17:27not understanding there, if an organization does not understand their legal obligations, they
- 17:34could act in a way that's vitaliatory and unlawful if someone does make a report.
- 17:40So it's really really important that organizations understand what their practices and what their
- 17:45culture should be. I know, for me, when I was working in
- 17:49a place that really should have understood what their legal obligations were, it was
- 17:55they did something that I thought was unlawful, and I did say something about
- 18:00it, but it took a long time for me to think about or for
- 18:03me to actually say, Okay, I actually need to say something. And
- 18:07I went through this entire analysis about whether or not I should say something.
- 18:12Should I just be grateful, should I just let it go? And I
- 18:18ultimately did say something. But in that moment, I realized that it's really
- 18:22hard for people. I'm a trained advocate and have been advocating for other people
- 18:29for years, have been advocating for you know, positions for years, and
- 18:33it was really difficult in that time for me to say, hey, like
- 18:37this is wrong, Like this is what you all did wrong, this is
- 18:41how this needs to be corrected. I know, like I was cursed at
- 18:45during when I was actually and it was it was profanity that was used during
- 18:52a discussion and it was directed to me, and I didn't say anything.
- 18:56It was really inappropriate. It was someone who had a position of authority within
- 19:00an organization, and I didn't say anything. I just froze and took it.
- 19:06But I know that for me having to work with that person again was
- 19:10really scary because I then just shut down. I wasn't going to feel like
- 19:14I could do my best when I was afraid to work with someone because of
- 19:18the way that they would talk to me. And so it's really difficult to
- 19:22speak up because you are wondering, especially if fear is a power and balance,
- 19:26You're wondering if you say something, is the person going to see the
- 19:30situation the same way that you did. But I do think it's important to
- 19:33speak up internally, and then a lawyer can really I think, empower people
- 19:38to say, hey, yeah, you should say something, something wrong did
- 19:41happen, And that validation can be all that it takes for someone to feel
- 19:47like they can speak up. A validation from someone who looks at these cases
- 19:53and advocates for these types of cases day in and day out. The word
- 19:57grateful has up a few times, and I think that's a really important point
- 20:02where it feels like the older generation, their mindset was you should be grateful
- 20:07to have a job, You should be grateful that things are your stable home.
- 20:12But I also think that that mindset leaves a lot of room for abuse
- 20:18and abusing workers. From someone who actually works in the field and works with
- 20:22this on a day to day, do you feel like the mindset is changing,
- 20:26that their culture is starting to understand like, hey, it's okay to
- 20:30talk out about these things, it's okay to try and communicate so that we
- 20:33can make a more healthy work environment. So I think that the me Too
- 20:37movement really did help employers understand that harassment happens, and me Too was centered
- 20:44in sexual harassment, but I think the premise the premises are the same.
- 20:48The legal framework for racial discrimination, sexual discrimination, discrimination on the basis of
- 20:55any protected category is rooted in the same analysis as you that you would do
- 21:00for a sexual harassment case, and so the training that's required you have to
- 21:06create an environment that's safe for employer, for employees, you have to investigate
- 21:11claims of any misconduct, especially discrimination and harassment, and you have to empower
- 21:18employees to report, and employers have to understand how to respond to reports of
- 21:25misconduct. And so I'm really grateful for that movement. And again I didn't
- 21:29mean to use someone grateful, but I'm happy. That was just no pun
- 21:34intended, but I am. I am very very happy that we had that
- 21:37movement because I do think that it inspired organizations to make sure that they had
- 21:44some system in place to respond to complaints of discrimination and harassment. I think
- 21:49it also empowered workers to understand that this is happening. You are not alone,
- 21:55and people think they're alone and they're not. So the social media movement
- 22:00that came out of me Too, with people sharing stories that they never shared
- 22:04before and then speaking up and calling out harassers, I think that was revolutionary
- 22:11in the way that we respond now to harassment claims. So I think there
- 22:15was a huge trend after twenty eighteen in the way that employers train their employees
- 22:22to report, and I think there was more information surrounding the importance of reporting
- 22:29harassment and empowering I mean, I think that that was just the that's the
- 22:33key thing that I see that is the barrier to reporting discrimination and harassment is
- 22:37that people just don't feel empowered to do so. Yeah, when it comes
- 22:42to reporting, like how what should people know? Like how can someone go
- 22:47about reporting misconduct, harassment, whatever it is. We let's say we just,
- 22:52for example, we have someone who finally feels like, Okay, I've
- 22:56dealt with this enough, my support system supports me off, talked to enough
- 23:00people, I want to do something about it. What should people know about
- 23:03taking those next steps forward? Sure, so organizations, I mean large organizations,
- 23:08they should have a reporting policy. So large organization should have a reporting
- 23:15policy. That reporting policy should be given to all employees onboarding. And so
- 23:23when you start at a job, you really should get your employee handbook.
- 23:27That handbook should have a reporting policy to report any claims of misconduct. There
- 23:34should be a code of conducts somewhere within that employee handbook. And there should
- 23:38be a system that's outlined in that handbook that tells employees how to report claims
- 23:44of discrimination, harassment, abusive work environments. And that is standard. That's
- 23:51not the case for all organizations. If you are a small mom and pop
- 23:56business, you may not have had the resources to create an employee handbook,
- 24:00or the time or the knowledge to create an employee handbook. So this is
- 24:04not the case industry wide. There you may not have an employee handbook.
- 24:10But if you are of mid size to large organization, there should be a
- 24:15reporting policy and you should follow that reporting policy. If you don't know how
- 24:21to follow, if you don't know where that policy exists, you should speak
- 24:23to HR if it's safe to do so. You should speak to a supervisor
- 24:27if they're not the harasser. But typically there is a system built in to
- 24:33report to someone other than a harasser. If you feel like the person who
- 24:37is harassing you, of course you're not going to want to report to them,
- 24:41So there should be a system built in to report to someone else us.
- 24:45But I would start with finding that policy in your employee handbook. And
- 24:49this is where I think lawyers do come in. If you can't find that
- 24:52policy, you can talk to your lawyer about, Hey, what do I
- 24:56do? Now? You know? Is there do I need to report some
- 25:00something to the board? Do I need to report something to the CEO?
- 25:04Do I need to report this to someone else, to a governmental organization?
- 25:11So that's really I think that's the analysis that you should go through. But
- 25:15you should start with Okay, what's in my employee handbook? Let me first
- 25:18start to report internally. What I love about what you do is that you're
- 25:25not only a lawyer and you're advocating for people. You're also creating all these
- 25:30trainings that are going to help employers create a better workplace environment for their employees.
- 25:37And we are going to have some resources in the show notes, So
- 25:41tell us a little bit about those, and also like try and make a
- 25:45case for if there are any board members out there, CEOs or anything listening
- 25:49to this, why is it so important to create a workplace environment that people
- 25:55feel safe in. I am creating trainings. I've been doing trainings for years,
- 26:00training organizations on how to create safer workplaces, training employees on how to
- 26:04report, training managers on how to respond to claims of discrimination and harassment.
- 26:11But these trainings, I think organizations have to have the resources to bring in
- 26:15a trainer, and so often it is the more privileged organizations that are able
- 26:19to afford a training, and so there I think that privilege trickles down right.
- 26:25So if an organization doesn't have the resources to bring a trainer in,
- 26:29how are they going to empower and inform their employees about their obligations and their
- 26:34rights. So I do recognize that power and balance and that just the resource
- 26:41inequity there. So it's important to me that information is accessible, and that's
- 26:47why I created my E course, my upcoming ebook it's coming out in January
- 26:52of twenty twenty four. But I wanted employees and employers to understand what their
- 26:56legal rights are, and I wanted employees to understand how to leave toxic work
- 27:03environments because despite how much training we do, my intention is to make sure
- 27:07that workplaces are safe. But if a workplace remains unsafe, I don't think
- 27:12that people should stay in those work environments. I mean, of course,
- 27:15it's going to depend on their individual circumstances. Everyone has to do an assessment
- 27:19as about you know, what is my life require? Some people don't have
- 27:23an option, unfortunately, but in my book and E course, I try
- 27:27to lay out what are some of the alternatives? Can you can you ask
- 27:32to work in a different in a different department. Can you ask to take
- 27:36some administrative leave if you are undergoing some sort of psychological or physical distress because
- 27:44of your work environment. Is fmla Family Medical and Leave Act leave available?
- 27:48What are your leave policies, So there are a host of options that may
- 27:52not include absolutely leaving. You also have to think about what are your post
- 27:57of your post work for restrictions. Are there any restrictive covenants that prohibit you
- 28:03from going to work into in another industry? So there are many many things
- 28:07that you should consider. I actually have a checklist that I'll put I'll give
- 28:11you to put into the show notes in which people can there's a checklist with
- 28:15key considerations before you should that you should make before leaving a toxic work environment,
- 28:21because it's not just open and shut decision. It really is multifaceted.
- 28:27So that is one of the resources that is going to be in my e
- 28:32coourse in my ebook. But I wanted to create information that was accessible because
- 28:37I think that we don't have enough accessible information. Attorneys are expensive, and
- 28:41again there is a barrier to accessing an attorney that's licensed to practice within your
- 28:45jurisdictions. It's not the case that you can just pick up the phone and
- 28:51you're going to receive legal representation. So this is an informational resource that will
- 28:56it won't it's not legal advice, but it will provide information and so that
- 29:00people can at least have a starting point. I want to be mindful of
- 29:03time, just kind of know we're close to the end of this as we
- 29:07wrap up. Any partying words, anything that you want to give our listeners
- 29:12as we wrap up today's episode. I feel like I just got so much
- 29:17information that I feel very appreciative. I'm always impressed with how much lawyers can
- 29:22reference years and like acts and laws and things like that, so that's really
- 29:26cool for me. But any partying words for our listeners as we start to
- 29:30wrap up for today, this has just been a true pleasure. Again,
- 29:34I just love the work that you're doing because knowledge is power. And when
- 29:38we hear that you're not alone. When you hear that this happens, workplace
- 29:45misconduct happens all the time, and it's important to feel empowered enough to say
- 29:51something. And you don't know how even and we haven't talked about bystander intervention
- 29:56and speaking up for other people. But even if you're not the person who's
- 30:00enduring a toxic workplace, if you are listening and you know of someone who
- 30:04is enduring a toxic workplace, let them know that they're not alone. Let
- 30:08them know that there are resources available to them and make sure that we never
- 30:14normalize toxic work environments. It's very easy to just laugh off inappropriate comments and
- 30:21not say anything because we're uncomfortable. But when we do those things, it
- 30:26allows toxic work environments to fester, and we don't want to do that.
- 30:30So call out things even if it's uncomfortable, and know that you're not alone
- 30:36if you are enduring a toxic work environment. Thank you so much, Jess,
- 30:40and you got anything. Just a reminder that in this country, in
- 30:44our society, we spend a lot of our time at work, and if
- 30:48we're in a toxic work environment, it can be really hard on our mental
- 30:52health. You can increase anxiety, you can increase depression, and I've known
- 30:56some people who have worked in some pretty talk sick work environments and they come
- 31:02home and they just need to vent for a long time because they need to
- 31:03get a lot of things off their back. So this is really important.
- 31:07This is important for our society, This is important for our mental health.
- 31:11I'm so appreciative of the work that you're doing and trying to make this better
- 31:15for Americans in general. I think it's such a cool thing and I'd love
- 31:18that you have such a wealth of resources that people can access that are actually
- 31:22make things better. Thank you so much, Eddie Ingested. I'll make our
- 31:26wrap up short and sweet. You know where to find our podcasts if you're
- 31:30listening to it, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, whatever you're using. All our
- 31:33social medias are at Millennium MHC and as always, take care of all mentals