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92 Origin of Belief · Your Enriched Self

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  Excited to play the instrument. I was excited for her because, quite honestly,
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  I never played an instrument growing up. I remember one particular day,
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  she was so excited because she had a new story to tell about this whole
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  experience playing an instrument. She explained to me that in the storage room in
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  her music class, she stumbled upon another instrument and she asked her teacher what
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  that instrument was, and she was told that was a bass clarinet. And
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  she was so excited about this new identified instrument, which is the bass clarinet.
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  And she was telling me how awesome it was, and how it looked
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  like a saxophone but it wasn't a saxophone, how it had different notes to
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  it than her clarinet did, and all of the things. But she finished
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  off by telling me that her teacher had told her that it would be several
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  years before she would be able to play such an instrument, that she would
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  have to be really good at playing the clarinet, and then eventually, over
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  a number of years, to graduate to the base clarinet. Well fast forward,
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  just about a year or two later, she's in a new school.
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  She graduated from her elementary school and in this school, again, playing instruments
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  was part of the curriculum, and when asked what instrument she wanted to play,
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  she elected the base clarinet. Now, she had never played it before,
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  and as a matter of fact, she was consciented that she wouldn't be
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  able to play this instrument for a number of years until she had gotten really
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  good at the clarinet. Now, she wasn't that great at the clarinet yet,
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  but she was willing to jump right in and when she did that,
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  it was so interesting and refreshing at the same time that she had a general
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  interest, she had a general curiosity about something and she decided to go for
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  it. It could have been one of those stories where she just went and
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  did what she knew how to do. It could have been one of those
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  stories where she allowed a limitation that someone else had to caution her or prevent
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  her from doing something new and trying something new. And that's something that we
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  need to think about when we look at our lives even now. Hello,
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  my friends from all across the globe, and welcome to the Urine Rits of
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  podcast. I am your host, Miley Noir, I am a mindset coach
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  and your mindset advocate, and all that means is I am looking out for
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  you. I know that you're busy. I know that life is busy.
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  can become more of your enriched self. And on this podcast, we do
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  that by way of mindset fusion topics. We walk it out, we talk
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  it out, we explore it together. And that's really important so that you
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  Because of you, we have ninety two episodes under our belt. Yes we've
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  been doing this for ninety two weeks, and I can't thank you enough for
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  your participation and doing the work, because this doesn't work unless you work.
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  And I want to thank you for that now this week, before we get
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  into the episode, and I want to get all into this one, I
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  want to do something I do each and every week, and I make a
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  deposit in the bank of you. I do so by way of affirmations.
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  Affirmations are a great way to start your day and to command your morning.
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  And this week's affirmation is I continue to attract beautiful connections, wonderful opportunities,
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  and financial freedom. I continue to attract beautiful connections, wonderful opportunities, and
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  financial freedom. Continue to attract beautiful connections, wonderful opportunities and financial freedom.
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  Now let's get ready for this week's episode of the Your Enriched Self podcast.
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  Easy to look around your world and identify the societal things, the policies,
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  and all of the external factors that may be holding you back that may be
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  keeping you from where you want to go. But I want to challenge you,
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  as I do each and every week, to look within. And let's
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  start with your beliefs. Everything originates from a thought, and a thought exercised
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  over time becomes your belief system. Think about the faith that you practice,
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  right, you went Sunday to Sunday to Sunday, going to that church,
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  attending that space of worship, and that basically created a belief system because of
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  the repetition. So anything that you believe is rooted at repetition, you did
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  it a multitude of times. That's why you understand that when you get up
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  in the morning and you get ready to start your day, you do so
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  by brushing your teeth. It has become not just routine, but you believe
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  that it's part of your hygiene. You believe it's part of your start the
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  day process because you've repeated that activity over time. And if you look across
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  your life and you look across your business and your family, there are all
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  kinds of beliefs that were built on your faith, your culture, your education,
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  mentors, personal experiences. Going back to my daughter when I spoke about
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  at the intro, her teacher was the one that set a belief system.
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  And had she followed that and kept that as part of a repetitious thought,
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  that would have created a belief. And oftentimes our beliefs come wrapped in limitations.
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  And it's not because the person that's talking to us has ill will for
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  us or they're a bad person. They too have had repeated ideas, repeated
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  thoughts, repeated activity that also graduated to their belief system. These are the
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  things that we value, and they impact our personal value. These are the
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  things that if over time wit limits, we can be held back, we
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  can not be propelled in the direction that we want to go to. And
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  so that's why this week it's important for us to talk about the origin of
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  your beliefs and quite frankly, I want you to be willing to challenge the
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  things that you believe. Now. I really want you right now, in
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  this moment, to think of something in your life that you have believed and
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  maybe think about where you want to go. And there is something in particular
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  for you which may be different from me and other people, which is why
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  you are not moving forward. You're not willing to take that step, and
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  it could be because of a belief system. And I'm going to be transparent
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  for a minute. It took me a long time to invest in myself.
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  I think that was one of the biggest belief system changes I had to embrace
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  and I had to recognize that in order for me to move forward, even
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  to launch this podcast and so many other things I've been able to accomplish,
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  it started with me investing in myself. I truly believe that you can only
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  go as far as you have grown as far as you have been coached and
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  taught, because if you are not taught to the next level, how much
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  further can you go? How much further can you grow? Right? And
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  so that's an essential part of my belief system, But it took me a
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  while to get there. When I, for example, joined my coaching program
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  a couple of years ago, I had to invest some money into that program.
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  But I knew that in order to grow and get this level of growth
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  that I'm now walking in, I would have to invest in myself. And
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  so many of us would rather go out there and spend money on things that
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  are short term or things that we believe will give us satisfaction in a moment.
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  But I had to shift my belief system to recognize that if I were
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  going to move forward, if I were going to start to create in this
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  society and start to make impact in the way that I've envisioned for myself and
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  the way God has appointed me to, it would require me to make some
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  investments in me, sharpen up my skills and all of the things. And
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  so these belief systems start to stretch where we go, how we go,
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  what we move. Honestly, if you look at your life right now,
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  in this moment. No matter where you are, your belief systems, your
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  beliefs are responsible for where you are now, where you have been, and
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  depending on how it comes, it's going to impact where you go or where
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  you don't go. And so that's why this is so important. As I
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  mentioned, there are beliefs that we have inherited from our parents, from our
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  culture, from our family, from our own experiences, but we are now
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  at a point where we need to challenge that. I think about a child.
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  I remember buying my kid's gifts, and I've seen this with other people's
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  children. So it's not a thing with just my kids where you buy them
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  a gift and they take it out of the box and they spend the next
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  ten to fifteen minutes playing with that box. But to my eye and your
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  eye, it's just a box. For them, it's a boat, it's
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  a car, it's a trunk, it's a castle. But to our eye,
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  to the way we see it, we see it as a box,
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  and they are thinking outside the box. So a child's mind has no limits,
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  and when your mind has no limits, anything is possible. Contrary,
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  when your mind has limits, there are imitations to the possibilities. That is
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  where a lot of our suffering comes from. And it's the root cost to
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  how we think. It's the root cost to how we live. If you
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  think about how you're living, I want you to think about what you're thinking.
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  More importantly, if you abandon some of the thoughts that have kept you
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  where you are now or have limited you, who would you want to be
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  without those thoughts? And that's a real valid question that you need to ask
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  yourself, that you need to get into a mindset of understanding who would I
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  be without that thought, without that limitation? And let's explore that. Let's
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  explore who you would be without that thought? Who you would be without that
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  limitation? And so limited beliefs. I talked a little bit about where they
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  come from, right, They come from other people, They come from external
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  factors, they come from internal factors, They come from activities and experiences,
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  and we ourselves have. So when we think of beliefs, think about environment
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  and you've heard of things. You've heard of stories of people coming from the
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  same environment but having two different lives, living two different lives, two uniquely
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  and vastly different experiences. I need you to challenge that thinking because environment does
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  not always dictate who you become and where you go. Because again, you
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  can look at two people that have virtually come from the same household, for
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  example, and it is because of their unique experiences, their unique environments,
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  not just the external but the things that they're living with, the thoughts that
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  they've adopted, the things that they've uniquely heard and experienced. Those are the
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  things that are going to give power and those are the things that are going
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  to become the captain of that individual person's soul. And so that's something we
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  need to think about. I want you to explore life events, the things
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  in life that has happened, you know, getting married, getting a divorce,
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  having children, starting a new career. These are life events. Buying
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  a house, all of these things, making a major purchase, a major
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  investment, buying a car, these are life events. These are things that
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  happen that start to shape our thinking. My husband would be really proud of
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  this. I'm gonna talk about Batman for just a second. But Batman witnessed
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  his parents be murdered, right and because of this experience, it was a
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  driving force around how he would then look at his life about after witnessing this,
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  he swore to himself that he would go against all the criminals and he
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  would challenge the system of justice. Not only did he think about it,
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  he studied how to be a scientist of his own body, to train his
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  body and his mind to be able to fight crime in Gotham City. Right.
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  But again it was this tragic event of losing his parents, watching them
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  die in front of him. Whatever your life moment was, those life events
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  are also going to dictate how you then train your mind like he did,
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  or train your body like he did. So as you emerge from these life
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  events, for some of us, like Batman, you become the master of
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  your craft. You change your mind and your body to align with your belief,
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  to align with where you want to go. And those are the things
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  that impact how you believe and where you go. We talk about knowledge,
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  and I will say this knowledge is not power. Application of knowledge is power.
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  I remember years ago I was interested in starting this podcast, years ago
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  before these ninety two episodes, and I was literally on a wall. I
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  had gotten information, but there was a thought process, there was a mentality
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  that kept holding me on that wall. And it wasn't until I started just
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  taking the steps, and let me tell you getting started. I can't say
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  for everybody else, but it was rough for me to get started on this
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  process. But it required me to take steps. It required me to go
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  from being on top of that wall and looking down at all the ways I
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  can do it and all the different platforms I can go to and listening to
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  other podcasts to finally get off the wall right and go apply some of the
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  things that I've learned. Now. Again, when I first started, I
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  probably had half of the puzzle figured out, and as time went on,
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  I started to apply the other pieces of the puzzle that I had picked up.
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  And again, my belief system because of the investment I made in myself,
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  got me thinking, my lean, if you're gonna do this, you're
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  going to have to do this, and sometimes doing things requires you to do
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  it with some sloppy progress. And I adopted that mentality. It was a
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  mentality that literally freed me from the burdens of perfection, from the burdens of
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  not doing a thing because everything wasn't rainbows and sunshine. Sometimes it's going to
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  be messy, right, And that's why you need to apply the knowledge,
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  not just hold onto it. But apply it. For many of you,
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  it's your past results. You have receipts that say you fail at something.
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  You have receipts that say you didn't do well at something else so or you
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  did great at something, and those then shape your belief That is where your
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  heart space now leads you to do the work or avoid it because you're like,
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  if I go down that road again, I'm probably likely going to fail.
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  It's all part of it. It's all part of it, and in
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  order to change your belief systems, remember it is a series of repetition.
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  If you're going to change your belief system, you're gonna have to allow yourself
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  to fail and recover quicker, recover faster, because what you're gonna do is
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  you're going to be able to do something right and learn right. Failure is
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  not just failure. That's how I see it. Failure is not just failure.
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  It's an opportunity to learn because if you made that mistake that time,
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  you're likely not to make that same mistake again. You may make a new
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  mistake, but you're not likely to make the exact same mistake. So,
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  yeah, you're failing, quote unquote failing. I say you're learning because you're
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  applying something new and you're finding out that, oh that didn't work, let
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  me go try the next thing. And that's what it's all about. And
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  finally, for many of you, your vision of your future is dictated again
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  and anchored in your path past experiences, and it impacts how you believe.
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  I mean, all of us are driving towards that north star of our lives.
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  We're driving towards the future of our lives. And if a past experience
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  is shaping how you think instead of thinking where you want to take shape in
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  your life, it's going to be very difficult for you to arrive in a
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  place that you are probably likely going to get to when you finally shave off
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  the limitations from your thoughts. And so that's an important piece of your journey.
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  It's an important piece of your work, and it's an important piece of
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  your life. Your beliefs, the origin of your beliefs are essential, the
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  what and the how you got there. But think about who set it to
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  you. A lot out of the people that told you the thing that has
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  created limits on how you have moved in your life, on how you move
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  in your life and where you have gone. They themselves were operating from a
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  spirit of lack and limitation, and so look at the whole picture. Do
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  your work this week. Understand the origin of your beliefs and choose to do
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  something new. Choose to do something that elevates you. Even now, you
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  can change your beliefs so that you can shape the direction of your life.
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