E249: Help! I can’t orgasm with my partner. What do I do?
Not orgasming with your partner is way more common than most people realize.
And for a lot of women, it turns into one of three coping strategies.
Faking. Doing nothing. Or convincing yourself it’s “not a big deal.”
In today’s episode, we’re talking about why so many women struggle to orgasm in partnered sex — even in loving, committed relationships — and how those patterns quietly shape your confidence, desire, and connection over time.
Vanessa shares her own journey with orgasm, including the truth that even as a sex therapist, she didn’t always have this “figured out.” She opens up about…
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