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Summer Replay: Still Comdy? Freaky Friday · To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

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  Speaker 1: Hey, Team Tolerator. We are still on our summer break
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  Speaker 1: from new episodes of To All the Men I've Tolerated before,
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  Speaker 1: week giving movie reviews about our favorite comfort movies from now,
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  Speaker 1: by a movie and then we felt like we should
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  Speaker 1: revisit it to make sure we could still feel comfortable
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  Speaker 1: Have a great summer. I will see you this fall
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  Speaker 1: with all new episodes of two All the Men I've Tolerated.
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  Speaker 2: Before, Ready to Live on TikTok.
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  Speaker 3: Here we go, Here we go.
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  Speaker 4: We are back after a summer hiatus. Welcome to Still
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  Speaker 4: Comfy Tuesday with Julia and Natalie.
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  Speaker 3: We have missed you all.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we've missed movies. Yeah, movies. We've missed the
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  Speaker 1: weather being below ninety degrees.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, hi friends.
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  Speaker 4: I'm Julia Washington, your host of pop culture makes me jealous.
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  Speaker 4: We analyze pop culture through the lens of race or gender,
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  Speaker 4: and sometimes both.
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  Speaker 3: As I said, it's Still Comfy Tuesday, and my co host.
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  Speaker 1: Is I'm Natalie Katona. I'm the host and producer of
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  Speaker 1: To All the Men I've Tolerated Before, your weekly look
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  Speaker 1: at every day misogyny and watch everyone I can be
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  Speaker 1: in the chat.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so excited, and we are talking about Freaky Friday.
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  Speaker 1: Freaky Friday.
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  Speaker 4: It is a two thousand and three gem. And let
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  Speaker 4: me tell you about this movie from the Googles. Mother
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  Speaker 4: Tess Coleman and her teenage daughter Anna couldn't be more different,
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  Speaker 4: and it is driving them both insane. After receiving cryptic
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  Speaker 4: fortunes at a Chinese restaurant, the two wake up the
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  Speaker 4: next day to discover that they have somehow switched bodies.
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  Speaker 3: Unable to switch.
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  Speaker 4: Back, they are forced to masquerade as one another until
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  Speaker 4: a solution can be found. In the process, they develop
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  Speaker 4: a new sense of respect and understanding for one another.
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  Speaker 4: Who needs AI when you could hire me?
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  Speaker 1: Well, honestly, did you rewrite that? Because usually we just
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  Speaker 1: rip it straight from Google.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's from Google, and I did it in my
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  Speaker 3: best AI voice.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, you did it in your AI voice. You forgot
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  Speaker 1: to do the weird hands. You got it if and
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  Speaker 1: then you have to go, and then you have to
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  Speaker 1: end every sentence with gangganin. I don't know why. The
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  Speaker 1: gang gain is very important. It's very important to the
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  Speaker 1: AI for tend day.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, Natalie, I do have one question for you to
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  Speaker 4: kick off this movie.
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  Speaker 3: Are you ready?
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  Speaker 1: I'm ready?
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  Speaker 3: Or rather this chat?
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  Speaker 1: Okay?
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  Speaker 3: Why do we love this movie?
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  Speaker 1: Why do we love? I love Jamie Lee Curtis.
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  Speaker 3: Fuck yeah, me too.
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  Speaker 1: I love Jamie Lee Curtis, and I want to spend
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  Speaker 1: every day with Jamie Lee Curtis, and I want her
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  Speaker 1: to be telling everyone to fuck off on my behalf
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  Speaker 1: and I she like a fine wine. She just gets
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  Speaker 1: better and better as she gets older. And like when
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  Speaker 1: I was a kid, Jamie Lee Curtis was like the Yo,
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  Speaker 1: the yogurt lady, the lady who's like, yeah, I eat yogurt,
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  Speaker 1: it'll make you.
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  Speaker 4: And I remember to when she did that campaign where
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  Speaker 4: she was like no touch ups and she was essentially
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  Speaker 4: in like bike shorts and like a sportspra and I
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  Speaker 4: was just like, girl, you look good.
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  Speaker 1: And like my Grandma Peg when she started to go gray,
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  Speaker 1: she was like, I'm just gonna do it. And my
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  Speaker 1: Grandma Peg started going gray, she was like twenty seven
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  Speaker 1: years old.
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  Speaker 3: Holy buckets, that's so young.
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  Speaker 1: M hm. So Jamie Lee Curtis always reminds me of
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  Speaker 1: my grandma. One of the Halloween movies, it wasn't this
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  Speaker 1: last one. It was one before when the house is
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  Speaker 1: on fire, and I was like, this whole movie should
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  Speaker 1: just be the house on fire, but also Michael Myers
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  Speaker 1: is there and you're trying to escape the fire, but
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  Speaker 1: also Michael Myers, and that's not what the movie was.
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  Speaker 1: But my sister says that Jamie Lee Curtis acts just
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  Speaker 1: like Grandma Peg because she's just sitting there like in
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  Speaker 1: a smoky raspy boys being like, we'll never escape Michael
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  Speaker 1: the bastard. She's like, it was given me real Peg energy.
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  Speaker 4: That's so interesting because like, I don't know what you're
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  Speaker 4: talking about when it comes to the Halloween movies.
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  Speaker 3: As you know, I don't do scary.
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  Speaker 1: It was weird.
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  Speaker 4: But I did know of Jamie Lee Curtis before I
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  Speaker 4: saw any of her work, because we are an old
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  Speaker 4: movie's family, and so I saw some like it, some
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  Speaker 4: like it hot, and I knew that Tony Curtis was
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  Speaker 4: her dad, and like I just like so, I knew
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  Speaker 4: about her Hollywood royalty status before I ever had seen
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  Speaker 4: her in a movie.
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  Speaker 1: And let me tell you another reason why I love
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  Speaker 1: this movie. I like seeing Lindsay Lohan. Well, I just like, like.
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  Speaker 4: You know, she's such a gem and she's so talented,
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  Speaker 4: and I think that if I always wonder what would
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  Speaker 4: have been if she had had parents who weren't trying
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  Speaker 4: to live their dreams through their child, what her adult
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  Speaker 4: life could have looked like?
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  Speaker 1: Right? Thanks Dina, Thanks Dina Lohan. I am truly ready
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  Speaker 1: for the Lindsay Lohan sons where she because you know,
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  Speaker 1: she did that Netflix Christmas.
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  Speaker 3: Movie, The Christmas Movie. But I don't know if she
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  Speaker 3: we're gonna get a true.
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  Speaker 4: Renaissance from her because she is married to someone who
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  Speaker 4: has a very not the way that Americans view conservative lifestyle.
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  Speaker 1: Modest, oh, a modest lifestyle.
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  Speaker 4: So I think that's gonna pose limitations on what not
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  Speaker 4: that I'm saying that you have to be risque when
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  Speaker 4: you are an actor, when there's religion modesty involved, That
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  Speaker 4: does sort of change the nature of what your work is.
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  Speaker 1: I'd be fine with just a Christmas movie every year.
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  Speaker 1: I found that Christmas movie delightful.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was cute. What's that kid's name, cord Over Street,
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  Speaker 3: that's it.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, it hit some of the musical from Glee.
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  Speaker 3: From Glee, that's right.
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  Speaker 4: I find that this movie is incredibly delightful regardless of
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  Speaker 4: what age you are.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, do you feel like this movie? This was
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  Speaker 1: the first question I wrote down for you. Do you
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  Speaker 1: feel like that first scene where Jamie Lee Curtis is
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  Speaker 1: juggling trying to plan her rehearsal dinner, like arguing with
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  Speaker 1: the man about fish, shopping for her kids.
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  Speaker 3: Also like my head, I'm sorry I should have closed.
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  Speaker 1: Trying to like figure out whether or not Lindsay Lohan's
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  Speaker 1: coming home that night. Do you feel like this is
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  Speaker 1: one of the more realistic, like actual portraits of single
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  Speaker 1: motherhood that we have.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I do, because I feel like she has her
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  Speaker 4: shit together to an extent, like her hot messness.
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  Speaker 3: Isn't that exists? Isn't because of anything?
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  Speaker 1: That?
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  Speaker 3: What am I trying to say?
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  Speaker 4: I feel like when I was a professional business woman,
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  Speaker 4: this was very relatable.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: No, I'm a little annoyed that, like, like, why isn't
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  Speaker 4: your fiance helping more?
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: But although it's not a movie about him well.
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  Speaker 1: And like the surprise twist ending where it's like he's
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  Speaker 1: a great guy, I'm like, great, good for him, good
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  Speaker 1: for him being a great guy. I think it falls
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  Speaker 1: short on how real Like I think when it comes
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  Speaker 1: to teeny and Lindsey Lohan, it's so satire and upped
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  Speaker 1: an anti that I'm like, girl, no one shrieks that much.
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  Speaker 1: No one has the time to shriek that much during
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  Speaker 1: their shool.
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  Speaker 3: It's very it's very disney fied.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, like it is very punched up for Disney that's
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  Speaker 4: for sure.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely. I couldn't remember was this a movie theater movie
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  Speaker 1: or a straight to Disney movie movie theater movie movie
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  Speaker 1: theater movie. It reads kind of now like a straight
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  Speaker 1: to the Disney Channel movie.
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  Speaker 4: Well, and I think that that this is when did
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  Speaker 4: and He's starting to sort of change how they navigate
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  Speaker 4: what goes in the theater and what goes to Disney Channel,
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  Speaker 4: because yeah, they had Disney Channel content, but they were
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  Speaker 4: really starting to focus in and hone in on like
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  Speaker 4: that tween age. Because also Cheetah Girls came out around
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  Speaker 4: this time, but that was great. Cheat it might have
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  Speaker 4: been Cheata Girls might have been a little bit later,
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  Speaker 4: but like that's this era, right, Like it's like we
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  Speaker 4: are starting to get well maybe because Cheetah Girls might
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  Speaker 4: have been later, because I'm thinking High School.
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  Speaker 3: Musical, well that was like two thousand and seven.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was.
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  Speaker 3: It's all within that generation. Though.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was too old to like high school musical
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  Speaker 1: by the time he came out, because I was in
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  Speaker 1: college and I was like, I don't care that zach
• 10:48
  Speaker 1: Efron really wants to play basketball, no, but.
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  Speaker 3: I too appreciate the evolution of his career. So I
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  Speaker 3: can watch his movies.
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  Speaker 1: Now start from the him now we're here, mm hmm.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, and so like, I feel like this is definitely
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  Speaker 4: a movie that is intended to be silly and fun
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  Speaker 4: and so in what I don't know if you knew this,
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  Speaker 4: but our friend Chris DeRosa came on to pop Culture
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  Speaker 4: makes Me jealous to talk about this film, and he
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  Speaker 4: commented on just how wonderful it is in so many ways.
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  Speaker 4: And one of the reviews I had found when I
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  Speaker 4: was prepping for that chat. I forget who the reviewer was,
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  Speaker 4: it might have been The New York Times essentially said,
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  Speaker 4: it is a shame that Jamie Lee Curtis will not
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  Speaker 4: be considered for Oscar content, like as an Oscar contender,
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  Speaker 4: because her performance in this movie is flawless and perfect
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  Speaker 4: and so varied with its range.
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  Speaker 3: And when you watch it, you're like, yeah, because she is.
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  Speaker 4: She's got so much going on, it's so believable, and
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  Speaker 4: just the way she go from buttoned up, stuffy mom
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  Speaker 4: who's trying roll hard to be like the best version
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  Speaker 4: of everything with her book and she's a psychologist, right,
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  Speaker 4: and so like there's a certain level of I have
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  Speaker 4: to have my shit together for that, and she and
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  Speaker 4: then to flip to behave like a teenager in the
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  Speaker 4: way that she It's so it's it really takes acting
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  Speaker 4: chops to do something like that so believably well.
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  Speaker 1: And we already got a taste of this from the
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  Speaker 1: parent Trap with My Low Hand. But she's also a
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  Speaker 1: code switcher. She can like immediately be like, oh now
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  Speaker 1: my character is doing this. Oh now I'm an uptype Yeah. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And I felt like their physicality and orphan is the
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  Speaker 1: new black. Nope, orphan black. I do it all the time.
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  Speaker 1: How dare those shows come out in the same year?
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  Speaker 1: How dare ever since orban Black. I'm obsessed with the
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  Speaker 1: way that characters who are either playing multiple roles within
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  Speaker 1: the same film or are made to act like there's
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  Speaker 1: someone else or whatever, it will change their body position
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  Speaker 1: and their body structure and their facial expressions on a dime.
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  Speaker 1: Because Tatiana Maslani was perfect that that throughout the entire show.
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  Speaker 1: She was often playing like fifteen people in episode yeah.
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  Speaker 4: And I think it really does speak to the difference
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  Speaker 4: between people who are into that craft of acting versus
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  Speaker 4: people who just want to be in movies or who
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  Speaker 4: just want to be famous, And I think that Jamie
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  Speaker 4: Lee Curtis and Lindsay Loewen were the perfect pairing to
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  Speaker 4: play the mother and daughter duo because in two thousand
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  Speaker 4: and three, when I think about the teenaged actors at
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  Speaker 4: the time, I don't think anybody else could have done it.
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  Speaker 3: And when I think.
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  Speaker 4: About the mom aged actors that existed at the time,
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  Speaker 4: I honestly don't think anybody else could have done it.
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  Speaker 4: Like Goldie Han's a great actress, I don't think she
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  Speaker 4: could have pulled this off.
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  Speaker 1: No, And Goldiehan has a different type of physical comedy
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  Speaker 1: than Jamie Lee Curtis.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, And then I was thinking about Okay, then I
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  Speaker 4: fell down the First Wives Club, right, I was like, oh,
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  Speaker 4: And then Diane Keaton, It's like no, because there need
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  Speaker 4: there would need to be like a moment where she
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  Speaker 4: screams real loud and has a moment of panic and
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  Speaker 4: then falls down, and and that just doesn't work for
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  Speaker 4: this movie either, because that would then compete with the
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  Speaker 4: teenager storyline.
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  Speaker 1: Correct. Yeah, and I do think that the most interesting
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  Speaker 1: part of this movie is besides the little boy, the grandpa,
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  Speaker 1: and the soon to be stepdad, every other man in
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  Speaker 1: this movie is like such an insult WEIRDO.
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  Speaker 4: I'm glad you brought it up because I have another
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  Speaker 4: question for you for it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's right. One of my first note for
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  Speaker 1: today's episode is I forgot chan Michael Murray was in
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  Speaker 1: this We don't like his hair in this movie better
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  Speaker 1: than Lucas's hair.
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  Speaker 3: It's two thousand and three, so everyone.
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  Speaker 1: Had bad hair, and I feel like it's it's just
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  Speaker 1: Lucas Scott. If Lucas Scott could play guitar. Do you
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  Speaker 1: know what it's Lucas Scott. Do it out o, Jamie
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  Speaker 1: jamiely Oh.
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  Speaker 4: I forgot to remind everybody we don't know that you're
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  Speaker 4: we still get notified that you commented, and then we
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  Speaker 4: can respond back.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: And I'm always online and I will respond back, even
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  Speaker 1: if it's just with the fearless heart. This is my
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  Speaker 1: emoji of the year. Just love yourless heart.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, Okay, back to Chad Michael Murray and playing Lucas
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  Speaker 4: Scott in every film. Do we need to go down
• 16:09
  Speaker 4: the rabbit hole of his movie catalog with Hallmark to
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  Speaker 4: see if he continues to be Lucas Scott even well
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  Speaker 4: into his adulthood.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember? Do you remember? It was last Christmas?
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  Speaker 1: I was in a dark place and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I want to watch a Chad Michael Murray Christmas movie
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  Speaker 1: and they're all on Hallmark. I don't have Hallmark because
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  Speaker 1: I don't have money, and I found one that I
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  Speaker 1: could like watch on Prime or Hulu or something, and
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  Speaker 1: it was when I tell you he was playing an angel,
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  Speaker 1: and I guess he plays this angel in a couple
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  Speaker 1: of these movies. And he was like, you know, you
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  Speaker 1: know when like you know when like people of the
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  Speaker 1: church are trying to be like very calm and not
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: startle you that they are of the church. So it
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  Speaker 1: was like, why, yes, I would love some huck hoko.
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  Speaker 1: And then like in the US, because he's just trying
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  Speaker 1: to be like holier and like withdrawn from general society.
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  Speaker 1: I think we should go back to playing angels like
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  Speaker 1: John Travolta did in Michael.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's a callback. I haven't seen that
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  Speaker 3: movie since it released. In the movie.
• 17:20
  Speaker 1: Theaterestly put it on the list we need to do
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: John Travilta and Michael a movie that I should do
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: a Watching Way Too Young?
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  Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because it came out when I was thirteen,
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  Speaker 4: So I was to say we should do a whole
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  Speaker 4: segment series of just movie because then there's City of
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  Speaker 4: Angels with Nicholas Cage and Meg Ryan.
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  Speaker 3: Have you seen that one.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna do. We're gonna go real churchy and
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  Speaker 1: just do angel movies.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, should we I don't know. That's why
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  Speaker 3: we're here.
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  Speaker 4: We're here to talk about Chad Michael Murray falling in
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  Speaker 4: love with Jamie Lee Curtis.
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  Speaker 1: It's weird and that is like, truly, I've been thinking
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  Speaker 1: about this all day. How do you modernize this movie
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  Speaker 1: without having a teenage girl having to pretend to love
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  Speaker 1: her future stepdad in a sexual way and a teenage boy,
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  Speaker 1: like especially when you learn about the grown woman.
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  Speaker 4: Especially when you think about how much better millennials aged
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  Speaker 4: than boomers, because like, have you seen.
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  Speaker 3: Modern day Chad Michael Murray?
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  Speaker 4: I know you have that man is fine, could you
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  Speaker 4: imagine him playing the future stepdad and then like I
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  Speaker 4: don't know what, Sidney Sweeney playing the teenaged girl like
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  Speaker 4: like or even like like Kate Hadson's forty three. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so she could be the Jamie Lee Curtis stepmom, right.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know if she has the acting
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  Speaker 4: capabilities to do it. But like when I think about
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  Speaker 4: just on appearance alone, if they remade this movie, everyone
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  Speaker 4: would just look like.
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  Speaker 3: All the same, all the same that like the teen
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 4: It's like wait and then and then everyone's hot in
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  Speaker 4: Hollywood now whereas you know that you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 1: But now, but all I can think about is a
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: euphoria version of Freaky Friday where it's gritty and Daya's
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: screaming about drugs in the middle of the street. Sydney
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: Sweeten or whatever her name is, funk your stepdad and
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: she has no fucks to give about it.
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: Like.
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: Gritty reboot of Freaky Friend.
• 19:26
  Speaker 4: Because the original original was Jodie Foster, Oh, Jody ninety six.
• 19:32
  Speaker 3: Or nineteen seventy seven somewhere around there.
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: I am always floored by how old Jodi Foster is.
• 19:38
  Speaker 4: I know, and I and when I watched that, when
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: I watched the original not that long ago, and it
• 19:43
  Speaker 4: was like, everyone looks exactly how you think they would
• 19:47
  Speaker 4: look in nineteen seventy six, right, Like dad's kind of
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: aged but still working and kind of dopey, like like
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: the mom.
• 19:55
  Speaker 3: The woman who plays the mom is so beautiful and you're.
• 19:58
  Speaker 4: Just looking at this couple and you're just like, how
• 20:01
  Speaker 4: she's gorgeous, and you're there.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: I need Phil Dumpy to be in the reboot of
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: Freaky Friday. That's the only dad that no one's hitting on.
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what, you would have to
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: source people who are over fifty to play this, if
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: not more so, because even then, and I told you
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: this today, I was listening to pog Meat's World and
• 20:21
  Speaker 4: Mark Paul the Mark Paul Gossler episode, and you know,
• 20:25
  Speaker 4: in my mind, he's fine and I think he's close
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: to he'll be fifty next year. Yeah, and he looks
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: so good.
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's because he too has been touched by an angel.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: He real churchy. Now, a lot of those eighties sitcom
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: dudes got real churchy. Who's the growing Pains guy?
• 20:47
  Speaker 4: Well, that one was always churchy. Oh you're talking about
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: Candice Cameron's brother, Kirk Cameron.
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: The Camerons were always cared the Camerons.
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: The Camerons were all Hollywood.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, but yeah, it's it's just so ridiculous to
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: try and think about this movie in modern day. Because
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I did, I had like, I'm like, I don't actually
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: like and I think it's because Jamie Lee Curtis is
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: doing it so well and Chad Michael Murray. It is
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: a fun role to see Chad Michael Murray in because
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: he's very often not silly, and he was like silly
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: sappy in this way, right.
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: And this came out in August of two thousand and three,
• 21:34
  Speaker 4: and then when did One Tree Hill debut?
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Oh, I feel it's either We've looked up the States
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: so many times.
• 21:41
  Speaker 4: I know which I mean, and it just says the
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: WB two thousand and three to two thousand and six
• 21:46
  Speaker 4: when on the Google.
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: But oh, I'm gonna go into episodes.
• 21:50
  Speaker 4: But it's like it's like one of those things where
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: it's like Chad Michael Murray is clearly like poised to
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: be an up and coming star because you have this movie.
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 22:00
  Speaker 3: September September of.
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: Two thousand and three, so so Freaky Friday came first,
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: and and this is just you know, you can just see,
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: like and he did so many movies, right, He did
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: a Cinderella Story with Hillary duff in two thousand and five,
• 22:18
  Speaker 4: like he was just gonna be that guy.
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: He's gonna be that guy. And then I think The
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: One Tree Hillman ruined it for everybody, like they tried
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: to do Hillary and Sophia's career. A.
• 22:32
  Speaker 4: I think so, I really do, because when you think
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: about like the progression of the One Tree Held cast,
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: it's like, no one's a major Hollywood film star. No
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Bethany Jes Sorry, Bethany's coming out with an album soon
• 22:48
  Speaker 4: and I can't wait to listen.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: It's about strawberries or something. Oh that's cute strawberries and
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: the title.
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: But versus like, uh, saved by the bells at the
• 22:59
  Speaker 4: top of my again, because again I would listen to
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: the Mark Paul Kostler interview. But like Mario Lopez, he's
• 23:05
  Speaker 4: not a film star, but he's very prominent and in
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: everyone's face.
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, he is everywhere. I I did have to like
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: turn away from the movie and like look at my
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: phone or something because I'm like I don't want to
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: watch to have Michael Murray flirt with Jamie Lee Curtis.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know why I got prudy dr I was like,
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: and I do think it's because Jamie Lee Curtis at
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: any age can drop her face and make herself look
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: like a teenager in love. And I'm like, it's icky,
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: and I don't want to watch it.
• 23:38
  Speaker 3: Did you watch her in The Bear season two?
• 23:41
  Speaker 4: No?
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: You know I haven't watched The Bear because every time
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I turn it on The Bear, my ADHD says no.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: My ADHD is like, we're not paying attention to this.
• 23:49
  Speaker 3: It is the season two is very slow paced.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: And you told I haven't watched season one, and you
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: told me I have to listen to that show. And
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: what have I been doing? Every time I'm parked him friend?
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: The TV i'm playing started val That's all I'm doing. All.
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: I loved it. I loved it so hard. I just
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: wanted to put a.
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: Look it's me. I was like, why did my comment
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: get highlighted? Everyone? That's an example of how you can
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: comment on the Live Jewels will probably log off at
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: some point and comment on that. Maybe it'll be The
• 24:22
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• 24:26
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• 24:28
  Speaker 4: Comment, Give us a YouTube comment, tell us why you
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: love Freaky Friday. So let's talk about this concept of
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: a reboot, Like, do you think that.
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: Disney would attempt a third version at it?
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, here's another thing that I think we're slowly distancing
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: ourselves from. And there's not actually that clear cut line
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: in between a middle aged mother and her hormone rampant teenager.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: I feel like in a lot of film and TV,
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: we're not getting that there's just a fifteen year old
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: in my house shrieking at me all the time. And
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: to be fair, that was not my teenage experience. My
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: mom and I would have like one blow up a month.
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: I would lock myself in my room and then I
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: told you, she'd just scratch on my door to be like,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: what if we ate Ben and Jerry's and watched Lost?
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: By the way, her Lost was a toxic r Yeah.
• 25:30
  Speaker 4: You know what's interesting though, is, similarly to you, I
• 25:34
  Speaker 4: also didn't have like a shrieking relationship with my mom.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: We would have one blow up and then go for
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: froyo or watch a movie. But what's interesting to me
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: about the Lindsay Lohan character in this movie is how
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: she is so alternative but cak rock.
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: She's so punk rock.
• 25:53
  Speaker 4: But yet they there is something about her that really
• 25:56
  Speaker 4: isn't punk rock.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Well, it's very much her. Well it's a Disney punk rock,
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: so it's camp rock punk rock, right, So I feel
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: like Demi Levado wears the same costume. And also I
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: don't think until probably now because I am not a rewatcher,
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: so who knows, when's the last time I watched this film?
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Was clearly the punk rock stuff is just a coping
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: mechanism for her dad being dead. She's really just mad
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: at her mom because her dad died.
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: That's interesting as a reformed in appearance punk rock roll
• 26:37
  Speaker 4: because I will always love you punk rock. Though there
• 26:43
  Speaker 4: are some bands now that I'm just like, oh my
• 26:45
  Speaker 4: ears are old, I can't but but there are a
• 26:48
  Speaker 4: handful of bands like I'm gonna go see one later
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: this year and I'm really fucking excited that I still
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: will listen to on repeat when I'm in the mood.
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: But like, there is.
• 26:59
  Speaker 4: Something about the way, and maybe that's it because she's
• 27:03
  Speaker 4: using it as a mechanism, so she's gonna just grow
• 27:06
  Speaker 4: out of it, as opposed to those of us who
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: I don't live a punk rock lifestyle anymore because I
• 27:11
  Speaker 4: really like showering and having You.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: Know, what are you trying to make punk rock people
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: feel like today when you're like, I really like showering.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: We're not even allowed to call out nerds anymore at
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: gen Con for not showering, and they camp in lines
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: to buy Disney carts.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: Okay, stand corrected.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: I'm specifically referring to gutter punks. I went to a
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: funeral a year ago, and I was shocked by how
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: many of my punk rock friends were still in the
• 27:38
  Speaker 4: punk rock way of life. Because then there was like
• 27:42
  Speaker 4: me and the person I went with and one other person,
• 27:45
  Speaker 4: and we looked like professional.
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: Adults at a funeral. So I just said that on life.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: Oh what was I gonna say? Though? Oh?
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: No, save me that life.
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: So I think there were a lot of callbacks to
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: I guess her former life. I just thought that her
• 28:06
  Speaker 1: mom was up that pretty girl's ass, because like their
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: moms were friends or something. But then I realized, like, no,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan and this girl used to be friends. Then
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: her dad died. Teenagers do not have the emotional intelligence
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: to deal with a death. I barely know what to
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: do when my friend's parents die. I just sit here
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: and go do you need to scream? You want to cry?
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: You want to just go get sushi? Death is not
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: something that we handle well over here in the States.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: And so then I was like, Oh, Lindsay Lohan saw
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: this mean bitch, and she's like, I want to be
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: this mean bitch's friend's friend anymore. And she got hooked
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: up with these two alternative kids and they honestly, the
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: rock band was good.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: It was impressively good, and.
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: At least singer deserves a career. Yeah, where's she at?
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 29:01
  Speaker 4: And I meant to look it up to see if
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: she was a ringer, because I remember on Disney used
• 29:04
  Speaker 4: to just like poach music like real talent and then
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: just plug them into their stuff.
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: And I was like, did they do that with this person?
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: Because I feel like that could be true.
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: No, Well, in Disney, also like, did Lindsay Lohan want
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: to be a song or a singer? Who knows? But
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: she has a single at the end of this movie,
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: and she sat in her Confessions of a Drama Queen.
• 29:27
  Speaker 3: Didn't she have an album all albums, Like.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: That's my point. Do they want an album or did
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: Disney just go that part of it? It's Disney boot Camp.
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: You will be good at everything. Yeah, Yeah, we're gonna
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: have to stunt cast you with Cinderella when we revised
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: Cinderella on Broadway for the eightieth time. Yeah.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's maybe that's why she doesn't feel like true
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: to the punk rock experience and way because she like
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: because of her former life. Because back to your point
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: of the shrieking shrieking, none of us did that.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: In my.
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: Group was you know, a pretty healthy mix of boys
• 30:15
  Speaker 4: and girls, and none of us girls shrieked at our moms. Like,
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: we're not wu girls, We're not shriekers. You know, we
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: get excited and it's very contained.
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, hit us up in the comments if you shrieked
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: at your mom a lot, like and every day, no
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: one understands me. I hit my mom. She tried to
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: get me to eat frosted flakes. I want lucky charms.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: Kind of bitchy teenage way, Where are all these bitchy teenagers?
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: I would like to know. I was like hanging out
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: with them. That sounds stressful.
• 30:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah, same.
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: And I think that's why I liked like Peyton and
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: why I was so upset with the way that they
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: sort of changed her in season four, because in seasons one, two,
• 30:57
  Speaker 4: and three, it felt very much like, Yeah, this is
• 30:59
  Speaker 4: the girl I'm running into it.
• 31:00
  Speaker 3: The scene that I'm gonna get that, I'm gonna.
• 31:02
  Speaker 4: That, I like, you know that we're gonna vibe and
• 31:04
  Speaker 4: we're gonna become friends and we're gonna exchange records and
• 31:07
  Speaker 4: we're gonna talk about music, and we're gonna have our.
• 31:10
  Speaker 3: Moody moody moody moody moody, you.
• 31:13
  Speaker 4: Know, kind of in a subdued, quiet way, and then
• 31:17
  Speaker 4: it's gonna come out through our.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: Art as opposed to yelling at my mom.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: Now, I would modernize this movie and like kind of
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: combine Freaky Friday with a little bit of The Banner Sisters,
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: where it's like Lindsay Lohan is like kind of a
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: punk rock chick and she thinks that her mom's just
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: like a stuck up prick, and then she starts to
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: uncover because they do the switcheroo all of the talents
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: her mom set aside in order to be a single mom. Yeah,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: because honestly, I think the movie does fall short on
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: actually making it. So they switch back because now they
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: have common ground, like Jamie Lee Curtis plays guitar and
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: Lindsay Lohan is like, sure, marry my mom, and then
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: they switch back. But I really think that the story
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: could have done so much more in the realm of
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: actually learning about one another instead of leaning into these
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: like really comedic slapstick like well, I'm I have to
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: play therapist on Good Morning America now, and I am
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: going to take this high school test and really struggle
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: at it and all of that stuff.
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it's almost like if you take Freaky Friday, Yes,
• 32:34
  Speaker 4: make it a little give it a little grit, but
• 32:36
  Speaker 4: then also make it a mini series so we can
• 32:39
  Speaker 4: do some serious character development. Yeah, like like a limited
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: like a yeah, a limited series, and it doesn't need
• 32:47
  Speaker 4: a second season. That doesn't need to happen. It's just
• 32:49
  Speaker 4: a quick However, many episodes.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Take out the ancient Chinese magic.
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, Chris and I talked about how like that just
• 33:00
  Speaker 4: felt a little icky because it's like, what because especially
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: in the original, that's not part of the original at all.
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: No, isn't it like a thunderstorm or something, or do
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: they just wake up. They hated each other so much
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: they switched bodies.
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: They thought about it at the same time, and like
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: some magic happened and they and then it's and then
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: it was they woke up the next day.
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: So I tell you about the Sunnians. In the eighties,
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: they were wild about body swap movies.
• 33:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, they loved body swap movies.
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: Do you remember that really creepy movie where Robert Downey
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: Junior is dead but he swaps into his daughter's boyfriend's
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: body and then what they are you talking about? It's
• 33:44
  Speaker 1: a movie. It's a movie. It has a very young
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Robert Downey Junior in it, and it was.
• 33:50
  Speaker 3: In the eight in the eighties.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the dad dies, the dad dies, and Robert Downey
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Junior is so young he can play like a college
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: teen and and the day Johnny be good. Maybe no,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: And the day because I've seen Johnny all the fucked
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: up movies, all the movies were grown up, is kind
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: of fucking a teenager. But it's fine because it's the
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: ghost of her dead husband. That was a movie on
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: TV and I watched it.
• 34:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry, I'm looking at his cattle at
• 34:24
  Speaker 4: the his IMDb now, because I'm like, I need to
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: know this is so weird.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Maybe we need to like we can do still comfy,
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: but like once a month, we should be like movies
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: that we didn't really think existed, but and we thought
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: we made up.
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: Movies that were confident are real.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: But movies that people tell me are fake. But I
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: know I've seen them, like the Polar Bear Kane. Oh
• 34:50
  Speaker 1: my gosh, no one's seen the Polar Bear Kinge. Just me.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know what you're talking about.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: Just me, but yeah, just like I I don't know
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: if it was because I was distracted because I was
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: accomplishing a lot today or whatever, but I had a
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: hard time leaning into the humor of it. Maybe it
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: was my summertime sadness. Yeah, I like, I just like,
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know, if I just needed a little bit
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: more of them actually, like discovering things about one another
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: to where I was having to pay attention because as
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: we know, I can like take or leave some things
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: and then I've stopped paying attention because I'm like, oh,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: this is an easy joke. I've stopped paying attention. Sure,
• 35:43
  Speaker 1: but that's Disney, I know, It's Disney No. And as
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: I turned on the movie, I realized that I was
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: more of a Amanda Bynes teen movie watcher and not
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: so much of a Lindsay Lohan.
• 35:57
  Speaker 3: Okay, I do that.
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: I do under stand because I if you wanted to
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: cover every single movie that Amanda Bynes did, I'm in okay.
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: I've seen them all one hundred thousand times. Amanda vines
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: and What a Girl Wants is probably my favorite one,
• 36:12
  Speaker 4: one of what one of What Girl ones is absolutely
• 36:15
  Speaker 4: the best one.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: What would be the other best one? She's the man,
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: He's the man.
• 36:20
  Speaker 3: Is fun. I don't know if it holds up, but
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: she's the man.
• 36:25
  Speaker 1: There there was let's see Sydney White.
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: White, I don't know. I don't know about Sidney White.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I also was Amanda Bynes in the What I Like
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: About You Show with Jenny Garth. Yes, I loved that show.
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: That was such a good fucking show.
• 36:43
  Speaker 3: You know, What a Girl Wants came out in two
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: thousand and three as well.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I love the Amanda Show.
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: The Amanda Show is good.
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: I what movie Tod Robert Downey Junior star and where
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: he body Swaps? That's like that literally could be an
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Iron Man movie, you had to put and then he
• 37:04
  Speaker 1: fucks his life in a teenager's body. That's what you
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: have to put so people understand.
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: Body swap in iron Man.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: That could be any of the Avengers movies. Those Avenger
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: movies get wild. Well, I don't I don't know.
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: I just feel like YouTube punishes you for cussing and
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: stuff problem And I actually think I have it set
• 37:31
  Speaker 4: up on my channel that like extreme cussing is blocked.
• 37:35
  Speaker 1: Oh remember correctly? Well, I think what does Critical Role
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: try to tell me every Thursday when one of them
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: cusses during the ads? I think you have to get
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: through the first minute or like the first three minutes,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: like there's a timeline to where they will flag you anymore.
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: Got it? Okay, good to know you could weigh in.
• 37:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're desperate to know.
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: So you're thirty six minutes into this live broadcast. I
• 38:02
  Speaker 4: do kind of want to go back to what you
• 38:06
  Speaker 4: were talking about though, about the depths or the lack
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: of the depth of the relationship building and understanding. Yeah,
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: because how how I don't have a daughter.
• 38:19
  Speaker 3: I was a daughter, I am a daughter.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: I am a daughter. I am a daughter.
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and I always wonder because it was for me,
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: it was really easy to build a relationship with my son,
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: and it's been really easy to maintain that relationship with
• 38:36
  Speaker 4: my son. We did not go through if he had
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: maybe two months out of his entire existence where it
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: was like that stereotypical you know what you're talking about,
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: mom's door slam, I hate you kind of shit.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: But it didn't last long.
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: And I know that some people experience that regularly with
• 38:57
  Speaker 4: their children, and I don't know why.
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: Well, And as you know, I am.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: Child fleurious, but I'm not talking about him.
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: On the life. I'm child free. But I was a
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: daughter and I am a daughter. I think my mom
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: was the blocker of all that bullshit, Like I think
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: my other parental unit would try to be wild and
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: be like, you're curfew seven point thirty, I can't believe
• 39:23
  Speaker 1: you gave her the keys to the car all of that,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: and my mom would just be like, calm down, yeah,
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: Because my mom was a hot girl. She loved to
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: do hot girl shit, so she all she wanted in
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: life was for me to be a fellow hot girl.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: And I was hideous in high school and therefore she
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: was just like if someone invited namily out. You just
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: let her fucking go. Just let her go. He would
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: just have to let her go. Let her have friends.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: My god, we didn't think she could do it, but
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: she did. Oh, now I have all the rare is
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: making friends. Yeah, but I am very fascinated because I mean,
• 40:00
  Speaker 1: maybe my friends were yelling at their moms when I
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: wasn't there, but like literally, like I knew every one
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: of my friend's moms, and we never shrieked at them.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: We would crank at them. Yeah, it's just drink them.
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: Like one time, go ahead, sorry, one time, my friend's
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: mom she bought a fur coat, because every once in
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: a while, you just need to treat yourself. We lived
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: in northwest Indiana. We were like, where are you wearing
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: the fur coat? Too? Where are you going the jewel,
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: like the grocery store where the decadence And she would
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: she would leave and she'd look us both in the
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: eye and she'd be like, you two, do not fuck
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: with my fur. And now I can't hear brass monkey,
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: that funky monkey without picturing my best friend and I
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: in her mother's furs, damn, saying to brass. And she
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: came home and she found us like that, and she
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: cussed us and we left. She still took us to
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: Wicked later that year. So I don't know, like every
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: day is a winding road with your mom's.
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: Yeah, And it's almost like, and we've had this conversation
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: before in the past and other arenas. It's almost like
• 41:18
  Speaker 4: moms sometimes forget that their children are their own person
• 41:24
  Speaker 4: and so like sometimes the way one parents it's based
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: in the expectation that they will turn out the way
• 41:29
  Speaker 4: that you tell them to turn out, rather than you
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: listening to what your children are telling you about them themselves.
• 41:37
  Speaker 4: And this is I feel like a situation whee where
• 41:41
  Speaker 4: Jamielee Curtis's character is like, this is the way you're
• 41:43
  Speaker 4: supposed to be, why are you not this way? And
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: then Lindsay Lowens is like, I'm so mad that you
• 41:49
  Speaker 4: don't see me for me, which is every teen hangsty setup.
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: But like to your point, it's a very Disney wrap
• 41:58
  Speaker 4: up for them to come to understanding. Like like, so,
• 42:02
  Speaker 4: so Lindsay Lohan plays the guitar off stage, and then
• 42:05
  Speaker 4: now Jamie Lee Curtis understands how talented she is. When
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: the girl has been practicing in the base in the
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: garage for how many months?
• 42:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and she could clearly hear it.
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: And and also like, I'm not saying that my mom
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: and dad were the most emotionally intelligent people. God knows,
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: I'm never gonna make that assumption, but like should I
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: have found myself shrieking because I used to be an
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: unmedicated person in a home like my my mom and
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: my aunt, my favorite aunt, they're very much people like
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: why aren't you more chill? Like why can't you just
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: chill out? Which again I love telling people who are
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: in the middle of an episode, like have you ever
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: tried breathing? Like just calm down? But like so again. Also,
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: my mom was pretty successful at actually making me involved
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: in her interests. We were both big readers. Yeah, and
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: them loves color theory, we love to decorate, We love
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: to craft. My dad loves dungeons and dragons. Like, my
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: parents did a pretty good job just assimilating me into
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: their interests.
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: You know what, mine too, because both of my parents
• 43:15
  Speaker 4: big time readers. My mom was very artsy and ye,
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: music my dad love I mean, they both love movies,
• 43:23
  Speaker 4: but family Film Night is one hundred percent from my dad. Yeah,
• 43:27
  Speaker 4: music is one hundred percent like pop music. Pop culture
• 43:30
  Speaker 4: music is one hundred percent for my dad. So what
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: we're saying all music is one hundred percent for my mom.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: So what we're saying is tests. And the movie should
• 43:37
  Speaker 1: have been more interesting, she should have had more hobbies,
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: which I think is a bigger like, it's a bigger
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: message because like Tess woke up one day a widow
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: and she had these two kids, one of which was
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: shrieking all the time, and she had to hold down
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: a job, she had to write a book, she had
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: to find some man.
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: I also think it is a test to on, you know,
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: building a relationship with your children for you, because it
• 44:06
  Speaker 4: was clear that the primary relationship was daddy daughter. Yes,
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: and I don't think that's healthy either, because what happens
• 44:15
  Speaker 4: when one of you dies?
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, everyone should like their kids. You Friday, right,
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: creaky Friday. Oh you've done dead body swap in.
• 44:27
  Speaker 4: Everyone should like their kids. Everyone should like disappointed when
• 44:31
  Speaker 4: people don't like.
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: Their kids in the comments everyone.
• 44:34
  Speaker 3: Everyone should everyone please like your children. Everyone on tikok
• 44:41
  Speaker 3: like your kids.
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: Like your kids. Even when you don't like your kids,
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: find one reason to tell them you like them today,
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: even if you don't even if you're looking at them,
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: and you're like, I fucking would love to squish this
• 44:59
  Speaker 1: time head in, but by bedtime feel like I really
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: like that we both like the ocean, all right? I did, Yeah,
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: because it.
• 45:08
  Speaker 4: Doesn't It never made any sense to me when people
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: are just so flabbergasted by their children. I'm like, but
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: they lived in your house for twenty years. People with interests,
• 45:20
  Speaker 4: like how do you not know your like what it's
• 45:25
  Speaker 4: like how my dad just throws his hands up in
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: the air every time I talk about.
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: My show or like this show, or like he watched
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: me at gen Con Network with a bunch of people
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: and like make friends with people. And he's like, I
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: just don't even know what you do with your day
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: all day And I'm like, I watch Disney Plus, I
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: watch Freaky Friday, and I take notes on my phone.
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: That's what I do with my day. Yeah, And I
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: meditate and I think of reasons to be pissed off
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: about men in misogyny. Yeah, and that's what I do
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: with my day, dad, But it is, it's like this
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: weird and I feel like we were fed that narrative
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: a lot about like our parents just don't understand we
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: have hormones.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: It's still perpetuated too, because when I watch stuff now
• 46:12
  Speaker 4: that's geared towards teens, and my whole hang.
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: Up in that is no. But we we fixed that.
• 46:19
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we as elder millennials who have children have fixed that.
• 46:24
  Speaker 4: And then I go and spend time with my peers
• 46:27
  Speaker 4: who have children and realize it I fixed it and
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: no one else.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: Everyone. It's like when it's like when I'm.
• 46:36
  Speaker 3: Michael, you can't break. It's inevitable.
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: It's like when I run into a person in my
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: age bracket and they're a conservative, and I'm like, why
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: would you choose that? How did that have everything we've
• 46:47
  Speaker 1: lived through. The ocean is boiling. You just want to
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: be denial about that? Right? The orcos are mad? We're mad.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: Actually beg to the trench. Over the week I was
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: on Meg's side, I was like, that shark was just
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: underneath a part of the ozone of the ocean that
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: we had not seen, if the false bottom of the ocean,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: and he didn't want to be here. He didn't want
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: to he was in his own part of the ocean.
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: And we fucked around and we found we found out
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: and that's and and and that's the moral of Jurassic Park.
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: That's the moral of Planet of the Apes. We fucked
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: around and we found out. But conservative, I guess, I
• 47:31
  Speaker 1: guess I don't get it. I also like, as you know,
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: as a person who gets to live on the periphery
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: of people who are parenting but not actually have to
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: actively parent, I'm constantly like, oh, you're really gonna care
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: about that? Okay. I would just let the kid play
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: with the dice until he was ready to move on.
• 47:52
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: It's funny about that when my son got like old
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: enough to like explore on his own bill like like
• 47:59
  Speaker 4: as a neighbor child or whatever, and my parents would
• 48:02
  Speaker 4: just be like whatever about it.
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: And it was just like, you.
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: Guys, never you would never let us like the freedom
• 48:07
  Speaker 4: this child has is a grandchild.
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: We never ever. And my mom said to me, she goes, well,
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: you get to a point where you realize your kids
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: survived and they probably would have survived had you not
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: been that strict.
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: My parents never knew where I was. I've asked them.
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: I was like, would you like to know the activities
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: that I used to complete in the woods before I
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: had a cell phone? And you did not know that
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: I was in the woods well, and my mom was been, no.
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: Don't misunderstand me.
• 48:35
  Speaker 4: There was definitely a lot of like, yeah, we're going
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: to the movie's mom, and it wasn't.
• 48:40
  Speaker 3: That's not where we were.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: My parents never know where it was.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: But my son was like eight or nine when she
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: told me that, and that like released me from this
• 48:49
  Speaker 4: idea that I had to hold on to some sort
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: of like perceived parenting style that we all have to do.
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: And it was like, oh, yeah, he's it's gonna be fine.
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: Trust your kid, and I tell him that all the time.
• 49:05
  Speaker 4: I trust you. I do not trust the rest of
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: the world. So like you could do all the things
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: that you need to do to survive and come home
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: safely and all that stuff, the rest of the world
• 49:14
  Speaker 4: doesn't give a shit that somebody's at home caring, like
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: worried about you and caring.
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: For you and you know, praying to full moons for you.
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: Like they don't give a shit that I gave up
• 49:23
  Speaker 4: twenty years of my life to make sure that you
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: grew up to be, you know, a happy, healthy adult
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: in college. Like, but you, I trust so like it
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: has nothing And I had to make that very clear
• 49:35
  Speaker 4: to him. It has nothing to do with you. Is
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: everything to do with the fact that I know the
• 49:40
  Speaker 4: world does not give a shit that you are loved.
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: Right, hear that everybody the world does not give a
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: shit that you are loved. The oceans are boiling, the
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: orcas are mad, the otters are stealing surfboards. The end
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: is not is what I'm saying, Like, it's still ninety
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: degrees out, and I would like to know why.
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: The other part of it, too, I know, because the
• 50:09
  Speaker 4: earth is mad. The other part of it too is
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: I always operated in the sense of like, I want
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: you to want to come home to visit me. Yeah,
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: I want you to want to be like, you know what,
• 50:19
  Speaker 4: I haven't seen my mom in a while, Like, let
• 50:22
  Speaker 4: me go visit and I and I think watching Freaky Friday.
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: You're like Jamie Lee.
• 50:30
  Speaker 3: Do you even like your children well?
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: And does she have time you like her children?
• 50:34
  Speaker 4: Do you even like care that your daughter's hurting? You're
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: a therapist, you should care well.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: And again, I think that blends into the weird realm
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: of gen X boomer mothers who is like I accidentally
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: may have said out loud to my mother that she
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: ruined her own life by having me, and then she
• 50:56
  Speaker 1: had to explain to me that that is not how
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: she felt. Oh that was like, yeah, I just tell people, like,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: you know, my mom was doing hot girl shit and
• 51:04
  Speaker 1: then she had me too early in her marriage, ruined
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: her life. And my mom's like that No. I was like,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: oh is that an ah, That's how I perceived everyone felt.
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: So you know, we worked through it. We worked through
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: it like everything.
• 51:20
  Speaker 3: You did fine, at least it was out there.
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: But you and I talk a lot about how our
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: mothers didn't actually have the choice to be anything but
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: our mothers. So I grew up on home where my
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: mother was constantly going through a career change to try
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: and find what it is that she actually wanted to
• 51:37
  Speaker 1: do with her life. And I do believe it's because
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: she went to school not actually knowing what she wanted
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: to do with her life, because she was eighteen and
• 51:47
  Speaker 1: she had all of this, like life before that that
• 51:51
  Speaker 1: was filled with trauma and feelings and growing up too
• 51:54
  Speaker 1: soon and all of it. And I get that vibe
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: from Jamie Lee Curtis where it's like, you know, you know,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: every once in a while, because you know, my Grandpa
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: died young. My grandpa died young, and every once in
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: a while and I'm like, you know, Grandma Peck probably
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: loved Grandpa every moment of every day, except for that
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: one hour of the day maybe as she laid her
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: down to sleep where she went, fuck that fucker for
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: dying on me. Because you never expect to actually be
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: a widow. Divorce maybe, but a widow, huh uh.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: And it changes the game a little bit too, because
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: at least when you're divorced, you sort of share custody
• 52:33
  Speaker 3: or there's some sort of splitting of the care in
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: theory that's not always true.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: You can tell someone to be like, you're bestard children today.
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: And if you have, you know, custody split fifty to fifty,
• 52:46
  Speaker 4: then you get you get respite, right, someone taps in,
• 52:49
  Speaker 4: someone else taps in, But you're right.
• 52:52
  Speaker 3: When you are a widow, there is no respite.
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: And even in two thousand and three, because if you'll recall,
• 52:58
  Speaker 4: I became a parent following year, even in that era,
• 53:03
  Speaker 4: it still was very hard for women to be successful
• 53:06
  Speaker 4: as single women, as single mothers.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: Well, and I can't and again I've only known well,
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: I've known several widows. But I've only known one widow
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: who then had to raise teenagers and young children after
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: the widow, Wyane, And I can't imagine what it's like
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: to have society tell you all the time that women
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: are dramatic and yvery emotional, and they're crazy, and they
• 53:38
  Speaker 1: should be quiet and they should be pleasant and they
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: should smile more. And then to have the person that
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: you were going to build a life with die and
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: then you have to shut that part of your brain
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: off because your kids are crying about it, right, And
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: then that like that feeling of like moving on and
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: now your kids are crying about that, and there's just
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: like it's so much to hold on to and you're
• 54:06
  Speaker 1: forced to hold on to it because you're the grown
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: up in the room.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and we're not allowed to have space to do
• 54:12
  Speaker 4: grief or feel our emotions regardless.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: I'm reading that book When the Women, When Women were Dragons, Yeah,
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: and she literally talks about that how like the first
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: thing her mom ever taught her about being a woman socially.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: And this is a book that takes place in the fifties,
• 54:30
  Speaker 1: but I'm pretty sure that we're still getting this lesson.
• 54:34
  Speaker 1: And she goes My mother taught me how to make
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: the neutral pleasant face, So even when I was angry,
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: even when I was sad, even when I was enraged, happy,
• 54:45
  Speaker 1: any of it to get through whatever moment I needed
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: to get through, so everyone around me was comfortable and
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: we could all survive it. Yeah, she taught me how
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: to just like soften my face, shot off that part
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: of my brain, do that little half smile, and then
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: be like, can I please leave the room to go
• 55:04
  Speaker 1: scream in my car?
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, It's almost as if they give us a
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: manual when we turn a certain age.
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: It reminds me a lot of that like meltdown that
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: Drew Barrymore has at the end of writing in Cars
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: with Boys Because I asked her. Kid of hers tries
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: to tell her that she didn't do a good job,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: and I'm always like, fuck that kid, and I'm screaming
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: with her. I'm like, she should be screaming at you
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: in the street. She wanted to be an author. She
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: wanted to be an award winning author. Okay, she got
• 55:34
  Speaker 1: knocked up by dumb dumb Steve's on.
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: Yeah, we're like a drug problem.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: He has a drug problem. We're lucky he didn't do
• 55:41
  Speaker 1: it two, three or four times, because I've seen women
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: go through that. Yeah, and then Brittany Murphy died, So
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: leave Drew Barrymore alone.
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, Okay, so that leads us to our
• 55:57
  Speaker 3: final question. Yeah, sure, are you still comfying?
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: I feel like that last Yeah, I feel like that
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: little last tidbit about like the pleasantry of Like sometimes
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: things for women just have to be pleasant and that's
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: all they get to be. That fits Freaky Friday. There
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: wasn't like a lot of conflict. Actually, they were just
• 56:19
  Speaker 1: shrieking at each other, just they were just having a
• 56:21
  Speaker 1: bad day. And then there was also like a bad
• 56:26
  Speaker 1: dirt day they go on down. But there also wasn't
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: like a grand coming together, like they just decided and yes,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: mom will marry the sporing man like and he doesn't
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: want to be an evil stepfather like I like. Honestly,
• 56:43
  Speaker 1: his arc is probably the most interesting arc of the
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: movie because it's like I've been secretly hoping that Lindsay
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: Lohan would love me, and you're trying to ruin it.
• 56:53
  Speaker 4: I actually really appreciated how into being a stepdad he
• 56:58
  Speaker 4: was in like a very wholesome way. Yeah, because it
• 57:01
  Speaker 4: is really hard to find a partner who is okay
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: with there being a child. Plus for me, it was
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: extra baggage because it's a whole lot of drama on
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: that end on the other side, and many of men
• 57:18
  Speaker 4: have come and have decided and decided that they for
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: whatever reason, didn't want to be a part and didn't
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: want to be, you know, witnessed to all that shit
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: and didn't want to support me through having to deal
• 57:29
  Speaker 4: with all of the shit. So seeing him kind of
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: come in and granted again she is a widow, but
• 57:36
  Speaker 4: seeing him come in and.
• 57:37
  Speaker 3: Just be like, I will be your support, Like.
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: That's the fucking dream, the fucking dream. So yeah, I'm
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: comfortable with the movie. Maybe take out the ancient Chinese
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: magic with the fortune cookies. Maybe take out Chad michael
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: Berry wanting to make kiss. He kiss was Jamie Lee Curtis,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: but like, stood on you, Jamie, you got to kiss,
• 57:59
  Speaker 1: You got to kiss. So the hottest heart throb on
• 58:01
  Speaker 1: the WB that year. Yeah, yeah, eight out of ten.
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  Speaker 4: I'm so comfy with it as well, because I feel
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: like I do appreciate that it is a mother daughter
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: story versus some sort of like unhealthy rom com for teens. Yeah,
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: and we know I love rom coms, but like it
• 58:33
  Speaker 4: could have turned it could have turned into it could
• 58:35
  Speaker 4: have been the wrong kind of story.
• 58:38
  Speaker 1: And I Robert down and junior story that I'm telling
• 58:41
  Speaker 1: you about is that Robert, like Jamie Lee Curtis, could
• 58:45
  Speaker 1: have had sex with Chad michael Berry and it would
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: be like It's fine, though, because it's anna like so awkward.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: It's so awkward.
• 58:57
  Speaker 4: It makes me so uncomfortable, like just to think about
• 59:03
  Speaker 4: how I would have to be, like if I were
• 59:06
  Speaker 4: the mom in Freaky Friday.
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: Because you know this, I do this regularly.
• 59:10
  Speaker 4: I'll watch a movie and I'm like, God, that that
• 59:13
  Speaker 4: boy is fine, and then I'll look him up and
• 59:15
  Speaker 4: I'll be like, he was born in nineteen ninety five.
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: I'm like, fuck me, I can't believe I just said that.
• 59:21
  Speaker 4: It's like or there was more reason, though, I know
• 59:25
  Speaker 4: there was one recently that I looked up and he
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: was born in like two thousand and one, and I
• 59:28
  Speaker 4: was like, I you can't.
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: You can't have hots the hots for the boys that
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: have the twenty in front of their year.
• 59:36
  Speaker 4: I was like, this is so uncomfortable. I don't think
• 59:40
  Speaker 4: that you should be an actor because and again it
• 59:46
  Speaker 4: plays into the whole like it's not his fault that
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: he's cute, and I find him cute.
• 59:50
  Speaker 1: You should quit his job because you're a horn dog
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: cell can't handle watching him on movies. You're like, quit
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: your job, this is indecent.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: But it's like it's like it's like I forget my
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: age sometimes and then when I look up ages and
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: see how close an age they are to my child,
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 4: it becomes this moment of.
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 3: Want, want, because I, like I.
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: Told you the other day, I probably could get away
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: with saying I'm ten years younger and people would probably
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: believe it.
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we have great skin.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: Yeah, It's it's like when I told you the story
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 4: last year when I moved my child into school, they
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: asked which one of us was moving in.
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 1: I swear, if I got more sleep, I would look
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: so youthful at my skin has held up. Thank you Croatia.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: Same yes, same, thank you Italia.
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: Jesus, like I've got the I've got the Mediterranean slash
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: melanin going on here, And like even when I look
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: at my parents now, it's like I forget how old
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: they are because.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 3: Their skin looks so amazing.
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 1: I'm telling you. I had a great aunt. She just
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: died on the eve of ninety and I was like,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: what do you mean? Yeah, there's fool sixty five taps.
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 4: I have an uncle turning eighty next year, and I
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: forget all the time because he doesn't look it.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 1: Right, and I just like to live in delusion. No
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 1: one's told me the actual number.
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, friend, tell everybody what you are up
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 4: to this week.
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: With your shit with my sheet. My name is dan
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 1: Lee Katona. I'm the host of To All the Men
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 1: I've tolerated before. Next week, we will also be on YouTube,
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: but on my YouTube channel doing Jurassic Park or sleep
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: List in Seattle. I've said both of the titles so
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: often I've forgotten which one it is.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 4: I think we need to switch it because Jurassic Park,
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 4: because I remembered when we were chatting why we doubled that,
• 1:01:51
  Speaker 4: because you had more shows on your channel than I
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 4: did on mine this last time.
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: There we go, There we go, There we go. We're
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: going to do Jurassic Park. Everyone get hot and ready
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: for Jeff Goldbloom. Everyone'll get hot and ready for Jeff Goldbloom,
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: Jeff Goldie. I think Jewels, I think you're the guest
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: of my show this week. I believe I.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: Saw the Patreon uh episode dropping.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: God still Comfy is still comfy Tuesday because Jewels gets
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: the episode early, and then she reminds me which one's
• 1:02:23
  Speaker 1: coming on Thursday.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 3: Because I'm a member of her Patreon and you should
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 3: be too.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: So Thursday, Jules and I will be talking about how
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: women sometimes uphold misogyny and how it fucking lets us down.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: And we're gonna be talking about women in our lives,
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: our mothers. Britney, not Brittany. Britney Spears did nothing.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 3: Wrong, nothing wrong.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: Brittany Spears did nothing wrong. We to Taylor Swift, a
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: little bit of Beyonce. For whatever reason, I was mad
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: at Queen Bay that day.
• 1:02:58
  Speaker 3: I don't remember we were.
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: It's because I don't like jay Z. That's what I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: have to continue to look at jay Z. So Jules
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 1: tell everyone. So that's me find me men. I've tolerated
• 1:03:11
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  Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Julia Washington. Your host of pop culture makes
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: me jealous. Where we analyze pop culture through the lens
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 4: of race or gender and sometimes both. This week on
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 4: the show, we are doing our summer blockbuster movie wrap
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 4: up with Movies with Mister Mario. We get into the
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 4: top ten highest grossing films domestically. We talk about our
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 4: summer favorites, we talk about what were the biggest surprises,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 4: and we talk about who we think has awards opportunities.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 4: Assuming the strike is over by then and we have
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 4: it feels like the strike has been going on.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: For Execute desert Able.
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  Speaker 4: We really need the executives to get off their million
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 4: dollars of shit and share some of that profitability with
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: the true people who are doing the actual work.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: Everyone, everyone cuss out an executive today. That is your
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: homework everyone. I don't care if they're a movie executive.
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: Just find an executive and cuss them out. And then
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: go see Bottoms because that is the summer. So upset
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: and they won't and they won't wide release it unless
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: the people who are in the towns that they released
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: it go and see it. So everyone rushed to your
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: nearest theater that's playing Bottoms and go see it.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: Yes, please, because I need to see it. Oh, Mario
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 3: showed up and I didn't even say hi, Mario. We're
• 1:04:46
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  Speaker 4: see see see, and Mario and I are not that far.
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  Speaker 3: In distance, so this makes me very upset.
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: I can't help it. The date and be cooler than California.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 3: Truly, So I'm like, come on, it looks so good.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 1: It's a plot twist none of us saw coming, and.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: They had the audacity to show it as a trailer
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 4: in like several movies I saw this summer.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: It's the funniest movie I've ever seen.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm just so jealous. I really want to see it.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: Support your local lesbians and go see Bottoms. I mean,
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: that's an executive and then support your local Let's be
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 1: in Oh, Mario says, supposedly releasing wide in two weeks,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: and we're gonna keep our fingers crossed that that is
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 1: true so we can cover it on pop culture.
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  Speaker 3: Makes me jealous inappropriate time.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 4: Friends, we are so glad to be back from our
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 4: summer hiatus. We've had such a fun summer and we
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 4: have done so many things this summer that you all
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 4: should be jealous about. And if you followed us on
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 4: in the internet grams, you would know. Can you tell
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 4: us this is our first show back after like three months?
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: Well, I had to stare at Mario's comment for like
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: a good thirty seconds before I was like, Ah, I'm
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: just here so I don't get fined. He was amazing.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: Put him in all the movies like we did What's
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 1: that Wrestler? John Sena? Him and John sena need to
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: be in a movie together where they don't belong, but
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 1: they do.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 3: John Cena is in a new movie.
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 4: I saw a trailer four when I went and saw
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 4: Grand Turismo, and I don't know how.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: I feel about it.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: I was like, I love John Cena. Everyone cuss out
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 1: an executive.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 3: This is your homework for the sports or local.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: Lesbians, and tell John Cena you love them. And stay cozy,
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: stay companie.
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  Speaker 4: Until next time. Friends,