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Why Does Everyone Think I'm Fine?
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How many times have you answered the question "How are you?" with "I'm fine"—even when you weren't?
In this episode, Susan and Laura explore the surprising reasons so many women default to "I'm fine," even when they're exhausted, overwhelmed, grieving, struggling, or simply carrying more than anyone realizes.
Together, they unpack the expectations placed on women to be strong, capable, and endlessly resilient, and how those expectations may have shaped an entire generation's relationship with vulnerability. From protecting our children and parents from worry to avoiding…
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