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- 0:01Speaker 1: She's on the Money.
- 0:03Speaker 2: She's on the Money.
- 0:14Speaker 3: Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money, the podcast
- 0:17Speaker 3: for millennials who want financial freedom. My name, as always,
- 0:22Speaker 3: is Victoria Devine, and I am a financial advisor, a millennial,
- 0:25Speaker 3: and I am a woman who is wildly passionate about
- 0:28Speaker 3: all things financed. In this Money Darry's episode, you're going
- 0:31Speaker 3: to hear about our lockdown. Kiwe, who moved to Australia
- 0:35Speaker 3: right before the coronavirus hit, struggled through the entire thing
- 0:39Speaker 3: and has come out the other side on a completely
- 0:42Speaker 3: different page. And we're going to hear her story and
- 0:44Speaker 3: how her and her partner and young child got through that.
- 0:48Speaker 3: Ryan John, as always, is going to be joining me.
- 0:50Speaker 3: So Ryan, can you read out the email she sent
- 0:52Speaker 3: us last week?
- 0:54Speaker 1: My husband, daughter and I moved over in February this
- 0:57Speaker 1: year from New Zealand to Melbourne to create a future
- 1:00Speaker 1: for ourselves with better opportunities.
- 1:02Speaker 3: Beautiful.
- 1:03Speaker 1: A month later, we hit lockdown. Oh not so beautiful,
- 1:07Speaker 1: so beautiful, What a disaster. We used all of our
- 1:10Speaker 1: savings trying to just get by during the pandemic. I
- 1:13Speaker 1: was able to get a part time job and support
- 1:15Speaker 1: my little family, My husband has machine operating experience, but
- 1:19Speaker 1: he's had no luck getting a job as so many
- 1:21Speaker 1: people had lost their jobs. It was really competitive to
- 1:23Speaker 1: get new work because no one's really hiring. When no
- 1:27Speaker 1: one's all the factories and stuff are closed, right, Oh
- 1:29Speaker 1: the worst. When I was miserable and stressed, I would
- 1:32Speaker 1: clean and I would listen to the shites on the
- 1:33Speaker 1: Money podcast. And how did it change my look on
- 1:36Speaker 1: money and how it had control over me? Growing up?
- 1:39Speaker 1: My parents never taught me about money. But now my
- 1:42Speaker 1: husband finally has a full time job. I work part
- 1:45Speaker 1: time and look after my daughter the rest of the time.
- 1:47Speaker 1: We save, we budget. We feel empowered every day knowing
- 1:50Speaker 1: we have extra save for emergencies. We want to buy
- 1:53Speaker 1: a house and hopefully we'll be able to afford to
- 1:55Speaker 1: visit New Zealand when we can in the future.
- 1:57Speaker 3: How exciting.
- 1:58Speaker 1: So I didn't want to use the term survivor because
- 2:00Speaker 1: it just sounds maybe a bit more dramatic, dramatic than
- 2:03Speaker 1: it really is. But but it's totally to come over
- 2:05Speaker 1: here without a job and hit a lockdown and everything
- 2:08Speaker 1: that's happened to come out the other side all right.
- 2:11Speaker 1: Maybe using survivor wasn't too dramatic Victoria's singing on the podcast.
- 2:14Speaker 3: Now Welcome New Year, knew me?
- 2:16Speaker 1: Is that what we can come to expect in twenty
- 2:18Speaker 1: twenty one?
- 2:19Speaker 3: Absolutely so many surprises? Ad more.
- 2:21Speaker 1: All right, I'm going to call her the lockdown Kiwi.
- 2:23Speaker 3: All right, lockdown Kiwi?
- 2:24Speaker 1: All right, let's give her a bell.
- 2:30Speaker 2: We speaking?
- 2:31Speaker 1: Hello? Is this the formerly lockdown Kiwi? Oh?
- 2:35Speaker 2: Yes, hello, friend, Hello, I'm so nervous.
- 2:40Speaker 3: Why are you nervous?
- 2:42Speaker 2: I just put my daughter to sleep, went to the office,
- 2:45Speaker 2: which isn't the room she goes into, so I'm.
- 2:47Speaker 3: Hoping that she just so, you're nervous, not because of
- 2:50Speaker 3: the money diary. You're nervous going to.
- 2:53Speaker 2: The money diary. I'm so nervous because of the money diary.
- 2:57Speaker 3: But in all honesty, you should be more nervous. That
- 2:58Speaker 3: will wake your sleeping chry But that is a n story. Okay,
- 3:03Speaker 3: lockdown kyw. What has your relationship with money been like
- 3:06Speaker 3: in the past.
- 3:07Speaker 2: Well, my parents never taught me about money. My mom
- 3:10Speaker 2: didn't really talk to me about it at all, neither
- 3:13Speaker 2: did my dad, and it's not something that I learned
- 3:15Speaker 2: in school. I was very I'll make the money I'll
- 3:19Speaker 2: spend it and I'll know that i'll get paid again.
- 3:21Speaker 2: My husband, on the other hand, he was doing a
- 3:25Speaker 2: course in accounting at university and his dad always always
- 3:30Speaker 2: talked about it, but I never was willing to have
- 3:32Speaker 2: conversations with him about it because I didn't want to
- 3:35Speaker 2: argue because I've seen it in the past. So now
- 3:37Speaker 2: we're building a money story together.
- 3:40Speaker 3: Awesome and being pervy. What do you do for work now?
- 3:43Speaker 2: I went part time at a Chinese takeaway. We moved
- 3:47Speaker 2: over to Australia to bree Fith and I was very
- 3:50Speaker 2: lucky to go down to my local supermarket and there
- 3:54Speaker 2: was a Chinese restaurant outside and I just applied for
- 3:58Speaker 2: the job and got it. So I got the job
- 4:00Speaker 2: a month after we got here.
- 4:02Speaker 3: Oh, winner, you sound really kind, so I'd hire you too,
- 4:05Speaker 3: if that makes sense.
- 4:05Speaker 1: Do you have free pron crackers?
- 4:07Speaker 3: Who?
- 4:08Speaker 1: Yeah?
- 4:08Speaker 3: Do you get free pron crackers?
- 4:09Speaker 2: That's oh, my daughter every time she comes in. Obviously
- 4:13Speaker 2: she still and a half doesn't know about money. She
- 4:15Speaker 2: goes straight for the pron crackers and she's gains three times.
- 4:19Speaker 3: Yeah, woman after my own heart. Honestly, Now, would you
- 4:23Speaker 3: be comfortable telling us how much you earn and how
- 4:25Speaker 3: much is currently in your bank account?
- 4:27Speaker 2: So my husband and I got a joint bank account
- 4:30Speaker 2: when we first moved here because during COVID obviously people
- 4:34Speaker 2: were losing jobs and losing money not gaining jobs, so
- 4:39Speaker 2: we were off mine. And then my husband got a
- 4:42Speaker 2: job recently, so we make about three thousand to fortnite
- 4:46Speaker 2: and my account is two thousand.
- 4:48Speaker 3: Five hundred awesome And what is your attitude to money
- 4:51Speaker 3: and what's currently your big money goal?
- 4:54Speaker 2: My attitude has drastically changed from being reliant on savings
- 4:58Speaker 2: and stress due to COVID impact donors financially, but now
- 5:02Speaker 2: I'm empowered to replenish our savings and more in control
- 5:06Speaker 2: since listening to the She's on the Money podcast. Our
- 5:09Speaker 2: big savings goal is to own a house and create
- 5:12Speaker 2: financial stability for our future here in Australia.
- 5:15Speaker 3: Yay And wants your attitude towards investing and do you
- 5:19Speaker 3: currently have any investments?
- 5:21Speaker 2: You guys are the first ones that taught me about investing.
- 5:23Speaker 2: I didn't know anything about it. It still scares me
- 5:28Speaker 2: because my relationship with money is still mending from you know,
- 5:32Speaker 2: spending on our savings. But I know now that I'm
- 5:34Speaker 2: more in control of my money and with the knowledge
- 5:37Speaker 2: I'm gaining, we'd like to consider trying to micro invest
- 5:41Speaker 2: in future.
- 5:42Speaker 3: That's so very exciting. So what depths do you currently have?
- 5:47Speaker 2: So my husband has a student loan in New Zealand
- 5:50Speaker 2: that were currently paying off from our joint account. Other
- 5:53Speaker 2: than that, that's it now. Credit cards, no personal loans,
- 5:57Speaker 2: no finance cards or phones, which we're really proud of.
- 6:00Speaker 3: That is epic.
- 6:01Speaker 1: Do student loans in New Zealand get a bit complicated
- 6:03Speaker 1: when you leave New Zealand. I've heard the interests like
- 6:05Speaker 1: triples or something.
- 6:06Speaker 2: Yeah, so after six months after leaving the country, we
- 6:11Speaker 2: do get interests accumulated on his student loans. So it
- 6:15Speaker 2: is very hard and it is a big student loan,
- 6:18Speaker 2: but we're lucky.
- 6:19Speaker 3: It's or anything that we have interesting. So what would
- 6:23Speaker 3: you say your best money habit is.
- 6:26Speaker 2: I've never been into buying things for the sake of it.
- 6:29Speaker 2: I find deals and I don't impulse buy. I take
- 6:32Speaker 2: photos of things, I look at it for a while,
- 6:35Speaker 2: I consider the price, and if it's something I want,
- 6:38Speaker 2: I buy it. We've never had a credit card or
- 6:41Speaker 2: contracts with personal loans. However, I did use after pay
- 6:45Speaker 2: when we were trying to set up our life here,
- 6:47Speaker 2: like furniture, but I always budget for it, and I've
- 6:50Speaker 2: never had to pay extra from miss payments, and we
- 6:54Speaker 2: don't use it for things that aren't needed.
- 6:56Speaker 3: So it sounds like it was a super handy tool
- 6:58Speaker 3: in your situation.
- 6:59Speaker 2: It was. I did listen to all your podcasts that
- 7:02Speaker 2: after pay that we've been really smart about it, and
- 7:05Speaker 2: it's something that we needed when we were living off
- 7:07Speaker 2: our savings.
- 7:08Speaker 3: Yeah, and I think that that's actually something that people
- 7:11Speaker 3: get a little bit confused about when they do listen
- 7:13Speaker 3: to my podcasts, because I've actually never said get rid
- 7:16Speaker 3: of your after pay or I never use it. I
- 7:18Speaker 3: literally just said it is such a bad tool if
- 7:21Speaker 3: you're bad at money, but if you can use it
- 7:23Speaker 3: as a great tool, sometimes it's great for cash flow.
- 7:25Speaker 3: In your situation, it sounds like it was something that
- 7:27Speaker 3: really helped you through a time where you actually needed
- 7:29Speaker 3: a bit of extra money.
- 7:31Speaker 2: Yeah, it was essential. But I do I see so
- 7:35Speaker 2: many people on your group and they're always like, oh,
- 7:38Speaker 2: my money goal has been and I achieved this by
- 7:40Speaker 2: getting rid of after pay, And I think for me,
- 7:43Speaker 2: I'm very lucky to have had it, and in the
- 7:46Speaker 2: past we've always used it because we haven't had savings,
- 7:49Speaker 2: so we always just put it into our budget for payday.
- 7:54Speaker 3: I think it's a really lucky position to mean that
- 7:56Speaker 3: you don't have to use it anymore, but knowing that
- 7:59Speaker 3: the option is there should you ever need it, and
- 8:01Speaker 3: you can use it responsibly. I think that's great. On
- 8:03Speaker 3: the flip side of that question, what is your worst
- 8:06Speaker 3: money habit?
- 8:07Speaker 2: Ooh, confession time. So I work night and my husband
- 8:12Speaker 2: doesn't cook, So even though I plan to meal crips,
- 8:15Speaker 2: I never end up having time because I must stay
- 8:17Speaker 2: at home un during the day and then I work
- 8:20Speaker 2: at night, so when it's super late and I get home,
- 8:23Speaker 2: it's always just takeaways to get us fit. But since
- 8:27Speaker 2: twenty twenty one has started, I've cooked every meal and
- 8:31Speaker 2: I've done well so far.
- 8:32Speaker 3: Hey, that is epic. That is actually epic. I'm really
- 8:36Speaker 3: excited to hear that, because that's that's not a small fee.
- 8:39Speaker 1: I also empathize with you working weird hours because when
- 8:43Speaker 1: you and your partner have meals at different times, it
- 8:45Speaker 1: actually throws off everything with shopping and cooking meals and
- 8:49Speaker 1: trying to plan ahead, and it's a really tough situation.
- 8:51Speaker 1: So hopefully the good twenty twenty one have it continues.
- 8:55Speaker 1: I've got my fingers cross.
- 8:57Speaker 2: And then two year olds it's fussy.
- 8:59Speaker 3: Oh no, that adds even more complexity. All right. So
- 9:03Speaker 3: last and final question, if I forced you to give
- 9:06Speaker 3: yourself a grade, what would you give yourself?
- 9:10Speaker 2: Okay, So in New Zealand we don't do grades like that,
- 9:13Speaker 2: but I've talked to my Australian family and we've come
- 9:16Speaker 2: up with a minus.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Oh my god, minus? Okay, be minus sounds reasonable.
- 9:25Speaker 2: I don't know if it was the e but I
- 9:27Speaker 2: have room for improvements. But I'm willing to learn.
- 9:30Speaker 3: Okay, you're going to have to help me here. We
- 9:32Speaker 3: actually have a lot of Kiwi listeners. What in Kiwi
- 9:36Speaker 3: world would you have grade as yourself? Oh, profession proficient?
- 9:41Speaker 1: I don't even know. Can I just say a lockdown Kiwi?
- 9:46Speaker 1: This makes so much sense because we have a lot
- 9:48Speaker 1: of New Zealand listeners. And when I've done money dies
- 9:50Speaker 1: with people from New Zealand, I always get to this
- 9:52Speaker 1: question and kind of have to explain it. And I'm
- 9:53Speaker 1: always sitting in my office going like, why don't they
- 9:56Speaker 1: understand this? And no, one ever said, Oh, we don't
- 9:58Speaker 1: have that grading system in New Zealand.
- 10:00Speaker 2: Oh no, we don't. We always all.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Right, if I was weird or awkward to any other
- 10:05Speaker 1: Kiwi Money diaries over the last six months, this is why.
- 10:07Speaker 3: Sorry, what are the other grades? There's proficient and what
- 10:12Speaker 3: sits around that?
- 10:14Speaker 2: Basic is obviously like.
- 10:17Speaker 3: And magine being called basic by your country.
- 10:20Speaker 2: Yeah, basic procession advanced. We can go up to like
- 10:24Speaker 2: the one hundred percent months, so we do percentages.
- 10:27Speaker 3: Oh okay, all right, well I want to be called basic.
- 10:30Speaker 1: Thanks you, exam guys, Ryan, you are basic. Lockdown keyw
- 10:35Speaker 1: We have lots of questions that we'll get to, but
- 10:37Speaker 1: first we just need to take this quick break for
- 10:39Speaker 1: our sponsors. All Right, we've just heard all the details
- 10:46Speaker 1: from the lockdown Kiwi who's still on the phone, Thank
- 10:48Speaker 1: you so much for joining us. Thank you first of all,
- 10:51Speaker 1: as someone who lives in Melbourne, grew up in Melbourne
- 10:54Speaker 1: and is a proud Melbourne and I actually hate that
- 10:56Speaker 1: you moved here this year because I'm like, oh, don't
- 10:59Speaker 1: don't hate my town, because it's been really cool, I promise.
- 11:03Speaker 1: So my first question is did you ever kind of
- 11:05Speaker 1: regret moving here? Because New Zealand's had such a great
- 11:07Speaker 1: run with COVID and Melbourne really hasn't.
- 11:10Speaker 2: Just Senda, I don't love her. What she did for
- 11:13Speaker 2: New Zealand back home was incredible. However, I just haven't
- 11:17Speaker 2: had a chance to see Melbourne. Obviously we had the
- 11:20Speaker 2: five kay limit and then we had the twenty five klamit.
- 11:24Speaker 2: It's been really scary. My daughter's not old enough to
- 11:27Speaker 2: wear a mask, nor will she wear one. Taking her
- 11:30Speaker 2: out of the house was always hard. We haven't been
- 11:32Speaker 2: able to experience anything. But it's given me more time
- 11:36Speaker 2: to clean around the house and listen to the podcast.
- 11:39Speaker 3: That's okay, I'm not mad about that, but I am
- 11:41Speaker 3: a little bit upset for you because there is so
- 11:44Speaker 3: much here that there is to see, and I'm sure
- 11:46Speaker 3: you'd be able to see it soon. I think I
- 11:48Speaker 3: would really like to understand, like, if other people are
- 11:51Speaker 3: going through this situation and you've obviously kind of come
- 11:53Speaker 3: out the other side in a way, and you did
- 11:56Speaker 3: find employment and you have got some nice savings in
- 11:58Speaker 3: your account, Now, what advice would you give them?
- 12:02Speaker 2: So I have this calculus which is like dyslexia but
- 12:05Speaker 2: with money, and I always had this mindset with my
- 12:09Speaker 2: husband leads not talk about money because I've only seen
- 12:14Speaker 2: arguments come out of it. I think that listening to
- 12:17Speaker 2: the podcast, I felt more empowered to take control. I've
- 12:21Speaker 2: always been the one paying the bills, but I never
- 12:23Speaker 2: understood the value of money. So I think that is
- 12:27Speaker 2: always positive to the negatives. Obviously, coronavirus hit everybody in
- 12:32Speaker 2: different ways, but we can all say it's been a
- 12:35Speaker 2: rough year. I think if you look at the positives
- 12:38Speaker 2: and figure out how to readjust yourself so that you
- 12:41Speaker 2: can see where your future is and see how you
- 12:44Speaker 2: want your life to be. I want my daughter more
- 12:47Speaker 2: than anything to have knowledge of money now that I do,
- 12:51Speaker 2: and I don't want her money three to be the
- 12:54Speaker 2: way that mine was. I should have learned earlier. It
- 12:57Speaker 2: should be taught in school. It should be something our
- 13:00Speaker 2: parents are able to talk about, and hopefully in the
- 13:02Speaker 2: future it's something that we can adjust so that our
- 13:06Speaker 2: kids grow up with learning the value of a dollar,
- 13:09Speaker 2: learning how to stay, learning where to put money and
- 13:11Speaker 2: what they want to do with money, and how it
- 13:14Speaker 2: cannot be in control of us. We could be in
- 13:16Speaker 2: control of it.
- 13:17Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that too. I used to winge about
- 13:20Speaker 1: this all the time. And I know money and maths
- 13:23Speaker 1: obviously have similarities but a different topics.
- 13:25Speaker 3: But it's so different.
- 13:26Speaker 1: But how often do you think in high school? When
- 13:29Speaker 1: am I going to actually use this stuff? And then
- 13:31Speaker 1: you never get taught about what credit card interest is,
- 13:34Speaker 1: how to pay your taxes, all this basic stuff that
- 13:36Speaker 1: you need, but you learn about algebratic equations and you
- 13:39Speaker 1: just think, isn't that time better spent elsewhere on money stuff?
- 13:42Speaker 1: Does that annoy you? Doing?
- 13:43Speaker 3: Well, I can calculate the circumference of a circle.
- 13:45Speaker 1: So and how's that gone for you?
- 13:48Speaker 3: Well, I've never used that, but I can do it.
- 13:51Speaker 1: Yeah, what's your thoughts on with our lockdown key? We
- 13:55Speaker 1: said there that she in her mind associated talking with
- 13:58Speaker 1: money with fighting with money. They were the same thing.
- 14:01Speaker 1: And is it just a learned experience? Like that's what
- 14:03Speaker 1: you see, So that's what you assume has to happen.
- 14:05Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a learned experience. I'm assuming that you grew
- 14:08Speaker 3: up in a situation where every conversation around money would
- 14:11Speaker 3: have elicited an emotional response by the people that we're
- 14:14Speaker 3: talking about it, and therefore you have just learned that
- 14:17Speaker 3: that's what money does. To people and that's how it works.
- 14:20Speaker 3: And I think that that's just an outcome that you
- 14:22Speaker 3: see and everybody knows that what you learn, you often
- 14:25Speaker 3: learn from your parents. And I was reading a great
- 14:27Speaker 3: study the other day actually, and I'll try and link
- 14:29Speaker 3: it in our Facebook group, just purely because I think
- 14:31Speaker 3: you guys will be interested in it. But money stories
- 14:34Speaker 3: and money behaviors are ingrained from the age of seven.
- 14:37Speaker 3: Wo that's where we start to get our unconscious biases
- 14:40Speaker 3: when it comes to money. And everybody is saying, oh, yeah,
- 14:43Speaker 3: why don't you start teaching money to you know, year
- 14:45Speaker 3: eleven and twelve students when they're seventeen eighteen about to
- 14:48Speaker 3: come into the real world. And it's like, well, no,
- 14:50Speaker 3: we actually need to be teaching five and six year
- 14:52Speaker 3: olds how money works and you know what a credit
- 14:55Speaker 3: card is and why that's not a great option in
- 14:57Speaker 3: comparison to cash if you're you know, just doing the
- 14:59Speaker 3: daily sh And I think that that would have come
- 15:02Speaker 3: from that stage of your life growing up and you
- 15:05Speaker 3: just don't notice it.
- 15:06Speaker 1: Yeah, so Money Diarist our lockdown, kyw have you unlearned this?
- 15:10Speaker 1: Does that make sense? Like last year?
- 15:12Speaker 3: Unlearning it?
- 15:13Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. My husband and I we don't
- 15:16Speaker 2: fight about money, so it's definitely and grain from me
- 15:20Speaker 2: when I was little. I think now that we're able
- 15:23Speaker 2: to have the conversation, then we both see where we
- 15:27Speaker 2: want our money to go. We both see how much
- 15:30Speaker 2: we want to save. And you know, he used to
- 15:32Speaker 2: talk to me about money and I used to let
- 15:34Speaker 2: it go straight over my head. I used to think, yeah, yeah, sure.
- 15:37Speaker 2: But if he says we want to say for a house,
- 15:40Speaker 2: and we want to save this much, I think, oh
- 15:42Speaker 2: my god, that's never going to happen. Now that I'm
- 15:46Speaker 2: starting to understand it myself, knowing that we never thought
- 15:49Speaker 2: about it anyway, it wasn't my experience, and that we've
- 15:52Speaker 2: continued to have educated conversations and aren't having fights about it,
- 15:57Speaker 2: it was never a worry for myself.
- 16:00Speaker 3: Would you say that you're on the same page as
- 16:01Speaker 3: your partner when it comes to financial goals?
- 16:04Speaker 2: A million percent?
- 16:05Speaker 1: Yes.
- 16:06Speaker 2: I think back in New Zealand, we didn't necessarily have
- 16:08Speaker 2: the finances, and when we came over here and used
- 16:11Speaker 2: all of our savings, it created a very emotional bond
- 16:17Speaker 2: where my money was always oh, how are we going
- 16:19Speaker 2: to spend this? We've got savings, but we've got all
- 16:21Speaker 2: the stuff to get you know, lockdown. We can't do
- 16:24Speaker 2: anything online shopping. We couldn't get the basics for our
- 16:28Speaker 2: daughter because everyone was buying everything up online. Oh yeah, yeah,
- 16:33Speaker 2: so that was another challenge that had us really hard.
- 16:36Speaker 2: But definitely our goals for the future and finding little
- 16:40Speaker 2: things that we can get now it's really exciting.
- 16:44Speaker 3: I love that, and I think that's really important to
- 16:46Speaker 3: note as well, and like I'm going to make some
- 16:48Speaker 3: assumptions here that it has potentially brought you and your
- 16:50Speaker 3: husband a little bit closer together, which is a really
- 16:53Speaker 3: great outcome of sharing money, goals and sharing our finances
- 16:57Speaker 3: because it's just a deeper level of understanding one another.
- 16:59Speaker 3: And I think that's actually awesome.
- 17:02Speaker 1: Definitely, I liked when you said that when you want
- 17:05Speaker 1: to buy something, you just take a photo of it.
- 17:07Speaker 3: Oh I loved that. I just forgot about that until now.
- 17:10Speaker 3: I'm glad you brought that back, because.
- 17:12Speaker 1: Yeah, V you often say twenty four hours between you purchase.
- 17:14Speaker 1: I feel like there's a lot of different variations of
- 17:16Speaker 1: how can I just delay this somehow? So where did
- 17:20Speaker 1: you pick up that tip and how well has it
- 17:21Speaker 1: been working?
- 17:22Speaker 2: For you so far, I always just grazed things off
- 17:24Speaker 2: the shelf if I know I need it for my daughter,
- 17:26Speaker 2: do the same for my husband. But for me, I've
- 17:28Speaker 2: always double thought about things because I've always had the basics.
- 17:33Speaker 2: It's the things that aren't.
- 17:34Speaker 3: What's the last thing you took a photo of?
- 17:36Speaker 1: Yeah, what's I mean? I don't want to say selves.
- 17:38Speaker 3: Oh, my photo album, but show me your photo album.
- 17:42Speaker 2: It's always going to be camer.
- 17:46Speaker 3: I'm actually a bit the same. I'm not going to
- 17:48Speaker 3: say that I do that, but I am good at
- 17:50Speaker 3: screenshotting things that I think I want so that I
- 17:53Speaker 3: think I'll save them for later. And now ninety percent
- 17:56Speaker 3: of my camera roll is just screenshots of things I
- 17:58Speaker 3: think I wanted in the moment, and I have completely
- 18:00Speaker 3: forgotten about.
- 18:01Speaker 2: Oh you didn't get them, No.
- 18:03Speaker 3: I didn't. I feel like I always screenshot it for later,
- 18:06Speaker 3: and I tell myself I'll come back to it, and
- 18:09Speaker 3: then I completely forget to come back to it, and
- 18:10Speaker 3: I think that's a dead giveaway that I didn't need
- 18:12Speaker 3: that thing in the first place.
- 18:14Speaker 1: To be honest, do you have any other questions?
- 18:17Speaker 3: I don't think so. I'm just really grateful for your story,
- 18:19Speaker 3: to be honest, and I think that it's such a
- 18:21Speaker 3: good one for us to all learn about. And you know,
- 18:23Speaker 3: I love that you've come out the other side of
- 18:25Speaker 3: it and you're really setting great financial goals with your partner,
- 18:28Speaker 3: and that your daughter is going to learn about money,
- 18:30Speaker 3: and I just I love the impact that she's on
- 18:32Speaker 3: the money has had on you, but also just that
- 18:34Speaker 3: it seems to be extending to a completely different generation now,
- 18:37Speaker 3: which is awesome.
- 18:39Speaker 2: And I've definitely told my mum, you know, she's like, oh,
- 18:42Speaker 2: how do I get an up there that's on the
- 18:48Speaker 2: boat And she'll always say, what is this mean, Ashley.
- 18:53Speaker 3: Like, I don't know, let me read it. What are
- 18:55Speaker 3: you talking about?
- 18:56Speaker 1: Yeah, now that your partner's got a new job and
- 18:59Speaker 1: you guys are on your feet, we'd love to give
- 19:01Speaker 1: you the budgeting and cash Flow master class as well,
- 19:03Speaker 1: because I think it's at the start of a new year,
- 19:06Speaker 1: new job, it's a great time to set yourselves up
- 19:08Speaker 1: and see where you can get to in the next
- 19:09Speaker 1: twelve months, twenty four months, few years. So we'd love
- 19:12Speaker 1: to send you that for free as well.
- 19:13Speaker 3: Really, of course, I know that you guys absolutely deserve it,
- 19:18Speaker 3: and I think it'll put you in a position where
- 19:20Speaker 3: you feel even more in control of your money. And
- 19:22Speaker 3: I think that, you know, I'd just be excited for
- 19:24Speaker 3: you to do.
- 19:24Speaker 2: It, to be honest, definitely learning some tips of how
- 19:28Speaker 2: other people say. I've heard that people use percentages of
- 19:33Speaker 2: your pay and stuff like that. I'm using the templates
- 19:36Speaker 2: at the moment, so I know that's easier for me.
- 19:38Speaker 2: I have it right above my light switch. I always
- 19:40Speaker 2: highlight it and I never take it out of this
- 19:42Speaker 2: saving if you're highlighted it, why would you want to thank?
- 19:46Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, but I've spent that, so why do so?
- 19:50Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, more tips, more knowledge? Oh I can't wait?
- 19:54Speaker 1: Would you? I feel like we need to just keep
- 19:56Speaker 1: your number for you to be the poster girl and
- 19:58Speaker 1: read the ad for the core especially.
- 20:00Speaker 3: You're going to be the She's on the money post
- 20:01Speaker 3: a girl.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Absolutely all right.
- 20:05Speaker 3: Well, thank you so so much for joining us. I
- 20:08Speaker 3: am really grateful for your story and I'm so glad
- 20:11Speaker 3: that you are a part of our community.
- 20:13Speaker 2: Thank you so much.