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- Beth B: Here's a Beth B moment, if you're allowed to reconsider a boundary, you are allowed to realize you were wrong. Because we're not always right. We're not always right. And you're allowed to apologize. I'm allowed to apologize when I've come to the conclusion that I could have made a better decision, that I Overthought something or that I said the wrong thing or that I did something wrong, I'm allowed to apologize. There's no conundrum there. I I'm I'm allowed to do that. I'm allowed to adjust when appropriate. But I'm not going to abandon every boundary simply because somebody had a rejection to the boundary in the first place. And if every no becomes a yes, the moment somebody gets upset, then your boundary wasn't really yours. The reaction was was still controlling it. And that's something worth being aware of.