Latest / Hardiness with Dr Paul Taylor / Redefining Education and Building Character Through Chess and Challenges with Kevin Cripe
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- 0:08Speaker 1: Kevin Crime. Welcome to the podcast.
- 0:11Speaker 2: Hey, thank you for having me appreciate it.
- 0:13Speaker 3: Man, this is gonna be a little bit different to
- 0:16Speaker 3: our normal podcast. Normally it's around health and well being,
- 0:19Speaker 3: but there is a link and it's through education. So
- 0:24Speaker 3: you are you're clearly very passionate about education and very
- 0:27Speaker 3: passionate about kids. Twenty seven years as a teacher, you
- 0:31Speaker 3: created a chess program for kids in poverty, You've written
- 0:35Speaker 3: three books about kids' moral development. You actually adopted three
- 0:38Speaker 3: kids from Guatemala, so you know clearly you're.
- 0:42Speaker 1: You're so passionate about this area.
- 0:44Speaker 4: Can I just ask, just at a high level before
- 0:47Speaker 4: we jump in to any detail, how have you seen
- 0:51Speaker 4: that teaching has changed over the twenty seven years.
- 0:55Speaker 1: That you've been involved in, for both good and bad.
- 0:59Speaker 5: I think a couple of things. One real quickly, there's
- 1:03Speaker 5: far more test in the US. I can speak to
- 1:05Speaker 5: the US, I don't know about the internationally, but there's
- 1:08Speaker 5: just way more testing. When I started teaching, we had
- 1:11Speaker 5: one week of testing a year in May, and then
- 1:13Speaker 5: then we get the results back at the beginning of
- 1:15Speaker 5: next year. We have June July and some bogust off
- 1:20Speaker 5: by the time I got done teaching. It was almost
- 1:23Speaker 5: a fourth of the school year was related to some
- 1:26Speaker 5: testing of some kind, so you're not getting as many
- 1:29Speaker 5: instructional days.
- 1:30Speaker 2: Like. The other big change I.
- 1:31Speaker 5: Saw was just in what what was parenting like? Like
- 1:38Speaker 5: it was a certain thing when I started, and then
- 1:40Speaker 5: there's this sort of shift and it like I had
- 1:44Speaker 5: a student fell asleep in the classroom. Second grader brought
- 1:48Speaker 5: the dad in. I think your son needs more sleep.
- 1:50Speaker 5: He goes, yeah, he staying up till two in the morning.
- 1:54Speaker 5: And I go, well, can you stop them, because yeah,
- 1:58Speaker 5: but he'll get mad at me. It won't be my
- 2:00Speaker 5: friend anymore. Oh I'm like, ah, that kid and it
- 2:07Speaker 5: isn't the kid is Kids are kids, right, they come
- 2:10Speaker 5: to school, they want to learn something. But if you
- 2:12Speaker 5: don't have structure, if you don't have rules, if you
- 2:14Speaker 5: don't if you're not the captain of the ship, that
- 2:17Speaker 5: kid's got no chance. And so that's the big shift,
- 2:21Speaker 5: and it wasn't all parents, but you saw a kind
- 2:23Speaker 5: of flavor of that. Well, I just want my kid
- 2:26Speaker 5: to like me, and I don't really want to have
- 2:27Speaker 5: structure or rules, and that that shift you saw in
- 2:31Speaker 5: a lot of places, and it's not.
- 2:33Speaker 2: A good thing.
- 2:34Speaker 1: Yeah, look I agree.
- 2:35Speaker 3: I always say to you you're not You're not their friend,
- 2:39Speaker 3: you're their parent. You're there to have the guardrails and
- 2:42Speaker 3: be unpopular at times, and I would agree. I have
- 2:47Speaker 3: noticed that thinging, Oh, you know, they'll work it out
- 2:49Speaker 3: for themselves. Bullshit, twelve year old doesn't work it art
- 2:53Speaker 3: for themselves.
- 2:54Speaker 1: I mean, it's just ridiculous, isn't it right?
- 2:58Speaker 2: No, it was.
- 3:00Speaker 5: It's a sad trend and hopefully it's just a trend
- 3:02Speaker 5: that goes away at some point.
- 3:04Speaker 2: People go, it's a bad idea.
- 3:05Speaker 3: But yes, what about the increased assessments? Because you say
- 3:11Speaker 3: exactly the same thing in Australia. I'm pretty sure I've
- 3:14Speaker 3: got friends in the UK. I'm pretty sure it's exactly
- 3:16Speaker 3: to see them. Is this a good thing or is
- 3:20Speaker 3: it a well intentioned thing with a lot of unintended
- 3:24Speaker 3: negative consequences.
- 3:27Speaker 5: I can say that some amount of testing is necessary.
- 3:31Speaker 5: We want to know are the children making progress? So
- 3:35Speaker 5: there's nothing wrong with that. The amount of testing is
- 3:39Speaker 5: absurd and indefensible. You need teachers to be able to teach,
- 3:45Speaker 5: and they shouldn't be teaching to a test the entire
- 3:48Speaker 5: They should be worried about, Okay, how they going to
- 3:49Speaker 5: do a test? How are you going to do it
- 3:51Speaker 5: on a test? It creates a really bad thing. I
- 3:54Speaker 5: read somewhere gun named Geer Gross said they did a
- 3:57Speaker 5: study of kids somewhere and they said why do you
- 3:59Speaker 5: go school? And the kids said because we have? Eighty
- 4:04Speaker 5: percent of them said because we have to. And when
- 4:07Speaker 5: you all you're doing is testing kids, and it's everything's
- 4:10Speaker 5: about the test and them being successful. The kids who
- 4:14Speaker 5: can be successful kind of get into it, but that's
- 4:16Speaker 5: about fifteen twenty percent of the kids.
- 4:18Speaker 2: The rest of the kids.
- 4:19Speaker 5: If all you're doing is looking at test result of
- 4:21Speaker 5: all that, all we see is all we value a
- 4:24Speaker 5: kid is their result. The rest check out. And that's
- 4:27Speaker 5: not a good that's not a good thing. We need
- 4:30Speaker 5: kids to every kid to show up to school and
- 4:31Speaker 5: feel valued and that they can do something meaningful to
- 4:35Speaker 5: school that we will recognize.
- 4:38Speaker 2: What what about?
- 4:39Speaker 3: And the other thing I think that has changed dramatically
- 4:42Speaker 3: in teaching is the respect for teachers. And I don't
- 4:49Speaker 3: know if it's to seem in the United States, but
- 4:52Speaker 3: here in Australia, and I know in the UK is
- 4:54Speaker 3: probably even worse. Is that now a lot of kids
- 4:58Speaker 3: been particularly around the teenage, are just going to teachers,
- 5:02Speaker 3: fuck you, what can you do? You know, what are
- 5:04Speaker 3: you going to do? Because they know that the consequences
- 5:10Speaker 3: are not the way that they used to be. Is
- 5:13Speaker 3: that something that you've noticed in the United States as
- 5:15Speaker 3: well as a trend?
- 5:17Speaker 5: I would pull it back to say respect for adults
- 5:21Speaker 5: and that kids are growing up without looking at adults
- 5:24Speaker 5: and adults a lot of times aren't doing things that
- 5:27Speaker 5: you would want to respect. And so it is a
- 5:29Speaker 5: kind of two edged sword. But if they're not respecting
- 5:32Speaker 5: teachers and not respecting police, are not respecting firefighters and
- 5:34Speaker 5: not respecting scientists, A teachers see it sometimes, I think
- 5:38Speaker 5: to a large extent. In elementary school, you have control
- 5:42Speaker 5: over your classroom and you set the tone for children,
- 5:47Speaker 5: and you can earn their respect by just being There's
- 5:51Speaker 5: a lot of things you can do. But I do
- 5:53Speaker 5: think that as a societal trend, the lack of respect
- 5:57Speaker 5: for adults in general, but it comes from a culture
- 6:00Speaker 5: that says don't respect anything or anybody. I mean, it's
- 6:03Speaker 5: it's just not a good it's not a healthy thing.
- 6:06Speaker 3: I guess probably teachers see a lot more of it
- 6:09Speaker 3: than because they've got kids, you know, the best parts
- 6:13Speaker 3: of the day.
- 6:14Speaker 5: Twenty four to thirty of them all day long. So
- 6:16Speaker 5: you know, it's it's what you do. And I always felt,
- 6:21Speaker 5: you know, when we were doing a project, success was important.
- 6:25Speaker 5: We wanted to value success, but I also felt you
- 6:28Speaker 5: had to value effort and you had to value improvement equally.
- 6:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 6:33Speaker 5: So if all you do is all you do is
- 6:35Speaker 5: reward the successful, again, twenty percent of them engage, eighty
- 6:39Speaker 5: percent of them check out, and they might be nice,
- 6:40Speaker 5: they might sit there and not talk or be a bother,
- 6:43Speaker 5: but you're losing eighty percent of your class. And so
- 6:46Speaker 5: when we were doing projects and doing different things in
- 6:49Speaker 5: my classroom, they knew all I have to do is
- 6:51Speaker 5: show up and give my best effort. Whatever that is,
- 6:54Speaker 5: mister Crap's gonna care about and value it, just like
- 6:56Speaker 5: the best kid in the classroom. And I'm not going
- 6:58Speaker 5: to be compared to the clap student. I'm going to
- 7:01Speaker 5: be compared to myself and what did I do yesterday?
- 7:04Speaker 5: And did I do better today? Am I trying? And
- 7:06Speaker 5: that's what mattered to me.
- 7:07Speaker 3: Yeah, Look, I love the quote Jordan Peterson. Lots of
- 7:11Speaker 3: people hate him. Lots of people love him. But I
- 7:13Speaker 3: remember one thing I heard him say, don't compare yourself
- 7:16Speaker 3: to anybody else. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday.
- 7:19Speaker 3: And I would add to that, who you were yesterday,
- 7:21Speaker 3: last week, last month, last year, right. And I remember, actually,
- 7:25Speaker 3: probably the biggest influence on our parenting, I did a
- 7:29Speaker 3: half day workshop with Carol Dweck, who you imagine you're
- 7:33Speaker 3: familiar with, and this was fifteen years ago, and how
- 7:38Speaker 3: I came out of that workshop completely changed in terms
- 7:42Speaker 3: of my attitude with parenting and in terms of how
- 7:44Speaker 3: we praised and not praising results, but praising.
- 7:48Speaker 1: Effort and dedication. I think that was fundamental.
- 7:53Speaker 5: If it occurs, and if you can make that a
- 7:56Speaker 5: school white thing. And I think Hattie don Hattie, a
- 8:00Speaker 5: famous educator, wrote Visible Learning for Teachers at his top
- 8:05Speaker 5: thing of analysis when they did all these analysis collector
- 8:08Speaker 5: teacher efficacy, which is are all the teachers rallied around
- 8:13Speaker 5: and supporting these big challenges so that kids can see
- 8:16Speaker 5: it and feel it. And if you have a school
- 8:18Speaker 5: that's in a sort of relentless challenge mode, but kids
- 8:22Speaker 5: are seeing they support me and care about me, and
- 8:25Speaker 5: we're all getting this together, that school can do amazing things.
- 8:29Speaker 5: If all you're doing is rewarding, is successful. You can
- 8:32Speaker 5: walk into school and you just sense immediately eighty percent
- 8:37Speaker 5: of kids, seventy percent whatever are just kind of there
- 8:40Speaker 5: and it's not a good thing. So you really have
- 8:44Speaker 5: to that idea that we want to value all children.
- 8:49Speaker 2: As much as possible. We do have rules, we do
- 8:51Speaker 2: have boundaries.
- 8:52Speaker 5: Schools should have rules and be able to discipline students
- 8:54Speaker 5: if they're not doing right. But you are if you
- 8:56Speaker 5: are engaging ninety to ninety five percent of your kids
- 8:59Speaker 5: in something, you'll find you have a lot less behavior
- 9:01Speaker 5: problems too.
- 9:03Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think that probably is even deeper when
- 9:09Speaker 3: it comes to disadvantage story. So I've done quite a
- 9:12Speaker 3: lot of work with different schools, and some of them
- 9:16Speaker 3: I've worked with private schools, I've worked with public schools
- 9:19Speaker 3: and normal or as. I've worked with public schools and
- 9:21Speaker 3: disadvantage stories, and particularly seeing the effort and the passion
- 9:27Speaker 3: of the teachers in those disadvantage stories is it's amazing
- 9:33Speaker 3: what some of them do. But I think it makes
- 9:36Speaker 3: teaching so much harder when you know you're in those
- 9:41Speaker 3: disadvantage stories. Particularly, I think if there's been generational unemployment
- 9:46Speaker 3: with the parents and all of those things and low
- 9:50Speaker 3: expectations kind of passed on. How have you any commentary
- 9:55Speaker 3: around that observations You may be completely different.
- 9:58Speaker 5: But I remember when we my first year, I was
- 10:02Speaker 5: going to take students to Nationals. That meant getting a
- 10:05Speaker 5: bunch of kids in California, putting them on an airplane and
- 10:07Speaker 5: going to the Nationals, which were in North Carolina that year.
- 10:11Speaker 5: And we had a school meeting of teachers and administrators
- 10:14Speaker 5: talk about should the school spend money to help support this?
- 10:17Speaker 5: And I had a Hispanic female teacher come to me
- 10:19Speaker 5: after the meeting and she said to me, Kevin, don't
- 10:23Speaker 5: take these kids to Nationals because they will only embarrass themselves.
- 10:30Speaker 5: And you just and I am a civil prit Teachers
- 10:33Speaker 5: need to be civil. So there's a bunch of thoughts
- 10:36Speaker 5: that just kind of went careening through my brain and said,
- 10:38Speaker 5: they can't say that, I can't say that, they just don't.
- 10:40Speaker 5: Thank you for your comment, appreciate it. But then as
- 10:42Speaker 5: a person, I just went, I'm going to take students
- 10:45Speaker 5: to every single tournament I can get them to as
- 10:46Speaker 5: long as I feel like this is what I want
- 10:49Speaker 5: to do, and I did two hundred tournaments and fourteen
- 10:51Speaker 5: national championships, had a lot of help from people. Sometimes
- 10:54Speaker 5: just paid for things out of my pocket. But whenever
- 10:56Speaker 5: they went trophies, they said bring them back to school,
- 10:58Speaker 5: show them to all the teachers, because I wanted that
- 11:01Speaker 5: message like these kids can do, so, these kids can achieve,
- 11:04Speaker 5: and and I believe in it.
- 11:07Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 11:08Speaker 3: I remember seeing some research many many years ago that
- 11:12Speaker 3: that one of the biggest determinants of the success of
- 11:17Speaker 3: a kid was the expectations of the teacher that and
- 11:21Speaker 3: whether this was was overt or are kind of sort
- 11:26Speaker 3: of underneath.
- 11:27Speaker 1: It was like when the teacher expected.
- 11:30Speaker 3: The student to do well, they actually did better, but
- 11:33Speaker 3: when the teacher had very low expectations of the student
- 11:37Speaker 3: and the student didn't do so well at all.
- 11:40Speaker 5: Yeah, if you you know, it's it's kind of an
- 11:42Speaker 5: axiom in the US. You know, you treat them all
- 11:44Speaker 5: like they're geniuses. You don't find that they're all geniuses. Okay,
- 11:48Speaker 5: so that's true. There's there's some kids who aren't geniuses,
- 11:50Speaker 5: but you find a lot more geniuses. You find there
- 11:53Speaker 5: are a lot more smart kids. If you say, I
- 11:55Speaker 5: think there's more smart ones here, I give it just
- 11:57Speaker 5: a quick quick story.
- 11:59Speaker 2: We had a you know year in my school.
- 12:01Speaker 5: We you know, kids would come in and like third grade,
- 12:03Speaker 5: it's just nine and ten years old, and the whole
- 12:06Speaker 5: math curriculum was based on they know multiplication facts. And
- 12:10Speaker 5: so none of my students do any multiplication facts coming in,
- 12:13Speaker 5: so like day one, they're supposed to know them all
- 12:15Speaker 5: and we don't know any of them. So I had
- 12:17Speaker 5: this program. We created it. I created it, and the
- 12:20Speaker 5: four week program so that every student, ninety five percent
- 12:23Speaker 5: of my students are gonna mass these things and we're
- 12:25Speaker 5: gonna have a competition at the end against upper graders,
- 12:28Speaker 5: like sixth graders, and we're gonna pair up students against
- 12:31Speaker 5: the upper grader and we're gonna have a little pair
- 12:32Speaker 5: like a like a match. And so the you know,
- 12:36Speaker 5: my best girl could do like one hundred multiplication facts
- 12:39Speaker 5: in forty seconds or some ridiculously low time.
- 12:43Speaker 2: And we all knew she was gonna win her pairing.
- 12:45Speaker 5: But she came to me the week before and said,
- 12:48Speaker 5: my parents are going to Disneyland and I'm going with them.
- 12:51Speaker 5: So I called in a group the kind of the
- 12:54Speaker 5: second the next kind of group, and I said, who
- 12:56Speaker 5: wants to be the number one seed basically wants to
- 12:59Speaker 5: take on the sixth graders, and it's curling.
- 13:02Speaker 2: Adriana goes, I'll do it, mister Craig, and so okay. Cool.
- 13:05Speaker 5: So the day of the competition arrives and we go
- 13:08Speaker 5: to library, which means I get to prepare set up
- 13:11Speaker 5: the room because we have kids switching back and forth
- 13:13Speaker 5: through two different classrooms. And Adriana comes to me and
- 13:16Speaker 5: she just looks at me and she says, mister Craig,
- 13:19Speaker 5: I don't think I can beat those boys in the
- 13:23Speaker 5: sixth graders. And I said, well, you know, Adrianie, know
- 13:27Speaker 5: what I see when I look in your eyes? And
- 13:30Speaker 5: she goes, what I see greatness, And greatness isn't about
- 13:34Speaker 5: a result. Greatness is about the effort you put in
- 13:37Speaker 5: and the idea that you would take the challenge in
- 13:40Speaker 5: the first place. And if you keep doing that, if
- 13:43Speaker 5: you keep taking challenges, and if you keep trying your hardest,
- 13:47Speaker 5: you might get. You might not win, you might sometimes,
- 13:50Speaker 5: but you're going to achieve great things in life. So
- 13:53Speaker 5: we I go wandering off, I set up my room
- 13:55Speaker 5: and we switch all the kids around Adrian and happens
- 13:57Speaker 5: to be in the front and between two sixth grade boys,
- 13:59Speaker 5: because there's more sixth graders than third graders, and she
- 14:01Speaker 5: has to beat both of them. And I go, I
- 14:04Speaker 5: go over the rules and I go, ready, set, go,
- 14:05Speaker 5: and they turn over their paper and I hear the
- 14:07Speaker 5: snap and her pencil broke. I've never heard that before.
- 14:10Speaker 5: I've done this a lot of times, never hurt. So
- 14:12Speaker 5: I throw a pencil. And the best way of describing
- 14:16Speaker 5: what happened was afterwards, I went to the teacher whose
- 14:18Speaker 5: class we mixed the kids up with, and I said,
- 14:21Speaker 5: what did your students think about this competition? Go? They
- 14:25Speaker 5: really liked it, But they all came back from your
- 14:27Speaker 5: class and said the same thing. There was this third
- 14:30Speaker 5: grade girl, and when we started, her pencil broke, and
- 14:34Speaker 5: she still beat everybody in the classroom. And it was
- 14:38Speaker 5: because she knew I valued her beyond the result. She
- 14:43Speaker 5: could win, she could lose, her pencil could break four times.
- 14:47Speaker 5: I was just gonna. I cared about her, and I
- 14:50Speaker 5: put into her life that if you keep doing these things,
- 14:54Speaker 5: accepting challenges and trying your hardest and doing your best,
- 14:58Speaker 5: you're gonna do some great things and it won't always
- 15:01Speaker 5: go your way, and you know that. I know that
- 15:03Speaker 5: sometimes it doesn't go our way, but if you keep
- 15:06Speaker 5: wanting a challenge and accepting it and responding to it,
- 15:09Speaker 5: you're gonna do great things that we want, of course,
- 15:11Speaker 5: because we know our math facts by that point, and
- 15:13Speaker 5: went on and did really well in math that year
- 15:15Speaker 5: because it helps. But I just you know, that's what's
- 15:18Speaker 5: always my message to students is I care about you
- 15:23Speaker 5: more than the result, and I'm gonna and I'm gonna
- 15:26Speaker 5: put that into practice every day, and so just watching
- 15:30Speaker 5: them do amazing things.
- 15:31Speaker 2: They're my heroes. My students are my heroes.
- 15:35Speaker 3: I think every single parent, teacher, and coach should rewind
- 15:40Speaker 3: this for about two minutes to that quote that you said,
- 15:44Speaker 3: and write that down verbatum and say it every single
- 15:49Speaker 3: day to every one of their parents and be one
- 15:51Speaker 3: of their kids, right because it epitomizes what we call
- 15:54Speaker 3: challenge orientation in artiness, which I'm a big fan of.
- 15:58Speaker 3: And having that challenge orientation where you view difficulties or
- 16:04Speaker 3: threats as challenges and it's not about the art come,
- 16:07Speaker 3: it's about it's about the process. I think that that's hugely,
- 16:12Speaker 3: hugely important.
- 16:13Speaker 5: It's they did you go ahead, but yeah, so you know,
- 16:18Speaker 5: you go.
- 16:20Speaker 2: I would just pointing out.
- 16:21Speaker 5: You know, we're at a national championship in twos on Arizona,
- 16:25Speaker 5: and my best player was Danny. There's six hundred kids
- 16:27Speaker 5: in a section, and he knows if he wins the
- 16:29Speaker 5: last round, he's in the top five. You know, he's
- 16:33Speaker 5: gonna go six out of seven. And so right before
- 16:36Speaker 5: the round, a bunch of kids come run after me, go,
- 16:39Speaker 5: Danny just threw up, all right, So I go walk.
- 16:41Speaker 5: I never panic. I just walk up there. Hey, Danny,
- 16:43Speaker 5: what's going on? There's a big pala vomit. There's like
- 16:46Speaker 5: three thousand kids going into the main room. It's five
- 16:49Speaker 5: minutes before the round, and there's thirteen kids staring at me,
- 16:52Speaker 5: watching and listening to everything I'm gonna say. And there's
- 16:55Speaker 5: Danny at the big pala barf on the floor, and
- 16:57Speaker 5: I just go, Hey, a couple of things, Danny. One,
- 17:00Speaker 5: if you're sick, we have a nurse along on the trip.
- 17:02Speaker 5: We're going to take a doctor because that's what we do.
- 17:04Speaker 5: We're adults, we care about children. We wanted to get healthy. Now,
- 17:07Speaker 5: if you're nervous, I want you to remember something. Every
- 17:11Speaker 5: person who's great at anything. And I went over some
- 17:13Speaker 5: sports athletes from the US, Michael Jordan, you know, all
- 17:16Speaker 5: the all the people I know, they get extremely nervous
- 17:19Speaker 5: before big matches. But I want you to remember this.
- 17:23Speaker 5: You've earned your way into doing something meaningful. Eighty percent
- 17:27Speaker 5: of this group, these six hundred students, have no chance
- 17:31Speaker 5: at winning anything. But because you've tried every day and
- 17:33Speaker 5: you've put in the effort, you are in this exceptional
- 17:37Speaker 5: place of being able to compete for the top. And
- 17:40Speaker 5: I said, learn to accept that and value that, and
- 17:45Speaker 5: you'll get comfortable with it, and you're going to find
- 17:47Speaker 5: you're going to get there more often. So all these
- 17:49Speaker 5: kids are listening to me and they call to kind
- 17:51Speaker 5: of turn around, walk over, and so one more thing,
- 17:53Speaker 5: jan So if you if you're going to throw up again,
- 17:56Speaker 5: aim for the floor, because nobody wants to play chess
- 17:58Speaker 5: on a board covered in barf. So they all laugh,
- 18:01Speaker 5: which is what I want. I wanted them to laugh
- 18:03Speaker 5: as they're walking in. And so Daddy comes out first,
- 18:06Speaker 5: like ten minutes after the round, and he's stoic, just
- 18:07Speaker 5: absolutely no expression, And I go, what happened?
- 18:10Speaker 2: Because I won?
- 18:11Speaker 5: So he's going to be in the top five out
- 18:12Speaker 5: of six hundred and during that time, and this is
- 18:16Speaker 5: the most important lesson I took from this. All of
- 18:20Speaker 5: the students had gone over to watch him play, like
- 18:23Speaker 5: this kid just threw up and he's playing in a
- 18:25Speaker 5: championship and he won. So we had the other thirteen
- 18:29Speaker 5: kids all won, And I thought, when you are that
- 18:32Speaker 5: person who takes a challenge and accepts a challenge and
- 18:35Speaker 5: can make your way through it, and it might be hard,
- 18:37Speaker 5: it might be difficult, might you might be nervous there,
- 18:39Speaker 5: it might be you are inspiring others to do the
- 18:42Speaker 5: same thing. And that's where leaders. Leaders are formed. And
- 18:45Speaker 5: he became one of the first people in his family
- 18:47Speaker 5: to graduate from a university, specific the degree in civil
- 18:51Speaker 5: engineering and doing a wonderful job in Stockton, California.
- 18:54Speaker 2: And so just.
- 18:55Speaker 5: Knowing that, yeah, it's gonna be hard, Yeah you just
- 18:59Speaker 5: barfed before the let's but I don't care if you
- 19:03Speaker 5: can go in and play, and I'm going to be
- 19:04Speaker 5: happy with whatever you do. And he knew that and
- 19:06Speaker 5: he won. And so those things matter to kids when
- 19:10Speaker 5: they're when you put them in a situation where it's
- 19:12Speaker 5: a challenge, you have to be the adult that says,
- 19:16Speaker 5: I put him in here, and I'm going to accept whatever,
- 19:18Speaker 5: and I'm going to value them, because if you don't,
- 19:21Speaker 5: then you're crummy human being. You're your bad teacher, bad parent.
- 19:24Speaker 5: If you only value success and you get mad at
- 19:25Speaker 5: your kids when they failed in then you're just a terrible,
- 19:28Speaker 5: terrible human being, whatever capacity you are.
- 19:31Speaker 3: Yeah, no, absolutely, I would probably have told Danny as
- 19:34Speaker 3: well that barfing is just his body preparing him for
- 19:38Speaker 3: action and wanting to focus completely on the chest and
- 19:42Speaker 3: not on digesting his food.
- 19:43Speaker 1: So it got rid of it so he could be
- 19:45Speaker 1: leaders or focused.
- 19:46Speaker 3: And now we've been talking about championships, it's obviously chess.
- 19:50Speaker 3: A couple of people will have realized that, but we
- 19:53Speaker 3: weren't averted about that.
- 19:54Speaker 1: Why where did the idea.
- 19:56Speaker 3: Come to you to teach this advantage students chess?
- 20:02Speaker 2: I remember my first year.
- 20:05Speaker 5: My mom is a teacher, my dad's a teacher, my
- 20:07Speaker 5: brother's a teacher, my sister's a Teacher's gonna. I tried
- 20:10Speaker 5: to do other things, but it was kind of sucked
- 20:11Speaker 5: into teaching. And I'm at a school where it's ninety
- 20:15Speaker 5: percent free and reduced lunch, which in the United States
- 20:17Speaker 5: is a major poverty, a high poverty, and then ninety
- 20:20Speaker 5: percent English language learner. Almost all the students were Mexican,
- 20:24Speaker 5: and so in the first year as a first year
- 20:26Speaker 5: teacher that you go to staffroom, the teacher's always asking
- 20:28Speaker 5: you who are your smart ones? And I go, well,
- 20:30Speaker 5: that's a pretty smart one. And sometimes they go, no,
- 20:32Speaker 5: that one's been retained. No, that one's not very smart. No,
- 20:35Speaker 5: that was not very smart. And so by the end
- 20:37Speaker 5: of the first year I was like, no, I think
- 20:38Speaker 5: these kids are smart. I want to do something. And
- 20:41Speaker 5: my brother is a life master in Jesse, he's twenty
- 20:43Speaker 5: two hundred. I played chess. I said, you know, I
- 20:48Speaker 5: could create a chess program my second year and I
- 20:51Speaker 5: went to some students who are in my first class.
- 20:53Speaker 5: I said, you guys want to be a chess programmer
- 20:55Speaker 5: and go tournaments. They had no idea what chess was.
- 20:57Speaker 5: They just thought like the idea of taking off and
- 20:58Speaker 5: going places, and the parents were very supportive, and so
- 21:02Speaker 5: we started it just kind of out of my reaction
- 21:05Speaker 5: to like hearing these kids aren't very smart. And the
- 21:08Speaker 5: one thing about chess almost uniquely is if you see
- 21:10Speaker 5: kids playing and playing it well at all, you go
- 21:13Speaker 5: those are pretty smart kids, right, you know, it's not
- 21:16Speaker 5: like rolling dice or anything else.
- 21:18Speaker 2: If they're playing chess very chic.
- 21:21Speaker 5: I was able to show people there are some really
- 21:24Speaker 5: smart kids and just because they've been retained because they
- 21:26Speaker 5: speak Spanish terrible thing to do, doesn't mean they're not smart.
- 21:31Speaker 2: And so that was kind of my entry way into
- 21:34Speaker 2: doing it. That's why.
- 21:36Speaker 3: And and what do you think that chess teaches kids?
- 21:43Speaker 3: I mean you talk about cognitive architecture and instructional design
- 21:48Speaker 3: and how that plays into chess. So what is the
- 21:52Speaker 3: value of.
- 21:54Speaker 1: Teaching these kids to play chess?
- 21:56Speaker 5: Okay, there is in that cognitive architecture instructional design some
- 22:01Speaker 5: things I saw because there's a pay they wrote a
- 22:04Speaker 5: Sweller Van marrying Bore and Poss wrote this paper called
- 22:07Speaker 5: Cognitive Architecture and Instructural Design. As watching my students who
- 22:11Speaker 5: were competing against the top public and private schools in
- 22:13Speaker 5: the country and having to catch up to them and
- 22:17Speaker 5: do pretty well at it, and I was I had
- 22:20Speaker 5: structured some problem sets in a way that you don't
- 22:23Speaker 5: see most problem sets. And I say, here's what I
- 22:24Speaker 5: think's happening. And the late doctor Van Marrying Bore and
- 22:29Speaker 5: then the doctor Sweller I had some emails back and forth,
- 22:32Speaker 5: and they said, here's something that's called the transfer of
- 22:34Speaker 5: paradox and the variability effect. The transfer paradox basically says,
- 22:40Speaker 5: if you challenge kids, they may do worse initially on assessments,
- 22:47Speaker 5: but they're creating chunks of informations chunking, and then they
- 22:50Speaker 5: create schemas out of these chunks. And if those initial
- 22:56Speaker 5: chunks are more complex and you can engage them in
- 22:59Speaker 5: the process of learning those bigger chunks, they'll do worse
- 23:03Speaker 5: initially on assessments, but then on the later assessments they're
- 23:06Speaker 5: going to do much better. Whereas if you teach them
- 23:08Speaker 5: really easy stuff at the beginning, they get used to
- 23:10Speaker 5: only easy stuff and they can never get make that
- 23:14Speaker 5: it gets harder and harder to make the jump to
- 23:15Speaker 5: more complex stuff. And so the transfer that transfer paradox
- 23:21Speaker 5: is saying, literally, and you can see it in different
- 23:23Speaker 5: ways mentioned throughout educational literature, is saying, make it harder,
- 23:28Speaker 5: not ridiculously hard, and and and don't and value the
- 23:32Speaker 5: process of learning. If they don't get it right right away,
- 23:35Speaker 5: that's okay, right, but make those chunks a little bit
- 23:39Speaker 5: more challenging, and they're going to grow faster and there
- 23:42Speaker 5: and their brains are wired. There's neuroplasticity in children, and
- 23:46Speaker 5: their brains are wired to want a challenge in the
- 23:48Speaker 5: first place. Most Now you can't say all, because you
- 23:51Speaker 5: don't say all about anybody, but and so I just
- 23:54Speaker 5: learned that. And so we were able to go up
- 23:57Speaker 5: and take kids to terminents where they're competing. Is that
- 23:59Speaker 5: Google exec children, you know, the Silicon Valley families, And
- 24:04Speaker 5: they did just fine. They sometimes they win, sometimes they lose,
- 24:07Speaker 5: but it wasn't that they were out classed in any way.
- 24:10Speaker 5: And so that part of watching the science of how
- 24:12Speaker 5: kids learned was really fun watching what.
- 24:16Speaker 2: It did for them as people.
- 24:19Speaker 5: And the best player I had was a girl named Julie,
- 24:22Speaker 5: Danny's older sister, and she had gone to a tournament
- 24:24Speaker 5: in Berkeley. I'd taken her up with a group and
- 24:27Speaker 5: his three day tournament games could last six hours. And
- 24:30Speaker 5: what I had done chess six hours, wow, six hours
- 24:34Speaker 5: six games. So you know, so chess is a game
- 24:36Speaker 5: where there's sections, there's E d CB, a expert master.
- 24:40Speaker 5: And so if you wanted to take your good students
- 24:43Speaker 5: and help them grow, the most you would put them
- 24:45Speaker 5: up a section in a tournament. So Julie was a
- 24:47Speaker 5: bad player, and I purposely put her up in an
- 24:50Speaker 5: a section. And so she went six and oh right
- 24:56Speaker 5: and destroyed all adult men who'd been playing chess their
- 24:59Speaker 5: whole life.
- 25:00Speaker 2: She's six and hours.
- 25:00Speaker 5: She wins like eight hundred dollars, and we're coming out
- 25:02Speaker 5: of the polly ballroom. We've walked down the stairs. It's nighttime.
- 25:05Speaker 5: I got to teach the next day. I'm kind of tired,
- 25:07Speaker 5: so I'm ahead of the kids. Kids move slowly, and
- 25:09Speaker 5: I'm like seventy five yards ahead of the kids, and.
- 25:13Speaker 2: This guy comes. Adult man becomes running out of the
- 25:16Speaker 2: polley ballroom and Julie Way, Julie Waite. He's running this
- 25:20Speaker 2: fast he can towards her.
- 25:21Speaker 5: Now, all my kids knew how to fight because they
- 25:23Speaker 5: were surrounded by all the major Mexican gangs, so I
- 25:25Speaker 5: wasn't worried about their safety.
- 25:26Speaker 2: I mean could have been, but they could take that
- 25:29Speaker 2: guy out.
- 25:30Speaker 5: But I was kind of worried, like, what is this
- 25:32Speaker 5: crazy guy want with Julie's fourteen year old girl? So
- 25:35Speaker 5: I go trudging back and he has some interaction, runs
- 25:38Speaker 5: off and I get there like, Hey, what.
- 25:40Speaker 2: Happened, Julie kit Bossa, what happened?
- 25:42Speaker 5: It's a big smile on her face, and she goes,
- 25:45Speaker 5: he asked me for my autograph. And she became the
- 25:49Speaker 5: first she became the first person in her family to
- 25:52Speaker 5: graduate from a university. See that that moment where she's
- 25:56Speaker 5: been told I'm dumb or implied through countless the ways
- 26:01Speaker 5: throughout her young life as I'm not gonna do anything,
- 26:04Speaker 5: I'm gonna live in this neighborhood, I'm gonna be surrounded
- 26:06Speaker 5: by poverty. And and then someone comes running out of
- 26:09Speaker 5: a ballroom to get her autograph because she's special. And
- 26:12Speaker 5: I was told by lots of people in the chess community, Barier,
- 26:15Speaker 5: that girl's a genius. She's a genius, she's smart. And
- 26:19Speaker 5: and so chess changed the dynamic of how those children
- 26:23Speaker 5: thought about themselves.
- 26:25Speaker 2: And that was an amazing thing to watch.
- 26:27Speaker 5: And it happened and a lot of different times with
- 26:29Speaker 5: a lot of different students.
- 26:31Speaker 2: But I just remember that smile, and I remember saying,
- 26:33Speaker 2: he asked me for my autograph. That's so cool.
- 26:37Speaker 1: Yeah, that that that is very cool and and.
- 26:39Speaker 3: And it's really about self efficacy, isn't it and at
- 26:42Speaker 3: that deeper level of that than driving in her you know,
- 26:47Speaker 3: I can be very very good at something, and that
- 26:51Speaker 3: that that internal self efficacy and self confidence is critical
- 26:58Speaker 3: in helping people to overcome obstacles and British challenge, I think.
- 27:06Speaker 5: Because you see that when you put a challenge in
- 27:09Speaker 5: front of a child, how much they can grow. And
- 27:12Speaker 5: then you see the examples of like the worst parents
- 27:15Speaker 5: in history, which is their kids are much stronger than
- 27:18Speaker 5: other players, and they try in some way and they
- 27:21Speaker 5: can you can manipulate ratings and you can do all
- 27:23Speaker 5: kinds of crazy things so that they can put their
- 27:25Speaker 5: kids down in lower sections so they can win that wordlessly,
- 27:29Speaker 5: so they win. And then when they get to adulthood
- 27:32Speaker 5: they realize the world out there is not gonna is
- 27:34Speaker 5: not set up for them to win every single time.
- 27:36Speaker 5: And those parents have done such a disservice by not
- 27:40Speaker 5: getting their child in competitive environments where they have to
- 27:45Speaker 5: are challenged and you know, of course they need support.
- 27:48Speaker 5: Of course they're not gonna win every time, but that
- 27:51Speaker 5: allows you to go out into the world and go, Okay,
- 27:52Speaker 5: maybe I don't get it this time, but I'm going
- 27:54Speaker 5: to keep going. And that idea that I'm going to
- 27:57Speaker 5: keep going on. I'm going to keep trying and I'm
- 27:58Speaker 5: gonna get this because I'm okay with me.
- 28:01Speaker 2: It's okay. It's not the worst thing in the world.
- 28:03Speaker 5: And to see those parents just and a lot of
- 28:05Speaker 5: times as parents who are fluent and have the resources
- 28:08Speaker 5: to rig the system for their children, and then they
- 28:11Speaker 5: get to be become adults and they're just miserable adults.
- 28:14Speaker 5: They don't can't do anything. They as soon as something
- 28:16Speaker 5: goes wrong they panic again, I need.
- 28:18Speaker 2: Therapy, I need this. I can't do that.
- 28:21Speaker 5: You probably see that in Australia sometimes, I don't think
- 28:24Speaker 5: it's a worldwide concept.
- 28:28Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's very stereotypical.
- 28:30Speaker 3: Stereotypical story of growth, growth, and fixed mindset by Carl
- 28:35Speaker 3: Dwack Right, It's it's you just described someone you know
- 28:39Speaker 3: who's always trying to engineer wins, you know, that develops
- 28:45Speaker 3: that fixed mindset, which means that they they they don't
- 28:49Speaker 3: they don't walk, they don't, they shy away from challenges,
- 28:51Speaker 3: they make excuses.
- 28:53Speaker 1: All of this stuff. I mean, he's just it's so
- 28:56Speaker 1: frigging important this stuff.
- 28:58Speaker 3: And but let's let's know, I want to widen the
- 29:03Speaker 3: lens a little bit because you have worked in in
- 29:06Speaker 3: disadvantage areas for for quite a lot a lot of
- 29:09Speaker 3: your career, and what's the achievement gap? So you talk
- 29:13Speaker 3: about this achievement gap. So first of all, let's identify
- 29:17Speaker 3: what the achievement gap is.
- 29:19Speaker 2: The achievement gap.
- 29:23Speaker 5: Is this sort of expectation they have for students, and
- 29:27Speaker 5: in some schools it never closes. And so they wonder
- 29:33Speaker 5: why these students are continually underachieving and not closing the gap,
- 29:39Speaker 5: and and and and so they're they're using test scores
- 29:44Speaker 5: or using data, they're using all this stuff, and they
- 29:46Speaker 5: just see, particularly in poor areas, where they have this
- 29:50Speaker 5: path that students are supposed to take, and then you
- 29:53Speaker 5: find that they're underperforming consistently, and so that creates a gap,
- 29:58Speaker 5: and we wonder do we close that gap? And I
- 30:02Speaker 5: think you know two things should be said. One, in
- 30:06Speaker 5: areas in the United States where there's children in schools
- 30:09Speaker 5: that are high poverty, a lot of times of resources,
- 30:11Speaker 5: a lot of times of money aren't given. That's a
- 30:13Speaker 5: political argument that that's something that can be dealt with
- 30:16Speaker 5: later or in a separate way. But the other thing
- 30:20Speaker 5: is the approach to children and the tendency. And I'll
- 30:25Speaker 5: go back to something I said is to look at
- 30:27Speaker 5: those children go oh, por posito. It's a word that
- 30:30Speaker 5: means that it's in Spanish. Poor little child. They can't
- 30:33Speaker 5: do anything, So we'll just give them easy stuff. And
- 30:36Speaker 5: if you're a teacher and you're faced with an administrator
- 30:39Speaker 5: who's wanting to see good test scores, and you want
- 30:42Speaker 5: to teach, ah, okay, I can do rat cat matt, Okay,
- 30:46Speaker 5: here's something, here's a boy, and what's that sat okay,
- 30:49Speaker 5: And you can do all these simple things, and then
- 30:51Speaker 5: you can have your classic and assessmen, get one hundred
- 30:53Speaker 5: percent right, and then you can show your administry I
- 30:56Speaker 5: got one hundred percent, and and you can be a teacher. Well,
- 31:00Speaker 5: I want to I want to make a little harder
- 31:01Speaker 5: at the beginning. And you're not going to show your
- 31:03Speaker 5: principle one hundred percent. He's going to go, well, your
- 31:04Speaker 5: kids aren't doing that well in assessments, and you go,
- 31:07Speaker 5: but by making it harder first and putting complexity in it,
- 31:12Speaker 5: they're gonna do a lot better later and we can
- 31:14Speaker 5: close that gap. Well, he's facing his administers, the district administrators,
- 31:19Speaker 5: and everybody wants good test scores, and so this test
- 31:22Speaker 5: score driven mentality makes in particularly poorer as teachers make
- 31:26Speaker 5: the decision of I need to get the best scores
- 31:29Speaker 5: for my entire class, so I'm going to make it
- 31:31Speaker 5: a little bit easier for my students to do. And
- 31:33Speaker 5: by doing that, you in the mindset of children. You
- 31:37Speaker 5: do that year after year after year, you start to
- 31:39Speaker 5: create an inability to handle complex material and they're.
- 31:43Speaker 2: So used to basic. Yeah, you got you see what
- 31:47Speaker 2: I'm saying.
- 31:48Speaker 5: It's the mentality like these kids can't do it, we'll
- 31:50Speaker 5: make it easy for them. And then over time they're
- 31:53Speaker 5: never able to get the complex things, and as you
- 31:57Speaker 5: get to fourth and sixth grade, it just that game up,
- 32:00Speaker 5: just it becomes almost impossible to clothes.
- 32:07Speaker 1: I totally get what you're saying.
- 32:08Speaker 3: So, you know you're coming back to that cognitive architecture
- 32:11Speaker 3: and instructional design.
- 32:13Speaker 1: Is that that it is?
- 32:15Speaker 3: You know, it's a bit of sacrifice in the short
- 32:17Speaker 3: term for the long term benefits rather than looking for
- 32:21Speaker 3: those short term wins and taking boxes and actually cannibalizing
- 32:26Speaker 3: the long term development.
- 32:28Speaker 5: It is like I was, I was a terrible student
- 32:30Speaker 5: in school, and like in elementary school, I was a
- 32:32Speaker 5: trouble man.
- 32:33Speaker 2: I did do bald things. And I had two parents
- 32:35Speaker 2: were teachers.
- 32:35Speaker 5: My dad a doctor in chemistry and my mom and
- 32:38Speaker 5: a master's in education. And so when they looked at
- 32:41Speaker 5: me around fifth grade, they said, you know, he's not
- 32:44Speaker 5: doing well in school. Let's test them for the Gifted
- 32:47Speaker 5: and Talented program.
- 32:49Speaker 2: And I passed. It was a genius. Right.
- 32:51Speaker 5: So then they said, okay, he's not doing well in school,
- 32:54Speaker 5: We're going to move him into the gifted intell because
- 32:56Speaker 5: that's really really where he goots. And and but my
- 32:59Speaker 5: per were both teachers, so they thought, you know, the
- 33:01Speaker 5: problem is he's not getting challenged enough, so we're gonna
- 33:05Speaker 5: put him in.
- 33:06Speaker 2: This situation.
- 33:06Speaker 5: Didn't mean I became a great student, but it put
- 33:08Speaker 5: me in the vin. And so many times we look
- 33:10Speaker 5: at these kids who are predominantly poor, and we go, well,
- 33:15Speaker 5: the problem is maybe they're just not very smart. That's
- 33:18Speaker 5: the assumption built into the equation, and so we're going
- 33:21Speaker 5: to scale back what they know, when in fact, for
- 33:24Speaker 5: sixty to seventy percent of the students, they need to
- 33:28Speaker 5: be challenged and they can close that achievement gap and
- 33:31Speaker 5: they can go on and do spectacular things and become
- 33:34Speaker 5: first generation college graduates. So it is the mentality of
- 33:37Speaker 5: a school, the collective teacher efficacy, and the mentality of
- 33:41Speaker 5: a district that says, we're gonna We're gonna challenge and
- 33:44Speaker 5: it's going to be hard. Right now, like when we
- 33:47Speaker 5: went to our first tournament. I take students up to
- 33:49Speaker 5: their first tournament, and let's say I took ten students.
- 33:52Speaker 5: Are gonna play three games each at this in against
- 33:55Speaker 5: the top students in the area, and we're going to
- 33:57Speaker 5: lose all thirty games, right, There'll be some close games.
- 34:00Speaker 2: I come back.
- 34:00Speaker 5: Okay, guys, got a couple options. You can quit, or
- 34:03Speaker 5: you can get better and I go. But if you
- 34:05Speaker 5: get better, you're gonna win some trophies. Because I have
- 34:07Speaker 5: pictures of kids winning trophies and most almost all them
- 34:09Speaker 5: would stay in it, and then they go back and
- 34:12Speaker 5: they'd have that Okay, we lost everything, We're gonna keep going,
- 34:15Speaker 5: and then you start to see success and you start
- 34:16Speaker 5: to see them win, and it's that meant it's just
- 34:19Speaker 5: an education, that consistent mentality that I value beyond the result,
- 34:24Speaker 5: and we're gonna get through this thing together. And that
- 34:27Speaker 5: is just such a powerful message for kids that it
- 34:30Speaker 5: can close that achievement gap and almost any school. Yes,
- 34:33Speaker 5: there are resource problems that should be addressed and talked
- 34:35Speaker 5: about in a political sense, but that mentality, a school
- 34:38Speaker 5: wide mentality, can do an amazing thing.
- 34:42Speaker 1: I am.
- 34:43Speaker 3: You know, as you were talking about DoD it just
- 34:46Speaker 3: struck me that we tend to be having a similar
- 34:50Speaker 3: approach ye around mental health were And this is just
- 34:55Speaker 3: a kind of a commentary for me. But it's like
- 34:58Speaker 3: all of these trigger warnings and opt outs and if
- 35:01Speaker 3: you you know, if you're anxious, you don't need to
- 35:03Speaker 3: do this, and we just make it.
- 35:05Speaker 1: Easier and easier and easier.
- 35:07Speaker 3: For people to opt out or they have them uncomfortable emotions,
- 35:11Speaker 3: we give them pills for it, and we're not we're
- 35:14Speaker 3: doing them at disservice in the long run. There's that
- 35:17Speaker 3: short term relief, but we're actually doing them at disservice
- 35:20Speaker 3: in the wrong run because they're not learning the coping
- 35:23Speaker 3: skills to deal with a difficult life. You know, that's
- 35:27Speaker 3: just just an observation for me.
- 35:30Speaker 5: We go back, Okay, your initial question, like, how's it
- 35:33Speaker 5: different when I started teaching? Maybe get one really big
- 35:36Speaker 5: kid in your classroom. By the time I finished teaching,
- 35:40Speaker 5: you'd have five or six very obese kids in your classroom.
- 35:43Speaker 5: And when you go out to pet you have parents
- 35:45Speaker 5: with notes saying, don't allow my student to do pe.
- 35:47Speaker 5: It's too hard for them. And so they're setting their
- 35:51Speaker 5: kid up to be diabetic and to do terrist. That
- 35:54Speaker 5: kid needs me. It needs exercise. We need kids to
- 35:56Speaker 5: be active. And so that was another of the big
- 35:59Speaker 5: Chaine just that I saw, Sorry, go ahead, yeah, no.
- 36:03Speaker 3: No, I think we are again as I talked about earlier.
- 36:08Speaker 3: It's well intentioned inter vengeance, but have the have a
- 36:13Speaker 3: whole bunch of unintended consequences down the track. Let's let's
- 36:19Speaker 3: let's switch tacked a little bit. I want to talk
- 36:23Speaker 3: about your your books. So why did you why did
- 36:29Speaker 3: you decide to write a series of kids books? And
- 36:33Speaker 3: you've got a trilogy, you got The Little Boy who
- 36:36Speaker 3: Cried Hoax Wolf.
- 36:38Speaker 1: And you've got The Good War, and you've.
- 36:39Speaker 3: Got Princess Max Conquerors, Uh, Princess Max Conquers the World.
- 36:44Speaker 1: So and talk to us about what what what one
- 36:46Speaker 1: was first? And why did you decide to write the book?
- 36:50Speaker 1: And what was the outcoming that we were looking for.
- 36:53Speaker 5: I was living in Bookhetty, Panama, which is a lovely
- 36:56Speaker 5: place to retire. By the way, if you're going to retire,
- 36:58Speaker 5: go to Bookhetty, Panamas. It's just an amazingly nice place.
- 37:01Speaker 3: And it's a huge retirement place, now, isn't it. It's
- 37:05Speaker 3: Panama is because I was reading about this. It's a
- 37:07Speaker 3: big plas, particularly for Americans to go and retire.
- 37:10Speaker 5: Well, Bulketty's like thirty four hundred square feet, so it's
- 37:13Speaker 5: not hot and humid. It's it's got pine trees and
- 37:17Speaker 5: a lot of great restaurants. So I had looked and
- 37:19Speaker 5: it's cheap, and so I went there and I did
- 37:23Speaker 5: some chest there, and I also wrote some books The
- 37:27Speaker 5: Little Boy who Cried Wolf and I changed it to
- 37:30Speaker 5: Hoax later because I figured people would get the political
- 37:33Speaker 5: allegory there came first. But then as I was doing
- 37:37Speaker 5: chess in a Bulkhetti at the library, beautiful library there,
- 37:42Speaker 5: and I had a bunch of Panamaning students here and
- 37:46Speaker 5: in walks my lone American boys by Rachel. He's about
- 37:49Speaker 5: nine years old. His name is Alex and he comes
- 37:51Speaker 5: in wearing a floor link blue dress and he said
- 37:54Speaker 5: he he's five minutes later, he goes, this is my
- 37:56Speaker 5: favorite Cinderella dress. And I was like, I top twenty
- 38:00Speaker 5: seven years, never seen a boy in address before. But
- 38:02Speaker 5: my initial reactions I don't care. It doesn't matter to me.
- 38:05Speaker 5: I said, that's a lovely dress. Come on in and
- 38:07Speaker 5: let's get going. So he came in, and the interesting
- 38:10Speaker 5: thing was the reaction of the Panamanian student. So I'm
- 38:12Speaker 5: pretty sure never seen a boy in address before, but
- 38:15Speaker 5: they went, well, mister Craik doesn't seem to care, so
- 38:18Speaker 5: we don't care. And it just was not a thing.
- 38:20Speaker 5: It was not a thing. And so that idea. Because
- 38:23Speaker 5: I was during COVID, I was in Bookketty Panama, I
- 38:26Speaker 5: had a bunch of time, and so I was like,
- 38:29Speaker 5: I think there's a story there, and I changed it
- 38:32Speaker 5: to basketball, and I just felt I wanted to write
- 38:37Speaker 5: a story about children, particularly and how.
- 38:42Speaker 2: Children change.
- 38:43Speaker 5: Children could be whatever they want to be, and we
- 38:46Speaker 5: need to love them. Doesn't mean we accept bad behavior,
- 38:49Speaker 5: but the primary thing is when a child walks into school,
- 38:53Speaker 5: walks into a classroom, or walks into life of a parent,
- 38:56Speaker 5: we love that child and that chually I wants to
- 38:59Speaker 5: wear dress to school, I couldn't care less. It doesn't
- 39:01Speaker 5: bother me. It bothers a serious amount of people in
- 39:04Speaker 5: the US. They get all hot and bothered by it.
- 39:07Speaker 5: But it never bothered me. And I just want to say,
- 39:10Speaker 5: he's just being a kid. He's being himself. He's kind
- 39:12Speaker 5: of brash, and he's good at basketball, so deal with it.
- 39:16Speaker 5: And so that's kind of how my way I came
- 39:21Speaker 5: to that. One the good words of the story about
- 39:24Speaker 5: racism in the US. And we had a slavery in
- 39:26Speaker 5: the US and did a lot of crummy things. But
- 39:30Speaker 5: I want My mom was a teacher for forty years,
- 39:32Speaker 5: and so one of the teachers in the stories miss Margie.
- 39:35Speaker 5: My mom's name is Margie, and she did in the
- 39:38Speaker 5: story it's mentioned, but at the end of every school year,
- 39:42Speaker 5: my mom would take all her second graders or first
- 39:45Speaker 5: graders to our house and she would have a big
- 39:48Speaker 5: party and she'd read stories to him. And we got
- 39:50Speaker 5: to go to see this is Marjorie Kreipe's house. And
- 39:53Speaker 5: I remember it was I went over from one school
- 39:54Speaker 5: to another. A teacher met me at the door and
- 39:57Speaker 5: she said, are you Kevin Craig, I said, I am,
- 39:59Speaker 5: Are you Marjorie Cripe's son, and I said, I am
- 40:03Speaker 5: because she was my first grade teacher and she was
- 40:05Speaker 5: the best teacher I ever had.
- 40:07Speaker 2: And I remember going.
- 40:09Speaker 5: To her house and so those things that my mom
- 40:12Speaker 5: did and watching my dad and my brother and sister.
- 40:17Speaker 5: I wanted a story. I wanted to involve my mom
- 40:19Speaker 5: in a story that dealt with racis because she loved
- 40:21Speaker 5: every She took care of Chinese every single day that
- 40:25Speaker 5: she was a teacher. She told me this, and it's true.
- 40:28Speaker 5: She would walk by each desk and pray for each child,
- 40:33Speaker 5: and that she did that forty years in a row.
- 40:35Speaker 5: Every child in room didn't matter poor black, white, purple,
- 40:39Speaker 5: couldn't care less. She cared about that child. And as
- 40:42Speaker 5: my friend told me, you knew two things about missus Craipe.
- 40:46Speaker 5: You knew one, she loved you, and that is absolutely
- 40:49Speaker 5: she loved every child. But two, he didn't really want
- 40:52Speaker 5: to make her mad at you either, And I go, yeah,
- 40:54Speaker 5: I did that a few times as a sun and
- 40:57Speaker 5: didn't go really well. So but you knew those two things,
- 41:00Speaker 5: and she was an amazing teacher. So that story kind
- 41:04Speaker 5: of involved my mom, but it involves also the idea
- 41:06Speaker 5: of race. My three adopted children from Guatemala, they dealt
- 41:10Speaker 5: with race differently than I had to see how race
- 41:14Speaker 5: impacts them differently than impacts me, and so I wanted.
- 41:18Speaker 2: To get that story out there too. It's kind of
- 41:19Speaker 2: a long answer to short question.
- 41:21Speaker 3: But did that really sorry, did that really open your eyes?
- 41:27Speaker 3: Having adopted kids from Central America who were Latino? Did
- 41:33Speaker 3: that make you understand things a little bit differently than
- 41:37Speaker 3: from the other side.
- 41:39Speaker 2: It did as.
- 41:39Speaker 5: They especially became older, Like my son came home and
- 41:45Speaker 5: he was eighteen or nineteen years old and he goes, Dad,
- 41:48Speaker 5: the please stop me today? What I go, Where were
- 41:50Speaker 5: you guys on cal State Stanislaus University Stanslas State as
- 41:54Speaker 5: just walking across camps?
- 41:55Speaker 2: I go, what were you wearing? Any gang stuff?
- 41:57Speaker 3: Now?
- 41:57Speaker 2: No gang stuff? What are you drinking PEPSI.
- 41:59Speaker 5: Okay, okay, you were not drinking alcohol on your I
- 42:02Speaker 5: go okay, So let me call the president of the university.
- 42:06Speaker 5: So I called the probably. I go, why do you
- 42:07Speaker 5: stop my son? Why does this university security? What's the
- 42:10Speaker 5: problem with my son? And they go it wasn't us,
- 42:12Speaker 5: It was the Turlock Police Department. So I call the
- 42:13Speaker 5: Turlock Police Department, speak to the captain and I go, uh,
- 42:17Speaker 5: it's one in the afternoon. My son's walking across to
- 42:20Speaker 5: the Calcey sounds. I like, what's the problem. They pulls
- 42:23Speaker 5: through the report and on the phone, he says to me,
- 42:27Speaker 5: your son was walking suspiciously and we told him to
- 42:30Speaker 5: leave the campus and never come back. And I look
- 42:33Speaker 5: at my son. I go, dude, walk suspiciously. He goes
- 42:37Speaker 5: like that because he's kind sarcastic.
- 42:38Speaker 2: Fight I am, And I.
- 42:39Speaker 5: Was like And I hung up the phone, and I
- 42:41Speaker 5: thought that would never happen to me. That would not
- 42:44Speaker 5: have happened to me when I was nineteen. Would happened
- 42:46Speaker 5: to me today? That would And I watched when the
- 42:49Speaker 5: kids were with me, and they knew I was a dad. Okay,
- 42:51Speaker 5: they get treated one way, but then as adults they
- 42:53Speaker 5: would get treated completely, sometimes differently, and it was just
- 42:58Speaker 5: because of color of their skin. And I saw that happen,
- 43:03Speaker 5: and it made me go back to think about my
- 43:05Speaker 5: teaching career, which is I genuinely care about each student.
- 43:09Speaker 5: I've had most of them brown hair, brown. I speak Spanish,
- 43:12Speaker 5: but I can't I can't live their lives. I can't
- 43:14Speaker 5: experience that, but I can do my best to help
- 43:17Speaker 5: them get out of the situation of povery tonto when
- 43:21Speaker 5: there is a problem, to fight for them, to be
- 43:23Speaker 5: on their site, to write a letter of recommendation, do
- 43:25Speaker 5: whatever I can because I'm on their side. But I'm
- 43:28Speaker 5: not that person, and not being that person means I
- 43:32Speaker 5: don't get to understand what they go through. And I
- 43:35Speaker 5: want to try to empathize and care, but I don't.
- 43:37Speaker 5: I don't get it, and so I saw it in
- 43:39Speaker 5: my own children.
- 43:43Speaker 3: I'm one of my last question here the You know,
- 43:47Speaker 3: I think anybody who's observing things is noticing that, particularly
- 43:52Speaker 3: in the US now, things are becoming more and more
- 43:56Speaker 3: divisive politically, and they've become very, very.
- 44:01Speaker 1: Divisive, and much more so than a number of years ago.
- 44:05Speaker 3: And what impact do you think that is having on
- 44:09Speaker 3: the whole education system?
- 44:12Speaker 5: I think, you know, in the USA, we have what
- 44:16Speaker 5: we call red states and blue states, red states being
- 44:18Speaker 5: kind of conservative states and blue states being more liberal states.
- 44:21Speaker 2: California's liberal, Texas kind of conservative.
- 44:24Speaker 5: And so you really see things impacting education by what
- 44:28Speaker 5: state you're in, And like with in Texas, what I
- 44:31Speaker 5: was told with my books, you know, particularly Princess Max
- 44:34Speaker 5: can't be in a library and can't be a library
- 44:38Speaker 5: book fair is probably not at a book fair. And
- 44:42Speaker 5: so then they get the Ten Commandments in the classroom,
- 44:44Speaker 5: which I don't I think is a bad idea. So
- 44:48Speaker 5: much of this political divide is sort of a it's
- 44:53Speaker 5: a combination of very incredibly rich people and very conservative
- 44:57Speaker 5: dispensational believing is evangelic who think the world's going to
- 45:01Speaker 5: end and want it to end, and so they have
- 45:05Speaker 5: a great deal of clout and and so, and the
- 45:08Speaker 5: other people are like, no, I don't even if the
- 45:11Speaker 5: world's going to end, I don't want it. I don't
- 45:13Speaker 5: want like this, and I don't think I think that's
- 45:14Speaker 5: kind of crazy. And then you put literally unlimited money
- 45:19Speaker 5: able in politics, and so unlimited money combined with craziness,
- 45:25Speaker 5: and it makes things a challenge, a challenge for school
- 45:29Speaker 5: because if you're superintendent, you're going to have the anti vaxxors,
- 45:33Speaker 5: you're going to have all kinds of stuff. You're gonna
- 45:35Speaker 5: have people coming to you and say we need this,
- 45:37Speaker 5: we win and want and then you got the other
- 45:38Speaker 5: side and that they're.
- 45:39Speaker 2: Crazy, we can't have this.
- 45:41Speaker 5: And so in certain states they go down a certain path,
- 45:45Speaker 5: and other states they just go, now, we're going to
- 45:46Speaker 5: do it this way. And the overall effect is that
- 45:50Speaker 5: what you see in teachers is that over a five
- 45:53Speaker 5: year period, and I think this is one of the
- 45:56Speaker 5: worst statistics when you compare to the rest of the world,
- 45:58Speaker 5: over five year period, fifty percent of new teachers leave.
- 46:04Speaker 5: Fifty percent of teachers in the US leave after five
- 46:07Speaker 5: years because there it is not a supportive environment. It's
- 46:11Speaker 5: a it's a political environment, and and that is devastating
- 46:15Speaker 5: for children and devastating for the education process because you
- 46:19Speaker 5: need veteran teachers. They kind of understand how things go,
- 46:23Speaker 5: and there there's wisdom there. And so you see all
- 46:27Speaker 5: these people getting into education for all the right reasons,
- 46:29Speaker 5: because they care and because they love children and they
- 46:31Speaker 5: want to see good outcomes, and all of a sudden
- 46:32Speaker 5: they get in it and it's this political quagmire and
- 46:35Speaker 5: they have parents come and say are.
- 46:36Speaker 2: You doing this? Do you do it? Do you go?
- 46:40Speaker 5: And if you're not getting support from the principle, if
- 46:42Speaker 5: you're not getting an administrative support, and you've got to
- 46:45Speaker 5: deal with this stuff every day, then your life is
- 46:47Speaker 5: miserable and you kind of go, is this really what
- 46:50Speaker 5: I wanted? To do and then they just get out
- 46:51Speaker 5: and so half those teachers leave and you get teacher
- 46:54Speaker 5: shortages and you get people feeling it's crazy.
- 46:58Speaker 3: So they're not particularly they're not particularly well paid in
- 47:01Speaker 3: the United States as well.
- 47:03Speaker 1: Is that set by the states or is that is
- 47:05Speaker 1: there a federal.
- 47:07Speaker 2: No, there's no, It really up.
- 47:09Speaker 5: It's up to different counties and different Like I was
- 47:12Speaker 5: part of Modesto Teacher organization, and as an organization, as
- 47:16Speaker 5: a union, we were one of the highest paid publical
- 47:21Speaker 5: teachers and I think the United States. But you could
- 47:24Speaker 5: go to many places where people made half of what
- 47:28Speaker 5: we made, and there are other places, you know, and
- 47:30Speaker 5: when you get to Kentucky and you get to some
- 47:32Speaker 5: of the more rural places, people not I mean there
- 47:34Speaker 5: there are some teachers on food stamps, some teachers you know,
- 47:38Speaker 5: where they're just living in poverty and they're facing all
- 47:41Speaker 5: this stuff. And so it really goes back to the
- 47:44Speaker 5: district here. And I was very fortunate to be in
- 47:46Speaker 5: a district that had the paid teachers pretty well and
- 47:49Speaker 5: the retirement benefits are pretty good, and we didn't up
- 47:52Speaker 5: until the time I left, there was not a lot
- 47:55Speaker 5: of political nonsense. It's changed since I left, So it's
- 47:59Speaker 5: it was. It's kind of crazy in the US. And
- 48:02Speaker 5: the depressing thing is to see people who want to
- 48:06Speaker 5: help children learn and to see them go.
- 48:10Speaker 2: This isn't about children learning anymore. This is just about craziness.
- 48:13Speaker 5: And they leave and you got to bring in someone else,
- 48:15Speaker 5: and then it's just it's a bad cycle to be in.
- 48:18Speaker 5: But until until we get a common sense, until we
- 48:22Speaker 5: can turn the temperature down. The temperature in our society
- 48:26Speaker 5: is way up right now, and everybody's angry, and you've
- 48:29Speaker 5: got to be angry. You got to be mad at
- 48:30Speaker 5: this person. And it's a crappy way to run a society,
- 48:34Speaker 5: but it's what we have right now. And can we
- 48:36Speaker 5: get to a point where we turn the temperature down
- 48:39Speaker 5: and I can look at you as my neighbor and go,
- 48:41Speaker 5: I don't agree with you, but can we work together?
- 48:43Speaker 5: And I've always said that like the church I go
- 48:45Speaker 5: to in San Antonio, pretty liberal group of people. They
- 48:48Speaker 5: help the homeless, un housed, they do a great thing.
- 48:51Speaker 5: The church I go to and when I'm in Costa Rica, wonderful,
- 48:55Speaker 5: fairly conservative group of people, a lot of Trump supporters.
- 48:58Speaker 5: But when it's time to help people in the community.
- 49:01Speaker 5: They go, we don't care who's help, We're gonna go
- 49:03Speaker 5: help everyone.
- 49:03Speaker 2: And I like that.
- 49:04Speaker 1: I need to.
- 49:06Speaker 5: I can be around people who think differently to me
- 49:09Speaker 5: if we can work together to do something useful. If
- 49:13Speaker 5: all you want to do is yell and belly ache,
- 49:16Speaker 5: you're not you're gonna help solve any problems. You're not
- 49:18Speaker 5: making the world a better place for children. You just
- 49:21Speaker 5: it's a bad thing. So I don't know what's gonna
- 49:24Speaker 5: make it better, because it just seems that if the
- 49:27Speaker 5: temperatures keeps going up and up and we're not turning
- 49:29Speaker 5: the temperature down, there's things we could do, but nobody
- 49:32Speaker 5: seems to want to do.
- 49:33Speaker 2: So.
- 49:34Speaker 5: Yeah, but I'm hoping, I hope and pray gets better.
- 49:37Speaker 5: I mean, maybe I'll go to Australia where.
- 49:40Speaker 2: Things are better.
- 49:41Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean, I mean different countries are obviously better.
- 49:44Speaker 3: I think Australia is a lot better. I mean, Finland
- 49:47Speaker 3: is widely regarded as the best education system in the world,
- 49:50Speaker 3: and I believe that in Finland, and teachers, if not all,
- 49:55Speaker 3: but most have master's degrees, and they're they're very well paid,
- 49:58Speaker 3: and they're very well regarded, and it always made sense
- 50:01Speaker 3: to me too, you know, rather than having having a
- 50:06Speaker 3: low bar to get into teaching, as is the case
- 50:09Speaker 3: in Australia, you want to have a higher bar, but
- 50:11Speaker 3: you've got to reward them. You've got to be able
- 50:14Speaker 3: to attract talent if you want to improve things right right.
- 50:18Speaker 5: Finland does an amazing thing, which is they really only
- 50:21Speaker 5: test students they're I think they're junior of high school.
- 50:24Speaker 5: There's no there's no testing from k through at least
- 50:28Speaker 5: junior high. There are others like in Asia, there are
- 50:32Speaker 5: there are Asian countries that do really well on tests
- 50:35Speaker 5: where they do more testing, so it's kind of a balance.
- 50:37Speaker 5: But Finland is really a great example of where schools
- 50:41Speaker 5: could go if they wanted to get out of that
- 50:43Speaker 5: testing cycle that that says I value the child in
- 50:47Speaker 5: my school by the test result they're going to give me.
- 50:49Speaker 5: And they don't do that, and they do a lot
- 50:52Speaker 5: more play, a lot more different, a lot more recent
- 50:55Speaker 5: and kids need to get out there. They need to
- 50:57Speaker 5: be active, they need projects they can work on together.
- 51:00Speaker 5: There needs to be discussion and talking and all those
- 51:04Speaker 5: things that Finland does a really good job of a
- 51:06Speaker 5: lot of things. If the West, if picking in the
- 51:10Speaker 5: US wanted to start to emulate things they do, it
- 51:12Speaker 5: would be a good thing.
- 51:14Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely think I think that's a great point to
- 51:18Speaker 3: finish on. And Kevin, I I really love your passion
- 51:23Speaker 3: around education. I love the fact that you you've used
- 51:27Speaker 3: chess to to actually build students up and help their
- 51:30Speaker 3: their overall education.
- 51:32Speaker 1: So just good luck with your books. Where do people go.
- 51:35Speaker 3: If they want to check out your books? Buy your books?
- 51:39Speaker 3: Bookie is a speaker in the US around education system.
- 51:43Speaker 3: Where's the best place to send them?
- 51:45Speaker 5: Okay, I'll send you the link, but it's Kevin Crepe
- 51:48Speaker 5: motivational speaker dot com. It's kind of a big long thing,
- 51:51Speaker 5: but you can spell all the words Kevin Crape. My
- 51:53Speaker 5: name's right there, motivational speaker dot com. Uh, it'll direct
- 51:57Speaker 5: you to the books. I'd love to go talk to
- 51:59Speaker 5: US schools, to go anywhere in the world to talk
- 52:01Speaker 5: to schools. It speaks English, so to me, it's it's
- 52:05Speaker 5: just trying to say here's how we can help children
- 52:09Speaker 5: and so. And if I sell books, that's fine, but
- 52:14Speaker 5: I'd love to do the public speaking part of things.
- 52:16Speaker 5: I think there's a lot of stories I got like
- 52:17Speaker 5: thirty forty stories about students doing amazing things, and I
- 52:23Speaker 5: just feel blessed. Like I said, they're my heroes. And
- 52:25Speaker 5: I got into it wondering what would this be for me,
- 52:28Speaker 5: and I realized it's how much they gave to me.
- 52:31Speaker 5: And so Kevin creat motivational Speaker dot com go there.
- 52:36Speaker 5: I'll get you the information and so hopefully, you know,
- 52:41Speaker 5: maybe we'll touch base again and it'd be a fun
- 52:44Speaker 5: thing and so anyway, maybe I'll drop down there sometime.
- 52:49Speaker 1: Yeah, very cool, awesome, Thanks keV
- 52:52Speaker 2: Thank you very much, appreciate it.