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Still Comfy? The Hating Game · To All the Men I've Tolerated Before

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  Speaker 1: Happy holidays, Team Tolerator. I really hope that whatever you
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  Speaker 1: are doing this holiday season, it brings you joy and
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  Speaker 1: dress and gets us ready for whatever we are going
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  Speaker 1: to be facing in twenty twenty five. You will be
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  Speaker 1: happy to note that that's when we will start releasing
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  Speaker 1: new episodes of To All the Men I've Tolerated Before again.
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  Speaker 1: While we are on our holiday break, you can enjoy
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  Speaker 1: our still comfy episodes with Julia Washington from pop Culture
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  Speaker 1: Makes Me Jealous that will be posted on our feed,
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  Speaker 1: as well as some Patreon content that I am going
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  Speaker 1: to release to the free feed that was previously only
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  Speaker 1: available to our Patreon members. If you are really missing
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  Speaker 1: new content, please go check out the Patreon. There are
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  Speaker 1: so many Team Tolerator check ins and misogyny meltdowns waiting
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  Speaker 1: for you, and I will still be making short content
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  Speaker 1: us on Instagram at Men I've Tolerated pod and TikTok
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  Speaker 1: at Nantley K one two four. All of that will
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  Speaker 1: be in the show notes. I will see you in
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  Speaker 1: the new year. Happy holidays again, and see you soon.
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  Speaker 2: Oh we're live like we're just pausing so that way,
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  Speaker 2: it's a nice and nice visual for everyone to come to.
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  Speaker 1: Happy holidays everyone, and let me weave you a tale.
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  Speaker 1: So excited two or three months ago, Julian I were like,
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  Speaker 1: oh my, we're so on top of it. We're so
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  Speaker 1: great at calendar and we're so good at planning our show.
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  Speaker 1: And we looked up the Holiday on the Internet and
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  Speaker 1: we were like, thank god, it's on Hulu. And then
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  Speaker 1: mother fucking Hulu took it off like literally within days
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  Speaker 1: of us needing to watch it.
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  Speaker 2: Because I watched it November three, because I tried to
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  Speaker 2: watch it in October and they were like, this will
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  Speaker 2: be available to you November three, so I came back, so.
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  Speaker 1: It was available for two weeks.
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  Speaker 3: Like what?
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  Speaker 1: And I need everyone, I need everyone to write Hulu
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  Speaker 1: on Twitter to be like was that with the holiday?
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  Speaker 1: Why can't we watch the Holiday?
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  Speaker 3: This is an instant. This is a classic from two
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  Speaker 3: thousand and five. We need it?
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  Speaker 1: Is it because Jack Black forgot he was in the holiday?
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  Speaker 1: So now none of us get to watch it, Like,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that Jack Black would want that for
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  Speaker 1: any of us.
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  Speaker 3: Do you think it's because Jude Law is sad about
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  Speaker 3: his hand?
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  Speaker 1: Jude Law are you sad about your hairline? I haven't
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  Speaker 1: checked in on that in a while. Should I do
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  Speaker 1: that live on the internet.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't see him in the Marvel Missus Marvel or
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  Speaker 2: Captain Marvel?
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  Speaker 3: What is it called, the first one?
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  Speaker 1: In the first one?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but because in the first one with what's her face?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, let's just google Jude Law currently. Oh, Jude, he's
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  Speaker 1: still his face is still very handsome. You're very handsome, Jude.
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  Speaker 1: But that is rough, and it's only rough because of
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  Speaker 1: this part. It's only rough because of the cemetery. But
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  Speaker 1: that's fine. So Jude, if you're sad about that, I
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  Speaker 1: wish you a happy holiday.
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  Speaker 3: I'll swap it. I'll swap homes with your with your sister.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, and we'll snuggle up by the cozy fire. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: When I was looking up images for the Hating Game, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I realized that it was a book to screen adaptation.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, look at you.
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  Speaker 3: I haven't read it yet. I bought it.
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  Speaker 2: I bought it obviously not that long ago, because it
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  Speaker 2: has kept soon becoming soon to be a major motion picture.
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  Speaker 2: So I clearly bought it after they sold it to
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  Speaker 2: make it screen adaptation.
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  Speaker 1: So okay. I think one of my notes is, oh God,
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  Speaker 1: we're going to have a lot of the same fights
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  Speaker 1: that we had for Love actually what And they're all
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  Speaker 1: going to be the same fights that we had when
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  Speaker 1: Walking Dead, when young Man Walking Dead told Kiera Knightley like,
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  Speaker 1: I've been mean to you the entire time because I
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  Speaker 1: love you everything, and I know and everyone like we
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  Speaker 1: picked this movie because I had never seen it, and
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  Speaker 1: Julia was like, I watch it all the time, and
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, great, I love Lucy Hale, and
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  Speaker 1: then everything that man did made my body light on fire.
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  Speaker 1: I was just like anxious and stressed and like Leen
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  Speaker 1: Lucy Hale like no, this isn't okay, Like it's not okay.
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  Speaker 1: So I was really hoping that you would have read
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  Speaker 1: the book because I thought it was a lot like Red,
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  Speaker 1: White and Royal Blue, where there was so much context
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  Speaker 1: that they were assuming that we knew sure, because like
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  Speaker 1: number one, this movie has so much whiplash in it.
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  Speaker 2: Well, and here's the thing I think that I think
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  Speaker 2: there's a lot missing obviously, because there are scenes where
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  Speaker 2: I'm just like, wait, how did we get from there
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  Speaker 2: to there?
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  Speaker 3: Like obviously we're supposed to just assume.
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  Speaker 2: But there's clearly going to be something in the book
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  Speaker 2: that helped bridge that moment, Like we don't get clarification
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  Speaker 2: on why that. She like the short the strawberry thing
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  Speaker 2: is just so so so.
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  Speaker 3: Light in the movie, and I'm like, that's got to
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  Speaker 3: be a big thing in the book.
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  Speaker 1: Probably you gotta be a big thing. Also, she writes
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  Speaker 1: Smurf fan fiction, and I was like, you have to
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  Speaker 1: be fucking kidding me.
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  Speaker 3: And they didn't even give us a lot of that either.
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  Speaker 2: It's like, why throw that in there if that's not
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  Speaker 2: a reoccurring like a recurring joke throughout the entire film.
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  Speaker 1: I need everyone. I need everyone to write in the
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  Speaker 1: comments whether or not there's four real Smurf fan fiction.
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  Speaker 1: I need everyone to link us Smurf at number one.
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  Speaker 1: That's also a toxic environment because Smurf at she is
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  Speaker 1: the only Smurf, so you know, she's getting sexually harassed
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  Speaker 1: all day long. She is getting sexually harassed every cartoon.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, I did think it was cute though, when Lucy
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  Speaker 2: Hale's character who's also named Lucy Lucy Hutton leaves the
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  Speaker 2: grumpy Smurf on his desk because.
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  Speaker 1: He's grumpy and he's dangerous. I need everyone. I need everyone.
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  Speaker 3: I think he's dangerous.
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  Speaker 1: I will okay, She just looks at the carrat.
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  Speaker 3: This is Natalie and her delusional friend Jules.
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  Speaker 1: I need everyone to know that I used to think
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  Speaker 1: that Enemies to Lovers was really hot. I used to
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  Speaker 1: think I love it, Natalie. I know. I almost just
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  Speaker 1: asked you it in question for him, and I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I already know the answer to this, and Julia loves
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  Speaker 1: it and that's why she makes me watch the hating
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  Speaker 1: game and love. Actually, it's like it's true. I too,
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  Speaker 1: I too used to think that love Enemies to Lovers
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  Speaker 1: was really fucking hot until it happened to me. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: until it happened to me, and then I realized. I
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  Speaker 1: was like, no, this is the most dangerous trope. This
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  Speaker 1: is the most dangerous trope because it's such a whiplash,
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  Speaker 1: like what happens in the movie. This movie spans maybe
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  Speaker 1: three weeks.
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  Speaker 2: Three or four weeks, yeah, because we get right before
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  Speaker 2: Thanksgiving to write before Christmas.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, And.
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  Speaker 1: So my whiplash of an enemy's to lovers thing happened
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  Speaker 1: over the span of like a Halloween to a summer.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: So that's like six yeah, yeah, which I do wish
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  Speaker 2: things would be a little bit longer.
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  Speaker 3: That's what.
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  Speaker 2: That's why When Harry met Sally is the greatest movie
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  Speaker 2: of all time because they fall in love in twelve
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  Speaker 2: years versus twelve days.
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  Speaker 1: Remember a couple of weeks ago when I liked When
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  Speaker 1: Harry Met Sally against all.
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  Speaker 2: Odds, against all odds, I'm so proud, I'm so happy, And.
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  Speaker 1: Normally the movies, Julia swung for the Fences and was like,
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  Speaker 1: we should watch the Haiti game. It's so cute and
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  Speaker 1: I love it and I'm like I'm game, and like
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  Speaker 1: literally the man stressed me out, like I I honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, it'll ruin it for Juliet if I
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  Speaker 1: just start filming my reactions.
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  Speaker 2: Well, you know, if we were originally allowed to do
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  Speaker 2: the Holiday Hulu, we would be having a very different conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I am very proud of us for pulling a movie
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  Speaker 2: literally last minute, because here's the.
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  Speaker 1: Thing I didn't want to watch. I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: watch a Christmas story and I don't want to watch
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  Speaker 1: National Nomo Lampoon's Christmas Vacation.
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  Speaker 3: Then my suggestions like I.
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  Speaker 1: Know that I'm alridy and I have to do that.
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  Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, do I want to
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  Speaker 1: watch The Grinch? He's kind of trendy right now, like
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  Speaker 1: he's somehow the the Grinch has become a sexual icon
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  Speaker 1: and I'd like to know when, why and how.
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  Speaker 2: I think eighteen maybe there was that other than cartoon anyway,
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  Speaker 2: go ahead, Yeah, And I was like.
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  Speaker 1: We're all, we're all aware that that's Jim Carrey right
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  Speaker 1: like under the Grinch, Like we yeah, we've decided that
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  Speaker 1: Jim Carrey is the person who's sexualized the Grinch. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: all to be aware.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, wait, should we explain what the hating game is about?
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  Speaker 1: For hour? And you should do it because you'll do
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  Speaker 1: it in a very unbiased.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, here's the Wikipedia description of the film.
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  Speaker 1: I'll just lived Penelope from the floor and Clutcher and
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  Speaker 1: just Clutcher.
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  Speaker 2: Resolving to achieve professionals excess without compromising her ethics, Lucy
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  Speaker 2: embarks on a ruthless game of one upmanship against cold
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  Speaker 2: and efficient nemesis Joshua, a rivalry that has complicated by
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  Speaker 2: her growing attraction to him. Here's the thing, though, too,
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  Speaker 2: that I think is missing. I think the book might
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  Speaker 2: actually be steamier than the film, Like I think that's
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  Speaker 2: the point.
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  Speaker 3: I think the book is supposed to be like steamy, steamy, steamy.
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  Speaker 1: One of the one of the I do think that
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  Speaker 1: this movie is badly written and badly adapted because it's tropy.
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  Speaker 2: Like it's got every trope, there's only one bed.
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  Speaker 3: He calls her a.
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  Speaker 2: Nickname that's rooted in something adorable, but he's mean about it.
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  Speaker 1: Like it.
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  Speaker 3: And also they're competing for the same job. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Also, like the first sentence that you read in the
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  Speaker 1: description was that she's one up him. They are in
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  Speaker 1: a competition, and I was like, oh, it's gonna be petty.
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  Speaker 1: I'm in I have when petty people fall in love.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. And then like literally.
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  Speaker 1: There's no one upping. They stare at each other from
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  Speaker 1: across an office and I was like, that should be illegal.
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  Speaker 1: It should be illegal that if you have to share
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  Speaker 1: an office with someone, you also have to face your
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  Speaker 1: desks at someone at each other. I was like, it
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  Speaker 1: should be a corner sit or you face opposite walls.
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  Speaker 1: This should be illegal.
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  Speaker 2: I love it well, and that also makes me kind
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  Speaker 2: of wonder too. So like the actor who plays Joshua.
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  Speaker 2: I find him to be very attractive. I also found
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  Speaker 2: him to not be very good in this movie because.
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  Speaker 1: In other movies, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I've never seen him. I've never seen him in anything else.
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  Speaker 2: I only know him from this film. Okay, And I
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  Speaker 2: really struggle because if it sounds like you're reading a script, I.
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  Speaker 1: Can't at hang.
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  Speaker 2: But then they do the thing that suckers like me love,
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  Speaker 2: which is okay, so he's been reading his lines like
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  Speaker 2: he's reading for ten minutes. Now let's put him in
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  Speaker 2: something very very tight so it's a distraction. Or now
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  Speaker 2: his shirt, or let him take off his shirt, or
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  Speaker 2: have him like manhandle Lucy's butt so that way it's like,
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  Speaker 2: here's a sexy, steamy moment, like this is.
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  Speaker 1: Why we hired him. Don't forget. This is why we
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  Speaker 1: hired him. We hire him because we thought he was
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  Speaker 1: the next great actor. No, he hired him because look
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  Speaker 1: at this body.
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  Speaker 2: Because look at how big that hand is. It's gonna
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  Speaker 2: be able to take a whole lot of you in it.
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  Speaker 1: And let me tell you, like the movie really did
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  Speaker 1: lean heavily on these are two very attractive people who
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  Speaker 1: want a bone and I'm like, I'm in, but you
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  Speaker 1: have to start delivering on the story that you're.
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  Speaker 2: Trying to do because the enough of this steamy like
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  Speaker 2: when and again, I haven't read the book yet, so
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to make it a priority to read it
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  Speaker 2: because I think like with books like Everything by Emily
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  Speaker 2: Henry that she's ever written, a Helen hank who Else
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  Speaker 2: is another one that says a really good job where
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  Speaker 2: it's like you get these really like sexually tense moments
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  Speaker 2: where you're like, no one has sex and on and
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  Speaker 2: you're just like, I just need to fit, I need
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  Speaker 2: I need to cool down a little bit.
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  Speaker 3: But nothing, literally, no penetration has happened.
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  Speaker 2: It's just the teazing and the leading up to and
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  Speaker 2: we didn't get a lot of that in the movie.
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  Speaker 3: There's like a handful of things.
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  Speaker 1: She wore a skirt and they ended up in an
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  Speaker 1: elevator alone together and he's like, ah, my brain has
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  Speaker 1: been in love with you the entire time, and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: what is happening?
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  Speaker 2: Well, And that's the thing when they're in the elevator,
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  Speaker 2: which that was pretty steamy, but it could have been
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  Speaker 2: steamy or I feel like, but then when they're in
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  Speaker 2: the car and he's like, so, should I just take
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  Speaker 2: you home? And she's like, no, I have a date.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like, how did we get to the point
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  Speaker 2: where he now because like they made out, but they're
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  Speaker 2: just like we still hate each other, so like, help
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  Speaker 2: me understand how he's now like, oh, so we're we're
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  Speaker 2: going home now and not.
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  Speaker 1: Like me because you watch this movie over and over
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  Speaker 1: and over again, and I'm like, I.
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  Speaker 3: Don't watch it for its story.
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  Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna have to tell Julia once again that
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  Speaker 1: men like this are dangerous.
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  Speaker 3: I watch it for the making out. I watch it
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  Speaker 3: for the Your eyes are so pretty.
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  Speaker 1: And let me tell you that just step up from Hallmark. Truly,
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  Speaker 1: it truly is. And I also think that that's why
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  Speaker 1: the holiday and a majority of what I'm convinced are
• 14:45
  Speaker 1: like holiday rom coms aren't streaming on streamers And it's
• 14:49
  Speaker 1: because Netflix, Hulu Prime they all make their own now.
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: And by the way, I have a list of like
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: cute ones that we will do on the show. Yeah,
• 14:58
  Speaker 1: I love that New Year's Eve one with us uh
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: Julia Roberts little niece Roberts.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah is cute.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a movie New Year's Eve. It's a made
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  Speaker 1: for Prime movie that's like centered around New Year's Eve.
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  Speaker 3: I think, oh, not the one that she's in where
• 15:18
  Speaker 3: there's a wedding.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, that one is that New Year's Eve. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: but that's the one I'm talking about. Okay, I loved it.
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  Speaker 1: I also loved something from Tiffany's.
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  Speaker 3: Oh that one is oh so cute.
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  Speaker 2: And I love that guy because he is an insecure
• 15:37
  Speaker 2: and I just love him.
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  Speaker 1: It was so fucking adorable. But y movie, he's also mixed.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Let's go back to My to My Dangerous to Your
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: Anatomy Lovers.
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: Tatali is never gonna let me pick a movie again.
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  Speaker 1: It's not your fault, even conditioned, conditioned, I have been here,
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  Speaker 1: so my enemy to Lovers did a lot of the
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: same stuff. Like I've been watching you the entire time.
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  Speaker 1: Your eyes are so pretty. I've always thought that you
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  Speaker 1: were the smartest woman in the room. And I fell
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  Speaker 1: for it. But then when Lucy Hale was like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: it's still all just part of the game, I was like, yes, yes,
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  Speaker 1: it's still just all part of their sick, little fucking game.
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  Speaker 1: Run away, be nice to that man in the coffee shop.
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  Speaker 1: Run away, and then at the end of the movie,
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  Speaker 1: the end of the movie literally heavens. In thirty seconds,
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  Speaker 1: she walks by an office and a bunch of people
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  Speaker 1: are standing in there, and he's like, I quit my
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  Speaker 1: job so you could have this job.
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  Speaker 2: Took my name out of the running, but nobody told
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  Speaker 2: you because we needed you to keep that fire under
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  Speaker 2: your belly so.
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  Speaker 3: You can work hard.
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  Speaker 1: I hate everyone. I was like, this is not women
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  Speaker 1: supporting women. I don't know what her boss thought she
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  Speaker 1: was doing.
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  Speaker 2: I actually really did hate that because she's like, you're
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  Speaker 2: just so fired up when you're competing with Josh.
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  Speaker 3: But he quit, so now what?
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  Speaker 1: Also, the HR lady begs them to stop. Our lady
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: was like, all and I could talk about is how
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  Speaker 1: you guys make this workplace environment hostile.
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  Speaker 3: That's all you do. Literally every complaint is about the
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  Speaker 3: two of you.
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  Speaker 1: So what insane? Like so many things, so many things
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  Speaker 1: were like the wedding. When he takes her to the wedding,
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  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this is cute. This is trophy.
• 17:34
  Speaker 1: She tells off his dad. I'm like, okay, I can
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: feel this, I can dig this. I still think that
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: they're having sex too soon, and I still don't understand
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  Speaker 1: what payoff we're getting.
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  Speaker 2: Well, And to add to the sex too soon part,
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  Speaker 2: like she even like shows up at his house.
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  Speaker 3: And she's like, let's just do it and get it
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  Speaker 3: over with and he's.
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  Speaker 2: Like, that's not really the vibe I'm into because I'm
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  Speaker 2: in love with you. But he doesn't say that part
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  Speaker 2: out loud, and then you're just like, there's it's a
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  Speaker 2: two hour movie and they spend the bulk of the
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: time dragging us along to wrap it up in literally
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  Speaker 2: three minutes.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: Uh huh. So then I can't remember what comes first.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: I can't remember what comes first. But at some point
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: she snoops on his desk and she sees like serial
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: killer writing Yeah, he's like hashtags, circle, check mark, check mark,
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: and she's like, what are these cereals?
• 18:34
  Speaker 3: Why are you tic tac toeing in your book with letters?
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, are you the zodio killer? What's going out
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: at your day planner? And then he literally says something
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: and I wrote, he's a serial killer. You have away
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: because he says, I track what you're wearing, and I
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: make an ex every time it gets you. So I
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: track every time you wear a tidy little skirt, and
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I try every time you wear tape tape pants, and
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: then I track every time I have a boter. And
• 19:05
  Speaker 1: then I said that I want to kiss you in
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: my little calendar at work, and I was like, it's
• 19:11
  Speaker 1: gonna kill you. You have to run.
• 19:17
  Speaker 3: It's like, this is insane.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: I literally said it out loud. It's like, Lucy Hale,
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: this is just like when they made you date your
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: teacher for ten seasons of pretty well, this man is
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: in safe.
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: He's so cute though. Yeah, so I my toxic train
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: go ahead.
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: So we have the like the Zodiac killer moment. And
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, then she goes to his place and
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: she's wearing that dress for the wedding, and I thought, yeah,
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: we like talk herself up in the mirror or something
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: like I'm strung, I'm independent.
• 20:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and really it's like I took the eye color
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: of your eyes and made my walls the same color.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: And then he's like, look, you'd lend right into the walls.
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: Because no one ever.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Because I've tracking all of your outfits, I noticed that
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: your eyes were green, So I painted my walls the
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: exact fucking shade of green. Because I've been in love
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: with you the whole time, and I'm like, he is
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: not safe. You're not making it out there. I was
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: like to Julia, give me everything I could ever want.
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: And we're actually watching a Christmas horror boovie because I
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: love them.
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: Why would I do that?
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: You know, I can't sit through a scary movie.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: My notes are on hit because I'm like, he is
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: not safe. He is, in fact the Zodiac Killer. Okay,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: let me ask you this. If he was a better actor,
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: you would probably feel the same way. They had a
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: Walking Dead Do It in love? Actually, And I kept
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: telling you you. I was like, rick is that safe
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: as this movie? And we know that Ricky is a
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: good action actor?
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know.
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: And then and then she hears him like talk shit
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: about women or her with.
• 21:16
  Speaker 3: The She assumes it's her. She assumes it's her.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: Never get clear fire.
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: We never find out who they're actually talking about.
• 21:23
  Speaker 3: Because we know her boss isn't wearing a push up bra.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: She's in her office like She's like, I'm in workout clothes.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Is it that poor anxious girl who wanted a cupcake
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: for her birthday?
• 21:36
  Speaker 3: Is it the is it the woman who never does
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: her own job?
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: Is it the goth girl they tried to hire, which
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: they didn't hire.
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: Later, Yeah, I can't wait for you to read the
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: book and tell me, but we don't have.
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Such a ragey conversation if the book, the book will
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: probably be better.
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: Let's just be honest.
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: I mean me too, because I was like, gosh, I
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: really wish i'd made the time. This has been literally
• 22:05
  Speaker 2: sitting in my TBR for years.
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, what if it's secretly a crime novel and it
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: just has a cute cover because he's a zodiat killer.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Because Julia literally like all of the warning bills, I
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: was like, this is a safe I go. Men can't
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: just bring you to their house. And they're like do
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: you like that? Well, this is after she's been to his.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: House a couple of times. Listen, there's that did you
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: ever watch Felicity?
• 22:38
  Speaker 1: No? But okay, but I do know that a lot
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: of those men on Felicity not safe people.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: So there's a scene I think it's season three.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: Tyra Banks is on the show for like a couple
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: of episodes and she is like paired against the Scott
• 22:54
  Speaker 2: Foley who plays nul Crane, and so he is doing
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: like text because he's like a nerdy guy, and so
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: in doing tech support, he meets tier Banks. He discovered
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: he like watches her put in her username and password
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: for her school email, and so now he has her
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: username and password and like logs in and looks at
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: it to read emails because he's like desperate to date
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: this woman but knows nothing about her. So then shea
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: He reads an email she sends to one of her
• 23:22
  Speaker 2: friends who and it's like, I just want a guy
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: to say insert something here about like, you know, we
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: both let's just leave this place and go have sex
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: or something to that effect.
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: So they're on a date.
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: He says to her exactly what she wrote in the
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: email to her friend because he read it.
• 23:40
  Speaker 3: Because he read it.
• 23:42
  Speaker 2: She takes her drink and like throws it in his
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: face or hits him or something and storms out. Their
• 23:49
  Speaker 2: next scene, it's not the immediate scene because there's other
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: storylines happening, but their next scene together is her going, hey, listen,
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: I'm real sorry about that, because my friend reminded me
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: that I just told her I really wanted somebody to
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: say that to me, and you did, so I responded badly,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: and I was like, I still don't think that's the
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: way to handle that, because there is a difference between
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: fantasizing about like somebody saying something super sexy to you
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: in public, somebody being like, I loved the color of
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: your eyes, so I painted my wall so I could
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: always be reminded of you.
• 24:25
  Speaker 3: That works in rom coms.
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: That works in romance novels, but it doesn't work in
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: real life because, to Natalie's point, it is very creepy
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: in real life dangerous.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: It's dangerous, man number one. I thought you were going
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: to tell me that Tyra Banks was so smart that
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: she immediately connected the dots. It was like he hacked
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: my eail.
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: She did not.
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: She did it three because none of those been on Felicity.
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: We're saved either. We have an entire episode about it.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Until all the.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: Men I've well, I feel like Javier was the only one,
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: you know, I don't even know that one, so maybe,
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: but he.
• 25:08
  Speaker 3: Was the gay us friend.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: So after the serial killer tracking in his nature, everything
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: he said after that, I was like, that's love bombing.
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: I go everything about this feels like love bombing. And
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: then when she tries to have a conversation with him
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: about him saying shitty things about a woman, possibly her.
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: Then he combats her and I was like, this is gaslighting,
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: this is love bombing. Now he's telling you that he's
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: been in love with you the entire time. That's why
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: he gets to be mean to you. You're confused, and
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: this is how they manipulate and gaslight you. He is
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: the Zodiac killer, like you have to run away?
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: Well, and I think too, Like for me, I know
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: that it's not real right, Like I've done a very
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: good job at creating the line of this is how
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: I want my rom coms to be and my romance
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: novels to be. This is not how I want real
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: life to be. Even though I joke and I'm like, oh,
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: I just want to live in a button up rom
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: com because those things aren't creepy in a rom com,
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: but you translate them to real life and you're just like,
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: I should probably.
• 26:12
  Speaker 3: Lock my front door.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Joules wouldn't let us watch this movie. But when I
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: was in middle school and or high school, I'm not
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: going to look up the dates. I read all the
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Twilight books.
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: Okay, I've seen one, it was enough.
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: I read all the Twilight books. Okay, I read them all.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: And why is that because my sister got to make
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: her entire personality Harry Potter.
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: So you made your personality Twilight, I said, Twitter.
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: Twilight Twitter, So I had to make my entire personality
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: something and The Hunger Games wasn't out yet, so it
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: was Twilight. And it's because my mother thought that it
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: would be appropriate for me to learn my sexual journey
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: through and Rice and you can see how that went.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: So wait, Anne, Rice didn't write Twilight.
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: No she didn't, but I think I read Interview with
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: the Vampire and Mayfair Witches before I ever got it.
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: Twilight got it, so it was like it was like
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: it was like those books could walk, so Twilight could run.
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: And I think I even like gasled myself into being like, oh,
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: the glittering in the sunlight thing, that's a really great
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: work around. Like what didn't you take on vampires because
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: vampires were my whole personality?
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: Yes, So imagine thirteen twelve year old me reading Twilight
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: and Edward Colin says, Sabella, it's like you're my own
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: brand of heroin, and then twelve year orgasms she comes.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: She's like, oh my god, I just can't wait for
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: a man to tell me that I am his brand
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: of heroin, and then you see it because you didn't
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: know that heroin was bad. So in my codependent brain,
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: I was like, yes, no, that's how much you want
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: men to love you. You want them to be addicted
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: to you. You want them to not be able to
• 28:13
  Speaker 1: have enough of you. You want them to always have you,
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: be an arm's length away from you because they're addicted
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: to you. So when he said.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: That, I can't it just it reaffirmed it.
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: It reaffirmed it. And then I went to the movie
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: my freshman year of college, maybe my sophomore year, and
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I went with a friend who doesn't speak to me anymore,
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: and this could be why. And we're watching the fucking
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Twilight movie and it's that part where like Bella walks
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: across the fan and then Rob pat literally vomits in
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: his mouth, and I think that's why I can't find
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: him attractive. I think that's why because she walks by
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: the fan, and I remember the scene in the book
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: about it being like he was so taken and by
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: my son, and then it connects to that heroin line
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: that rock Cap played it in the movie. She walks
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: by the fan blows through her hair and he goes
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: and I laughed, and that's not sexy. And I was
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: the only person in the theater who laughed, and I
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: kept laughing. So then by the time he got to
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: the you're my brand of hair, You're like my own
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: personal brand of heroin, I was like, you have to
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: be fucking kidding me. And then I never went and
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: saw any of the rest of them in theaters. But
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: one night we had the good cable, we had premium cable,
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: and it was raining. I was like, I'll give the
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: second movie a shot. What the fuck am I doing? Yeah,
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: And I got to the park where he cuts her
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: mother fucking brakes because he's sick of her going to
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: the reservation where.
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: Jacob lives really toxic, and I.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: Was like, that's not that, guess hell, but you know
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: twelve your old nadly k She was like, yeah, that's.
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: In the book. Yes, Oh my god.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: That's why, like mouth vomiting to me is like not
• 30:13
  Speaker 2: sexy at all, Like that is not going to get
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: me to like you.
• 30:17
  Speaker 3: You're supposed to find me so much. Am I sense
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: so hot that your mouth vomiting Like no, Well.
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: That to me means that to me shows that to me,
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: says that he's repulsed by her.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's why I started laughing, Like you got.
• 30:34
  Speaker 2: Do we actually need to do a close read of
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: the Twilight series, both of books in the movie that
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: I just.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: Read the beout loud on the internet live, so we
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: don't get cappy right in bridgement.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: Because I'm like, because I've never read the books, but
• 30:49
  Speaker 2: i heard they're not well, Like I heard that like
• 30:51
  Speaker 2: the structure and like the syntax and all these things
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: isn't great.
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: And I've never and I've watched the one movie one and.
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: I still am mad about it, but I've managed to
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: like black out everything about it.
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: You know how that series closes out, don't you?
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Don't they all die?
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: No? I just assumed Edward and Bella have a baby
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: named renez Oh.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Right, because I just saw a thing on TikTok about
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: how like people are like, oh, you know, Suki Waterhouse
• 31:20
  Speaker 2: and Rob Patt are having a baby. So now that
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: clip is like resurfacing because they're like, oh, keep it
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: away from Taylor Lautner. Yeah, so I just have context
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: as I've never seen the movie.
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: Oh okay, so let me give you context. I don't
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: know if you know much about were wolf folklore, but
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: they do have something like little ducks called imprinting, where
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: a werewolf will run into another werewolf from another pack
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: and be like, you are my mate. You are my
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: mate for life. We are soul connected twin flames, if
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: you will, sure it happens to Taylor Latner's character, Jacob
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: the werewolf to the baby. What the baby? And that's
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: how they justify him being attracted to Bella the entire time,
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: but not being her soulmate. He was attracted to her
• 32:11
  Speaker 1: little egg in her uterus, her little unfertilized egg.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, as I embark on the dissection, the forensics,
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: if you will, of the last thirty ten years of
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: my life, wondering why I'm still a failure, and when
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: you tell me things like this, and this woman has
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: sold millions upon millions of copies of this book, millions,
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: and I still can't catch a fucking break in any
• 32:38
  Speaker 2: of the creative endeavors I have taken.
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: Also, so then they go, wait a minute, Jacob, what
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: you're attracted to a baby? That's not great, that's not good.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: You can't you never want to be out with your
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: bros And hear him go, you see that toddler over there. No,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: it's bad.
• 32:59
  Speaker 3: I don't even want to be out with my bros.
• 33:01
  Speaker 2: And hear them say, see that twenty four year old
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: because everybody in my life is over thirty five and
• 33:06
  Speaker 2: in their forties. Okay, Like, no, I don't see that
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: twenty four year old.
• 33:12
  Speaker 3: What I see is you're too old for her.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: I and I need Taylor Lautner to know that I
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: love him and this was a crime that was done
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: to him. He's such a little.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: Cutie, Patuti. I love watching him on night late night TV.
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I love watching him. I look. I cried when he
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: showed up at the airstour. I cried when he did
• 33:29
  Speaker 1: his like front tuck or like yeah yeah, showing up.
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: At the air store was such a boss move with
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: such a classic mood like that. He like such a
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: that's a stand up guy.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: He's not my ex, but I picture him every time
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: I seem Back to December, yeah I and back to
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: December is my favorite speak now track. Yeah. It goes
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: hard so to try and justify it because they're like Jacob,
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: that's not great. You shouldn't be that's an infant.
• 34:02
  Speaker 4: It's a literal literal, baby stop it so creepy, Like
• 34:07
  Speaker 4: he gets like all Taylor Locker puffed up, and he's like,
• 34:12
  Speaker 4: like that it's don't like that when they're little.
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: He's like, because grown ups grown up. Some print on
• 34:18
  Speaker 1: children all the time, and what ends up happening is
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: is like you're their really good cousin brother, and then
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: you get to fuck them when you're older. And I'm like,
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: it's so bad because now we know about Crowby.
• 34:32
  Speaker 3: I'm so maybe I don't want to do it.
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: In doubt. It was written down in print. Everybody we know,
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: I don't type it out. You had to type it
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: out and then read it out loud and then send
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: it to an editor, and then an editor went bet
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: and printed book and it's sold millions. And these types
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: of men are dangerous.
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: I just feel like, also, it's very telling about where
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: we were in the world at the time of its release.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: So so these men are dangerous and I and here's
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: the thing.
• 35:10
  Speaker 2: They varying degrees because I feel like there is a
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: little bit less danger with a painted the wall the
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: color of your eyes versus I'm attracted to the egg
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: in your fucking uterus.
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: And yep, my body has the same fear response, and
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: that's by right as an American.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: It is absolutely, absolutely it is. You were one hundred
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: percent correct.
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: So and I do think that they could They could
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: have made me sold on this if they had removed
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: the Zodiac killer parts, if they didn't have him like
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: tracking her, if they didn't have him. She was wearing
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: a very tennis skirt with no and I had three
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: voters and I wanted to kiss her. Five types. I
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: hate it? What are you doing with that data? Run away?
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: He's gonna make our presentation at the end of the year.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: He's got power point. He unlocked the layers of power
• 36:08
  Speaker 2: point that no one else understands. It's so he canna
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: do it, so he can do a whole presentation on
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: why he and Lucy need to date.
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: Oh, Mario, Hello him, Mario.
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: It's just him in New York and Company or J. C.
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: Penny's like work slat, but he's clearly hard and it's
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: like that's the water bark on all the slides.
• 36:35
  Speaker 2: Though, because she's like, she's like cornflower blue, true blue,
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: white gray window pane. That's not the order she says
• 36:44
  Speaker 2: it in, but she does it too well.
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because he only wears like differing shades of charcoal.
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's true.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: I mean so if and then she's like and then
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: when she's delirious with the fever, she's like gray window pane,
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: true white, cornflower, true blue.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: And he's like pH eh I. And honestly, it's all
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: because of how that office is set up. And I
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: would like to go back to my original statement where
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: if you have to share an office with someone, it
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: should be illegal for them to set up your desks
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: to where you're just staring at one another.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't want my back to any point entry
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: points though, you know what I mean.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Then, Julie, you have to fight for the death for
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: that positioning or whatever. But to like that was zodiac
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: killer behavior, to have to sit every day at work
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: and stare across and make eye contact with someone else
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: who is just trying to find their own business. Right,
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: Oh it's Crompe this day. I should have made you
• 37:51
  Speaker 1: watch my favorite Christmas Deity.
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: I would have died probably.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: I mean they could have, so they could have won
• 38:03
  Speaker 1: me back if they had taken out like the serial
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: killer moments where he tracked her outfits and painted his
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: home the exact shade of her eyes his bedroom.
• 38:13
  Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that decinction makes a big difference.
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: He's just whacking it off to her eye.
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: I need her, I need her as close to me
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: as possible. So it's going to be my bedroom, can't
• 38:24
  Speaker 2: be the kitchen.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: And you know he's pressed himself against that wall. You
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: know he's licked that wall. You know that there's been
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: like a a soft cry. Right now, you know there's
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: been a soft cry. He's faster. They did all that wall.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: He had described that wall before he invited her over.
• 38:43
  Speaker 3: Do you want me to read you the back of
• 38:45
  Speaker 3: the book?
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: Hold out? I have? Okay, Sorry, he's not getting to it.
• 38:49
  Speaker 3: Sorry.
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: Look, And if they had actually done the tip for
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: tat thing to where I saw them interact, and I
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: saw them start to realize that the reason why they're
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: so annoyed with one another is because they're the same person. Yeah,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: and they're attracted to one another and whatever she doesn't
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: have he has, and all of it, then I would
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: have been sold on the love story at the end,
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh good, he quit his
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: job and now no one has to worry about workplace
• 39:15
  Speaker 1: sexual harassment.
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: No, but you're you're right good.
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: It was full of serial killer bullshit.
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: Well because the point where, like the build up to
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: the point to where we get to the elevator, wasn't
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: enough for us to understand that they are the same,
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: because they work so hard to show their differences, right, Like,
• 39:34
  Speaker 2: his space is gray, clean, sleek, not cluttered. Her space
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: is like super cozy, totally what we think a book
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: person space looks like. Right, and then they don't do
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: enough to show us their similarities in any way, shape
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: or form.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: They also go from charcoal gray to fifty shades of
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: gray within a moment with one mini skirt. All of
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: a sudden, she's a dominatrix. Yeah, Hwoard doesn't I don't
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: have panties? And I was like, who says that out
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: loud in your office? Right?
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: Like that also was like a moment where I'm just like, oh, yes, Like.
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: This has never been the vibe. This has never been
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: the vibe in this office. And now all of a sudden,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: you're telling him that you don't wear panties and you're
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: teasing him and you're flapping in the wind. Yeah, and
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: I'm confused, and he's painted his bedroom your eye color
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: and I cannot and I will not. This man is dangerous.
• 40:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and to also continue to add on to that,
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: there isn't any sort of like, oh god, I lost
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: my train.
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: Also, I don't like either one of them. That is
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: a note in my outline. I was like, I don't
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: like either one of them. I go, I want her
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: to run away from him, because I do find him dangerous,
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: but I also don't like her mm because she's also
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: kind of just shitty and petty, and then once to
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: use him as like a vibrator. But also but but
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: then I also thought that him why.
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: Petty in a fun way? Because petty can be fun.
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: There's petty, there's fun petty, and then there's petty where
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: you're just like, this is really scary and harmful.
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: Well, and and then every time he would whine because
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: she was playing the game that he set forward through
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: years of them being shitty to one another, I was like,
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: why the fuck are you whiny? You've never written in
• 41:24
  Speaker 1: a fucking company Christmas card and left it on her desk.
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: I'm in love with you. It's you. I painted my
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: bedroom while you're.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: Or like the flowers the next day and she assumes
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: it's Danny because the hammert and flower and like like
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: and then he doesn't correct her when she's like, oh,
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: Danny sent me flowers and he's like.
• 41:46
  Speaker 1: It's like yeah, it's like yeah, there were a lot of.
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: Opportunities to sort of build more of that, like planting
• 41:54
  Speaker 2: more of those seeds of like, hey, it was me because.
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: Like, hey, I do like you because it is kind
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: of out of the blue.
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And the thing that makes my body feel like
• 42:04
  Speaker 1: I'm being bitten by fire ants throughout every time that
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: Ann talks is because like it's it's one of those
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: things where it's never enough, but you're also doing too much,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: and that's another way to gaslight you, where it's like
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: I don't want you to show up at my place,
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: why are you here? Yeah, and then you leave and
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: then he texts you the next day. I can't believe
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: that you left. It's never enough, but it's also always
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: too much.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah. There's another scene too, and it's quick because this
• 42:37
  Speaker 2: time I actually noticed it and you know, I've seen
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: this movie a billion times and it only came out
• 42:42
  Speaker 2: in twenty twenty one.
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: That tells you the state of my life.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: Where she's doing something and the camera cuts to him,
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: and he's looking at her and his face is soft
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: and kind of filled with love. But it's quick, and
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: so I noticed it this time and I was like,
• 42:56
  Speaker 2: that's still not enough to signal to the audience that
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: he loves her.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. No, it's a badly it is a badly done movie.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: I love Lucy Hale. I've always loved Lucy Hale. I
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: think she's adorable. Maybe she was the best pretty little liar.
• 43:14
  Speaker 1: I remember what I was saying to say before. Go ahead,
• 43:17
  Speaker 1: but in no way, shape or form should you ever
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: be watching a movie and go, wow, Lucy Hale is
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: acting circles around these motherfuckers right right.
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, and she really, I mean, she's the
• 43:32
  Speaker 2: best part of that movie. Yeah, because again, like I
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: said before, it feels like he's.
• 43:36
  Speaker 3: Reading a script.
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: They're the The erotic dream scene also kind of fell
• 43:42
  Speaker 2: out of the blue because there wasn't any sexual at
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: tension in their fight. To me, it didn't have the
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: sexual at tension in the fight to signal for her
• 43:52
  Speaker 2: to have that sort of like seemy dream about him
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: later well.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: And also they didn't build up enough of a like
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: biting enter between the two of them to where I
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: understood why she told him about the steamy dream to
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: begin with y, because I do know that, like sometimes
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: your dreams be wild when you're angry or frustrated or
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: whatever in your brain's trying to like let go of
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: some of that. But then for her to just be like, yeah,
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: I had a sex dream about my co worker, what
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: do you want? And I'm like, why would you even
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: tell him? Right? It? None thing about that made sense.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: The other kind of super tropy thing was Dan was
• 44:32
  Speaker 2: the way they presented Danny.
• 44:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I was really hoping that he won it at
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: the end of the day. I was like, this nice
• 44:39
  Speaker 1: boy who isn't stalking you and and.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: It's been in love with her since the day one.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: But like the way that they style him, the way
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: that they have him present himself, And I'm like, is
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: Danny like that in the book, because like he's really
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: great on paper.
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And then all of the insuls have leg
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: to stand on more. They're like, women don't like good guys.
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: They like guys who hate them. And it's like, well,
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: it's because secretly the good guys hate us too. The
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: nice guy hates us too, Like I don't know, but yeah,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: the moment when he's like, I track you. I have
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: a chart in my day planner and I track.
• 45:21
  Speaker 3: You're that's that's it.
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: That's it for my nightmare. It is my nightmare. I number. Also,
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: you know that my new rule is if you meet
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: your partner's dad and that man feels entitled and privileged
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: to be awful, to hit on you, to be mean
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: to your partner's wife in front of you or whatever,
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: and you look at your male partner and you can
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: see that he's bothered by that, but he's never worked
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: through it. You have to run away. You have to
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: run away because you're next your next well.
• 45:59
  Speaker 2: And you know, men aren't really taught to work throughout
• 46:02
  Speaker 2: their emotions. They have to be dependent on women. And
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: that's not me saying it. It is a justification. That's
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: just me stating, like men are dependent on women to
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: process their emotions for them, and that's the problem.
• 46:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have to like you have to be like
• 46:15
  Speaker 1: that wedding would have made me go and I have
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: to go home, and I would have never seen the
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: green bedroom and I would have gotten to live my
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: life not having my entire like I.
• 46:27
  Speaker 2: Was, like, you wouldn't have fallen in love with him.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: If you hadn't seen the Green Bedroom.
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: It bothered me so much. I was like, you have
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: to run away. You would have to run away, you
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: have to lead.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: Why isn't she running away Because he's a foot taller
• 46:49
  Speaker 2: than her. She takes three steps in the way that
• 46:52
  Speaker 2: he takes half a step.
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: Right, I was like, oh my god, she's dead. She's dead.
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: She's a little compared to him, Like she's a solid
• 47:02
  Speaker 3: foot she's a solid foot shorter.
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: I'm making a lot of jokes, but this is how
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: we talk about serial killers. Like he was always nice.
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: Eddie had a puppy around, and he named that puppy
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: after her, and then all of a sudden she was
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: dead and so was the puppy. And then he got
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: another puppy to name after the next victim, and we never.
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: Caught of It's like in the episode of Full House
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: where that woman that Jesse used to date but Danny's
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: now dating, has a puppy that she named Jesse.
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: Uh huh, yeah. I'm like, run away, you have to
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: run away, you have to run away, because, like, honestly,
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's gonna be evidence in a CSI episode.
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: They're gonna be like we found a day planner where
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: he was literally tracking her entire wardrobe and marking boners
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: and and I'd be like, yes, sir, please arrest him. Sure, Mile,
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: you should have seen me, because like, I put down
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: my switch, I put down my phone. I just gave
• 48:08
  Speaker 1: myself over to the panic. I was like, this doesn't
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: feel good. I go, this feels like love bombing. This
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: feels like manipulation. This feels like gaslighting. He's hot, he's cold.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: He screams at her because she's trying to play by
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: the new rules. But he's like, no, I want the
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: rules from three days ago. And I'm like, and it
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: all happened in a three week span, And I was like,
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: you have to run away. I was like, was his
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: bedroom always that color green? You would have to run away,
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: run quickly. You have to, you have to. And I
• 48:42
  Speaker 1: have to believe that in the book there's more context,
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: and Hulu just went naw. I I believe because there
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: were also parts of red white and royal blue. I
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: loved red white and Royal blue so cute. But the
• 48:59
  Speaker 1: entire time, I was like, this is moving too quickly. Yeah,
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: one of them is coming off as predatory because of
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: how quickly this is moving. Yeah. Yeah, and they've never
• 49:07
  Speaker 1: had conversations before, and now you're inside someone and I
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: don't understand, and there has to be more context in
• 49:16
  Speaker 1: this book. And I should really read this book because
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: I am enamored by these two and I haven't read
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: the book yet. That's on me.
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: I have two copies, actually, one collector's edition and one
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: is the one that I read.
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: The collector's edition has an extra extra chapter. It's so good.
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: I hear on one of the days that I'm visiting
• 49:37
  Speaker 1: the reading salon news happening. So there we go.
• 49:40
  Speaker 3: It's true.
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: But in this book, I couldn't get past it. I
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: was like, no, he's too volatile, and we have so.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: But but they haven't painted to not be.
• 49:55
  Speaker 2: So it's like like you're pointing out it's volatile and
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: disguise because he is pretty even throughout the entire movie
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: until until she's like, hey, let's just bang it out
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: and get it over with, and he's like, and get
• 50:08
  Speaker 2: the fuck out of my house.
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: Right now. I'm insecul baby, and I've been to therapy,
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: so I've seen the feelings wheel, where every feeling is
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: just a secret feeling in the skies. I've seen it,
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: they used it. I'm married at first sight that I
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: binged over the weekend. Oh, I love that.
• 50:28
  Speaker 3: We should always talk about our feelings.
• 50:30
  Speaker 1: We should always talk about our feelings.
• 50:31
  Speaker 3: Vulnerability should not be weaponized.
• 50:34
  Speaker 1: So then when we saw his dad, I was like, oh,
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: he has all of the same anger issues as his dad.
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: Ye, because dad really is a villain.
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, truly. And I was like, they just present as
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: sad boy bullshit, right, and sad boys get a break
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: because they're sad, and we're upset that they're sad. And
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not upset that he's said I am
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: still very much afraid.
• 50:56
  Speaker 3: Of this man.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And his dad's like, isn't my son like the
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: most amazing and brilliant and look at how fantastic and
• 51:04
  Speaker 2: gorgeous he is? And it was like my second son,
• 51:07
  Speaker 2: like the most disappointing thing in the entire world.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: And again I was like, you know, we know when
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: our families feel that way about us, but no one
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: says it out loud at a wedding. I was. However,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I was at my aunt's house during college and it
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: was probably during a holiday, and my mother's cousin asked
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: me how school was going, and I was like, well, Bubbs,
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: I actually made Honor Roller Jean's List or whatever the
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: fuck I had made. And Bubbs was like, oh my god,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: that's so great. Mamily, You're like champion of our lives.
• 51:44
  Speaker 1: Like you know, he's my uncle Chokey's son. So they
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: love me in a way that will never be replicated. Yeah,
• 51:53
  Speaker 1: and one of my parents and we'll I'll just guess
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: which one with Yeah, you think she could have pulled
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: off those grades the last few years in high school,
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: so I have to shell out as much money for college.
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: And I was just like, I'm just gonna go kill myself,
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: Like I'll just go drown myself. It's comment because such
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: a necessary comment. The same cousin, So I was a
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: late in life driver because driving is anxiety inducing.
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: And I also was a late in life driver because
• 52:28
  Speaker 2: it is expensive.
• 52:29
  Speaker 1: Yes, and my first big trauma was my grandma dying
• 52:33
  Speaker 1: of cancer when I was fifteen going on sixteen. So
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: every time I was practicing driving, it was always like
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: we were either talking about Grandma or someone was like
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: or an uncle was trying to help me or whatever,
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: or sometime I think maybe like if we were on
• 52:53
  Speaker 1: a country road, my mom would let me drive to
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: practice or whatever, and I hated it. And after my
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: grandma died, that was my first brush with like, oh,
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: this will be the depression that I struggle with for
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: the rest of my life until I'm medicated. And then
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: I'll just like kind of struggle. Yeah, I'll just get
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: like the little mind sprints and so so I never
• 53:16
  Speaker 1: went into practice driving freaks me out. One of the
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: very first times that I made a mistake during driving,
• 53:23
  Speaker 1: I ended up in a ditch and I was basically told,
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: you got yourself in the ditch, get yourself out of
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: the ditch. And I got out of the car and
• 53:29
  Speaker 1: I was like, I know where home is, and I'll
• 53:31
  Speaker 1: just walk there because don't see me needing help, and
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: then tell me to figure it out. I'm crying. I'm
• 53:41
  Speaker 1: worried that I've ruined the car. Like so I was
• 53:45
  Speaker 1: a late in life driver. Same cousin is also telling
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: me that maybe one of his kids, or maybe one
• 53:54
  Speaker 1: of the one of my other cousins was a late
• 53:56
  Speaker 1: in life driver. And and before I can even say, like,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: it's just because it makes me and I think I
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: did say, I go, it just makes me really stressed
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: out and nervous, and I don't like doing it. Uh
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: so my feelings are spoken out and same parent goes, yeah,
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: she thinks like it was something among the line's though,
• 54:19
  Speaker 1: smartest kid in the world but can't learn how to drive.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, and now for the rest of my life,
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: my family thinks that I'm a bad driver. Whenever I
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: show up anywhere safely, they're like, oh my god, you
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: really did that, oh on the way here.
• 54:40
  Speaker 2: And it's not like you have evidence showing that you're
• 54:42
  Speaker 2: a bad driver. Yeah, Like we called my dad called
• 54:46
  Speaker 2: my sister crash because in the period of like a year,
• 54:49
  Speaker 2: she had like three or four car accidents.
• 54:53
  Speaker 1: I've damaged two cars. I have backed into a car
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: not paying attention, and I have damaged my own car
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: trying to get out of a parking garage because I
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: because when you have ADHD, you have spatial awareness issues, right.
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: Also cars aren't designed for women's eyelines, right, So I
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: just let a giant ass traffic cone that they used
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: to like block the entrance of the parking garage when
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: it's closed, I just let it like run through my car.
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: And when I'll just think about that when I get home. Yeah. Oh, Also,
• 55:27
  Speaker 1: when snow apocalypse happened, the only way to get my
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: car out was to just like let the snow drift
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: take part of like a cosmetic part of the vehicle.
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: I was like, yep, I because again I don't care
• 55:44
  Speaker 1: what the car looks like. I have places I'm the
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: same place to do. I literally don't care what my
• 55:50
  Speaker 1: car looks like.
• 55:51
  Speaker 2: People were like, you did get a car wash? I'm like,
• 55:52
  Speaker 2: do I would you like to take it through the
• 55:54
  Speaker 2: car wash for me? Because it is not that it's stressful,
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: but it's like the line is always so long I'm
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: not waiting for thirty minutes that it's not an effective
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: use of my time.
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: The car wash is stressful when is my car ever
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: in neutral and like I don't know when to hook
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: it onto the I don't know how the car wash
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: works well.
• 56:13
  Speaker 2: And I can't take Josephine through it with me because
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: she does, like legitimately freak out. And if I go
• 56:18
  Speaker 2: into the car to do something that isn't like going
• 56:21
  Speaker 2: to the grocery store, like where I can just stay
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: in the car to run my errands, I take her
• 56:25
  Speaker 2: with me. Yeah, and I'm missing hubcaps and my and
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: my family members are like, well, we can get you hubcaps.
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like no, because every time they rotate my tires,
• 56:33
  Speaker 2: the hubcaps go flying off within days and that's scary.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: So anyways, what we've learned here, ladies and girls gaze
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: and things, it's who we're here for is should you
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: ever walk into a man's home and he'll be like,
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: do you like the way that I redecorated? And you'll
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: be like, oh, did you redecorate? And he'd be like, yeah,
• 56:57
  Speaker 1: I painted the kitchen the exact red of your favorite scarp.
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: You have to run away if you're not dating that man,
• 57:08
  Speaker 1: if you're not married to that man, if that man
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: has not been anything but mean to you. And then
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: all of a sudden he's like, that's the color of
• 57:17
  Speaker 1: your eyes. Though. You have to run away.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: You have to leave. It is imperative, you'res dependent on it.
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: Men like this have to be stopped. Like the teasel,
• 57:29
  Speaker 1: there's lighthearted banter, and there's light hearted and teasing, but
• 57:33
  Speaker 1: he was like legitimately shitty to her.
• 57:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I dated a guy who man, he was cute.
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: Oh it was so hot and he was very very
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: very good fun to look at, and making out with
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: him is real nice.
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: But he loved to do the mean banter m m.
• 57:52
  Speaker 2: And like the picking on, and I know being a
• 57:55
  Speaker 2: child of people who do that, it turns into bitterness
• 57:58
  Speaker 2: and resentment. And I was like, I don't want that.
• 58:01
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I have to break up with you, like
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: this is over. And we had some pretty good chemistry,
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: like it's insane. I've never had like that. I that
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: was some pretty intense chemistry I've ever experienced. And he
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: was like, I can't believe you're gonna walk away from
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: this because in twenty years, you don't want us to
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: hate each other or.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: Some shit like that. And I was like, yeah, yeah, sorry,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: your personality sucks.
• 58:23
  Speaker 2: We just don't want to be like teased like that
• 58:26
  Speaker 2: every day all day, like it's exhausting.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: When some of my younger cousins went to college and
• 58:32
  Speaker 1: they thought that freshman week, the week where you make
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: all of your life long friends for college and you
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: have themed days and whatever, was bullshit and they didn't
• 58:40
  Speaker 1: want to go. An adult in my life was like,
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: you know, maybe we really should have shield your kids,
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: you kids from the sarcasm, because you guys like literally
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: think everything is bullshit. I don't know, like my first
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: instinct is this is bullshit, And I've had to like
• 58:57
  Speaker 1: rewrite that code, yeah, and learn how to.
• 59:00
  Speaker 2: With the same I mean, I told you. I think
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: I told you offline. I was like, I think that
• 59:05
  Speaker 2: I am the problem because the whole time I was
• 59:09
  Speaker 2: participating in something, I was just heckling in my head.
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: And I was like, you know what, you need to stop.
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: It's fine, Like there's no reason to be heckling.
• 59:18
  Speaker 3: Why are you heckling?
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: And I was like I was. I was like, Jules
• 59:23
  Speaker 1: is gonna once Acond share a movie with me. That's
• 59:26
  Speaker 1: important to her. She probably read the book.
• 59:29
  Speaker 3: It's not that important to me.
• 59:30
  Speaker 2: I just he's hot, and then I'm gonna have a story, Julia,
• 59:34
  Speaker 2: Men are dangerous.
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: I feel like you're always having to tell me this though.
• 59:40
  Speaker 1: Well, like I didn't have a panic attack when Steve
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: Bouchemi was shooting a gun in space and had space
• 59:48
  Speaker 1: I was like, Steve Bochevy, you quit it.
• 59:50
  Speaker 2: Well, it's not like he was trying to like convince
• 59:53
  Speaker 2: like the lady scientists to marry him, right, he just.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: Saw a robot. It was like I will play with
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 1: that robot.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 2: Like I just feel like, I just okay, here's the thing, Natalie,
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 2: I apologize.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 1: He was also so bad at acting. Yeah, that also
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: made me mad. I was like, you're not even good
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: at manipulating.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: You're not even good at this.
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 2: I do want to I do wonder though, if that's
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: who he is all the time. Like I made a
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 2: comment to somebody, I said, I really want to see
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 2: anyone but you, But I'm really disappointed because I don't
• 1:00:29
  Speaker 2: think Sidney Sweeney is a very good actress. I'm a
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 2: controversial opinion. That's literally I said. I said, controversial opinion.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: I don't think Sidney Sweeney is a good actress. And
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 2: literally ten people were in my DMS and they're like,
• 1:00:42
  Speaker 2: she's not and it's like okay. I was like, okay,
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 2: I don't know. She keeps getting hired. She's fucking gorgeous,
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 2: and like what it is?
• 1:00:50
  Speaker 1: This is why I'm obsessed with her. The new trend
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: is to be serving a lot of kunt at all times. Yeah,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: Sidney Sweeney serves kunt just by like lancet at you
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: and you're like, I don't know what I did, but
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know, so maybe she should invest in doing
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: pantomime instead, because like I watched the trailer of that
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 2: movie and I'm like, oh, Glenn Powell saves this movie
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 2: because he's like so invested in being that guy. And
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: then it sounds like she's reading a script.
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 1: See. I think she's so good in Euphoria for whatever
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: reason I watched.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 3: I've watched the first the first hat I've watched.
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 2: I'm like two episodes from being done with season one,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 2: but like taking in season one in a binging manner
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: was so much that I'm still like it's a lot
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: for me, you know, my emotions.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: Anyway, The way that you feel when watching Euphoria is
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: how I felt while watching that man tried to convince
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: Lucy Hale that he was in love with her and
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 1: everything was fine. Well, everything is not behind.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 3: I will read the book and report back.
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I I mean, as we know, we don't have
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: to redeem men to remain dangerous.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: No, But I still I'm still curious because Dan's got
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 2: to be there's got to be stuff that was deleted
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 2: that they were like, oh, that doesn't matter, but then
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: you then you're like no, but then.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: My neck hurts from Whiplash, right.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: I need the author to weigh in. I need the
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: author to be like, yes, they did ruin my book,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: like they did a hack job.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 3: Authors would never I.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: Make a lot of money once your movie gets adapted.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I wish they would, but they would never.
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: And they pretend they would like producing credits and writing
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 1: credits like, oh they were involved, but they're not.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 3: It's name only, it's so.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 2: But I did learn from our hot doing our heart
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 2: stopper episode. The gal who wrote the graphic novels or
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 2: the person who wrote the graphic novels wrote the scripts.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: Good for Alice Osman. Yeah, Austin, you know who you are.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking obsessed with you. I don't remember who it was,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: Yes I do. It was my friend Gianna. No, no,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: it was someone else said I was just out to
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: dinner or lunch.
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 3: With because you're popular.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: Because I'm so popular, I have too many friends to
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: keep track of. But anyways, one at someone's all over
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: my face. Someone somewhere believe uh backed me up on
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: how Nick should have been a big dumb Oah the
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: entire time someone backed me up, and I was like,
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 1: I will die on this.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 3: I will die on this hill.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: And if you don't know what we're talking about, you
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: need to go to the Jellypops book Club and wherever
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 2: you find your podcasts and listen to the heart stopper episode,
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 2: like that sweet.
• 1:03:46
  Speaker 1: Baby Angel did a fine job, and then like that
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 1: show should be winning awards. But I deserved a heart stopper.
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: Oh maybe it was Sam. I deserved a heart stopper
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: where Dick was a big dumb ass oh the entire
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: time time, because it's part of the story.
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't wait for volume five to release. I'm
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 3: so excited.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: But anyway, that's what I should have told people I
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 2: wanted for Christmas, and then i've I would have gotten
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 2: sixteen copies.
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: We've run a little long who because they.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: Haven't done one in a while.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 1: I hope we actually talked about the movie. I think
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 1: I just went into so I had a panic attack.
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 2: No, I did talk about the movie, and you know what,
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: I think we did a great job at analyzing it.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, let's write a thesis based on this conversation alone.
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: Like if someone wants to get their PhD off of
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: what I say, you let me know. But yeah, that
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 1: type of man be dangerous and I'm so tired. I'm
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 1: so I've also not personally, but I have been getting
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: a lot of information lately via married at First site
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: and the personal people in my lives about men who
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: have duped and used like love bombing and gaslighting and
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: telling you that everything's okay and it's all a big dupe.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 1: So maybe it wasn't the Christmas wat.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 2: But eating I mean that also could be true, real
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 2: and true. I always worry about like that kind of
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 2: stuff because I do.
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 3: I am a skeptic when I know.
• 1:05:19
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, I love love and love is my
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: favorite thing and I want my.
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 3: Life to hear bottle up brom com. But there are
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: there's a graveyard of men who will tell you how
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 3: hard it was to break through this brick wall, cement wall.
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: And if you're out there wondering why Nappley, what was
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: the last room rom com that made you squishy on
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: the inside and in your pants, It wasn't a rom com.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: It was a dark comedy and it was.
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 3: Saltburn that burns so good.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: I was fucking raring to go the entire time of Saltburn.
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 1: I was like, this is dark, this is fucking weird.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 2: I was talking with a friend about it because Jacobal
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: is going to be the.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 3: New whatever for Twilight.
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 1: Uh huh Edward.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: And my friend who I was talking to about this
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 2: loves Twilight. It's her Roman Empire, and so she was like,
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: I just don't see it from the pictures. I was like, ma'am,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 2: go see Sulburn because Emerald Funnel gives us the thirst traps,
• 1:06:20
  Speaker 2: of thirst traps of that young man and I had
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 2: to confirm that he is of legal age because the
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 2: thirst traps.
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 3: Of that young man were so good.
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 1: Sulburn was so weird and the entire time I was like,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, I just can't wait to be hoped. So
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 1: thanks Emerald.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 3: I mean somebody, I bet somebody has.
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 2: I was like, something needs to put a montage together
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: of just those thirst traps because wow, like the way
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: he just the way she captures him, just like looking
• 1:06:59
  Speaker 2: at the camera like we're watching him through Oliver's eyes.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 3: Ah, so good.
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 1: What I love the most about Emerald Funnel is that
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: on called The Midwife, she plays the most beautiful, put together,
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: like no nonsense, yeah, gets everything right, gets everything done
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: midwife that that show's ever seen. Yeah, and then she's
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: a cold cock weirdo to the lady in the streets,
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: put a freaking the sheet and I'm like, I see you, Emerald, And.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 3: Do you think it's because she played Camila Parker Bowls
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 3: on the Crown that that just like unlocked it for her.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 1: And she had to have some guy who was trying
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: to convince us that King Charles was ever good looking
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 1: gaslight her into believing that telling her that he wanted
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 1: to be her damp on was the sexy come on,
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: such the weirdest.
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 3: The fact that he could overcome that is insane to me.
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: Thee I want to be your tampon because that's how
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: much I want to be inside you right now. That
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: is I painted my walls green because your eyes are
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: the color of green.
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, that's what all we have to say.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe it's time we wrap it up now because
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 2: we can't top that.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 1: Julia, tell everyone where they can find you, friends.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: I'm on the Gram and the TikTok, the Julia Washington.
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: I am there crying about not being able to turn
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: on my heat because.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 3: I can't afford it. This week.
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: I am your host of pop Culture makes me Jealous,
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 2: where we analyze pop culture through the lens of race
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: or gender and sometimes both.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: This week we released an episode.
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 2: About the Tutors, featuring Natalie Katona and our friend al
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: Arinthia Carter, and we like, we get into it, Homie,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: like it's we We get some pretty deep analysis. We
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 2: deserve a degree for the amount of work we've done
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: for that episode. Owned also over on Jelly Pop's book Club,
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 2: which has suffered because I was busy in November trying
• 1:09:07
  Speaker 2: to make my business successful. We're talking about The Last
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: Unicorn with Jackie Hayes and that drops I think on Friday,
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: and this is our last uh.
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 3: Pomfrey for the year.
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 2: And yes, I am still comfy with this movie, and
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: yes I will continue.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 3: To watch it every winter.
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 1: Sorry, Natalie, I had a panic attack. All of the
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: alarms in my body were like this man is bad.
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: We have been here before.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 3: Yes, but tell everybody what's up. And men, I've tolerated
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 3: POD's world.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: This week, so to all the men I've tolerated it before.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: Is on its holiday break, so on our main feed
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 1: you will be seeing audio versions of Still Comfy. So
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: for those of you who are like YouTube, won't get
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: it together and make it play on my phone while
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 1: I do other things. I hear you, I put it
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: on the feet. So this week is a night's tale
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: where I try to write a music live.
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 3: I love that. That was a great episode. I think
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 3: we did. They're all great episode. I would like to take.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 1: A moment to plug both of our Patreons because over
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 1: on the two ultimate I've tolerated before Patreon, we're gonna
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 1: start moving a lot of free content over there, and
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: then we're starting a new series for our highest tier
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 1: Patreon members, which is called The Misogyny Meltdown where, let
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 1: me tell you, I really hold it together on when
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: I'm live on the internet and live on a mic
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 1: with a person. Believe it or not, this is me.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 1: This is me being like, you're a professional.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 3: You're a profession, you're a public you can do this.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 1: People that are gone high? Are you? So the Misogyny
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: Mail Down will be where I lose my mind and
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: it will take a different form every time I release
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: something for that series, so sometimes. So currently it's free
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: for everyone, and it's the Misogynist of the Year Award,
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: and voting is currently open for what pop Culture Icon
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: was the biggest asshole this year? Right now? The uh,
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: the top contenders are Justin Timberlake, the entire Spears family,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: and Dax Shepherd. They are followed closely by Darius Jackson
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 1: and Tom Sandoval and Cody Brown and Chris Pratt and Joejonas.
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  Speaker 1: You two are big enough losers that no one's even
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  Speaker 1: voting for you.
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  Speaker 3: Because it's just expected at this point.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, people are like, I don't even know what they
• 1:11:46
  Speaker 1: did this go.
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  Speaker 3: Around, Like they're just in there forever.
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  Speaker 1: So that's all happening on Patreon. It's free, it's a
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 1: free app, it's a free follow, it's just another social
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 1: media platform. I don't know about everyone else, but my
• 1:11:58
  Speaker 1: Instagram has been like fuck all this month and Patreon
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: don't do me like that. And you're gonna want to
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: watch both of our Patreons coming up because this week
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: and this week only, starting on Sunday, Julian and I
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: will be in several rooms together in physical proximity of
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: one another.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, we're gonna be making a lot of content. You
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  Speaker 3: don't even know how to hang in there.
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  Speaker 1: And there will be other guest roles coming in on
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: our content because we are seeing a lot of our
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: tried and true favorite people that we've met through podcasting
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: and other people's content, and yeah, yeah, I'm so excited.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: We were. I just like, I can't believe it's already
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: like it's gonna be like I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 1: And day that's when I fly out. So everyone remember
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 1: out there for this holiday season. If one day he's
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: painting his room the color of your eyes and the
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 1: next day he's called you a dirty little twit in
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 1: a push up bra, but then also telling you that
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: that was fine and he's super sexy, that's gaslighting. That
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: wasn't talking about her. You don't know who he was
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: talking about. They didn't tell us.
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  Speaker 3: I bet they tell us in the book.
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 1: I am assuming that he was just going along with
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 1: whatever his boss said and maybe secretly recording him. But
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: we never know. We don't know. They don't.
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah, New York is New York. You don't have it's
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  Speaker 2: not you can. You don't have to have consent from
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: the other person to record them.
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: So maybe he was doing that. We don't know. Julie
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  Speaker 1: is gonna read the book. I can't deal with another
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: panic attack. But most importantly, stay cozy, stay comfy, and
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 1: we'll see you in the new year.
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  Speaker 3: I'm so excited.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 1: By friends at Gasla. I means suck.