Latest / True Crime with Gavin Fish / The Evidence That Changed Everything in the Caitlin Tracey Case
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- 0:02In October of last year, a dismembered human foot was
- 0:07discovered in the stairwell of a Chicago high rise.
- 0:11When they investigated it further, they found the owner of
- 0:16that foot and a mystery that took about a year to solve.
- 0:22Let's talk about it. This video contains mature
- 0:37themes and discussions intended only for adult audiences.
- 0:41Viewer discretion is advised. Hello there, my friend.
- 0:46Welcome back to another true crime conversation with me,
- 0:50Gavin Fish here at the Old Fish Family Ranch.
- 0:56We'd like to cut through the fluff and the sensationalism of
- 0:59true crime, get down to the nitty gritty.
- 1:01It's not always possible because there's so many places here in
- 1:04these United States and the fruited plain from sea to
- 1:09shining sea that do not share documents the way some states
- 1:14do. States like Florida, states like
- 1:16Utah and Idaho, Minnesota, Arizona, states that are
- 1:22committed to transparency. Most states are not all that
- 1:28transparent. And unfortunately for us, the
- 1:33state of Illinois isn't all that transparent.
- 1:35And tonight we are talking about the case of the murder of
- 1:42Caitlin Tracy. But before we get into it, guys,
- 1:46you know what we're going to do. Let's check out some headlines.
- 1:56True crime headlines. I don't know, just tickles me.
- 2:01I like it. I know some of you in the
- 2:03comments don't like the don't like the little segment
- 2:07stingers, the little intros, but I like them.
- 2:09And by the way, while we're going over these headlines, I've
- 2:12got a few that I want to bring up to you.
- 2:15Please stick in the comments where you're tuning in from.
- 2:17I like to see where you guys are from.
- 2:19We've got a an international show.
- 2:23OK, let's head on over here to Crime COD.
- 2:29Let me Crime Cod is a website that I publish.
- 2:33I've got a couple of really good writers.
- 2:35This one is Jacob Charles. Just to quickly go over some of
- 2:40the stuff that's happening in true crime.
- 2:42Listen to this or prosecutors say Minnesota man bludgeoned Co
- 2:47worker to death because he quote, didn't like her.
- 2:52Authorities say 40 year old David Bruce de Long confessed to
- 2:55striking 20 year old Amber Check multiple times with a
- 2:58sledgehammer at their coquetta workplace.
- 3:01Let's just see the lead here. Authorities say a Wright County
- 3:06man confessed to killing his Co worker at a coquetta factory
- 3:09because he didn't like her and had been planning the attack for
- 3:13some time. Quickly.
- 3:17The Wright County Sheriff's Office reports the deputies were
- 3:19called to the facility around 6:00 AM after an employee found
- 3:23check at her workstation suffering from catastrophic head
- 3:26injuries. Oh, Can you imagine?
- 3:28Can you imagine walking into work and finding your Co worker
- 3:33like that? Despite life saving efforts by
- 3:36deputies and paramedics, she was pronounced dead at the scene.
- 3:40They say a bloody sledgehammer was discovered near her body.
- 3:44Oh. Anyway, he is in custody, is
- 3:48scheduled to make his next court appearance on the 24th.
- 3:53What's next? What do we have next from crime
- 3:56Cod woman who falsely claimed to be Madeleine McCann gets six
- 4:01months for harassment. Wow.
- 4:03A British court convicted Julia Wynn debt.
- 4:05Wynn debt of harassing Kate and Jerry McCann after she attempted
- 4:10to force Adna test to prove she was their missing daughter.
- 4:17Lister. Let's see, let me refresh this.
- 4:19I think that, you know, to those of us across the pond here again
- 4:23in the fruited plant plains, we might read that and say that
- 4:27says Licester or Leicester, but it is not it says Lister.
- 4:32Why? Because they take great
- 4:34liberties in the United Kingdom with their pronunciations of
- 4:38things. Great liberties.
- 4:40I I'm not, I'm not bitter about it anyway.
- 4:43Lister, Uka Polish woman who spent years claiming to be
- 4:47Madeleine McCann, was convicted of harassing the missing girl's
- 4:50parents in an English court on November 7th.
- 4:53Julia Wandell, 24, was sentenced to six months in prison, which
- 4:58she has already served, after a 5 week trial at Lister Crown
- 5:02Court. A5 week to trial she also faces
- 5:06deportation after an order was served on the court.
- 5:09As reported by the Guardian. She was found guilty of
- 5:12harassment but was acquitted of the more serious charge of
- 5:15stalking her. Supporter Karen Sprague, 61, who
- 5:19accompanied Wandelt on key occasions, was also acquitted of
- 5:23all charges the same day. Ah, the poor McCanns man OK from
- 5:30people. Police confirm.
- 5:32Oh this was sent to me by my OG supporter Jamie.
- 5:38Police confirm influencer Michael Duarte was shot by
- 5:41officer during disturbance call and newly released details.
- 5:45And this is just tragically sad. Let me zoom in on this just a
- 5:50little bit. Police have shared new details
- 5:54about the death of california-based influencer
- 5:56Michael Duarte, who died on November 8th.
- 5:59The creator, known online under the handle Food With Bare Hands,
- 6:03was shot by police and was later pronounced dead at the hospital.
- 6:06A spokesperson for the Medina County Sheriff's Office told TMZ
- 6:11deputies responded to a 911 call in Castroville, TX.
- 6:15So maybe they, yeah, they would pronounce that Medina in
- 6:18Castroville, TX for a disturbance involving a male
- 6:21subject with a knife acting erratically and a deputy
- 6:25discharged 2 rounds from her duty weapon, killing Duarte, the
- 6:29outlet reported. Then it talks about, you know
- 6:33him on Instagram. We ask that you lift Michael's
- 6:36family up in prayer during this extremely difficult time, their
- 6:39GoFundMe said. This heartbreaking came, or this
- 6:42heartbreak came without warning, leaving Jessica to incur the
- 6:46expense of bringing him back home to California and covering
- 6:49funeral expenses. Wow.
- 6:53Duarte was raised in Calipatria, I'm sure they say Calipatria,
- 6:58California, a small city near the US Mexico border.
- 7:01At 14, he started working in a small Mexican restaurant owned
- 7:03by his uncle, whom he called a mentor.
- 7:07Well, I'm very sorry for Mr. Duarte.
- 7:12I I imagine that he was the person that was wielding the
- 7:15knife and acting erratically to just tragic, tragic.
- 7:22OK from law and crime. Woman fatally stabbed shopper in
- 7:26in mall parking structure because she needed money for
- 7:28dart daughter's cheerleading trip, according to prosecutors.
- 7:33This kind of stuff just kills me.
- 7:36California prosecutors said that a woman accused of stabbing a
- 7:39retired nurse to death in a mall parking structure was looking
- 7:42for money so she could send her daughter on a cheerleading camp.
- 7:46Opening statements were presented in Torrance Superior
- 7:49Court on Wednesday in the murder trial of 47 year old Sherri
- 7:52Lynette Townsend, according to courtroom courtroom reporting by
- 7:56Daily Breeze, a local news outlet.
- 7:58Prosecutors said Townsend is responsible for the fatal
- 8:01stabbing of 66 year old Susan Leeds, a retired nurse who was
- 8:05found bleeding in her Mercedes-Benz SUV.
- 8:08So was this a robbery? On May 3rd 2018, Leeds had just
- 8:13finished a shopping trip at the Promenade on the Peninsula Mall
- 8:16in Rolling Hills, CA. She died minutes after she was
- 8:19found. Wow wow that kills me that that
- 8:28might be a trial we we want to keep an eye on.
- 8:31Last one that I want to show is also from long crime thought she
- 8:35was a thief dad's stepmom locked refrigerator cabinets to prevent
- 8:40starving 5 year old girl from getting food leaving her to eat.
- 8:45Play DoH cops say that these kinds of stories, guys, these
- 8:50kinds of stories get me. They just get me like, like the
- 8:54victim of Kimberly Sullivan, right?
- 8:57That are just, they're just mean.
- 9:00They're just mean. And, and I have this whole, I
- 9:07have this whole kind of libertarian bent where I just
- 9:11don't want to give too much power to government authorities.
- 9:16On the other hand, there are dill holes like this dill holes
- 9:21dill hole coffee mug available at gavinfish.com.
- 9:24By the way, that is delicious room temperature water.
- 9:30Anyway, there are deal holes like this that make me second
- 9:35guess that. Like no give them more power.
- 9:38I I always come to my senses. We need balance on all this.
- 9:42But Oh my goodness. A Utah father and his girlfriend
- 9:45are behind bars after they allegedly starved A5 year old
- 9:48girl to the point where she had to resort to eating her own
- 9:52feces and other non food items such as play dough.
- 9:56David Fevas, 32, and Jessica Harms, 44, stand accused of
- 9:59child torture, the Salt Lake County District Attorney's
- 10:03Office said, according to a probable cause arrest affidavit
- 10:06obtained by Law and Crime. Good for law and crime.
- 10:09I love that they post these man. I love that they post these.
- 10:14The West Valley, West Valley. You know, I lived, I lived for a
- 10:19year in Magna, which is on the West side of Salt Lake with my
- 10:23sister and brother-in-law back, way, way back in 1997.
- 10:29That is just West of West Valley City, which is just all part of
- 10:34the Salt Lake Valley. So West Valley police began
- 10:39investigating on August 30th after Feva's or Fiva's brought
- 10:43the five year old girl to the hospital because she was not
- 10:45gaining weight and would eat her own feces.
- 10:50I'm giggling out of discomfort, not out of comedy.
- 10:53Feva's allegedly said he gained custody of the girl when she's
- 10:57about 15 months old and has steadily decreased.
- 10:59On the growth chart. She weighed about the same as
- 11:03the typical 16 month old child, but after more than two weeks in
- 11:08the hospital with consistent scheduled meals, she gained
- 11:11nearly 5 lbs. Shocking.
- 11:14These people put him in jail, put him in jail, keep him in
- 11:16jail for a long, long, long time.
- 11:20That's a sampling of the headlines going on right now in
- 11:23true crime. True crime headlines.
- 11:33I just love it. I love it.
- 11:35I don't even care. I love it.
- 11:37So I'm going to keep doing it. Let's check in with where you
- 11:41guys are from, see what we're see what we're seeing today.
- 11:46Oh, we got Portland, OR in the house we got Maryland.
- 11:53North Carolina, Central Kentucky, British Columbia are
- 11:56friends to the N Jacksonville, FL.
- 12:00Chester County as far as far from Philly as possible in as
- 12:05possible. No, that is that is not.
- 12:08Chester County is as far from Philly as possible in PA.
- 12:14No, I am as far from Philly as possible in PA.
- 12:20Chester County is not Mamma Mia. Hello from little old Delaware.
- 12:27Glad you hear Kansas City in the house.
- 12:30Kansas City, MO or Kansas City, KS who knows?
- 12:34New Hampshire? Kennesaw, GA Central Missouri.
- 12:38See, I said it both ways there because I don't know how I say
- 12:44Missouri, I say Missouri. We got Virginia in the house.
- 12:47Of course, Mooney's with us, Yorkshire, the UK and yeah, kind
- 12:54of like Wooster, but spelled worst.
- 12:56Sister, sister. Share.
- 12:57Share. Yes, indeed.
- 12:59Lister. Let me tell you the reason I
- 13:02know. Dang it.
- 13:10Let me tell you the reason. I know how Lister is pronounced
- 13:12because one time I was in England in the Midlands for a
- 13:17show. Where was that show?
- 13:20Trying to remember where that show was.
- 13:22It is in the Midlands and I had spent a day with my with my Co
- 13:29worker throughout the whole Midlands.
- 13:32In fact we've gone to Oxfordshire.
- 13:34I've got a story about being kicked out of the site Business
- 13:37School there in Oxford. But we went into a place to get
- 13:41some food. He wanted fish and chips and I
- 13:44was happy to eat the chips. I was not, I'm not a fish
- 13:47person, ironically, but I said, how do you pronounce the name of
- 13:53this town? And she told me Lester.
- 13:57So there we are. There we are, Bren says Lester.
- 14:01No, no, no, I've been I've been taught because of my tangent.
- 14:07They at least she said Lister, but OK, Lister.
- 14:10Lester, let's let's call the whole thing off.
- 14:14All right, Yeah, now you guys are talking about you're talking
- 14:20about my hair and my weight loss.
- 14:23Yes, indeed. All right.
- 14:26So, yes, those two are double dill holes.
- 14:29Fo Shomoney. Oh, my goodness.
- 14:32Starving a person is sadistic. Kathy from Kansas Crime Capital
- 14:37LA in the House. Or is that Louisiana?
- 14:41Or is it LA? Western Kentucky, Central Ohio,
- 14:44Long Island, Corpus Christi, Marine, Illinois, Erie, PA in
- 14:50the House. So glad you guys are here.
- 14:52We got New Jersey. Let's see.
- 14:59Denver, Ann Arbor, Dayton. Yeah, North Carolina in the
- 15:05house. So glad you guys are here.
- 15:07All right, let's get to the case of the day.
- 15:11This is the case of Caitlin Tracy.
- 15:15Now, this is what I decided to do.
- 15:19I decided to go through this case chronologically as it was
- 15:25reported in the media because I feel like that chronological
- 15:31chronologic organization is my jam.
- 15:34That is how I organize everything.
- 15:37That is how I organize my cases. That's how I organize my
- 15:40stories. That's how I organize my mind.
- 15:42Chronology is my jam, I should say.
- 15:45So I thought that we would do it this way.
- 15:48We got a couple people, couple more.
- 15:50WAP, Wappingers Falls, NY. I think you made that up.
- 15:54Kentucky. Sunny Isles Beach, FL Jackson,
- 15:57Ms. Southern Indiana. Sydney, Australia.
- 15:59Good to see. Sydney, they're in eastern
- 16:02Australia. One of these days I want to get
- 16:04I want to get to Perth. I want to get to WA.
- 16:08I've got an old friend there. Doesn't matter.
- 16:11What did I just do what I just do, guys, you know what?
- 16:15I just tell me to stop doing that.
- 16:22I got to stop doing that. OK.
- 16:24All right, so we are going to do this chronologically.
- 16:29OK. Now we've got several stories
- 16:31from several news sources, and we've got some video to watch,
- 16:35courtesy of and Jeanette Levy over on Lawn Crime.
- 16:40So. So we're going to do that.
- 16:43So come with me, if you will. You know what I just realized?
- 16:48I didn't test it. Let's see if it works.
- 16:51Yeah, it worked this time. Sometimes I have to fix it.
- 16:54All right over here on on Acrobat, we've got this story.
- 17:00This is from October 28th, 2024. That would have been the 49th
- 17:05birthday of my sweetie pie, my snuggly bear, my one and only
- 17:09Kimberly Fish and not Kim Fish, by the way, Kimberly, this is
- 17:16what it says. Woman found dead beside severed
- 17:19foot in stairwell of South Loop luxury high rise.
- 17:23All right. Investigators were still working
- 17:26a crime scene Monday morning after a woman was found dead at
- 17:29the bottom of a luxury high rise condo building in the South
- 17:33Loop. Let's take a look.
- 17:35See, by the way, I think I have this up.
- 17:39I do. For those of you on video, this
- 17:43is the high rise we're looking at right here.
- 17:48Looks taller than 24 stories to me Looks about 50 story building
- 17:54but she apparently fell 24 stories from this S Prairie high
- 18:05rise around 725. Let's see.
- 18:10Officers responded to the building on the 1200 block of
- 18:12South Prairie around 7:25 PM. Sunday, which would have been
- 18:16the 27th of October, after doorman reported that a resident
- 18:21had found a foot in a stairwell, according to dispatch records.
- 18:25The woman was not immediately identified, and the Cook County
- 18:28Medical Examiner's office had not released a name or age in
- 18:31connection with the case as of Monday morning.
- 18:33An autopsy is scheduled for later in the day.
- 18:36Update on the 31st said the woman was 36.
- 18:40In a short written statement, Chicago PD spokesperson provided
- 18:43the following information. An unidentified adult female was
- 18:46found unresponsive at the bottom of the stairs at a residence at
- 18:50the above location. She was pronounced on the scene.
- 18:53That means she was pronounced dead on the scene.
- 18:55Detectives are conducting a death investigation pending
- 18:57autopsy reports. And then they put in online real
- 19:00estate listings, show units available at the building start
- 19:04at just 100, under $900,000. So this and this little CWB
- 19:09Chicago seems to be an independent little news source.
- 19:13And I am not diminuting in any way the little news source.
- 19:19I happen to work for a little news source and I love
- 19:23hyperlocal news. So they were the first one that
- 19:27I saw on this. They followed up couple days
- 19:30later saying the medical examiner and cops continue
- 19:33investigation after the woman was found dead, says police
- 19:37continue to. This was on November 2nd of last
- 19:40year. Police continue to investigate
- 19:41the death of a woman who was found dead lying next to her
- 19:44severed foot at the bottom of a luxury high rise stairwell in
- 19:47the South Loop. The building doorman summoned
- 19:49police to the 1200 block of South Prairie after a resident
- 19:53discovered the scene on the lower level around 7:25 PM last
- 19:57Sunday, October 27th. Investigators.
- 20:00At the Cook County Medical Examiner's Office conducted an
- 20:03autopsy the next day, but the results are still pending.
- 20:06They have not released the woman's name.
- 20:08Of course, we know now that it is Caitlin Tracy.
- 20:13This is the only photo that I have of her prepared for
- 20:15tonight. She was married for a grand
- 20:18total of six months to this guy, a man named Adam Beckerlink.
- 20:22In fact, why don't we pause here for a second in our reporting to
- 20:25just talk a little bit about who Caitlin Tracy was.
- 20:29There are a couple things that I learned.
- 20:30OK. She was born on May 29th of
- 20:331988. She died on October 27th.
- 20:38Well, she was discovered on October 27th.
- 20:41She could have died on the 26th, the 25th, but the official date
- 20:47of death was the 27th. That makes her 36 years old.
- 20:51She had two residences, one at 12 O 1 S Prairie Ave. that South
- 20:56Loop luxury high high rise that I showed you.
- 20:59She also had a home in New Buffalo, MI.
- 21:04That is this room right here, a beautiful little like cottage on
- 21:17a beautiful St. manicured and and just lovely place.
- 21:22We're actually going to see this in video here in just a little
- 21:25bit thanks to law and crime and and Jeanette Levy.
- 21:28But so she lived there in Michigan and also here in
- 21:34Chicago. Let's see if I can back up from
- 21:36that anymore. What did I do?
- 21:39Wow, fancy. How did I do that?
- 21:42Amazing. Wow.
- 21:44OK, how do I this is cool. All right, anyway, there there
- 21:52it is, this high rise right here, the Grant luxury condos.
- 21:59Okie, dokie. All right, so getting back to
- 22:02Caitlin, I've only seen her described as a tech executive.
- 22:09I haven't seen any other descriptions to tell me oh,
- 22:13other than she was the Chief people officer at Nousseau, an
- 22:18AI and data analytics consultancy.
- 22:20I don't know what a Chief people officer is.
- 22:23Having worked in the tech industry in Northern California,
- 22:28I once held the position of Chief Innovations Officer, Which
- 22:35I mean, I guess that was a pretty good description of what
- 22:39I did. Like my, my job was to come up
- 22:41with the ideas that then Larry, who was my boss and Co worker
- 22:48and collaborator could bring to life through his engineering
- 22:51skills. But in Silicon Valley and in the
- 22:54tech industry, man, there's so many C-Suite titles that I don't
- 22:59know mean anything. She was the chief people
- 23:02officer. What do you, what do you think
- 23:03that means? I think that means she was in
- 23:06HR. That's what I think that means,
- 23:07but I don't know. She is the daughter of Andrew
- 23:12and Monica Tracy. She was raised in a close knit
- 23:15family. She was described by her family
- 23:19and colleagues as a warm, brilliant, driven and thoughtful
- 23:23person. She split her life between a
- 23:28busy professional world in Chicago in a quieter residence
- 23:32in Michigan. She was known to be ambitious,
- 23:35caring and deeply connected to her parents.
- 23:39She was married to Chicago tax attorney Adam Beckerink.
- 23:45They at the time of her death. They had been married all of
- 23:49about six months. I understand she filed an order
- 23:56of protection in Chicago in late 2023 describing severe abuse by
- 24:02Mr. Beckerink, including strangulation, suffocation,
- 24:06being slammed into surfaces, being blocked from escape, and
- 24:11apparently there was reports of escalated violence throughout
- 24:152023 and 2024. There was a 911 call from her
- 24:22Michigan home saying, you know, please hurry.
- 24:28This was January 13th of 2024. There was a 911 call saying,
- 24:33please hurry, he's assaulted me before.
- 24:36She reported he was intoxicated, took her phone, fled with her
- 24:39vehicle. This call later became central
- 24:43to a domestic violence prosecution, which we will get
- 24:47to in the case now. And I might hop into, yeah, I'm
- 24:55going to, I'm going to hop into those videos next.
- 24:57But real quick about Adam Beckerink, 47 years old now, I
- 25:03don't know his date of birth, but sometimes 7778 shared the
- 25:08residences on Prairie Ave. and in New Buffalo with his wife.
- 25:13He especially he's an attorney. He specializes in state and
- 25:17local tax, corporate transactions, high net worth
- 25:20representation, educated guy, BA from Shenandoah University at JD
- 25:26from the University of Maryland School of Law and an LLM in
- 25:30taxation from Georgetown University Law Center.
- 25:36Yeah, he was an attorney advisor at the US Tax Court.
- 25:40He was an associate at Baker McKenzie, a partner at Dwayne
- 25:42Morris, seen as a high status polished professional,
- 25:48successful, but a documented history of violence against
- 25:53Caitlin. So alleged repeated abuse
- 25:57incidents in Chicago, an assault in New Buffalo, MI on August
- 26:0319th. This is we're going to get to
- 26:05this. There was a second Michigan
- 26:07incident involving strangulation marks resisting arrest.
- 26:11He was charged with DV, interfering with electronic
- 26:14communications and resisting officers.
- 26:15And let's let's take a look at this real quick, and then we're
- 26:19going to get back to our chronology.
- 26:21Let me come over here and I'm going to have to mute myself
- 26:30while we do this. Give me a second.
- 26:36OK? This one is about a minute long.
- 26:38I got this from Anjanette Levy's podcast on lawn cream Law and
- 26:42crime. Crime Fix.
- 26:45Here we go. No, Kelly, hold on, hold on.
- 26:49I Can you not put me on the couch, please?
- 26:51Can we just talk? Can we just talk?
- 26:52Please? Can we just talk before you put
- 26:55me in the car? Can we just talk right here?
- 26:57Just talk right here. Hold on.
- 27:02Hold on, Hold on. Seriously.
- 27:04Seriously. Hold on.
- 27:05What? So angry?
- 27:07Wait, wait, wait. What the hell are you talking
- 27:12about? Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,
- 27:15wait. You know, he looks like a pretty
- 27:17physically strong dude. I I imagine if it escalated to
- 27:23this point where his his hands are cuffed behind his back,
- 27:27we've got multiple officers escorting him to their cruiser.
- 27:30It had already gotten kind of kind of heated.
- 27:36Wait. Wait.
- 27:37Before you put. Wait.
- 27:39Seriously. Listen, I listen to me.
- 27:46You can't search me. You cannot search me.
- 27:50That's illegal. That's a fine illegal search.
- 27:53That's an illegal search. You know what it is?
- 27:56That's an illegal search. Get off me.
- 27:58Tell me. That's an illegal search.
- 28:00Get off me. You know that's illegal.
- 28:03Let go of my hands for what? By the way, if somebody's under
- 28:10arrest, it is not an illegal search.
- 28:13Let go of your back. Please let me talk to you over
- 28:17your. Back.
- 28:19All right, there's another view from inside the car.
- 28:24Let's have a look at this one. Wait, wait, wait.
- 28:29This is pretty much the same thing that just happened, but
- 28:31I'll look from inside the car. Leave the wait.
- 28:35Seriously. Wait.
- 28:38I can't. I listen to you.
- 28:41Those two can't search me. You can not search me.
- 28:45That's illegal. That's a final legal search.
- 28:48That's an illegal search. Do you know this?
- 28:51That's an illegal search. Get off me.
- 28:53Get on me. That's an illegal search.
- 28:55Get off me, you know, So let go on my hands.
- 29:07Please listen to me. Please listen to me.
- 29:23We're going on the honeymoon guys, please, it's not falling.
- 29:28I'll get it for you. What the is happening here?
- 29:36I need to go to my honeymoon. Can you just?
- 29:43Kind of feels like he's probably intoxicated again here, right?
- 29:47But again, look at him and that, that dude.
- 29:49I wish I had those arms. That dude is a physically strong
- 29:52guy. I have three cops working to to
- 29:55contain him to put him into that cruiser.
- 29:59Please, this is stupid. Please, what are you doing?
- 30:09You got everything all right. Jesus Christ, Can I talk to you
- 30:17please, before you shut this? Please.
- 30:19Please, can I just talk to you? Can I touch someone here?
- 30:25All right. Can I touch someone?
- 30:26They're figuring. Go ask her.
- 30:29They're saying I have two phoning ones.
- 30:30OK. I don't.
- 30:31I'm an attorney. OK.
- 30:33So we'll be able to confirm that we'll figure yes, but this fine,
- 30:37harsh. All right, Well, you need to
- 30:39cooperate and it'll be a lot of times here things like adjust
- 30:42your cuffs and can you please just talk to me?
- 30:47No, no one's got talk to me. I was got fucking talk to me.
- 31:06Felony for keeping a phone? Is that the same as?
- 31:10I just realized I was muted. Let me.
- 31:11I'm moving to the third video for 3rd clip here.
- 31:14This one's about a minute 42. Let me start it over.
- 31:18Felony for keeping a phone, is that the same as it's all
- 31:22interrupting and actually keeping it from her, is that the
- 31:24same? Pretty much, yeah.
- 31:25OK, well. This is going to be a double PR
- 31:271. I'm going to head up there.
- 31:31Could you, whenever you get back or get a chance, can you just
- 31:34confirm the warrants and have them send them to the jail?
- 31:37Just so you know, I turned your car radio all the way down
- 31:39because he was wigging out every time.
- 31:41Yeah, Yeah, we're going to need a welcome party for him.
- 31:46So. Well, thanks for.
- 31:47What? We're going to need a welcome
- 31:48party for this guy? Yeah, that's not.
- 31:52I'm sure he did not enjoy that. Stopping by any of any of you
- 32:01guys get hurt? Nope.
- 32:03Not that he my wrist is killing me.
- 32:04So I'm just going to hit him with assaulting a police
- 32:06officer. So I was just that's why I was
- 32:08asking. He kicked me and kicked me in
- 32:11the chest. My left wrist is killing me, so
- 32:13all right. Those were in his pocket.
- 32:17Perfect. Yeah.
- 32:21We were here for a similar situation, long like years on
- 32:25that year almost. It was like in this.
- 32:27Notice that is the house that we looked at, right?
- 32:30That this is the Michigan House. It was a winter.
- 32:36We were, we were, what were we dispatched to?
- 32:37It was not even a just domestic. I showed up and she was bleeding
- 32:40all over her face and he had, he had hit her good and then he
- 32:44stole like 20 grand. She's she's got a lot of money,
- 32:46stole 2030 grand worth of her stuff, took off in, took off in
- 32:50this Range Rover right here, drove through somebody's yard.
- 32:53We couldn't find a vehicle. The courts issued the warrants.
- 32:57We kept them because we knew we were going to have more problems
- 32:59here. I showed up to the front door
- 33:01there, which was cracked. And I and I heard her yell.
- 33:04I heard screaming, very faint screaming.
- 33:06And then I announced police, police and I heard her yelling.
- 33:10So I made my way in and had him at, I had him at Taser point.
- 33:13He wasn't listening. But yeah, he's, he's, we're
- 33:16definitely going to need a welcome party for that guy.
- 33:20I mean, wow, right. So that was the January 13th of
- 33:24the same year incident that he's talking about.
- 33:26He he drove away, they couldn't find him.
- 33:29There was a warrant issued for his arrest.
- 33:31So when they came to this domestic, they already had a
- 33:35felony warrant on him. One more, one more clip thanks
- 33:38to lawn crime and Anjanette Levy.
- 33:41Here we go. No, Adam, you are under arrest,
- 33:46OK? Like I told you, you have a
- 33:48felony warrant already from a from a previous incident here,
- 33:51OK? There's not.
- 33:53There is. How would I not know about it?
- 33:54I don't know why. Just hold her before I go to No.
- 33:57Why does she not want to come out?
- 33:59You're under arrest. You're in the back seat of our
- 34:01car. Just give her a hug.
- 34:02No, please. This is stupid.
- 34:05There's no warrant. I agree.
- 34:06I agree. I didn't do anything.
- 34:08She has said that I didn't do anything.
- 34:10No. I know what she told you.
- 34:11I heard it on the radio. OK.
- 34:13Can I please just No. You are under arrest.
- 34:16Hold my wife, please. We're going to warrant you
- 34:18obstruct. I don't have a foot.
- 34:20I didn't obstruct. I didn't obstruct.
- 34:22You guys. Look at my body.
- 34:25That's because you were fighting with us.
- 34:26Please, can I just go home? Just like no.
- 34:29You're under myself in tomorrow. You are under arrest.
- 34:32You are going to jail. The narcissism of trying to
- 34:36negotiate after he is already in cuffs in the back of this
- 34:40cruiser is is killing me. Just the narcissism, man.
- 34:46Get that through your head. You're an attorney.
- 34:47You should understand that. You are under arrest.
- 34:50I lay with my wife. You are under arrest.
- 34:52I'm just lay with my wife and go back.
- 34:54You are under arrest, bad guy. You are under arrest.
- 34:56I didn't do anything. I didn't.
- 35:01I didn't do anything. I'm not a bad guy.
- 35:04I mean, the evidence is piling up against you, Sir.
- 35:08Anything she told you? I didn't do anything.
- 35:10She told you that. OK, Please, can I just go home?
- 35:13No, I'll turn myself in for the. If there are warrants, I'll turn
- 35:16myself in. There are warrants and there are
- 35:18felony warrants. And you also have three
- 35:19additional felony charges from tonight.
- 35:22Thank you very much. For what?
- 35:23For what? What?
- 35:26What the? What the hell am I going to do
- 35:31now? What?
- 35:32What do I do? You're going to jail.
- 35:34You see the judge tomorrow. Have I been on mute this whole
- 35:37time? Look at you, Look at you,
- 35:39Autumn. I've been on mute this whole
- 35:47time. Oh man, the audio.
- 35:52Oh, the audio, the audio. Oh, Gavin, Gavin, Gavin, Gavin.
- 35:59Thank you for alerting me with my panic button for my for my
- 36:07mods. I will have to edit that out.
- 36:09Yes, let's go back. Let's go back.
- 36:12Sorry guys, real quick content, Angel said.
- 36:17Fancy title for human resources. My station has one called Head
- 36:21of people. Yes.
- 36:23And then I was saying to Angela, because she wrote so perfectly
- 36:26in technology industry ease ACPO overseas human resources with
- 36:34focus on employee engagement, culture and talent management.
- 36:37It's written just the way ACPO would write it.
- 36:40Thank you Angela. And then Chrissy says it's a
- 36:45shame that he used those so-called muscles.
- 36:46No, those are those are definitely muscles, but he used
- 36:51them to beat his poor wife. And it is a sad, sad case.
- 36:57Tyler says, Gavin, my hair is where yours is.
- 37:00We started going along at the same time.
- 37:02That's pretty cool. That's pretty cool.
- 37:04I am looking forward to it being done with Autumn, Autumn Doyle,
- 37:13says our amazing moderator, who I think probably hit the panic
- 37:17button if you have to tell someone I'm not a bad guy, you
- 37:20are in fact a bad guy indeed. All right, thank you.
- 37:25You got all the muted, the muted.
- 37:27All you guys are taking care of me.
- 37:29Good job, guys, good job and thank you.
- 37:35Thank you for doing that. I've got a voice for YouTube,
- 37:39but I'm muted, so that's so funny.
- 37:42That's so funny. I was talking to myself the
- 37:44whole time. You guys are funny.
- 37:46One man's trash. It looked interesting.
- 37:48Gavin, that is so funny. I'm sorry, guys.
- 37:51Now I'll have to go back and edit that out.
- 37:54I try not to edit in this little world of mine.
- 37:57But hey, I wanted to remind you that at the end of at the end of
- 38:01this video, we are going to do a three question segment.
- 38:06So if you have three questions, nothing's off the table.
- 38:11If you have questions for Gavin, we will do that at the end.
- 38:15And it's my pleasure to do that. I like doing that.
- 38:18So OK, let's go back over here. This is from the 12th of
- 38:27November, OK? Michelin, Michigan Judge Grants
- 38:30parents of woman found dead in South Loop custody of her
- 38:34remains, A Michigan judge has ruled in favor.
- 38:36Yeah, so like he, they wanted her remains and he fought them.
- 38:41A Michigan judge has ruled in favor of the parents who sought
- 38:44to block their daughter's husband from retrieving her
- 38:46remains after she was found dead in his South Loop apartment
- 38:49building, citing his alleged history of abuse.
- 38:54The body of Caitlin Tracy, 36, of New Buffalo, Michigan, was
- 38:57found. It was missing a foot about 7:20
- 39:00PM on October 27th in a stairwell outside her husband's
- 39:04high rise apt. I honestly, this is this is a
- 39:07tangent. Don't worry, I'm not going to
- 39:08hit the button. I might hit the button.
- 39:16I I just like the button. This is a little bit of a
- 39:19tangent, but why? Why are there still high rises
- 39:24that have staircases, stairwells where one can fall 24 floors?
- 39:33Why is that still a thing that am Am I wrong here?
- 39:40I'm going crazy. That should not even be a thing.
- 39:45There should not be a way for somebody to plummet, Jason
- 39:48Bourne style, 24 floors to their death, or in Bourne's case, to
- 39:52the death of the person he was riding.
- 39:54So like, it's anyway. Police say Tracy had fallen 20
- 39:59stories. An autopsy performed by the Cook
- 40:01County Medical Examiner's Office was still pending as of This was
- 40:05November 12th of 24. Following her death, her
- 40:09parents, Andrew and Monica Tracy, went to court in Illinois
- 40:12and Michigan in an attempt to block her husband, Adam
- 40:14Beckerink, from retrieving her remains, citing his alleged
- 40:18history of abuse against her and the circumstances surrounding
- 40:21her death. On Tuesday, Judge Brian Berger
- 40:24of Berrien County, Michigan, granted Tracy's parents
- 40:27exclusive control of her remains and sole responsibility for her
- 40:30Funeral arrangements. So from, you know, what I, I
- 40:35really feel for these parents is that from the time she died on
- 40:43the 27th till this day, they have they, they likely have not
- 40:48been able to mourn their daughter because they've been
- 40:50fighting for justice for their daughter.
- 40:52Here it was 2 weeks later and they had already been in court
- 40:58trying to get their daughter's remains.
- 41:00OK. Then we kind of go radio silent
- 41:04until May when the Cook County coroner revealed the primary
- 41:12cause of death. This was May of this year, OK
- 41:15Cook County Medical examiners ruled Caitlin Tracy died from a
- 41:18fall but said the manner of death remains undetermined.
- 41:23So the Cook County Medical Examiner announced on Monday
- 41:26that Caitlin Tracy, 36, died of multiple injuries fall from
- 41:29height. Her body was found in the
- 41:31stairwell of her husband's South Loop high rise on October 27th,
- 41:362024. While her cause of death is now
- 41:39confirmed, the office said it has not determined how or why
- 41:42she fell and has listed her manner of death as undetermined.
- 41:46Her husband, Adam Bacharink, was arrested months later on March
- 41:497th, 2025 on a fugitive warrant out of Michigan.
- 41:53According to Chicago police and court records, the the arrest is
- 41:57not directly related to Tracy's death.
- 42:00So yeah, this guy's been facing all sorts of problems, the
- 42:03husband blah, blah, blah. Backer Inc, 46, is a well known
- 42:06tax attorney in Chicago. He was taken into custody
- 42:09custody at his South Loop condo, the same building where Tracy
- 42:13died. The Michigan warrant stemmed
- 42:15from a domestic violence case in Berrien County, where Tracy had
- 42:19lived in a New Buffalo home before and during their six
- 42:22month marriage, court records say.
- 42:25Police were called twice to Tracy's Michigan home in 2023.
- 42:29January 13th of 2023 and then August, what was it?
- 42:34August? Give me a second.
- 42:42August 19th of 20. Well of 2024.
- 42:48Hang on, we have to. Let's go back to this here.
- 42:50So twice in 2023, in one instrument instance, she was
- 42:55reported to have visible injuries and accused Backer Inc
- 42:59of assault and theft. So twice in 2023 and also twice
- 43:02in 2024. He faces six felony charges,
- 43:06including DV and resisting arrest.
- 43:09Arrest. All right, we get a few days
- 43:12later and we get a few more details out of the New York
- 43:18Post. Caitlin Tracy's body found
- 43:21pulverized in luxury Chicago condo A Chicago tech executive
- 43:26was found pulverized and missing a foot in a stairwell of a
- 43:28luxury condo building where she lived with her husband, her
- 43:31heartbroken family has revealed. Now they're fighting for
- 43:34justice. Caitlin Tracy, 36, died from
- 43:37multiple injuries and a fall from height after plummeting
- 43:40more than 20 stories down a stairwell at her South Loop
- 43:43building, the Cook County Medical Examiner ruled.
- 43:46However, the manner of death was left is undetermined.
- 43:49There have been no charges filed as of May Blah, blah, blah.
- 43:58His attorney says he had nothing to do with his wife's death and
- 44:01he will continue to appear in court and we will continue to
- 44:04speak through our filings in court on his behalf.
- 44:08Tracy's family is pushing to keep attention on the case.
- 44:12Attorneys hired by our loved ones told FOX 32 in March that
- 44:15her body was pulverized and her foot severed in the fall.
- 44:19Her grieving parents were embroiled in a legal dispute
- 44:22earlier this year over the handling of her remains.
- 44:26Parents eventually won custody. And then Backerink was
- 44:30previously a partner at Dwayne Morris was fired after the abuse
- 44:35allegations surfaced. Yeah, so here again, that one
- 44:40was January 2024. And we found the video again
- 44:44thanks to lawn Crime and Jeanette Levy from August of
- 44:482024. So at least twice in 2024 and
- 44:55two more times in 2023, ostensibly before they were
- 44:59married, because they'd only been married about six months
- 45:02when she died in in October. So that makes that April or May
- 45:07wedding, right? Tracy told police that Backer
- 45:13Inc had assaulted her and stolen some of her items.
- 45:16Tracy had cuts on her lips and other red markings.
- 45:21Backer Inc allegedly told Tracy to tell officers her 911 call
- 45:25was accidental. That was one of his felony
- 45:28charges was interfering with a 911 call.
- 45:32And then yeah. The previous year November,
- 45:36Tracy received a protective order against Backer Inc in
- 45:39Chicago after multiple battery reports to police.
- 45:43However, she dropped the case following month after Backer Inc
- 45:45allegedly threatened to sue her for defamation man.
- 45:52Following his March 7th arrest, Backer Inc was being held in
- 45:55protective custody in the Cook County Jail, according to court
- 45:58documents. OK, let's skip forward to let's
- 46:04see, is there any more? Oh, this is where the 911 call,
- 46:07kind of. More details of the 911 call
- 46:09come out thanks to the New York Post Chicago tech executive who
- 46:18was found pulverized after plummeting more than 20 stories
- 46:21from a luxury condo in October In October reportedly begged
- 46:24police to please hurry in a chilling newly released 911 call
- 46:28made as her husband allegedly attacked her.
- 46:32Caitlin Tracy, 36, told dispatchers her husband Adam
- 46:35Bacharink was drunk and it pushed her down.
- 46:37During the distressing call made about 10 months before her
- 46:40mutilated body was found in the stairwell stairwell of the ritzy
- 46:44South Loop building where she lived with her 46 year old
- 46:47spouse. Quote, he's assaulted me before,
- 46:50the panicked wife said during the January 13th emergency call
- 46:53obtained by the Daily Mail. Please hurry.
- 46:57Tracy's desperate cry for help, made around 8:30 PM, soon became
- 47:01incoherent due to her high emotional state.
- 47:07Yeah, and I've seen some video. I didn't.
- 47:10I didn't cut it up and prepare it for you guys.
- 47:11That was shown in court of, I think, this incident.
- 47:18So, yeah, we had all sorts of problems.
- 47:20OK, let's skip forward to last month.
- 47:24This is where he was sentenced for DV in Michigan October 20th.
- 47:30The husband of Caitlin Tracy, the woman who was found dead in
- 47:32South Loop, was sentenced in separate domestic case in
- 47:37Michigan courthouse Monday. He pleaded no contest to
- 47:40domestic abuse and violating a no contact order back in August.
- 47:45He was remanded into custody by the Berrien County Sheriff's
- 47:48Office. He was sentenced to 93 days in
- 47:51jail for both the domestic violence and contempt of court
- 47:54counts, but the sentences will run concurrently.
- 47:59Domestic violence count stems from an incident January 13th.
- 48:02He received credit for two days of time served for the
- 48:06interference with electronic communication count.
- 48:08He was sentenced to two years probation which begins today
- 48:12when his release. When he is released, his curfew
- 48:15will be from 9:00 PM to 6:00 AM blah blah blah.
- 48:18OK, so all the way until October 20th when this poor woman fell
- 48:23to her death more than 20 stories in that ritzy condo,
- 48:30which I just don't know how condo buildings can have
- 48:34stairwells like that anymore. My goodness, there have been no
- 48:44charges for almost a year, OK. She was found on October 27th of
- 48:522024. Now on October 27th of 2025, we
- 48:58learned that Caitlin Tracy's husband was charged with murder,
- 49:02one with murder one year after her death in Chicago.
- 49:08This is from Fox 32. The husband of Caitlin Tracy,
- 49:11the woman who was found dead from a fall at a South Loop
- 49:14condo building a year ago, was charged with first degree murder
- 49:17on Monday. Adam Backer Inc, 47, was charged
- 49:20in Cook County Court almost exactly a year after Tracy was
- 49:23found dead. So it was reported on the 27th.
- 49:25It must have happened on the 26th.
- 49:27Local prosecutors allege Backer Inc caused Tracy's death by,
- 49:31quote, throwing her over the railing of the 24th floor of the
- 49:35east stairwell of 12 O 1 S Prairie Ave. on October 25th,
- 49:41according to court documents. Wow, so they've gotten it.
- 49:45They have gotten specific, right?
- 49:47Oh, I wonder, I wonder what evidence they have that gets it
- 49:53to the 25th. Tracy, 36, died because of
- 49:59multiple injuries from a fall from height, according to the
- 50:01Cook County Medical examiner's office, but it had not yet been
- 50:04determined whether she died as a result of a homicide.
- 50:09He had already pleaded no contest and was sentenced for DV
- 50:13in Michigan, where the couple also shared a home.
- 50:16A judge sentenced him to 93 days, blah, blah, blah.
- 50:18In a statement released through a spokesperson, Tracy's parents,
- 50:21Andrew and Monica Tracy, said in part today's charges of first
- 50:25degree murder against Adam Backerink is another big step in
- 50:28the path to obtain justice for Caitlin.
- 50:30We are very grateful for the dedicated work of the Chicago
- 50:33Police Department. Good for them.
- 50:35You know, I, I think it can be so frustrating for families of
- 50:41victims of violent crime to be patient while cases make their
- 50:47way through the process. And when I see grace of people
- 50:53like Doctor Tracy and her husband, I am just in awe of of
- 51:02that. It's just amazing.
- 51:04OK, so today's charges of first degree murder against Adam
- 51:07Bakarink is another big step in the path to obtain justice for
- 51:10Caitlyn. We are very grateful for the
- 51:12dedicated work of the Chicago PD.
- 51:14We dearly miss Caitlin, as do her friends.
- 51:17Our family hopes that during the murder case against Adam
- 51:20Bacharink that the truth about the last months of Caitlin's
- 51:23life and the events leading to her tragic death are revealed so
- 51:27our wonderful daughter can finally be laid to rest.
- 51:31And I also saw a video of them, which I, I wish I could have
- 51:36gotten in time for, for our schedule tonight was the victim
- 51:43impact statement that they made at his sentencing on the 20th of
- 51:47last month in Michigan, where they just said he had kind of
- 51:54gotten his hooks into her and she she was trapped.
- 52:00It's, it's so that this kind of stuff just you, just you, I, you
- 52:07just hope it won't happen to somebody you know and love.
- 52:10And yet I know that there are people that are watching me
- 52:13right now that it has happened to people they love or, or to
- 52:20yourselves. And those of you who have gotten
- 52:24out of it, boy, am I happy for you and proud of you for doing
- 52:27it. Because it's not easy.
- 52:29It's dangerous and difficult. And the, the, I mean, if we
- 52:34learned anything from the Micah Francis case, it's the, the
- 52:44coercive control is just overwhelming in cases like this.
- 52:50And I, I, I just want to tell you that I'm proud of you if
- 52:53you've been able to, to get out of a situation like that.
- 52:56And unfortunately for this beautiful young 36 year old
- 52:59woman, she was unable to do so. And it's not her fault.
- 53:05It's his fault, allegedly, right?
- 53:10I, well, I mean, he's been sentenced.
- 53:14He, he, he pleaded no contest. It is his fault.
- 53:17It's his fault. So, yeah.
- 53:21All right, That is the end of tonight's story, but not the end
- 53:24of tonight's video, because it is time for three questions.
- 53:30It's three questions with Gavin Finn.
- 53:42OK. I'm going to have to think of a
- 53:46different way to do this because I kind of feel like the magic of
- 53:51the three questions is in the surprise of the question.
- 53:54And if I take a moment, even just a brief moment to look at
- 53:58your emails that you've sent to three questions at
- 54:00gavinfish.com, I've, I've already had a chance to think
- 54:04about it. So maybe maybe what I'll do is I
- 54:08will forward those over to one of my volunteers.
- 54:13And maybe on Slack, we can make it so that these drop, you know,
- 54:21in real time on the video. Because I think, again, the
- 54:24magic is me not knowing the question, what the question is
- 54:27going to be. I haven't put a lot of thought
- 54:29into these though. I just copied and pasted them.
- 54:32Honestly, I've forgotten what they are at this point, but I
- 54:34just copied and pasted them out of my e-mail.
- 54:36Thank you to those who sent in some questions for me.
- 54:42And if you have a question that you're curious about, by the
- 54:44way, it doesn't have to be about me, doesn't have to be about
- 54:46true crime, doesn't have to be about anything.
- 54:49It could. If you have just a question
- 54:51about the universe and you're curious what my opinion is on
- 54:56it, go for it. Go for it.
- 54:58All right, the first question is what is the most oddly specific
- 55:05skill you have that would absolutely never help you in a
- 55:10survival situation? A specific skill that I have
- 55:17that would not help me in a survival situation?
- 55:26OK, I have I have the ability to O my lips.
- 55:33I'll give you an example of what it is.
- 55:35I can make that sound with my lips, but it goes beyond that.
- 55:41You see, I can control the pitch, I can do any note and and
- 55:50I'm pretty pitch perfect about it.
- 55:52And so I can O songs that would not help me.
- 56:03What's a song that I could do? Yeah, I I can just.
- 56:13Yeah, I can. It's my brother taught me how to
- 56:17do it. And there's only my brother,
- 56:28myself and a little girl at church.
- 56:32Years and years ago I taught her how to do it, but I've seen her
- 56:35since. She's like a young woman now.
- 56:37She's 13 or 14 years old. They came and visited us last
- 56:41year from California, and she had forgotten how to do it.
- 56:44So I believe my brother and I are the only ones who do well
- 56:49that I know that make this sound, but I'm the only one who
- 56:57has decided to turn it into a musical talent.
- 57:02So, yeah, that wouldn't help. That wouldn't help.
- 57:06Let me see. Let me see what you guys are
- 57:08saying about that. Yes, one man's trash.
- 57:14Hold on. I've got weird buttons here.
- 57:18Yes, I have musical lifts. I do.
- 57:26I have musical lips. Yes, yes, indeed.
- 57:30All right, next question. And remember, send any questions
- 57:37to three questions at gavinfish.com.
- 57:42What question #2 what is your purpose in life?
- 57:51Well, that's what is my purpose in life, you know.
- 58:07Wait a minute, hang on before we get to the next one.
- 58:10This gives me this gives me time to think about it.
- 58:15Emily, I can see the whole chat trying it now Pammy says I can
- 58:19do it too. Egads now I have a new talent
- 58:21teach my grants nice. Michelle says it could help if
- 58:26you were in a kidnapping situation.
- 58:28It might annoy the kidnappers. Yeah, Yeah.
- 58:34Could be, could be. OK.
- 58:37What is my purpose in life? I I think the purpose in every
- 58:41life is to experience, is to be happy, is to be joyful.
- 58:46And, and it's that simple. It's to find happiness,
- 58:53specifically, it's to find joy. And the misery of it is that you
- 59:03can't experience joy unless you have experienced sorrow or deep
- 59:08grief or pain. And that's something that I
- 59:11remind myself when I, when I have those days where I'm a
- 59:14little blue or when I'm feeling a little melancholy or I'm maybe
- 59:19spending a little too much time thinking about or dwelling on
- 59:24the past, is that you have to have those moments in order to
- 59:30have the moments of just visceral joy.
- 59:37I can tell you a couple experiences where I've had that
- 59:41the very first time. The very first time one of our
- 59:45children, which would have been our first child, said Dada.
- 59:51That is, that is a deeply joyful experience.
- 59:58Now some people have to go through just so much heartache
- 1:00:05in order to get there to where they have a child sitting there
- 1:00:11saying Dada or Mama. Our first daughter when, when
- 1:00:17our olders were little, I spoke to them exclusively in Spanish
- 1:00:21and she had this cute little way of asking for more, You know, if
- 1:00:26she wanted more Cheerios or she wanted more whatever baby food
- 1:00:30or what. Well, she was too old for baby
- 1:00:31food at that point. No, she wasn't.
- 1:00:33She would say mas, but it came out as mas and I just loved it.
- 1:00:39I just loved it. I remember the the first time I
- 1:00:44stalled on purpose and recovered an aircraft when I was a student
- 1:00:50pilot. Just the, just the overwhelming
- 1:00:55joy of being able to control a machine that way, understand
- 1:01:02what's happening to the machine and with the machine and what
- 1:01:06kind of things my input might lead to an aircraft stalling.
- 1:01:14And, and I just, I just absolutely loved that.
- 1:01:16I just absolutely loved that, you know, that when the first
- 1:01:23time we, I, I remember our oldest son, our oldest son
- 1:01:39really wanted to pitch on his Little League team and he had no
- 1:01:43experience. And he was on a, on a team of
- 1:01:45winners who had been playing since T-ball.
- 1:01:48And this was his like second year.
- 1:01:51And he just, he just wasn't good at it.
- 1:01:53But there he was out on the mound and his coach worked with
- 1:01:56him to help him learn to pitch. And there he was out on the
- 1:01:59mound hucking them in there as good and as hard as he could.
- 1:02:03And he did a great job. And it just, you know, I think
- 1:02:06it was my failure in that particular sport that that just
- 1:02:13made made my heart leap for joy. Watching him do that and
- 1:02:17watching him just grin as he was doing it or just that's that is
- 1:02:22the purpose of life. Our purpose is to have joy, to
- 1:02:26experience true, deep and lasting happiness.
- 1:02:30And, and that's the purpose. That's that's it.
- 1:02:39Last question, if you could pull one object out of any historical
- 1:02:45photograph and keep it in the present day, what would you
- 1:02:48choose and why? Out of a historic photograph?
- 1:02:53Not not a historic like illustration or a painting or
- 1:03:02cave art or engraving. We're talking about a photograph
- 1:03:06here. I know what I would want to
- 1:03:16have, but I wouldn't be able to pull it out of a photograph.
- 1:03:20So let's think about some historic photographs.
- 1:03:23Sorry, I keep bumping the the desk here.
- 1:03:35Man, that's a tough one. What if you could pull one
- 1:03:40object out of any historical photograph and keep it in the
- 1:03:43present day? What would you choose and why?
- 1:03:48Ah, here's one. But this one is like, really
- 1:03:51just selfish and pretty trite. It's there.
- 1:03:54There's nothing deep to this at all.
- 1:04:00My maternal grandfather who died I think in 2012, is that right?
- 1:04:14Anyway, he's been gone a while. He was somebody who I deeply
- 1:04:20admired and loved and just had so many, so many experiences
- 1:04:27just just as being part of that generation.
- 1:04:38That they're just so many cool historic things.
- 1:04:44But his, his parents, so my great grandparents bought a Ford
- 1:04:52model TI think, no, there's a Ford Model A and they didn't
- 1:05:01know how to drive. And so they, they had it out in
- 1:05:06the field and they were learning to drive it around and it broke
- 1:05:09down out in the field. And he was just, he was just a
- 1:05:13little boy when this happened. And so he, as he grew up and got
- 1:05:21to be about 14 years old, that thing had just rotted out in the
- 1:05:26out in the field. And he asked his parents if he
- 1:05:29could try and fix it. And they said if you can fix it,
- 1:05:32you can have it. So he went to work.
- 1:05:35I don't know how long it took him, like a year or two
- 1:05:38probably. But he took that thing
- 1:05:41completely apart and piece by piece brought it back up to the
- 1:05:45garage, got everything restored, bought new parts if he needed
- 1:05:50them, tires, wheels, things like that.
- 1:05:53And he got that thing running and that.
- 1:05:55And with no, with no, like nobody taught him how to do
- 1:06:01this. He just, his mind was, he just
- 1:06:04understood mechanics very, very well.
- 1:06:07It served him well in World War 2.
- 1:06:08By the way, he was a tank driver and well, a tank destroyer
- 1:06:12driver in World War 2. And that had a big Cadillac
- 1:06:15engine and he knew that engine inside and out before he was
- 1:06:18ever put in that tank destroyer. And he said that it was the best
- 1:06:24running tank destroyer in Patton's army and the only one
- 1:06:28that was ungoverned. He knew exactly what to do with
- 1:06:31that thing. Anyway, with that old Model A,
- 1:06:34he got that thing working. And I think he got it working
- 1:06:37before. I mean, I don't know that they
- 1:06:40even had driver's licenses at that point in that part of
- 1:06:43Summit County, Utah. I, I doubt it.
- 1:06:45I mean, we're talking the, we're talking the 30s here, right?
- 1:06:50And so his parents, true to their word, let him keep it.
- 1:06:53And it was his job to drive his mom wherever she needed to go.
- 1:06:57He learned to drive by driving the car that he fixed that had
- 1:07:01been rotting out in the wilderness.
- 1:07:02And there is an old picture of grandpa with his Model A.
- 1:07:06And I wish I could just pluck that out of a photo and have
- 1:07:09that old car. It would be pretty cool.
- 1:07:13Pretty, pretty cool. OK.
- 1:07:16Couple of comments that you guys have to send me again, your
- 1:07:20questions to three questions at gavinfish.com and we will try to
- 1:07:26keep this little segment alive. It's 3 questions.
- 1:07:31With Gavin. Fish All right, let's see what
- 1:07:39you guys are saying. Patty says the building probably
- 1:07:44has stairwells for fire escapes. Cause yeah, I get like
- 1:07:47stairwells are OK, but the kind of wells where you can fall down
- 1:07:51them, that's not OK. You know what I mean?
- 1:07:55Like I've been in buildings where there are stairs going all
- 1:07:59the way to the top, but not the kind that you can fall through.
- 1:08:03It's like there are walls with stairs between them that you go
- 1:08:07up, you turn and between walls you go up again.
- 1:08:10You know, that's kind of what I think, Lynette says.
- 1:08:15The purpose of life is to love. Golden Mayor asked me, can I
- 1:08:20signal sosi don't know the Morse code.
- 1:08:23I don't I I probably should, Pammy says.
- 1:08:27Can't have one without the other.
- 1:08:29That's true. Can't have joy without the
- 1:08:30sorrow. That is true.
- 1:08:33Lynette says What? Whatever I said was adorable.
- 1:08:36Tina, it's so funny the things we remember about our kids.
- 1:08:40Each a different thing that sticks with you.
- 1:08:42Yes, indeed, Lynette, I bet flying like that is freeing.
- 1:08:47Yeah. I have been an aviation
- 1:08:50enthusiast since before I was born.
- 1:08:53Dad was in the Air Force. He was out of the Air Force
- 1:08:57when? By the time I have any memory,
- 1:09:01well before I was born. And but airplanes, they were
- 1:09:07just always part of my life. My dad was in aerospace.
- 1:09:10He was a, he was a solid propellant guy in, in rocketry.
- 1:09:17So I, I've just always been around airplanes.
- 1:09:19I've always loved it. When I got the opportunity to go
- 1:09:23to flight school, it was this junky little place out in
- 1:09:32Natomas, California suburb of Sacramento at a little airstrip
- 1:09:38with a 1600 foot strip that was about 10 feet wide, potholes on
- 1:09:43either end. And I'm really grateful for that
- 1:09:47strip because I can put, I can put an airplane on the stripes.
- 1:09:53To this day, if I go into an airport that is just this wide
- 1:09:58luxurious airport, I, I don't need any of it.
- 1:10:01I need exactly the width of my landing gear and I can put that
- 1:10:05thing on the stripes thanks to learning to fly.
- 1:10:08Cessna One 50s, J3, Piper J threes.
- 1:10:12Those are little tail dragger Cubs.
- 1:10:14Cessna 170 twos. Cessna 180 twos.
- 1:10:18I learned to fly a beach bonanza there.
- 1:10:22Learned to fly. And I'm sorry, Piper Arrow and I
- 1:10:28yeah, I'm so grateful for that. But yeah, that whole, I'm not
- 1:10:33even aerobatic guy, I don't do anything exciting other than I
- 1:10:36just love to fly. And it it does give you the
- 1:10:39feeling of freedom. It does, Lynette says.
- 1:10:48I love watching my kiddo take after me while doing marching
- 1:10:51band. That's pretty cool.
- 1:10:52That is pretty cool. All right.
- 1:10:55Anything else? Yeah, lots of cool things.
- 1:11:01Snarky pants, nose SOS and Morse code.
- 1:11:03But how would I do long dashes with a popping sound?
- 1:11:07How would I do that? I don't even know.
- 1:11:11Shay, is there anything I can't do?
- 1:11:13Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:11:15And all the things I can do, I don't do Well, it's part of part
- 1:11:20of my personality is that I just enjoy lots of things.
- 1:11:23I just enjoy lots of things. And so I experienced lots of
- 1:11:28things. And my poor wife, my snuggly
- 1:11:30bear, my one and only she, she's had to be very patient with me
- 1:11:36over the years. All right, guys, thank you so
- 1:11:39much for spending some time with me today.
- 1:11:41We'll keep our eye on this case. Hopefully there is justice for
- 1:11:45Caitlin on the horizon with the arrest happening just last
- 1:11:50month. I'm sure we're a couple years
- 1:11:51out, but I am hopeful that there will be some justice for her and
- 1:11:55some rest for her parents. With that, oh, tomorrow at 7:30
- 1:12:01PM Eastern Time, we will be doing our Friday night recap
- 1:12:05going over all the cases that we've talked about this week.
- 1:12:08Oh my goodness, it just one day bleeds into the next.
- 1:12:11I walked into my wife's work today to just as I was walking
- 1:12:16by from the gym. And yeah, I, I'm, I've been
- 1:12:22going to, I've been working out six days a week now, guys, for
- 1:12:25two months straight. It's been going really well.
- 1:12:28But I didn't even know what day it was.
- 1:12:31I walked in there and had this moment of like, wait a minute,
- 1:12:35is she working today? Yes, she is.
- 1:12:39OK, so we're going to be talking, we're going to be doing
- 1:12:41a recap on the Kevin Mullins, Mickey Stein's case.
- 1:12:45We're going to be talking about Celeste Rivas Hernandez.
- 1:12:49We're going to be talking about Melody Buzzard and recapping
- 1:12:53Caitlin Tracy. Those are the cases that we
- 1:12:55talked about this week. And then there are others in
- 1:12:57true crime that we're probably going to touch on again in our
- 1:13:01Friday night recap. So please join me tomorrow
- 1:13:03night, 7:30 PM Eastern Time right here on this here channel.
- 1:13:07Until then, I bid you I do thanking you so much for your
- 1:13:12patience as I have those dilholio moments where I keep
- 1:13:16the mute on too long. Thank you guys and thank you
- 1:13:19Autumn. I I assume it was autumn one of
- 1:13:21my mods for hitting the panic button for letting me know.
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