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- 0:00Welcome back to the Nourishing Women Podcast, your go-to podcast to get
- 0:03your peer back and get pregnant.
- 0:04I'm Victoria Myers, your podcast host, peer recovery specialist,
- 0:08fertility, dietician, and owner.
- 0:10The virtual coaching practice nourish my nutrition where we work
- 0:14together to restore your fertility.
- 0:17Now, today we're gonna have such a fun conversation on 13 easy ways
- 0:21to regulate your nervous system, and what that has to do with.
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- 1:47So like I said, we're talking about 13 easy ways to regulate your
- 1:50nervous system, and I think first and foremost, let's just start with like
- 1:53what exactly is the nervous system?
- 1:56Because if you've been in the wellness or the holistic space or
- 1:59the fertility space for some time.
- 2:01You have certainly heard nervous system regulation come up.
- 2:04There are multiple types of nervous systems in your body, but when
- 2:07we're referencing nervous system regulation, what we're talking about
- 2:10is the autonomic nervous system.
- 2:13Now, this nervous system is what?
- 2:16Controls so much of the systems in our body, and it's unconsciously controlling
- 2:21these bodily functions and systems like your breathing, your heartbeat,
- 2:25digestion, metabolism, and even plays a role in hormones, which we're gonna
- 2:29get into in today's conversation.
- 2:32So when it comes to the autonomic nervous system, it controls the
- 2:36two types of modes of basically activation of our nervous system.
- 2:41That, again, we often think of when we think of the term nervous system,
- 2:43and that's your parasympathetic.
- 2:46Or your rest and digest and your sympathetic or your
- 2:50fight or flight response.
- 2:52These two modes are modes, and I'm gonna put a graphic here so that
- 2:56you can kind of visualize this.
- 2:57You wanna think of it like a balancing act.
- 2:59You wanna be appropriately responding between rest and
- 3:02digest and fight or flight.
- 3:04Consistently regularly throughout the day when appropriate.
- 3:07And of course, we wanna be in rest and digest the majority of the time.
- 3:10And what you'll hear me say a lot in this episode is my people
- 3:13tend to really struggle to ever be in rest and digest mode.
- 3:18They're stuck in fight or flight for many different reasons, which,
- 3:20we'll, we'll talk about kind of ways to get out of that today.
- 3:23Um, but we also do wanna be able to move into fight or flight when appropriate too.
- 3:28We don't wanna get stuck in freeze mode, which happens after chronic
- 3:31burnout when the adrenal glands have produced so much cortisol that
- 3:35they simply cannot keep up anymore.
- 3:37And you now have such a low state of cortisol that you're
- 3:40now stuck in freeze mode
- 3:41again, it's a teetering act between the two.
- 3:44So when we think of nervous system.
- 3:48You really wanna think of safety.
- 3:51We need to help our bodies feel safe enough to turn back on the ovulation
- 3:55switch between your brain and your ovaries so that you can create healthy hormones
- 3:58and allow your body to not only cycle and ovulate again, but of course get and
- 4:03stay pregnant and your nervous system.
- 4:05It is such a vital part of helping your body to feel safe again.
- 4:10And I think first and foremost, we just need to kind of acknowledge.
- 4:13The elephant in the room of why you struggle with nervous system dysregulation
- 4:18or dysfunction, and that's because of the way that you live your life.
- 4:21And I'm saying that with so much love and compassion because I
- 4:25was you like, I get you because I have been in your shoes before.
- 4:29Perfectionist.
- 4:31Type a overachieving, high stress.
- 4:34You live on the go 24 7.
- 4:37You live according to your to-do list, don't you?
- 4:40You have a very hard time with not being productive.
- 4:43You can feel really guilty if you're not productive.
- 4:46You cope with your anxiety by doing more.
- 4:49You use exercise to cope with your emotions.
- 4:52You don't know what's.
- 4:53To do with stillness.
- 4:54You find yourself even fidgeting when you're trying to be still or
- 4:57relaxed and watch TV people pleasing, perfectionist, and they're all a part
- 5:02of how you have identified yourself.
- 5:04But part of the work of healing your fertility is recognizing that
- 5:08parts of that may be serving you.
- 5:09And we can use that to our benefit, but other parts of
- 5:12that are no longer serving you.
- 5:13And we really need to let go and to allow for nervous system regulation and safety
- 5:20in the body, trust in yourself, and really allow for stillness and pause and.
- 5:26Taking moments throughout the day, which you're gonna hear
- 5:28me say a lot today, and listen.
- 5:30I know that wired and tired feeling is really hard to escape.
- 5:33It's kind of this like how you've done life your entire life.
- 5:37I do wanna say here, I don't think it's your.
- 5:40I think it's just the way that we have adapted specifically as
- 5:42women in a world that applauds hustle and ignoring our bodies.
- 5:46But it is something we are going to have to address as we are working
- 5:50to get your hormones back online and to restore your fertility.
- 5:54Okay, and as speaking as someone who's been in your shoes before, this type of
- 5:59way of living with more nervous system and regulation, I am going to give you
- 6:02today 13 very easy ways to regulate your nervous system more on a daily basis.
- 6:07I promise it will make you feel better in your body.
- 6:10It'll make you feel stronger, more energized.
- 6:12It'll make you feel safer and feel trust in your body.
- 6:15The act of trying to conceive, you know, the intimacy component of getting pregnant
- 6:20will fulfill so much easier for you, and you will also be more productive.
- 6:25I promise you.
- 6:26When you can actually allow for regulation of your nervous system throughout
- 6:30your day, you can actually do so much more in the time that you are on.
- 6:35So let's get into it.
- 6:37We're now gonna go through these 13 easy ways to regulate your nervous
- 6:40system so that your body can know, it can move appropriately, again, between
- 6:44sympathetic and and parasympathetic, or that fight and flight and rest and digest.
- 6:49So, number one, the first thing we wanna prioritize is.
- 6:52Time outside an appropriate sun and light exposure for circadian rhythm.
- 6:59Now next episode on our podcast, we're gonna have expert Jillian Greaves on the
- 7:03podcast to discuss everything you need to know about circadian rhythm, so that if
- 7:08this is a new topic for you, get excited knowing that we're gonna dive deep into
- 7:11the conversation in two weeks time.
- 7:14But for now, what I want you to know is that we all have a 24 hour
- 7:16clock in our bodies, and it is.
- 7:19Affected by light exposure.
- 7:21Our cells have sensors that tell them when it's a good time for processes,
- 7:25including hormone release, think your sex hormones, your stress hormones, your
- 7:29thyroid, your melatonin, and it's all told to your body via light exposure.
- 7:34So what we wanna do as.
- 7:36Best as possible.
- 7:38Something Jillian says in the episode, and I'll just reference here 'cause
- 7:40it's so good, is tools not rules.
- 7:43So we want to use these tools of sun exposure as best as we can,
- 7:46and of course not beat ourselves up when we can't do it perfectly.
- 7:50But the idea with circadian rhythm support is to mimic the sun.
- 7:55When this, when you wake up in the morning, and if the sun is down, we
- 7:59want to block blue light exposure.
- 8:01Blue light specifically tells your body it's afternoon, and that can be
- 8:05very dysregulating to your circadian rhythm, therefore, dysregulating to
- 8:08your nervous system if you wake up.
- 8:10You know, four or 5:00 AM and you're immediately have all this artificial light
- 8:16at you through your phone, through tv, through, uh, the lights in your house.
- 8:20So we wanna keep things dark when it's dark outside in the early
- 8:24mornings and in the evenings.
- 8:25And then once the sun rises, we wanna get morning sun exposure as best as
- 8:29we can, even two to three minutes.
- 8:31Counts personally, I eat my breakfast outside now and it makes a very easy
- 8:35way just to get some downtime, to give myself rest and pause to eat, but
- 8:40also to get that morning sun exposure.
- 8:43And then we also wanna get afternoon sun exposure if possible.
- 8:46My favorite way personally to do this is to go for an afternoon
- 8:50walk after lunchtime or around the time of the day when I'm like
- 8:53desperately needing a break from work.
- 8:55So again, we wanna mimic the sun.
- 8:57If the sun is down when you wake up and in the evening, we wanna
- 9:01do that in our household as well.
- 9:03And then we wanna get morning sun exposure, afternoon
- 9:05exposure, um, to the sun.
- 9:08And when we can.
- 9:09And to add to that, what do we do if the sun is down, you know, in the morning or
- 9:13evening when we are awake, we just want to block blue light as much as possible.
- 9:17So that might be wearing those amber colored blue light blocking glasses.
- 9:21I just got like a $10 pair off of Amazon.
- 9:24That'd be putting red light bulbs in your house where appropriate.
- 9:27We just added that in.
- 9:28That's like one of the things I did after talking with Jillian on the podcast.
- 9:32They're downstairs in the lamps in our living room, as well
- 9:34as upstairs in our bedrooms.
- 9:36Not everywhere in the house, but just the places that like we're
- 9:38really hanging out the most.
- 9:40Um, and also salt rock lamps would be a great thing to do.
- 9:42Maybe candles to set, you know, a fun mood.
- 9:45And yes, it did take a second to get used to the red light bulbs.
- 9:48I'll be perfectly honest, but it's honestly.
- 9:50Super vibey and I'm, I'm totally enjoying it.
- 9:53Now it's just a little bit darker and you just have to get used to that.
- 9:56But again, you will notice a difference.
- 9:58One of the things I've noticed the most, especially from more morning sun
- 10:02exposure, is how good I sleep at night.
- 10:05It has made that big of a difference.
- 10:08Again, number one, what we're gonna first do to regulate our nervous
- 10:11system is circadian rhythm support.
- 10:14Okay?
- 10:15Up next, number two, no noise.
- 10:17Naked walks, walking is okay to do in period recovery.
- 10:22This is probably the main thing.
- 10:23I have my clients.
- 10:24To about 30 to 60 minutes a day, or no more than 10,000 steps a day
- 10:28is appropriate in period recovery.
- 10:30And especially when we're doing slow intentional walks, this can really help
- 10:34you mentally, but also physically to metabolize your stress levels and kind
- 10:39of like discharge that stress energy.
- 10:41Um, I love specifically no noise naked walks, because naked implies like
- 10:47that you're not wearing sunglasses.
- 10:48And again, that helps with the appropriate sun exposure that we wanna get.
- 10:51But the no noise I think is.
- 10:53So helpful because think about your day each day.
- 10:57How much time do we spend listening to podcasts, listening to music, uh, you
- 11:02know, watching tv, getting social media, like listening to things on social media,
- 11:07like we are just constantly inundated with so much information and so much noise.
- 11:11Just time outside with listening to nothing.
- 11:15Maybe spending some time with your thoughts.
- 11:18It can be transformational, I promise you, and again, I personally do this walk
- 11:22most in the afternoons when I'm kind of at that point in the workday where I'm like,
- 11:26oh my God, I've done a million things.
- 11:27My mind is spinning.
- 11:29I just need 20 minutes just to like not think about anything
- 11:33and not have any noise, nothing.
- 11:35It's so enjoyable.
- 11:36I cannot wait for you to start doing that.
- 11:39Okay, so, so far we've talked about circ rhythm support, no noise, naked Walks.
- 11:43Number three, reduce multitasking and take time in between each task.
- 11:47Now this one, I know it seems so basic, but that's the thing
- 11:51with nervous system regulation.
- 11:52Oftentimes the most basic, mundane task are both the things that
- 11:56we avoid, but they're the most.
- 11:58Beneficial.
- 11:59I want you to become more aware of how often you are so stressed when you're
- 12:04multitasking and you get in that like frazzled state, you know what I mean?
- 12:08Where you're just like, I gotta do this and this.
- 12:09And honestly, we know multitasking is super unproductive, but
- 12:13more specifically we know it's.
- 12:14Very dysregulating to our nervous systems.
- 12:17And trust me as a mom of two, I get that this isn't like a hundred percent
- 12:21avoidable, but as best as we can, try to just do one task at a time,
- 12:26and even orienting between each task,
- 12:29Spending one to two minutes, noticing your surroundings, letting yourself mentally
- 12:33prepare for the next task, again, without all these multitasking thoughts in your
- 12:37head will be so incredibly helpful.
- 12:40So number three again, is reduce multitasking and take time
- 12:43orienting in between each task.
- 12:46Number four is deep breathing.
- 12:48Again, another powerful, natural, helpful, free tool that we can all
- 12:53do, but we all tend to, um, not prioritize it in our day-to-day lives.
- 12:57Like I, again, in similar way that I want you to bring awareness to
- 13:01how often you multitask and kind of get in that frazzled, anxious state.
- 13:05How often are you doing very shallow chest breathing on a day-to-day basis?
- 13:09Instead, we really wanna focus on deep.
- 13:12Belly breaths and giving yourself periodic times throughout the day
- 13:15where you are just simply sitting and breathing and allowing for
- 13:18really deep breaths to happen.
- 13:20This is especially so incredibly helpful not only in regulating your nervous
- 13:25system, but boost boosting oxygen flow, recentering your mind and body.
- 13:28And improves vagal tone, which further supports your body's ability to get
- 13:32into rest and digest when appropriate.
- 13:34And even more deep breathing is going to help to lower cortisol.
- 13:38My favorite place to put deep breathing into my day is before meals.
- 13:42So just taking a couple minutes before I start eating to really
- 13:44do some deep belly breaths.
- 13:46Just get centered, grounded to regulate myself, get myself actively
- 13:50in rest and digest before eating.
- 13:53When I talk about deep breathing with clients, my two favorite forms
- 13:56recommend if they're looking for specific types of breathing, because
- 13:59if you're new to deep breathing, that can be really helpful to have.
- 14:01Kinda like a way that you go about doing the deep breathing is that box
- 14:05breathing and alternate breathing.
- 14:07Box breathing is inhaling for the count of five, holding for the count
- 14:11of five, exhaling for the count of five, and then holding for five.
- 14:14You can kind of see the box method of it, and then alternate nostril breathing is.
- 14:19Holding your kn your nose like this.
- 14:21If you're watching this on YouTube, this will make a lot more sense, but you're
- 14:24gonna inhale, hold in, then exhale.
- 14:32And those can be two easy ways to get started with deep breathing.
- 14:35Let's clear something up right here, right now.
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- 15:24Okay, up next in our 13 easy ways that we are going to regulate
- 15:28our nervous system is tapping.
- 15:30Tapping, also known as, uh, emotional freedom technique is a way of healing
- 15:35that basically combines gentle tapping.
- 15:37Specific meridian points in the body is actually the same points that you
- 15:40would use for acupuncture or acupressure and speaking out loud emotional or
- 15:45physical challenges you're facing.
- 15:46And the idea is that basically unresolved emotions or stressors can
- 15:50disrupt the body's energy system, therefore affecting your nervous system.
- 15:55If you're new to this idea of like your emotions get.
- 15:58Can get stuck in your tissues.
- 15:59You definitely need to read the book.
- 16:01The body keeps the score.
- 16:02There's tons of research to support this, I promise.
- 16:04It is not woowoo.
- 16:06It is real.
- 16:07And what you do when you are tapping is you are stating
- 16:11something that you are facing.
- 16:14Even though I feel terrified to eat more.
- 16:17I know my body needs fuel.
- 16:19I deeply and completely love and accept myself as an example.
- 16:23There's so much information about tapping on the internet that you can
- 16:27read more about if you wanna learn more.
- 16:29And again, the book The Body Keeps the Score is a great way to learn
- 16:32more about how stress and unresolved trauma can affect how we physically
- 16:37feel in our bodies and the pain and the disorders and the diseases we develop.
- 16:43Okay, number six, time blocks without your phone.
- 16:46Again, this seems basic, but how often do we avoid these most basic habits
- 16:51that can truly help you feel better and regulate your nervous system?
- 16:55Our phones are a constant dopamine hip.
- 16:58While this can feel good, it's obviously not regulating to our nervous systems.
- 17:02And obviously it goes without saying that like it's impossible
- 17:05to be without our phone.
- 17:06In today's world, the, the goal wouldn't be to like be a phoneless
- 17:10person, but just taking breaks.
- 17:12Personally for myself, I have a rule with myself that I don't get on my phone.
- 17:15We.
- 17:16Four 8:00 AM or after 8:00 PM so that we have 12 hours without it.
- 17:20And then also what I'll do is I will put my phone on do Not disturb periodically
- 17:25throughout the workday when I'm in deep concentration tasks where I want like
- 17:28one to two hours of no distractions at all, I'm trying to concentrate on a very
- 17:32specific task, and that also helps just to kind of give myself rules with my
- 17:38phone of basically when I can check it.
- 17:40Okay, up next.
- 17:41Number seven is therapy.
- 17:43You know how to put it in there somewhere.
- 17:45If you're a client of mine, you know how big of an advocate I am for therapy
- 17:49and I started going consistently to therapy about two and a half years.
- 17:53I started at like 37 weeks pregnant with Anna because of something that
- 17:56happened in our personal lives and.
- 17:59I have stayed with it monthly, go once a month, ever since, and it truly, I mean,
- 18:05this has changed my life completely.
- 18:09Personally for me, I think it's helped the most with nervous system capacities,
- 18:12like my stress resiliency, meaning that I don't get in a state of panic
- 18:15or overwhelm as quickly as I once did, and also helped me to have the
- 18:20ability to sit and be with my internal sensations and kind of noticing like.
- 18:23When my hands tingle or my chest feels heavy, or my stomach
- 18:27feels like angst, what does that mean and what does that mean?
- 18:30I need time to like be with myself and learn what is my body trying to tell me.
- 18:34I personally, I'm, I'm sure this is true for so many of us, but personally had so
- 18:38many emotions that were never ever dealt with and we're really low key affecting
- 18:43every decision I made in my life.
- 18:44I'm so grateful.
- 18:45I confronted my fear of going to therapy and just started freaking
- 18:48going because now I can see so.
- 18:50So clearly how a lot of things that happened in my past and kind of how I
- 18:54dealt with, you know, past experiences was showing up in my present day-to-day
- 18:58life and affecting my future.
- 19:00Therapy for me is just a non-negotiable for health, for nervous system
- 19:04regulation, for coming back to myself and realizing how I really
- 19:08wanna act and respond in situations.
- 19:10Again, that stress resiliency of like.
- 19:12Like, that's actually my, like 10-year-old self acting out there.
- 19:15Like me as the adult, I know how to handle this.
- 19:18I can trust myself, I've got my back.
- 19:20Um, for myself, I just kind of view it as it's this non-negotiable in my life.
- 19:24If I wanna be the person I wanna be for my business, for being a mom,
- 19:28for being a wife, for being a friend.
- 19:30It is a non-negotiable for being my best self.
- 19:34I don't usually look forward to it, but I always, always, always
- 19:38feel so much better afterwards.
- 19:40Personally, my therapist uses Internal Family Systems IFS, and I love it and
- 19:45it's been so incredibly helpful for me.
- 19:48Okay.
- 19:48Number eight, to get back to things that we can all do on a daily
- 19:51basis that are mostly free, is eat first thing in the morning.
- 19:54Eating first thing in the morning is one of the most powerful yet underrated
- 19:57ways to regulate your nervous system.
- 20:00It helps to lower cortisol, your body's main stress hormone, um,
- 20:03which is naturally the highest when we wake up in the morning.
- 20:06And also helps to, uh, balance our blood sugar levels and again, tells
- 20:10your body that it's safe, that there's food, and that your nervous system
- 20:14can be in the rest and digest mode.
- 20:16If we start our mornings off instead with.
- 20:19Know your cortisol is already the highest in the morning, but then
- 20:21you're drinking a black coffee and you're going for a HIIT workout and
- 20:24you're fasting for as long as possible.
- 20:26Can you see how stress activating that could be to your body and how
- 20:29much you would be in fight or fight?
- 20:31Instead, we really wanna start the day off, calm and grounded eating
- 20:34breakfast within 30 60 minutes of waking.
- 20:38And if you are someone who drinks coffee before breakfast, I feel you.
- 20:42I struggle with this too.
- 20:43This is still an area where I need to improve, but I have not yet done it.
- 20:46So the way I kind of go about that then is I just make sure I put some type
- 20:49of fat or protein source in my coffee
- 20:51Just so that it doesn't exacerbate my cortisol levels even more so whether
- 20:55that's collagen, whole milk half and half.
- 20:57Um, right now I've been doing a lot of coconut, like full
- 20:59fat coconut in my coffee.
- 21:01So just something that helps just to stabilize the blood sugars, lower
- 21:04the cortisol, because I love my coffee and I'm not yet ready to not
- 21:09have the ever single bone waking.
- 21:10Okay.
- 21:10Number nine, um, is eating consistently throughout the day.
- 21:14Yes.
- 21:15This regulates your nervous system so much.
- 21:18It also supports your circadian rhythm.
- 21:20Again, in two weeks time, when we'll do that episode, you'll learn that
- 21:23sleep eating consistently and sun exposure are the three ways that we
- 21:27can support our circadian rhythm.
- 21:29And mainly what eating consistently throughout the day does is that
- 21:32it tells your body it's safe.
- 21:33One of the ways it does that is through following your impulses.
- 21:36This is actually a good thing.
- 21:38And when we follow our impulses, like the need to go to the bathroom or the need to
- 21:42eat, that tells your body that it's safe.
- 21:46Number 10, in easy ways, we can regulate our nervous system.
- 21:49Is eating enough, you know, I had to include this one in here.
- 21:52Eating enough, not just eating healthy is the foundation.
- 21:56Of hormone healing and fertility.
- 21:58When you chronically undereat your body just doesn't feel only hungry.
- 22:02It feels unsafe.
- 22:03One of the key hormones impacted by this is leptin, which is produced by
- 22:08body fat and signals to your brain that you're well fed and have enough energy
- 22:11on board for non-essential functions like your hormones and reproduction.
- 22:16But when leptin levels are low, your hypothalamus is the message that
- 22:19food is scarce and it downshifts everything, including your metabolism.
- 22:25Puts your body into fight or fight nervous system, it depletes nutrients.
- 22:29It affects your functioning of your hormones and the ability
- 22:33for your body to create hormones, therefore ovulation, period.
- 22:35And of course, for you personally, that's what's causing your infertility right now.
- 22:40But when you consistently eat enough, especially carbs and fat, this raises
- 22:44leptin levels, sending a powerful signal to your brain that it's safe to
- 22:48ovulate, cycle, get, and stay pregnant.
- 22:50And of course, in context to today's conversation, relax and get into
- 22:54rest and digest mode., So obviously food just makes a huge difference
- 22:58and never underestimate the power.
- 23:00Of eating enough and eating consistently and eating first thing upon waking and
- 23:04helping you to get your period back, get and stay pregnant, and just live
- 23:08a life where your nervous system is regulated consistently on a daily basis.
- 23:13Okay, number 11 and 13, easy ways to regulate your nervous system is
- 23:17exercise, but not just for you right now.
- 23:20High intensity during fertility times.
- 23:22I would even argue for anyone who's actively trying to get pregnant, even
- 23:25if they don't have pure loss, hypoth mania, or hypothalmic dysfunction.
- 23:30I think gentle, restorative or moderate.
- 23:33Forms of exercise are best for fertility.
- 23:36So that may mean yoga, Pilates bar.
- 23:39Maybe you are strength training, but you are taking it a little bit
- 23:42slower and easier in between sets and avoiding doing circuit style
- 23:46workouts in between your sets.
- 23:48Um, a lot of walking, as we've already referenced, is so incredibly
- 23:51helpful to your nervous system.
- 23:52And then just make sure with exercise, yes it is regulating to
- 23:56our nervous system when it's done in an appropriate matter, but make sure
- 23:59we wanna take plenty of rest days.
- 24:01I'm talking two, if not three, to make sure that you are getting
- 24:05the needs of rest and safety for period recovery specifically.
- 24:09Okay, up next.
- 24:10Number 12 is test your minerals and replenish mineral stores.
- 24:14We do this through a hair tissue mineral analysis or an HTMA.
- 24:18And the first thing that you see whenever you see an HMA
- 24:20test is your metabolic type.
- 24:22This addresses the state of your nervous system dominance.
- 24:25Are you slow or fast?
- 24:26Meaning are you in the rest and digest or potentially even freeze depending on
- 24:30where you are slow, 1, 2, 3, or four.
- 24:32And then are you in fast or fight or flight?
- 24:35And again, there's.
- 24:36Fast 1, 2, 3, and four.
- 24:38So it allows your body to see kind of what nervous system dominance
- 24:41it's in so we can actually test for, for nervous system functioning.
- 24:46We actually do this in a few different ways.
- 24:47I'll get to that here in a second.
- 24:48Right now we're just referencing minerals.
- 24:50Um, but again, it allows your body to see what state your body
- 24:53prefers and allows us to make appropriate mineral recommendations
- 24:58This is calculated specifically by looking at your calcium and
- 25:01phosphorus ratios, and I'm just gonna leave it at that and let our HMA
- 25:05functional lab expert at the practice.
- 25:06Rachel, take it from there.
- 25:08She's gonna come on the show in December and give us all the
- 25:11details about HMA, including this.
- 25:13Okay, up next, the 13 easy way that we're going to support regulating our
- 25:18nervous system is to get support to reduce food, guilt, and body anxiety.
- 25:22For my people.
- 25:24This is so much of the dysfunctioning of your nervous system.
- 25:27I mean, I really want you to think about how much day-to-day stress you have as a
- 25:32result of the constant thinking in your head of, did I just eat too many calories?
- 25:37What if I can't exercise all this off?
- 25:39I'm scared I'm gonna gain weight.
- 25:41Combining this with your constant worry over peer loss and why it's
- 25:43happening, how to fix it, and when am I gonna get pregnant?
- 25:46Like it's a no wonder you feel dysregulated.
- 25:49Our 1 0 1 program focuses on testing expert lab analysis, custom protocols
- 25:54for fertility, nutrition, and supplement.
- 25:56Patient support, but if you've watched your training, you know that we focus
- 26:00on food and body image coaching just as much because for our people, this
- 26:03is such a huge component of why your nervous system feels so dysregulated.
- 26:08And this has to be part of your customized plan to get your peer
- 26:12back and get pregnant because it is a huge part of your day.
- 26:15Lead stressor, therefore affecting your nervous system that affects your
- 26:19hormone production and fertility.
- 26:21Again, if your body doesn't feel safe, it's gonna be very
- 26:24difficult to get pregnant.
- 26:25Okay.
- 26:26I know we've already done 13, but I wanted to include one bonus, one which is test.
- 26:30And don't guess, since so much of your daily stress and overwhelm
- 26:33is because of your concerns over.
- 26:36What's going on in your body, how to get your ovulation back, how to get
- 26:39your peer back, how to get pregnant.
- 26:40This is gonna be so helpful for you because I know you are
- 26:42a data driven kind of person.
- 26:44Like you wanna see what's going on in your body.
- 26:46Imagine how stress relieving that would be to know, oh, this is
- 26:49exactly what's going on in my body.
- 26:50I know my metabolism type.
- 26:52I know my nervous system dominance.
- 26:54I know what key minerals are being lost due to the high stress I know.
- 26:58What's going on with my cortisol patterns?
- 27:00That's something that we test for in our practice.
- 27:02So we assess nervous system function, not only through an H, TM A, but
- 27:06also through a stress profile test.
- 27:08We also assess adrenal and thyroid function and hormones because again,
- 27:11depleted hormones are gonna be a result of a dysfunctioning nervous system too.
- 27:15And we put all of this into a customized plan so that we know exactly what
- 27:20to do to not only get your period back, but to restore fertility.
- 27:24Regulate your nervous system and allow your body to feel safe
- 27:27enough to get and stay pregnant.
- 27:29So I just wanted to include that because it's not like you have to just kind of
- 27:32like wildly guess and DIY, what to do about a dysregulated nervous system.
- 27:37If you're someone listening to this episode and like, dang, I don't do
- 27:40any of these things, or I know for sure that I'm just in a constant
- 27:43state of nervousness and dysfunction.
- 27:45Let's not just guess at that.
- 27:47Let's test for it and make appropriate recommendations and
- 27:50protocols based off of what we find.
- 27:52If that sounds like something that you are interested in learning more
- 27:55about, one of the ways that we can do that is through our Fertility Clarity
- 27:59package, where we offer root cause investigation through comprehensive
- 28:03labs and a hair tissue mineral analysis.
- 28:05And you can even add on a stress profile test to your fertility
- 28:08clarity package, and then we will create a custom roadmap for you.
- 28:12Based off of exactly what we find.
- 28:14As I announced in the very beginning of this episode, starting next
- 28:17Monday, we're opening up our annual only time of the year.
- 28:20We ever offer a sell Black Friday sale for our fertility clarity package.
- 28:24You can use the code Black Friday for $400 off, but there are only
- 28:2910 spots available, and for the first five who purchased, you can
- 28:33get a free bonus call with me.
- 28:35Thank you so much for listening to this episode.
- 28:37I hope you found it so incredibly helpful and informative, and really
- 28:40gave you inspired actions that you can start today, literally right now
- 28:45in better regulating your nervous system to restore your fertility.
- 28:48Moving forward two weeks time, we're gonna have Jillian Grieves expert on
- 28:53circadian rhythm on the podcast to get into the nitty-gritty of that.
- 28:56That way can support nervous system even more and support
- 28:59your hormone health even more.
- 29:00Until then, note that a nourished body is a powerful one by all.