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How to Explain “Mental Load” to Your Partner? (Therapist Explains)
Do you ever feel like you're carrying your entire relationship? You're the one remembering appointments, managing the calendar, planning vacations, noticing what the kids need, buying gifts, and keeping everything running—while your partner waits to be told what needs to be done. Over time, that imbalance doesn't just create frustration. It creates exhaustion, resentment, and emotional distance. In this video, psychotherapist Jenn Pinkerton explains the relationship dynamic between weaponized incompetence and overfunctioning, why these patterns usually develop without either partner intending…
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