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- 1:03I go, look at this.
- 1:05There is a template to story that's been around since the very beginning.
- 1:09The very first recorded story of Gilgamesh follows this same pattern of story that you can
- 1:14see in the Wizard of Oz and Star Wars and anything Spielberg does.
- 1:19It's called The Heroes Journey and when I saw that and I started thinking about how you
- 1:23could work that into business communications, specifically branding.
- 1:27I'm like, well, here's the template, how come nobody has ever taught us about The Heroes
- 1:33Journey and how we could use this to help humanize a brand, tell the brand's story, but place
- 1:40the brand's customer at the center of that story.
- 1:47Hey, it's Jeff Zimfer, host of the Market to Marketing Radio podcast.
- 1:53Thanks for tuning in to this episode.
- 1:56Before I get into introducing my special guest, news flash, the market is shifted, but you
- 2:03already know that, don't you?
- 2:05The better question is, it's not what happens, right?
- 2:08It's what you do that matters.
- 2:09That's how you respond in life because, like Lou Holtz once said, if a wave isn't hitting
- 2:16you and he characterized life as like a series of waves, and if a wave isn't hitting you
- 2:22right now, well, one's on its way.
- 2:24Well, I think this past week, we all just get hit by a wave, right?
- 2:28The wave, of course, is the dramatic increase in interest rates and the shift that's happening
- 2:33across this country globally as well, but let's just face it, there's a lot of uncertainty.
- 2:39There's a lot of turmoil, there's a lot of or lack of consumer confidence, right?
- 2:45And so in chaos, one of my favorite sayings, in chaos, what people seek is context, right?
- 2:51And how do they get context?
- 2:52They get context through education and content, and that is our call to arms as mortgage professionals
- 2:59is to show up in the chaos and provide context with our content.
- 3:02Now, look, I don't have to tell you that the ReFi market is shut off right now, right?
- 3:08We're all intents and purposes.
- 3:10So where's the business?
- 3:11It's purchase.
- 3:12And now many of you and your competitors have pivoted and the new focuses on purchase business
- 3:16and many are now chasing real estate agents.
- 3:19And you may be now pursuing real estate agents as well, but do you struggle with getting
- 3:24attention?
- 3:25Do you struggle with agents responding, getting engagement, driving those outbound efforts
- 3:29forward that lead to conversations and referrals?
- 3:32If that's you, then perhaps you'd like to consider showing up with content that delivers
- 3:39confidence in the world of chaos.
- 3:41What am I talking about?
- 3:42I'm talking about the new currency in today's world of information is ideas and then execution
- 3:49on those ideas.
- 3:50And what I mean is, is now is your opportunity to show up and differentiate yourself leading
- 3:56with an educational platform so that you can attract agents to you, right?
- 4:02And provide solutions to their chaos of what direction, what to do, how to respond and
- 4:07where to go.
- 4:09And if you're interested in learning more about that, please go to mortgagemarketing.pro.
- 4:13You've heard us talk long enough about the success stories we're having with our members
- 4:16who have a turnkey plugin play platform to quickly and easily scale their agent conversations
- 4:22and referrals by teaching agent classes in their local market, virtually and in person.
- 4:28How are they doing that?
- 4:29They're doing that simply and easily because we provide a plugin play platform that
- 4:32provides you the PowerPoint speaker notes, a video tutorial of me training you how to
- 4:36teach the class.
- 4:37We give you the social media images to promote it.
- 4:39We give you the customized flyers, the personalized branded landing pages.
- 4:43We even give you the completely turnkey email marketing system and event registration platform
- 4:49that will automate the outbound promotions, registrations, confirmation and follow-up
- 4:55of your class attendees and you'll attend our weekly live small group coaching calls
- 5:00where we'll take you through a process that will help you refine your agent marketing efforts
- 5:07to get more results more quickly.
- 5:09And we've got all the case studies and testimonials over at mortgagemarketing.pro.
- 5:12If you want to go check those out and I'm sure you'll hear an example of a case study
- 5:16at the end of today's podcast as well.
- 5:17So make sure you stay tuned for that.
- 5:19Okay, so my special guest for this week, Park Howell, just a wonderful human being and
- 5:24a bringing park on because it is a totally appropriate time in the market when there is
- 5:29chaos.
- 5:30Right?
- 5:31What differentiates us?
- 5:32If you ever struggled to get attention from a noisy market, have you ever struggled to
- 5:37differentiate yourself when you get on the phone with a potential prospect or a partner
- 5:41and their big question is why you, what's different about you?
- 5:45Right?
- 5:46Well, what the way to differentiate is with setting the context and frame of your communication,
- 5:51right?
- 5:52Otherwise said as telling a more powerful story, right, a brand story.
- 5:59And we've all heard about brand story, right?
- 6:01For some time, and there are certain nuances and challenges to telling a brand story.
- 6:06That's why I wanted to have Park on here today is because he is among the best for being
- 6:11able to articulate your brand story that makes it compelling for anyone who is listening.
- 6:19And you can have multiple brand stories for different people.
- 6:21It depends on the audience who we're speaking to, right?
- 6:24And so Park has just broken down a simple formula that Hollywood uses, right, to draw
- 6:32interest, to compel you to want to learn more, and to brain hack, right?
- 6:37Your limbic system, we're talking primal stuff here, you'll hear Park unpack this, but
- 6:41this is a proven persuasive process that psychologically, right, shortcuts and short
- 6:47circuits, the normal process of capturing attention and driving interest.
- 6:54And we're going to go through the formula that Park has here.
- 6:56I recently went through Park's one of his educational courses that he has.
- 7:00I actually hired him for a one hour consulting session, and he's been helping me work
- 7:06on my brand story and how to structure a framework for effective business communication
- 7:12and messaging.
- 7:13So I think you'll really enjoy this conversation we have today.
- 7:15And there are links into the show notes, everything we mentioned about Park Howell, his resources,
- 7:20his book, his website and blog, his podcast, so make sure you check those out.
- 7:23So without further ado, let's get into this week's show.
- 7:26Park, welcome to the show.
- 7:27Jeff, man, thanks for having me here.
- 7:29I appreciate it.
- 7:30It's good to reconnect, man.
- 7:31It's been a while, and I really enjoyed.
- 7:33First of all, when I saw you speak at social media and marketing world, I don't know how
- 7:36many years ago that is now, but it feels like five or six.
- 7:40And then secondly, since then, right, I got exposed to your material about the business of
- 7:43the story, and we're going to talk about that for sure.
- 7:46But why don't you, for the listeners, give your brief backgrounder.
- 7:49Absolutely.
- 7:50Well, again, it's great to be here.
- 7:51You know, I've been in the advertising branding, marketing world for 35 plus years.
- 7:56So I'm really dating myself here.
- 7:59I ran my own ad agency in Phoenix, Arizona for 20 of those years.
- 8:03It was called Park and Co.
- 8:04And really for the past 10 to 15 years, I have been completely focused on brand storytelling
- 8:11and the reason being, as I saw the old way we used to advertise in market, which was
- 8:17a blast, which was like funny TV spots, a great radio spots and prints and outdoor and so
- 8:23forth, completely get up ended by social media and technology, where it used to be that
- 8:30our clients own the influence of mass media.
- 8:33And as you know, and everybody watching this knows, the masses have become the media.
- 8:38And it is so fricking noisy out there.
- 8:41It's almost impossible to be heard.
- 8:44So I went looking for an answer and I found that in Hollywood, our son was going to film
- 8:49school there.
- 8:50I said, send me your books when you're done with them since I'm paying for them.
- 8:53So I want to know, how do they teach you to be a competitive storyteller in the most
- 8:58competitive market in the world?
- 8:59That's when I learned about Joseph Campbell, the hero's journey, started applying it in
- 9:04our work.
- 9:06And that's what took me down this road of storytelling.
- 9:09Now I got rid of my ad agency and I solely consult, speak, coach, and teach on the power
- 9:15of story to help executives and leaders and people just like who are watching this excel
- 9:21through the stories you tell.
- 9:22That's my abridged version.
- 9:24Yeah, that's wonderful.
- 9:25Thank you.
- 9:26And as I recall, you can, you can set me on the right course here.
- 9:30If I recall, kind of as I read, you know, your book and you described how you kind of
- 9:35stumbled across this, you know, circling back to the Hollywood thing, am I correct?
- 9:40And like, there was kind of an epiphany when you dug into those materials and you saw
- 9:44that there was a formula and how it all starts, can you unpack that a little bit?
- 9:48Oh, gosh.
- 9:49I can take it to the exact moment it happened and I remember Parker was home for Christmas
- 9:55and he brought his book, Joseph Campbell's hero with a thousand faces, it's called.
- 10:02And I started reading through it.
- 10:03And then I go, this is fascinating.
- 10:05It's very arcane.
- 10:06It's a hard book to read.
- 10:08I recommend no one tried to read it.
- 10:10I got a ways through it, but it then prompted me to go online and started studying the
- 10:15hero's journey.
- 10:16There's a fabulous book put out by Bill Moyers from PBS after his six hour interview session
- 10:22with Campbell called the power of myth.
- 10:24I would direct people to that.
- 10:26Anyways, Jeff, when I saw that it hit me like a frying pan upside the head, I go look
- 10:32at this.
- 10:33It is a template to story that's been around since the very beginning.
- 10:36The very first recorded story of Gilgamesh follows this same pattern of story that you
- 10:42can see in the Wizard of Oz and Star Wars and anything Spielberg does.
- 10:46It's called the hero's journey.
- 10:47And when I saw that and I started thinking about how you could work that into business
- 10:52communications, specifically branding, I'm like, well, here's the template.
- 10:57How come nobody has ever taught us about the hero's journey and how we could use this
- 11:03to help humanize a brand, tell the brand's story, but place the brand, the brand's customer
- 11:09at the center of that story and tell the story from their perspective, no different than
- 11:15Hollywood.
- 11:16You know, when you're sitting in a theater and you're just buying into, I hear the new
- 11:21Top Gun movie is great.
- 11:22So we're going to go and see that.
- 11:24So why is it great is because people, man or woman sitting in that audience can relate
- 11:30to those characters and they take you on a journey.
- 11:34And isn't that what a brand should do?
- 11:36That was my aha moment, that one Christmas break when he came home, showed it to me and
- 11:40I saw it and I go, well, let's just map this to business.
- 11:43That's what I did with the 10 steps story cycle system.
- 11:46And we had a lot of great success with it.
- 11:50Has it evolved since that original kind of discovery?
- 11:54Yeah, you know, my discovery, like all discoveries go and you probably find this in your
- 11:58own career, you start by tackling the most complex because you don't know where to go.
- 12:03You don't know where to begin.
- 12:04Where's the little stuff?
- 12:05So we learn everything exactly backwards.
- 12:08We take the most complex stuff and try to make sense of it.
- 12:12That's what I did with the hero's journey.
- 12:13It was like 17 steps long and I would get lost on this journey.
- 12:18When I read the 15 beats, the story is written by the famous Blake Snyder in the screenwriting
- 12:25book called Save the Cat.
- 12:26Again, our son Parker said, here, dad, we're reading this in class.
- 12:30Get it for you.
- 12:31You know, read it.
- 12:32Well, I had to literally scratch and claw my way through Save the Cat.
- 12:36And it works, but it takes a while to get your head wrapped around that theory.
- 12:41Then people promote the Pixar way, which is seven or eight steps.
- 12:46And it looks simple when Pixar does it.
- 12:49But if you try it, it will not take you to infinity and beyond.
- 12:53It's hard.
- 12:55And so as I unpacked and really mastered all of these different things, then in fact,
- 12:58to teach them to people, I found every two complex, it was just simply too complicated.
- 13:03That's when I found the five primal elements of a short story for big impact.
- 13:07And even more importantly, what we'll be talking about today, I presume, is the three
- 13:11words that revolutionized everything in my thinking around storytelling.
- 13:16And that is the end, but therefore what we call the ABT.
- 13:21And so I learned it from the complex to the simple.
- 13:24Now I teach it from the simple to the complex because the ABT is where all powerful persuasive
- 13:31business storytelling begins.
- 13:32Hmm.
- 13:33Wow.
- 13:34Thank you.
- 13:35That's an interesting journey.
- 13:37So we're going to get to the ABT in just a moment.
- 13:39But I want to, as it sounds like, I agree with you, when I first kind of came across
- 13:44this whole, you know, business of telling a story and hero's journey and things like
- 13:48that, yeah, it was very complex and confusing and it was difficult to kind of break that
- 13:52down in a sales context, if you will, or in a branding positioning statement.
- 13:57And are you saying then that you, because when I think of like telling, you know,
- 14:02the brand story and storytelling, you know, words like in the Hollywood context of things,
- 14:07I just got my notes here.
- 14:08What I've got is like, you know, there's got to be a character and a villain and there's
- 14:11got to be, you know, the emotional ups and downs.
- 14:14So are you saying you went through all that as well, but are now simplifying that even
- 14:19more for us in a context of business?
- 14:21Exactly right.
- 14:22And if you boil down the hero's journey, you take that 12 to 17 steps depending on who
- 14:27you're reading about it.
- 14:29You can block it off into these three phases of Ann, but therefore the end is the statement
- 14:34of agreement or the setting up of the story.
- 14:37It's act one, if you will.
- 14:39You introduce your character, your protagonist.
- 14:41And in brand storytelling, that character protagonist is always your customer.
- 14:46It's not you.
- 14:47You as the brand play the more important role of mentor guide, the Obi-Wan Kenobi Taluk,
- 14:53Linda Goodwich of the North, you know, to Dorothy.
- 14:56You play the mentor guide and don't come into the story until a little bit later on.
- 15:01But if you break it down in the hero's journey, there's this call to adventure that pulls
- 15:07the protagonist, the central character of the story, out of their ordinary world into
- 15:12this grand adventure where they've got to fight all kinds of demons.
- 15:16Internal demons are own naysayer inside that's out to thwart their progress and literally
- 15:21external forces that are out to stress them out, you know, to put them through the trials
- 15:28and tests to see what they're made up.
- 15:31They fight through all that.
- 15:32They win.
- 15:33They return back home with what Campbell would call the boon, meaning they've been leveled
- 15:38up.
- 15:39They're stronger, faster, wiser, more nimble, or whatever.
- 15:44And they return back to their ordinary world again and that becomes our therefore.
- 15:48So the and but therefore is a way of capturing the overall three acts structure of any story.
- 15:57But more importantly, for people in business, you use the and but therefore to simplify
- 16:03your messaging and hook your audience in under 15 seconds using this setup problem resolution
- 16:10dynamic that our cause and effect, pattern seeking decision making, limbic, buying brain
- 16:18loves.
- 16:19Wow, man, how can anybody resist that?
- 16:24Well, that's what I found.
- 16:26I mean, like I said, Jeff, I came for the backwards.
- 16:28I came for the complex to the simple and I'm going to my goodness.
- 16:31Now, there are places for the complex that we use the story cycle system for long form
- 16:37communications and presentations.
- 16:39We use the five primal elements of a short story for big impact for a little anecdotal
- 16:44story.
- 16:45You can tell an under a minute that makes your business point for you, but they are all
- 16:49built on the foundation of this and but therefore that's why that's where we'll right start
- 16:54training it.
- 16:55All you have to remember is these three words and how to use them.
- 16:59Yeah.
- 17:00And for listeners, you should know I've been since Park and I met and I went through
- 17:04your course and actually signed up for a consultation with you.
- 17:07And ever since then, I've been working on this and haven't had the time.
- 17:11I've wanted to devote to it, but I'm coming back full circle, which is kind of why we're
- 17:14talking today.
- 17:17So where could people, all right, for the listeners now, you and I talked before we
- 17:20hit record, right, at the time before we're recording this is, you know, there's a lot
- 17:23of chaos in the marketplace, right, and with housing specifically, right, and people need
- 17:30some confidence, some context, some certainty, right?
- 17:34So on the lessons of ABTs, is there anything you want to kind of touch on there?
- 17:38Yeah.
- 17:39And let's just make this a quick little workshop that works for you for all your viewers.
- 17:42So grab a pen in the paper or a digital device or whatever.
- 17:46And here are the steps I want you to write down.
- 17:49And this is in relation to any sort of message that you might be wanting to deliver to an
- 17:56audience.
- 17:57Maybe it's an audience of one.
- 17:58It's a prospect sitting across from you.
- 18:00Or maybe it's a Facebook post or a LinkedIn post and you're trying to broadcast out to
- 18:04many.
- 18:05Here's what I want you to do.
- 18:07Step number one, identify your audience.
- 18:10Who is sitting in that chair, be as specific about that individual as you possibly can.
- 18:16Are you talking to a mother?
- 18:19Are you talking to a father?
- 18:21Are you talking to a head of household?
- 18:23I mean, are you talking to a lender?
- 18:25Who is that person?
- 18:27Then you ask yourself.
- 18:29What do they want in relation to your offering, but we're not worrying about your offering
- 18:33right now?
- 18:34Just what do they want in relation to your offering?
- 18:38And why is that important to them?
- 18:40That's your statement of agreement.
- 18:42That's where you're setting up act one.
- 18:44And here's the hardest thing about the statement of agreement, Jeff.
- 18:47You may have experienced this yourself as you're building them.
- 18:51Be positive with it.
- 18:53This is a positive statement of saying here's what a brighter tomorrow looks like to them.
- 18:58No often people will start writing their abt's with the problem right up front.
- 19:02We don't want to do that.
- 19:03We want to hold on that.
- 19:04We need to set the stage so that we get our audience nodding in agreement saying yes,
- 19:09you understand me.
- 19:10You know what I want and you know why that's important to me, but here's the problem.
- 19:16Here's act two in the hero's journey, but you don't currently have it because of this.
- 19:24Therefore your statement of agreement is just imagine I was going to feel when you get
- 19:28it because we're here to help you by doing this, this, and this.
- 19:32So you as the brand mentor or guy do not come in until the very end of this abt.
- 19:39You want to make it all about your audience.
- 19:41They are the center of your story and you don't even necessarily talk about what it is
- 19:46you make, but what it is you make happen, the outcomes that you can make happen for them.
- 19:52Let me give you a quick example.
- 19:54So I was doing a training for the internal sales team at Home Depot and one of their
- 19:59guys asked me is what's the shortest abt you've ever heard of park and I go that's easy.
- 20:06You communicate and care, but for therefore tell us story.
- 20:13Now that's my 10 word abt.
- 20:15You communicate and care, that's my statement of agreement.
- 20:18You're right.
- 20:19Park, I do communicate and by golly, I do care, but I hate to tell you.
- 20:23You're boring because no one's ever taught you how to do this stuff.
- 20:27Therefore tell us story.
- 20:29Now we could expand that abt because in and of itself that was the little parlor trick
- 20:34I did.
- 20:35Here's a 10 word story, if you will, using the story structure.
- 20:39Let's make it a little bit bigger.
- 20:40So you are a mortgage professional and you want to, and if you can connect deeply with
- 20:48that customer sitting across from them, then you know that you can get them the financing
- 20:53they want to buy their ideal home, but you're not connecting as deeply as you could because
- 20:59you're leading with logic and reason, data and numbers.
- 21:03Therefore, tell us story, to hack to the noise and hook the hearts of your prospect because
- 21:11you have such and such and such to offer to help them overcome that.
- 21:16So you've now, in this case, I'm talking to you, the viewer, the mortgage professional.
- 21:21And I'm saying, look, you want to connect deeply, but you're not connecting deeply.
- 21:25Therefore connect deeply by telling a story.
- 21:27That now, let's move it one more step and I'm going to bring you into this, Jeff.
- 21:33What given the chaos and wait, what was the great line that you shared with me before
- 21:37we went online?
- 21:38What I said is, in times of chaos, people seek context.
- 21:42That's great.
- 21:43That's wonderful.
- 21:44And I think you're so dead on because chaos is like, what the hell is going on?
- 21:47Because you and you ain't, you got the black side of the end of chaos, we need balance
- 21:51through context.
- 21:53Storytelling is the only way you give that context.
- 21:56So let's explore this together.
- 21:58What is a major problem that a homeowner is going through right now, that you as a mortgage
- 22:06lender, professional are going to help them overcome?
- 22:10So our audience here is what, a homeowner, a prospective mortgage buyer.
- 22:16So right now, it's uncertainty, it's fear, it's doubt, it's, you know, it's now the
- 22:20right time, right?
- 22:21With everything that's going on in the market.
- 22:23Okay.
- 22:24So let's back that up great.
- 22:26Let's start with the problem.
- 22:28The problem is, but you're uncertain what to do next.
- 22:31Let's just, let's just put that as our placeholder.
- 22:34Sure.
- 22:35Now we're going to jump ahead on our sheet.
- 22:37We've got our but you're uncertain.
- 22:39Now let's write the end statement that you're going to begin this whole thing with.
- 22:44And let's just say you're going to start with, all right.
- 22:46So you are, you're trying to buy a new home and or refinance the home you're in, right?
- 22:52And what do they want?
- 22:54What does that, what does that homeowner mortgage buyer want?
- 22:59They want to feel confident that they're making the right decision.
- 23:02And why is that important to them?
- 23:06Wow.
- 23:07That's good.
- 23:08Why is that important to them?
- 23:10So that they don't lose money so that they are, you know, investing in their dream
- 23:17home, right?
- 23:18I mean, it's obviously situational a little bit, but they want to make sure they're making
- 23:24the right decision.
- 23:25They want to feel confident about the right decision.
- 23:27So you want to buy a home, but you're confused about is now the right time, right?
- 23:32Or something like that.
- 23:34Yeah.
- 23:35And that's the funny thing is the emotion of buying a home.
- 23:38That's always the right time when you're fired up, right?
- 23:40To buy a home.
- 23:41That emotion doesn't, the motion knows no time.
- 23:45But now the logic comes in and the question is, I don't want to be foolish.
- 23:49Is this actually the right time, you know?
- 23:51And I like that idea about being foolish because now we're playing to the emotion of what
- 23:56people are looking for.
- 23:57They're ultimately looking for the best finance and making the best financial decision
- 24:00for them and their family, right?
- 24:03That's it.
- 24:04If they, and if they can find the right mortgage lender, then they can be confident moving
- 24:12on with their sale.
- 24:14But times are so uncertain right now because of the volatility of the interest rate, climbs,
- 24:22and the fear of looking foolish by acting, you know, rashly, therefore we can help you.
- 24:31Maybe it's not even buy that new home.
- 24:33Therefore, we can help you come to the realization if this is the right time for you now or
- 24:40not through our proven programs, that way your financial position in the market right
- 24:46now and what the market is doing, you know, give us a call.
- 24:49So maybe it's not even you're going for the kill and trying to sell a mortgage in that.
- 24:54You're just trying to sell confidence in yourself.
- 24:56Let's come in and let's talk and let's together determine if now is the right time for
- 25:01you or not.
- 25:02Yeah, I like that.
- 25:03And I know I've read that in your book about examples of a process, for example, right?
- 25:07If you have a process, then speak to that.
- 25:10Therefore, right, you know, I don't know how to articulate, this is really hard on the
- 25:14fly, but I do think that like I'm thinking in my industry, people use certain softwares
- 25:18or presentation platforms to take the complex and make it simple to understand, meaning
- 25:25which loan program is right for me and how does this affect the next 5, 10, 20 years of
- 25:29my financial future and things like that.
- 25:32So and if people have a process that they can help walk those people through, then that's
- 25:37the goal.
- 25:38They'll feel more confident about making an informed decision.
- 25:40Yeah.
- 25:41You know, and maybe even have this platform or this process, very similar to what everybody
- 25:45else has, but you rebranded a little bit.
- 25:48Maybe it's something and I'm completely winging this now.
- 25:51I do not know your industry.
- 25:52I'm the forum guy here.
- 25:54You're the content expert.
- 25:55But maybe what I might look at is taking them through a process and rename that process.
- 26:01Maybe it's the cost of emotion versus finance.
- 26:05You know, so you write down on one side of the ledger emotionally, why do you want this
- 26:09home?
- 26:10What is, what makes it the ideal residence for you?
- 26:14So now you're definitely into the heart, you know, you're in the creative part of it.
- 26:18And then you jump over the right part of that ledger and say, all right, now let's take
- 26:22a look at the finances of this.
- 26:24And once we get to the bottom of this, let's weigh the investment in emotion and the
- 26:31outcome, you know, the return on emotion and the return on investment.
- 26:36And maybe there you can find a multiplier that makes sense.
- 26:39I don't even know if multiplier is quite the right word, but an answer that can kind
- 26:44of index and help people balance this emotion of buying his value.
- 26:49I want to buy this now, even though it might cost me a little more than I need versus
- 26:54the reality.
- 26:55Maybe you don't want to buy that right now.
- 26:57Maybe you need to park that emotion or let's put your fears aside because it actually
- 27:03does make sense for you to buy that right now through our lending program and so forth.
- 27:07Kind of something I look at, but find a way to brand it so that that process does have
- 27:13a position in a person's mind.
- 27:16It becomes more tangible that way.
- 27:18Yeah.
- 27:19I know in one provider, I'll give a shout out to my buddy Dave Savage at the mortgage
- 27:25coach, one of the examples of a process, he calls it a total cost analysis.
- 27:31And then there's like a rent versus zone analysis, a cost of waiting analysis, right?
- 27:35So those are examples.
- 27:36I like that.
- 27:37Yeah.
- 27:38Yeah.
- 27:39For all our mortgage coach fans out there, if you're using that software, start using it
- 27:42and applying the ABT to because that is a process and it does get to the therefore, which
- 27:48is at the end, what we want is people feeling confident about making a choice, making
- 27:54a decision.
- 27:55Being a sore no.
- 27:56Yeah.
- 27:57You know, it comes down to that singular narrative is what you're looking for too when
- 28:01you're talking about this stuff.
- 28:02Quite often we get caught up in trying to offer two or three solutions all at one time,
- 28:06which leads to two or three narratives all at one time and we lose our audience.
- 28:10The ABT gets you totally focused so in this case, it's about confidence.
- 28:14Nothing in this story makes sense except in the light of confidence.
- 28:18You love this home and want to have confidence that you're buying at the right time, but
- 28:23you're uncertain.
- 28:24So the lack of, you know, the villain here is now uncertainty.
- 28:28You're uncertain.
- 28:30Therefore, let us help you find the peace of mind or another way of saying confidence
- 28:34through our process to do this.
- 28:37So it's all about confidence, uncertainty, peace of mind wrapped in there and then here's
- 28:42how you're going to do that for them.
- 28:44You've kept it to one singular narrative and that is finding the confidence in your
- 28:48decision whether you're going to buy it or whether you're not going to buy it.
- 28:51That's really what we're talking about in this particular instance.
- 28:54You can do one purely on finances.
- 28:57It's all about the money and so now it's a financial ABT.
- 29:01So you rewrite these depending on who your audience is, how well you know them and what
- 29:08is the number one biggest problem you are helping them overcome.
- 29:13Yep.
- 29:14I love that.
- 29:15Speaking of problem, I've been doing a little work in studying recently about brand, right?
- 29:22And you obviously have a lot of experience with brand.
- 29:24Do you think I went through this exercise recently where the suggestion of the exercise
- 29:29was to get your problem that you solve down to a one word problem for sake of clarity?
- 29:36Do you think that's a good process to go through?
- 29:38Whenever you can get anything down to one word for sake of clarity, yes, I'm all about
- 29:42it.
- 29:43That's why we talk about that.
- 29:44We call it the dojanski statement.
- 29:47It's like, what's that one word?
- 29:49What's that one thing we're really solving for here?
- 29:52I was just working with the guy yesterday that works in compliance training for large
- 29:56companies, you know, compliance and so forth.
- 29:59And we landed at this idea of it's about connection.
- 30:02It's about if you are losing value in a company because of fraud because of people not following
- 30:09beliefs and values of people just not doing it the right way means they are disconnected
- 30:13from the reality of this company and how you are here to not only build value, but then
- 30:19protect that value.
- 30:21And so we went through a lot of different things because it's kind of a complex message.
- 30:26And we really arrived at this idea of it's about connection.
- 30:29If you're if you're people are disconnected from how we do business, we are going to not
- 30:33protect the value we're creating.
- 30:35In a lot of cases, maybe even set us up for being liable in areas, we are going to take
- 30:39you through this training, connect you with this streamlined training that will connect
- 30:43you with these compliance, you know, and risk obligations and rules so that you can, you
- 30:48know, maintain the value of a company.
- 30:51We boil it down on that one word.
- 30:52So whenever you can boil it down to what is it all about, that one word, that's what you're
- 30:58trying to do.
- 30:59Yeah.
- 31:00Well, I think and I'm looking through your book here and we'll obviously talk about your
- 31:03resources in a moment and put links to all that stuff.
- 31:06But I think one of the big problems in our industry, mortgage specifically is that people
- 31:12have been conditioned to approach a mortgage professional with the context of rate.
- 31:17What's your rate, right?
- 31:18And so and a lot of people, you know, have that need your reaction to respond about a question
- 31:23around rates or whatnot.
- 31:25And that's why I like the fact that, you know, when I came across you, you've got this,
- 31:29by the way, very simple and easy to read book for salespeople who might have a short
- 31:33attention span, is if you do follow the formula and then it's really interesting what happens
- 31:40is when you start applying this and sitting down and filling in those blanks on the ABT,
- 31:44again, to your point about who you specifically are you speaking to, but I think it can be
- 31:48really powerful because we in a place where there's a commodity, right, you know this
- 31:53very well, is we people come in, you've obviously worked with this idea of frame, framing,
- 31:58right?
- 31:59People come in frame.
- 32:00And what the ABT does is help change or set the frame you want, right?
- 32:04Yeah.
- 32:05Exactly.
- 32:06It frames.
- 32:07You name it and you claim this problem that you were going to help solve for.
- 32:12And Jeff, when you're talking about, you know, people show up with rates, well, what
- 32:15are they doing?
- 32:16You're stuck in commodity, the primordial muck of being commoditized.
- 32:21If you are going to compete on rate, then you're going to compete in a low cost leader
- 32:26program.
- 32:27And what are the margins in that, you know, and now rates are really important.
- 32:31But if you are trying to get a little bit more for your service and be worth it, then
- 32:36you've got to tell a story of place it in context, what it is you deliver for your customers
- 32:41above and beyond good competitive rates of what are they getting from you?
- 32:46That's the trickiest thing about your business is it's a commoditized business.
- 32:49Right.
- 32:50But that's an ABT right there, right?
- 32:52I'm just looking at the works you see here.
- 32:54You want the lowest rate for your mortgage, right?
- 32:56For example, opening station and right to get the best loan for your situation, your
- 33:01future, blah, blah, blah.
- 33:02But there's a lot of noise and confusion out there and, you know, you don't know what
- 33:07choice to make, right?
- 33:08Therefore, right?
- 33:09We have this proven process, yet, yet, yet, yet, yet.
- 33:12Exactly.
- 33:13Yeah.
- 33:14That goes beyond just the lowest rate or the most competitive rate, but actually puts you
- 33:18in a financial package that honors your position in the world.
- 33:22I don't know.
- 33:23I'm just kind of winging it here, but yeah, you've got to expound on that, bring it into
- 33:26more context.
- 33:27Well, the listeners, that's a good amount for them to chew on to get started for sure.
- 33:32All right.
- 33:33I had a question four years.
- 33:34I was working through this with the word, therefore, I noticed some of the ABTs don't always
- 33:39have the word, therefore, so what's the coaching around that?
- 33:43Well, all you got to think about here is that these words are replaceable or you don't
- 33:49even need to use them.
- 33:50They're really meant to be sort of buoys to get you through setup, problem resolution,
- 33:55statement of agreement with the end, but here's the contradiction to that agreement, and
- 34:00therefore, here's the consequence of all that.
- 34:02That's kind of the, as much theory as you need to know about it.
- 34:06A lot of times, they're implied.
- 34:07Now, let's just take a look.
- 34:09Let me give you an example of, you can, let me ask you, Jeff, when you think of nursery
- 34:14rhymes, I'm going to totally throw you a curve.
- 34:18When I say nursery rhyme, what's the first nursery rhyme that pops to your mind?
- 34:22There's no right or wrong answer here.
- 34:24Which one pops into your head?
- 34:25Mary head a little lamb.
- 34:27Would you, can you recite that for us?
- 34:30Mary head a little lamb whose fleece was white as snow, that's all I got.
- 34:35And everywhere that Mary went, the lamb was sure to go.
- 34:37There you go.
- 34:38There it is.
- 34:39But then went, so there's your end statement, right?
- 34:42But then one day Mary went to school and something, something, something, therefore, here's
- 34:46what happens.
- 34:47And I don't remember.
- 34:48Let's, let's do one that I know, top of my head, so use the example all the time.
- 34:54Little Miss Muffet sat on a tuffet eating her curds in way.
- 34:59Then what happened?
- 35:00Long came a spider sat down beside her and frightened Miss Muffet away.
- 35:05So every nursery rhyme that is memorable is in the ABT format.
- 35:10Now the argument is, Park, there was no and but or therefore in Little Miss Muffet,
- 35:14but it was all implied.
- 35:15Was it not?
- 35:16Little Miss Muffet sat on her tuffet and she was eating her curds in way.
- 35:21Statement of agreement.
- 35:22Set up the act.
- 35:23Here's the complication.
- 35:25But along came a spider who sat down beside her, our limbic cause effect pattern seeking
- 35:30brain is now begging, what happened next?
- 35:34Therefore statement of agreement, therefore frightened Little Miss Muffet away.
- 35:39Set up problem resolution.
- 35:40So when you write these, you can use an and you don't even have to use an and sometimes
- 35:46I'll pull those out, but it's just their audience, what do they want and why is that important
- 35:52to them cause an effect.
- 35:54But we really recommend you use but you can use yet, you can use however you can use
- 35:59other words, but we have learned that the word but is the number one trigger word in
- 36:05the English language that is suggesting a change in direction of a story.
- 36:11We're going down here, but we got this problem.
- 36:14Now your brain is going, oh my god, what do we do about that?
- 36:17And then the therefore comes in quite often you'll use it, therefore out more colloquially
- 36:22people will say so, so do this, you know, or it's just simply implied.
- 36:27It's totally up to the writer, but what I really coach and recommend everyone watching
- 36:31this is when you start writing your first ABTs, use them and, but therefore put them
- 36:36there, write them in no matter how stupid it feels, your message will already be stronger
- 36:42than how you originally had it.
- 36:44Then you can always go in and tweak it.
- 36:47The one other thing I'd say on that, Jeff is people that I train on this and I hear
- 36:51this a lot.
- 36:52Well, gee park, it seems so stupid, won't my readers, won't my audiences know what I'm
- 36:58doing?
- 36:59They said no, they don't know it because they haven't learned the magic that you have
- 37:04that cast this spell that bewitches them on it.
- 37:07So use it.
- 37:09Nobody knows what you're doing.
- 37:10It'll become very obvious to you.
- 37:12The one last thing I'll say and you said earlier is that the ABT, the most confounding
- 37:17thing about it is it looks so simple and, but therefore, and it's, it's short, sweet
- 37:25and compelling, but it's tricky.
- 37:29So you got to practice them day in and day out, every day write an email with an ABT and
- 37:35it put them in your sales presentations, put them in your write-ups, use them over and
- 37:39over again and look for them in the wild.
- 37:42Now that you know about it, you're going to see them everywhere.
- 37:44How do you know when you have a good one?
- 37:47You feel it, really.
- 37:48I mean, when you read it, it's like, whoa, and I see this all the time.
- 37:52When I'm working with someone, I will take like a landing page that they've got a sales
- 37:55page.
- 37:56And I'll say, here's what you've currently have written.
- 37:58Let's ABT fight.
- 37:59Then I'll rewrite it as an ABT and you'll literally viscerally in the room.
- 38:03People go, wow, that's so much better.
- 38:06So when you get it down, you just know it from that writer and sometimes you got to write
- 38:10them and rewrite them and rewrite them.
- 38:12But man, once they're in there, you just know it.
- 38:14You just feel it.
- 38:15If you've seen people, now it makes sense on a sales page, landing page website, whatever
- 38:19where you're trying to, and by the way, an ABT could also be called a brand positioning
- 38:24statement, right?
- 38:25Well, you would use it to build a brand positioning statement.
- 38:28Yeah, you could also use it to build a unique value proposition.
- 38:33This framework really under is the chassis for all of that stuff.
- 38:38People will just semantically call a brand positioning statement.
- 38:42One thing, unique value proposition is usually much more of a shorter, more impactful line.
- 38:48I use the ABTs to help you arrive at all that stuff.
- 38:51Have you ever seen an ABT used in like a bio, LinkedIn bio, or more people are using them
- 38:58now than ever?
- 38:59The nice thing about that is a LinkedIn bio is all about me and all about you, right?
- 39:04We tend to just be completely focused.
- 39:07But if you write an ABT-ized LinkedIn bio, it makes you think of your audience.
- 39:12So you even start with your audience.
- 39:14What are you looking for?
- 39:15Why is that important to you?
- 39:16You don't currently have because of this.
- 39:18Therefore, Park Howell is here is the world's most industrial storyteller.
- 39:22And then the therefore is your bio, but you're actually setting up that bio by writing it
- 39:27from your reader's point of view.
- 39:29Why do they, why should they give a crap about reading your bio?
- 39:32Well, you got to make them give that crap up top in your first two sentences.
- 39:36That's that sentence of agreement where they want, why is it important to them?
- 39:40But here's the pain point, why don't they currently have it?
- 39:43Therefore, your bio is going to show them how you can help them get it.
- 39:47Interesting.
- 39:48And that's a good exercise to go through as well because you're capped, I don't know what
- 39:51it is on Instagram, but I'm sure there's a maxed limit.
- 39:55And that's a good exercise to build your muscles of brevity, you know?
- 39:58Or practice it on Twitter.
- 39:59Twitter is a fantastic place for ABTs.
- 40:02That's true.
- 40:03You know, Instagram, all of those.
- 40:05Oh, for sure.
- 40:06I think, yeah, like you ought to just also, by the way, that's what I thought of too.
- 40:09You can practice with ABTs with just your posts.
- 40:12Oh, yeah, yeah, you use it everywhere.
- 40:15I mean, absolutely everywhere.
- 40:16Here's one of the best places to use it.
- 40:19Say you work in a big company and you got an idea for something new initiative
- 40:24or something you really want to have done, but you got to get your boss to buy into it.
- 40:28The boss has been putting you off for three weeks, finally,
- 40:31relents and says, she says, yeah, come on in park.
- 40:34You got five minutes.
- 40:36Well, you get your act together.
- 40:37You walk into that room.
- 40:39You sit down and you say, hi, Cheryl.
- 40:41You know, great to be here.
- 40:42Boom, you roll out an ABT.
- 40:44You know, I know that from her perspective, the camaraderie of your team is like job number one.
- 40:51And Cheryl, if we can get people speaking the same story, you know, language around here,
- 40:56then we can build that camaraderie, which will lead to greater sales.
- 41:00But right now, we are completely disconnected because we don't have a framework to work from.
- 41:05Therefore, I believe we can pull our team together and 10X our sales by teaching them the power of story
- 41:12and sharing a framework or two to help them get in.
- 41:15Now, so I kind of rammed through that, but maybe I came in and I say that in under 15 seconds.
- 41:20Now I got Cheryl leaning in and she goes, gosh, you know, I think maybe you're right.
- 41:24Can you give me, for instance, and then I lead into the five primal elements of a short story.
- 41:29So I spend the next minute or less talking about an individual,
- 41:34what happened within the company, how miscommunication led to disaster and how we could overcome it by doing this, this, this.
- 41:42I have now used two frameworks on my boss and under 90 seconds to hook her limbic brain,
- 41:50getting her leaning in and then to illustrate my business point without ever making an opinion or assertion
- 41:56because I'm just showing it in real life.
- 41:59And now next thing, you know, she says, close the door.
- 42:01We need more time on this in your five minute meeting is now 30 minutes because you've hooked her and she's interested in and what are you going to do about this?
- 42:10If not, if you still only get that five minute window, you've been able to use two really powerful frameworks on her to hook her to become memorable.
- 42:19So she can picture what the problem is and know that she's got to get you back in here to help find a solution.
- 42:25Another great example of how you use these story frameworks to hack through the noise and hook the hearts of your audience, like I said earlier.
- 42:32Awesome. And let's, let's not leave out, of course, probably one of the best ABTs of all time that you feature in your book.
- 42:39And I'm talking about, of course, Carly Ray-Jepson, right?
- 42:45Oh, yeah. Can you sing that for us?
- 42:47I'm not going to sing it, but where is it right here? Where, where does she open up with? Hey, I just met you.
- 42:53This is crazy, but here's my number. So call me maybe the chorus of call me maybe Jeff.
- 43:00How many views does call me maybe have on YouTube?
- 43:04At last count, I have what is it? A billion, something like that?
- 43:071.3 billion. And I mean, it's probably higher than that. Now, now, is it the all time best song ever?
- 43:14Of course, now, is it incredibly powerful because they use the ABT in the chorus?
- 43:20Might be. It's pretty hooky, you know, as she's kind of a one hit wonderish, at least in my world.
- 43:26There you have it. And did they know they were using the ABT? No, they're just good, intuitive songwriters, storytellers.
- 43:34They know the power, a set of problem, resolution. And then they did it in what four lines?
- 43:41That's interesting. But back to what we opened up with with Hollywood, for example, some of the greatest storytellers ever, they know they're using
- 43:49a formula like this.
- 43:50Yeah, they didn't use to. I mean, there's a guy by name Christopher Vogler, who is the guy.
- 43:55He was a story script coach at Disney. And he was looking at Disney scripts in early 80s.
- 44:02And he came across Joseph Campbell's work and he started looking at the hero's journey.
- 44:07And then he started looking at Disney scripts. And he goes, oh my God, every one of our hit movies
- 44:13follows this exact same pattern. And these writers didn't even know they were doing it.
- 44:19It's this natural archetype for communication for storytelling that resides in all of our homo sapiens brains.
- 44:26He wrote an amazing book called The Writers Journey. I think it's in his fourth or fifth edition now.
- 44:32If you really want to understand the hero's journey and how it shows up in Hollywood and in our life and have a really fun,
- 44:39interesting read while you're at it, get Christopher Vogler's writer's journey.
- 44:45So he you could compare and I love doing this.
- 44:49You take the Wizard of Oz that I had mentioned earlier and you overlay it with Star Wars.
- 44:55No one knew of the hero's journey when Wizard of Oz was written and produced.
- 44:59Well, George Lucas absolutely followed the hero's journey when he created Star Wars.
- 45:05You can overlay those movies. It's the exact same story.
- 45:09Think about Dorothy grew up in the, you know, the planes of on a Texas in Kansas.
- 45:16Where did Luke grow up on those same planes of farmland on Tatooine?
- 45:22They both long to get out of the small town right and go and seek their adventure.
- 45:28Dorothy happened to be whisked away by a tornado.
- 45:32What was Luke whisked away on a land speeder?
- 45:36I think is that what they call it and the first place he ended up was in Mos Eisley,
- 45:42which was the equivalent to Oz.
- 45:43Remember all those crazy characters in there and the story continues.
- 45:48Well, here the, what am I trying to say, Dorothy and the Wizard of Oz,
- 45:56they didn't write that based on the hero's journey because they didn't know about the hero's journey back then.
- 46:00Campbell hadn't revealed it yet yet.
- 46:03It was just a pattern of story that naturally came out.
- 46:06Star Wars was very much written on that exact same pattern and based off of the hero's journey and they overlay beautifully.
- 46:12That was one of my aha moments when I was looking at this and said,
- 46:16if that works in Hollywood, why in the world do we not use that same formula in business?
- 46:21And it works. We're exceptionally well. It's just hard.
- 46:26Well, sure, but anything worth doing usually starts out.
- 46:29So yeah, for you listeners, think about how you can apply these lessons from today.
- 46:33Start working on your abt's for the first moment you talk to somebody, right?
- 46:37Because you want to set the frame, you want to bail a kind of control or adjust what their perception is.
- 46:42And then when you're meeting with your partners, your real estate agents and, you know,
- 46:45it's the commodity thing we're fighting against all the time.
- 46:48So how are you differentiating yourself with the tool like this?
- 46:51So before we wrap up, let's speaking of tools.
- 46:53Let's talk about how they can get more access to you, Park.
- 46:56Where do we want to send them to learn more about what you're doing?
- 46:59Well, come on over to businessofstory.com.
- 47:03And I've got two short online courses.
- 47:06You can take one of them or you can take both of them.
- 47:08One of them, abt's for selling is under 18 minutes long, three videos by me that takes you through.
- 47:16How do you use abt's in becoming a more persuasive and confident communicator?
- 47:20And then the other one is the abt's of branding.
- 47:23So if you want to really understand your brand better, how do you use the abt as Jeff said earlier,
- 47:28to understand your position, the marketplace and even arrive at that unique value proposition?
- 47:33You can find both of those courses on my website, businessofstory.com, forward slash abt.
- 47:42That easy.
- 47:43Yeah, thank you.
- 47:44I'll definitely put links in the show notes.
- 47:45And of course, also a link to your podcast, which is great.
- 47:48I was listening to that before this arc or any of you here today.
- 47:51So I'll put a link to that.
- 47:52But that podcast is the business of story available wherever fine podcasts are coming up on our seventh year anniversary.
- 48:01Got a new show every Monday for you.
- 48:03And it's all about helping listeners excel through the stories they tell.
- 48:08Awesome.
- 48:08So definitely go check it out because there's tons of resources.
- 48:11You have a blog.
- 48:11You're just like, I don't know how you you put out a lot of stuff.
- 48:14So I don't either.
- 48:15That's why I just had that brain fart right there when I was like, ah, where was I?
- 48:18I think I'm low on sugar now because I've been doing this all day long.
- 48:22All right.
- 48:23Well, once again, Park, wonderful to connect with you.
- 48:24I know we're going to be reconnecting in the coming weeks and months because I want to definitely go deeper on this.
- 48:28So once again, thank you.
- 48:30My pleasure, Jeff.
- 48:31Thank you.
- 48:32Hey, so I hope you enjoyed that episode and special guest.
- 48:35Most importantly, always remember to never leave the scene of an idea without putting it into action.
- 48:42So whenever the one big idea, one takeaway is from this episode, please make sure you create a plan
- 48:48around that, write it down, put a reminder in your calendar for you, follow through and get some of the resources that were shared
- 48:54and just make sure to take action so you can build momentum on your ideas.
- 48:59And then of course, if you're interested in more agent referrals and less time with less struggle and building a platform that attracts agents to you and helps you find the best agents in your local area that are actually doing the business and generating referrals on demand.
- 49:15Just like Liz Reyes LaFour has does is she recently hosted a class and had 39 agents registered for her class, 15 agents attended.
- 49:24Immediately following the class, she got three new purchase loan leads and scheduled two appointments immediately after the class.
- 49:32That's just within less than 24 hours of the class.
- 49:34If you want results like that for yourself, make sure to check out the majoring classes and mortgage marketing pro membership over at mortgage marketing.pro
- 49:43For more information and I'll see you on the next one.
- 49:46Bye for now.
- 49:54Hey guys, what's up real quick?
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