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EP 40 | Kinks, Quirks, and Digital Dilemmas by the Fire · Around the Kinky Kampfire Podcast

0:57
Speaker 2: We were just chatting away, but now we are officially here.
1:00
Speaker 2: Y'all have no idea what I'm talking about.
1:02
Speaker 2: Just take my word for it.
1:03
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's safer that way.
1:05
Speaker 1: This is.
1:06
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got a lot of that too.
1:07
Speaker 2: All those different things.
1:08
Speaker 2: Not everything can be recorded, but we have opinions.
1:11
Speaker 2: You don't have to agree with them, but you're here for this podcast which is Around the Kinky Campfire.
1:19
Speaker 2: I knew you were expecting me to say something.
1:21
Speaker 1: I was really expecting you to screw it up on purpose.
1:23
Speaker 1: I was going to do something.
1:24
Speaker 2: I'm impressed, I'll come up with something fancy.
1:26
Speaker 2: But it's the new year.
1:28
Speaker 2: We had a fill-in episode last time that we didn't know where we were going to stick in, but it got stuck in in the beginning, so you guys got just the tip at the beginning of the year.
1:37
Speaker 2: This is the official start to 2024.
1:41
Speaker 1: We are here.
1:42
Speaker 2: The last week well, partial week of January 2024.
1:46
Speaker 2: At this point in time, I should have almost done a shift, gotten ready to do a shift.
1:53
Speaker 2: I can't remember when I'm doing a shift, but right now, when you guys are hearing this, I'm on my way to the podcast convention.
2:00
Speaker 2: I had a good time, just so you know, because I'm there when you guys are listening to this, around noon on a Thursday, the first night, the first day on Thursday started starts at 10 am.
2:13
Speaker 2: Do you know if you're going before we get into the news.
2:16
Speaker 1: I'm trying to go, but I don't know that I'm going to be able to take work off to go, yeah.
2:20
Speaker 2: I screwed up.
2:21
Speaker 2: The first job I called off last month and of course you want to hear this.
2:25
Speaker 2: I haven't worked a Thursday in all of 2024 thus far and of course that's the first Thursday I work is that day.
2:32
Speaker 2: So I'll be doing greeting in the morning, when you guys are listening to this.
2:37
Speaker 2: I'll be greeting and waving people and then by the evening I'll be at the second job.
2:42
Speaker 2: There, you go and then Friday luckily I don't have to work either job and then I'll be there in the afternoon and then stuff on Saturday.
2:50
Speaker 2: So if you guys are in the Florida area or like podcasts or other podcasters, hopefully my taboo podcasters say what's up?
2:57
Speaker 2: Woo, hopefully y'all are there because we are taboo for some reason, but we are there and hopefully you come say hi, julius is there.
3:06
Speaker 2: I'll be Julius at this event.
3:09
Speaker 1: But for this episode.
3:09
Speaker 1: Go ahead and introduce yourself first, this is Rue and I am Sterling Golden.
3:14
Speaker 1: Okay.
3:16
Speaker 2: Golden Child for the beginning of the year.
3:18
Speaker 2: I'll be that.
3:19
Speaker 1: Alrighty.
3:20
Speaker 2: Yeah, I forgot what his name was.
3:21
Speaker 2: If y'all know what I'm talking about Golden Child, great movie.
3:23
Speaker 2: Eddie Murphy Was an Axel Foley, because that's a different movie.
3:27
Speaker 2: Do you have any idea what I'm talking about?
3:30
Speaker 1: I don't know which movie this is, no.
3:33
Speaker 2: He's saving a little magic baby Asian boy.
3:35
Speaker 2: It's probably one of those things where he's like from one country but he's from China, because all the Asian people look like Chinese people back in the 80s.
3:43
Speaker 2: Great movie.
3:44
Speaker 2: It's on YouTube, but anyways, sterling Golden Great movie reference.
3:49
Speaker 2: This is around Kinky Campfire.
3:51
Speaker 2: That's Campfire with a K.
3:52
Speaker 2: You get fresh episodes with me and Mrs Rue every second and fourth Thursday of the month and for now you'll hear me every once in a while on the first and third Thursday, still trying to work that in a little bit, but it's happening.
4:09
Speaker 2: We're on all major platforms Spotify, apple, amazon, yada, yada, yada.
4:15
Speaker 2: And we have business cards now we have t-shirts.
4:17
Speaker 2: So if you see us in person at a convention, I know I'll be wearing my shirt.
4:21
Speaker 2: We'll see how that goes.
4:22
Speaker 2: We're trying to not do merch, but we're trying to advertise ourselves.
4:27
Speaker 2: It'll be nice.
4:28
Speaker 2: So what we're doing here is to be able to do all the conventions.
4:31
Speaker 2: I want to go do all the conventions at least once a month, and I don't have the funds for that right now, but hopefully we'll get some kind of advertising and then they'll pay for us, and then you all will see pictures on the Instagram, which is CampfireKinksters.
4:42
Speaker 2: So come message us there and I will try to remember.
4:46
Speaker 2: I'm going to remember myself now.
4:47
Speaker 2: I'm going to talk to my future self.
4:49
Speaker 2: Julius, you're there at the podcast convention.
4:52
Speaker 1: Remember to take pictures.
4:53
Speaker 2: Remember to take pictures, and if I see you, we're taking a picture, yeah, so that'll be our.
4:59
Speaker 1: Not for Instagram or not, what I don't put face pictures out there.
5:02
Speaker 2: Okay, well, we can do chest down pictures.
5:05
Speaker 2: Can you show your boobies?
5:06
Speaker 2: Can you show your boobies?
5:08
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can show those, I'll show my boobies too, so you can do face down pictures.
5:12
Speaker 2: You'll see the bottom half, but that'll be our first picture together.
5:16
Speaker 2: There, you go, we're going to do it, okay.
5:19
Speaker 2: So it's that time.
5:22
Speaker 1: There, it is your favorite time.
5:24
Speaker 1: What are you doing to me?
5:25
Speaker 2: Your favorite time.
5:26
Speaker 1: No, it's a new year, a new leaf.
5:28
Speaker 1: We still got to love it.
5:29
Speaker 1: It's a new year, a new leaf.
5:30
Speaker 2: People love this, but do they?
5:32
Speaker 2: You want to say what you're drinking first.
5:34
Speaker 1: Well, I'm alternating between my infamous screwball peanut butter whiskey and some hot tea.
5:41
Speaker 2: Hot tea.
5:42
Speaker 1: It's cold out.
5:43
Speaker 2: I forgot what the brand was, but we're both drinking hot green tea.
5:46
Speaker 2: It's delicious.
5:46
Speaker 2: I want to see the difference.
5:50
Speaker 2: Campsters, do you guys put your tea bag in the water and then heat it up, or do you heat the water up and then put your tea bag in there?
5:57
Speaker 2: I heat the water first and then put the tea bag, give it a good four minute steep and you have left your tea bag in the water.
6:05
Speaker 2: So you heated the water with the tea bag in there.
6:08
Speaker 1: I didn't, because there's metal in it.
6:10
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, so you're steeping it, you're still steeping it.
6:13
Speaker 1: I just leave it in there.
6:13
Speaker 1: I'm not one of those devoted like serious connoisseurs of tea drinking, so I probably am doing it wrong.
6:22
Speaker 2: I like the whole 40 minute charade.
6:24
Speaker 2: I want to do a tea ceremony at some point.
6:27
Speaker 1: I know I'm all about somebody else doing it, I just don't personally do it.
6:31
Speaker 2: I think the people oh the people prepping the tea.
6:32
Speaker 2: I totally do that.
6:34
Speaker 2: But Japan, england, I want to do tea time one of these days.
6:38
Speaker 2: Get all dressed up in fancy and do that.
6:39
Speaker 2: We have those here, apparently in Florida, I didn't know, but we do.
6:42
Speaker 2: But I saw the thing on your bag is salata tea, not sponsored, but it's pretty good.
6:48
Speaker 2: There, you go, and then I am double fisting as well.
6:51
Speaker 2: Got my good old sparkling ice caffeine not sponsored.
6:55
Speaker 2: But I will do some dirty things for sparkling ice, the regular kind or the caffeine one.
7:01
Speaker 2: If they want to whore me out, I'm totally fine with that.
7:03
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, if they became a sponsor, you know what I'm sparking like.
7:07
Speaker 2: I'll suck and suck and all that different things.
7:11
Speaker 1: I'll swallow it whole.
7:12
Speaker 1: There you go.
7:13
Speaker 2: Every last drop, so it's our favorite time.
7:18
Speaker 1: It's not.
7:18
Speaker 1: We got to do it.
7:19
Speaker 1: I was really hoping it would be.
7:21
Speaker 2: No, we got to do it.
7:21
Speaker 2: It's the new year, we're going to the first one of the year, yeah, and it starts in three, two I was really hoping for a new year.
7:33
Speaker 1: I've been drinking.
7:35
Speaker 2: I don't have a lot left.
7:36
Speaker 2: I got to make it longer.
7:37
Speaker 1: New year, new us, and it's not happening.
7:39
Speaker 1: But that was just obnoxious.
7:44
Speaker 1: That's what you get, not COVID.
7:48
Speaker 2: I had to make a sip last as long as a gulp, so just a little bit more.
7:52
Speaker 2: I was choked again.
7:54
Speaker 2: I'm on board with that.
7:58
Speaker 2: Yeah, good choking.
8:00
Speaker 1: Everybody likes good choking Just don't lose anything.
8:04
Speaker 2: Eyes are watering up, choked.
8:05
Speaker 2: It was a good one, then, okay.
8:08
Speaker 2: So, that was a good 30 seconds.
8:10
Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it.
8:11
Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it, I'm going to go for it.
8:14
Speaker 2: I'm going to go for it.
8:17
Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it.
8:18
Speaker 1: I'm going to go for it, okay.
8:21
Speaker 2: Come on, come on taking these things ו ק Safety is the first thing I know easy things.
8:27
Speaker 2: You can't do that in the end.
8:31
Speaker 2: I know individuals Ok, so safety is important.
8:33
Speaker 2: If you want to try it, just work it out.
8:36
Speaker 2: Not a bad idea.
8:36
Speaker 2: It just rained a few hours.
8:38
Speaker 2: Six hours, six hours Because it's raining.
8:42
Speaker 1: I know safety is important.
8:44
Speaker 2: You're okay.
8:44
Speaker 2: You're okay.
8:47
Speaker 2: So, yeah, we're here trying to make it not taboo and the untaboo and all that yada, yada, yada and for, specifically, sterling Golden got an episode for y'all.
8:58
Speaker 2: So I'm going to do a little recap of the last year and my page keeps reloading on me.
9:04
Speaker 2: So what we're going to do is we're going to do a lot of the pop culture trends or events for last year.
9:12
Speaker 2: This is going to be like a recap of 2023.
9:14
Speaker 2: So we're going to start broad and then go personally towards the end and I got a little little little quiz here for Ms Rue for some of the things that happened last year and wondering if y'all know it as well.
9:27
Speaker 2: But here we go.
9:28
Speaker 2: So these are going to be vanilla, the vanilla stuff, major stuff.
9:31
Speaker 2: Do you follow the sports ball?
9:33
Speaker 2: I do.
9:34
Speaker 1: I do follow sports, did you?
9:35
Speaker 2: see the Daymar Hamlin, the guy that collapsed a year ago now on the field.
9:40
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was crazy.
9:41
Speaker 2: So, if y'all don't know, buffalo Bills safety collapsed on the field while playing the football game.
9:47
Speaker 1: They saved his life.
9:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was crazy.
9:49
Speaker 2: I watched the replay and I don't know if I caught it live or not, but yeah, just walking away, and they did.
9:55
Speaker 1: they did an amazing job of taking care of him, yeah that was for y'all sports ball fans.
9:59
Speaker 2: That was a thing to see on on live TV, but that was great.
10:03
Speaker 2: Oh, oh, okay.
10:06
Speaker 2: So now we're talking about entertainment specifically.
10:09
Speaker 2: Do you know who Bruce Willis is?
10:12
Speaker 1: Yes.
10:12
Speaker 2: Okay, do you know he had dementia.
10:16
Speaker 1: Yes.
10:17
Speaker 2: Do you know that he lost his voice?
10:18
Speaker 1: Yes.
10:19
Speaker 2: Do you know?
10:20
Speaker 2: They're trying to make him AI now.
10:22
Speaker 1: No.
10:23
Speaker 2: Okay, there we go.
10:24
Speaker 2: We got there.
10:25
Speaker 2: So y'all don't know who Bruce Willis is.
10:28
Speaker 2: You might have heard a little Christmas movie called Die Hard, and then the other sequels is two, three, four, five, six, seven eight, I don't even know now.
10:38
Speaker 2: And he did a lot of movies on Netflix.
10:41
Speaker 2: I don't know you even saw any of those, but there's like 50 billion Netflix movies that he did with a bunch of people ever since Die Hard pretty much and I enjoy that as well.
10:50
Speaker 2: But he started losing his voice and a lot of people don't know that AI they're trying to bring people back so he had like to talk and Michael Jackson, prince and all those people.
10:59
Speaker 2: But Bruce Willis is actually signing a contract to allow people to make an AI recreation of him when he started losing his voice and then also when he started the dementia.
11:09
Speaker 2: I see you have thoughts about that.
11:12
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm good.
11:15
Speaker 2: So previously people were getting their AI recreation of them, whether dead or alive, whether they wanted to or not.
11:23
Speaker 2: Now Bruce Willis is actually signed in a contract so they can do this voluntarily because he knew he was having ailments.
11:28
Speaker 2: So Any thoughts of that at all?
11:32
Speaker 1: Well, I mean to what point?
11:33
Speaker 1: Like why?
11:35
Speaker 2: So they can still put him in movies.
11:37
Speaker 2: I'm for it if it's voluntarily.
11:40
Speaker 1: No.
11:40
Speaker 2: Yeah.
11:42
Speaker 1: No, I mean it's, I don't know.
11:46
Speaker 1: To me there's nuances about people that only the people can do Correct, and so I would rather relish and enjoy the nuances of the person as themselves than somebody else's interpretation of what they would have done or the facial reactions or anything like that.
12:11
Speaker 1: Like I don't care who tries to copy Robin Williams.
12:15
Speaker 1: Nobody will ever be as good as Robin Williams was being Robin Williams.
12:22
Speaker 1: So, like to AI somebody, you can put all the data in and you can do all the research and you can put as much information in and all that, but ultimately you're never gonna get the true sense of that person through that, and so I would rather appreciate and enjoy the people for who they were than to perpetuate, like for 20, 30 years from now, what could become a false narrative, because the people who did know him in person are eventually gonna die out.
12:55
Speaker 1: And then who's there to check anybody?
12:57
Speaker 1: So you could create a false representation of a person because there's nobody there to check you.
13:06
Speaker 2: So you wouldn't even be fine with a copy of the person.
14:32
Speaker 1: No, everybody knows it's not real, but it's like it's a copy.
14:34
Speaker 1: No, there's no need.
14:35
Speaker 1: I don't know.
14:37
Speaker 1: There's no need.
14:38
Speaker 1: I mean, we're not here.
14:42
Speaker 1: That's not the whole reason why we're here.
14:45
Speaker 1: Do we all wanna be remembered?
14:47
Speaker 1: Yes, do we wanna be?
14:49
Speaker 1: Do we some people I'm sure wanna be duplicated?
14:52
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.
14:54
Speaker 1: You know how pissed off it would be if I found out that somebody AI'd me and then got it wrong.
14:59
Speaker 1: Like then, now what are people gonna remember?
15:03
Speaker 1: You as a person or the wrong interpretation of you?
15:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's weird, and then-.
15:09
Speaker 1: So no, I'm good with people being who they are.
15:12
Speaker 1: Everybody just needs to leave everybody alone.
15:14
Speaker 1: Let people be who they are.
15:18
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm on the fence about it, but I'm still mostly support.
15:20
Speaker 2: If he wants to do it.
15:22
Speaker 2: It's like, okay, I would watch the movie, cause I know in Star Wars especially, they have a lot of characters that have died and they brought them back and it's like it was cool to the story to add them in.
15:34
Speaker 1: There there's a lot of Well, I mean it's always cool when you see, like, how many concerts have we seen where people have done duets with people who have passed?
15:43
Speaker 1: So they put their performances and they perform next to it.
15:46
Speaker 1: But that's not a computer trying to pretend like they're them.
15:51
Speaker 1: That was actually them performing.
15:53
Speaker 2: Oh, they're pre-recording.
15:55
Speaker 1: Right, it's a pre-recorded, so they dueted with a pre-recording, not somebody trying to imitate them.
16:02
Speaker 1: To me, that's a distinct difference.
16:04
Speaker 1: You still got the essence.
16:06
Speaker 1: You still got all of the little nuances and all of the little characteristics of that person through that, because it was actually them.
16:14
Speaker 1: What if they get it wrong?
16:17
Speaker 1: What if they miss something?
16:18
Speaker 1: What if there's data that the AI like?
16:21
Speaker 1: What if there is all the data in the world put into this AI?
16:25
Speaker 1: Right, and then a situation comes up or something comes up where there isn't a specific incident where they can pull that from.
16:34
Speaker 1: So they're pulling from everything around it and now assuming Well, based on all of the thing based on all this data, they would have done this.
16:42
Speaker 2: They fill in the gaps.
16:43
Speaker 1: But what if they wouldn't have?
16:44
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and so now, people's memories of this person could forever be skewed in a miss memory of this person, all because an artificial intelligence assumed that, based off the data, this is what the person would have said or done or acted like.
17:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, and when you talk about like entertainment purposes, I'm totally fine with that if the person volunteers.
17:11
Speaker 2: But now they're starting to do more real life things with AI.
17:14
Speaker 2: There's another story I heard about where somebody's child died and they're trying to make like an AI model of it so they can like keep them, and it's like that's a little far.
17:26
Speaker 1: Well, what's far to one person isn't far to another.
17:28
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of.
17:29
Speaker 1: It's all personal.
17:30
Speaker 1: I can understand why he's willing to sign and do it.
17:33
Speaker 1: He's a creative guy, he's an amazing actor and I'm sure he would love to see what happens Like what can you do with it?
17:41
Speaker 1: So here I'm signing a contract to go forth and do it.
17:45
Speaker 1: But once you do that, aren't you signing away your rights to whatever they do it to?
17:51
Speaker 2: Yep, and it's no longer your craft, it's creative outlet or something.
17:56
Speaker 1: It's no longer your craft.
17:58
Speaker 1: That'd be like I don't know.
18:00
Speaker 1: It'd be like Picasso signing over their style to an AI painter.
18:03
Speaker 1: So a computer paints a Picasso paints an original painting in a Picasso style using a Picasso AI.
18:12
Speaker 1: Is it really a Picasso or is it AI's?
18:14
Speaker 1: What's the difference between that and acting in a craft?
18:19
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're starting to put that in now and then, especially like with the award shows, there's like percentages of how much AI you use to write your script, or whatever.
18:27
Speaker 1: And so my thing is is I would rather deal with the original and everything evolving around the original and appreciate the nuances, the good, the bad, the ugly of the original than a computer's interpretation of what that person would be like.
18:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then, to bring it back to our side of things, there's a so people know about like online chat thing with streamers and only fans and all that stuff.
19:03
Speaker 2: There they're trying to do AI versions of this now.
19:06
Speaker 2: So people knowingly chat and pay money to speak to AI cam models.
19:12
Speaker 2: People know this and they're willing to do it now.
19:17
Speaker 1: So could you what's the difference between that and somebody buying a sex doll?
19:20
Speaker 1: Yeah, sexually, yeah that type of thing I mean there's no people pay thousands and thousands of dollars for a sex doll that interacts with them.
19:29
Speaker 1: So wild to me.
19:30
Speaker 2: So why Could you imagine like having an AI dom Pro?
19:34
Speaker 1: dom.
19:35
Speaker 1: Well, I mean-.
19:36
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts about that?
19:38
Speaker 1: An AI dom.
19:38
Speaker 1: I mean to each their own.
19:40
Speaker 1: To each their own, I mean I hope they do the research on who they're basing it off of.
19:44
Speaker 1: So I'd be curious to know who they're basing it off of If the AI for that dom, for that FIM dom, is porn based.
19:54
Speaker 2: Well, I mean yeah, what if they did that with Ms Rue, like you had an?
19:57
Speaker 1: AI version I never agree to that.
19:59
Speaker 2: No, somebody paid you a contract, we just wanna copy your essence.
20:03
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta do anything except for come in and update it every now and then Because the minute cause I would follow that shit in the minute that they did something I don't agree with or I wouldn't have done, I'd be pissed.
20:12
Speaker 1: Yeah, so and I'm not getting the revenue off of it.
20:16
Speaker 2: No, no no, you get a revenue every month.
20:18
Speaker 2: You get a monthly revenue as long as the service is being used, and then you have creative license to edit it, and then but it but that's not what that is.
20:26
Speaker 2: That's not what?
20:29
Speaker 1: like you, you're saying that they pay me for my whatever, essence, whatever, but that's not what people interact with.
20:39
Speaker 1: People interact with whatever the AI interprets from that.
20:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all the information of your online presence, Right?
20:46
Speaker 1: but you can't cover every question.
20:48
Speaker 2: a submissive would ask you you can't cover that's the whole point of the AI, all of that so that AI is going to make assumptions about me?
20:56
Speaker 1: And then I find out about those assumptions that they don't line up with me, I'm going to be pissed.
21:00
Speaker 2: Well, it's not really assumption.
21:01
Speaker 2: It's going to take the collected knowledge that it has and fill in the gaps.
21:04
Speaker 1: It's an assumption.
21:06
Speaker 1: It's an assumption based on this event.
21:09
Speaker 1: This event, this event, this data all roads lead to.
21:14
Speaker 1: Statistically, she would say this or act like this.
21:17
Speaker 1: Okay, well, statistics work three ways.
21:20
Speaker 1: Like you can manipulate statistics to do whatever you need it to do.
21:26
Speaker 1: So you can say that there'd be a 76% chance that I would react this way, but then that just tells me that there would be a 24% chance that I would act another way.
21:39
Speaker 1: What's accounting for that 24%?
21:43
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know If they said, hey, sterling Golden, we're going to take this information and we're going to make a class out of what you said.
21:51
Speaker 2: We're going to have the AI run it.
21:52
Speaker 2: Nope, you can get paid monthly for it, as long as the people sign up for the class.
21:56
Speaker 2: I'd be like, ha, nope.
21:59
Speaker 2: Okay, I would need a disclaimer on there, but I wouldn't do it.
22:04
Speaker 1: I don't know that 24% irks me.
22:08
Speaker 2: The 24%?
22:09
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would be open to trying it, but it would definitely be a limited basis like a limited contract.
23:11
Speaker 2: We'll try for like three months and then six months, no.
23:15
Speaker 1: I can see the allure to some people because at least with an AI.
23:19
Speaker 2: Oh, the people buying the service.
23:21
Speaker 1: I can see the allure to it because with an AI, you don't have to worry about another person's schedule, you don't have to worry if they're too busy, however many other people they're interacting with, you don't have to buy it for their time.
23:32
Speaker 1: It's basically feeding into the one of the modern day differences in generations of that instant gratification.
23:42
Speaker 1: So, instead of it being a true human interaction where there's going to be outside influences on time and availability and capability, it eliminates all that Because if it's AI, it's never asleep.
24:04
Speaker 2: It's always available.
24:04
Speaker 1: It's always available.
24:05
Speaker 1: So you're paying for convenience, you're paying for availability, you're paying for instant gratification, and you don't get that with a human.
24:15
Speaker 2: Just like with the sex doll.
24:17
Speaker 1: It's always there.
24:18
Speaker 2: But it doesn't make you a peanut butter jelly sandwich.
24:21
Speaker 1: It's not gonna make you a sandwich after you're all done.
24:26
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, because I.
24:29
Speaker 1: And for some people that's okay, because this is not their lifestyle, it's a fetish.
24:34
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's their choice.
24:35
Speaker 1: It's their choice too.
24:37
Speaker 1: It's what they do when midnight, when they can't sleep, or it's what they do and it's their form of entertainment.
24:44
Speaker 2: Yeah.
24:45
Speaker 1: It's not.
24:46
Speaker 1: It probably is not part of how they identify in their lifestyle.
24:50
Speaker 1: It's a fetish to them.
24:51
Speaker 1: So if it's feeding their fetish in a safe way, in a sane way, they know what they're signing up for.
24:56
Speaker 1: They know what they're doing and all parties are aware why not do it?
25:01
Speaker 1: I get the lure to it.
25:03
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I would not volunteer to be somebody that they draw from, Because I don't like other people making assumptions about what they think I would or wouldn't do.
25:17
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd be like this is a character you're copying here, so that's it.
25:20
Speaker 1: Now they asked for my input to create a fictional character and, like, gave me like hundreds of questions, questionnaire, what if, what if, what if, what if, what if I would pay into that?
25:31
Speaker 1: Because you're creating a fictional character, you're not creating a mis-ru.
25:36
Speaker 1: To me those are two different things.
25:40
Speaker 2: So, based off mis-ru would be fine.
25:43
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even want my name associated with it.
25:44
Speaker 1: I would just be a contributor.
25:46
Speaker 2: Okay.
25:47
Speaker 2: So, like the lady that does Siri her voice, we don't know who she is.
25:52
Speaker 1: I could be like one of the voices from Waze You're like.
25:55
Speaker 1: You can pick your Waze personality.
25:57
Speaker 2: There you go.
25:58
Speaker 1: But don't call it a roux.
26:00
Speaker 1: The roux that you've got been able to get Call it Thymdom.
26:04
Speaker 2: Okay, because then you're drawing from a bunch of different Thymdoms.
26:08
Speaker 1: Now you're drawing from a bigger pool.
26:09
Speaker 2: I hope so.
26:11
Speaker 1: Well, no, that would be the thing, and then they can pull from all of those and it's now the AI's personality that they're interacting with, and not the representation of the single person.
26:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, you would hope so.
26:24
Speaker 1: Be my condition, yeah.
26:26
Speaker 2: Yeah, my thing is.
26:27
Speaker 2: I understand if it's voluntary.
26:29
Speaker 2: I just feel sorry for the people that think that, like I can't do this in real life, so I had this my only option.
26:34
Speaker 2: That's who I want to talk to.
26:36
Speaker 2: No, I get that, campsters, if you're out there.
26:38
Speaker 1: Some people feel safer in that environment.
26:40
Speaker 2: Exactly, and that's okay If you're voluntarily doing it, because not everybody's lifestyle.
26:43
Speaker 1: Some people it's.
26:44
Speaker 1: It is a fetish and that's all it is.
26:47
Speaker 2: That's one of the many options.
26:49
Speaker 2: You don't need the sex doll.
26:50
Speaker 2: If you choose to have the sex doll, more power to you.
26:52
Speaker 2: But there's other ways of doing it and we're here to give you our experiences.
26:58
Speaker 2: So you know that.
26:59
Speaker 2: Okay, so most of this stuff is kind of just boring.
27:03
Speaker 2: Do you know who Kiyuhuan is?
27:06
Speaker 2: I'm probably saying that wrong.
27:09
Speaker 1: No.
27:10
Speaker 2: So do you remember a movie called Indiana Jones?
27:13
Speaker 1: Yes.
27:14
Speaker 2: And the temple of doom.
27:15
Speaker 1: Yes.
27:15
Speaker 2: Do you remember a little Asian boy in that movie?
27:18
Speaker 1: Vaguely.
27:19
Speaker 1: So, it's not one I've seen any time recently.
27:22
Speaker 2: Called him short round, okay, okay.
27:24
Speaker 1: I believe you Okay.
27:27
Speaker 2: So the man now that played that role was in a movie called everywhere, everything, everywhere, all at once.
27:33
Speaker 1: I heard of that, but I haven't seen it.
27:35
Speaker 2: And they won a bunch of awards.
27:36
Speaker 1: Okay.
27:37
Speaker 2: Did you know that he's one more Oscars than Harrison Ford?
27:43
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, congrats.
27:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, harrison Ford has not gotten an Oscar.
27:47
Speaker 2: He got an Oscar after being out of the movie since pretty much Indiana Jones.
27:51
Speaker 2: That was like his first movie back.
27:53
Speaker 1: Well, there you go.
27:54
Speaker 2: Now he's in like low key and stuff like that.
27:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a little known fact in there.
27:58
Speaker 2: That was pretty good.
28:00
Speaker 2: And then, lastly, for this part of it anyway, did you know there was a sub?
28:06
Speaker 2: Do you know there's sub marines?
28:08
Speaker 1: Like a sandwich.
28:09
Speaker 2: Do you know the sub marines that go down and see the wreckage of the Titanic?
28:14
Speaker 1: Yes.
28:15
Speaker 2: Why the fuck would you want to do?
28:16
Speaker 1: that it's intriguing, you would do it.
28:18
Speaker 1: Oh, I love the Titanic.
28:20
Speaker 2: Would you go down in the sub?
28:21
Speaker 2: No, I would not go do it.
28:22
Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I'm asking you, but it's still intriguing.
28:23
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would watch other people do it.
28:25
Speaker 2: Bring up a piece of the wreckage, have a recreation up on land.
28:29
Speaker 1: I would watch other people.
28:29
Speaker 1: I've watched other people do it.
28:31
Speaker 2: So even before the accident last year you know, a bunch of rich people went down.
28:35
Speaker 1: I know all about this, yes.
28:37
Speaker 2: Paid millions, billions of dollars and went down into the sub.
28:40
Speaker 1: It ain't imploded.
28:41
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, this is what they say.
28:43
Speaker 2: Apparently, they just going off of just evidence.
28:46
Speaker 1: They don't know for sure it ain't imploded.
28:47
Speaker 2: But A bunch of rich people died.
28:50
Speaker 1: Yes.
28:52
Speaker 2: Going down to see a wreckage.
28:55
Speaker 1: Yes.
28:56
Speaker 2: Would you have done it before then gone down to this wreckage?
28:58
Speaker 1: No, because I would have never gone into a submarine.
29:03
Speaker 2: Now am.
29:04
Speaker 1: I intrigued by the wreckage.
29:05
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely intrigued.
29:07
Speaker 1: I've even been to the Titanic like walk through, like I've been through that.
29:13
Speaker 1: So no, I am intrigued by the wreckage, about the condition of things, how they've survived, what they look like down there, the makeup, all of that.
29:23
Speaker 1: But I personally could not put myself in a submarine to go look at it.
29:27
Speaker 2: Would you go into the two?
29:29
Speaker 2: Remember where there was a ride called 2000 Leagues under the Seed, I did ride that.
29:33
Speaker 1: You rode that At Disney.
29:34
Speaker 2: So it's not the submarines, the depth.
29:36
Speaker 1: It's the depth.
29:37
Speaker 2: Okay, so you go in like the Bahamas somewhere and do like a little reef submarine thing.
29:41
Speaker 1: I would do that.
29:42
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fucking scary Because I can see the top and I can see the bottom and I know that, worst case, I can access the top when, like something like that, like you're done.
29:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've seen Jaws and I've seen the Meg.
29:54
Speaker 2: I'm not going down to deep waters.
29:56
Speaker 1: It's too fucking scary.
29:57
Speaker 2: So if you had fuck you money, do you want fuck you money?
29:59
Speaker 1: I know what fuck you money is Okay.
30:00
Speaker 1: I don't have fuck you money, but I know what fuck you money is.
30:03
Speaker 1: These questions.
30:04
Speaker 2: it's a piece.
30:04
Speaker 2: Yes, If you had fuck you money, you could do anything with your fuck you money.
30:09
Speaker 2: What would you do?
30:12
Speaker 1: Like only one thing.
30:14
Speaker 2: Or the number one thing.
30:15
Speaker 1: The number one thing with fuck you money.
30:20
Speaker 2: Shopping spree.
30:22
Speaker 1: I would if I had fuck you money.
30:24
Speaker 1: I would do.
30:26
Speaker 1: I would probably do one of two things.
30:32
Speaker 1: I would either rent a villa in Italy for like three months.
30:40
Speaker 2: Man, fuck you money.
30:41
Speaker 2: You can just buy the villa.
30:42
Speaker 2: You give me your second home.
30:43
Speaker 2: One thing like one event.
30:47
Speaker 1: But then that's ongoing.
30:48
Speaker 1: I have to continue to pay for that.
30:49
Speaker 1: You could just pay, no, just pay for it.
30:51
Speaker 1: Pay straight out, yeah, but you still have to pay for the upkeep and you don't live there year round.
30:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, but you bought the place, though I don't want to live there year round.
30:59
Speaker 1: No, you don't live there year round.
31:00
Speaker 1: You just go, you know, whenever you want.
31:01
Speaker 1: Just fuck you money, just blow it.
31:04
Speaker 2: You can just buy the thing, and then you could Airbnb it when you're not there, whatever.
31:08
Speaker 1: Or I would do like the nine month cruise around the world, oh God, yes, oh God when I literally just live in a room.
31:16
Speaker 1: And every other day you're getting off at a different port, somebody else is driving, somebody else is providing food.
31:25
Speaker 1: You literally just get to see the world.
31:29
Speaker 2: You know you can buy a condo on a cruise ship.
31:31
Speaker 2: Did you know this?
31:33
Speaker 2: No, I did not know this yeah you can own a condo on a cruise ship.
31:37
Speaker 1: No, I did not know this.
31:38
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I would no, no.
31:40
Speaker 2: No, because I don't want to live on a cruise ship, I just want to do it again nine months Beach condo, but it's on a cruise ship.
31:47
Speaker 1: No.
31:48
Speaker 2: You own the space on the cruise ship.
31:49
Speaker 1: I don't need to own the space.
31:50
Speaker 1: I would get bored if I was on the same boat every time I got on the boat.
31:53
Speaker 2: Oh, the same room you mean?
31:54
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would be boring, so no, I just would like like if literal fuck you money.
31:59
Speaker 1: I would probably do the nine month cruise.
32:02
Speaker 2: Every year.
32:03
Speaker 1: No, not every year, just once.
32:05
Speaker 2: Just once, just once.
32:06
Speaker 2: Oh man, that'd be tough not to do that like every five years.
32:10
Speaker 1: No, just once Because they say- Because then by then that gives me access to see where I want to go spend more time later, because I will have gotten a taste of all these different ports and all these different places.
32:23
Speaker 1: And then I can be like, yeah, okay, saw that, I'm good, I don't need to go back.
32:26
Speaker 1: Or like, wow, I did not get enough time in this area, I want to go back and spend more time.
32:32
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you wouldn't do the train through Europe.
32:35
Speaker 1: I mean that might be a follow up trip, but not an initial no.
32:39
Speaker 2: They have to train through, like Europe and Asia, apparently too.
32:41
Speaker 2: No, not a fuck, you trip oh my God, yeah, the cruise would be it.
32:46
Speaker 2: I think my fuck you money I would.
32:47
Speaker 2: I'd scare the shit out of me, but I'd buy a ticket to Mars.
32:52
Speaker 1: Nope.
32:53
Speaker 2: I think I would.
32:54
Speaker 2: I'd just be like I'm going and I'm not coming back.
32:56
Speaker 2: Nope.
32:57
Speaker 2: Going on a jet plane no desire.
33:00
Speaker 2: Space plane, no, no.
33:02
Speaker 2: Space stuff None no desire.
33:04
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would.
33:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's not enough.
33:06
Speaker 1: Fuck you money to get me on a rocket to do that.
33:08
Speaker 1: No, no.
33:10
Speaker 2: It'd be the first trip either.
33:11
Speaker 2: It'd be like trip number 50.
33:13
Speaker 2: I gotta make sure they got all the food down pat.
33:17
Speaker 1: Not going to the moon.
33:18
Speaker 1: No, nope, not a bit.
33:21
Speaker 2: I would love that.
33:21
Speaker 2: If they ever come up with a space elevator.
33:23
Speaker 2: I would do that too, I think, if the space elevator came first.
33:27
Speaker 2: I'd just take a little ride up to orbit and come back down.
33:31
Speaker 1: I've never even been on the sun rail.
33:32
Speaker 1: I'm not even going on a space elevator.
33:36
Speaker 1: There's no way.
33:37
Speaker 1: Lost your damn mind, I would 100% do that.
33:40
Speaker 1: It's so much fun.
33:41
Speaker 2: Yeah, that would be my fucking money Going someplace.
33:43
Speaker 2: Nobody's gone before but like after they make sure it's safe.
33:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, space is less scary.
33:48
Speaker 2: Or going up into space is less scary than going two miles in the water.
33:52
Speaker 1: Both equally scary.
33:55
Speaker 2: Oh, my God, yeah.
33:56
Speaker 2: So this is what we're going to do campsters, we're going to do something for y'all and you're going to pay us, and then we're going to go on cruises because there's kinky cruises out there and we will vlog them, walk around, buttock it in the public areas with no kids around because we don't want to scar the children's.
34:12
Speaker 2: But, yeah, one of these years we're going to do that and we're going to put it out there and y'all are going to love it.
34:18
Speaker 2: We just got to get the advertisement screwball.
34:20
Speaker 1: We're here.
34:21
Speaker 2: I'll suck a dick for it.
34:22
Speaker 2: Just for the sponsorship, I should say Okay, so now, where are we at here?
34:27
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're good.
34:29
Speaker 2: Okay, so now guess what we're going to do.
34:31
Speaker 2: We're going to, we're going to go.
34:33
Speaker 2: That was the fluffy part.
34:35
Speaker 1: That was the fluffy part.
34:36
Speaker 1: That was the fluffy part now.
34:37
Speaker 2: I just really want to know what you do with fucking money.
34:39
Speaker 2: I like that what we're going to do is the fun part, okay.
34:45
Speaker 1: Okay.
34:46
Speaker 2: All right Porn.
34:48
Speaker 1: Okay.
34:51
Speaker 2: Has a lot of kinky stuff related to it.
34:53
Speaker 1: It does.
34:54
Speaker 2: And we're going to talk about it.
34:56
Speaker 2: Which one do I want to?
34:58
Speaker 2: Oh no, that's it.
34:59
Speaker 2: Okay, we're going to talk about it.
35:01
Speaker 2: So there were studies done.
35:07
Speaker 2: Okay, For the top porn searches in 2023 and the top fetishes for 2023.
35:13
Speaker 1: Okay.
35:14
Speaker 2: I don't know if I found a kink one or not, but I was looking this up and I was like, oh, this would be great.
35:19
Speaker 2: Okay, so the list I have here is for the top fetishes.
35:26
Speaker 2: We'll do fetishes first.
35:27
Speaker 2: Okay, and we'll do porn, the top fetishes for certain states.
35:32
Speaker 2: These states are not like a list of population or popularity or whatever, is just the most kinkiest stuff.
35:41
Speaker 2: Per state.
35:43
Speaker 1: Searched in that state For 10 states.
35:44
Speaker 1: Okay.
35:46
Speaker 2: I guess they did it because it's like the most weirdest out of all the 50 states or whatever, but the first one we have can't look to you either are you kidding me?
35:54
Speaker 1: I can't see it.
35:55
Speaker 2: Okay, so Mississippi.
35:58
Speaker 1: Okay.
35:58
Speaker 2: Think of Mississippi.
35:59
Speaker 2: It's close to your place.
36:01
Speaker 2: There, yeah, different place, kind of sorta their number one fetish.
36:07
Speaker 2: What do you think it is?
36:12
Speaker 1: Oh, mississippi, definitely not foot.
36:16
Speaker 2: You don't think so.
36:17
Speaker 1: No, why.
36:19
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is one where I want you to guess what it is and then I want you to say why.
36:23
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I don't know Cause I tell you what I think of Mississippi.
36:26
Speaker 2: You know what I think about.
36:27
Speaker 1: What.
36:30
Speaker 2: Cousin fucking.
36:32
Speaker 1: Cousin fucking no.
36:33
Speaker 1: So I could say probably for Mississippi.
36:37
Speaker 1: It's probably like DDLG is probably the highest fetish.
36:46
Speaker 2: Are they a good one?
36:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wanna say what that is real quick for the newbies.
36:51
Speaker 1: What daddy dom little girl yeah.
36:53
Speaker 2: Give a quick overview for the newbies.
36:56
Speaker 1: It's where the dominant is more of a father figure and takes on the father role, where this is based on, so there's mommies and daddies.
37:06
Speaker 1: So this is gender based where and then the little girl is literally.
37:12
Speaker 1: It's kind of like it's littles, they're a little, they enjoy activities that are most commonly enjoyed with children, like coloring and dolls and playing, and they it's a spectrum that can range from just a little bit like they just like to read and color and be taken care of and pampered, to all the way from they actually enjoy being taken care of like a child, like with their food and their clothes and their mannerisms and such.
37:52
Speaker 1: So it's like a parental child type of dynamic.
37:58
Speaker 2: Okay, and that's Mississippi.
38:00
Speaker 1: I'm guessing, I don't know, I'm just pulling this one out of my ass.
38:03
Speaker 1: Basically, yeah, yeah, you do no prep.
38:04
Speaker 1: So this is the whole point.
38:05
Speaker 1: This is why it's fun for me, I know, cause I'm like what are you?
38:08
Speaker 2: thinking of Okay, so it's threesomes.
38:14
Speaker 1: It's a fetish.
38:15
Speaker 1: It's a fetish, okay.
38:16
Speaker 1: Threesome fetish.
38:17
Speaker 1: Threesome fetish.
38:19
Speaker 2: No, especially by our definition.
38:20
Speaker 2: It's a fetish, okay, but yeah, threesomes in Mississippi, okay.
38:27
Speaker 2: I need to go to Mississippi and figure out where they're doing all these threesomes at Swingers.
38:32
Speaker 1: they have swinger parties yeah.
38:33
Speaker 2: I think that's more like group lay in threesomes.
38:35
Speaker 1: Not always Swapping all over the place too, yeah.
38:39
Speaker 2: Well, I know, not always, but it's like I figured like swapping would be higher at a swinger party than threesomes Okay.
38:45
Speaker 2: West Virginia West.
38:48
Speaker 1: Virginia.
38:49
Speaker 1: Do I get to go back to the DDLG?
38:51
Speaker 1: You can say whatever you want, this is you, this is it now?
38:55
Speaker 1: West Virginia, what are y'all into in West Virginia?
39:00
Speaker 1: Let's see, I don't know that one Boyarism.
39:07
Speaker 2: Oh, that's on here, but it's not for West Virginia.
39:09
Speaker 2: Oh okay, yeah, that's a good guess.
39:11
Speaker 1: Okay.
39:12
Speaker 2: Will you say why?
39:15
Speaker 1: I mean just because they don't have like in West Virginia, it's not.
39:18
Speaker 1: It's more in my experience.
39:22
Speaker 1: It's more like simple laid back type of atmosphere.
39:25
Speaker 1: So I would think that they would like watching things that they don't normally get to see.
39:30
Speaker 1: That would be, I guess, considered taboo.
39:33
Speaker 1: So I don't know, again pulling shit out of my ass.
39:37
Speaker 2: So Okay, yeah, that's a good guess.
39:40
Speaker 2: It's actually incest.
39:41
Speaker 2: No, I'm joking, oh my.
39:43
Speaker 1: God.
39:46
Speaker 2: Once again.
39:46
Speaker 1: I'm dead.
39:47
Speaker 1: I'm dead.
39:47
Speaker 1: This is I'm dead.
39:50
Speaker 2: No, Once again, this is a reported list.
39:54
Speaker 1: Okay.
39:55
Speaker 2: So the other one's porn.
39:56
Speaker 2: That's what people on the porn site figure.
39:58
Speaker 2: This is a reported list, so people are volunteering this information.
40:01
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I get it Okay.
40:02
Speaker 1: So what was it really?
40:03
Speaker 1: Bdsm In West Virginia.
40:05
Speaker 2: Yeah.
40:06
Speaker 1: There's not even a public club in West Virginia.
40:09
Speaker 2: Isn't.
40:09
Speaker 1: There's not, no, there's no public dungeon that I'm aware of in West Virginia.
40:12
Speaker 2: This is what people reported, so I'm going to check this survey.
40:15
Speaker 1: So BDSM they must be throwing a hell of a private party then.
40:18
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I see y'all.
40:21
Speaker 1: I see y'all, oh, my God.
40:22
Speaker 2: So not incest.
40:23
Speaker 2: I can't suicide here.
40:27
Speaker 1: Jesus.
40:29
Speaker 2: Nothing else I would be entertained by this.
40:31
Speaker 2: Okay, next one main.
40:34
Speaker 1: Oh Okay, so main's got some money.
40:37
Speaker 1: So Stuff's a cold, it's colder in Maine a lot of private parties probably probably Swingers swingers?
40:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, I probably, probably because of the cold.
40:53
Speaker 1: Yeah, cuz they don't get to go out a lot, so I would I'm thinking more indoor activities.
40:58
Speaker 2: Indoor activities yeah okay, once again it's, it's not insist.
41:03
Speaker 2: Face sitting and female dominant domination In Maine.
41:10
Speaker 2: Okay, a lot of face sitters there.
41:12
Speaker 2: I.
41:13
Speaker 1: Wonder why that's intriguing, I know there's like follow-up questions.
41:17
Speaker 2: I know I think I have questions.
41:19
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, okay, face sitting I think I'm thinking too broad, like I need to narrow down my answers a little bit.
41:25
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean.
41:27
Speaker 2: Virginia was just BDSM, this one specifically.
41:29
Speaker 2: So, it's like the number one fetishes and what states had them the most like?
41:34
Speaker 2: Voluntarily said that.
41:35
Speaker 2: Any experience with that?
41:39
Speaker 1: with face sitting a little.
41:41
Speaker 1: It's fun, cuz it's just a form of breath play.
41:44
Speaker 2: Yeah so yeah yeah, see, I'm fine with the face sitting part, but not the breath play part.
41:49
Speaker 2: I can barely breathe.
41:50
Speaker 2: Anyway, I have seasonal you learn?
41:52
Speaker 1: Yeah, you'll learn.
41:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, suck it all in.
41:55
Speaker 1: You'll figure it out, yeah.
41:58
Speaker 2: Root, rhode Island.
42:04
Speaker 1: Now you don't know where.
42:04
Speaker 1: This is exactly what I'm gonna get right here Foot worship oh you're so close yeah you're almost burning.
42:18
Speaker 2: Yep, it just says foot fetish.
42:20
Speaker 1: Hey, there we go.
42:22
Speaker 2: Where'd you get the foot fetishes from?
42:24
Speaker 1: I don't know.
42:25
Speaker 1: I don't know, it just sounded right.
42:28
Speaker 2: It's a lot of feet on faces.
42:29
Speaker 2: Well, I mean so okay.
42:31
Speaker 1: So if we look at it logically, there's not.
42:33
Speaker 1: I mean, rhode Island doesn't have a huge population.
42:35
Speaker 1: Correct and by default, foot fetish is the number one fetish, so I could see where that would be the number one.
42:41
Speaker 1: Look up statistically because it's smaller because a smaller, smaller data base.
42:49
Speaker 2: Huh, you lost me on that one.
42:51
Speaker 2: Interesting, that's a good, that's a good guess though.
42:53
Speaker 1: So, yeah, I went analytical with that.
42:57
Speaker 2: Yeah you, you showed your work and I'm still confused, hey Montana.
43:05
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say Beestiality.
43:10
Speaker 2: That's terrible Wow.
43:12
Speaker 2: Wow we're talking about like furries and stuff, right?
43:15
Speaker 2: Pony no, I'm talking beestiality as even worse, in my incest.
43:19
Speaker 2: At least that's somewhat voluntary, okay, wow.
43:23
Speaker 1: Okay, no, I'm off, I'm not right.
43:27
Speaker 2: None of these are illegal, by the way.
43:29
Speaker 2: We do not support any of those things.
43:31
Speaker 2: So, consensual people, do you know?
43:34
Speaker 2: I used to live in Montana.
43:35
Speaker 2: I did not yeah, good, 10 years out there, sorry, military, yeah, it was.
43:40
Speaker 1: It's like how far off was I?
43:41
Speaker 1: Way off way up close.
43:43
Speaker 1: I mean, you can do this in peace.
43:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh god, fisting, really fisting, you know.
43:54
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know where did you, where did?
43:56
Speaker 2: that come from.
43:57
Speaker 1: Well, cuz Montana is like all farms and cattle and all animals and stuff and they're out there like by the most.
44:05
Speaker 2: Oh god, those poor, poor animals, oh man.
44:09
Speaker 2: Oh god, oh my god, okay, thought in my head.
44:13
Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, mary Joseph, beestiality, they were in a stable, okay, hawaii.
44:21
Speaker 1: Oh, hawaii, oh, oh my god, um, it's what you get.
44:31
Speaker 2: Why it says come in for your incest oh yes, you were serious.
44:35
Speaker 1: I was joking um Hawaii.
44:38
Speaker 1: You know Hawaii actually has a has a really decent kink community.
44:44
Speaker 2: I would like to go just because of that, I did not.
44:45
Speaker 2: They really?
44:46
Speaker 1: yeah, they actually do um.
44:50
Speaker 2: Hmm.
44:51
Speaker 1: Oh, wow, I I honestly don't even know, like even analytically, how to, how to approach this one.
44:58
Speaker 2: Hmm, so you're not far from you saying it's a big kink community.
45:03
Speaker 1: It is.
45:03
Speaker 1: It's a huge kink community.
45:05
Speaker 1: So so, bdsm, maybe what you're close, narrow it narrowing them down.
45:19
Speaker 1: Oh, you fall you're going away.
45:21
Speaker 2: No way you went away, kink what?
45:24
Speaker 1: I have no idea, then.
45:26
Speaker 2: What is BSM?
45:28
Speaker 1: bondage.
45:28
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
45:30
Speaker 1: Say to masochism.
45:31
Speaker 2: Nope.
45:32
Speaker 1: Discipline what?
45:33
Speaker 1: You were close here, the sadism just say, just say to say, to say to some.
45:37
Speaker 1: Interesting yeah.
45:39
Speaker 1: I put yeah, I've heard that they have a pretty unique, a pretty strong kink community there.
45:44
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you would think it would be say to masochism.
45:46
Speaker 2: It's like if you have a say is what do you Massacred?
45:49
Speaker 1: like.
45:49
Speaker 1: So I wonder why it's just sadism.
45:51
Speaker 1: Okay, so you got a bunch of sadist.
45:54
Speaker 2: Just look, single sadist.
45:55
Speaker 2: Apparently because they can't, they don't.
45:56
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's crazy.
46:01
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna skip the next one.
46:05
Speaker 2: And then Hawaii again.
46:07
Speaker 2: Why he's on there twice?
46:09
Speaker 2: Yeah.
46:09
Speaker 1: I Don't, I don't, I can't see it.
46:13
Speaker 2: No you're close, I mean it's sideways.
46:16
Speaker 2: I know I.
46:18
Speaker 1: Why would Hawaii be on there twice?
46:19
Speaker 1: I have no idea.
46:20
Speaker 2: Yeah, sadism.
46:21
Speaker 1: So masochism?
46:22
Speaker 1: Oh, I Don't know why.
46:24
Speaker 1: They just what, they just separated.
46:26
Speaker 1: They have.
46:26
Speaker 1: Separate them, put them together.
46:27
Speaker 2: They're two spots down.
46:28
Speaker 2: I assume they went with the most they did.
46:31
Speaker 2: They went through the most trendiest, so Sadism is number six and then masochism is number eight.
46:37
Speaker 1: So just more people Want to watch people get beat, then they want to watch.
46:42
Speaker 2: No, enjoy beating people.
46:44
Speaker 1: And then if you're looking up sadists?
46:47
Speaker 1: No, no, no.
46:47
Speaker 1: Are you looking it up because you want to watch?
46:51
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, no no, no, these are people doing the stuff.
46:53
Speaker 1: Oh, doing this volunteer, like, hey, we do this, so there's just more sadists.
46:57
Speaker 1: By seats bottoms, if you want some action by two spaces.
47:00
Speaker 1: There you go.
47:01
Speaker 1: Yeah, so there's more, say is more Hawaii trips, and more masochism.
47:06
Speaker 2: So if your mask is, Go to Hawaii?
47:08
Speaker 1: Why, if you're a?
47:09
Speaker 2: sadist.
47:09
Speaker 2: Move away from why?
47:10
Speaker 2: Because you got to find you a mask.
47:11
Speaker 2: It's not enough for you competition Okay.
47:14
Speaker 2: So in between that is.
47:15
Speaker 2: Idaho, idaho.
47:17
Speaker 2: And just a little hint, you said this one before but fetish, not beast.
47:21
Speaker 2: Oh Idaho you said away in the beginning.
47:30
Speaker 1: I don't remember what I said.
47:31
Speaker 1: Channel Mississippi, oh, the DDLG, nope.
47:35
Speaker 1: Oh, then I don't know what.
47:37
Speaker 1: Voyeurism, voyeurism.
47:39
Speaker 2: You said that during Mississippi.
47:41
Speaker 2: Okay, so yeah.
47:42
Speaker 1: Idaho is voyeurism.
47:43
Speaker 2: This is I need to again.
47:45
Speaker 1: But that's, they're very laid back.
47:46
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, like as a whole they're very laid back.
47:50
Speaker 1: It's a very rural state, so I can imagine that they you know they would enjoy the whole watching aspect, because they don't see it.
47:59
Speaker 2: Yeah.
47:59
Speaker 2: I would say I have to be with my voyeurism people, but then it's like, I don't know, I'm not Mormon, so I don't need to, don't believe in marriage, so it's like I don't know that's.
48:08
Speaker 1: Oh, that's on Utah.
48:10
Speaker 2: I don't think I know has a big population to look at me too.
48:13
Speaker 1: Oh do they.
48:13
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a big political people, idaho in Utah, that's, that's so interesting.
48:23
Speaker 1: We're not going down that route.
48:24
Speaker 1: We're not doing it.
48:27
Speaker 1: Keep going.
48:29
Speaker 1: Don't make me pull another one out of my ass.
48:34
Speaker 1: It gets you off that chair.
48:37
Speaker 2: I'm cracking my cell phone.
48:38
Speaker 2: You got me good with the BC ality.
48:40
Speaker 2: I was through it so far off, okay.
48:43
Speaker 2: So, yeah, yeah, we'll go through.
48:48
Speaker 2: We got a couple more and then we'll go through the porn real quick.
48:50
Speaker 2: That's not as interesting as this.
48:52
Speaker 2: There's no BC ality in the porn.
48:53
Speaker 2: Hopefully this next one is you don't have to reach for this one.
48:58
Speaker 1: Okay.
48:58
Speaker 2: We'll keep it legal still though.
49:00
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll keep it no incest, no reality, okay.
49:04
Speaker 2: California.
49:06
Speaker 1: Oh, california is.
49:09
Speaker 2: Just think of the climate there.
49:11
Speaker 1: Well, I would say critters like Like pony play, pet play no bestiality.
49:17
Speaker 1: No, pet play isn't bestiality, I would say.
49:20
Speaker 1: I Would say either like Femdom or pet play.
49:28
Speaker 2: But you got thing about California, though it's very Warm there.
49:32
Speaker 1: Oh, I know I've been there pretty, pretty sweaty, do it oh.
49:36
Speaker 2: God yeah, so this is more, more, more climate In a in a so nudity so.
49:44
Speaker 2: So like what?
49:46
Speaker 2: What is it?
49:46
Speaker 2: One, but a little bit, a little bit more clothes, oh, Well then it's not nudity.
49:51
Speaker 2: So I say you're close exhibitionism, then nope what, just underwear fetish.
49:57
Speaker 1: Just a panty fetish.
49:59
Speaker 2: Just says underwear, so it could be boys, boy shorts too, huh okay, I don't know how's the specifics of see?
50:06
Speaker 1: I have questions too Like what expenses?
50:09
Speaker 2: so yeah, I guess, if you do like panties, if you like butts and boy shorts, yeah, it could be any of them.
50:14
Speaker 2: Okay, it's gonna be bras too.
50:17
Speaker 2: Just fancy underwear.
50:19
Speaker 2: Okay, not even fancy underwear.
50:20
Speaker 1: I don't even know underwear fetish.
50:22
Speaker 2: I don't know what that means.
50:23
Speaker 2: And then, lastly, we have Michigan.
50:27
Speaker 2: Michigan another cold state.
50:30
Speaker 2: What are they?
50:30
Speaker 2: What are they doing in there?
50:32
Speaker 1: orange, or is that Michigan?
50:34
Speaker 1: A Blue and gold Wolverines?
50:37
Speaker 2: that's one of them.
50:42
Speaker 1: I Don't know now bondage.
50:48
Speaker 2: Well, the cold state.
50:49
Speaker 1: So so, because it'll help keep you warm.
50:53
Speaker 2: But remember, we're more isolated there because it's cold.
50:55
Speaker 1: Well, they don't.
50:56
Speaker 1: They can't hear you scream.
50:57
Speaker 1: So I mean that we're all still tracking screaming in bondage.
51:01
Speaker 2: Sure, I thought it was the impact that make them more scream.
51:04
Speaker 1: Well, it depends on the bondage.
51:05
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean.
51:06
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, it's still not a lot of screaming there gags.
51:10
Speaker 2: Do you kind of, yeah, you could gag yourself.
51:15
Speaker 2: I guess this is more like a Like 50-50.
51:20
Speaker 2: You need somebody there, or not?
51:24
Speaker 1: 50-50 mm-hmm.
51:25
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, you can 50-50 any of this shit.
51:29
Speaker 2: Hmm, this one more so 50-50.
51:32
Speaker 2: You can do this one online as well, like virtually oh.
51:38
Speaker 1: Well then, I have no idea.
51:42
Speaker 2: Edging or delaying orgasm.
51:43
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, more isolation.
51:47
Speaker 2: Do you know what?
51:48
Speaker 2: J why is?
51:49
Speaker 2: J why jerk off instruction.
51:52
Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
51:53
Speaker 2: So that became a very popular thing during COVID, because everybody's isolated, everybody's isolated.
51:58
Speaker 1: So yeah, zooming in on each other.
52:00
Speaker 1: So chastity like a chastity play, like orgasm control.
52:04
Speaker 2: That's yeah, more so orgasm control than chastity.
52:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is more like somebody like instructing you on how on how to jerk off yeah okay, a lot of a lot of doms we're doing this virtually and stuff like that Gooning do you want goonings?
52:20
Speaker 2: No okay, so this is a very another popular kink that became pop, became popular Over the last few years, so that's an extreme form of edging.
52:29
Speaker 2: So we're talking about days, weeks could be possibly months people just edging themselves.
52:34
Speaker 2: Okay this is a gooning trend that has become gooning.
52:38
Speaker 1: Where did it get that name?
52:39
Speaker 1: I don't even know.
52:42
Speaker 2: I've done Multiple videos on this and I I heard what it they said it was and I still don't get why it's called gooning.
52:50
Speaker 1: It's like one of those new kid terms.
52:52
Speaker 1: Is it like goonies, like g o o n?
52:55
Speaker 2: That's what people think but it's, oh, it's spelt that way, but yeah, but like goonies g o o n ing Very popular, but it's the.
53:03
Speaker 2: I got blown away by that length of time, because there's people bragging about doing it longer than everybody else and it's like, oh, they're doing it on their own, like people don't so it's not okay.
53:16
Speaker 1: So I get what they're doing.
53:17
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's not that.
53:18
Speaker 1: How many days in a row can you edge?
53:22
Speaker 1: It's?
53:22
Speaker 1: How long of a time period can you edge without coming?
53:26
Speaker 2: Yes.
53:27
Speaker 1: That's a distinct difference.
53:28
Speaker 1: So it's not days and weeks, because they're sleeping and eating and going to work.
53:33
Speaker 2: Oh, I see what you mean.
53:35
Speaker 1: Is I've.
53:35
Speaker 1: I can actively edge for three hours without coming, or I can actively edge for six hours.
53:41
Speaker 1: Actively edge, that's what gooning is.
53:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, I get what you're saying, there's not.
53:48
Speaker 1: I've edged myself for ten days straight.
53:50
Speaker 1: That's nothing.
53:51
Speaker 1: That's that's orgasm control.
53:54
Speaker 1: But to actually actively edge for an hour or two hours with no break, it just continually happens to you.
54:02
Speaker 1: That's gooning.
54:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, it still seems you're saying that.
54:07
Speaker 2: I hear the difference, but it still seems extreme to me either way.
54:13
Speaker 1: But I mean like, like the edging edge play is common in Femdom, so that's common.
54:21
Speaker 2: The length of time, three hours, is common.
54:23
Speaker 1: No, no, no, edge play, not gooning, yeah, but it can be.
54:28
Speaker 2: For three hours.
54:28
Speaker 1: I mean you have to have three hours to actively do it.
54:31
Speaker 2: But these people don't have a dom.
54:32
Speaker 2: They're doing it to themselves.
54:34
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.
54:35
Speaker 2: And they're getting in groups together without a dom.
54:36
Speaker 2: It's competition now yeah yeah, and then bragging about the time.
54:40
Speaker 1: Yeah.
54:40
Speaker 2: I see what you mean by the three hours, but even so, like edging non-continuously for days, I see what the difference is.
54:49
Speaker 2: That still seems extreme to me.
54:50
Speaker 1: Really.
54:51
Speaker 2: Yeah, three hours days, especially by yourself.
54:54
Speaker 2: It's the voluntarily doing it.
54:56
Speaker 1: It's voluntarily doing it, not somebody having you do it.
54:58
Speaker 1: Yeah.
55:00
Speaker 2: That I get.
55:03
Speaker 1: I mean, but don't, okay, so I'm gonna be not politically correct for a minute.
55:09
Speaker 1: But I mean, don't you guys have you guys never.
55:11
Speaker 1: Isn't it a common?
55:13
Speaker 2: thing who?
55:13
Speaker 2: Who's guys Like a right of for who's guys?
55:16
Speaker 1: Biologically born men.
55:18
Speaker 1: When they're going through puberty or any of the thing You're talking to the wrong person, Don't you guys like oh my God, I've come like this many times in a day.
55:26
Speaker 2: You're talking to the wrong person.
55:27
Speaker 1: I've heard that it's a thing like you guys can like actually figure out how many times you can come in in an hour or a day and you brag about it.
55:35
Speaker 2: This is one of those things where I gotta put my queer flag out there.
55:37
Speaker 2: I was not bragging about that shit.
55:39
Speaker 2: Especially in my culture it's looked down upon to masturbate.
55:44
Speaker 1: And even the people.
55:45
Speaker 1: I've said that before.
55:46
Speaker 2: And people, even my friends, that even after all these years they still make fun of you, for, yeah, for doing that, for admitting to masturbating.
55:53
Speaker 1: You know I gotta Imagine this They'd lose their day of mind.
55:58
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah, that I never.
56:00
Speaker 2: I was never part of that group.
56:02
Speaker 2: So it's funny to hear people talk about that, like in podcasts, like, oh yeah, I masturbated like five times in one day.
56:06
Speaker 1: I'm like what the fuck?
56:07
Speaker 1: Why would you do that to yourself?
56:09
Speaker 1: Because they were bored.
56:10
Speaker 2: Yes, and it's like I've never been that bored.
56:12
Speaker 2: This is, I find something.
56:14
Speaker 2: There's video games, oh my God.
56:17
Speaker 2: Okay, what do we got here?
56:20
Speaker 1: Okay, lightning round real quick, we're on the porn list.
56:22
Speaker 1: Here we go.
56:22
Speaker 1: Porn list.
56:23
Speaker 2: Number one country in the world for watching porn Should be no shock to you.
56:29
Speaker 1: Oh, the United States, there you go Number two.
56:32
Speaker 1: Number two country.
56:33
Speaker 2: Yeah, now this is.
56:36
Speaker 1: Germany.
56:38
Speaker 2: Germany is one, two, three, four, five six, oh Okay, england.
56:43
Speaker 2: Higher than Germany, two up from Germany.
56:46
Speaker 1: There we go.
56:47
Speaker 1: I'm up to four Poland.
56:51
Speaker 2: Nope, non-colonialist country, that's my hint.
57:03
Speaker 1: You're killing me.
57:03
Speaker 1: Who's number two?
57:08
Speaker 2: Philippines, oh People, okay, huge gap between US and the Philippines.
57:14
Speaker 1: Well, it's a huge gap between the US and anybody.
57:16
Speaker 1: I mean, let's be real.
57:18
Speaker 2: So crazy, but okay.
57:20
Speaker 1: Okay, number three.
57:22
Speaker 2: Very close third to the Philippines.
57:24
Speaker 2: Really, go back to where you were guessing before.
57:27
Speaker 1: Poland, nope, no, that was four.
57:29
Speaker 2: You haven't said it yet, but it is You're warmer by the colon.
57:34
Speaker 1: Iceland, one of them?
57:36
Speaker 2: No, one of the main ones, who?
57:40
Speaker 2: You haven't said it yet?
57:41
Speaker 2: Well, one of the main colonist countries.
57:44
Speaker 2: Think back to your history.
57:45
Speaker 2: I didn't like history.
57:46
Speaker 2: You've heard this one before, though.
57:49
Speaker 1: Have I, yeah which one Switzerland.
57:52
Speaker 2: Florida, think of Florida.
57:54
Speaker 1: Mexico, no, no, no, a colonist country?
57:57
Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know.
57:59
Speaker 2: Who conquered, who colonized Florida?
58:01
Speaker 2: It's a history test now.
58:03
Speaker 1: Oh my God, yeah, it's a history test Colonized Florida.
58:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, christopher, the country that did it, I think it was.
58:12
Speaker 1: No.
58:14
Speaker 2: It was France.
58:16
Speaker 1: Okay, I wouldn't have known that.
58:17
Speaker 2: I think it was France or Spain that colonized Florida.
58:19
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know, I don't know Florida.
58:22
Speaker 1: I am from Florida, but that is me and I know that.
58:24
Speaker 2: Okay, mexico was after France.
58:26
Speaker 2: Oh, okay, and then it was United Kingdom.
58:29
Speaker 2: Yeah, those are more common, but it's like how the fuck are the Philippines Jump up in front of?
58:35
Speaker 2: That's the only third world country.
58:37
Speaker 2: Mexico's the second world country.
58:40
Speaker 2: It's the only third world country on the list.
58:42
Speaker 2: So weird, in 2023.
58:43
Speaker 2: I don't know why.
58:45
Speaker 2: The Philippines shot of a porn star.
58:47
Speaker 2: She's very popular, okay.
58:49
Speaker 2: Top related searches by state.
58:53
Speaker 1: We did this.
58:55
Speaker 2: No, that was fetishes that people volunteered.
58:57
Speaker 2: These are searches on a porn site.
58:59
Speaker 1: Oh, this one is just happens to be porn, so the number one across the United States.
59:02
Speaker 2: For each state they have.
59:03
Speaker 2: They broke it down.
59:04
Speaker 1: What do you think Florida is?
59:05
Speaker 1: Foot fetish.
59:07
Speaker 2: No, we're not talking about kinks here.
59:09
Speaker 1: Oh, you could.
59:10
Speaker 1: Porn searches Porn searches oh, I have no idea.
59:16
Speaker 2: Fantasy.
59:16
Speaker 2: I don't know what that is.
59:18
Speaker 1: Fantasy, fantasy.
59:21
Speaker 2: I don't know if we're talking about like Lord of the Rings.
59:23
Speaker 1: Probably came from the villages, I don't know Name another state you want to do Alabama.
59:28
Speaker 1: Sure.
59:30
Speaker 2: What do you think Alabama is?
59:31
Speaker 1: I have no idea.
59:31
Speaker 1: I don't even know where to begin.
59:34
Speaker 2: They've blurred it out.
59:35
Speaker 1: Ah see.
59:37
Speaker 2: Fuck it myself, so solo stuff, okay.
59:41
Speaker 1: Well, you know Machines and all that kind of things.
59:43
Speaker 2: I've come across that I don't know how I feel about the fake gadgets, so like pocket pussies, dildos.
59:52
Speaker 1: They're fun and watching people for yourself or watching somebody else porn.
59:58
Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about that.
1:00:00
Speaker 1: It's porn.
1:00:01
Speaker 2: It could be like in a scene.
1:00:04
Speaker 1: No, they're fun to use in a scene.
1:00:06
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm talking about this is solo stuff, though I don't know how I feel, just like using a say like a fucking machine on myself.
1:00:13
Speaker 1: Well, I mean.
1:00:14
Speaker 2: But it's very popular in Alabama.
1:00:16
Speaker 1: They don't talk back.
1:00:17
Speaker 1: You don't have to buy them dinner.
1:00:19
Speaker 1: Put them away when you're done with them.
1:00:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, I guess she's cleaning off real quick.
1:00:24
Speaker 1: Okay, alaska, they don't have opinions.
1:00:25
Speaker 2: What about Alaska?
1:00:26
Speaker 2: What do you think?
1:00:27
Speaker 1: Searches for Alaska.
1:00:29
Speaker 2: Porn search.
1:00:31
Speaker 1: Oh shit, I don't know.
1:00:36
Speaker 1: I've even been on a podcast in Alaska.
1:00:41
Speaker 1: I should know this.
1:00:42
Speaker 2: You were in Alaska and did a podcast.
1:00:44
Speaker 1: Oh, I wanna hear that story.
1:00:45
Speaker 1: Yeah, I have no idea.
1:00:52
Speaker 2: Sex doll.
1:00:54
Speaker 1: That makes sense.
1:00:54
Speaker 1: Oh, real quick, that tracks.
1:00:56
Speaker 2: Maine.
1:00:57
Speaker 2: What do you think Maine similar.
1:01:00
Speaker 1: I forgot what Maine was before.
1:01:02
Speaker 2: I tried to give you an easy one.
1:01:03
Speaker 1: I know I forgot what it was before my brain's fried.
1:01:09
Speaker 2: What the fuck.
1:01:10
Speaker 1: Okay, what is it?
1:01:11
Speaker 2: Purple Purple, that was a threesome state.
1:01:14
Speaker 1: Oh, okay.
1:01:15
Speaker 2: Yeah.
1:01:16
Speaker 1: So their internet search is purple.
1:01:18
Speaker 1: No, purple, purple, oh purple.
1:01:20
Speaker 1: That makes sense, yeah.
1:01:22
Speaker 2: I mean the state is purple on the thing.
1:01:23
Speaker 2: But okay, so Rhode Island.
1:01:25
Speaker 2: Now we're gonna go back to the states that we were talking about.
1:01:27
Speaker 1: I've already forgotten what.
1:01:28
Speaker 1: They're all confused in my head.
1:01:29
Speaker 1: I don't know.
1:01:30
Speaker 2: This is straight porn.
1:01:32
Speaker 1: This is not related.
1:01:33
Speaker 2: now, I'm just looking at it, because we talked about Rhode Island, so this is funny.
1:01:37
Speaker 1: I don't know.
1:01:38
Speaker 2: It's a common one, everybody's favorite position.
1:01:41
Speaker 2: Oh, doggy Doggy style, there you go, I figured you would get that one, and then Montana's just BDSM, so that one's in there, not Beastiality.
1:01:50
Speaker 2: Ah, so ridiculous.
1:01:54
Speaker 2: Oh oh, california real quick.
1:01:55
Speaker 1: Sorry Montana, jesus, it's not personal, it's racist, I promise.
1:02:01
Speaker 2: California For people just tuning in, that was underwear fetish for California.
1:02:08
Speaker 1: So voyeurism.
1:02:09
Speaker 2: Nope.
1:02:09
Speaker 2: What Asian stepmom, oh shit, ah, oh, my God.
1:02:14
Speaker 2: Speaking of which New Mexico?
1:02:17
Speaker 2: What Native American?
1:02:20
Speaker 2: Oh man, oh.
1:02:23
Speaker 2: Speaking of Idaho.
1:02:24
Speaker 2: Speaking of Idaho.
1:02:26
Speaker 1: Okay.
1:02:27
Speaker 2: Potato.
1:02:29
Speaker 1: Plowing Like I don't know.
1:02:32
Speaker 2: Dildo writing Okay, oh, and then Utah, we talked about it.
1:02:38
Speaker 1: Well, I mean.
1:02:39
Speaker 1: So Utah you said had plural, had like polyamory in it.
1:02:45
Speaker 2: Polygamy, polygamy in it, the people that do that.
1:02:51
Speaker 1: Are you the illegal?
1:02:52
Speaker 1: No, it's legal in.
1:02:54
Speaker 2: Utah.
1:02:55
Speaker 1: Oh, it is, yeah, that's why they do it.
1:02:56
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah.
1:02:57
Speaker 2: It actually isn't it's legal in Utah.
1:03:01
Speaker 1: Play games lose.
1:03:01
Speaker 1: No, because the show Insinuates otherwise they had to leave.
1:03:06
Speaker 2: We're in in Utah.
1:03:08
Speaker 1: I thought they did.
1:03:09
Speaker 2: I don't think they were.
1:03:10
Speaker 2: I think that cup, that Thing, was not in Utah.
1:03:14
Speaker 2: Oh, but the lot of the people, the people on the show, a lot of them are in Utah.
1:03:18
Speaker 1: Okay.
1:03:19
Speaker 2: I don't know the people that do it.
1:03:21
Speaker 2: They're.
1:03:23
Speaker 1: Pulumist Mormon Mormon.
1:03:25
Speaker 1: So that's the number one porn search.
1:03:28
Speaker 1: Is there's Mormon porn?
1:03:29
Speaker 1: What does Mormon porn look like?
1:03:36
Speaker 2: one guy with a bunch of wives Just going down the line.
1:03:39
Speaker 2: What the frick?
1:03:42
Speaker 2: Okay, so Nevada is Vegas, like what the fucking?
1:03:46
Speaker 2: I don't understand that.
1:03:51
Speaker 1: Porn hub actually has Mormon porn.
1:03:54
Speaker 2: Yeah, wyoming is goth, that's pretty interesting, oh, wow, okay.
1:03:59
Speaker 2: Care to describe it for the people?
1:04:02
Speaker 2: Nope, oh, texas is creamy.
1:04:05
Speaker 2: Okay don't know what that means.
1:04:09
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm gonna buy ice cream pies.
1:04:11
Speaker 1: They would say cream pies, though cream pies as a search, but maybe that's their way of getting around being labeled as like inappropriate searches Is they just put in creamy and see what pops up first?
1:04:22
Speaker 2: cream pies is very popular and porn up though.
1:04:24
Speaker 1: Yes, but if you're trying to hide your searches.
1:04:27
Speaker 1: I can see where that would hide a search.
1:04:30
Speaker 2: No, because they have like chubby and Native American in there.
1:04:33
Speaker 2: I think it's creamy, is um, somebody's very excited and it gets.
1:04:36
Speaker 2: Yeah, been there before okay, okay, that was it Wow.
1:04:42
Speaker 1: I could keep going through all the states.
1:04:44
Speaker 1: There's some funny ones on there.
1:04:45
Speaker 1: This has been interesting.
1:04:48
Speaker 2: Kentucky's bouncing boobs.
1:04:51
Speaker 1: That makes sense oh.
1:04:53
Speaker 2: Man, oh real quick, real quick time spent per visit the highest date on the site 11 minutes and 31 something and they stayed that long.
1:05:03
Speaker 2: They just spit the most time on the site.
1:05:05
Speaker 1: I figure it's people going to porn site.
1:05:07
Speaker 1: Yeah, porn site.
1:05:08
Speaker 1: The state with the highest longevity on the site per visit per visit Montana.
1:05:17
Speaker 2: Look at a bestiality porn.
1:05:19
Speaker 2: Yeah, nope.
1:05:20
Speaker 1: Who.
1:05:21
Speaker 2: Marilyn.
1:05:21
Speaker 2: 11 minutes and 31 seconds.
1:05:23
Speaker 1: We have a short attention span if the longest is 11 minutes.
1:05:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, on the site.
1:05:28
Speaker 2: We're.
1:05:28
Speaker 2: The floor does not even on there.
1:05:29
Speaker 2: No, they wouldn't be shortest is Louisiana, they get it done.
1:05:33
Speaker 2: I've been honest on there looking multiple tabs and been on for like 30 minutes trying to find what I wanted.
1:05:39
Speaker 2: So I can totally get that, but that's the average.
1:05:41
Speaker 2: Okay, it's pretty funny.
1:05:42
Speaker 2: 2023.
1:05:43
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I could keep going through all the cartoon porn.
1:05:46
Speaker 2: Iowa like what the fuck tickling for Minnesota.
1:05:49
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'm surprised tickling didn't come up more and a lot of these and then, because that's a huge fetish now.
1:05:54
Speaker 2: Well, you can do this in 2024.
1:05:56
Speaker 2: We'll see what it is now.
1:05:58
Speaker 2: It could be it could change.
1:05:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see.
1:05:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was even a documentary about that tickling porn.
1:06:03
Speaker 1: It's called tickled, tickled yeah, where it was like in the 80s, 90s, 80s, something like that, where these guys got duped like they were signing up to do it but they didn't realize it was like a fetish thing and they were actually like restrained and tickled and they're not.
1:06:22
Speaker 1: Well, they and they didn't know that it was like being sold, like the videos were actually sold for it and stuff like that.
1:06:29
Speaker 1: So they thought they were just like getting a role for something or whatever.
1:06:33
Speaker 1: It was like a whole documentary casting couch type situation Kinda.
1:06:37
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then like their feet were in stockades and they were stuck.
1:06:45
Speaker 2: So did they find people, guys that were specifically ticklish?
1:06:48
Speaker 1: Well, I mean, most people in general are, they know they are and so they knew they were signing up for like, like, I think they knew if I'm remembering I it's been so long since I've seen the documentary but they like, they knew they were signing up for it, but I don't think they understood that it was gonna be like mass-produced porn.
1:07:07
Speaker 1: Yeah or like as a fetish.
1:07:10
Speaker 2: So, yeah, yeah, you gotta hate when people sell the videos and pictures and stuff without you getting any compensation for it.
1:07:14
Speaker 2: It's fucked up.
1:07:15
Speaker 2: Okay, we were supposed to do our overview for 2023 biggest takeaways biggest takeaway for me?
1:07:26
Speaker 1: Biggest takeaway for me is Is I like you're gonna?
1:07:33
Speaker 1: I Think, I think I'm learning the lesson of Like you can't, which it's gonna sound stupid because it's a given, but you can't.
1:07:46
Speaker 1: You can't hold people to the same Expectations that you hold yourself correct, and so, but it's easier said than done.
1:07:53
Speaker 1: Yes, because when you're in the middle of it and you're in the thick of it and there's people around you that have signed up to do Like X, y and Z, or you know they have an X expectation of X, y and Z, and so you're like, okay, well, they, they know this, but then they don't do it.
1:08:13
Speaker 2: It's like yeah, you confirm with them, so I think it's.
1:08:17
Speaker 1: I think it's me learning that lesson and now this, you're like applying it, like just what is?
1:08:26
Speaker 1: It's the cheesiest, most corny thing, but that whole let them movement, like I'm totally on board for that this year.
1:08:36
Speaker 1: Just let them, if they want to do that let them they want to think that, let them Like.
1:08:41
Speaker 1: I refuse to argue with stupid people anymore.
1:08:44
Speaker 2: Yes.
1:08:44
Speaker 1: I refuse to have stupid arguments.
1:08:46
Speaker 2: Yes.
1:08:47
Speaker 1: I am.
1:08:47
Speaker 1: I have come to the conclusion and have come to the reality that I am never gonna win an argument with a stupid person.
1:08:53
Speaker 1: Impossible because they will never subscribe to logic.
1:08:57
Speaker 1: Nope, they are always gonna lead with emotions.
1:08:59
Speaker 1: Yep and so if they want to do something and they want to be away, or they want to feel away, or they want to think away, let them 100% with you, is it?
1:09:09
Speaker 1: actually going to interfere with my life?
1:09:10
Speaker 1: Is it?
1:09:11
Speaker 1: Am I going to allow it to Impede anything that I'm doing?
1:09:16
Speaker 1: Yep, if I.
1:09:17
Speaker 1: If it doesn't in any way that I've control over, in any way, let them.
1:09:22
Speaker 1: Yep, they want to cut you off in traffic.
1:09:24
Speaker 1: Maybe they have some more important to be.
1:09:26
Speaker 1: Let them.
1:09:26
Speaker 2: Oh, that's a tough one you know if.
1:09:29
Speaker 1: If they want to come at you about something that they think you did, but you know you didn't, let them.
1:09:35
Speaker 1: If they want to spend their wheels and their energy trying to believe something that's not true and they're not willing to listen to logic, let them.
1:09:44
Speaker 2: Yep People have to ask you for your advice or whatever.
1:09:47
Speaker 1: No, it's not even about asking advice.
1:09:48
Speaker 1: I have to allow people to affect my life.
1:09:53
Speaker 2: Not affect your life.
1:09:54
Speaker 1: No, I have to allow them to affect my life.
1:09:56
Speaker 1: Okay and I'm no longer giving that away.
1:09:59
Speaker 1: I Don't want people, I'm no longer giving the power away for people to just arbitrarily affect my life in any way.
1:10:08
Speaker 1: If, if they want to make these rules at work, that Don't logically make any sense and I can see a bigger picture of a better way to do it, and they are determined to do it this way and they're the bosses and make the money, let them Doing what I was told to do.
1:10:26
Speaker 2: There you go.
1:10:26
Speaker 2: I like that one.
1:10:27
Speaker 2: What somebody.
1:10:28
Speaker 2: Somebody was talking about that recently on a podcast and it was like if I meet somebody and they believe 2 plus 2 equals 5.
1:10:33
Speaker 2: Thank you, it's good to know you have a good day.
1:10:41
Speaker 1: Refuse to argue with stupidity.
1:10:43
Speaker 2: Yep.
1:10:43
Speaker 1: I'm not doing it anymore and I think it's really important because we're coming into.
1:10:48
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm not sharing an opinion.
1:10:50
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm rolling over for anybody.
1:10:52
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I'm no longer Taking on the the personal responsibility or feel like I need to To fix things for people.
1:11:04
Speaker 1: Either they want to fix it, either they want to to have conversations for Informative person like.
1:11:12
Speaker 1: Either they want to have it or they don't Let them.
1:11:16
Speaker 2: Yep, this that's the biggest lesson is the assumption part of it.
1:11:19
Speaker 2: You think somebody's doing that is like no big deal, because Unfounded assumptions lead to.
1:11:26
Speaker 1: Yeah, if somebody wants to interpret their responsibilities a certain way and it ultimately doesn't have any direct effect to me, let them.
1:11:35
Speaker 1: They'll learn that.
1:11:35
Speaker 1: They'll learn their life lessons.
1:11:37
Speaker 1: I don't have to teach it to them.
1:11:39
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a Especially hard for us.
1:11:42
Speaker 2: That grew up in the generation where you had to read people's minds and it is your fault because you didn't read my emotion this way.
1:11:49
Speaker 1: You should have known I would have reacted this way.
1:11:51
Speaker 1: No, no, actually.
1:11:55
Speaker 2: I Thanks mom and dad, I was supposed to read what you're saying when you didn't say anything.
1:11:59
Speaker 2: So no.
1:12:00
Speaker 1: So I honestly like I, I'm a fixer, I'm a, I'm a fixer.
1:12:06
Speaker 1: I I see a problem, I want to help fix it.
1:12:09
Speaker 1: It's just who I am.
1:12:10
Speaker 1: It's who I've always been.
1:12:11
Speaker 1: It's how I operate with so much of my life is I'm a, I'm a fix.
1:12:17
Speaker 1: I'm a person that will preemptively attempt to fix something and I'm a person that people come to to fix things, and I'm okay with that.
1:12:24
Speaker 1: Personal life, professional life, kink life, all of the things I'm okay with that kind of like a mama bear role.
1:12:32
Speaker 1: I'm okay with that.
1:12:33
Speaker 1: What I'm not okay with is when other people Make assumptions that it's my responsibility.
1:12:42
Speaker 2: And they don't say anything to you until they make that assumption, just like do we have an agreement on?
1:12:47
Speaker 1: this.
1:12:48
Speaker 1: So I, I.
1:12:51
Speaker 1: If people want to Make the mistakes when there's education and there's ability to not make them, let them I, I.
1:13:03
Speaker 1: I ultimately did not wake up with all of the knowledge that I have.
1:13:06
Speaker 1: I have the knowledge that I have because I made mistakes.
1:13:11
Speaker 1: I have life lessons that I have learned.
1:13:14
Speaker 2: I have experiences that I have experienced and you did the work to learn from those mistakes exactly.
1:13:19
Speaker 1: And so If people want to tell me that a quarter's with 24 cents, okay I Mean I have to believe it.
1:13:29
Speaker 1: But okay, man.
1:13:31
Speaker 1: Yeah, if that's the reality you wish to live in.
1:13:33
Speaker 1: I Hope it works for you.
1:13:37
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm trying to learn that too.
1:13:39
Speaker 2: Two plus two equals five.
1:13:41
Speaker 2: It's nice to know you have a good day, I'm just nope.
1:13:45
Speaker 1: I don't need to argue.
1:13:46
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm never gonna agree that raw onions are fun to eat.
1:13:50
Speaker 1: I'm never going to agree with a lot of things, but that doesn't mean that you you have to abide by mine.
1:13:57
Speaker 1: I can always offer my opinion when asked.
1:13:59
Speaker 1: Just because I offer it doesn't mean you have to follow it exactly and that's why we're here, campsters, we're giving our opinion.
1:14:07
Speaker 2: You don't have to listen to it.
1:14:08
Speaker 2: No, so you made it this far?
1:14:10
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you, that's the summation of my last year and what I'm going into this year with Absolutely, I had an amazing 2023 at a good 2023.
1:14:19
Speaker 1: I found an amazing partner, started a very healthy relationship.
1:14:22
Speaker 1: You know I I got to welcome Additions into my family.
1:14:29
Speaker 1: You know it's, it's been I've, I've Kindled.
1:14:34
Speaker 1: You know friendships I no complaints.
1:14:39
Speaker 1: I had a good year.
1:14:40
Speaker 1: I, I had a good year.
1:14:43
Speaker 1: I.
1:14:44
Speaker 1: Really I would be nitpicking.
1:14:46
Speaker 1: I.
1:14:48
Speaker 2: Did not had a rough year.
1:14:51
Speaker 2: Somebody had a very good year.
1:14:53
Speaker 2: I had a rough year start out the year, like with four partners.
1:14:59
Speaker 2: Now I'm down to one.
1:15:00
Speaker 2: That parts totally fine.
1:15:02
Speaker 2: My biggest thing takeaway is part of what you were saying Unfounded assumptions lead to resentment.
1:15:10
Speaker 2: So I'm working on Speaking about all the different things so people can't have resent or assumption with me.
1:15:18
Speaker 2: I can't have assumptions with them.
1:15:20
Speaker 2: Yeah, that big thing about people just assuming that you will Participate or whatever it is in the thing and it's like did we have this conversation?
1:15:29
Speaker 2: Did I verbally agree to this?
1:15:31
Speaker 1: See, I've heard it a different way.
1:15:32
Speaker 1: I've heard it Uncommunicated expectations lead to future resentments, that's another way.
1:15:36
Speaker 2: Yep, that's another one.
1:15:38
Speaker 2: Yeah it's uncommunicated.
1:15:40
Speaker 2: It's like we got to talk about this and then people just like we did talk about this.
1:15:43
Speaker 2: It's like did you verbally hear me say that I will take this on, because I had that same thing with work all the time?
1:15:48
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like people just like, oh yeah, it's how we do.
1:15:50
Speaker 2: It's like we did not.
1:15:51
Speaker 2: I didn't talk about that, I didn't volunteer for this.
1:15:53
Speaker 2: Mm-hmm, this is not what I'm here for.
1:15:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, so yeah.
1:15:56
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.
1:15:56
Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's what I'm taking into 2024.
1:15:59
Speaker 2: I want to start writing everything down, because my neurodivergent ass can't remember short term stuff.
1:16:04
Speaker 2: I need to write everything down, so that's what I'm gonna do.
1:16:07
Speaker 1: That's the skill I'm working on.
1:16:08
Speaker 2: There you go, and hopefully it will help me with my being Judgy and all those different things.
1:16:13
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, don't argue with the stupid people.
1:16:17
Speaker 1: Man, it's tough, it is tough, oh man it's tough.
1:16:19
Speaker 1: They make it so easy.
1:16:22
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like the most voiceless one in the room.
1:16:24
Speaker 2: Like you can have a loud room Full of different all kinds of noises, but you hear that one voice in there talking stupid it's like.
1:16:32
Speaker 2: Well, but nope, nope, we're not gonna say anything, we're gonna sit there, I'm just, but you can hear them piercing through the loud noises.
1:16:38
Speaker 2: Okay, not gonna bring down this podcast.
1:16:41
Speaker 2: Well, because we had a fun time.
1:16:42
Speaker 2: We know Mormon porn is very popular in Utah, maine likes their threesomes and their throuples, and it lines up with the fetishes and the porn searches, which is interesting.
1:16:52
Speaker 2: So they're making fantasies into reality and this is what we're gonna do, because unplanned what was it?
1:17:02
Speaker 2: Fantasies are Thoughts or unplanned thoughts.
1:17:07
Speaker 2: I think that's what it was.
1:17:08
Speaker 2: I haven't heard that one, yeah so basically, something's a fantasy until you have a plan of action.
1:17:12
Speaker 2: Okay otherwise it's still just fantasy.
1:17:14
Speaker 2: So the plan here is to one go to a convention.
1:17:18
Speaker 2: Okay to wear our shirts and pass out business cards.
1:17:22
Speaker 2: That's what we're doing.
1:17:23
Speaker 2: There you go, we're grow this podcast and we're gonna have our first subscribers on Instagram.
1:17:27
Speaker 2: Okay so we're gonna do all right, but for now, this is Sterling Golden.
1:17:33
Speaker 2: This is rude and we are here at the around the cake.
1:17:36
Speaker 2: You can't fire new episodes every second and fourth Thursday on all major platforms.
1:17:41
Speaker 2: You'll see that on assurance too, if you see us in person, but we'll see y'all next time.
1:17:48
Speaker 1: Goodbye.