Latest / True Crime with Gavin Fish / 911 Calls and Dispatch Audio Surface in D.V. Allegation Case Involving JLR Investigates
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- 0:01Well, thanks to the work of several intrepid new media
- 0:06reporters, including where I first saw it, Paula over at
- 0:11Plunder True Crime, a bunch of audio has been released in the
- 0:18case where Jamie, Why am I? Jamie Phillips has alleged DV at
- 0:30the hands of Jonathan Lee Rich's also known as JLR Investigates.
- 0:36And I've been listening to everything, including her calls
- 0:41to 911 or calls to dispatch and other authorities, calls from
- 0:46witnesses. I've been going through some of
- 0:49the documents that have come out and one of the things that I
- 0:53guess makes me just people behave strangely when they call
- 1:03911. They just do.
- 1:05And it's really hard to tell just based on a 911 call what a
- 1:11person's emotional state or mental state is in.
- 1:17I think that some people have, I think, wrongly jumped to a
- 1:23conclusion that Miss Phillips can't possibly have suffered
- 1:28what she says she suffered because of the calm way in which
- 1:31she spoke to 911 operators. But we're going to talk about
- 1:35that a little bit. We also have not only in this
- 1:39case, but we also have updates in the Kirby Carpenter murder.
- 1:44We have updates. Oh goodness, Gavin, we've got,
- 1:51oh, we've got an update in the saga of the charges against
- 1:55Daniel Martel, the stepfather of Lily and Jack Sullivan, the
- 1:59missing Canadian kiddos. And we've got an update on Barry
- 2:05Morphew's case moving forward in the murder of his wife, Suzanne
- 2:09Morphew. So we've got a lot to talk about
- 2:11tonight, a lot of important stuff.
- 2:13I hope you will stick with me. Let's get started.
- 2:28This video contains mature themes and discussions intended
- 2:31only for adult audiences. Viewer discretion is advised.
- 2:38Hello there, my friend. Welcome back to another true
- 2:40crime conversation with me, Gavin Fish.
- 2:42So glad you were joining me. Thank you for doing so.
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- 3:14For example, California Grandma, let me see if I can bring this
- 3:18up. Come on.
- 3:20There we go, California grandma. The first comment before we even
- 3:23started says Gavin. I'm not sure I'll be able to
- 3:26make it to this live, but I've been wanting to share where I'm
- 3:29watching from. It's the Queen City of the
- 3:32Northern Mines. Do you know where I am?
- 3:34Well, listen, when it comes to the Queen Cities of Mines and if
- 3:38we're talking about California, it's got to be Nevada City,
- 3:42right? I hope I'm right hope I'm right.
- 3:45I'm a I'm a California kid. I I was raised in Sacramento so
- 3:49and I love me some Nevada city. Thank you very much to Ducky for
- 3:55getting us started on the Super chats.
- 3:58You guys, YouTube has been pretty darn stingy over the last
- 4:01couple of months. It's been tough to eke out a
- 4:03living, at least for me. Some of my friends too have been
- 4:06talking to some of my friends going.
- 4:07I don't know what's going on with YouTube.
- 4:09So I deeply, deeply appreciate you taking care of me with those
- 4:12super chats. Thank you, ducky.
- 4:14I do have a goal. It is set.
- 4:16Hopefully we will get the fireworks and everything if we
- 4:19reach that goal. Okie dokie, what are we talking
- 4:22about tonight? We are talking about the case of
- 4:27or the case against how should the allegations against this guy
- 4:33on your on your screen right now if you're watching on YouTube or
- 4:36on Spotify, man named Jonathan Lee Riches, he has a channel
- 4:43here on YouTube called JLR investigates.
- 4:46And let's just get this out of the way.
- 4:47Let's get this part out of the way, OK?
- 4:50I am I'm jealous of his success, man.
- 4:56He has built a big and a big following, a big audience and a
- 5:05dedicated audience, one that doesn't mind sometimes even
- 5:11sending out threats to people like yours truly for talking
- 5:14about him. I certainly am.
- 5:17I certainly am jealous of of the the first part of that.
- 5:21I don't want any threats going out on my behalf for any reason
- 5:25whatsoever. But yeah, if if you're going to
- 5:30comment, oh, Gavin's just covering this because he's
- 5:32jealous. Gavin is jealous, but I'm not.
- 5:37I'm not covering it because of that.
- 5:38I'm covering it because this is a legitimate story.
- 5:42I want to come right out of the gate as saying I have done a
- 5:45bunch of research today. I still cannot find any charges
- 5:49against Mr. Rich's in the state of Washington.
- 5:53So while the narrative from the police report says there, the
- 5:59police, the deputy says I do have probable cause to arrest
- 6:07Mr. Riches. I can actually go to it right
- 6:11here. Let's see.
- 6:17Yeah, I have probable cause to arrest Jonathan L Riches for
- 6:23violating RCW. And then a couple of, you know,
- 6:27assault in the second degree, harassment, threats to kill DV
- 6:31and interfering with reporting of DV.
- 6:35It is right here if I need to, I need to zoom in on that a little
- 6:39bit. But he says he has probable
- 6:42cause and he lists the offenses in right, right down here,
- 6:48assault in the second degree, DV, harassment, threats to kill
- 6:51DV, interfering with the report of DV.
- 6:55But there are no charges that I can find in the Washington state
- 7:01courts. That may change.
- 7:02It may not. Maybe he never faces charges, I
- 7:05don't know. But these are felonious.
- 7:10These are felony charges. So I don't know if if a person
- 7:17commits felony, I hope they or if if it is alleged that a
- 7:20person commits felony and there is good evidence and the police
- 7:24do an investigation and find they have probable cause, then I
- 7:26think they should make that charge.
- 7:28Of course, the police don't get to get to choose that.
- 7:33It's the it's the prosecutors who do.
- 7:37I did put a call into the Chelan County Prosecutor's Office.
- 7:40Of course, I'm not going to get a call back on that, but I did
- 7:43put the call in. OK, so let's go, shall we?
- 7:50Real quickly, We can take our time with this, but I want to
- 7:55play the 911 call made by Jamie Phillips, also known as
- 8:01Magnolia. She, this is her she is making.
- 8:07I mean, she is a public persona at this point, right?
- 8:10I, I, I don't like to show victims typically in, in cases
- 8:15like this, but, but she is a public persona.
- 8:18She's put herself out there. So this is her.
- 8:22I want to play the 911 call. I'm hoping that the technology
- 8:26is going to work correctly. I think that it will.
- 8:28I tested it. It's about 5 minutes long.
- 8:31And while we're listening to this, I will be going through
- 8:36your comments. Don't forget, don't forget.
- 8:38Tell me where you're tuning in from.
- 8:39All right, let's give this a go. 911 What is the address of the
- 8:45emergency? By the way, I did not pull down
- 8:48the audio. So like if you've got and there
- 8:51are a couple places where it's redacted so there's a beep.
- 8:53So if you're wearing headphones, maybe, maybe click down the
- 8:56volume just a little bit so we don't blow your eardrums out.
- 8:58OK, here we go. Hi, hold on one second.
- 9:05Let me look. Yeah, we're there's going to be
- 9:18dead silence couple times in this recording as well.
- 9:25Are you still there? OK, I'm sorry.
- 9:41That's OK. What's the location?
- 9:45OK, it's all Seasons. River Inn is there and it is
- 9:53it's 8751 Icicle Rd. Thank you very much for that.
- 9:59Is there a specific unit number it's?
- 10:05The Shenandoah room. Which one?
- 10:09That one. Well, but it's not a number, you
- 10:13just it's like a little Airbnb with a few different units.
- 10:18And mine is called the Shenandoah.
- 10:21You just go in the front door and then come up the stairs.
- 10:25I'm going to pause here for a second for this super chat Lucy
- 10:27Fair. What are the chances JLR is
- 10:30using bots to create an illusion of popularity and support?
- 10:33Convicted fraudsters tend to find their way around the rules
- 10:37I think. I think it's there's a
- 10:40possibility. However, if I had a YouTube
- 10:44channel with half a million subscribers, I would not
- 10:49endanger that Channel by using bots.
- 10:52So I think the likelihood is low.
- 10:56Certainly people do use bots, but I think when you get to that
- 11:00level where plus when he's doing live streams, we're, we're
- 11:03talking sometimes 10s of thousands of people watching him
- 11:06at a time, it would get so expensive to do bots for 10s of
- 11:1110s of thousands of bots, right? I, I, I don't think that I don't
- 11:16think that that would pencil out.
- 11:17I think he probably has just through hard work and being
- 11:20boots on the ground, I think he probably just has built up a
- 11:24following like this. Let's continue.
- 11:27What's going on? Well I had a fight with my
- 11:31boyfriend last night and he hurt me and left and took my phone
- 11:38and I don't know where he is so I'm stuck here.
- 11:44What's that? He said he hurt you.
- 11:47What did he do? Yes, my nose, he hit, he hit me
- 11:52and my nose is hurt. Is it actively bleeding right
- 11:56now? It was bleeding earlier.
- 11:59This happened last night and then he left and I went to bed
- 12:04and now I don't know where he is and he took my phone.
- 12:09So this is his phone that I'm calling you from.
- 12:13He he has 2 phones and this is his second phone.
- 12:17OK well last year. So I'm calling you on that
- 12:20phone. That's fine, Let me have someone
- 12:22contact you there. What is your name?
- 12:26Jamie, Jaime. Jamie, what's your last name?
- 12:32Phillips, Phillips and. What's your date of birth,
- 12:37Jamie? 11176 I'm sorry for calling 911
- 12:44I don't I didn't know what to call.
- 12:47This is perfect. This switch needed a call.
- 12:49What is his name? Well, I don't know anyone around
- 12:52here. Like we live in Florida, so
- 12:54we're just here for Christmas. And so I don't have a car and I
- 12:58don't have a phone. All I know is I'm stuck here now
- 13:01against my will. Basically.
- 13:03This is kidnapping if you ask me.
- 13:06Jamie, let me get some more information from you and I have
- 13:08someone contact you. What is his name?
- 13:12His name? Jonathan.
- 13:15Jonathan. What's his last name?
- 13:19Riches. His.
- 13:20Last name is Riches. RICHES Date of birth 12/27/76.
- 13:33And what kind of vehicle did he leave in?
- 13:36He's in a white ink compass and I don't know the tag number
- 13:41because it's a rental car. We got it from Seattle airport
- 13:45on Monday. Any idea where he'd go?
- 13:50What's that? Any idea where he would go?
- 13:54Well, I I tried texting him and telling him to bring my phone
- 13:58back and he said he started denying that he even took my
- 14:03phone at all. And then he said he said I don't
- 14:07want your phone. I'm taking it to the Sheriff's
- 14:09Department. And I said I need my phone,
- 14:12bring my phone back. And.
- 14:15I wonder if he did take the phone to the Sheriff's
- 14:17Department, if she got her phone back.
- 14:20Actually, I know the answer to that.
- 14:21We're going to. We'll get into it.
- 14:24He was like, well, you, he was like, well, you stole my phone
- 14:27and I was like, no, you left your phone here.
- 14:30And anyway, so he he started saying that he doesn't want my
- 14:34phone. I don't want your phone.
- 14:36And he was like, I'm 100 miles away from you now.
- 14:40So I honestly don't know where he is.
- 14:43He said. I'm 100 miles away from you now,
- 14:45so. We'll have someone contact you a
- 14:48little bit. Would you also like an ambulance
- 14:50to lift your nose? What's that?
- 14:53Would you like an ambulance? Medical attention for your nose.
- 15:00Yeah, I think I need to get it looked at.
- 15:03OK, we'll have someone contact you in a little bit.
- 15:05I'm going to go and let you go if something changes.
- 15:09Jamie, if he shows back up, you need to call 9111 immediately.
- 15:11OK. OK.
- 15:14OK, I'll let you know. You're welcome.
- 15:15Bye. Let's see, I was just going to
- 15:18show this real quick in light of this, this comment.
- 15:22There was a protest yesterday outside of JL Rs community.
- 15:29Yeah, interesting. Doesn't look like it was huge,
- 15:32like one person, but yeah, doesn't anyway, Yeah, very
- 15:43interesting. Interesting indeed.
- 15:45OK, So what did we get out of that phone call?
- 15:49Couple things. She was very calm.
- 15:51Now, true, it was the day after that she alleges this happened,
- 15:55right? She does give some information.
- 15:59She doesn't. She's in a white Jeep Compass.
- 16:02He said he's more than 100 miles away.
- 16:04These are things that we read in the narrative.
- 16:06But to hear her say it and then you know that that one part
- 16:11where she goes, he has my phone. He said he's going to take it to
- 16:16a Sheriff's Office. I don't know.
- 16:19To me, guys, correct? Like, help me out here.
- 16:24OK, how do I, how do I want to start them?
- 16:27OK, My mind is I'm branching. You know, those graphics and
- 16:33like Marvel movies where they're describing different timelines.
- 16:37That's what's happening in my head right now.
- 16:38I've got all these little like timelines going on and I'm
- 16:42trying to figure out which one do I want to go on.
- 16:47OK, I'm just going to say it this, this is unpopular, right?
- 16:50But for most of my life before I, before I took a job as a
- 16:56reporter 3-4 years ago, which I, I never worked in in media
- 17:04before that, I don't think I ever really ever interacted with
- 17:11anybody in my life who interacted with the police on
- 17:15the regular. Like I, I remember like when I
- 17:22was a, when I was a kid, maybe 11-12 years old, my brother
- 17:29accidentally shot himself at a friend's house, shot himself in
- 17:33the lake. He survived.
- 17:35It was scary. And there were, there were
- 17:38police there, right? There were like, I don't know,
- 17:43ambulance, police, there was an investigation, the whole thing,
- 17:46right? But other than that incident and
- 17:49maybe me speeding a couple of times, I, I don't remember any
- 17:55interaction with police. I would never say to myself, oh,
- 17:59I took this thing I wasn't supposed to take.
- 18:02I'm going to take it to a Sheriff's Office.
- 18:04Nobody, like, unless you are in the world of crime, like, maybe
- 18:10I'm wrong. Maybe I'm wrong here, but unless
- 18:12you're in the world of what happens when bad things go or
- 18:17when things go wrong, when things go bad, right.
- 18:21Oh, I will call the police or I will go to a Sheriff's
- 18:24Department or it just, it's just very weird to me that that what
- 18:31she reported that he said that I don't even want your phone.
- 18:34I'm just going to drop it off at the at a Sheriff's Office and
- 18:37you can get it from them. Huh, like huh.
- 18:44And it's just really weird. Maybe Autumn you can help me out
- 18:47here. Like guys, my lead mod Autumn is
- 18:52at least 17 different kinds of awesome and and has really
- 18:59turned her life around in a way that is awesome.
- 19:02I I just can't even say the word awesome enough.
- 19:05But, but actually, Autumn, you don't need to jump in here
- 19:09because. But you know, now living in a
- 19:12small town and working as a reporter and covering crime in a
- 19:16local way, right. And reading criminal reports,
- 19:20criminal complaints, affidavits of probable cause all the time.
- 19:25Yeah. They're they're just people that
- 19:27are constantly. They know what to do.
- 19:29Oh, I will call the Sheriff's Department.
- 19:31I will call the Police Department.
- 19:32I'll call 911. I will call the state police.
- 19:34I will make a report. I will make an appointment to go
- 19:36in. I want to press charge.
- 19:37They like know what to do and that comes from experience now
- 19:43it's no secret this is well documented that Mister
- 19:47investigates Mr. Rich's here is a convicted felon that he spent
- 19:53at from my understanding about 10 years in prison in federal
- 20:00prison for fraud right and also. I mean, he's described as one of
- 20:07the most litigious people in the world.
- 20:10He has he has filed lawsuits against some of the funniest
- 20:16things. Like I, I can't even pick one
- 20:19outlet. Let's do JLR investigates
- 20:22lawsuits. Let let, let's Wikipedia.
- 20:29I'm going to go to wiki. Of course it's not.
- 20:33It's not doesn't mean that it's true to be on on Wikipedia, but
- 20:39like apparently. In May 2009, Riches filed for an
- 20:44injunction against Guinness Book of World Records, seeking to
- 20:47stop them from listing him as the most litigious individual in
- 20:50history. Quote most litigious man is not
- 20:56something Guinness World Records has ever monitored as a record
- 20:59category. The action, like the vast
- 21:02majority of Rich's filings, was dismissed right he some of
- 21:09Rich's defendants are not even persons subject to a suit.
- 21:11These include Adolf Hitler's National Socialist Party and the
- 21:1513 tribes of Israel. Oh my goodness.
- 21:20He 1 lawsuit in which George W Bush was the first name
- 21:23defendant also includes another 790 defendants that cover 57
- 21:27pages. They include Plato, Nostradamus,
- 21:30Che Guevara, James Hoffa, various Buddhist monks, all
- 21:35survivors of the Holocaust, and the Lincoln Memorial.
- 21:44So anyway, I don't know the whole thing where I'm going to
- 21:47drop a phone off at a, at the Sheriff's Office.
- 21:50I just, it's just that is just, this is a thing a criminal says.
- 21:55That's not a thing. A person who never interacts
- 21:57with police other than maybe speeding ticket or a parking
- 22:00violation or something like we don't, we don't do that.
- 22:06We just don't do that. So funny.
- 22:10Oh my goodness, killing me. Let's see Robert the ruse.
- 22:16OK, so maybe maybe Robert the ruse is is knows Gavin, you can
- 22:21bring found items to police stations, IE wallets, phones,
- 22:24etcetera. And sometimes that's the wisest
- 22:26choice. But in his case, it's kind of
- 22:27not smart if he actually did it. OK, I guess that's true.
- 22:31But if I like find a wallet, say like I'm in Walmart and there's
- 22:36a wallet on the ground. I I'm curious.
- 22:39I opened it up to see like, did this just fall off the shelf?
- 22:41No, this is belong to somebody. I don't go to the Sheriff's
- 22:44Office. I go to like the customer
- 22:47service desk. Hey, I found this in aisle K or
- 22:50whatever, right? It's just, I mean, I appreciate
- 22:55your position there. I just, I just, yeah, I just,
- 23:01it's just weird. He sued the cast of Lost.
- 23:06Yeah. He sued all survivors of the
- 23:08Holocaust, according to Wikipedia.
- 23:12It's so funny. So funny.
- 23:17Yeah. Autumn, you're awesome.
- 23:18You are an open book and you're guys.
- 23:20Autumn is amazing. By the way, Autumn and my
- 23:23moderators are volunteers. If you guys would.
- 23:27And you can, if you can, please buy Autumn a coffee.
- 23:31Autumn. Why don't you drop that link in
- 23:33the in the live chat. Or you can just go to
- 23:35gavinfish.com and click on support me.
- 23:38There's a button there. Yeah.
- 23:40All celebrities, presidents and cartoons, all sued by Mr. JLR.
- 23:46Yeah, he sued Jim Johnson. I hope he sued the movie Cats,
- 23:53because someone should. OK, OK, let's get serious for a
- 24:04second. Let's get serious.
- 24:05Oh, guys, you know Wanda, we need some transition music.
- 24:09Hun, can you give us just a little transition music?
- 24:12Let let. Let's hear it.
- 24:16Oh, that was funny. Time.
- 24:19To change the. Scene.
- 24:20OK, changing the scene. All right, yeah, great comment
- 24:25here getting us back on track, Karen, he took the phone to
- 24:29maintain control and we're going to talk about that.
- 24:31We're going to talk about that a little bit more in detail.
- 24:33Let me just play a little bit more audio here.
- 24:36OK? That one that we just listened
- 24:39to was Christmas Day, 9:00, 9/23 in the morning.
- 24:42It was her call to 911. Now the next one I want to call,
- 24:46I want to play is 1 from January 23rd.
- 24:51It appears that she is back in in Florida and this is about a 4
- 24:591/2 minute call from Jamie Phillips regarding the case.
- 25:05Let's have a quick listen. EPO here.
- 25:10Friday, January 23, 2026, 12:55 and 41 seconds.
- 25:22Communications How may I help you?
- 25:26Hi, yes, I was calling to inquire about an order of
- 25:31protection that would have been sent to the Pasco County Sheriff
- 25:36to be served, and I'm trying to figure out if that's been served
- 25:40yet. And then I have a separate
- 25:43question after that. OK, what's the address out
- 25:46there? So she's talking about service,
- 25:48right? Yeah, correct of the reaction.
- 25:51Here, it's going to be loud. Correct would be Baxley Lane.
- 25:58It's Baxley Lane and it's Port Rickey.
- 26:04Perfect. And repeat that address just for
- 26:06verification. Daxley Lane, Port Rickey, 34668.
- 26:14And the phone number you're calling from.
- 26:17My number is and this is. For verification as well.
- 26:26Yes. And your first and last name.
- 26:33Wow. Can you spell your last?
- 26:37Name perfect. And who was the injunction being
- 26:51served too? So remember, she's calling on
- 26:52the status of a service. The respondent is.
- 27:08Hey, Mindy, thank you very much for the Super chat.
- 27:11Well, and I was just going to let you know.
- 27:13So this order, it's an ex parte order protection that I got in
- 27:19my new location in Garland County, Arkansas and it was
- 27:26filed, it was granted by the judge on the 21st so Wednesday
- 27:34the 21st in Garland County Circuit Court.
- 27:39So I so I know they had to send it to Pasco County to be served
- 27:44and I, I just don't know how to check on if it's been served or
- 27:47not. But my other question is, so
- 27:50this is relating to so we were former, we were domestic
- 27:55partners living at that address I just gave you.
- 27:58And over Christmas, we were in Washington state and he
- 28:03assaulted me, broke my nose. And he there's a criminal case
- 28:09of felony second degree assault and domestic violence case with
- 28:16the prosecutor in Chelan County, Washington.
- 28:21So he's sending charges on that. And that's what this is.
- 28:24That's what this order was relating to.
- 28:26But also my second question, there's a, this was not
- 28:33obviously not the first assault. And I wanted to ask about am I
- 28:40able to press charges against him or file police reports for
- 28:45incidents that happened previously that happened there
- 28:48in Pasco County? For example, there was a very
- 28:52vicious assault in August. And at the time, well, I didn't
- 28:58press charges at the time. I just said he, you know, he
- 29:01threatened me if I called the police and all that.
- 29:04But. I just.
- 29:05Wanted to know if I'm able to go back and file charges at this
- 29:09point for the prior results that happened there in your
- 29:13jurisdiction. I'll go ahead and I'll send the
- 29:20call over to our desk officers for you.
- 29:22They're going to give you a call back.
- 29:23When they do, it's going to come from a blocked private or
- 29:25restricted phone number and typically call back within the
- 29:29hour. I do have both of those
- 29:31questions on the call, so they'll know exactly what you're
- 29:34wanting as soon as they reach out to you.
- 29:36OK all. Right.
- 29:38All right. That sounds good.
- 29:39Thank you so much. Of course, you're welcome.
- 29:42Bye bye. OK, so the, the main, the main
- 29:47thing there from what I am hearing is she's like, hey, I'm
- 29:51wondering if I can, if I can do anything about the previous
- 29:55incidents. Of course, that'd be pretty hard
- 29:58if you didn't document things, if you didn't take photos, you
- 30:01didn't do you know, go to the hospital, stuff like that.
- 30:04OK, two hours later, not quite two hours later, an hour and a
- 30:08half later, let's say hour and 20 minutes later, dispatch in
- 30:14Washington state gets this call. Friday, January 23, 2026. 1412
- 30:28and 05 seconds. Communication Hi there.
- 30:34My name is I'm an attorney up in Washington state.
- 30:37This is a non-emergency. I had a client who got out of
- 30:42the shower this morning to see law enforcement leaving his
- 30:45driveway. Nothing was left on his door.
- 30:49He said that an officer was getting back into his vehicle
- 30:54when he had a towel still wrapped around him.
- 30:56It's about 6:30 AM this morning. He's hung around the house.
- 31:00Nobody came back. I have a matter that we're
- 31:05expecting maybe service on and I just wanted to coordinate with
- 31:09somebody on getting back to him. OK, let's pause here for a
- 31:14second. OK, This is a lawyer in
- 31:16Washington state of Mr. Rich's we we believe, right?
- 31:22It's redacted, but it's the same address who's saying there's a
- 31:27matter that I expect service on. And police tried to, it looks
- 31:33like maybe they tried to serve my client.
- 31:35He was in a towel who just gotten out, gotten out of the
- 31:38shower. You know, just checking the
- 31:41status on this. So at least his lawyer or a
- 31:45lawyer in Washington state that we believe is his lawyer is
- 31:50saying he expects some charges. But from what I can tell,
- 31:55charges haven't been filed that that might, I might be wrong.
- 31:59It's just from my research so far charges haven't been filed.
- 32:02Let's continue. Or getting a little.
- 32:05Bit. That we're expecting maybe
- 32:08service on and I just wanted to coordinate with somebody on
- 32:13getting back to him or getting whatever you guys need resolved,
- 32:17resolved, OK. Do you happen to have the
- 32:19address that this was regarding? I do.
- 32:21Another beep. OK.
- 32:23Go ahead with it. The physical address is Baxley
- 32:31Baxley Lane in Port Richey. OK.
- 32:41And you said this was about 6 about 6:30 this morning.
- 32:45That's what he said, yeah. So now I'm looking at, I'm
- 33:05looking around the area here. I don't see a call here for 6:30
- 33:10in the area. OK, OK.
- 33:15If it was process service, would you would it be listed on your
- 33:19sheet there? So that would be a separate,
- 33:23separate number. I can give you their number,
- 33:25just maybe see if that was done, that was out there.
- 33:29OK, Yeah, I'm going to just check for them because yeah, let
- 33:32me, you want to. Yeah, let me get whatever it is.
- 33:35Yeah, go ahead please, whenever you're.
- 33:37Ready 7. 278157188 All right. I'm we got the gist of it.
- 33:46This is a great comment by Lucifer.
- 33:48Lucifer, Lucifer by Lucy. I think the mention of the
- 33:53Sheriff's Department, if he said it could be to insinuate she's
- 33:57done something wrong. Common abuser tactic.
- 34:00And what a terrific segue. What a terrific segue.
- 34:05I would like to if you would join me over here on Acrobat
- 34:14want to talk a little bit about the trauma bond cycle.
- 34:18Now this isn't something that I came up with.
- 34:20We're going to actually go to Columbia University and read a
- 34:23little bit about this, but I thought this graphic was was
- 34:27terrific. I know some of you, maybe many
- 34:31of you in the live chat are past or current victims of DV.
- 34:37And I, I also know not from my own experience, but from study
- 34:43of the subject, that this is a cycle that is very, very, very
- 34:48difficult to get out of. So no one's blaming you if
- 34:52you're in the cycle. We're only here to encourage
- 34:56you. OK?
- 34:58But let's start at tension building.
- 35:01OK, the tension building phase include subtle threats, fear,
- 35:07the victim walking on egg shells, just knowing that
- 35:10something is going to happen soon or eventually, right?
- 35:17And that gets into the incident phase where the actual abuse
- 35:20happens. It could be emotional, it could
- 35:22be verbal, could be physical, could be essay, right.
- 35:28Then the cycle continues into the reconciliation phase.
- 35:32There are promises of change. Oh, sweetie, I'm going to
- 35:35change. That's not who I really am.
- 35:37I can't believe I did that. I, I, you know me.
- 35:42You know that I I would never, you know that sort of stuff.
- 35:46Just apologies. Flowers.
- 35:50I think of the movie Sleeping with the enemy, right?
- 35:52Giving gifts, I'm so sorry. We quarreled to talking down
- 35:58what actually happened, right? Minimizing what happened.
- 36:01And then the victim gets some temporary relief and then that
- 36:04love bombing phase goes in there, right?
- 36:07Like what I just said, intense affection, grand gestures,
- 36:11gifts. And then and then that moves
- 36:14back into tension building again, right?
- 36:17And the cycle just goes on and on and on.
- 36:25Well, there, there are certain stories that I don't need to
- 36:27need to share. They're not my stories to share,
- 36:29but many, many people that we all know and love have or are
- 36:35living through this cycle. There is help, right?
- 36:39There is help. You can get help.
- 36:42And, and we want you to get that help because the, I mean, the
- 36:48main indicator of a future homicide, one of the main
- 36:54indicators, according to Brian Bennett, who's been a guest on
- 36:57the show several times, is things like strangulation,
- 37:01right? You're 800 times more likely to
- 37:04be a victim of homicide if you are a victim, survivor of
- 37:08strangulation. So it is, it is so important
- 37:13that you break out of this cycle and knowing that the leaving
- 37:18phase is the most dangerous. So it's so it's so tough, but
- 37:22come with me. Keep this, keep this cycle in
- 37:25mind and come with me, if you will, over to this study, not
- 37:29Columbia University, this is the University of Cambridge, OK.
- 37:34And this was published on October 15th and there is a full
- 37:40peer reviewed study. We're not going to get into
- 37:42that. We're just going to, we're just
- 37:45going to stay on this, on this page, right?
- 37:48Study shows how domestic abusers build trauma bonds with victims
- 37:52before violence begins. New research outlines A tactical
- 37:59playbook used by male abusers to weaponize love based on in depth
- 38:04interviews with victims before going on to commit violence.
- 38:09Abusers domestic use a mix of intent.
- 38:14Slow down. Gavin Javi can I get a take two
- 38:17on that? Domestic abusers use a mix of
- 38:20intense affection and emotional cruelty combined with tales of
- 38:25their own childhood trauma to generate a deep psychological
- 38:29hold that can feel like an addiction, according to some
- 38:32victims. A new study by the University
- 38:36I'm Sorry by a University of Cambridge criminologist outlines
- 38:40a tactical playbook deployed by male abusers to engineer a
- 38:45trauma bond, an attachment based in cycles of threat and relief
- 38:50that leaves victims desperate for approval.
- 38:53Remember a cycle and they call it threat and relief, right?
- 38:59Threat and relief, that's what we're seeing here going over
- 39:05here. While this bond is typically
- 39:07viewed as a response to violent trauma, researcher Mags Lasiak
- 39:12argues it is in fact, intentionally manufactured by
- 39:16perpetrators using strategic systems of control long before
- 39:21they leave visible marks. Again, going back to this
- 39:24comment, the mention of the Sheriff's Department, Lucy says
- 39:29if he said it could be to insinuate she's done something
- 39:32wrong. Common abuser tactic, right?
- 39:35Using the strategies to keep their victims in this cycle.
- 39:42As such, Lesiak says that recovery strategies relying on
- 39:46theories of codependency shift blame on to victims while
- 39:50ignoring the deliberate brainwashing by abusers.
- 39:54By the way, I have reached out to Laura Richards and I have, I
- 39:57have not heard back from her yet.
- 39:59I'm hoping to have her on the show.
- 40:01For a study published in the journal Violence Against Women,
- 40:04Lesiak conducted extended interviews with 18 women who had
- 40:09suffered repeated domestic, we'll call ADV, during a
- 40:13relationship to investigate the roots of attachment beyond
- 40:16captivity, the active threat of harm or control via shared
- 40:21housing, children or finances. Women recruited for the study
- 40:25were economically independent and often lived away from
- 40:28abusers during the relationship. Importantly, the women's
- 40:32relationships had all safely ended, yet most held a seemingly
- 40:37inexplicable desire, even to themselves to return to the
- 40:41abuser. Participants included doctors, a
- 40:47dentist, a science teacher, and a chef.
- 40:51Quote patterns of manipulation, grooming and coercion were so
- 40:55consistent, it was as if all these women were talking about
- 40:59the same man, said Lesiak, who was conducting a PhD at
- 41:04Cambridge's Institute of Criminology, Continuing the
- 41:07quote. This is a distinct perpetrator
- 41:10profile. Specific techniques are used to
- 41:14construct and then weaponize love to produce a form of
- 41:18psychological captivity. As with the victims in this
- 41:21study, it can tether women to abusers even without physical or
- 41:26financial coercion. Victim attachment to an abuser
- 41:30is not a passive trauma response, but the result of
- 41:34deliberate brainwashing by a perpetrator.
- 41:39Continuing the quote, the abusers psychological tactics
- 41:42can get obscured by ideas of codependency, which suggests
- 41:46that a victim is partly culpable due to something broken or
- 41:50masochistic within. I I think that this is so
- 41:55important for those of us on the outside looking at a
- 41:59relationship like that between Magnolia and Mr. Rich's who's is
- 42:04his real name something other than Jonathan Lee Rich's It's
- 42:08like Irving Picard or is that just an alias that he used
- 42:14Irving Picard. I don't I don't know doesn't
- 42:16matter. But what's so important to those
- 42:20of US1 looking in at this relationship going why did this
- 42:25last so long and having that I don't know that that thought
- 42:33paradigm that for some reason this is partly her fault, right.
- 42:36We shouldn't be thinking in those terms because the
- 42:40perpetrators as Mr. Rich's is alleged to be by her by by Miss
- 42:47Phillips are are are using tactics and strategy in order to
- 42:55keep their victim codependent, right.
- 43:02OK, so let me continue on this article.
- 43:08Lesiak, who spent a decade in frontline mental health and
- 43:12domestic DV services, identified 3 core themes.
- 43:16Running through the interviews and experience all the women
- 43:19shared is what Lesiak terms the two faced.
- 43:22Soulmate abusers displayed an outward charm and often a fierce
- 43:27devotion to their partner. Particularly early on this gave
- 43:30way to cruelty with verbal and then months later often physical
- 43:35abuse. Randomly juxtaposed with the
- 43:38return to warmth and affection quote, it fits patterns of
- 43:42intermittent reward and punishment, a staple of
- 43:46grooming, said Lesiak. Continuing the quote, many women
- 43:49described classic love bombing in the early stages.
- 43:53Some spoke of such intense happiness that other non abusive
- 43:57relationships paled in comparison.
- 44:00Again, think of this cycle right, and I'll keep reading you
- 44:06while that cycle is on the screen.
- 44:09Quote. These relationships start with
- 44:11enchantment. The coercion and abuse that
- 44:14follows is so disorienting it leaves victims desperate to
- 44:18preserve the earlier image of their abuser.
- 44:25Let's see. Study participants all reported
- 44:28childhood trauma from emotionally distant parents to
- 44:32SA. The perpetrators cultivated a
- 44:36shared sense of pain, coaxing personal histories out of the
- 44:40women by sharing accounts of their own traumatic childhoods.
- 44:44This information was exploited by the abusers as a tool of
- 44:48control, either to generate false intimacy or through
- 44:51humiliation, belittling their partner over who had it worse or
- 44:56using it to mock them in front of others.
- 45:00All the perpetrators Co opted the healing potential of mutual
- 45:03trauma to justify abuse, foster dependency and obscure
- 45:07responsibility for their own actions, said Lesiak.
- 45:11You know what's funny about this?
- 45:17We're always trying to learn, right?
- 45:18We're always trying to learn. That's the, that's the point of
- 45:21this channel, trying to learn new, new things.
- 45:29I'm trying to be self reflective.
- 45:32I am a person who I, I tease. I, I, I like to, I like to poke
- 45:38fun at people. I poke fun at myself, but I like
- 45:42to tease and I like to joke. But I, I do think that that
- 45:46sometimes I've gone overboard on that bordering what is being
- 45:52described in this University of Cambridge article.
- 45:57I'm reading this and I'm going to Oh my goodness, Gavin, you
- 46:00need to change. And hopefully, and I'm not
- 46:03saying I've ever been abusive to anyone, but there's a spectrum,
- 46:10right? And if you're like me, you
- 46:14should be doing your, your personal inventory is what I
- 46:18call it, right? Of who you are, what you do,
- 46:21things you say and try to improve yourself in, in my
- 46:26teasing, which is always just lighthearted and trying to be
- 46:30fun. I do think that I cross the line
- 46:32sometimes and, and I, I need to, I need to be penitent of that
- 46:38right change, change that part of me.
- 46:42Anyway, it's important that we, that we think introspectively on
- 46:46this, not just, oh, these, these animals that are doing this to
- 46:50women, people like JLR is alleged to be, they're horrible
- 46:55people. I can't believe they do that.
- 46:57But what micro versions of that maybe do each one of us do?
- 47:02And how can we change that and be better people?
- 47:05That's all I'm saying. I'm, I'm, I'm just thinking
- 47:08about this introspectively. Going back to the article.
- 47:12Lastly, when asked how they felt about their former partner, most
- 47:15women compared their situation directly to addiction and
- 47:18admitted retaining a compulsion to see their abuser despite
- 47:22clear cognitive understanding of this impulse as destructive.
- 47:29Very interesting article. I will link it in the
- 47:32description below because I don't think that I already have.
- 47:35I let me let me do this real quick.
- 47:38Let me just put that in tonight's stories real quick, so
- 47:44it'll be there if you refresh. Okey dokey.
- 47:48So I guess that's what I wanted to bring for you guys today.
- 47:52The the the audio. And then this idea that there is
- 47:57there's a cycle that this trauma bond cycle that is strategically
- 48:02created by abusers to their toward their victims and that
- 48:07it's hard to get out of this cycle that you notice that
- 48:11there's no off ramp here. It only goes in a circle, right?
- 48:13You have to break out, have to break the wall to get out.
- 48:18And for those of you who have, I am super proud of you.
- 48:21For those of you who are in the cycle, I understand, I'm
- 48:25sympathetic. Let's help you break out.
- 48:27Let's go over to a couple of your comments before we move on
- 48:30to our other stories of the night.
- 48:32Let me bring up this. Let's see, Surf River maybe got
- 48:44an auto correct thing. So grateful or thankful you're
- 48:47covering you're continuing to cover this case.
- 48:49It's my pleasure. Super chat from Sharky.
- 48:54Thank you, Sharky. Thank you for sharing all this
- 48:56important information. It is my pleasure.
- 48:58We want to be we want to be better people and we want people
- 49:00who are victims to be able to to break out for themselves as
- 49:07well. Let's see.
- 49:11I think I may have missed G Malou fishies.
- 49:15Gavin will be scored by YouTube on how many likes and shares he
- 49:17gets, so please be sure to hit the like button.
- 49:19Oh my goodness you guys are awesome.
- 49:20Thanks for taking care of me. Thank you very much.
- 49:25Karen saying we need more men speaking out against the
- 49:28patriarchy. OK, I don't know.
- 49:31See, I I think we need more men speaking out against male
- 49:38abusers for sure 100% Robin, thank you very much for
- 49:43responding us. The DV hotline IS180799 safe
- 49:471800 seven 99 safe. Wow really?
- 49:53Jenny says I'm behind to do not be jealous of GLRE sounds
- 49:57uneducated and makes a lot of mistakes.
- 49:59Yeah, that's not the part I'm jealous of.
- 50:02I'm I'm I'm jealous of his income and I'm jealous of yeah
- 50:08that that's mostly it. I would love to be able to do
- 50:10this full time as as well. All I'm saying average normal
- 50:15adult. Thank you very much for the
- 50:17Super chat. JLR doesn't have a moral
- 50:19compass. He's dark triad.
- 50:23Let's see miss Chivos dragon. I had an abusive cycle like that
- 50:27with a Co worker. Our boss couldn't see how I was
- 50:30being abused. Yeah, maybe it's not just a
- 50:32domestic thing right? Maybe you get into these cycles
- 50:35at work or you know, in your, you know what I watched last
- 50:39night? I watched.
- 50:41I watched the movie. It's fiction.
- 50:43But Kimberly had read the book and she said we ought to watch
- 50:47this movie. It was such a great book.
- 50:49So we turned on the movie last night.
- 50:51And as is typical for my sweetie pie, my snuggly bear, my one and
- 50:55only about 15 minutes into it, she rolled over and closed her
- 50:58eyes. She didn't even watch the whole
- 51:00thing. I didn't expect her to, though.
- 51:02That's that's after 26 years. I I'm not surprised by that
- 51:07behavior, but I watched the whole thing and it is called the
- 51:09help. It has Cicely Tyson.
- 51:13It has why am I blanking on actors names right now?
- 51:18They're so good. Bryce Dallas Howard, it has
- 51:23Jessica Chastain. It has Oh my goodness, what are
- 51:30their names? I'm just, they're, they're such
- 51:32amazing actors. Oh, yeah.
- 51:37Octavia Spencer, Viola Davis, Emma Stone, Sissy Spacek.
- 51:43I mean, it was so, so, so good, right.
- 51:46But in thinking about that, that cycle that we just looked at,
- 51:52there is a character deliciously and evilly played by Bryce
- 51:56Dallas Howard. She's so good.
- 51:58Who is like the alpha woman of their little community and the
- 52:04coercion that she and the control that that she has over
- 52:10her like little group of bridge ladies.
- 52:13This is like in the 60s in Mississippi is exactly this.
- 52:18It's exactly this. It's emotional and it was
- 52:23verbal. You know, there's no physical
- 52:24harm. But like we, we can get into the
- 52:28cycles not in just our domestic relationships, but like Miss
- 52:32Chivos Dragon said at work, in our social circles, in our civic
- 52:39organizations and so forth. Let's see.
- 52:45Robert says most women say the verbal abuse breaks in the down
- 52:48almost worse than the physical abuse.
- 52:50In any case, it's used to break victims down.
- 52:53It is called Aquarius. Since I watched that movie, I
- 53:00can't eat chocolate pie. Yeah, I don't.
- 53:02Yeah. Yeah.
- 53:08The terrible, awful Gavin. Yeah.
- 53:10Well, you know what? I try to be a better person
- 53:13every single day. Some days I am successful.
- 53:16And. And I hope that I'm not the only
- 53:19one. Thank you to all of you for
- 53:22engaging in that conversation. That that was.
- 53:24I think it's important. I think that we'll continue to
- 53:26cover this. OK, So I promised you that I
- 53:31would have an update on Barrymore Few, on Daniel Martel,
- 53:36on the Kirby Carpenter case. I will do that.
- 53:40But before we get into that, let's answer some questions,
- 53:43shall we? Yay.
- 53:52OK, in this segment, guys, I answer three of your questions
- 53:55that you emailed to me to the e-mail address on the screen.
- 53:59It is 3 questions at gavinfishcom and it's spelled
- 54:01out. It is plural, THREE questions at
- 54:05gavinfishcom. You can send in one question at
- 54:07a time. You can send in 100 questions at
- 54:09a time. I have a little AI robot that
- 54:12takes them and puts them into a delightful little sreadsheet for
- 54:15me that I can choose from. I promise that I will answer all
- 54:17the questions that I get. I will do my best.
- 54:20I will be honest, straightforward.
- 54:22Nothing is off the table. You can ask the the questions of
- 54:26the universe. We we could philosophize
- 54:29together or we can talk about my favorite color.
- 54:31It doesn't really matter. There's a wide spectrum and I'm
- 54:33happy to do it. The dealio though, is that I do
- 54:37it three questions at a time and I get to choose the order in
- 54:40which I answer. So what is question number one?
- 54:45This came in from Suzanne. What is the most horrible crime
- 54:48you have covered? Crimes against children are the
- 54:52worst for me. They're the absolute worst for
- 54:54me. The younger the child, the worse
- 54:57it is. Many of you discovered me
- 55:01because of my coverage of the Madeline Soto case at the hands
- 55:05of that despicable, awful Stephen Sterns.
- 55:09What spoke to me on that case was Maddie was a little girl,
- 55:14right? She was a young woman and from
- 55:16the time she was 8 years old, she was abused by that monster.
- 55:19And I don't mind calling him a monster at this point, right?
- 55:23He, he admitted to doing it. He is convicted.
- 55:25He is hopefully like we don't have to look at him ever again.
- 55:30But crimes against children are the worst.
- 55:33That's why I care about Lily and Jack.
- 55:37Sorry, I've got my phone ringing here that I I should put on
- 55:42Gavin. I should put on the do not
- 55:43disturb. That is why I care so much about
- 55:47Lily and Jack, right? These are children four and six
- 55:50years old. They disappeared.
- 55:52They just fall off the face of the earth, right?
- 55:55OK, so the worst crime I have ever covered.
- 56:00Let me find it for you real quick.
- 56:12I wrote. I I covered this in in detail
- 56:19for my day job. So I'm just going to take you
- 56:23over to this website real quick. This is Trayvon's Trayvon
- 56:29Stribling Jackson. He murdered a little kiddo.
- 56:34Let me let me find this was one of the one of the articles.
- 56:42Let me go to like, one of the early ones, see if you can.
- 56:49Yeah, he he murdered this little kid and stuffed him into a bag
- 56:57and tucked him behind like a planter in a basement.
- 57:03And that is by far the worst crime I have ever covered in a
- 57:09court. That there were autopsy photos
- 57:14and the child's father was there.
- 57:18I, I just felt so badly for him. And I'm glad that Mister Jackson
- 57:23is in prison for the rest of his life.
- 57:27Question #2 Hey, these are the kinds of questions that I
- 57:31really, really like because you can answer them as well.
- 57:34This from Joanne. Where in the world would you
- 57:36like to visit that you haven't been to yet?
- 57:39So you guys know I have travelled about a fair bit in
- 57:42this world. I have lived overseas, I've
- 57:44visited overseas. I've done so mostly for
- 57:46business, but I've done the occasional touring as well.
- 57:52The only place that I care to go now, I guess there are two
- 57:56places that I would love to go that I've never been to. 1 is
- 58:00the Arctic and the other is the Antarctic.
- 58:04Antarctic. I have not been to either of
- 58:06those places. Other than that, I've been on
- 58:10every continent. I would love, I would love to
- 58:15visit Antarctica. That might be something that
- 58:17Kimberly and I do in our old age.
- 58:18We take one of those scientific vessels across, you know, from
- 58:23from Tierra del Fuego, you know, across to during the summer to
- 58:31Antarctica. My parents did that.
- 58:33I thought that was so cool. I'd love to go to Antarctica.
- 58:36I wouldn't mind just going to Alaska, but I would want to go
- 58:38above the Arctic Circle. I just, I've never been to the
- 58:41Arctic and I would love to do that.
- 58:42And I know the Iditarod was run recently.
- 58:44That'd be fun to go see. Yeah, everywhere else.
- 58:49And there are places that I have gone to and continue to go kind
- 58:53of on the frequent. Like I've been to England so
- 58:56many times I can't count. I will go again, I'm sure.
- 59:00I've been to France. I don't know.
- 59:05I don't even know. I can't.
- 59:06I have no idea how many times I've been to France, but I like
- 59:10it and and I go. So Europe is, is a place that I
- 59:15enjoy visiting. I really, I love Hong Kong,
- 59:22actually. In fairness, I haven't been
- 59:23there since the protests and the crackdown, but I, I used to love
- 59:29going to Hong Kong. I love Taiwan.
- 59:35Yeah, really want to go back to Argentina.
- 59:38But as far as places I haven't gone to, Antarctic and north of
- 59:43the Arctic Circle would be great.
- 59:44I'd love to hear what you guys think.
- 59:46And then question #3 how did Wanda develop her talent?
- 59:50She is amazing. Wanda is amazing for those of
- 59:53you who are new, I have a very real non imaginary staff
- 59:58members. They are both real and not
- 1:00:03imaginary. Javier is my lead button pusher
- 1:00:09toggle Switcher Nob Turner. And you know, every once in a
- 1:00:17while I'll talk to Javier because.
- 1:00:19You know, I need a second take or he needs to push the right
- 1:00:23button. He's kind of slow on the uptake,
- 1:00:26but he's doing a terrific job. We just got him like a couple
- 1:00:29months ago, right, Javi? Javi, you are doing great, my
- 1:00:32man. Thank you very much.
- 1:00:33And then Wanda is, she doesn't really have a title, but she's
- 1:00:38our music director. And she put in for Javi's job.
- 1:00:43But I kept her CV because it was long.
- 1:00:46It was like 70 pages of her musical talent and education.
- 1:00:52But I did ask Wanda before we started, like, what?
- 1:00:57How did she develop her talents? And this is what I found out.
- 1:01:00Now, Wanda, you don't mind me saying this, right?
- 1:01:03As far as like, your age, yeah, Wanda is, is aged.
- 1:01:09She is one of our senior citizens that we love and we
- 1:01:12want to protect. She's been on this earth a long
- 1:01:16time and hopefully she will be on this earth for a lot longer.
- 1:01:21What she told me when I asked her is she was in a carriage
- 1:01:26accident that left her in a coma when she was a young woman.
- 1:01:31And when she finally came to, 13 years had passed and she could
- 1:01:37play any instrument, any instrument like.
- 1:01:41And and in her little booth, which is on the other side of
- 1:01:44the camera over here, I can see through the glass, she is
- 1:01:47crowded in an entire orchestra's worth of instruments.
- 1:01:50And she can play them all. She can play them all.
- 1:01:53Wanda, do you mind playing something orchestral for us real
- 1:01:58quick, just so that people can hear what you can do?
- 1:02:01OK, go ahead. How does she even do that?
- 1:02:07I'm watching her. I'm hearing timpani and horns
- 1:02:14and strings. That's all Wanda.
- 1:02:16And she's doing it live in her little booth.
- 1:02:19OK, that's enough. Can you do something?
- 1:02:21Maybe a little islandy? Just something.
- 1:02:25Are those vyraphones? No, that's not the.
- 1:02:28No, there's that's a steel drum, Wanda.
- 1:02:32Oh, my goodness. Yeah.
- 1:02:34Wanda is amazing. But yeah, the.
- 1:02:37That's enough, sweetie. Thank you.
- 1:02:38Wanda, as a young woman was in a 13 year coma and when she
- 1:02:44awakened due to a carriage accident and when she awakened,
- 1:02:48she had she was a savant. She was just a savant.
- 1:02:54Now I want to hear your, your answer to this question.
- 1:02:57Where would you like to visit in the world that you haven't gone
- 1:03:00to before? But while you are telling me
- 1:03:04that in the live chat, how about I go and update you on the other
- 1:03:09cases? Let's check out the headlines.
- 1:03:11True crime headlines. OK, starting with the Barry
- 1:03:23Morphew prosecution. This in the Mountain Mail by
- 1:03:28Guinevere Strobes. Guinevere, you have a terrific
- 1:03:31name. Oh my goodness.
- 1:03:33Guinevere Stropes male Staff Writer, Mountain male Morphe
- 1:03:37Case No hearing on releasing Suzanne's remains.
- 1:03:40This was published today. OK.
- 1:03:43A brief 8 minute status conference was held March 30th
- 1:03:46for Barry Morphew with 12th Judicial District Court Chief
- 1:03:50Judge Amanda Hopkins. There was not a hearing held
- 1:03:53regarding the release of the late Suzanne Morphewen's
- 1:03:56Morphew's remains to her children, Macy and Mallory
- 1:03:59Morphew, as requested during the March 9th status conference.
- 1:04:03During the March 30th conference, Hopkins heard from
- 1:04:06David Beller, representing Morphew and Aunt Kelly. 12th
- 1:04:10Judicial District Attorney. Beller said he anticipates being
- 1:04:13able to file motions in advance of April 13th.
- 1:04:16He advised the court that the defense is anticipating filing
- 1:04:19Shrek motions relating to experts in other states.
- 1:04:24Shrek motions are called Daubert motions.
- 1:04:27According to Thompson Reuters Practical law, Daubert motions
- 1:04:30are a type of motion which seats which seeks to exclude the
- 1:04:34presentation of an expert's testimony to a jury.
- 1:04:37Kelly said there was nothing additional from the people that
- 1:04:40the court should be aware of and that communication with
- 1:04:43Morphew's defense team has been very strong.
- 1:04:46Virtual status conference check is scheduled for May 19.
- 1:04:49So that's where we are on Barry Murphy's case.
- 1:04:52Basically, hey, the defense doesn't want these experts to
- 1:04:56testify and we'll be filing stuff on that and nothing else
- 1:05:00on releasing her remains to the daughters.
- 1:05:04OK, moving on to Mr. Martell, this from saltwire.com written
- 1:05:10by Aaron Beswick. New evidence disclosure adjourns
- 1:05:13charges against stepfather to Jack and Lily Sullivan.
- 1:05:16This does not mean charges were dismissed.
- 1:05:18OK, let this was published today.
- 1:05:22Let's just read it. A last minute disclosure of
- 1:05:25additional evidence by the RCMP led to an adjournment of Daniel
- 1:05:29Martel's plea hearing on charges of SA assault and forcible
- 1:05:34confinement. Martel, 34, is the stepfather to
- 1:05:37Jack and Lily Sullivan, the two children I think I've got.
- 1:05:44Let's bring up a picture of Jack and Lily.
- 1:05:46The two children went missing last May from the Lansdowne
- 1:05:50Station home he shared with their mother.
- 1:05:53Here is Mr. Martel, here he is. Here is Miss Brooks Murray, the
- 1:05:59children's father. There they are together.
- 1:06:02The charges are unrelated to the disappearance of Jack and Lily
- 1:06:06Sullivan. Martel was represented by his
- 1:06:08lawyer, Nicholas as a Horn, I don't know.
- 1:06:12During the hearing in Pictou Provincial Court, Crown attorney
- 1:06:16Bill Gorman said outside the courtroom that additional
- 1:06:19evidence was received from the RCMP on Monday morning that
- 1:06:22would have to be disclosed to the defense.
- 1:06:24A new hearing for election and plea was scheduled for May 4th.
- 1:06:29Of course, there is still a prohibition on the publication
- 1:06:35of anything having to do with the victim in that case.
- 1:06:37We don't. We just know that it's an adult
- 1:06:39victim. And finally, guys, this one
- 1:06:43actually makes me mad. Do you guys remember the case of
- 1:06:47Kirby Carpenter? Let me see if I can.
- 1:06:51Kirby Carpenter was an entrepreneur, 30 something year
- 1:06:56old man, father of two, who was murdered by this man, a man
- 1:07:03named Jeff Spence, who is convicted in his murder just
- 1:07:06last week on in his second trial.
- 1:07:09His first trial ended in a mistrial, but Miss Caitlin
- 1:07:14Spence, this one right here. She testified against her
- 1:07:17father, made a deal with the with the prosecution.
- 1:07:26Karen Spence was also charged. Not sure what's going on there.
- 1:07:29Doesn't matter. We can just get into this, OK.
- 1:07:32This written in the Daily Journal by William Moore.
- 1:07:35Caitlin Spence given suspended sentence for part in boyfriend's
- 1:07:38murder Dateline Ripley, Ms. Three days after her father was
- 1:07:44convicted of first degree murder for the 2022 death of her
- 1:07:47boyfriend, Caitlin Spence was sentenced in Tippa County
- 1:07:51Circuit Court for accessory after the fact, but left the
- 1:07:54courtroom a free woman in April 2025, Spence admitted in court
- 1:08:00that she knew her father had killed Tippa County entrepreneur
- 1:08:03Kirby Carpenter, but did not immediately come forward.
- 1:08:06As part of the plea agreement, sentencing was deferred until
- 1:08:09after she testified at her father's trial.
- 1:08:12Monday morning, Circuit Judge Kelly Luther accepted the
- 1:08:15state's recommendation and sentenced Spence to 20 years.
- 1:08:19Spence was given credit for the 17 months she spent in jail
- 1:08:22awaiting trial, and the judge suspended the remaining time.
- 1:08:26She was also sentenced to 25 or I'm sorry, to five years of
- 1:08:29probation. What does this mean?
- 1:08:31It means that that 20 years plus five years is suspended over her
- 1:08:36if she if she acts poorly in any way, off to prison she goes.
- 1:08:49While Spence declined to speak during sentencing, she told the
- 1:08:52Daily Journal that after her father confessed to her about
- 1:08:55killing Carpenter, she remains silent, waiting for him to step
- 1:08:58up and accept responsibility. Quote, I thought he was going to
- 1:09:01come forward and do the right thing, Spence said.
- 1:09:03But as things went on, it became obvious that he was not going to
- 1:09:06come forward and clear my mother and me.
- 1:09:08Here's an idea. How about you call the police?
- 1:09:13There, there, Caitlin, How about you just call the police?
- 1:09:15You know what my grandma would say?
- 1:09:18She would say Caitlin looks rode hard and put away wet.
- 1:09:23An old equestrian metaphor. But it's not enough.
- 1:09:31It's not enough for me. But anyway, guys, those are your
- 1:09:37headlines. Let's get to your comments.
- 1:09:44True crime headlines. Let's see.
- 1:09:49Hey, we got a very very generous suer chat in Wrong button.
- 1:09:53Gavin, this is the button we want.
- 1:09:56We are all jealous of JLR's income, but I fixed that when I
- 1:10:01switched to your channel. That's how I'm doing my part.
- 1:10:03So thankful for your content. What a difference.
- 1:10:06I don't feel so dirty after watching you.
- 1:10:08Thank you diddly squat. My goodness so generous and I
- 1:10:13deeply deeply appreciate you Karen for me that way.
- 1:10:17Thank you so much. Let's see a couple people that
- 1:10:22we want to we want to celebrate. Let's see Ohio pawn bomb fanatic
- 1:10:32for four months for new people, a fish called Wanda.
- 1:10:35Yes indeed, yes indeed. Black widower is a member for
- 1:10:39six months. Thank you very much, Black
- 1:10:41widower Autumn, 21 months as a member.
- 1:10:45Thank you, Autumn Robin say what 15 months.
- 1:10:51Amazing, amazing, amazing. Let's go to a couple of comments
- 1:10:58here. Do, do, do, do, do, do, do, do,
- 1:11:01do, do, do. Let's see.
- 1:11:03Emmy would like to go to Italy and Sicily.
- 1:11:06And I'm proud of you for dividing up Italy and Sicily
- 1:11:09because while they are the same government, they are different
- 1:11:12places and very different. I've, I've never been to Sicily.
- 1:11:16I've been to Italy. But but yeah, great place to
- 1:11:20visit. Emmy says I recommend Malta and
- 1:11:24Bulgaria. Yes, indeed, both beautiful
- 1:11:26places. What else have we got?
- 1:11:30Jenny says I would love to go visit.
- 1:11:36I have no idea how to say that go back or Egypt to see the
- 1:11:42pyramids. Yeah, very those would be I I
- 1:11:45don't know the first area. I don't know where that is.
- 1:11:47Where is that? Let's let's get a copy of roof
- 1:11:50of that and find out where that is.
- 1:11:53That is Upper Mesopotamia and modern day Turkey.
- 1:12:00Oh, so you're all about the history.
- 1:12:03That's that's pretty cool. Marie.
- 1:12:05Would love to visit Australia and New Zealand.
- 1:12:07Highly recommend. Highly recommend.
- 1:12:11Gavin, have you ever been to Poland?
- 1:12:13I have, yeah. Let's see, Where have I been in
- 1:12:20Poland? I had a distributor meeting
- 1:12:22there one time. Give me a second.
- 1:12:25I remember the trip very well because I that trip I was all
- 1:12:29over the continent. I, I was in northern Germany.
- 1:12:37I went up to Denmark, I went over to where's Arlanda airport,
- 1:12:48Stockholm, and then, and then as I went down to down back to
- 1:12:57Germany, I went to Poland. Oh, I went to Warsaw.
- 1:13:02That's where it was. I was thinking Krakow, but no,
- 1:13:05went to Warsaw. So yeah, I have been to Poland.
- 1:13:09Sharky Sharona wants to go to Holland, possibly this year.
- 1:13:12Holland is a beautiful place. Yes, indeed.
- 1:13:18Let's see, Barb Olson says. I heard that Javier is hot.
- 1:13:21You know, listen, I am confident enough in my own masculinity
- 1:13:27that I can, I can confirm that Javier is a handsome, handsome
- 1:13:31man for sure. Javier.
- 1:13:35Yeah, he's hot. You're looking good, my friend.
- 1:13:37Looking good. Sherry.
- 1:13:41Nevada pup says I am very new here and I'm confused.
- 1:13:45Are Javier and Wanda human beings?
- 1:13:47Well, well, Sherry, not only are they human beings, but they are
- 1:13:53non imaginary and very real. Definitely, Yeah, yeah.
- 1:14:00And I don't believe me. I don't have cameras back there.
- 1:14:03That's the thing. And in the in the booth and
- 1:14:06Javi's booth and in Wanda's sound booth, I don't have
- 1:14:09cameras in there. Maybe, maybe I need to add that
- 1:14:11technology in. Javi, would you like to have a
- 1:14:14camera in your booth? Javi says a resounding no, Javi
- 1:14:20would not like a booth, a camera in his booth.
- 1:14:24What about you, Wanda? A camera is a device that that
- 1:14:32that captures your image and the place where you like your
- 1:14:36surroundings and it broadcasts it through various other pieces
- 1:14:41of technology. To my audience, Wanda would not
- 1:14:44like a camera. Guys, I'm I'm sorry.
- 1:14:46Wanda does not want a camera. OK, Karen saying Morpheus Bam
- 1:14:56suddenly morphed into morphed and got stolen.
- 1:14:58How handy for him. Indeed, indeed, Sarcasm says
- 1:15:03thank you for covering this. Please do not stop the cheesy
- 1:15:05jokes. Hello to all You Beautiful
- 1:15:07people. I I will never change who I am
- 1:15:10and thank you very much for your generosity.
- 1:15:14Robert. The ruse.
- 1:15:14Tanzania. I've always wanted to visit
- 1:15:17Africa. Kilimanjaro would be nice to at
- 1:15:19least look at, if not climb. Plus Tanzania has a quota for
- 1:15:23the percentage of women in government.
- 1:15:24That's pretty cool. I excuse me, one of the cool.
- 1:15:32My parents used to travel quite a bit and my parents are in
- 1:15:36their late 70s now, but I think it was my mom's 50th birthday.
- 1:15:41Let's count the years on this, maybe 55th, I can't remember.
- 1:15:48Man, that's been so long ago. But anyway, they were on, they
- 1:15:51were on a trip and they were traveling throughout Africa.
- 1:15:55And there is a place between Zambia and Zimbabwe where
- 1:16:01there's a bridge between the countries that goes over
- 1:16:04Victoria Falls. It's a famous area, right?
- 1:16:07And there was a girl, a younger woman in the group who wanted to
- 1:16:13do a bungee jump off of the, the, the bridge, which was
- 1:16:19offered there, but she didn't want to do it alone.
- 1:16:21She just didn't have enough courage to do it alone.
- 1:16:23And my mom, because she is an adventurous tiger, goes, I'll do
- 1:16:28it with you. So my mom on her birthday, I
- 1:16:30think it was her 50th birthday, maybe 55th, I can't remember,
- 1:16:36totally jumped off a bridge in Africa.
- 1:16:42And she's just awesome that way. She's just awesome.
- 1:16:46Star Chasm. Let's get Gavin to goal.
- 1:16:49Oh, we're so close. We're so close.
- 1:16:50Guys. We've got 8 super chats.
- 1:16:52You guys are taking care of me and I deeply appreciate it.
- 1:16:58Robin says Brugue in Belgium is a gorgeous city.
- 1:17:01I've never been there. That sounds great.
- 1:17:04Love to go to Easter Island off the coast of Chile.
- 1:17:06Yeah, I've never been there, nor have I been to Chile.
- 1:17:09That would be fun. Lucky lady would like to go to
- 1:17:11Graceland. That'd be cool.
- 1:17:15I want to go to Turkey and get plugs.
- 1:17:20I know, I know. I'm.
- 1:17:21I'm being vain, but yeah, my hairline is receding.
- 1:17:24I don't like it. My wife is not.
- 1:17:27My wife is not supportive. Lynn Taylor says.
- 1:17:30Can we hear their voice, Javi? And you're asking about Javi and
- 1:17:34Wanda. They have microphones in their
- 1:17:37boots that I can hear them, but I just don't have it that Javi,
- 1:17:40do you have a toggle that you can share your voice?
- 1:17:43We we don't have that toggle. We're going to have to install
- 1:17:47that toggle. Sorry, guys, I, I, I can't
- 1:17:49today. Sherry is saying, how is it
- 1:17:53you've been able to travel to all these different places?
- 1:17:55You're so funny about Javi and Wanda.
- 1:17:58Mostly for work for about 10 or 15 years, I worked in high end
- 1:18:03audio. I worked my way up to sales and
- 1:18:07marketing and you know, to a director level and then to a
- 1:18:12vice president level, then to the C-Suite level.
- 1:18:14And there are conferences all over the world that I would do
- 1:18:19every single year. It would be the same conference
- 1:18:22every year, right? But, but as those conferences
- 1:18:26pile up, it's like every two weeks I'm in some other place.
- 1:18:29And then in addition to those during the, during the down
- 1:18:32season, you would go and I would visit distributors and dealers
- 1:18:36in different places over the, all over the US and Canada and
- 1:18:40then mostly Europe. And then in Asia it was Hong
- 1:18:44Kong, Thailand, Singapore, Malaysia, Philippines, Taiwan,
- 1:18:50Korea, you know, I, I did go to mainland China, but but for
- 1:18:57different reasons anyway. So that's that's why, that's why
- 1:19:04and thanks for asking that question.
- 1:19:07Let's see one more. There's a super chat from Star
- 1:19:09Chasm. Holy cow, Star Chasm, you are
- 1:19:12you are taking care of it, taken care of it.
- 1:19:18All right, I think I think we're done.
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