Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 123 - With Sadie
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- 0:02Speaker 1: You are listening to Tom's Hirshbrung's Podcast, a space where
- 0:05Speaker 1: we talk openly about living with Hirshprung's disease. Whether you
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- 0:19Speaker 1: about a condition that often goes unheard. Thank you for
- 0:22Speaker 1: tuning in. Hello, and welcome to episode one hundred and
- 0:46Speaker 1: twenty three of Tom's Hirshbrungs Podcast. I'm very glad to
- 0:50Speaker 1: be joined this evening by Sadie. Sadie, welcome to the podcast.
- 0:54Speaker 2: Thanks Tom for having me, Thank you.
- 0:56Speaker 1: So much for coming on, and we are here to
- 0:59Speaker 1: talk about your daughter. Yeah. Sofia, yes, absolutely has total
- 1:06Speaker 1: colonic hirshbrun total colonic hirshbruks disease and is just just
- 1:12Speaker 1: over five months. Is that right?
- 1:14Speaker 2: Yeah, she just turned five months on the twenty fourth
- 1:16Speaker 2: and March.
- 1:17Speaker 1: Fantastic and you're coming off months after giving birth. I
- 1:20Speaker 1: be so kudos to you. Absolutely, I'm fine. That absolutely incredible.
- 1:25Speaker 1: Oh wow, come on, you know so soon acoo, So yeah, absolutely,
- 1:31Speaker 1: kudos for big here. It's incredible. Now I guess we
- 1:35Speaker 1: can start from from the very beginning. So yeah, over
- 1:40Speaker 1: to you, thank you.
- 1:42Speaker 2: So yeah, so Sophia with total kalonic basically totally healthy
- 1:47Speaker 2: pregnancy and you know, perfect labor and delivery. And then
- 1:53Speaker 2: it was pretty much the day that she was born,
- 1:56Speaker 2: I started seeing some things happening. I knew that something
- 2:00Speaker 2: wasn't right. I already have a son who's five, so
- 2:04Speaker 2: you know, I've been through having a baby before. And yeah,
- 2:10Speaker 2: we fed her once after she was born, and then
- 2:13Speaker 2: things started happening. She would kind of like gurgle at
- 2:17Speaker 2: her mouth and then kind of bubble and then like gag.
- 2:20Speaker 2: And I never seen a baby do that before, so
- 2:24Speaker 2: I knew something was wrong. I would pick her up.
- 2:27Speaker 2: I would turn her over, pat her on the back
- 2:30Speaker 2: and like a little bit of like yellowye tinted like
- 2:34Speaker 2: I would say the amount of spit up, but it was,
- 2:37Speaker 2: you know, a big amount for our baby. It seemed
- 2:40Speaker 2: like vomit to me. So anyways, this is happening throughout
- 2:45Speaker 2: my time in the postpartum care room. And you know,
- 2:48Speaker 2: I made it known to the nurses that this is happening.
- 2:51Speaker 2: Because she was delivered in five minutes. The nurses mentioned
- 2:55Speaker 2: that probably from a quick delivery, she had fluid in
- 2:58Speaker 2: her tummy, it would probably surpasse in the next twenty
- 3:01Speaker 2: four hours. So I was like, okay, not too worried.
- 3:05Speaker 2: Continued to happen throughout the night, and then you know,
- 3:09Speaker 2: I had said to one of the nurses, like, you know,
- 3:11Speaker 2: she's I think she's choking, Like when she does this.
- 3:14Speaker 2: She mentioned, do you know what to do when a
- 3:17Speaker 2: baby chokes? Which I of course do, but I was concerned.
- 3:20Speaker 2: I knew that this was not normal. I felt scared
- 3:22Speaker 2: to walk away from her in the basinette because I
- 3:26Speaker 2: thought that she would choke. So anyways, you know, she's
- 3:31Speaker 2: not really feeding, she's still doing this vomiting thing. And
- 3:35Speaker 2: then you know, it comes the next day and it
- 3:38Speaker 2: should be about time for discharge. Well you know, she
- 3:41Speaker 2: hasn't passed muconium, and so, uh, the pediatrician and the
- 3:46Speaker 2: rest of the team come in, they take blood work,
- 3:48Speaker 2: they look at her. There was like probably at least
- 3:52Speaker 2: six people in the room at one time. It was
- 3:54Speaker 2: pretty like overwhelming. I mentioned to the pediatrician, you know,
- 3:59Speaker 2: she's so vomiting, and he mentioned again it would pass
- 4:03Speaker 2: in the next twenty four hours. Or so. So then
- 4:07Speaker 2: you know, about an hour goes by and a nurse
- 4:11Speaker 2: comes in and they basically assist her in passing the
- 4:15Speaker 2: muconium by essentially now I know, it would be called
- 4:19Speaker 2: an irrigation, but without using a catheter. It was more
- 4:22Speaker 2: of just like a thermometer cover that they used and
- 4:28Speaker 2: like muconium came out. So they discharged us and we
- 4:32Speaker 2: went home, and you know, things just got worse from there.
- 4:38Speaker 2: She was not peeing because she wasn't eating. She was
- 4:42Speaker 2: vomiting much more amounts now because I kept trying to
- 4:45Speaker 2: feed her and she still wasn't passing any newconium on
- 4:51Speaker 2: her own. And then it came about three am. I
- 4:55Speaker 2: knew something was wrong. She was uncomfortable, she wasn't feeding
- 4:59Speaker 2: like normal. I just knew something was wrong, and I
- 5:03Speaker 2: ended up seeing if I could help her pass any
- 5:06Speaker 2: new konium myself because I was confused, like what is
- 5:09Speaker 2: going on? This is not normal. I was able to
- 5:13Speaker 2: help her pass it, but again she wasn't doing it
- 5:16Speaker 2: on her own. So then the following morning about eight am,
- 5:23Speaker 2: I'm like, I think something's wrong. I think we need
- 5:26Speaker 2: to go back to the hospital. So then you know,
- 5:30Speaker 2: I told my husband. I called my mom to stay
- 5:32Speaker 2: with her son, and we got ready and took her
- 5:36Speaker 2: to the hospital. Prior to going to the hospital, I
- 5:40Speaker 2: was just looking up why is my newborn not pooping?
- 5:43Speaker 2: Because this seemed to be the biggest issue, Like she's
- 5:45Speaker 2: throwing up, but she's not pooping, so there seems to
- 5:47Speaker 2: be a connection there, And basically, hirshprings disease was the
- 5:52Speaker 2: first thing that came up. But you know, everyone tells
- 5:56Speaker 2: you when you look something up, take it with a
- 5:58Speaker 2: grain of salt, right like, so I'm like thinking, no,
- 6:03Speaker 2: like there's no way, Like you know, I'm scared, of course,
- 6:08Speaker 2: so I'm like, who knows? So we go to the er.
- 6:11Speaker 2: We're sitting there and just this emotion came over me,
- 6:16Speaker 2: like it's not where I want to be with my
- 6:18Speaker 2: two day old baby right now, like you know, also
- 6:22Speaker 2: POSTPARTU myself, Like I just started getting upset because I was.
- 6:28Speaker 2: I was honestly scared, and you know, we get triaged.
- 6:32Speaker 2: We explain the situation to the triage nurse, to which
- 6:37Speaker 2: she asked us to try feeding her because her sugar
- 6:41Speaker 2: was low, and we tried feeding her and she did
- 6:46Speaker 2: not take anything from the bottle. She only vomited, so
- 6:49Speaker 2: you know, that's kind of concerning. She's not even taking anything,
- 6:53Speaker 2: but she's vomiting like So then luckily, you know, they
- 7:00Speaker 2: did admit us because prior to me saying that she
- 7:04Speaker 2: hadn't peed, they were going to keep they were going
- 7:07Speaker 2: to let us go. But because I said she hadn't
- 7:09Speaker 2: peed and that she may be dehydrated, they decided to
- 7:13Speaker 2: admit us. But I thought that was strange because I
- 7:17Speaker 2: told you she hasn't passed muconium. That should be a
- 7:20Speaker 2: concern in my opinion. So yeah, I thought that was strange.
- 7:25Speaker 2: But then you know, I can get into more detail after.
- 7:29Speaker 2: But looking at her medical records from the hospital, there
- 7:34Speaker 2: there was a miscommunication. On her hospital records. One thing
- 7:39Speaker 2: says past muconium, one thing says past muconium with assistance.
- 7:43Speaker 2: So somewhere in there someone put something that was not accurate.
- 7:50Speaker 2: So then you know, they admit us. We're sitting in
- 7:53Speaker 2: the er for about six hours. We sat in the
- 7:58Speaker 2: er with Sophia and she wasn't eating. Of course, they
- 8:03Speaker 2: hooked her up to an IV. They had you know,
- 8:06Speaker 2: the oxygen and heart rate monitor on her, and just
- 8:12Speaker 2: as the time went on, she was turning more in
- 8:15Speaker 2: more orange, and I just knew that something wasn't right.
- 8:19Speaker 2: She had these little tiny cracks on her hands and
- 8:22Speaker 2: feet from being so dehydrated. It was really scary. We
- 8:28Speaker 2: ended up going for imaging, X ray, ultrasound. Then we
- 8:33Speaker 2: were finally admitted about five pm that night to the
- 8:37Speaker 2: pediatric floor. A doctor and a student came in. They
- 8:42Speaker 2: spoke to us and said that there was nothing they
- 8:46Speaker 2: could see on the ultrasound or X ray that seemed
- 8:50Speaker 2: out of the ordinary, just that there was some gas
- 8:53Speaker 2: build up in the small bowel, that is what he said.
- 8:58Speaker 2: So that was kind of like, I'm not a medical professional,
- 9:02Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, gas build up, sure, But at the
- 9:05Speaker 2: same time, she's not even eating, so it seemed strange.
- 9:09Speaker 2: And then, you know, as the night went on, the
- 9:12Speaker 2: nurses and the doctor kept encouraging me to feed her,
- 9:18Speaker 2: and that was extremely frustrating because she continued to vomit.
- 9:24Speaker 2: Of course, you know, it's the same pattern over and over,
- 9:28Speaker 2: and at this point it had become even worse the vomiting.
- 9:33Speaker 2: It was then projectile vomiting and it was very, very yellow,
- 9:40Speaker 2: and you know, the nurses offered to feed her throughout
- 9:44Speaker 2: the night. I don't know if they thought there was
- 9:48Speaker 2: something they were missing or something they could do that
- 9:52Speaker 2: would be different than what I was doing. You know,
- 9:55Speaker 2: they were calling her lazy, and it was really frustrating.
- 10:00Speaker 2: It felt like no one was listening to me, even
- 10:02Speaker 2: though I knew something was wrong. The doctor, he asked
- 10:09Speaker 2: about a history of cystic fibrosis, as you know, there
- 10:12Speaker 2: is sometimes a muconium plug with cystic fibrosis, And then
- 10:18Speaker 2: he asked about Hirschbrung's disease, like he asked about family history.
- 10:22Speaker 2: Of course, there's no family history, so I say no,
- 10:26Speaker 2: to which he attempts to help her with passing muconium,
- 10:31Speaker 2: and he again does the same thing the nurse did
- 10:33Speaker 2: in the hospital during our postpartum care room, and muconium
- 10:38Speaker 2: came out. He said, I don't think it's Hirshbrungs, because
- 10:42Speaker 2: if it was, it would have sported it out. And
- 10:45Speaker 2: I'm thinking, I don't know if that really makes a difference,
- 10:51Speaker 2: like the like, you know what I mean, It just
- 10:53Speaker 2: doesn't seem like that would be a necessarily typical thing,
- 10:57Speaker 2: especially now knowing that Hirshbrungs is different in every kid,
- 11:02Speaker 2: you know, every kid handles it differently and shows symptoms
- 11:06Speaker 2: a little bit differently, Like I think because she was
- 11:09Speaker 2: so backed up is the reason that it kind of
- 11:11Speaker 2: more pooled out instead of you know, so he just
- 11:15Speaker 2: right there was like, nope, I don't think so, he said,
- 11:20Speaker 2: I don't think this warrants a call to London because London,
- 11:24Speaker 2: Ontario is the closest children's hospital to us. So and
- 11:30Speaker 2: this was a Sunday night. So basically, yeah, we say
- 11:35Speaker 2: the night things did not go well progressively got worse.
- 11:40Speaker 2: I then the next morning was I had stopped feeding her,
- 11:45Speaker 2: even though they kept asking me to even the next day.
- 11:49Speaker 2: I said no, like I don't think it's safe. I
- 11:51Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable, like I'm not feeding her. She was
- 11:55Speaker 2: hooked up to fluids, but you know, that does only
- 11:58Speaker 2: do so much for baby, who obviously needs more. And
- 12:02Speaker 2: then I was sitting there in the room, decided to
- 12:07Speaker 2: get up and go look at her in the crib,
- 12:10Speaker 2: and she was choking on her vomit. She was her
- 12:15Speaker 2: eyes were rolled into the back of her head, her
- 12:18Speaker 2: body was stiff as a board, and she wasn't breathing.
- 12:23Speaker 2: So it was really scary, and you know, I just
- 12:26Speaker 2: picked her up as fast as I could, and I
- 12:29Speaker 2: like patted her on the back so hard, and finally
- 12:32Speaker 2: she started breathing and she came to it and I
- 12:37Speaker 2: screamed at the top of my lungs like somebody helped
- 12:39Speaker 2: my baby, and my husband ran down the hallway to
- 12:41Speaker 2: get somebody. We were all the way at the very
- 12:43Speaker 2: end of the hallway, so we were far from the desk,
- 12:46Speaker 2: and you know, a bunch of nurses came rushing in.
- 12:50Speaker 2: The new pediatrician for that day came in. They moved
- 12:55Speaker 2: us to a room that was right beside the desk.
- 12:57Speaker 2: They hooked her up to an enng tube and they
- 13:00Speaker 2: were like we're calling London. Thank god, thank god they did.
- 13:06Speaker 2: And you know, it was very scary that she choked,
- 13:09Speaker 2: and it's sad that that's what had to happen to
- 13:12Speaker 2: escalate things. But at the same time, I'm like almost
- 13:17Speaker 2: like thankful that happened, because if it didn't, like what
- 13:21Speaker 2: if they still wouldn't have believed me, What if they
- 13:23Speaker 2: still would have been brushing it off, like you know.
- 13:27Speaker 2: So anyways, basically, they called the transport team. Took took
- 13:31Speaker 2: like two to three hours for them to come from London.
- 13:35Speaker 2: Because that is about two hours away from from us.
- 13:39Speaker 2: So they came and they got her all situated. I
- 13:43Speaker 2: was able to talk to the team who was going
- 13:44Speaker 2: to be taking her. They replaced her n G two
- 13:48Speaker 2: because it wasn't big enough. Nothing was coming out of
- 13:51Speaker 2: the one that was put in. So then finally they
- 13:55Speaker 2: put a bigger one in the team from London, and
- 13:58Speaker 2: lots of greenish yellow bile came out immediately, And you know,
- 14:05Speaker 2: they were they were so kind in knowing that, you know,
- 14:09Speaker 2: like I'm obviously scared postpartum. She's a tiny, little fragile baby,
- 14:13Speaker 2: like three days old. And then yeah, they got her
- 14:18Speaker 2: all hooked up to everything that they needed to. They
- 14:20Speaker 2: put her in this like little like incubator on a
- 14:24Speaker 2: car to put her in the ambulance and bring her
- 14:26Speaker 2: to London. Unfortunately, I couldn't go. I couldn't go with them,
- 14:31Speaker 2: So I was very emotional and scared about that because
- 14:37Speaker 2: it's a two hour drive away from me, and yeah,
- 14:45Speaker 2: with people I obviously don't know, even though I know
- 14:47Speaker 2: they're going to take the best care that they can
- 14:49Speaker 2: of her, of course, so you know, they said, we're
- 14:53Speaker 2: going lights and sirens, you know, we're going to take
- 14:56Speaker 2: her and you guys will get there when you get there, okay,
- 15:00Speaker 2: you know, And it was like, okay, like this is
- 15:02Speaker 2: serious now, like this is for real. So then luckily
- 15:08Speaker 2: one of the the nurses that was with her, there
- 15:14Speaker 2: was a respiratory, an all pediatric, and there was a
- 15:18Speaker 2: nurse and another medical professional. I can't remember, but of
- 15:24Speaker 2: course that was such a blur for me. And she
- 15:28Speaker 2: ended up getting my phone number and my husband's phone number,
- 15:31Speaker 2: and she sent us a picture when they were in
- 15:33Speaker 2: the ambulance, Sofia was sleeping, she was good, and it
- 15:37Speaker 2: was like so reassuring that she did that. And then
- 15:39Speaker 2: when they got to the hospital, she sent a picture
- 15:42Speaker 2: and said we've arrived and she's being watched. So it
- 15:45Speaker 2: was like thank god, you know, like so that was
- 15:49Speaker 2: really reassuring. My husband and I came home, packed our bags,
- 15:53Speaker 2: said goodbye to our son, and drove two hours to London.
- 16:00Speaker 2: You know, bizarre, like three days after giving birth. You
- 16:04Speaker 2: never would have thought that that's what you'd go through.
- 16:08Speaker 2: But yeah, then we got to London. We immediately knew
- 16:12Speaker 2: it was the place to be because they were immediately
- 16:18Speaker 2: on it. She was admitted to the General Surgery team
- 16:23Speaker 2: for a suspected bowel obstruction. So that's what the pediatrician
- 16:28Speaker 2: in Windsor, that's what she admitted her for when she called.
- 16:32Speaker 2: So then we were able to talk to some of
- 16:35Speaker 2: the surgery residents and you know, they said, do you
- 16:39Speaker 2: know what the plan is? And we were like no,
- 16:41Speaker 2: like what's the plan? Like you know, by this point,
- 16:44Speaker 2: I'm like the emotions are put aside. I'm serious, like
- 16:48Speaker 2: we need to figure out what's going on, like you know.
- 16:51Speaker 2: And he was like, we are going to do an
- 16:53Speaker 2: upper GI test, lower GI test, We're going to do
- 16:56Speaker 2: X ray, ultrasound like He's like, we're gonna do it all.
- 17:00Speaker 2: And I was like, okay, let's do it, Like this
- 17:03Speaker 2: is what we need to be doing, you know, because
- 17:06Speaker 2: I knew something was wrong, like I when she choked
- 17:10Speaker 2: and the team in Windsor came in to help. When
- 17:14Speaker 2: I screamed for help, I literally said to them, I
- 17:18Speaker 2: know that something is wrong between here and here, and
- 17:21Speaker 2: I pointed to the upper of her abdomen and basically
- 17:24Speaker 2: her bump. I'm like, something is wrong in between here there.
- 17:27Speaker 2: It's not going down, it's only coming up. There's something
- 17:30Speaker 2: going on, like you know, So then you know, we
- 17:34Speaker 2: did all the imaging and you know, there was nothing
- 17:39Speaker 2: that they could really see right away. It was crazy
- 17:42Speaker 2: because they said, you know, usually you can see some
- 17:46Speaker 2: kind of narrowing with her sprungs in imaging, but the
- 17:51Speaker 2: only thing that was kind of narrow was her rectum.
- 17:54Speaker 2: And you know, we did a contrast enema and even
- 17:57Speaker 2: the radiologist said, you know, I don't think this looks
- 18:01Speaker 2: like hirshprungs. There's a small narrowing near the small bowel,
- 18:05Speaker 2: but he said that's not uncommon. So you know, at
- 18:09Speaker 2: this point, you know, we're thinking, don't know what's going on.
- 18:14Speaker 2: I think it was maybe day two. The surgeon had
- 18:18Speaker 2: come in and spoke to us and said, we are
- 18:21Speaker 2: thinking two possible things, but we don't know yet. And
- 18:24Speaker 2: so he explained to us pyloric stenosis and he explained
- 18:29Speaker 2: Hirshbrung's disease, and he said, I have never seen those
- 18:33Speaker 2: two things together, but it's not impossible. So he was
- 18:39Speaker 2: thinking that it was both of those things. So then
- 18:44Speaker 2: day five rolls around and it's like she needs food.
- 18:49Speaker 2: So they ended up taking her for a pickline procedure.
- 18:53Speaker 2: They put her under put a pickline in so that
- 18:55Speaker 2: she could get total parental nutrition and be stable. Figuring
- 19:00Speaker 2: out what's going on because obviously she kind of eat
- 19:03Speaker 2: like orally, blood tests and everything. Eventually we started the irrigations,
- 19:11Speaker 2: which helped significantly. Like obviously she became very distended, you know,
- 19:18Speaker 2: her her tummy was not tender anymore. So it was
- 19:22Speaker 2: really nice that we started doing that because it's like, yes,
- 19:25Speaker 2: she needs this relief, like because if we hadn't have
- 19:28Speaker 2: done that, you know, her bowels could have perforated, and
- 19:32Speaker 2: you don't want that. So yeah, basically it took a
- 19:37Speaker 2: little while to figure out what was going on. Once
- 19:39Speaker 2: they kind of knew that it wasn't pylo or stenosis
- 19:42Speaker 2: because they did a repeat ultrasound and it didn't get thicker,
- 19:46Speaker 2: so they knew it wasn't. That they started working on
- 19:51Speaker 2: suspected hirshprungs. They did the rectal biopsies and unfortunately they
- 19:57Speaker 2: kept coming back in conclusive, so then there was only
- 20:02Speaker 2: one that came back conclusive after doing three of them.
- 20:06Speaker 2: They sent us home after two weeks doing the irrigations,
- 20:10Speaker 2: said we'll see you in three to six months for
- 20:12Speaker 2: a pull through surgery. It probably is Hirshprungs disease, you know,
- 20:16Speaker 2: And at this point I had started feeding her. It
- 20:19Speaker 2: was a little bit difficult. She would still have like
- 20:22Speaker 2: slightly yellow spit up. It wasn't the amount that it
- 20:27Speaker 2: was before, but it was still yellow. The teen wasn't
- 20:32Speaker 2: concerned about it though, So then, you know, we were
- 20:37Speaker 2: home for five days. We're waiting for the second biopsy
- 20:41Speaker 2: to come back and confirm. And on day five, I
- 20:48Speaker 2: was getting ready to go get more medical supplies for
- 20:50Speaker 2: her irrigations and I go to get her out of
- 20:55Speaker 2: her swing and she has vomited all over herself, bright yellow,
- 21:00Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh no, this is not good. And
- 21:04Speaker 2: I started to feel like the irrigations were becoming less
- 21:07Speaker 2: successful as time went on, so I was kind of
- 21:12Speaker 2: thinking that plus the vomit, I'm like, this is not good.
- 21:15Speaker 2: Like we're back to the beginning. So I called my husband,
- 21:18Speaker 2: I said, we need to go to London. He's like, okay.
- 21:23Speaker 2: I called my mom. I'm like, you have to pick
- 21:24Speaker 2: up my son from school because we have to bring
- 21:27Speaker 2: Sophia to London. Something's wrong. So we go to London.
- 21:31Speaker 2: We're in the er very quick, very very quick, like
- 21:34Speaker 2: you know, and by this point she's like three weeks old,
- 21:39Speaker 2: so it was very quick. She was the youngest one
- 21:42Speaker 2: in there. And right after we were triaged, the nurse says,
- 21:47Speaker 2: can I get a private room for this baby? Bring
- 21:49Speaker 2: us to a private room. And then her surgeon, luckily
- 21:53Speaker 2: he was there. He was on call, and he came
- 21:56Speaker 2: down to see her. The resident surgeon came down to
- 21:59Speaker 2: see her. They did an irrigation, did an X ray,
- 22:04Speaker 2: you know, we basically did everything we could, and her
- 22:07Speaker 2: surgeon ultimately was like, I'm not very happy with these results.
- 22:11Speaker 2: Her stomach is very ballooned, so much so that it's
- 22:14Speaker 2: impressive and not in a good way. And so he
- 22:20Speaker 2: basically was like, you know, he knew that I was
- 22:23Speaker 2: emotional to be back there and that it was tough,
- 22:26Speaker 2: you know, like he knows and he goes, we might
- 22:32Speaker 2: have to do a stoma surgery tomorrow. And it was
- 22:35Speaker 2: like surgery, Like that's a big word, you know, for
- 22:39Speaker 2: a little three week old baby. And he's like explaining
- 22:44Speaker 2: it to me, and it's just it was just a
- 22:48Speaker 2: lot in the moment. He explained that basically they would
- 22:54Speaker 2: go in and do the biopsies full thickness biopsies when
- 22:57Speaker 2: they do the surgery, and we would then have an
- 23:01Speaker 2: answer as to what was going on. So I did
- 23:05Speaker 2: feel some relief in knowing that that would be the
- 23:07Speaker 2: case because we needed to know, and you know it
- 23:15Speaker 2: it was a lot. He said that he would give
- 23:17Speaker 2: it the night to find out if we would be
- 23:19Speaker 2: doing surgery in the morning. Unfortunately, you know, either way
- 23:24Speaker 2: we would have had to have done it. So he
- 23:26Speaker 2: did make the decision that night, even without seeing her.
- 23:30Speaker 2: He said, you know, it was easy for me to
- 23:32Speaker 2: make the decision. After seeing her. He called the pathologists
- 23:35Speaker 2: told him that he needs to be there when they're
- 23:37Speaker 2: doing the surgery to do the biopsies right away. So
- 23:42Speaker 2: next morning rolls around and she has, you know, her
- 23:46Speaker 2: belly has gone down, but she's on suction and gtube.
- 23:50Speaker 2: You know that's not long term obviously, and she's not eating.
- 23:54Speaker 2: So you know, even though her belly went down, she
- 23:57Speaker 2: still needed that surgery. So yeah, basically she goes into
- 24:02Speaker 2: surgery and four hours later, her surgeon calls and he
- 24:09Speaker 2: was like, hey, Sadie, Sophia did well. She's in recovery
- 24:15Speaker 2: and she he said, long segment her spring disease. So
- 24:19Speaker 2: he said her rectum and her entire bowel like her colon.
- 24:27Speaker 2: So I guess like long segment and total colonic could
- 24:31Speaker 2: maybe be similar in a way. But yeah, so basically
- 24:35Speaker 2: her entire colon. I then learned about total klonic after
- 24:39Speaker 2: her diagnosis, so I realized that that's what it would
- 24:42Speaker 2: be called. So after surgery, you know, she has her
- 24:47Speaker 2: iliostomy bag. She had a laparotomy with diverting loop iliostomy
- 24:57Speaker 2: and full thickness biopsies. That is what she had. So
- 25:01Speaker 2: basically they do a small five centimeter incision just above
- 25:05Speaker 2: her belly button to the left, and then they went
- 25:10Speaker 2: in did the biopsies, like pulled her bowels out to
- 25:15Speaker 2: check everything out, and then created the diverting loop stoma iliostomy.
- 25:21Speaker 2: So she does still have her colon right now, and
- 25:24Speaker 2: then that would be our next surgery is the pull through.
- 25:31Speaker 2: So yeah, basically after surgery, you know, it was hard
- 25:35Speaker 2: to see her in the condition she was in. She
- 25:38Speaker 2: was very pale, her heart rate kept skyrocketing. Yeah, and
- 25:45Speaker 2: you know, obviously she's got these bandages and stitches and
- 25:50Speaker 2: this new austiny bag over her stoma, which a stoma
- 25:55Speaker 2: after surgery is intimidating, looks scary, It looks very scary.
- 26:03Speaker 2: It was obviously very big at the time, but as
- 26:08Speaker 2: time went on it did get smaller and it is.
- 26:11Speaker 2: It is a very nice stoma that she has. Now
- 26:13Speaker 2: it's not so big and intimidating anymore. I remember being
- 26:18Speaker 2: in the hospital and thinking like, why can't I get
- 26:21Speaker 2: a bag to stay on? But you know, now I
- 26:24Speaker 2: can realize that it's because of how big the stonma
- 26:27Speaker 2: was making it so difficult. But now it's much it's
- 26:31Speaker 2: much easier. Of course, especially with the lack of baby
- 26:37Speaker 2: osto meat products. It's like, you really want to find
- 26:39Speaker 2: something that works.
- 26:41Speaker 1: Yeah that does that?
- 26:42Speaker 3: Still is that still the thing, because it still seems
- 26:46Speaker 3: to be you know, they seem to have adult bags
- 26:49Speaker 3: for children or baby stoneas. Is that still Is that
- 26:52Speaker 3: still the case?
- 26:54Speaker 2: Yeah? So for Sophia, there is two different like newborn
- 26:58Speaker 2: baby like ostome products. One is by a Hollister and
- 27:04Speaker 2: one is by Coloplast. Personally, I like the Hollister the best,
- 27:10Speaker 2: but yeah, there was only those two options. So I
- 27:13Speaker 2: was kind of in the hospital working with both options,
- 27:16Speaker 2: like which one works better? And like it was horrible,
- 27:19Speaker 2: like it would leak like two three times a day.
- 27:21Speaker 2: I would have to change it, like you know, I
- 27:24Speaker 2: became comfortable with doing it, but at the same time,
- 27:27Speaker 2: like my poor child, like tearing this off so many
- 27:30Speaker 2: times a day and putting a new one on, like,
- 27:32Speaker 2: you know, but we've got a routine now. It's good.
- 27:35Speaker 2: It's a lot better. But yeah. So then more tests
- 27:41Speaker 2: came after her diagnosis though, because her surgeon mentioned a
- 27:45Speaker 2: lot of times other things can be associated with long
- 27:49Speaker 2: segment or total chlonic because that is something that's more
- 27:52Speaker 2: commonly genetic. So he wanted to look for CCHS, which
- 27:59Speaker 2: is the congener at all central hypoventilation syndrome. So that's
- 28:04Speaker 2: if you have like the fox to be gene mutation,
- 28:07Speaker 2: which she did. Get genetic testing done. We have our
- 28:10Speaker 2: appointment at the end of the month to find out
- 28:13Speaker 2: what it is. But they're not concerned about the CCHS
- 28:17Speaker 2: syndrome because they did breathing like respiratory monitoring on her
- 28:26Speaker 2: throughout the night and she was she was okay, she
- 28:29Speaker 2: was good, so they weren't worried about that. And then
- 28:35Speaker 2: you know, genetics when they came up to take her
- 28:37Speaker 2: blood work. They also just kind of like looked at
- 28:40Speaker 2: her facial features and her body and stuff to make
- 28:43Speaker 2: sure there was no other like syndrome that they could
- 28:46Speaker 2: see to the eye. So yeah, as of right now,
- 28:53Speaker 2: everything's good. They they did an echo cardiogram on her heart,
- 28:58Speaker 2: they did ultrasound on her kidneys because sometimes those two
- 29:02Speaker 2: things can be impacted as well. But yeah, everything looks good.
- 29:07Speaker 2: Hopefully only the total Kalana Kirshbrungs, I think that's more
- 29:11Speaker 2: than enough for a little one to handle. But yeah,
- 29:17Speaker 2: so right now, we're just managing her ostomy and she's
- 29:23Speaker 2: doing well with it. Of course, she's had it since
- 29:27Speaker 2: three weeks old and she's five months, so she's doing
- 29:30Speaker 2: pretty good. Sometimes there's a prolapse that can be very scary.
- 29:36Speaker 2: I think the biggest thing with her iliostomy, especially when
- 29:39Speaker 2: we were still in the hospital, was gaining weight. It
- 29:43Speaker 2: was really hard to see consistent weight gain for her.
- 29:49Speaker 2: So they ended up putting her on sodium chloride because
- 29:53Speaker 2: they were like, this will help her retain the weight.
- 29:57Speaker 2: Because we weren't allowed to leave until we had five
- 29:59Speaker 2: concenttive days of wait gain, so we were like, come on,
- 30:03Speaker 2: we need these five days. We want to go home.
- 30:06Speaker 2: You know, so I wanted to enjoy my newborn because
- 30:10Speaker 2: that all of that is not at all why I
- 30:14Speaker 2: expected after giving birth to her. Still so bizarre to
- 30:20Speaker 2: me that that's how everything happened. I think there's definitely
- 30:25Speaker 2: some trauma, you know, but I just try to be
- 30:30Speaker 2: grateful and stay positive, and you know, she's here and
- 30:34Speaker 2: she's doing well, and that's the most important thing to me,
- 30:37Speaker 2: of course. So yeah, it's been quite the journey.
- 30:42Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean that definitely definitely sounds like one heck
- 30:47Speaker 1: of a journey. I mean, there's parts in that story
- 30:49Speaker 1: where I don't know, when you're talking about the bile,
- 30:53Speaker 1: about all of that being sticked up, sounds like like
- 30:57Speaker 1: absolute classic hirshprungs. There was a shame that that wasn't
- 31:02Speaker 1: diagnosed straight away. But you mentioned stoma, is there there's
- 31:08Speaker 1: a couple of things, a couple of things or talk
- 31:10Speaker 1: about with the prolapses. Do they still teach the sugar
- 31:15Speaker 1: trick where you put sugar on the on the stoba? Yes.
- 31:19Speaker 2: So, actually we had in home nurses for like a
- 31:23Speaker 2: few weeks after getting home. I'm pretty independent with it,
- 31:26Speaker 2: so we don't have them anymore. But when her first
- 31:29Speaker 2: prolapse happened and I reached out to them. They mentioned
- 31:32Speaker 2: that sometimes you can put sugar on it and it
- 31:35Speaker 2: will go back. In one thing though, that I have
- 31:39Speaker 2: found to work so far for me, knock on wood
- 31:45Speaker 2: is like cold compress, so that seems to help. If
- 31:49Speaker 2: I lay her down, she's calm, you know, like of course,
- 31:52Speaker 2: not crying and freaking out. Then I just put a
- 31:55Speaker 2: cold compress on her soma every once in a while,
- 31:58Speaker 2: take it off, look at it, take it off, look
- 32:00Speaker 2: at it type thing, and eventually it will go down.
- 32:05Speaker 2: So that has been helpful because I'm sure you know
- 32:12Speaker 2: you've probably heard, but with prolapses, if they don't go back,
- 32:16Speaker 2: or if they get dark in color, or you know,
- 32:18Speaker 2: if stool is not coming out, then that is a
- 32:22Speaker 2: risk because that could mean an emergency surgery to remove
- 32:25Speaker 2: any dead tissue that could have happened during that prolapse.
- 32:28Speaker 2: So you know, that is a scary thought. And unfortunately,
- 32:34Speaker 2: because she's a baby and lacks the abdominal muscles, when
- 32:39Speaker 2: she cries and she's like really crying, sometimes that's what happens.
- 32:43Speaker 2: So it's it's pretty It's like I want to keep
- 32:46Speaker 2: her happy all the time.
- 32:48Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, I didn't know the cold compress one. I haven't.
- 32:53Speaker 1: I haven't heard that one. That's a really interesting one.
- 32:56Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know if anyone else listening has,
- 32:58Speaker 1: but I yeah, I hadn't heard that one at all.
- 33:01Speaker 1: And on stonemas as well. I know you mentioned that
- 33:04Speaker 1: when he went in the second time and they talked
- 33:10Speaker 1: about stonma surgery. And presume when they talk about stoma
- 33:14Speaker 1: surgery then they might be like a form to sign
- 33:17Speaker 1: or something just in the moment. So I've spoken to
- 33:23Speaker 1: parents who've been in a very similar situation to this.
- 33:27Speaker 1: In the moment and they're talking about the word stoma,
- 33:30Speaker 1: does any of it go in at that time?
- 33:34Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good question, honestly. Like I was very
- 33:40Speaker 2: emotional in that moment, especially once I kind of heard
- 33:43Speaker 2: that that's what he wanted to do. But he kind
- 33:46Speaker 2: of explained it like right away when he was talking
- 33:49Speaker 2: about it. He mentioned, you know, we might have to
- 33:52Speaker 2: do a stoma surgery tomorrow, which is when I would
- 33:55Speaker 2: go in and bring her working bowel to her abb
- 34:00Speaker 2: him in. And I actually knew what a stoma and
- 34:04Speaker 2: antomy iliostomy was already. My grandma had colon cancer for
- 34:11Speaker 2: six years and she had an aliostomy as well, so
- 34:16Speaker 2: I already knew like what it was. I of course
- 34:20Speaker 2: didn't know the side of what I'm on now, like
- 34:24Speaker 2: changing it in all that, et cetera. But I knew
- 34:30Speaker 2: that it was a thing, and most commonly you know,
- 34:33Speaker 2: in bowel cancer patients that would receive it or even
- 34:41Speaker 2: you know, I'm now learning like a lot of people
- 34:43Speaker 2: who have crones and colitis also will end up with
- 34:46Speaker 2: an ostome, and you know, they talk about how it
- 34:48Speaker 2: gives them their life back. So I did know a
- 34:51Speaker 2: little bit about it, and then once he explained it,
- 34:54Speaker 2: but in that moment, I was just thinking, like my
- 34:57Speaker 2: baby going into surgery, Like this is scary, like, you know,
- 35:02Speaker 2: especially when she's already not well off and that's why
- 35:06Speaker 2: she needs surgery. It's kind of scary, like she's already
- 35:08Speaker 2: so fragile, you know, like how much can she take?
- 35:12Speaker 2: You know? So it was it was scary. There was
- 35:14Speaker 2: lots of days and nights that I just kept praying
- 35:18Speaker 2: that you know, she would stay with us and she
- 35:21Speaker 2: would you know, be okay, and the doctors would figure
- 35:24Speaker 2: out what was going on. And you know, I grew
- 35:27Speaker 2: up Catholic and I and I pray, and I've never
- 35:31Speaker 2: prayed harder than I did in that time, honestly, because
- 35:35Speaker 2: I just thought, Lord protect my baby. Like you know,
- 35:38Speaker 2: it's a scary time to go through all of that, right, So.
- 35:43Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, And I know that faith has been there
- 35:48Speaker 1: for a lot of people, especially in those very, very
- 35:52Speaker 1: trying times. And I think there's a lot of people
- 35:56Speaker 1: I talk to who who really really quite a lot
- 36:00Speaker 1: on faith to really get through getting through those times.
- 36:05Speaker 1: And I think that's, yeah, definitely.
- 36:08Speaker 2: I think I was a little bit frustrated. So you know,
- 36:12Speaker 2: of course, with both my pregnancies, before giving birth to
- 36:16Speaker 2: both my kids, I've always you know, pray to God
- 36:20Speaker 2: that they would be healthy, we would have a safe
- 36:22Speaker 2: and healthy delivery, and you know, and I think I
- 36:27Speaker 2: was a little bit I was a little bit angry
- 36:30Speaker 2: that she was born and all of this was happening,
- 36:34Speaker 2: like but you know what, something I've realized is that
- 36:39Speaker 2: God gave her to me, and God gave her to
- 36:41Speaker 2: me for a reason, and you know, I have to
- 36:47Speaker 2: trust in his plan. And you know, like I said,
- 36:53Speaker 2: God gave her to me for a reason, and iould
- 36:55Speaker 2: truly feel like you know, I'm doing everything I can
- 36:58Speaker 2: for her, and even a special when it comes to advocating,
- 37:01Speaker 2: because you know, a lot of people don't know what
- 37:03Speaker 2: Hirshpring's disease is, so.
- 37:08Speaker 1: Oh they don't they definitely do that, But yeah, I
- 37:13Speaker 1: think there is also, like you kind of alluded to, there,
- 37:16Speaker 1: that sort of feeling of why me? Sometimes you know,
- 37:20Speaker 1: whether it's in your situation, whether you're a parent of
- 37:24Speaker 1: a child with Hirshbrungs, or whether you're in my situation
- 37:27Speaker 1: and you have Hirshbrungs and you kind of think, yeah,
- 37:30Speaker 1: but why why did I get it? Especially because we're
- 37:33Speaker 1: sort of in similar situations where we have no family
- 37:35Speaker 1: history of the condition. I have no family history, Sofia
- 37:40Speaker 1: doesn't either, So you kind of think, well, why why
- 37:44Speaker 1: why did I get it? You know? Or why did
- 37:46Speaker 1: my baby get it? And I think that is a
- 37:49Speaker 1: perfectly understandable reaction. I think that's perfectly normal, and hopefully
- 37:57Speaker 1: one day we will get we will get an answer,
- 38:01Speaker 1: but at the moment, we kind of don't. How you
- 38:06Speaker 1: spoke a bit before as well, just on that sort
- 38:10Speaker 1: of mental side as well, about the sort of PTSD
- 38:14Speaker 1: trauma effect that's absolutely again in my experience and the
- 38:20Speaker 1: people I spoke to, that is absolutely one hundred percent
- 38:24Speaker 1: a thing, one hundred percent real and it you know,
- 38:29Speaker 1: I think that is again when people talk about the word,
- 38:34Speaker 1: I think the word trauma's overused and PTSD the words
- 38:37Speaker 1: are overused a little bit, very true.
- 38:38Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, everyone's level of traumatic is
- 38:43Speaker 2: going to be different as well. So you know, I
- 38:47Speaker 2: fair it is overused, but I do truly feel because
- 38:51Speaker 2: there is these feelings that keep, you know, coming in
- 38:54Speaker 2: in certain moments. You know, if I look at pictures
- 38:57Speaker 2: of when I was pregnant, you know, or when I
- 39:01Speaker 2: first gave birth to her, and you know, this is
- 39:04Speaker 2: before everything happened, it kind of hits me in a
- 39:07Speaker 2: different way, like, you know, I never had these expectations
- 39:11Speaker 2: of what would come afterwards, you know, Like so, yeah, I.
- 39:16Speaker 1: Think that and that's that's real trauma, you know that
- 39:19Speaker 1: that's the real sense of the word, you know, as
- 39:21Speaker 1: opposed to when people use it quite flippantly, which frustrates me.
- 39:25Speaker 2: That's that's one hundred percent, No, one hundred percent, Like
- 39:30Speaker 2: you know, being in those hospital, those days and those
- 39:34Speaker 2: nights of you know, watching her and there's nothing I
- 39:38Speaker 2: could do for her to console her. Like, you know,
- 39:41Speaker 2: all I could do was give her her soother I
- 39:43Speaker 2: couldn't feed her, I couldn't I could hold her. I
- 39:45Speaker 2: could rock her, you know, which was really you know,
- 39:49Speaker 2: something I'll always remember is the nurses and my husband
- 39:53Speaker 2: both like constantly both times being at the hospital before
- 39:57Speaker 2: and after her surgery, mentioning every time I would be
- 40:02Speaker 2: holding her in the rocking chair and rocking her that
- 40:05Speaker 2: she just seems so content with me. And that was
- 40:08Speaker 2: just always something that I will remember because that was
- 40:12Speaker 2: that felt good in the moment, like I was her
- 40:15Speaker 2: safe space in the moment, you know, even though she
- 40:18Speaker 2: was dealing with so much in so much pain, and
- 40:21Speaker 2: you know, so that's something I'll always remember that's actually
- 40:24Speaker 2: special from that. But other than that, yeah, like all
- 40:27Speaker 2: the testing, you know, I went with her to every
- 40:31Speaker 2: single imaging, every single test that I could go with
- 40:33Speaker 2: her too, Like I went with her, And it's a
- 40:38Speaker 2: lot for a little baby to go through all of that,
- 40:40Speaker 2: you know. And yeah, it's it's not what you to
- 40:45Speaker 2: expect after having a baby, that's for sure.
- 40:47Speaker 1: No, h No, I think that obviously people with who
- 40:53Speaker 1: have family the history of hershbruns who kind of you know,
- 40:56Speaker 1: you can sort of plan for that, but no, when
- 40:59Speaker 1: your site's wiped like that and you won't plan at
- 41:04Speaker 1: all for that. It is Yeah, as I said right
- 41:07Speaker 1: at the very beginning, to then come on and do
- 41:09Speaker 1: a podcast five months on, it is incredible.
- 41:13Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 41:14Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 41:15Speaker 2: No, I'm very honestly, like like I said about like
- 41:19Speaker 2: you know, meant to be her mom and God gave
- 41:22Speaker 2: her to me. I truly feel like advocating for her
- 41:26Speaker 2: and advocating about her Shpring's disease and you know, spreading
- 41:30Speaker 2: the word for awareness and all that stuff is truly
- 41:35Speaker 2: it feels like up. It feels like I'm doing something.
- 41:37Speaker 2: It feels like I'm you know, I really do want
- 41:42Speaker 2: to help those who are dealing with this. Like like
- 41:44Speaker 2: I said, a lot of people don't know about it,
- 41:46Speaker 2: and you know, I didn't know about it until having
- 41:49Speaker 2: a daughter with it, and then you know, even friends
- 41:53Speaker 2: and family not knowing about it either. So you know,
- 41:56Speaker 2: I think also one of the things about not knowing
- 42:00Speaker 2: about it is people don't realize just how severe and
- 42:03Speaker 2: serious it can be and how how it starts, like
- 42:06Speaker 2: you know, because it is traumatic. I would say for
- 42:10Speaker 2: you know, parents and Luckily the baby won't remember things
- 42:14Speaker 2: from when they're a newborn. But either way, they're still
- 42:17Speaker 2: going through it in the moment, right and it's painful.
- 42:20Speaker 2: It's uncomfortable, like you know, they don't get to just
- 42:24Speaker 2: be a normal baby and just eat and sleep and
- 42:27Speaker 2: poop all day right like so you know, but yeah, no,
- 42:33Speaker 2: I do find a passion in talking about it, so
- 42:37Speaker 2: I'm glad to be on here.
- 42:39Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely And just finally, I know we said
- 42:42Speaker 1: we were going to to talk about this as well.
- 42:46Speaker 1: So again I mean bodies to remind me of this.
- 42:50Speaker 1: But Sofia is due another surgery and there's a gofund
- 42:53Speaker 1: me but that's surgery. Do you want to talk just
- 42:56Speaker 1: a little bit about that.
- 42:57Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, so yeah, base Sophia will be receiving her
- 43:03Speaker 2: pull through surgery and which you know, the surgeon would
- 43:08Speaker 2: go in remove her colon and any other affected bowel.
- 43:15Speaker 2: I know that her rectum is affected, but this is
- 43:18Speaker 2: kind of where things come into play. Unfortunately, in Canada
- 43:23Speaker 2: where I live, there is really no general uh there's
- 43:30Speaker 2: only general surgeons that do these surgeries. There's no specialist
- 43:34Speaker 2: like cole erectal specialist and pediatric at that. So basically, uh,
- 43:41Speaker 2: being in a Hirshprung's group on Facebook, I have you know,
- 43:45Speaker 2: learned about different resources, different people's stories, experiences, and it
- 43:51Speaker 2: sounds like, you know, many families you know, go through
- 43:56Speaker 2: issues after a pull through or you know, they're going
- 44:00Speaker 2: through other surgeries, and it sounds like some families end
- 44:05Speaker 2: up going to see doctor Wood in Ohio at Nationwide
- 44:09Speaker 2: Children's Hospital for colorectal care. And you know, I thought,
- 44:16Speaker 2: with her having such a severe and rare form of
- 44:19Speaker 2: her Shprungs disease, you know, one that happens in everyone
- 44:24Speaker 2: to fifty thousand or one hundred thousand kids, it's quite rare,
- 44:30Speaker 2: and I felt that it was important that we see
- 44:33Speaker 2: a specialist for her to have the most success in
- 44:37Speaker 2: long term after her pull through surgery. You know, so
- 44:42Speaker 2: I created a GoFundMe because anything out of country is
- 44:47Speaker 2: not covered unfortunately by our Ontario o hip program, and
- 44:54Speaker 2: it has to be paid out of pocket. Fortunately, they
- 45:00Speaker 2: we have given us a discount because we are out
- 45:02Speaker 2: of country, but it is still sixty thousand dollars to
- 45:06Speaker 2: go to Nationwide for us, so and that would be
- 45:09Speaker 2: honestly even if we were to go somewhere out of province.
- 45:13Speaker 2: I know that Montreal has a hospital that does some
- 45:19Speaker 2: coarectal work, but even if we were to go there,
- 45:22Speaker 2: it would be about thirty to forty thousand dollars as well.
- 45:27Speaker 2: So I just really want to give her the best
- 45:30Speaker 2: chance at long term success with her pull through surgery
- 45:33Speaker 2: so that she can have a somewhat normal childhood and
- 45:37Speaker 2: hopefully you know, not have to have significant amount of
- 45:42Speaker 2: medical intervention or surgeries afterwards. And yeah, just by seeing
- 45:50Speaker 2: a specialist, I think that it's going to be the
- 45:52Speaker 2: best thing for her in having that success. You know,
- 45:56Speaker 2: doctor wood At Nationwide has done these surgeries for twenty
- 46:00Speaker 2: six years. He's been working with pediatrical erectals. So I'm sorry,
- 46:04Speaker 2: I can't beat that. Like, really, twenty six years in
- 46:07Speaker 2: pediatrical erectal is highly highly specialized, you know. So, and
- 46:14Speaker 2: it's of course nothing against any general surgeons. Sophia's general
- 46:18Speaker 2: surgeon saved her life, you know, and he he is
- 46:21Speaker 2: a great surgeon of course. Of course, you know, he
- 46:24Speaker 2: did mention to me when we had Sophia's follow up
- 46:27Speaker 2: that he'd only seen a few of Sophia's cases in
- 46:30Speaker 2: his in his career. So that's kind of like, you know,
- 46:36Speaker 2: if he's only seen a few maybe he's only done
- 46:38Speaker 2: it a few times, you know, So it's you know,
- 46:42Speaker 2: I just want to get for the best chance possible
- 46:44Speaker 2: at long term success, like I mentioned, by seeing a specialist.
- 46:47Speaker 2: So I did create a GoFundMe. You know, we are
- 46:50Speaker 2: hoping to raise, you know, a significant amount of help.
- 46:55Speaker 2: I will be doing like a pasta fundraiser with my
- 46:57Speaker 2: family and friends in our town. And you know, even
- 47:03Speaker 2: if we can get it down to an amount that
- 47:05Speaker 2: we can afford being on only one income because of
- 47:11Speaker 2: course I'm one on Matt leave, and two now that
- 47:15Speaker 2: she has this complex, rare disease, I have to be
- 47:18Speaker 2: her caretaker as well. So yes, there's a lot of
- 47:23Speaker 2: things that come into play, and I'm just really hoping
- 47:26Speaker 2: that I can give her this.
- 47:28Speaker 1: This chance, absolutely, And I'll link the link for that
- 47:31Speaker 1: will be in description of this video. It will be
- 47:33Speaker 1: in the If you listen to this on Spotify, it'll
- 47:36Speaker 1: be in the link there, or Apple will be in
- 47:39Speaker 1: the link there. Wherever you're listening to is. There will
- 47:41Speaker 1: be a link below that you can contribute to the
- 47:46Speaker 1: go fundme for Sophia but I just want to say
- 47:49Speaker 1: thank you so so much for coming on. It has
- 47:52Speaker 1: been a pleasure to chat to you again. As I
- 47:54Speaker 1: mentioned five months on after after giving bird and going
- 47:58Speaker 1: through such much an incredible time. I guess it's just
- 48:03Speaker 1: left for me to say that I wish all the
- 48:06Speaker 1: very best with the go fundme and for everything else
- 48:10Speaker 1: for you and Sofia in the future. Thank you so
- 48:14Speaker 1: much for coming on.
- 48:15Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you Tom, Thank you for having me, and
- 48:17Speaker 2: thank you for sharing the go fund me and spreading
- 48:19Speaker 2: the word for Sophia. We really appreciate it my pleasure.
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