Latest / QUESTION EVERYTHING / How To Build A Brand That Lasts: with Lew Frankfort (Chairman + Former CEO of Coach)
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- 0:03Speaker 1: No one has all the answers, but when we ask
- 0:05Speaker 1: the right questions, we get a little closer, closer to truths,
- 0:11Speaker 1: closer to each other, even closer to ourselves. I'm journalist
- 0:16Speaker 1: Danielle Robe, and each week my guests and I come
- 0:19Speaker 1: together to challenge the status quo and our own ways
- 0:22Speaker 1: of thinking by daring to ask what if, why not?
- 0:28Speaker 2: And who says?
- 0:30Speaker 1: So? Come curious, dig deep, and join the conversation. It's
- 0:35Speaker 1: time to question everything.
- 0:40Speaker 2: Hello.
- 0:41Speaker 1: Hello, I hope you're having a beautiful day and a
- 0:45Speaker 1: really great lead up to Thanksgiving. I am in Portover
- 0:50Speaker 1: to Mexico with my entire mom's side of the family.
- 0:53Speaker 2: So my last living grandmother.
- 0:55Speaker 1: My Oma, who I think you guys have probably heard
- 0:58Speaker 1: me talk about. She is turning ninety and she wanted
- 1:01Speaker 1: everybody to be together. So we are all at an
- 1:05Speaker 1: all inclusive in Mexico together for Thanksgiving week and next
- 1:11Speaker 1: week I'll report back. You know, I'm not sure we'll
- 1:13Speaker 1: ever get the opportunity to do this again, so I'm
- 1:17Speaker 1: taking it all in. But it's funny having cousins and
- 1:20Speaker 1: aunts and uncles and everybody from all over the country
- 1:22Speaker 1: who aren't always together together at one dinner table every
- 1:27Speaker 1: single night.
- 1:28Speaker 2: It's been interesting and fun.
- 1:30Speaker 1: Also, you've probably noticed that there's some ads at the
- 1:33Speaker 1: beginning of the show and in the middle of the show,
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- 1:37Speaker 2: For a long time, we didn't have ads.
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- 1:54Speaker 1: This has been just a long time building and coming,
- 1:57Speaker 1: and so I'm gonna be honest with you. I know
- 2:00Speaker 1: ads can be a little bit annoying, and I thought
- 2:03Speaker 1: about that long and hard. But here's what my sort
- 2:06Speaker 1: of analysis was. I have to recoup some money from
- 2:09Speaker 1: the podcast. So my analysis was, it's better that they
- 2:14Speaker 1: pay us for ads than ask you to pay for
- 2:16Speaker 1: the podcast. Right.
- 2:18Speaker 2: I figured you'd be on board with that. I just
- 2:20Speaker 2: I don't want to charge for the podcast.
- 2:22Speaker 1: I love like I just believe in free information and
- 2:26Speaker 1: I want to connect with as many of you as possible.
- 2:30Speaker 1: So that's what that's about. And thanks for growing with me.
- 2:34Speaker 1: You know, sometimes on emails I'll sign off when I
- 2:37Speaker 1: feel it we grow together, and I really believe that deeply,
- 2:42Speaker 1: I hope that I add to your life, and you
- 2:44Speaker 1: add so much to my life, and so thank you
- 2:47Speaker 1: for growing together, for growing with me. So I always
- 2:50Speaker 1: think that Thanksgiving puts people in a reflective mood, right
- 2:53Speaker 1: like I'm sure you go around the table with your
- 2:55Speaker 1: family and ask what everybody's grateful for, or think about
- 2:58Speaker 1: it at least. And so I felt like dropping of
- 3:01Speaker 1: values driven episode right before the holiday gives gives everyone,
- 3:07Speaker 1: including me, something to carry into the holiday. And our
- 3:10Speaker 1: guest today lives his life by his values.
- 3:15Speaker 2: Truly.
- 3:16Speaker 1: Let me explain, every generation has a few people who
- 3:22Speaker 1: remind us that progress doesn't start with power.
- 3:25Speaker 2: It starts with perspective.
- 3:27Speaker 1: People who see the world just a few degrees differently,
- 3:31Speaker 1: and in doing so, shift the entire horizon for the
- 3:35Speaker 1: rest of us. Some of them are household names. Okrah
- 3:38Speaker 1: Winfrey turned rejection into a media empire. Steve Jobs transformed
- 3:44Speaker 1: of firing into a new way of imagining the future.
- 3:48Speaker 1: Sarah Blakely reinvented an entire industry with five.
- 3:51Speaker 2: Thousand dollars in a wild idea. Madam C. J. Walker,
- 3:55Speaker 2: who rose.
- 3:55Speaker 1: From impossibly hard beginnings to become America's first female self
- 3:59Speaker 1: made millionaire.
- 4:01Speaker 2: And then there are quieter innovators too.
- 4:03Speaker 1: Hiroshi Iwatani, a Japanese engineer who felt like he'd failed
- 4:07Speaker 1: as a musician.
- 4:09Speaker 2: So what did he do.
- 4:10Speaker 1: He built something for people who were afraid to sing,
- 4:13Speaker 1: the karaoke machine, and he changed how the world experiences
- 4:18Speaker 1: nightlife and entertainment and joy. So what ties these people together, Well,
- 4:23Speaker 1: it's not their resumes. It's that they were brave enough
- 4:27Speaker 1: to notice what others overlooked, and they were generous enough
- 4:31Speaker 1: to build something better.
- 4:33Speaker 2: That's the lineage.
- 4:34Speaker 1: Today's guest belongs to Lou Frankfurt, the former CEO of Coach.
- 4:38Speaker 1: Didn't start out imagining he'd reshape American fashion. He began
- 4:43Speaker 1: as a kid from the Bronx, the son of a
- 4:45Speaker 1: police officer, finding his voice through a speech impediment, learning
- 4:50Speaker 1: early that strength doesn't always look like certainty. Sometimes it
- 4:54Speaker 1: looks like listening, and sometimes it looks like curiosity. U
- 5:00Speaker 1: memoir Bagman traces a path from public service to the
- 5:03Speaker 1: corner office, from leather samples to building one of the
- 5:07Speaker 1: most recognizable brands.
- 5:09Speaker 2: On the planet.
- 5:10Speaker 1: But what makes Lou's story resonate is not just the
- 5:13Speaker 1: scale of his success.
- 5:15Speaker 2: It is the clarity of his values.
- 5:18Speaker 3: So I had the north star, which was to really
- 5:22Speaker 3: build a microcosm of the best of America in the
- 5:26Speaker 3: bag and accessories that would represent the values of us
- 5:31Speaker 3: as Americans.
- 5:32Speaker 1: He coined the term accessible luxury, which is a concept
- 5:35Speaker 1: that didn't just describe a brand, but it redefined an
- 5:39Speaker 1: entire category of fashion.
- 5:41Speaker 3: You need to be able to have bold imagination and
- 5:45Speaker 3: think that you could create something that perhaps did not exist.
- 5:50Speaker 2: His book is really good. It's really not a business memoir.
- 5:53Speaker 1: Sure there's business in it or business stories in it,
- 5:57Speaker 1: but Lou was courageous enough to share the high highs
- 6:01Speaker 1: and the deeply personal lows. And as I sat across
- 6:05Speaker 1: from him interviewing him, I just kept thinking, what an iconoclast.
- 6:11Speaker 2: He's such a striver.
- 6:13Speaker 1: He built the first American luxury bag brand, and he
- 6:16Speaker 1: did it with so much integrity.
- 6:18Speaker 2: So obviously I had a ton of questions.
- 6:22Speaker 1: But the one I keep coming back to, and the
- 6:25Speaker 1: one I had when I was reading his book, the
- 6:27Speaker 1: one that we're circling today is how do you lead
- 6:30Speaker 1: with values in a culture that rewards shortcuts? And I
- 6:34Speaker 1: guess I'll throw one more in there. What does integrity
- 6:37Speaker 1: look like In an age where everything is a moment,
- 6:41Speaker 1: it's time to question everything with Lou Frankfurt. So, Lou,
- 6:50Speaker 1: the title of your book bag Man. I love the cover,
- 6:53Speaker 1: by the way, thank you, But bag Man is a
- 6:55Speaker 1: nod to your career at Coach. Of course, you notably
- 6:59Speaker 1: took the company from a six million dollar family run
- 7:02Speaker 1: leather goods maker to a five billion dollar publicly traded
- 7:06Speaker 1: brand known worldwide. But there's a little humility and satire
- 7:11Speaker 1: in the title of this book. The bag man is
- 7:13Speaker 1: like kind of known as the unglamorous but essential, like
- 7:19Speaker 1: the operator, the errand guy I wouldn't call the guy
- 7:22Speaker 1: running the show bag man.
- 7:24Speaker 2: Can you tell me?
- 7:25Speaker 1: I'm sure you ran through so many titles. Why did
- 7:27Speaker 1: you land on bagman? What does it mean to you?
- 7:31Speaker 3: Well? I do consider myself a bag man because I
- 7:34Speaker 3: built vessels for people to put their things in. And
- 7:38Speaker 3: I was once given the bag with a lot of
- 7:41Speaker 3: cash from a manufacturer in Italy who thought on that
- 7:45Speaker 3: when we mistakenly paid him twice for a shipment of goods,
- 7:50Speaker 3: that the second was a payment that he would give
- 7:53Speaker 3: me when I came. So I handed him back the
- 7:56Speaker 3: bag and there was a brown bag folded with cash
- 8:00Speaker 3: or one hundred dollar bills, and I said to him,
- 8:03Speaker 3: we will take thirty eight thousand dollars off the next invoice.
- 8:08Speaker 3: But bag Man I wanted again as a brand guy,
- 8:12Speaker 3: I wanted to have a title that would be intrusive
- 8:17Speaker 3: and also a title that would be compelling. So bag
- 8:21Speaker 3: Man gets people's attention because of the double meaning. And
- 8:25Speaker 3: I did sell a lot of bags in my life.
- 8:28Speaker 3: And the second is because I thought it would be compelling,
- 8:31Speaker 3: that it would draw someone in out of curiosity, and
- 8:35Speaker 3: it's I really loved the title. It came pretty naturally
- 8:40Speaker 3: to me that I am the Bagman. A few people
- 8:44Speaker 3: in the course of my career have called me the
- 8:46Speaker 3: bag Man.
- 8:48Speaker 1: Was there a runner up or you always knew it
- 8:50Speaker 1: was going to be called Bagman?
- 8:51Speaker 3: I think from the very beginning I settled on bag Man.
- 8:55Speaker 1: Yeah, there's something deeply American about it to me, Like
- 9:00Speaker 1: you're saying, I'm not this Wall Street guy and I'm
- 9:04Speaker 1: a kid from the Bronx.
- 9:07Speaker 3: Well, I'm not a Wall Street guy. And when we
- 9:10Speaker 3: talk about building a brand, we talk about selling one
- 9:15Speaker 3: product at a time to one consumer and hoping that
- 9:19Speaker 3: they really enjoy the product, appreciated. My story in many
- 9:24Speaker 3: ways is American story. You're right, and I am living
- 9:28Speaker 3: the American dream, and I'm thankful that I've had this opportunity.
- 9:33Speaker 3: And we don't have a history of luxury brands in
- 9:36Speaker 3: the United States. And shortly after I joined Coach, I
- 9:41Speaker 3: developed a perspective that Coach could be the best of America.
- 9:48Speaker 3: That it's earnest, it's hard working, and I thought to
- 9:52Speaker 3: myself that if we built the right culture and a
- 9:56Speaker 3: right product and a consistent the modeling of of treating
- 10:02Speaker 3: consumers as if they're guests in our house, that we
- 10:06Speaker 3: might be able to build something special.
- 10:09Speaker 1: When you say the word ernest, I'm curious about that
- 10:12Speaker 1: because I think there's like this this feeling that earnestness
- 10:16Speaker 1: is cringey nowadays. I've always considered myself an earnest person,
- 10:21Speaker 1: and I don't know that I fit into like a
- 10:24Speaker 1: millennial or gen Z ideal because of that quality.
- 10:27Speaker 3: You're not srue, I'm not in I understand when I
- 10:31Speaker 3: use the word earnest that I use it in its
- 10:36Speaker 3: most basic form. When you're earnest, you're authentic, you're real,
- 10:40Speaker 3: You're not putting on as you're not pretending what you
- 10:44Speaker 3: sees what you get and when you go back, when
- 10:47Speaker 3: I go back to the basic Coach original bags from
- 10:51Speaker 3: the sixties and seventies and eighties, it's a hard working bag.
- 10:56Speaker 3: It less for generations. And today you can go on
- 10:59Speaker 3: eBay and pay one thousand dollars for a big that
- 11:02Speaker 3: we may have made and sold for seventy dollars thirty
- 11:07Speaker 3: five forty years ago, because it's still real and you
- 11:12Speaker 3: can continue to get great use out.
- 11:14Speaker 2: Of it, and it's sturdy, sturdy.
- 11:16Speaker 1: Now, I was reading that you had a speech impediment
- 11:19Speaker 1: when you were a kid, and I can imagine that
- 11:21Speaker 1: as a kid, struggling to get words out might make
- 11:25Speaker 1: you feel small. Did you see reverberations from that as
- 11:28Speaker 1: you entered the workforce.
- 11:30Speaker 3: The short answer is I did not see reverberations. I
- 11:35Speaker 3: became very conscious and I'm still conscious that I can't
- 11:38Speaker 3: say OZ very well, and I sort of work around it.
- 11:41Speaker 3: But growing up with a speech impediment when I was
- 11:45Speaker 3: a little kid, it was tough.
- 11:47Speaker 1: It's sort of interesting because you've built an empire in
- 11:51Speaker 1: many ways based on your voice and your point of view.
- 11:56Speaker 3: It's hard for me to call it an empire because
- 12:00Speaker 3: I believe we it's a community. If you look at
- 12:04Speaker 3: Coach today and you look at the leadership and the employees,
- 12:07Speaker 3: they all have belief in the brand. They have belief
- 12:11Speaker 3: that we're giving consumers a product that's a great value,
- 12:16Speaker 3: a lasting product, and we do treat consumers customers as
- 12:21Speaker 3: if the guests in our home. And the culture is
- 12:24Speaker 3: a very affirmative culture.
- 12:27Speaker 1: I grew up with a brother who had a speech
- 12:31Speaker 1: impediment as a kid, and I saw him push through it.
- 12:34Speaker 1: There was so much perseverance required. And I was reading
- 12:37Speaker 1: that I think forty percent of CEOs have dyslexia. There's
- 12:42Speaker 1: something about the perseverance or the relentlessness that's required as
- 12:47Speaker 1: a kid that must translate somehow it sounds right.
- 12:52Speaker 3: I didn't really feel that way by the time I
- 12:55Speaker 3: was in the fifty sixth grade, so ten or eleven
- 13:00Speaker 3: people buy and large could understand me. It was a
- 13:02Speaker 3: real issue though when I was a young child, and
- 13:05Speaker 3: it caused a lot of embarrassing moments for me.
- 13:09Speaker 1: I love reading about how a diaper bag informed it
- 13:14Speaker 1: was kind of your first connection to a bag.
- 13:16Speaker 2: Will you share that story?
- 13:18Speaker 3: Sure? My wife of fifty years Bobby, who was teaching
- 13:25Speaker 3: at Brooklyn College and very involved in higher education and
- 13:30Speaker 3: also on working with disadvantage children in the community, decided
- 13:35Speaker 3: after the birth of our first child that she was
- 13:39Speaker 3: going to create a bag that would fit on a
- 13:43Speaker 3: stroller as well as be carried over your shoulder. And
- 13:48Speaker 3: fortunately she did have an aunt in Texas who made bags,
- 13:54Speaker 3: and she developed a bag business, and I watched it
- 13:57Speaker 3: grow and I watched it thrive, and that was my
- 14:01Speaker 3: first real experience, even remotely. And I would say in
- 14:06Speaker 3: building something, did.
- 14:09Speaker 1: You take anything that you learned watching her over to
- 14:12Speaker 1: coach when you started after you, because you worked in
- 14:15Speaker 1: the government for ten years and then you went over
- 14:17Speaker 1: to coach.
- 14:18Speaker 3: I was in government. I would occasionally go with her
- 14:22Speaker 3: to make a sales call because she would do calls
- 14:25Speaker 3: on Saturdays and or Sundays, even certain stores that were open.
- 14:30Speaker 3: And she sold largely the specialty stores, and I really
- 14:35Speaker 3: learned the pitch, so to speak. And learning the pitch
- 14:39Speaker 3: when you sell a specialty stores, which were really a
- 14:43Speaker 3: very major shopping channel, is really understanding the DNA of
- 14:48Speaker 3: the founder of the owner, what motivates them, trying to
- 14:52Speaker 3: understand who is the customer within the store, how do
- 14:55Speaker 3: you service them? How do you make an argument that's
- 14:59Speaker 3: convinced and compelling that your product is distinctive from others
- 15:03Speaker 3: so that they're willing to put it on the shelves.
- 15:07Speaker 1: So, speaking of that, we share a big value of curiosity.
- 15:12Speaker 1: I loved reading about that in your book. You ask
- 15:14Speaker 1: the question, who is the Coach customer and how do
- 15:18Speaker 1: I reach them? How does somebody figure out who their
- 15:21Speaker 1: customer is?
- 15:23Speaker 3: It's a combination of magic and logic, which is a
- 15:27Speaker 3: term that is used throughout my memoir and it's a
- 15:32Speaker 3: convention that Coach. When I run into people at Coach today,
- 15:36Speaker 3: they tell me that a day doesn't go past when
- 15:40Speaker 3: someone doesn't say we need more magic or we need
- 15:42Speaker 3: more logic. So immersive curiosity, I believe is magic. It's
- 15:47Speaker 3: not logic because there isn't a playbook. You need to
- 15:52Speaker 3: have an open mind with a method of inquiry that
- 15:56Speaker 3: allows you to go left, right, pivot, go up and
- 15:59Speaker 3: down depending on what you hear. And with immersive curiosity,
- 16:05Speaker 3: it's really insatiable. And I know that you're a very
- 16:08Speaker 3: curious person and that has led on you to move
- 16:13Speaker 3: in different directions. Also, from a career perspective. So the
- 16:18Speaker 3: magic is a really is boundless curiosity. It's trying to
- 16:24Speaker 3: grock something to really get to the essence of it. Now,
- 16:28Speaker 3: the logic is using data and analytics to measure behavior,
- 16:34Speaker 3: to measure attitude, and we did that from the beginning.
- 16:52Speaker 1: Do you think that coming into Coach as an outsider,
- 16:56Speaker 1: coming from government, not having worked in fashion. You said
- 16:59Speaker 1: when you got there, didn't even really care about fashion.
- 17:01Speaker 1: You were looking at data and that's how you made choices.
- 17:04Speaker 1: Do you think coming in as an outsider helped.
- 17:10Speaker 3: It depends on the industry, the company, and the place
- 17:15Speaker 3: where you come in. So I came in as a
- 17:19Speaker 3: protege of the founder, and he actually appreciated that I
- 17:24Speaker 3: did not have a fashion background because he didn't really
- 17:28Speaker 3: believe in fashion. He believed in a great product interesting,
- 17:34Speaker 3: so product was hero. The word fashion was prohibited from
- 17:39Speaker 3: discussing it. He made a great, great product that attracted
- 17:45Speaker 3: a subset of the American public, classic consumers, functional consumers.
- 17:51Speaker 3: And when I joined Coach it was actually at a
- 17:55Speaker 3: time when European luxury brands had only a small press
- 18:00Speaker 3: in the United States and in accessories and bags and
- 18:05Speaker 3: Coach occupied a single lane between mass and luxury, and
- 18:11Speaker 3: I thought to myself, with the growing middle class, that
- 18:16Speaker 3: we would be able to create, perhaps one day a highway.
- 18:21Speaker 3: And it turned out to be a super highway between
- 18:23Speaker 3: mass and luxury. And I originally called a democratized luxury. However,
- 18:31Speaker 3: when we went public, we needed to find a moniker
- 18:35Speaker 3: that investors who are primarily male and understand why we
- 18:40Speaker 3: do invest in a bad company, and we created the
- 18:43Speaker 3: term accessible luxury.
- 18:47Speaker 1: Now I've only gotten to spend maybe thirty minutes total
- 18:51Speaker 1: with you so far in my life, and I can
- 18:54Speaker 1: tell that you are a person who goes out of
- 18:57Speaker 1: their way to make other people feel seen. You are
- 19:01Speaker 1: maybe a unique mix of magic and logic. And I'm
- 19:04Speaker 1: wondering if over the course of your time at Coach
- 19:08Speaker 1: you ever wanted to override the logic part. Did you
- 19:12Speaker 1: ever make decisions based on the magic if the data
- 19:15Speaker 1: said something else?
- 19:16Speaker 3: Okay, See, when you build something, you really need to
- 19:20Speaker 3: start with magic, not logic. So you need to start
- 19:24Speaker 3: with belief and possibilities. You need to be able to
- 19:27Speaker 3: have bold imagination and think that you could create something
- 19:32Speaker 3: that perhaps did not exist, whether it's either and a
- 19:36Speaker 3: clear need, or you believe that you could demonstrate something
- 19:42Speaker 3: where consumers would come to understand that they were missing something.
- 19:47Speaker 3: So I do believe. On the magic side, you need
- 19:50Speaker 3: to have belief. I fell in love with a coach bag,
- 19:55Speaker 3: and I really felt it was everything that an advocate
- 20:00Speaker 3: of the bag would want it to be. It was sturdy,
- 20:03Speaker 3: it was reliable, it did the job, It got better
- 20:07Speaker 3: over time, and as you well know as a bags
- 20:12Speaker 3: are really one of the most important products that a
- 20:17Speaker 3: woman carries. She opens it thirty fifty sixty times a day,
- 20:21Speaker 3: she has her essentials in it. Depending on the nature
- 20:24Speaker 3: of the bag, it could have organization, It could have zippers.
- 20:27Speaker 3: For the person who is more casual, she can dump
- 20:31Speaker 3: everything in the bag. So I had a notion that
- 20:36Speaker 3: we could build something. So you need bold imagination and
- 20:40Speaker 3: you need belief. If you don't start with the purpose,
- 20:43Speaker 3: you can never actually get to a place. So I
- 20:49Speaker 3: had a north star, which was to really build a
- 20:53Speaker 3: microcosm of the best of America in the bag, in
- 20:57Speaker 3: accessories that would represent the value of us as Americans.
- 21:03Speaker 1: It's interesting for me to hear that you wanted to
- 21:05Speaker 1: build the best of America in a bag. That's such
- 21:08Speaker 1: a huge thing to say. How did you even come.
- 21:12Speaker 2: Up with that?
- 21:13Speaker 3: I was always value driven. So when I was in
- 21:17Speaker 3: city government, my most significant role was running daycare and
- 21:21Speaker 3: Headstart during a very tough period in the mid seventies
- 21:25Speaker 3: when the city was going through a fiscal crisis, and
- 21:29Speaker 3: I felt at the time almost messianic about my responsibility
- 21:36Speaker 3: to ensure that every eligible child and family would be
- 21:41Speaker 3: able to get daycare and head start services. So I
- 21:46Speaker 3: felt when I was in government that I was in
- 21:49Speaker 3: service of my client. So when I went to Coach,
- 21:55Speaker 3: I naturally gravitated to the customer because I didn't really
- 22:00Speaker 3: know anything else to do. And it seemed to work
- 22:03Speaker 3: if you really focus on your customer. And our customer
- 22:07Speaker 3: loved Coach and when I joined. Prior to my joining Coach,
- 22:12Speaker 3: as an example, I pretended to be a freelance Business
- 22:16Speaker 3: Week reporter and I interviewed buyers and merchants from different Bloomingdale's.
- 22:23Speaker 3: I remember Macy's, Bondwit Teller and a small handbag specialty
- 22:29Speaker 3: store on West seventy second Street in New York City,
- 22:32Speaker 3: and this owner said to me, it has a cult
- 22:36Speaker 3: following and being a product of the sixties and having
- 22:40Speaker 3: a vision in the sixties that my generation would be
- 22:44Speaker 3: able to help create a better world. It was easy
- 22:48Speaker 3: for me to put the dots together and say, Okay,
- 22:52Speaker 3: I'm in business, but I feel purposeful. And when I
- 22:56Speaker 3: looked at our workforce, it was a melting pot, a
- 22:59Speaker 3: microco America, and that made me feel ready, proud and good.
- 23:04Speaker 1: So the number that keeps coming up in all of
- 23:07Speaker 1: these interviews is the five billion dollar number.
- 23:10Speaker 2: You did an interview with Gary Vee and he was like,
- 23:13Speaker 2: say it again, repeat it.
- 23:15Speaker 1: So six million dollars to five billion through your time
- 23:19Speaker 1: with the brand, it's roughly an eight hundred and thirty
- 23:22Speaker 1: three x growth in revenue. And just for a reference,
- 23:25Speaker 1: I had to look it up. Basically, only Starbucks, Amazon, Lululemon,
- 23:30Speaker 1: and Ralph Lauren have had growth at that level at
- 23:33Speaker 1: some point. What were the hitting costs of growth of
- 23:37Speaker 1: that kind?
- 23:39Speaker 3: Well, as I said when I spoke with Gary, it
- 23:43Speaker 3: didn't occur overnight, So let's it took thirty five years.
- 23:46Speaker 3: So and whenever we reached a milestone. Because I always
- 23:53Speaker 3: was motivated by a drive for excellence and a concurrent
- 23:58Speaker 3: fear of failure, never get complacence. When we reached a plateau.
- 24:04Speaker 3: I remember when we reached seventy five million dollars. I
- 24:08Speaker 3: think that was around nineteen eighty seven eighty six, we
- 24:13Speaker 3: gave everyone a turkey for Thanksgiving, every factory worker, every
- 24:18Speaker 3: office worker. We had small celebrations as we went forward.
- 24:24Speaker 3: But when we talk about hidden course to really build
- 24:30Speaker 3: a brand that is beloved, which requires innovation, relevance, continual adaptation,
- 24:41Speaker 3: it's twenty four to seven. So it took a toll
- 24:44Speaker 3: on my body. It took a toll on my mind.
- 24:47Speaker 3: It forced me to make difficult choices in terms of
- 24:51Speaker 3: working versus being with family. And I learned as early
- 24:56Speaker 3: as the nineteen eighties that I really needed to listen
- 25:00Speaker 3: to my body, meaning if I had back aches, or
- 25:05Speaker 3: I was feeling like I was an impostor one day
- 25:08Speaker 3: just sitting there, do I really know enough to do this?
- 25:12Speaker 3: Or losing my mojo, or being in a situation where
- 25:16Speaker 3: I had little control and the meant a lot to me.
- 25:19Speaker 3: These fears and worries lack of sleep manifest physically, and
- 25:25Speaker 3: when they manifest physically, you need to pause and pay attention.
- 25:29Speaker 3: And I started to develop a variety of techniques that
- 25:34Speaker 3: I used through today to help me navigate away from
- 25:41Speaker 3: depressive episodes and not allow myself to go into a
- 25:46Speaker 3: bad place. And of course there's pattern recognition, but I
- 25:50Speaker 3: do strongly believe that you need balance and exercise is
- 25:55Speaker 3: one you need. Releases. Meditation is a wonderful way to
- 26:03Speaker 3: give your mind a break and put it on pause,
- 26:06Speaker 3: whether it's for ten or twenty minutes. I massage therapy
- 26:11Speaker 3: from the right therapists who really understand how energy flows
- 26:16Speaker 3: in your body, it can really make a difference. I'm
- 26:19Speaker 3: a strong believer in executive coaching, therapy and the use
- 26:25Speaker 3: of meds when necessary, and I encourage people of all
- 26:30Speaker 3: ages to really be honest with themselves.
- 26:47Speaker 1: You mentioned that your fear of failure. You said you
- 26:50Speaker 1: were driven by excellence and failure.
- 26:51Speaker 3: And it's still there.
- 26:53Speaker 2: I will say, really, to this day, I still.
- 26:57Speaker 3: Have failure dreams. Now they take differents than they ditch
- 27:00Speaker 3: twenty and forty years ago.
- 27:03Speaker 1: So just so everybody who hasn't read the book knows
- 27:06Speaker 1: you have these failure dreams that are recurring in your life.
- 27:09Speaker 2: Can you explain what they are?
- 27:12Speaker 3: These are dreams where I wake up remembering snippets and
- 27:20Speaker 3: they generally, like most failure dreams that people have, from
- 27:25Speaker 3: what they tell me, they are similar themes. And in
- 27:30Speaker 3: my case, it's everything from not being prepared for an
- 27:35Speaker 3: exam in college, never attending the class, going in and
- 27:40Speaker 3: winging it. When I was a coach, one of the
- 27:44Speaker 3: recurring failure dreams I had was not being really prepared.
- 27:50Speaker 3: So preparation is really key. And one particular dream, which
- 27:55Speaker 3: I discuss is in my memoir is the it doesn't
- 28:01Speaker 3: This particular dream doesn't occur any longer. But the dream
- 28:06Speaker 3: has me walking down Madison Avenue. I'm walking down Madison
- 28:10Speaker 3: Avenue in my uniform and at the time it was
- 28:13Speaker 3: a three PCE suit. This is the year two thousand
- 28:16Speaker 3: and Coaches now liberated from Sarah Lee, which was a
- 28:22Speaker 3: holding company that I helped the founder identify, which became
- 28:27Speaker 3: my employer for fifteen years, and we were finally on
- 28:31Speaker 3: our own. I'm walking down the street. It's eight am.
- 28:35Speaker 3: I'm about to go into a meeting with prospective investors.
- 28:40Speaker 3: And I look down at my feet and I'm not
- 28:42Speaker 3: wearing any shoes, and I have blue wooly socks and
- 28:47Speaker 3: people are walking past me. No one's looking at my feet.
- 28:51Speaker 3: But I'm saying, oh my god, how am I going
- 28:53Speaker 3: to convince anyone to invest in the company where I'm CEO,
- 28:57Speaker 3: where I don't even have shoes in them, not even
- 29:00Speaker 3: wearing the right color socks. So I stop at a store.
- 29:04Speaker 3: There was a shoe store on forty fourth and Madison.
- 29:07Speaker 3: I see someone inside, someone who's cleaning, and I knock
- 29:11Speaker 3: on a window and he goes like this. I lift
- 29:14Speaker 3: my foot and he just shrugs, and whether I do,
- 29:18Speaker 3: I say, well, I got to go forward. So I
- 29:22Speaker 3: walked into the building. It has one of these turnstile,
- 29:26Speaker 3: and not turnstile, it has one of these revolving doors.
- 29:30Speaker 3: And I wake up and I'm soaked my clothes and
- 29:34Speaker 3: whatever I'm sleeping is soaked, my pillowcase. Like no different
- 29:39Speaker 3: than most people who have failure dreams. You wake up nervous,
- 29:43Speaker 3: you wake up on sweating, and I still have those
- 29:47Speaker 3: dreams of but they of course have different forms.
- 29:50Speaker 1: So I mean, you've done years of therapy. Have you
- 29:53Speaker 1: figured out the root of where these come from?
- 29:58Speaker 3: It's a great question. I haven't really worked extensively with
- 30:05Speaker 3: Freudian therapist, although I've read some and it goes back
- 30:11Speaker 3: to my early childhood. I'm told to my speech impediment
- 30:16Speaker 3: to what you were saying about your brother, that I
- 30:20Speaker 3: needed to overcome adversity. And I lived in constant fear,
- 30:26Speaker 3: and when I overcame it, I was now longer conscious
- 30:29Speaker 3: of it. But it was in my DNA.
- 30:35Speaker 1: When you started finding big financial success public success with Coach,
- 30:42Speaker 1: did you feel weird about people treating you differently? Because
- 30:46Speaker 1: there's a quality in your book that is so obvious,
- 30:50Speaker 1: which is great humility.
- 30:52Speaker 3: Many people that I worked with when Coach was a
- 30:55Speaker 3: division of Sarah Le, who were CEO and sometimes founders
- 31:01Speaker 3: of their own public companies, had little interest in Lou Frankfort.
- 31:07Speaker 3: When Coach became more successful in a public company, suddenly
- 31:12Speaker 3: they had more interest in me. Yeah, I did not
- 31:15Speaker 3: have any interest in them. And I've been asked, actually
- 31:19Speaker 3: by Gary about my values, and I had not reflected
- 31:24Speaker 3: on the exact question he asked me until that Sunday evening,
- 31:29Speaker 3: which was how have you changed? I feel I'm fundamentally
- 31:33Speaker 3: the same person I was forty or fifty years ago.
- 31:38Speaker 3: I still believe in the American dream. I'm thankful for
- 31:42Speaker 3: everything I have. I'm terribly worried about our country and
- 31:47Speaker 3: what it's going through and what it means for my children,
- 31:51Speaker 3: my grandchildren and their children.
- 31:54Speaker 1: I want to ask you about that. There's a few
- 31:56Speaker 1: people who blurbed your book. Scott Galloway's one of them.
- 32:00Speaker 1: And I was listening to his podcasts recently and it
- 32:03Speaker 1: was right after Jimmy Kimmel had been pulled off air unexpectedly,
- 32:07Speaker 1: and he said, Bob Iiger. I'm paraphrasing, but he said,
- 32:10Speaker 1: Bob Iger is going to have to make a hard choice.
- 32:12Speaker 1: Is he going to do what's right by his shareholders
- 32:15Speaker 1: or is he going to do what's right by America?
- 32:19Speaker 1: And I look at so many business leaders in America
- 32:22Speaker 1: and I think they have a very similar hard choice
- 32:25Speaker 1: to make. Our values are more intertwined in politics now
- 32:29Speaker 1: than ever.
- 32:30Speaker 3: Absolutely, what do you.
- 32:32Speaker 2: Think of things like that?
- 32:34Speaker 1: And what is someone like me who's not in business
- 32:37Speaker 1: in that way not understand about making those choices?
- 32:41Speaker 3: First, it's not easy if you're in a bob Ey
- 32:44Speaker 3: your type of situation. You have multiple constituencies. You know,
- 32:48Speaker 3: you have your shareholders, you have your customers, you have
- 32:52Speaker 3: your employees, you have your community, and you need to
- 32:57Speaker 3: really weigh on a relative absolute basis where you place
- 33:03Speaker 3: your values most and I do believe there's been way
- 33:08Speaker 3: too much compromise subordination of values in a way that
- 33:16Speaker 3: doesn't reflect well on many people or on the many
- 33:22Speaker 3: large companies, many of the companies that are backbones of America.
- 33:29Speaker 1: It seems to me like it's decisions made for short
- 33:31Speaker 1: term gain, because when I think about people like Bob
- 33:36Speaker 1: like legacy must come into play for him. That's why
- 33:39Speaker 1: I think part of the reason he went back to Disney.
- 33:42Speaker 1: And if you don't make a value driven decision, how
- 33:47Speaker 1: can you think about legacy.
- 33:50Speaker 3: I think most people who don't make a value based
- 33:54Speaker 3: decision rationalize it very well, and generally they have their
- 33:57Speaker 3: posseas around them that we.
- 34:00Speaker 2: Force it well said.
- 34:02Speaker 3: And I generally believe that one of one of the
- 34:06Speaker 3: things that successful leaders do, and certainly Bob Iger's on
- 34:10Speaker 3: the top of of many lists, is they're able to
- 34:14Speaker 3: hold antithetical views in their mind at the same time
- 34:18Speaker 3: and make choices between them, and in looking at different choices,
- 34:24Speaker 3: values do come into play. It's when you're a public
- 34:28Speaker 3: company sometimes it's very hard not to look at the
- 34:32Speaker 3: short term because you get a report card every three
- 34:36Speaker 3: months or every day when you make an announcement, And.
- 34:42Speaker 1: Do you think you were able to obfiscate that because
- 34:49Speaker 1: Coach was on it? Well, you had Sarah Lee at.
- 34:53Speaker 3: One point, well, when Sarah Lee was my employer, and
- 34:59Speaker 3: they want to me to make decisions that I felt
- 35:01Speaker 3: were not in the interests of the Coach brand or company,
- 35:06Speaker 3: I declined to do it. So when they wanted me
- 35:09Speaker 3: to sell JC Pennies in order to get another Haines
- 35:15Speaker 3: hosiery into a much more dominant place, I said, our
- 35:20Speaker 3: customer doesn't go there. It's going to take away from
- 35:24Speaker 3: the imagery of our brand. And I declined to do it,
- 35:29Speaker 3: And of course they had the option of letting me go,
- 35:33Speaker 3: but they were just angry.
- 35:37Speaker 1: So you mentioned dark periods earlier and how you navigated
- 35:42Speaker 1: depressive episodes. Do you think success comes because of those
- 35:46Speaker 1: lows or in spite of them?
- 35:48Speaker 3: I think if you can avoid the lows, if you're
- 35:51Speaker 3: constituted in a different way, and if you can see
- 35:54Speaker 3: warning signals, and much better off than going into a
- 35:59Speaker 3: low place and having to lift up, because that takes time, effort,
- 36:04Speaker 3: modification of a lot of things you do. And I
- 36:08Speaker 3: don't think you need to have depressive episodes to be successful.
- 36:13Speaker 3: I will say that my fear of failure and drive
- 36:17Speaker 3: for excellence always motivated me. And typically when I went
- 36:22Speaker 3: into a dark place, it was because I felt I
- 36:27Speaker 3: was failing or I felt I wasn't I didn't have
- 36:30Speaker 3: enough control over something that was important to me. And
- 36:35Speaker 3: I don't do well in situations where I feel that
- 36:39Speaker 3: I'm watching something occur and I'm not able to influence
- 36:44Speaker 3: or control the outcome and it's important to me. I
- 36:47Speaker 3: think that's a human condition that many people have.
- 36:51Speaker 1: I thought it was really cool in the book how
- 36:54Speaker 1: you didn't just share how you did something, how you
- 36:58Speaker 1: accomplish something. You sh shared how it felt to do it.
- 37:03Speaker 1: And I think that's rare in a business memoir. Memoir
- 37:06Speaker 1: is one of my favorite genres of books, and I
- 37:08Speaker 1: read a lot of them, and I think in the
- 37:11Speaker 1: nineties and even early two thousands, there was this business
- 37:15Speaker 1: memoir that was very intense. It felt like punctuated and
- 37:20Speaker 1: tough and gritty and here's how you push through and
- 37:23Speaker 1: get it done. And I think we're in this new
- 37:25Speaker 1: phase of business memoirs that I've seen where people are
- 37:30Speaker 1: talking about the personal impact of running such a huge business.
- 37:36Speaker 1: Why was it important for you to share the personal
- 37:39Speaker 1: part of the professional.
- 37:41Speaker 3: I wanted to tell an authentic, true story. I don't
- 37:45Speaker 3: say earnest, yes, ernest. I wanted to gritty tell a
- 37:49Speaker 3: story that I felt would resonate with readers. And I
- 37:55Speaker 3: also thought telling a story about building a great brand
- 38:01Speaker 3: in and of itself is a very good story. But
- 38:05Speaker 3: to add what it took and how I felt would resonate,
- 38:11Speaker 3: particularly with Coach employees, many of them are gen z
- 38:16Speaker 3: and most of the rest are millennials. It would resonate
- 38:20Speaker 3: with Coach fans. It might even resonate with people not
- 38:25Speaker 3: connected to Coach. And my children actually urged me to
- 38:30Speaker 3: tell a real story because they lived through my ups
- 38:35Speaker 3: and downs, and while I shared them with a handful
- 38:40Speaker 3: of other people, I was not public about it. Since
- 38:44Speaker 3: I've retired from Coach, I've been working with founders and
- 38:50Speaker 3: senior teams in early stage businesses, and there I'm very
- 38:55Speaker 3: focused on their total self and that does include mental health.
- 38:59Speaker 3: And I'm coach in excuse the no pun intended, but
- 39:05Speaker 3: I coach people to really look for balance. Enough I
- 39:08Speaker 3: see if I see people going into a place where
- 39:15Speaker 3: I'm they may be losing their confidence or feeling uncertain
- 39:22Speaker 3: I might I would stop in one on one, I
- 39:24Speaker 3: would probe them what's going on and if I in
- 39:29Speaker 3: Most people, particularly younger people, are very honest about their
- 39:33Speaker 3: ambivalence about things, and I tell them you're not alone.
- 39:38Speaker 3: Life is not a ball of cherries, even if you
- 39:42Speaker 3: make it to what appears to be the top.
- 39:45Speaker 1: Was there a moment at work over the last thirty
- 39:49Speaker 1: five years that you think crystallized your values or showcased
- 39:57Speaker 1: who lou Frankfurt was.
- 39:59Speaker 3: In the first part of the year two thousand, when
- 40:02Speaker 3: we were going public and we were going to have
- 40:07Speaker 3: actual Coach shares, I pushed Sarah Lee to allow me
- 40:12Speaker 3: to give stock awards to every single employee in the company,
- 40:17Speaker 3: including factory employees. And part of my motivation has to
- 40:23Speaker 3: do with what I really believe in is in America,
- 40:28Speaker 3: which is I have an egalitarian view. I believe in
- 40:32Speaker 3: a meritocracy. I believe everyone should participate. And Coach was,
- 40:38Speaker 3: as I'm told, the first American brand to provide also
- 40:44Speaker 3: annual stock awards all the way down to store managers
- 40:48Speaker 3: and below, and that continues through today. And giving ownership,
- 40:53Speaker 3: real ownership to people who actually operate a store, who
- 40:59Speaker 3: are and I think of a store in the old
- 41:01Speaker 3: fashioned world. You go into a store, they're shopkeepers. And yes,
- 41:06Speaker 3: they may be part of a national brand, and yes
- 41:09Speaker 3: there may be guidelines for visual merchandising, but they run
- 41:13Speaker 3: an ecosystem and we wanted them to participate in whatever
- 41:21Speaker 3: wealth accumulation would occur. And I'll just go one step further.
- 41:26Speaker 3: One of my favorite treats is when I as a CEO,
- 41:34Speaker 3: when I would travel around the world and I would
- 41:37Speaker 3: meet store managers and sales associates and others who would
- 41:42Speaker 3: tell me how coach changed their lives. They were able
- 41:45Speaker 3: to buy a house, get rid of a mortgage, go
- 41:48Speaker 3: through a rough economic periods, and a child to a
- 41:52Speaker 3: private school or camp. And that meant as much to
- 41:55Speaker 3: me as anything else.
- 41:58Speaker 1: Yeah, it's pretty amazing when a company or a culture
- 42:03Speaker 1: that you create, like the gifts are so far reaching.
- 42:08Speaker 1: There seems to be this I guess one of the
- 42:11Speaker 1: things I'm struck by is your love of the brand,
- 42:14Speaker 1: because you just don't see people nowadays align themselves with
- 42:20Speaker 1: their companies, with their work the way that maybe in
- 42:23Speaker 1: the fifties I would read about I think young people.
- 42:28Speaker 2: I mean, at least me.
- 42:29Speaker 1: I get to work for Hello Sunshine, which is Reese
- 42:31Speaker 1: Witherspoon's media company, and it's a value driven company, and
- 42:35Speaker 1: I'm like, I drank the kool aid, Like I feel
- 42:38Speaker 1: lit up. But I think that's a rare experience today.
- 42:44Speaker 3: Unfortunately, I think that you're right. At the same time,
- 42:50Speaker 3: you and other young people are really looking for purpose.
- 42:54Speaker 3: And I will say Coach has a workforce of gen
- 42:57Speaker 3: Z and millennials who really believe in the brand and
- 43:02Speaker 3: love the product. And one of the joys for me,
- 43:07Speaker 3: coincidental with the release of my book, is a Coach
- 43:11Speaker 3: in its eighth decade is reaching new heights and sales
- 43:16Speaker 3: in a number of customers and the love for the
- 43:20Speaker 3: brand is real and it is part of the American landscape.
- 43:25Speaker 1: Well, you guys had this resurgence a few years ago,
- 43:28Speaker 1: I would say with gen Z there were some new
- 43:30Speaker 1: brand ambassadors. What was the strategy behind that.
- 43:35Speaker 3: I will say that this was a strategy that Todd
- 43:38Speaker 3: the CEO and Stewart On the chief creative officer, developed
- 43:45Speaker 3: to really focus on strengthening coaches relevance for the new
- 43:53Speaker 3: population coming of age. And the reality is that there
- 43:57Speaker 3: are twenty five million girls turning eighteen every year in
- 44:05Speaker 3: the countries where Coach has significant business, and that excludes
- 44:10Speaker 3: Africa and India. So in the world where Coach is
- 44:16Speaker 3: a market leader, twenty five million people are becoming eighteen.
- 44:21Speaker 3: And if you can capture their heart and their mind
- 44:25Speaker 3: at eighteen, there's a good likelihood if you continue to
- 44:30Speaker 3: listen to them, anticipate where they're traveling, and be there
- 44:34Speaker 3: when they get there, they will be loyal for twenty
- 44:38Speaker 3: and thirty and forty years. While they only represent fifteen
- 44:43Speaker 3: percent of accessories spend today, that's gen Z. They will
- 44:48Speaker 3: represent forty percent in ten and fifteen years. And we
- 44:52Speaker 3: all know that parents and older siblings and grandparents of
- 44:57Speaker 3: gen Z are influenced by that taste and gen Z
- 45:02Speaker 3: they're really focused on values and culture.
- 45:08Speaker 1: Yeah, would you consider entrepreneurship with spiritual experience?
- 45:13Speaker 3: Absolutely? When I think of that really goes into my
- 45:18Speaker 3: magic bucket. You need to have belief, and belief is
- 45:25Speaker 3: abstract because you're looking at the future and you're looking
- 45:30Speaker 3: at possibilities and they don't exist in real products or
- 45:36Speaker 3: services today. But you have a notion that if you
- 45:41Speaker 3: build the right product and build or create the right
- 45:45Speaker 3: service and it's in tune with the values and interests
- 45:50Speaker 3: of the consumers. You're attracting men and women. You can
- 45:55Speaker 3: create something special. And I think entrepreneurs, you really need
- 46:00Speaker 3: to have belief. And I being old school, I do
- 46:05Speaker 3: believe at the heart of a great brand is a
- 46:10Speaker 3: great product and that product has images and associations and
- 46:15Speaker 3: that's how you one builds a great brand to bring
- 46:18Speaker 3: those images and associations to life and storytelling.
- 46:35Speaker 1: What have you learned about collaboration that you think other
- 46:39Speaker 1: leaders get wrong.
- 46:40Speaker 3: I consider collaboration really on the logic side and not
- 46:46Speaker 3: on the magic side. And the reason I say that
- 46:49Speaker 3: is because you need to have a mindset that it
- 46:54Speaker 3: takes a village to build something and that you can
- 46:58Speaker 3: get the best out of people if you create a
- 47:02Speaker 3: learning environment where they will share their thinking and as
- 47:09Speaker 3: a community, with thinking of antithetical ways to approach things,
- 47:15Speaker 3: align on a path and take that path. And extreme
- 47:21Speaker 3: collaboration is a way of life.
- 47:24Speaker 2: Coach, you talk about it more than most people. That's
- 47:28Speaker 2: why I was curious.
- 47:30Speaker 3: Well, I do believe in collaboration in the same way
- 47:35Speaker 3: I believe in separation of powers and checks and balances.
- 47:40Speaker 3: You get the best out of people who are connected
- 47:45Speaker 3: to the business, whether they're part of the supply chain,
- 47:49Speaker 3: they're doing customer service, working in stores, designers and so forth.
- 47:56Speaker 3: And getting a team aligned and finding the right way
- 48:01Speaker 3: for people to express themselves and giving them the right
- 48:05Speaker 3: opportunities to grow can best occur through a collaborative environment.
- 48:11Speaker 3: Now everything fortunately is automated in the digital age, and
- 48:17Speaker 3: the software that shows the entire world within the company
- 48:22Speaker 3: what's going on, and that's very helpful in connecting the dots.
- 48:27Speaker 1: I had an interesting conversation the other day. There was
- 48:30Speaker 1: a businessman who died, and people were saying, wow, look
- 48:35Speaker 1: at what he created and look at the success. And
- 48:39Speaker 1: I'd known his family personally, and I said, I don't
- 48:43Speaker 1: know if I think that was a successful life. His
- 48:47Speaker 1: daughter is struggling because I think he wasn't around and
- 48:52Speaker 1: didn't instill a lot of confidence in her. I don't
- 48:55Speaker 1: know that he spoke to people kindly. We were having
- 48:58Speaker 1: a debate on what success is because I guess in
- 49:02Speaker 1: some ways maybe I was being judgmental because success to
- 49:05Speaker 1: me looked different than what it did to these people.
- 49:09Speaker 1: I'm curious about what success is for you, how do
- 49:12Speaker 1: you look at it.
- 49:13Speaker 3: When I think of success, I think of life's journey.
- 49:18Speaker 3: I don't think of the endpoint. I think I think
- 49:22Speaker 3: of purpose and relationships. And when I say purpose, it's
- 49:27Speaker 3: being motivated to do something that you have belief in,
- 49:33Speaker 3: and belief is very important purpose. And when I think
- 49:36Speaker 3: of relationships, I think of authenticity and I think of genuineness.
- 49:42Speaker 3: And I do believe in life's journey. Those of us
- 49:46Speaker 3: who are able to live above a Maslow's hierarchy, above
- 49:53Speaker 3: the place where we pay just pay our bills. My
- 49:56Speaker 3: parents worked so that I could live the American and dream.
- 50:00Speaker 3: They work really hard to pay the rent and to
- 50:04Speaker 3: put food on the table, like so many of our grandparents,
- 50:09Speaker 3: that great grandparents, and those of us who have the
- 50:13Speaker 3: opportunity to go to college and to dream and to
- 50:18Speaker 3: actually live a more purposeful life beyond just shelter and
- 50:24Speaker 3: food and clothing need to really be thinking about on
- 50:30Speaker 3: moments in life. So I do believe special moments are
- 50:34Speaker 3: important because and I think the more special moments one has,
- 50:38Speaker 3: the more memories and the more growth we have.
- 50:42Speaker 1: When you say special moments, do you mean weddings, celebrations,
- 50:46Speaker 1: or do you mean creating special moments every week or
- 50:49Speaker 1: every day.
- 50:50Speaker 3: When I think of special moments, it's something that is
- 50:53Speaker 3: out of the ordinary that you will remember for a
- 50:59Speaker 3: long period of time. I mean, it could, for me,
- 51:01Speaker 3: be a visit to the San Juan store and coach,
- 51:06Speaker 3: where I saw four generations in the store at the
- 51:09Speaker 3: same time. It was my only specific situation. There was
- 51:13Speaker 3: a great grandparent, a grandparent, a parent, and this seventeen
- 51:19Speaker 3: year old great granddaughter. They were all carrying coach and
- 51:23Speaker 3: they were buying coach. And that was a moment for me. Now,
- 51:26Speaker 3: that was a work moment. Personal moments are at least
- 51:30Speaker 3: as important, and you need to navigate your life so
- 51:34Speaker 3: that you can enjoy both simultaneously. In hindsight, I wish
- 51:39Speaker 3: I had more. I smell the roses more on the
- 51:43Speaker 3: way up, and people have asked me, what would you
- 51:47Speaker 3: do differently? And I'm not sure that I would have
- 51:50Speaker 3: been able to do too much differently because it was
- 51:54Speaker 3: so demanding twenty four to seven on. When you're building
- 52:00Speaker 3: something that has hot, it's hard to let go.
- 52:07Speaker 1: I think about that because most highly successful people I interview,
- 52:12Speaker 1: their reflection is I should have stopped and smelled the
- 52:15Speaker 1: roses along the way, but I'm not sure it's possible.
- 52:20Speaker 3: Well, see, for me, I tended to compartmentalize to smell
- 52:24Speaker 3: the roses on weekends, on scheduled vacations. But even on
- 52:29Speaker 3: the weekends scheduled vacations, so many of us, not just CEOs,
- 52:34Speaker 3: but leaders at all levels were preoccupied with the problems
- 52:40Speaker 3: that we left on Friday. And I encourage people to
- 52:44Speaker 3: really do a good job compartmentalizing, and I talk about
- 52:50Speaker 3: compartmentalization a lot of my book on these are things
- 52:54Speaker 3: I learned over the decades.
- 52:56Speaker 2: Did your kids understand? Did your wife understand? The demand?
- 53:00Speaker 2: Was that tenuous?
- 53:02Speaker 3: Was that tenuous? There were moments where it was tenuous
- 53:07Speaker 3: in the sense that I would be away longer than
- 53:10Speaker 3: on perhaps I should have been because I would be traveling,
- 53:14Speaker 3: and there was a lot more efficient if I was
- 53:17Speaker 3: traveling to the other side of the world to stay
- 53:20Speaker 3: there and not come back for a Saturday or Sunday.
- 53:23Speaker 3: But my family did understand and were very supportive and
- 53:28Speaker 3: continue to be.
- 53:30Speaker 1: You dedicate the book actually to your parents, who you
- 53:33Speaker 1: say always believed in you. There I quote this in
- 53:38Speaker 1: the podcast a lot, but there's a book I love
- 53:40Speaker 1: this woman interviewed successful people and the one common denominator
- 53:45Speaker 1: was that they had a parent, usually a mother, who
- 53:49Speaker 1: believed in them.
- 53:50Speaker 3: Yes, and my mother certainly believed in me. And I
- 53:54Speaker 3: tell a story in the bag Man that I remember
- 53:59Speaker 3: like it was yet yesterday, and in fact, when we
- 54:01Speaker 3: were celebrating my mother's life after her passing, I shared
- 54:07Speaker 3: this story with family and friends, and it occurred when
- 54:11Speaker 3: I was in the ninth grade. I went to a
- 54:14Speaker 3: junior high school in the Bronx Boys and Girls Public School,
- 54:19Speaker 3: and I had a guidance counselor by the name of
- 54:22Speaker 3: mister Schmother, and I remember the yes Schmuttor. I remember
- 54:29Speaker 3: exactly what he was wearing the day I went into
- 54:32Speaker 3: his little office with my mother and he was sitting
- 54:35Speaker 3: behind his desk. He had two chairs and he had
- 54:38Speaker 3: some paper, and he looked at me and my mother
- 54:41Speaker 3: and he said that he thought I should go to
- 54:44Speaker 3: a vocational high school. And he went on to say
- 54:48Speaker 3: he thought I should go to the High School of
- 54:50Speaker 3: New York High School of Printing, because printing was becoming
- 54:54Speaker 3: a very major industry. And my mother looked at him
- 54:58Speaker 3: and said, my son's going to college, and stood up
- 55:02Speaker 3: and said Lewis were out of here, and I sat
- 55:06Speaker 3: there a little bit bewildered because he was authority, and
- 55:10Speaker 3: my mother stood up and I sheepishly left afterwards. But
- 55:14Speaker 3: I knew when I left the room I was going
- 55:16Speaker 3: to college.
- 55:18Speaker 2: It's a beautiful story.
- 55:19Speaker 3: And my mother, I will say, when I no one
- 55:22Speaker 3: understood me. She painsteaked. When I was five and six
- 55:25Speaker 3: and four, She painstakingly worked with me to help me
- 55:31Speaker 3: pronounce more letters correctly, or to compensate by finding synonyms
- 55:38Speaker 3: that wouldn't have this sticky combination the letters that would
- 55:43Speaker 3: come out like garbage when I would say.
- 55:45Speaker 1: It, when you think about that belief, because it must
- 55:51Speaker 1: have been really important for you to say that in
- 55:53Speaker 1: the dedication.
- 55:54Speaker 3: Yes, my parents, like so many of our parents, were
- 56:02Speaker 3: very filial oriented. They lived their lives so that their
- 56:08Speaker 3: children could have a better life. And while my parents
- 56:12Speaker 3: were not immigrants, their parents came to the US just
- 56:18Speaker 3: a handful of years before they were born, so English
- 56:22Speaker 3: was not spoken regularly in the home when they were
- 56:25Speaker 3: growing up. And I do believe the best of America
- 56:30Speaker 3: is our diversity, is the notion that we are a
- 56:35Speaker 3: motivated group of people that come from anywhere in the world.
- 56:39Speaker 3: And I will also say whenever I traveled to other
- 56:43Speaker 3: parts of the world, whether it was in the eighties
- 56:47Speaker 3: of the oughts, regardless of whether who was president and
- 56:51Speaker 3: whether the country leadership was popular, everyone knew someone who
- 56:58Speaker 3: was living the American dream. And they all talked proudly
- 57:02Speaker 3: of New York City and the energy and the grit.
- 57:06Speaker 3: Going back to a word, and I do think on
- 57:10Speaker 3: that the best of us, best of America is because
- 57:14Speaker 3: we are a melting pot.
- 57:17Speaker 1: You have, over the course of your career, met with
- 57:22Speaker 1: and know closely some really great leaders in your experience,
- 57:27Speaker 1: what makes a great leader?
- 57:29Speaker 2: What are the key mix of ingredients?
- 57:31Speaker 3: Interestingly, as you asked the question, I gravitate to political leaders,
- 57:38Speaker 3: not business leaders. And I think of Winston Churchill one
- 57:43Speaker 3: of my favorites, because he was a person of real
- 57:47Speaker 3: belief and purpose and he knew that England would not
- 57:53Speaker 3: fall to Nazism, and that unswerving belief and that courage
- 58:01Speaker 3: resonated with the British people and it was miraculous how
- 58:05Speaker 3: they held their line. I also think of great presidents
- 58:10Speaker 3: like Obama and Clinton who cared about people. I think
- 58:18Speaker 3: having empathy is a key requirement for a great leader.
- 58:23Speaker 3: There can be leaders who are autocrats, and there were
- 58:27Speaker 3: leaders who can conquer the world, but if they don't
- 58:30Speaker 3: care for people, it's hard for me to consider them great.
- 58:34Speaker 1: You said you coach people pun intended this time. What
- 58:40Speaker 1: do you see young leaders struggling with.
- 58:43Speaker 3: Many different things. I think one is how they make
- 58:46Speaker 3: sense of their place in the world and how they
- 58:50Speaker 3: define success and ambivalence towards putting in the amount of
- 58:58Speaker 3: effort that's required and leading a more balanced life. And
- 59:03Speaker 3: I think that's a struggle that they need to be
- 59:06Speaker 3: conscious of because we're only here one time. So when
- 59:11Speaker 3: I talk about enjoying life's journey, I encourage people to
- 59:15Speaker 3: search within themselves what really gives them fulfillment, what really
- 59:21Speaker 3: drives them, and they should really and to the extent
- 59:25Speaker 3: their value driven. And I've not seen a generation more
- 59:29Speaker 3: value driven than Gen Z other than my generation the sixties.
- 59:34Speaker 3: They are driven by a feeling of purpose. They are
- 59:41Speaker 3: they are concerned with the climate, They are concerned with sustainability,
- 59:47Speaker 3: war and peace, diversity, and I think that they're carrying
- 59:54Speaker 3: a lot on their shoulders in a highly fluid world.
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: It's moving so quickly at warp speed so I struggling
- 1:00:06Speaker 3: with priorities where to spend their time. When I came
- 1:00:11Speaker 3: of age, and when people went to work, and where
- 1:00:14Speaker 3: they were thirty years old, eight years out of college,
- 1:00:17Speaker 3: say they generally had one job or one point five
- 1:00:20Speaker 3: jobs on average. Now it's six or seven jobs. It's
- 1:00:23Speaker 3: remarkable when I look at a resume and for a
- 1:00:27Speaker 3: thirty five or forty year old and they had twelve gigs.
- 1:00:31Speaker 3: And when I probe, why haven't you stayed around longer? One?
- 1:00:38Speaker 3: Fortunately they were able to find other things, so they
- 1:00:42Speaker 3: were living at a higher level than just focusing on
- 1:00:45Speaker 3: shelter and clothing, but also because they weren't feeling fulfilled.
- 1:00:52Speaker 3: It's fulfillment is a holistic sense, and today young people
- 1:00:58Speaker 3: are looking for that in disproportionate ways to their parents
- 1:01:03Speaker 3: and grandparents.
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: What's something you wish young people knew about building something
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: that lasts?
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: That when we say building something that last, it's really
- 1:01:15Speaker 3: first belief in what you're doing. Second is building a
- 1:01:22Speaker 3: team of like minded people and creating an environment where
- 1:01:27Speaker 3: they can thrive and feel purpose and be rewarded appropriately
- 1:01:33Speaker 3: along the journey.
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: Well said, if some rapid fire questions, right, Okay, is
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: there something that you think is a common threat between
- 1:01:42Speaker 1: successful people, relentlessness. What's one trait you see in every
- 1:01:48Speaker 1: great leader.
- 1:01:49Speaker 3: You've met, empathy?
- 1:01:52Speaker 2: Who did you think of when I asked that question.
- 1:01:55Speaker 3: I actually thought of Bill Clinton, and I thought of Obama.
- 1:01:59Speaker 1: Yeah. What's the smartest decision you've ever made?
- 1:02:04Speaker 3: Joining coach?
- 1:02:06Speaker 2: One thing that everybody should try.
- 1:02:08Speaker 3: Once recreational drugs.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: What's a book you've read that changed your life, something
- 1:02:19Speaker 1: that everybody should read.
- 1:02:22Speaker 3: Stranger in This Strange Land by Robert Heinlen, written in
- 1:02:26Speaker 3: nineteen sixty one.
- 1:02:29Speaker 1: And what's something that you wish people could see about
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: you that they don't see at first glance.
- 1:02:34Speaker 3: There isn't anything that comes to mind. I believe that
- 1:02:37Speaker 3: I am who I am, and I project that from
- 1:02:40Speaker 3: the first moments that I'm there earnestness.
- 1:02:45Speaker 2: Yes, lou, thank you for your time.
- 1:02:47Speaker 3: I've enjoyed this thoroughly.
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 1:02:50Speaker 1: I appreciate that me too. Okay, you know what time
- 1:02:57Speaker 1: it is. Today's a good day to have a good day.
- 1:03:01Speaker 2: I'll see you next week.