539. Coaching Hotline: Letting Go Of Hurt When Someone Skips Your Wedding

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone · Oct 27, 2026 · 3m

Your maid of honor didn't come to your wedding, and you're still hurt about it. How do you move on when someone you care about misses an event that was supposed to be so important? In this Coaching Hotline episode, I answer a listener's question about lingering hurt and why we can get stuck replaying someone else's behavior long after the event itself has passed.

I'll help you unpack the thoughts you're having about what her absence means, from what you think a maid of honor or a good friend should do to what you're making it mean about how much she cares about you. You'll learn how to…