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Why You Keep Having the Same Fight With Your Partner
The fight you keep having isn't about the dishes or the money. It's your nervous system trying to protect you from feeling unsafe.
Registered psychotherapist Arkadiy Volkov breaks down why couples fall into the pursue and withdraw cycle, why logic fails once your body senses threat, and how naming the pattern restores a sense of safety.
Using attachment theory, neurobiology, and emotionally focused therapy, he offers concrete ways to slow a conflict down, repair, and rebuild trust.
If you feel exhausted and stuck, this conversation offers hope. Relationships are a skill you can build, no…
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