Latest / Hardiness with Dr Paul Taylor / The magic of sleep for your brain - and ways to improve it, with Dr Jemma King
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- 0:09Speaker 1: Doctor, Jimmy King, Welcome to the podcast.
- 0:12Speaker 2: It's been a long time coming.
- 0:15Speaker 1: It has been a long time coming.
- 0:17Speaker 3: I'm glad you said that first, because I was about
- 0:20Speaker 3: to say we met in I think it was twenty
- 0:22Speaker 3: twenty three.
- 0:23Speaker 2: You went and did something silly though, you went and
- 0:25Speaker 2: became a doctor.
- 0:28Speaker 1: But you were already doctor.
- 0:29Speaker 3: So we met at the outside, which was PWC's massive event,
- 0:34Speaker 3: which was brilliant.
- 0:35Speaker 1: They had a bike it.
- 0:36Speaker 4: Like well they call it woodstock for corporates.
- 0:40Speaker 1: And it was cracking because the drugs. Yeah, that's right.
- 0:43Speaker 3: There was maybe I don't know twenty twenty five presenters over,
- 0:49Speaker 3: but I think it was five different weeks, three days
- 0:51Speaker 3: over five weeks, and it was it was.
- 0:53Speaker 2: It was a yeah, it was a if it wasn't it.
- 0:56Speaker 1: Was, it was.
- 0:57Speaker 3: But you did a present you did a presentation on
- 1:00Speaker 3: sleep there, and you know, we chatted about your background,
- 1:04Speaker 3: interesting pH D background, and I said I need to
- 1:07Speaker 3: get you on the podcast, and you're like, yeah, we'll
- 1:09Speaker 3: get you on the podcast. And three fucking years I
- 1:11Speaker 3: tried to get you.
- 1:12Speaker 1: On the podcast and then I give an up and
- 1:15Speaker 1: bomb up your part.
- 1:17Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you, well, thank you for your perseverance.
- 1:19Speaker 4: And polite judging, no nudging. Yeah right, because I don't run.
- 1:28Speaker 4: I don't run my schedule, so I just get told
- 1:31Speaker 4: me to go what to say.
- 1:34Speaker 1: That's pretty much like me with Penny.
- 1:37Speaker 3: No, actually, before we get into sleep, tell our lessons
- 1:41Speaker 3: about your pH d because it's a pretty interesting area.
- 1:45Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 1:45Speaker 4: So it was a preemptive approach to stress, teaching emotional
- 1:49Speaker 4: intelligence as a buffer.
- 1:51Speaker 2: And because I know that people.
- 1:52Speaker 4: Aren't very accurate about how they explain or sometimes I've
- 1:58Speaker 4: got little awareness about their stress status, I knew that
- 2:02Speaker 4: just asking people was insufficient. So I tested cortisol and
- 2:07Speaker 4: immune function as a proxy measure of stress, and so
- 2:13Speaker 4: I did it down at the Australian Special Forces at
- 2:15Speaker 4: two Commando in Holsworthy. So I spent two years the
- 2:20Speaker 4: researching sort of like immersing myself in that environment, looking
- 2:23Speaker 4: at how those guys dealt with stress. And because I
- 2:25Speaker 4: thought like if anyone knows how to deal with stress,
- 2:27Speaker 4: would be these guys.
- 2:28Speaker 3: So it was.
- 2:29Speaker 4: Essentially just sort of ethnographically immersing myself in trying to
- 2:34Speaker 4: extract the lessons that they had learned from some very
- 2:37Speaker 4: extreme situations and what they did well and what they
- 2:41Speaker 4: didn't do so well, and then condense it down, put
- 2:43Speaker 4: some science, some theoretical frameworks behind it, and then teach
- 2:46Speaker 4: it back to the younger guys coming through to try
- 2:49Speaker 4: and tighten that learning loop on, you know, theory, practice
- 2:54Speaker 4: and execution.
- 2:55Speaker 2: And then so.
- 2:57Speaker 4: And then I was asked to come back and consult
- 2:58Speaker 4: to them for many years. And yeah, so I still
- 3:00Speaker 4: do stuff with defense, but yeah, it was a really interesting.
- 3:04Speaker 2: Very very different cohort.
- 3:07Speaker 4: Individuals really smart, really fit, no fail kind of environment.
- 3:14Speaker 4: They just wanted to be better. Like it was really
- 3:17Speaker 4: really interesting.
- 3:18Speaker 3: It's like working with elite athletes in it because you
- 3:21Speaker 3: just tell them and if they think they're going to
- 3:22Speaker 3: get a performance age, they're all over it like a
- 3:25Speaker 3: spider monkey.
- 3:27Speaker 1: Unlike most normal human beings.
- 3:29Speaker 3: Now Robert Ludlummon do you know him, he's an author
- 3:35Speaker 3: and he actually came up with the quote. I thought
- 3:37Speaker 3: it was some elite athlete come up with the cook,
- 3:39Speaker 3: but he came up with the quote sleep is a weapon.
- 3:43Speaker 5: And yeah, I know it's pretty cool.
- 3:46Speaker 3: You should have had that in your book, but but
- 3:49Speaker 3: your book is all about sleep, So we're going to
- 3:52Speaker 3: dive into the science of sleep. I have gone through
- 3:56Speaker 3: your book, and it is a very compra tensive a
- 4:02Speaker 3: view of sleep. What you know, why do we sleep?
- 4:04Speaker 3: What's going on? What happens when it doesn't do well?
- 4:07Speaker 3: So we're going to explore that. But I often say
- 4:10Speaker 3: when I'm talking about seek the corporate so I say,
- 4:12Speaker 3: when you're asleep, magic is happening.
- 4:15Speaker 2: It is alchemy, pure alchemy.
- 4:17Speaker 1: It is, isn't it?
- 4:18Speaker 3: So tell tell our listener, just give us an overview,
- 4:23Speaker 3: tell them about the glymphatic system, and then maybe just
- 4:27Speaker 3: some of the processes, the restorative biological processes that are
- 4:32Speaker 3: happening when you're asleep.
- 4:34Speaker 4: Yeah, I think this is one of the I suppose,
- 4:36Speaker 4: most fundamental, most exciting, most important medical discoveries of our time.
- 4:43Speaker 4: I really think the mechanism on how our brains stay clean,
- 4:50Speaker 4: so basically throughout the day, there's many things that happen.
- 4:54Speaker 2: So inside your.
- 4:56Speaker 4: Brain you have a little explosions that produce energy. So
- 5:00Speaker 4: I don't know if you guys can remember from ur
- 5:04Speaker 4: eate biology, and it's a denozine triphosphate or ATP, which
- 5:09Speaker 4: is a molecule that bursts apart and the phosphate bond
- 5:12Speaker 4: like breaks and comes off and produces energy which you use.
- 5:16Speaker 2: And what happens is there's like cellular.
- 5:21Speaker 4: Like exhaust that gets left over or the metabolic byproducts
- 5:23Speaker 4: of energy production, and this stuff kind of builds up,
- 5:27Speaker 4: and that cellular exhaust is called a denozine, and a
- 5:31Speaker 4: denaxine is Mother Nature's dimmer switch, and it kind of
- 5:35Speaker 4: makes you sleepy. Your motor skills and you grow skills
- 5:38Speaker 4: will just sort of like slow down, and it's basically
- 5:41Speaker 4: saying you know enough, and so that builds up. And
- 5:47Speaker 4: we know that a denozine is you know, well, caffeine
- 5:52Speaker 4: is an antagonist. That caffeine can sit on those receptors
- 5:55Speaker 4: and block the feeling of being sleepy. So I want
- 5:59Speaker 4: everyone to know caffeine does not give you energy. People
- 6:04Speaker 4: think that, oh, I've got to have my coffee to
- 6:05Speaker 4: get to get energized, but it's just basically blocking the
- 6:09Speaker 4: signals that makes.
- 6:09Speaker 1: A masco right, it's the real shit.
- 6:13Speaker 4: Yes, And so we know that caffeine has a half
- 6:16Speaker 4: life of about somewhere between six hours, depends on your metabolism.
- 6:20Speaker 2: You live at health where you're program if you're.
- 6:22Speaker 4: On the pill, but it will we're off after six
- 6:25Speaker 4: hours and you're actually even worse. That's why you can
- 6:28Speaker 4: get that caffeine crash because it's basically the true nature
- 6:31Speaker 4: of your sleep status just is like in full assault
- 6:35Speaker 4: and all of that. A genozine hits those receptors and
- 6:37Speaker 4: you feel like crap. So as going back to a genozine,
- 6:42Speaker 4: we know that it gives you an impending sense of doom.
- 6:46Speaker 2: The reason we know.
- 6:47Speaker 4: This, you know, like when you tie, everything feels just
- 6:49Speaker 4: overwhelming and just feels like crap. And we know that
- 6:52Speaker 4: this happens because the genozine is also used as a
- 6:54Speaker 4: heart medication for tachycardia, and when doctors administer them to
- 7:00Speaker 4: the patient, they say to them like, don't worry, You're
- 7:03Speaker 4: not going to die, because patients like, well, it feels
- 7:06Speaker 4: that you feel like this anxiousness and this like like
- 7:08Speaker 4: something like burgeoning is bad is about to happen and
- 7:12Speaker 4: you feel awful, and they say, don't worry, that's not true.
- 7:17Speaker 4: You're not going to die. It's just the adentizine. And
- 7:19Speaker 4: so this builds up. But what happens is humans like
- 7:24Speaker 4: to post rationalize. They like to think, man, I feel
- 7:27Speaker 4: like crappy, wake up and I feel like absolute crap,
- 7:30Speaker 4: And people say, well, it must be my dog, my life.
- 7:34Speaker 2: My wife, my house, my you know, you name it whatever.
- 7:38Speaker 4: But actually you're just walking around with a dirty brain,
- 7:42Speaker 4: a very dirty brain, and you don't know it.
- 7:45Speaker 2: And there's only one way to get rid of adenizine.
- 7:49Speaker 2: As you can guess, it's sleep.
- 7:51Speaker 4: Yeah, but there's a certain part of sleep architecture, and
- 7:56Speaker 4: that is deep slow wave sleep. And people don't realize
- 8:00Speaker 4: that often we are getting sleep, but we're not getting
- 8:04Speaker 4: sufficient deep slow wave sleep because we are not going
- 8:10Speaker 4: to sleep at the right time. But just so just
- 8:11Speaker 4: going back to the glymphatic system, So what happens is
- 8:14Speaker 4: inside your brain, you've got cells, and you've got cerebral
- 8:17Speaker 4: spinal fluid and interstitial fluid. And during deep slow wave sleep,
- 8:23Speaker 4: your cells will move back, so it'll increase the area
- 8:27Speaker 4: between the cells by.
- 8:28Speaker 2: Up to sixty percent.
- 8:30Speaker 1: Wow.
- 8:30Speaker 4: And so then what happens is about every fifty minutes
- 8:34Speaker 4: you get these tiny pulsatile skirts of adrenaline which like
- 8:39Speaker 4: pumps the cerebral spinal fluid through your brain. It's like
- 8:43Speaker 4: a bilge pump or it's kind of like a gurny.
- 8:47Speaker 4: And you can imagine if you had you had an alleyway,
- 8:49Speaker 4: and then all the cars were in the alleyway, but
- 8:51Speaker 4: during deep slow wave sleep they moved. They parked to
- 8:54Speaker 4: the side and someone comes through with a big gurny
- 8:57Speaker 4: and flushes away bit of amyloids towels. It helps with
- 9:01Speaker 4: the reconstitution of that energy. It's like alchemy. So the
- 9:05Speaker 4: adenazine turns back into a denozine triphosphate, then it goes
- 9:11Speaker 4: to genozine diphosphate, then it goes to a denozine, so
- 9:14Speaker 4: that our comic like you know, magical process happens during sleep.
- 9:22Speaker 4: And what people don't understand is that there's things that
- 9:26Speaker 4: will mess your deep slow wave sleep.
- 9:28Speaker 2: You think you're asleep, but you're not, and you're not
- 9:30Speaker 2: cleaning your brain.
- 9:32Speaker 4: And I remember I showed this in one of my workshops,
- 9:35Speaker 4: and I have got this you know, MRI of this
- 9:37Speaker 4: brain getting cleaned out during deep slow wave sleep. And
- 9:41Speaker 4: I said, remember this slide if you ever feel like,
- 9:43Speaker 4: you know, getting divorced, quitting your job. And this woman
- 9:46Speaker 4: came back to me and she said, oh my god,
- 9:49Speaker 4: this slide saved my marriage.
- 9:52Speaker 3: Oh, because she had the impending doom from lack of
- 9:56Speaker 3: sleep and thinking, oh, my marriage just screwed, and yah,
- 9:59Speaker 3: she says it's him.
- 10:00Speaker 4: She was like, I won't to tell her name it
- 10:03Speaker 4: or anything, but she was like, I feel suspicious. I
- 10:05Speaker 4: think he's cheating on me. I don't think he loves
- 10:07Speaker 4: me anymore. I I you know. And then she says,
- 10:11Speaker 4: so she started like getting upset with him about not
- 10:13Speaker 4: packing the dishwasher properly and doing leaving socks, and she
- 10:16Speaker 4: just got into this awful downward spiral and then she said,
- 10:20Speaker 4: I got a tracker, and then I just realized I
- 10:22Speaker 4: was not getting into deep slow way of sleep. It
- 10:24Speaker 4: was really minimal, and so I just had a dirty brain.
- 10:27Speaker 4: And so there is a window of opportunity when you
- 10:33Speaker 4: get deep slow way sleep, and it's primarily in the
- 10:35Speaker 4: first two hours before midnight.
- 10:37Speaker 3: And this is really critical, isn't it, Because we know
- 10:40Speaker 3: that there's earles and larks, right larks.
- 10:44Speaker 1: I'm a lark. I tend to go to bed earlier.
- 10:47Speaker 3: But people who stay up late at night they suffer
- 10:51Speaker 3: from more I think neurodegeneral disease and worseh mental health,
- 10:55Speaker 3: don't it because basically they have a dirty or brillan
- 10:58Speaker 3: If you're because you're missed seeing a lot of that
- 11:01Speaker 3: critical deep sleep.
- 11:04Speaker 2: So people with irregular sleep schedules have about fifty percent
- 11:08Speaker 2: higher or cause mortality than independent of how much sleep
- 11:12Speaker 2: they get compared to duration.
- 11:15Speaker 4: So it is a big deal.
- 11:19Speaker 1: You know.
- 11:20Speaker 4: They said that if everybody just went to sleep one
- 11:22Speaker 4: hour earlier, the global depression rate would dropped by twenty
- 11:26Speaker 4: three percent.
- 11:27Speaker 3: Wow.
- 11:28Speaker 4: Yeah, So there's a window opportunity where you get into
- 11:32Speaker 4: deep soil, and so all the processes, all the metabolic
- 11:35Speaker 4: you know, cellular activity is all contrived to do what
- 11:40Speaker 4: it's supposed to do, clean and repair and reconstitute atp
- 11:45Speaker 4: and so people don't know that during that two hours
- 11:49Speaker 4: you get seventy to eighty percent of your human growth
- 11:51Speaker 4: woman this massive, big spike.
- 11:54Speaker 2: And so if you miss that window, you.
- 11:58Speaker 4: May make up the overall number like millileaters milligrams of it,
- 12:03Speaker 4: but you miss that big ballets, You miss that big hit,
- 12:06Speaker 4: and you get little squirts of it throughout the twenty
- 12:08Speaker 4: four hours.
- 12:09Speaker 2: But so what would happen.
- 12:10Speaker 4: You get growth on and that doesn't actually reach certain
- 12:12Speaker 4: parts of your body or your metabolic processes. So this
- 12:16Speaker 4: is why people think that shift workers might die on
- 12:20Speaker 4: average fifteen years earlier than non shift workers because they
- 12:23Speaker 4: just never quite get that big hit of growth.
- 12:26Speaker 2: On and you're always running on in sort of empty.
- 12:29Speaker 4: And then also you know, if you don't clean out
- 12:32Speaker 4: those sticky you know, beta amyloys and towers, it's like
- 12:36Speaker 4: these proteins that build up this like sticky goo in
- 12:38Speaker 4: your brain and that's highly correlated with dementia and so
- 12:44Speaker 4: things that we know actually don't let you get into deep,
- 12:48Speaker 4: slow way of sleep and do that pulsatile cleaning, things
- 12:51Speaker 4: like alcohol, things like you know, sleep tablets.
- 12:55Speaker 3: Yeah, because when you take sleeping tablets, as I said,
- 12:58Speaker 3: not really asleep your conscious right, it's not.
- 13:02Speaker 4: Desrestgated that you don't have the beautiful you know cycling
- 13:05Speaker 4: through and you don't have all the cakelon complexes and
- 13:09Speaker 4: spindles and all those all the deep rolling waves and
- 13:12Speaker 4: all that stuff is just shut down and you don't
- 13:14Speaker 4: don't have that little dronine and pulsatiles that help push
- 13:17Speaker 4: all the gunk out. So yeah, I mean, you know,
- 13:20Speaker 4: for people out there who do take sleeping tablets, have
- 13:23Speaker 4: a wash out period. You know, don't take them every day,
- 13:26Speaker 4: like try and give your brain a break to wash
- 13:29Speaker 4: it out. Also, you know, alcohol is terrible. Oh, I'm
- 13:34Speaker 4: so sorry to say. And you know day drink instead.
- 13:37Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right too, if you drink earlier,
- 13:40Speaker 3: which which my wife likes to do, if we shares
- 13:42Speaker 3: a glass of one. You like to have it at dinner, yeah,
- 13:45Speaker 3: I like to have it after dinner, or she likes
- 13:47Speaker 3: to have it before dinner, which is but it's actually
- 13:50Speaker 3: much better to do it then because your your body
- 13:52Speaker 3: tabo lasers at all.
- 13:53Speaker 4: Right, you shouldn't be having it on an empty stomach
- 13:56Speaker 4: because in your stomach, you know, as you know, you've
- 13:58Speaker 4: got these tight junctions.
- 14:00Speaker 2: Yeah, very tight, like they've almost got like a glue.
- 14:02Speaker 4: And alcohols, particularly like spirits, will strip off the mucus
- 14:07Speaker 4: and they will undo those type junctions a bit, and
- 14:09Speaker 4: then you can get some you know, I suppose food
- 14:13Speaker 4: particles that get into your bloodstream and cause inflammation and
- 14:16Speaker 4: your immune systems thinking, what are these things? It's just
- 14:19Speaker 4: like food particles, but they're not supposed to be there, right,
- 14:21Speaker 4: So these type junctions are very important in your digestive
- 14:25Speaker 4: check but also in your blood brain barrier. So alcohol
- 14:28Speaker 4: can loosen those type junctions.
- 14:30Speaker 2: Might give you a bit of a leaky guys, and
- 14:32Speaker 2: that's really importantly.
- 14:33Speaker 3: I've got a to order who's at university at the minute,
- 14:35Speaker 3: and a lot of her friends like to drink on
- 14:37Speaker 3: an empty stomach because they get.
- 14:39Speaker 1: More drunk quicker. Right.
- 14:41Speaker 4: But and when women, again, they are affected up to
- 14:44Speaker 4: fifty percent more than men, and it really messes with
- 14:47Speaker 4: this leak, particularly certain parts of your luteel phase.
- 14:51Speaker 2: You're more susceptible to alcohol.
- 14:53Speaker 4: You get drunk or quicker. We've got less blood, We've
- 14:55Speaker 4: got less enzymes. Yeah, we we. I mean I can
- 14:59Speaker 4: drink as much as most men, but most women.
- 15:04Speaker 3: Can't, said the scientist.
- 15:09Speaker 1: No chances, you.
- 15:11Speaker 2: Know, I've got my ancestors.
- 15:14Speaker 3: So we've talked about we talked about deep sleep there,
- 15:17Speaker 3: so a lot of people know they know about the
- 15:20Speaker 3: importance of deep sleep that have also heard about the
- 15:22Speaker 3: importance of ram sleep. I remember reading a twenty nineteen
- 15:27Speaker 3: paper by Dutch researchers who blocked ram sleep in both
- 15:33Speaker 3: animals and then follow it up with humans and find
- 15:36Speaker 3: that it induced anxiety like behaviors in a week.
- 15:39Speaker 4: Right, Yes, so yeah, this is so inch So what
- 15:42Speaker 4: it does It trains your brain for its fear conditioning.
- 15:47Speaker 4: And so if you're like a lot of people will
- 15:49Speaker 4: cut off their if they drink and or if they've
- 15:52Speaker 4: got early alarms and they're getting up to play sport
- 15:54Speaker 4: or something. So you know, REMS is predominantly characterizing the
- 16:00Speaker 4: later part of your sleep architecture. So around two am
- 16:04Speaker 4: on it's often white people wake up.
- 16:06Speaker 2: But so what happens is, you know, humans.
- 16:09Speaker 4: Are naturally scared of like snakes. You know, if we
- 16:12Speaker 4: see a snake, will like curl back.
- 16:15Speaker 2: That's okay, that's you know we should be.
- 16:17Speaker 4: But then you know, if you see a garden hose,
- 16:19Speaker 4: you're like, is that a hose or a snake? And
- 16:23Speaker 4: then your brain over overrides and says, no, that's just
- 16:25Speaker 4: a garden hose. You go okay, and it settles down,
- 16:27Speaker 4: so you don't get scared.
- 16:28Speaker 2: Of garden hoses.
- 16:29Speaker 4: But what they see is if you cut off your
- 16:31Speaker 4: rem your fear conditioning doesn't get recalibrated, so you'll see
- 16:35Speaker 4: a garden hose, get scared of it, and then every
- 16:36Speaker 4: time you see a garden hose you get scared of it.
- 16:38Speaker 4: Then you get scared of sticks that look like snakes,
- 16:41Speaker 4: and then you get scared of shadows that are long
- 16:44Speaker 4: and skinny. So it doesn't dampen your fear conditioning. And
- 16:48Speaker 4: so what we see is, you know, people who drink
- 16:51Speaker 4: a lot actually more anxious, and then they drink to
- 16:54Speaker 4: stop being anxious, but the alcohol is probably pushing off
- 16:58Speaker 4: their RAM. It crushes ram because it wants to engage
- 17:02Speaker 4: in deep slow wave sleep to get rid of the.
- 17:03Speaker 2: Poisons from alcohol.
- 17:04Speaker 4: So your RAM gets pushed out and then so you're
- 17:08Speaker 4: not actually having the fear condition. We think that could
- 17:10Speaker 4: be implicated in PTSD that it could be a bit
- 17:12Speaker 4: of a sleep condition because you're waking up in your
- 17:16Speaker 4: RAM from these horrible dreams and you never get to
- 17:18Speaker 4: file them away. So we have what I use the
- 17:22Speaker 4: analogy of a midnight librarian. So imagine during rem sleep,
- 17:27Speaker 4: you've got a librarian he or she is got a
- 17:29Speaker 4: big bench and all the things that happened during the
- 17:32Speaker 4: day come into her desk in manila folders, and then
- 17:37Speaker 4: she'll go that's the one goes with that box, so
- 17:40Speaker 4: that one that can go over there, Oh that's boring,
- 17:42Speaker 4: don't need that book, this one, And then they'll get
- 17:46Speaker 4: some kind of really sort of emotionally evoking memory and say, well,
- 17:50Speaker 4: this one I need executive orders though this is too confusing,
- 17:53Speaker 4: and they often will wake up the boss to.
- 17:55Speaker 1: Go, isn't I've read that.
- 18:00Speaker 3: Sleep is the only time in your life when the
- 18:04Speaker 3: release of nora adrenaline from the look of curelius is dumpened,
- 18:08Speaker 3: and that's the kind of sister chemical of adrenaline. So
- 18:11Speaker 3: it's basically, as you were saying, that the brain is
- 18:13Speaker 3: replaying the day's events deciding what the store. Is a memory,
- 18:17Speaker 3: but it's supposed to suppress nora adrenaline, so you relive
- 18:23Speaker 3: that memory in a less stressful environment. But yes, but
- 18:28Speaker 3: when people are really stressed, doesn't that override and it
- 18:31Speaker 3: leaks in And that's why you wake up at three
- 18:34Speaker 3: am and you're not you're not thinking about your best
- 18:36Speaker 3: holiday ever, are you? No?
- 18:39Speaker 4: I mean, there's there's lots of theories, but while we
- 18:42Speaker 4: wake up, this is actually one of them.
- 18:45Speaker 2: So basically, your brain is trying to make.
- 18:48Speaker 4: Sense of something traumatic, and what it does, it's trying
- 18:51Speaker 4: to habituate you to that imagery and try it's actually
- 18:56Speaker 4: trying to take away the sting. So it's like a
- 18:58Speaker 4: movie theater playing it over and over. Aguess like exposure
- 19:02Speaker 4: therapy without those because when you produce adrenaline. What it
- 19:06Speaker 4: does signposts this is a frightening thing, and it puts
- 19:10Speaker 4: it in a certain part of your memory. Yet this
- 19:12Speaker 4: flashbold memory just to think, hey, this is something you
- 19:15Speaker 4: should be very aware of and very scared of every
- 19:18Speaker 4: time you see it. And you never get to distinguish
- 19:21Speaker 4: that that that feeling, or that that memory or that
- 19:24Speaker 4: visual kind of imagery. And that's what sleeping is trying
- 19:27Speaker 4: to do, is trying to take the sting out so
- 19:29Speaker 4: you remember the lesson. So all of the details are there,
- 19:32Speaker 4: but you just don't have that emotional reaction to it.
- 19:35Speaker 3: I think those Dutch researchers called rem sleep nately therapy
- 19:39Speaker 3: for the breas. Yeah, and if you don't have it,
- 19:42Speaker 3: and does mara wanta impact upon remsleep, I know alcohol does.
- 19:46Speaker 1: Have you read anything about.
- 19:48Speaker 4: I saw a paper come across my computer this morning
- 19:51Speaker 4: and I didn't get a chance to read it. So
- 19:53Speaker 4: there's some new research coming out and I think there
- 19:58Speaker 4: is not good from the previous papers, but I really
- 20:01Speaker 4: would want to read it first before I say.
- 20:03Speaker 3: Maybe you can flick it to me afterwards and we'll
- 20:06Speaker 3: do an update on it. So so that's the importance
- 20:09Speaker 3: of deep sleep is really about cleaning out your brain.
- 20:13Speaker 3: And and as you rightly said, those those tag tangles,
- 20:16Speaker 3: those aminoid plaques that build up if you're not having sleep,
- 20:20Speaker 3: they're the ones that are rampant in people with Alzheimer's disease.
- 20:24Speaker 3: And older people tend to have more of the junk
- 20:27Speaker 3: than younger people, but younger people with shit sleep, their
- 20:31Speaker 3: Brians resemble older people, right, So it is so important.
- 20:35Speaker 1: For cleaning your brain.
- 20:36Speaker 3: The RAM sleep nightly therapy for the Brian. What about
- 20:39Speaker 3: the other stages of sleep.
- 20:43Speaker 1: Like what are they? They? Are they useful or are
- 20:45Speaker 1: they just.
- 20:47Speaker 4: I think we're finding out more and more we're finding
- 20:50Speaker 4: out that all the stages are useful. So I mean,
- 20:52Speaker 4: you've got light sleep, we kind in the alpha wave,
- 20:55Speaker 4: and you know this can be the time where you're creative.
- 20:58Speaker 4: So a part of your pre front of a cortex
- 21:00Speaker 4: goes offline, so you can imagine things that you're not
- 21:03Speaker 4: constrained by the normal physics of reality. And that's why
- 21:07Speaker 4: you could, like I think Salvador Salvage or Dais to
- 21:10Speaker 4: use these hypnogonic sleep stages, so just to try and
- 21:15Speaker 4: you know, think of wild and amazing, you know, different connections.
- 21:19Speaker 2: So yeah, alpha is good.
- 21:22Speaker 4: You know, it's like you know, trying to I think
- 21:24Speaker 4: Matthew Walker says, it's like trying to.
- 21:25Speaker 2: Land a plane.
- 21:26Speaker 4: You kind of have to cycle through these stages because
- 21:29Speaker 4: you've got to drop your core body temperature, you've got
- 21:31Speaker 4: to change your brain chemistry. You've got to you know,
- 21:34Speaker 4: really get into a place where you're akinesetized so you
- 21:38Speaker 4: don't act out your dreams.
- 21:40Speaker 2: So on the way down and one.
- 21:42Speaker 4: And two and three, you've got things like sleep spindles.
- 21:45Speaker 4: You've got K complexes. So sleep spindles are associated with learning.
- 21:50Speaker 4: They're like little spikes in your sleep that you know,
- 21:53Speaker 4: they think what you're doing is that they're transmitting so
- 21:57Speaker 4: physical information on learning skills and.
- 22:01Speaker 2: Your motor cortex.
- 22:03Speaker 4: They're trying to embed those memories or those skills. K
- 22:07Speaker 4: complexes are like they're big kind of spikes and basically
- 22:10Speaker 4: they're like the brains bounces. So if you hear a
- 22:13Speaker 4: car door slam, or you know, if you're listening to
- 22:16Speaker 4: a TV show and it starts clapping, it's like a
- 22:18Speaker 4: bouncer that'll kind of protect you from waking up. It'll
- 22:21Speaker 4: check to see do you need to wake up and
- 22:23Speaker 4: if not, it's kind of protecting you. But what you
- 22:27Speaker 4: do is you get micro arousals throughout the night from
- 22:29Speaker 4: these K complexes. So throughout age you get swindled di indles,
- 22:34Speaker 4: swindle dwindle, and you get less K complexes. So we
- 22:37Speaker 4: think that could be also implicated and demental or the
- 22:41Speaker 4: inability to learn because you get less of these and
- 22:44Speaker 4: then you know down into DITPCH slow wave sleep, and
- 22:47Speaker 4: then you come back up into REM and so this
- 22:50Speaker 4: all takes around ninety minutes and it's like a theater
- 22:52Speaker 4: production if you push out one stage, like you can't
- 22:56Speaker 4: just go, oh, we'll go catch up on that later.
- 22:58Speaker 4: Like these things need to happen in succession, and there's
- 23:03Speaker 4: it's you know like it's a it's a it's a
- 23:06Speaker 4: formula like this and this and this and this and
- 23:08Speaker 4: this and the.
- 23:10Speaker 3: I think what's important for people to understand is to
- 23:13Speaker 3: get to sleep, you have to go through alpha, right,
- 23:17Speaker 3: So that first stage you're in alpha waves, which is
- 23:20Speaker 3: that relaxation, meditative you know, wusy sort of steer it.
- 23:25Speaker 4: But that's kind of like where we're in non deep
- 23:28Speaker 4: sleep nst are non sleep deep rest or yoga nidra.
- 23:31Speaker 1: Which which we'll talk about it in a minute.
- 23:33Speaker 3: But but this is why when people are stressed, they
- 23:35Speaker 3: can't get to sleep, because when you're stressed, you're in
- 23:37Speaker 3: high beta. If you're in high beta, it's physiologically impossible
- 23:41Speaker 3: to get to sleep. You've got to get done from
- 23:43Speaker 3: high beta into little beta, then coming into alpha, which
- 23:46Speaker 3: is why stuff like slow control breathing and things like
- 23:50Speaker 3: that happen, particularly when you're when you're stressed.
- 23:52Speaker 4: Right, So, yeah, and you've got to you've got to
- 23:54Speaker 4: tell you your brain bounces like you know everything's safe.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Yeah, you actually get into a vulnerable position tonight.
- 24:00Speaker 4: Nothing's going to hurt you, bite you touch you like,
- 24:03Speaker 4: And so your brain's like scanning the environment for safety signals.
- 24:09Speaker 4: And sometimes your brain just will not, particularly if you've
- 24:12Speaker 4: had a troubled childhood, you've got a highly activated brain
- 24:18Speaker 4: bouncer that just wants to, you.
- 24:19Speaker 2: Know, make sure. And you know, I was speaking to
- 24:21Speaker 2: a girl, she.
- 24:23Speaker 4: Was an athlete, and she was like, I just cannot,
- 24:25Speaker 4: I cannot go to sleep. I'm so stressed all the time.
- 24:29Speaker 4: And as it turned out, she used to get all
- 24:32Speaker 4: of her brothers and sisters little ones and keep them
- 24:35Speaker 4: into it, like make her bed, and then she'd stay
- 24:38Speaker 4: up all night and protect them from some uncles who
- 24:40Speaker 4: were like terrible. And I was like, oh, that's so sad.
- 24:44Speaker 4: So she sacrificed her whole nights of good sleep, and
- 24:48Speaker 4: she just got into this habit, and even though she
- 24:50Speaker 4: was a grown up, she couldn't get she couldn't get
- 24:52Speaker 4: over it. And so I was like, what you need
- 24:53Speaker 4: to do is you need to like create your own
- 24:55Speaker 4: little cocoon, like get a mossy net made out of
- 24:59Speaker 4: like and then sort of had blankets and pillows all
- 25:03Speaker 4: around and then cocoonies to lock your door and just
- 25:06Speaker 4: make like tell your primative brain that you're in a
- 25:08Speaker 4: safe sanctuary, sleep little nest. And she was like, oh
- 25:12Speaker 4: my god, that she goes just listening to that to
- 25:14Speaker 4: make me feel sleepy.
- 25:15Speaker 2: That's awesome. I'll try that.
- 25:17Speaker 1: That's really cool.
- 25:18Speaker 3: And let's not talk about what's the impact of both
- 25:25Speaker 3: short term sleep debt, like what's the impact the next
- 25:28Speaker 3: day on your cognitive function and hormones, and then long
- 25:33Speaker 3: term chronic sleep debt.
- 25:35Speaker 1: What does that do?
- 25:37Speaker 3: You've already hinted at some of the things, but let's
- 25:39Speaker 3: just go through a little bit of a list.
- 25:41Speaker 4: Yeah, so like you've got to be careful because all
- 25:45Speaker 4: of us will have, you know, at least a night's
- 25:48Speaker 4: sleep or no, didn't sleep and we've got a big
- 25:51Speaker 4: day tomorrow. So I'm really cognizant of making people understand that,
- 25:56Speaker 4: you know, if it happens, it happens, one night is okay. Like,
- 25:59Speaker 4: like you know, self working with athletes, how many athletes
- 26:02Speaker 4: have you worked with that totally tanked their peak performance
- 26:08Speaker 4: at at a huge event.
- 26:09Speaker 2: Because they had a bad night sleep. And I'm like,
- 26:11Speaker 2: you're like the.
- 26:11Speaker 3: Fields and then they get the anxiety that shit sleep anxiety, right.
- 26:16Speaker 4: Yeah, So I'm like, what you're doing. You have got
- 26:19Speaker 4: to disentangle deconflate sleep deprivation with sleep deprivation and anxiety,
- 26:26Speaker 4: because you're giving yourself a double whammy and the metabolic
- 26:30Speaker 4: burn of negative rumination around oh my god, I'm tired
- 26:34Speaker 4: like that is actually very expensive. You're actually using up
- 26:36Speaker 4: a lot of energy that you don't have. So it's
- 26:39Speaker 4: really important that if you do have a bad night's sleep,
- 26:42Speaker 4: you go into work or you go into your event
- 26:45Speaker 4: and you say, you know what.
- 26:46Speaker 2: I'm actually pretty good.
- 26:47Speaker 4: I'm actually I actually feel pretty good considering, and you
- 26:50Speaker 4: look for evidence within your body of your actually feeling,
- 26:52Speaker 4: like the soles of my feet for pretty strong, or
- 26:55Speaker 4: I'm actually like my memory is pretty good, or like
- 26:58Speaker 4: you just it's almost like your gaslight.
- 27:00Speaker 5: And don't look at your bloody wearable.
- 27:03Speaker 3: If you've got to performance and you're prone to a
- 27:06Speaker 3: bit of that, just don't look at it.
- 27:07Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 27:07Speaker 2: I've got a couple of athletes like I can't wear it.
- 27:10Speaker 3: Yeah, because they've they've actually done experiments. But they tick
- 27:13Speaker 3: people in give some of them good sleep, some of
- 27:15Speaker 3: them they get disturbed sleep. And then they tell some
- 27:19Speaker 3: of the people who got the good sleep that they
- 27:20Speaker 3: had shited sleep, and some of them wants here. But
- 27:22Speaker 3: and then they do test the cognitive function and they
- 27:25Speaker 3: basically live up to what they're told, even if it
- 27:27Speaker 3: was the opposite of what happened.
- 27:29Speaker 2: Yeah, So the.
- 27:30Speaker 4: Question is the greatest what is the greatest predictor of
- 27:32Speaker 4: next day cognitive performance? And you just said it, It
- 27:35Speaker 4: is your perception of how will.
- 27:37Speaker 2: You act on no sleep?
- 27:39Speaker 4: Yeah, there you go, or your perception of your sleep?
- 27:42Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 27:42Speaker 4: So yeah, you can gaslight. So I do that when
- 27:44Speaker 4: I'm traveling, Like I get like a lot I do.
- 27:47Speaker 4: But I'm like, I'm not attending to these I'm not.
- 27:49Speaker 4: I'm just gonna no, I'm not doing it. Because the
- 27:52Speaker 4: more you like think, oh my god, oh so that,
- 27:55Speaker 4: the worse it is. So I'm very very careful about
- 27:58Speaker 4: my mindset around things like that. But yeah, so but
- 28:01Speaker 4: post you know, if you've getting three point five hours
- 28:04Speaker 4: or sixty percent of your sleep knees for three nights,
- 28:06Speaker 4: you were cooked.
- 28:07Speaker 1: Yeah, you should be.
- 28:08Speaker 4: You should be doing operating machinery, making big decisions, telling
- 28:13Speaker 4: people what to do.
- 28:14Speaker 2: I remember did they not learning? You know?
- 28:16Speaker 3: I remember German being on combat survival and resistance to
- 28:19Speaker 3: interrogation of course, in the south of the UK, in
- 28:22Speaker 3: the middle of winter, with no sleeping bags, and we got.
- 28:26Speaker 1: Thrashed every night.
- 28:28Speaker 5: We were so friggin sleep deprived.
- 28:31Speaker 2: Hallucinating.
- 28:32Speaker 3: Yeah, day seven, me and my apple stick, we were hallucinating.
- 28:36Speaker 1: He was We were going through the forest.
- 28:39Speaker 3: At night now vigating and he saw hell'sy angels, right,
- 28:44Speaker 3: he was jumping out of the way of frigging Hell's
- 28:45Speaker 3: injurs on watorbakes that weren't there.
- 28:47Speaker 1: And I was sollucinating as well. It was mental.
- 28:50Speaker 4: Yeah, I've got a bit in the book about this,
- 28:53Speaker 4: Like basically, you know, sleep sleep deprivation torture is illegal,
- 28:59Speaker 4: we willingly do it to ourselves every night because it is.
- 29:03Speaker 3: It is one of the most effective torture campaigns. Psychological
- 29:08Speaker 3: warfare is that's the first thing they will do.
- 29:12Speaker 5: The prisoners of war.
- 29:13Speaker 1: They want to get shipped out of them. They don't
- 29:14Speaker 1: have to freaking.
- 29:15Speaker 3: Physically just sleep deprived the ship out of them for
- 29:18Speaker 3: days and then they're fucked.
- 29:20Speaker 4: It's a bruiseless that punishment. I mean, you don't get
- 29:23Speaker 4: good information. People will say anything to be allowed to sleep.
- 29:28Speaker 2: So is it horrible?
- 29:30Speaker 4: But I mean if you want if you want good intel,
- 29:33Speaker 4: there's other ways.
- 29:35Speaker 1: But which is for another podcast. Yeah, So we talked
- 29:40Speaker 1: about those short term effects.
- 29:41Speaker 3: What about the impact of like chronically bad sick Now,
- 29:45Speaker 3: you mentioned shift workers, and I think any shift for it.
- 29:48Speaker 3: I've always said you could not pay me enough money
- 29:50Speaker 3: to do shift work because I've seen that research as well.
- 29:52Speaker 3: Ten to fifteen years reduced life expect I mean that
- 29:55Speaker 3: just shows you how important it is.
- 29:58Speaker 1: But what are some of the.
- 30:00Speaker 3: Other diseases conditions that are ramped up with chronic sleep debt,
- 30:07Speaker 3: like my top barred sleep over years and years and years.
- 30:10Speaker 4: Well, it makes you fat, gives your diabetes. So people
- 30:15Speaker 4: don't realize that if you're eating in that late night window,
- 30:19Speaker 4: like your all your physiology is geared to do other stuff,
- 30:22Speaker 4: and if you're throwing food into it, insulin goes burco.
- 30:25Speaker 4: You will lay down fat, you will not be digesting food,
- 30:29Speaker 4: your peristasis slows down. So there's all these second and
- 30:32Speaker 4: third or effects of literally having dysregulated blood glucose insulin.
- 30:38Speaker 4: You know, you can get insulin resistance, which means if
- 30:42Speaker 4: you have sugar, you actually can't pull it into your cells. Yeah,
- 30:45Speaker 4: one hundred percent put on weight, so if you sleep deprived,
- 30:50Speaker 4: your body will reduce griellin, so reduced selectic, which is
- 30:55Speaker 4: your cetaceans by I think it's like it was eighteen
- 30:58Speaker 4: percent more what grillin if you have one night of
- 31:02Speaker 4: sleep deprovation, so you are hungrier.
- 31:03Speaker 2: The next day more and your ability.
- 31:07Speaker 4: To suppress your hunger as I think it was like
- 31:09Speaker 4: eleven percent. You put on belly fat, you put on
- 31:11Speaker 4: visceral fat, so your fat distribution changes your ability to
- 31:19Speaker 4: heal blood. You know, browne muscle all that skin all goes,
- 31:24Speaker 4: you're more prone to getting injured. So what is the
- 31:28Speaker 4: greatest predictor of sporting performance, It is athlete availability. What
- 31:34Speaker 4: is the greatest predictor of athlete availability avoidance of injury?
- 31:38Speaker 4: What is the greatest predictor of injury avoidance? Sleep? So
- 31:43Speaker 4: it is the greatest you know, you say that legal
- 31:47Speaker 4: high performance protocol Jani.
- 31:50Speaker 1: Yeah, having a good sleep.
- 31:52Speaker 3: And I think the other thing is impact on cortiovascular disease.
- 31:58Speaker 3: You know you mentioned diabetes, but dan high diabetes independently
- 32:02Speaker 3: play plays into Alzheimer's and dementia. But high sleep depreviation,
- 32:06Speaker 3: as we talked about earlier.
- 32:07Speaker 2: Directly diabetes of the brain.
- 32:09Speaker 3: Yeah, yea.
- 32:10Speaker 2: The sugars that.
- 32:11Speaker 4: Are creating you probably the towels and you know better
- 32:14Speaker 4: amyloids or you know, there's this byproduct of sugar, you know,
- 32:19Speaker 4: production or metabolism.
- 32:22Speaker 2: That's all just like clogging up your brain.
- 32:26Speaker 4: Yeah, so it is.
- 32:27Speaker 2: It is really important, particularly for your heart.
- 32:30Speaker 4: So we know during deep slow wave sleep, your heart
- 32:32Speaker 4: actually beats slower and you have less heart beats during
- 32:36Speaker 4: that period. So if you're missing out on deep slow
- 32:39Speaker 4: wat sleep, you're actually working your heart harder. Like this
- 32:42Speaker 4: is this is a muscle that never stops. The more
- 32:45Speaker 4: rist you can give it at the right time, the better.
- 32:48Speaker 4: So if you're never getting into that deep sow wave sleepe,
- 32:50Speaker 4: you're just burning that thing.
- 32:52Speaker 3: Do you know the one that I talked to corporate
- 32:55Speaker 3: about that gets the most attention.
- 32:57Speaker 1: This is for the gentleman.
- 33:00Speaker 3: I don't know if you've seen this research study three
- 33:01Speaker 3: nights bad sleep and your balls shrink yep.
- 33:05Speaker 4: Yes, men who sleep less than five hours a night
- 33:08Speaker 4: have smaller testicles and then who sleep more than five hours.
- 33:12Speaker 2: There who did that research?
- 33:14Speaker 1: I know because they actually have the massive of it.
- 33:17Speaker 4: It's like that, you know why because if they asked them,
- 33:20Speaker 4: if it was self report, that data would have been
- 33:22Speaker 4: absolute bullshit.
- 33:23Speaker 1: Erupted.
- 33:25Speaker 2: No, that's that big they are. Are you sure?
- 33:28Speaker 1: No?
- 33:29Speaker 4: Trust me?
- 33:31Speaker 1: That's funny, So no.
- 33:34Speaker 4: Like sorry, Like women don't get away with it. Also
- 33:37Speaker 4: like there's a high incidence of having perimen earlier perimenopause.
- 33:42Speaker 3: So so chronic per sleep is more likely to induce
- 33:46Speaker 3: early perimenopause.
- 33:47Speaker 4: The amount of women who come up to me after
- 33:49Speaker 4: an event and say, I don't know what's wrong with me?
- 33:52Speaker 4: And I said, they said I'm like, have you had
- 33:54Speaker 4: your hormone levels checked?
- 33:56Speaker 2: And they're like, oh really, I'm only thirty eight.
- 34:00Speaker 4: Yeah, And then you know, invariably I get an email
- 34:02Speaker 4: saying you were right, I'm going on perimenopausal And so
- 34:06Speaker 4: you go into it earlier and then, like you know,
- 34:08Speaker 4: you have a tougher time during menopause because menopause also
- 34:10Speaker 4: ruins your sleep, and then you're more likely to have
- 34:14Speaker 4: miscarriages if you don't sleep, and you're more likely to
- 34:17Speaker 4: get breast cancer.
- 34:18Speaker 2: Wow, because when you're you know, in.
- 34:21Speaker 4: That deep, slow way of sleep, you know, your bodies
- 34:24Speaker 4: does a lurgy stock take, So it basically checks out
- 34:27Speaker 4: what's all the teratogens or what are all the you know, pathogens,
- 34:31Speaker 4: what are the terrible things that my body's come into
- 34:33Speaker 4: contact with. It kind of categorizes it. And we have
- 34:36Speaker 4: a library, a stock take library, and our bodies.
- 34:40Speaker 2: And when you're sleep deprived, your body doesn't get a.
- 34:43Speaker 4: Chance to do its lurking stock take, and so your
- 34:47Speaker 4: ability to respond timely to pathogens is somewhat compromised.
- 34:52Speaker 3: I think the other thing that just to throw in there,
- 34:54Speaker 3: if people aren't depressed enough, is your DNA repair enzyme
- 34:59Speaker 3: stn't actively because they kick in when you're sleep and
- 35:01Speaker 3: they go out and clean up cancer, some pre cancer seales.
- 35:04Speaker 2: So increase can't telling me is the shorter?
- 35:07Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 35:07Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, less.
- 35:09Speaker 3: Maybe we should stop there and then scare the ship.
- 35:11Speaker 2: I just felt like in my book it was so
- 35:13Speaker 2: much like doom.
- 35:17Speaker 3: But then we give people some tips, right, which is
- 35:20Speaker 3: what the section network. Now I go, actually, before we
- 35:23Speaker 3: do that, does everybody need to see them sleep?
- 35:27Speaker 1: Like me? You do? We need to see them sleep?
- 35:30Speaker 1: And then how do you sleep?
- 35:32Speaker 3: Needs change over the lifespan. We know younger kids need
- 35:36Speaker 3: more sleep because they're growing. But from an adult perspective,
- 35:38Speaker 3: as you eage, are the requirements less or do we
- 35:42Speaker 3: just sleep less than that contributes to aging?
- 35:45Speaker 2: No? So really, so kids really need a lot more sleep.
- 35:49Speaker 4: So tenagers should be sleeping like ten hours, nine ten hours.
- 35:53Speaker 4: Athletes should be over that. But and particularly you know
- 35:58Speaker 4: young boys need that that morning sleep as well for
- 36:00Speaker 4: a whole lot of reasons. But so if you look
- 36:03Speaker 4: at big population studies, humans on average needs seven and
- 36:07Speaker 4: a half hours sleep, and what they've seen is that
- 36:11Speaker 4: if you sleep over nine hours, you actually have a
- 36:14Speaker 4: short life. Yeah yeah, And then of course under seven
- 36:17Speaker 4: not so good. But there are people who've won the
- 36:19Speaker 4: genetic Lotto who've got a deck to gene they only
- 36:21Speaker 4: need four to five hours night of sleep, which would
- 36:24Speaker 4: be amazing.
- 36:24Speaker 2: So these are people.
- 36:25Speaker 4: It's an over representation of these people in politics.
- 36:29Speaker 3: Ye, Margaret Thatcher very famously was one of those people, right,
- 36:33Speaker 3: And isn't it a super small percentage of popular.
- 36:38Speaker 4: One in a thousand, hundred thousand and so the current
- 36:42Speaker 4: Prime Minister of Tokyo, Winston Churchill. Yeah, there's a lot
- 36:49Speaker 4: of really famous people because they just were able to
- 36:51Speaker 4: get ahead. And well, all of us have to sleep,
- 36:53Speaker 4: but no, we definitely need around seven and that's seven
- 36:56Speaker 4: and a half hours asleep, so you need about eight
- 36:58Speaker 4: hours in bed to like get there.
- 37:01Speaker 2: And so if you don't get that, there's not.
- 37:06Speaker 4: One system in your body that isn't impacted by sleep deprivation.
- 37:11Speaker 4: And so when people say, oh, I'm a morning a
- 37:15Speaker 4: lark or a night owl, there's a bit of conjecture
- 37:18Speaker 4: about whether that's true or not. So there was the
- 37:22Speaker 4: sentinel sleep hypothesis where you know, a hunter gatherers, we
- 37:26Speaker 4: would have like thirty percent of our tribe would be awake,
- 37:29Speaker 4: sort of keeping them, taking into the fires, making sure
- 37:31Speaker 4: the fires so bugs would stay away, predators would stay away.
- 37:35Speaker 4: But you know that was around the equator, and then
- 37:38Speaker 4: in the northern hemispheres there was you know, bimodal sleep,
- 37:40Speaker 4: you know, sleep first, then get up, and then in
- 37:44Speaker 4: the middle of the night you know, talk, have sex,
- 37:46Speaker 4: you know, whittle sticks, neit, and have a second sleep.
- 37:50Speaker 4: So these weren't one hundred percent. But what we see
- 37:53Speaker 4: is that when people say there's you know chronotops, yes
- 37:59Speaker 4: there are, but it's only it only accounts for about
- 38:02Speaker 4: one to two hours difference. The four to six hours
- 38:05Speaker 4: of difference in chronotypes. That is self imposed. That's caffeine,
- 38:09Speaker 4: that's computer games, that's staying up really because people say
- 38:13Speaker 4: to me, like, I've been going to bed at four
- 38:14Speaker 4: in the morning, I'm like, what kind of fresh I know?
- 38:17Speaker 3: That's that's a that's a lifestyle fears shift, right, And
- 38:21Speaker 3: a lot of teenagers, yes they do fear shift, but
- 38:23Speaker 3: a lot of it's there and lifestyle driven with a
- 38:25Speaker 3: fear shift liater and can't we fears shift back like
- 38:30Speaker 3: a couple of hours if we yeah, yeah, it's habits right.
- 38:34Speaker 4: Anchoring your morning wake is the best way to phase
- 38:36Speaker 4: shift back and they're not not nap during the day
- 38:38Speaker 4: and go to bed tired because you've gotten up at six.
- 38:41Speaker 4: But just going back to ages, like so it really
- 38:44Speaker 4: depends on what's happening in your life. But you know, teenagers, interestingly,
- 38:49Speaker 4: so as they get into you know, puberty and get
- 38:52Speaker 4: a little bit older there, melotone production actually shifts back
- 38:55Speaker 4: one to two hours, so they are not actually secreting,
- 38:58Speaker 4: you know, not getting that natural sleep pressure till like
- 39:00Speaker 4: past ten o'clock. And there's an evolutionary theory that why
- 39:05Speaker 4: this happens is because as teenagers you know, started to
- 39:09Speaker 4: grow up and they needed to learn about you know,
- 39:11Speaker 4: life and different things from their younger siblings. It gave
- 39:14Speaker 4: them time to sit around the fire and hear the
- 39:17Speaker 4: adult stories, and it gave them time to like sort
- 39:20Speaker 4: of break away from being the child and take on
- 39:23Speaker 4: more responsibility and you know and just like sort of
- 39:26Speaker 4: transmute into that adult stage of their life. And so
- 39:30Speaker 4: people think, oh, you know, my kids just up all
- 39:33Speaker 4: night and they won't go to bed, they're naughty, and
- 39:35Speaker 4: then they're sleeping in late. Well that it actually is
- 39:38Speaker 4: a biological phase shift in their hormones, and so we
- 39:42Speaker 4: should let them actually sleep in longer.
- 39:45Speaker 1: I can tell you, sorry, Jemma.
- 39:46Speaker 3: Right now, I got a fifteen year old boy who's
- 39:49Speaker 3: always been really good at sleep.
- 39:51Speaker 1: We all are.
- 39:52Speaker 2: I can't believe he's I remember seeing the pictures of.
- 39:55Speaker 3: He's fifteen, right, and he's got testosteron hurts and stuff,
- 40:00Speaker 3: and often, you know, he normally would be would be
- 40:02Speaker 3: in bed at nine o'clock. Now it's it's like sometimes
- 40:05Speaker 3: at ten o'clock he's getting such an energy surge. It's
- 40:10Speaker 3: just ridiculous. And that's just that's the changing hormones, right,
- 40:15Speaker 3: and how they Yeah, well.
- 40:16Speaker 2: There was like you know, it was protective.
- 40:18Speaker 4: So the young guys could you know, stay up and
- 40:21Speaker 4: protect and do stuff that you know, the oldies didn't
- 40:24Speaker 4: want to do.
- 40:26Speaker 3: Now let's talk about some of the stuff that we
- 40:30Speaker 3: can actually do about it. So, I mean, there's so
- 40:34Speaker 3: many sleepy ins out there. Give us your top three
- 40:38Speaker 3: or five that you think are really useful and then
- 40:41Speaker 3: maybe just explode some of the Instagram tech took horseshit,
- 40:46Speaker 3: that's yeah.
- 40:48Speaker 4: So I really I'm a big believer, like, at least
- 40:50Speaker 4: for some time, track yourself.
- 40:51Speaker 2: So if you know if you're getting into deep sway sleep.
- 40:54Speaker 4: Or not, if you're getting rim and you may have
- 40:57Speaker 4: a constellation of physical and psychological issues that you were like,
- 41:01Speaker 4: oh it must be this way. You don't know where
- 41:03Speaker 4: it's coming from. And actually, if you just solved getting
- 41:06Speaker 4: that deep so worse, so getting that rem they might
- 41:08Speaker 4: actually just disappear. And so I think that, you know,
- 41:12Speaker 4: we've got this epidemic of depression and anxiety. I honestly
- 41:15Speaker 4: believe it's a sleep deprivation epidemic. They're so tightly well,
- 41:18Speaker 4: there's not one person I've met like this is how
- 41:21Speaker 4: I actually got into sleep research because I was like,
- 41:23Speaker 4: I'm a stress researcher who absolutely hated sleeping.
- 41:26Speaker 2: A night hour. I just I think it's boring and annoying.
- 41:30Speaker 1: It's a waste of time, Yes.
- 41:31Speaker 2: Total waste of time. And then I was like, hang
- 41:33Speaker 2: on a minute.
- 41:34Speaker 4: I was looking at my data, and there was not
- 41:35Speaker 4: one person who I saw who had sleep issues who
- 41:40Speaker 4: didn't eventually succumb to some kind of mental health disruption.
- 41:44Speaker 4: And there was not one person I knew who had
- 41:47Speaker 4: mental health disruption who didn't have a sleep disorder. And
- 41:50Speaker 4: I'm like, this is not a coincidence, and so then
- 41:53Speaker 4: I got really strict about it. I travel a lot,
- 41:55Speaker 4: but I'm pretty strict about it, and so I honestly believe,
- 41:59Speaker 4: like track it, I use the WOOP.
- 42:03Speaker 3: Do you think they are a reasonable representation of our
- 42:08Speaker 3: I think that they're pretty good at time in bed?
- 42:11Speaker 1: What are they?
- 42:11Speaker 3: What do they like at sleep stages? What's your thoughts
- 42:14Speaker 3: on that?
- 42:14Speaker 4: Yeah, it depends on So I haven't seen the data
- 42:18Speaker 4: on the new Whoop or the aura like they like
- 42:21Speaker 4: I'm a Whooper, you know.
- 42:23Speaker 2: I think aura is almost as good or some you know,
- 42:26Speaker 2: like in.
- 42:27Speaker 4: Validation studies, they're pretty They're pretty good. I don't like
- 42:30Speaker 4: just having the ring of been just annoying, but they
- 42:33Speaker 4: are getting very good and better than nothing right.
- 42:37Speaker 1: And upper watch Garman, any thoughts on those.
- 42:41Speaker 4: I haven't seen the validation studies of like the latest
- 42:44Speaker 4: iterations of it, but I would be skeptical unless there
- 42:48Speaker 4: are pre reviewed, you know, evidence based papers, because a
- 42:52Speaker 4: lot of them over and underestimate your sleep stages, any
- 42:56Speaker 4: heart rate variability. So yeah, but if I look at WOOP,
- 42:59Speaker 4: I think it was like one of the best up
- 43:01Speaker 4: against the polysomnogram, Like it's you know, okay cool, which
- 43:06Speaker 4: is the gold standard. And so that's my my my
- 43:11Speaker 4: favorite one is the eight sleep.
- 43:13Speaker 1: Ah so oh do you read that? That is that?
- 43:16Speaker 3: So that's the that's the mattress, isn't it? Because I
- 43:18Speaker 3: knew about it all the time, I'm like, I would
- 43:22Speaker 3: not have boying with getting more.
- 43:24Speaker 2: Oh my god, get it.
- 43:25Speaker 4: Particularly if you have a partner who if you like,
- 43:28Speaker 4: run hot and she runs cold, or if say she's
- 43:31Speaker 4: perimenopausal and has hot flushes and anything. So what it
- 43:34Speaker 4: does It differentially cools and heats your but according to physiology,
- 43:38Speaker 4: it does all these microadjustments. You get into bed. So
- 43:41Speaker 4: say it's up at my farm it's freezing and the
- 43:44Speaker 4: bed is all snugly and warm, and you get in
- 43:47Speaker 4: and then it'll drop your core body temperhaure like slowly.
- 43:50Speaker 4: Then it knows if you're in ram or deep sleep
- 43:52Speaker 4: or whatever. And there is the bed which is very expensive.
- 43:56Speaker 4: I haven't got this one. But if you snore, it'll
- 43:57Speaker 4: just like lightly like lift up, so it just stops
- 44:00Speaker 4: you from snoring. And then it's got haptic alarm, so
- 44:03Speaker 4: it knows what stage of your sleep cycle you're in,
- 44:05Speaker 4: so you don't get wor sleep right yet sleep inertia
- 44:10Speaker 4: if you get worken up in deep slow epsites, if.
- 44:12Speaker 3: You're like crap for like I always said, if you
- 44:15Speaker 3: know you've been walking up in deep sleep, because you
- 44:17Speaker 3: feel like you've been a bush.
- 44:22Speaker 1: So just on that.
- 44:23Speaker 3: Because because the stuff that sits under the bed, is
- 44:26Speaker 3: it noisy because I just I hear farns.
- 44:30Speaker 4: It's like you habituate to it, like I changed my
- 44:33Speaker 4: field recently and it was a bit of a noise
- 44:35Speaker 4: and it stopped.
- 44:36Speaker 2: But I don't care like it is. I would.
- 44:39Speaker 4: I didn't pay for it because it was given to you,
- 44:41Speaker 4: but honestly I would pay for it. There's a subscription model.
- 44:45Speaker 4: I don't know it's a couple of grand but it's
- 44:48Speaker 4: a lot. But honestly, it changes your life. And if
- 44:51Speaker 4: you you know, if you've been drinking alcohol, it will
- 44:54Speaker 4: drop your top temperature. You don't get dehydrated at night.
- 44:57Speaker 4: Like it's a bit of a hangover cure. I heard
- 45:01Speaker 4: this funny thing the other day that a husband he's
- 45:04Speaker 4: set secretly set his wife's side of the bed really
- 45:08Speaker 4: cold and he's warm, so then she would come over
- 45:10Speaker 4: and snuggle him and she would just spooning him and
- 45:13Speaker 4: he's like, yes, I'll tell you what.
- 45:18Speaker 3: That's the best bit of advertising they could do to
- 45:20Speaker 3: blokes for sure.
- 45:22Speaker 1: So let's let's talk all the sleeping.
- 45:24Speaker 3: So sleepy and if you don't, if you don't have
- 45:26Speaker 3: dozands of dollars to chuck at your sleep problem. But
- 45:28Speaker 3: if you do have a chronic sleep problem, that might
- 45:31Speaker 3: be worth it. If you can dig up the money,
- 45:33Speaker 3: it's probably well spent. Any can prove your sleep.
- 45:36Speaker 4: Also, diets a huge thing, like get off the sugar
- 45:38Speaker 4: before bed. You know it's really corral oed with sleep
- 45:41Speaker 4: up NOA, yeah, I am a big fan of like
- 45:45Speaker 4: making sure you eat for your gut buy them and
- 45:47Speaker 4: your gut buy him. Is very It really does affect
- 45:50Speaker 4: your sleep what you put into your body. If heavy
- 45:54Speaker 4: meat before bed, your body wants to get rid of
- 45:56Speaker 4: that big chunk of decomposing flesh rather than getting too
- 45:59Speaker 4: deep so low wave sleep, so digestion will compete with
- 46:02Speaker 4: deep slow wave sleep. So don't eat meat before bed,
- 46:06Speaker 4: eat it for lunch and have vegetair. Not huge difference.
- 46:09Speaker 4: If you you know alcohol, I'm sorry to say it's terrible, terrible,
- 46:14Speaker 4: terrible MSG.
- 46:15Speaker 2: This is one hidden.
- 46:18Speaker 1: Which is in a lot of Chinese foods.
- 46:20Speaker 4: Right, it's all it's an all takeaway food, it's an
- 46:22Speaker 4: all packaged food, so it's got that too good to
- 46:25Speaker 4: be too tasty.
- 46:26Speaker 2: Yourmami flavor.
- 46:27Speaker 4: And so glutamator is a neurotransmitter, so it's the thing
- 46:30Speaker 4: like often you'll have it and you feel absolutely exhausted.
- 46:33Speaker 2: You go to bed, and then what it does.
- 46:35Speaker 4: It shortens your deep slower seed but it gives you
- 46:37Speaker 4: crazy m sleep.
- 46:39Speaker 2: But it's not nice.
- 46:40Speaker 4: You like wake up and you've had nightmares and like
- 46:42Speaker 4: often really intense, really active dreams, and you feel really thirsty,
- 46:49Speaker 4: dehydrated and.
- 46:50Speaker 2: Just strung out.
- 46:51Speaker 4: So people go, I, well, that crap. But it could
- 46:54Speaker 4: be eating the MSG before. But I used to say
- 46:56Speaker 4: with the athletes, do not eat any sources, anything packaged
- 46:59Speaker 4: night before a big event because if it's got MSG
- 47:02Speaker 4: in it, it will mess with your sleep.
- 47:04Speaker 3: And look basically another good reason not to eat ultra
- 47:07Speaker 3: processed food. Right, Yes, And I actually because I used
- 47:10Speaker 3: to be a li at night snacker and I stopped that,
- 47:12Speaker 3: you know, because and I thought, Hi, the hell am
- 47:15Speaker 3: I going to get through the night without it? And
- 47:17Speaker 3: I run an experiment. I didn't eat and I woke
- 47:20Speaker 3: up and I wasn't dead, and I'm like, fucking hell,
- 47:22Speaker 3: who knew?
- 47:22Speaker 5: So I caught my lit Nate snack soaked.
- 47:25Speaker 4: Because because the impact, Yeah, because I got they've got
- 47:29Speaker 4: their own little Cychian rhythms. And if you're feeding at
- 47:31Speaker 4: sugar and crap before bed, it sends you know, biodentical
- 47:35Speaker 4: horman is like grill into your brain and makes you
- 47:37Speaker 4: like hungry through the night. And often you get that
- 47:40Speaker 4: three am waking. People keep wake up with screaming hunger.
- 47:43Speaker 4: A lot of people do snack during the night. It's
- 47:46Speaker 4: you know, it's terrible. Another thing, you know, caffeine of course,
- 47:49Speaker 4: so caffeine, as I said, blocks of dennizine. And what
- 47:53Speaker 4: people say, which is really interesting, and so many people say,
- 47:56Speaker 4: I can have, you know, five cups of coffee and
- 47:59Speaker 4: it doesn't bother me. And what we see now because
- 48:01Speaker 4: we're using sleep trackers, that that's bullshit. You may you
- 48:06Speaker 4: may think that you sleep okay, but if you look
- 48:09Speaker 4: at the micro arousalus throughout the night, so even with.
- 48:13Speaker 5: A deep less deep sleep as well, I think I'm yeah.
- 48:17Speaker 4: I'm trying to remember that it was like four cups
- 48:21Speaker 4: of caffeine in the twelve hours before bed, people's sleep
- 48:28Speaker 4: was shut down by like, you know, up to an
- 48:31Speaker 4: hour less than if you didn't have those work.
- 48:34Speaker 3: And that has a massive impact, right, I generally have
- 48:37Speaker 3: the rude one. I'm advising people of corporates, no more
- 48:40Speaker 3: than two fifty milligrams and try to be done to
- 48:42Speaker 3: ten hours before you go to bed. No.
- 48:44Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you can separate that into two yeah.
- 48:48Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and the So let's talk about some other
- 48:53Speaker 3: sleep ears. I'll get your opinion. I'm not a big
- 48:56Speaker 3: fan of melatonin.
- 48:57Speaker 4: I'm not a fan because if you're giving your body
- 49:01Speaker 4: free melotonin, what's what's it going to do? Is like
- 49:04Speaker 4: I'm not going to produce any indigenous melotonin because it's expensive.
- 49:07Speaker 4: I'm getting it for free, and especially if you get
- 49:09Speaker 4: off the internet. I've got a big bit in the
- 49:11Speaker 4: book about it. So when they tested it, because it's
- 49:14Speaker 4: totally unregulated in the States, and when they tested it,
- 49:17Speaker 4: there were some of these gummies would have zero and
- 49:19Speaker 4: some would have almost like four hundred times what it
- 49:22Speaker 4: said it would. And so they're getting a lot of
- 49:25Speaker 4: babies coming in poison and some are like coming and
- 49:28Speaker 4: deceased because they're just having massive Well, people.
- 49:33Speaker 1: Are giving meloton into their.
- 49:34Speaker 4: Babies, well babies are finding it or yes, and people
- 49:37Speaker 4: are giving it to their kids melotonin gummies. It's really bad.
- 49:41Speaker 4: It's there's so many other you know, cellular metabolic processes
- 49:45Speaker 4: that melotonin.
- 49:46Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
- 49:48Speaker 2: It's not like oh and the more that you have
- 49:50Speaker 2: the better.
- 49:51Speaker 4: It is like you are messing with some systems we
- 49:53Speaker 4: don't even know about it.
- 49:55Speaker 1: I agree.
- 49:56Speaker 5: Don't mess with your hormones full stop.
- 49:58Speaker 3: What was your thoughts on things like glycine ashwagandha if
- 50:02Speaker 3: you're stressed?
- 50:04Speaker 1: Magnesium thoughts?
- 50:06Speaker 2: Yes, magnesium is good. Magnesium glacinate.
- 50:09Speaker 1: You know if I'm glad you said that. It's actually
- 50:12Speaker 1: the one that I enjoy it.
- 50:14Speaker 3: I think it's more bioavailable, right.
- 50:16Speaker 4: Yeah, there's six hundred metabolic processes in your body that
- 50:19Speaker 4: needs magnesium. Really good for elder people because you stopped
- 50:22Speaker 4: metabolizing it, and often older people don't eat as well.
- 50:25Speaker 4: So if you've got parents who are like looking like
- 50:28Speaker 4: they could have signs of dementia, get them on the
- 50:30Speaker 4: magnesium glacinate and you know, help them sleep.
- 50:33Speaker 2: Tell them you got a bit earlier. Yeah, I mean
- 50:37Speaker 2: a lot of them, a lot.
- 50:39Speaker 4: I think a lot of them are efficacious in small doses,
- 50:43Speaker 4: but because we're throwing so much chemicals into our bodies
- 50:46Speaker 4: and with so much artificial light, and we're so like
- 50:49Speaker 4: strung and we're so you know, wound up, that yeah,
- 50:53Speaker 4: they may work, but if you've got a highly overactive,
- 50:56Speaker 4: stressed system, it's really hard for all of these natural
- 50:58Speaker 4: things to work. And so you do need to get like,
- 51:02Speaker 4: you know, sedated hardcore with you know, some benzodiazepines or something,
- 51:06Speaker 4: which are terrible for brain cleaning. So you know, like
- 51:11Speaker 4: it's a band aid. I think, you know, fix, Why
- 51:15Speaker 4: aren't you sleeping? Just go to bed before just I
- 51:17Speaker 4: always say, if you can't do anything, at least have
- 51:20Speaker 4: consistent sleep, be ready to go to sleep in your
- 51:23Speaker 4: bed at ten and then you know, eat, do all
- 51:27Speaker 4: the other things, but to start with that one thing.
- 51:30Speaker 1: Yeah, and I actually think that.
- 51:32Speaker 3: I always say to people, your bedroom your briand needs
- 51:35Speaker 3: to know that your bedroom is asleep sanctuary, right, It's
- 51:37Speaker 3: where you've got to sleep. And if you're lucky, you
- 51:39Speaker 3: get a better boofty mcgoofty every night.
- 51:41Speaker 4: Which is really a thing on sex in there, which
- 51:43Speaker 4: is sex is really good for sleep.
- 51:44Speaker 1: Perfect.
- 51:45Speaker 2: There you go from oxytocin.
- 51:48Speaker 4: I can I tell all the gentlemen out there, those
- 51:51Speaker 4: who let their wives sleep an extra hour got more
- 51:55Speaker 4: sex the next day, They're more likely to get sex
- 51:58Speaker 4: next day. And because oxytoase is the hormone that produces
- 52:01Speaker 4: during sex, it is the greatest cortisol antidotes.
- 52:04Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, absolutely, And but so what's your thoughts
- 52:08Speaker 3: on TVs in the bedroom or both phones in the bedroom,
- 52:12Speaker 3: Like so many people they get them up and it's
- 52:16Speaker 3: it's my.
- 52:16Speaker 4: Lime clock.
- 52:21Speaker 3: Because they just they're just it's just a little it's
- 52:24Speaker 3: whispering at you, isn't it somebody?
- 52:27Speaker 4: But we've got we're like dopamine junkies, like, yeah, we
- 52:31Speaker 4: are just crack calls for.
- 52:32Speaker 2: It for dopamine.
- 52:34Speaker 4: And if even if your phone is there and you're
- 52:37Speaker 4: not looking at it, you've got this switching costs this
- 52:40Speaker 4: mental consternation. No, and then that actually is and you
- 52:44Speaker 4: know what, you have no idea what this thing is
- 52:46Speaker 4: going to show, Like you could wake up and get
- 52:48Speaker 4: on your phone, and especially in the morning. And I
- 52:52Speaker 4: always say, would you invite the most annoying person that
- 52:55Speaker 4: you know come and lie next to you and tell
- 52:57Speaker 4: you all their troubles. Literally, that's what you're doing by
- 52:59Speaker 4: like having your phone in your bed or waking up
- 53:02Speaker 4: and looking at it, because you've got no control over
- 53:04Speaker 4: like what rage baiting, provocative ship is.
- 53:06Speaker 2: Going to be thrown at you.
- 53:08Speaker 4: Your cortosol goes up. Cortosole's got a thirty minute half life.
- 53:11Speaker 4: So if you're in bed and you look at your
- 53:12Speaker 4: phone like ah, look at the time, Ah that text email,
- 53:16Speaker 4: you can't do anything about it then, and your court
- 53:18Speaker 4: us all high and then you're lying there another thirty
- 53:20Speaker 4: minutes to go by, like go to sleep, and then
- 53:22Speaker 4: you squirt out more corters. Then we've all been in
- 53:24Speaker 4: that awful spiral where you're just like, oh, I just
- 53:27Speaker 4: want to kill myself.
- 53:29Speaker 2: Actually, the mind after midnight is another thing.
- 53:32Speaker 4: People who go to bed after one have a twenty
- 53:37Speaker 4: to forty percent higher odds of being diagnosed with a
- 53:41Speaker 4: psych psychiatric disorder, and a study eight years later they
- 53:45Speaker 4: were more likely to have developed a new mental health condition.
- 53:49Speaker 3: So wow, wow, that is master And kids that I
- 53:55Speaker 3: mean I had, so I have t well one of
- 53:57Speaker 3: them is no.
- 53:58Speaker 1: Twenty.
- 53:58Speaker 3: But I remember a few years ago when when Kira
- 54:02Speaker 3: was seventeen eighteen.
- 54:05Speaker 1: I would you know, we have a really.
- 54:08Speaker 3: Mobile phones all go on charge in the kitchen at
- 54:11Speaker 3: a certain time. And sometimes if I'd be up late,
- 54:14Speaker 3: which would be half tan for me, I'd be in
- 54:17Speaker 3: the kitchen out.
- 54:18Speaker 1: Of here, ding ding ding ding.
- 54:20Speaker 3: Books my kids' phones right, and I'd be like, the
- 54:23Speaker 3: next day, what time did that conversation? And and some
- 54:27Speaker 3: of my kids would go, oh, one am they stopped.
- 54:30Speaker 5: I'm like, what the hell?
- 54:32Speaker 1: Like teenagers up?
- 54:34Speaker 5: Like for the parents who are listening to this.
- 54:37Speaker 4: All right, So here's some really disconcerting evidence. So adole
- 54:41Speaker 4: liscens that were allowed to stay up until midnight or
- 54:44Speaker 4: later had twenty percent higher odds of suicidal thoughts, twenty
- 54:48Speaker 4: five percent higher odds of depression compared to those kids
- 54:52Speaker 4: who were made to go to bed at ten.
- 54:55Speaker 1: Wow, there you go.
- 54:56Speaker 5: And do not kid yourself that your kid is.
- 55:01Speaker 1: Not on their mobile phone.
- 55:03Speaker 3: If you're allowed to have a mobile phone in their bedroom,
- 55:05Speaker 3: I think that's one of the junkies. I think it's
- 55:09Speaker 3: one of the worst behavioral habits of a parent is
- 55:13Speaker 3: not to insist that the kids have their phone.
- 55:17Speaker 1: It's cruel shut them down.
- 55:19Speaker 4: I can't even stop myself, Like how was like like
- 55:21Speaker 4: an unmilinated teenage brain supposed.
- 55:24Speaker 1: To do it?
- 55:24Speaker 4: Like you're literally you're literally opening a portal to the
- 55:28Speaker 4: worst shit on earth, like the worst pawn, the worst violence,
- 55:32Speaker 4: the worst of everything, into your vulnerable little kid's brain
- 55:37Speaker 4: when they have no impulse control, when they're already tired,
- 55:40Speaker 4: Like this is a recipe for madness. It's a Molotov
- 55:43Speaker 4: cocktail of insanity. Letting a kid have a phone in
- 55:47Speaker 4: their bedroom, Like, I'm a really laze fair parent, and
- 55:51Speaker 4: I wish I'd probably done more. I didn't realize, but
- 55:54Speaker 4: now if I was, you know, to do anything again,
- 55:56Speaker 4: it would get those bloody phones out of their bedroom.
- 56:00Speaker 3: We are we are Nazis about that, and I love that.
- 56:04Speaker 3: I'm going to put that as a quote in my workshops.
- 56:07Speaker 1: What did you call it?
- 56:08Speaker 3: A Molotov cocktail of insanity or something that's brilliant?
- 56:14Speaker 5: Do you have a last last question to ask you?
- 56:17Speaker 1: Naps?
- 56:19Speaker 2: That's a really good and really there's science.
- 56:21Speaker 4: Right, you can mess your day up really badly with
- 56:24Speaker 4: the badly times nap, or you can become a genius
- 56:27Speaker 4: with a well timed nap.
- 56:28Speaker 3: There you go and so how long and what about
- 56:32Speaker 3: the timing.
- 56:34Speaker 4: Yeah, so you you know you've got these old trading
- 56:36Speaker 4: rhythms throughout the day, like where you kind of like dip,
- 56:38Speaker 4: and yeah, most of people get to dip around two
- 56:40Speaker 4: to three.
- 56:42Speaker 2: You can use that to have a nap.
- 56:43Speaker 4: Don't nap after three unless you're a toddler, or you're sick,
- 56:47Speaker 4: or you're an elite athlete, because you're basically pushing out
- 56:50Speaker 4: your sleep sleep pressure that goes up during the day
- 56:53Speaker 4: and it'll mess up your whole psychoan rhythm.
- 56:55Speaker 2: So if you do nap, there's really strict rules.
- 56:58Speaker 4: You should nap between ten twenty minutes and do not
- 57:02Speaker 4: do not do not nap between thirty and.
- 57:04Speaker 2: Forty if you want to lap longer and have a.
- 57:06Speaker 4: Full ninety minute cycle. If you get working up thirty
- 57:10Speaker 4: to forty minutes into it, you will know about it.
- 57:11Speaker 4: In sleep inertia, all your systems like out of whack.
- 57:16Speaker 4: So if you are worried about going to sleep and
- 57:20Speaker 4: you know waking up a bit later, there's a nap
- 57:22Speaker 4: espresso where you take a shot of coffee and then
- 57:25Speaker 4: by the time that caffeine hits your bloodstream it should
- 57:27Speaker 4: be around twenty minutes. I've buggered it because it takes
- 57:29Speaker 4: you well to get to sleep, and I've like, oh,
- 57:31Speaker 4: taken the coffee and then like finally for it and
- 57:33Speaker 4: I only had like, you know, seven minutes of sleep.
- 57:36Speaker 4: So be careful with it, like you know, factory and
- 57:39Speaker 4: how long it takes you to go to sleep.
- 57:41Speaker 2: But that's a good way of doing it.
- 57:42Speaker 4: But you know it particularly if you've had, you know,
- 57:45Speaker 4: something stressful happen, if you have you know, been drinking.
- 57:50Speaker 4: A good ninety minute sleep is you know, if you
- 57:52Speaker 4: really want to clean up your brain and you get
- 57:54Speaker 4: to that, you know, rem sleep where you file away
- 57:59Speaker 4: all your anxiety, that's that's a good ninety minute nap.
- 58:02Speaker 4: But yeah, it's you know, I feel guilty. I'm kind
- 58:07Speaker 4: of getting over the guilt about it. So if you
- 58:09Speaker 4: if you feel guilty, you can start with yoga Netra
- 58:12Speaker 4: or non sleep deep rest go on Google. If you
- 58:14Speaker 4: don't like the hippie like spiritual stuff, you can actually
- 58:18Speaker 4: ask Ai to create a audible for you, like in
- 58:21Speaker 4: your in a voice, and you can sort of, you know,
- 58:24Speaker 4: make it sound like how you want. Nano intermissions. You know,
- 58:28Speaker 4: it's just like closure ezed trying to get those alpha
- 58:30Speaker 4: brain waves. But yeah, napping is good. Yeah, thickly for
- 58:34Speaker 4: parents who've got young babies and you know you're exhausted.
- 58:38Speaker 1: Get it way, you can't get it way, you can't.
- 58:40Speaker 3: Actually, last question, sorry to keep it, but sleep restriction
- 58:45Speaker 3: therapy for.
- 58:46Speaker 1: People you have insomnia.
- 58:47Speaker 3: Let's let's let's let's talk about this because this is
- 58:50Speaker 3: pretty cool.
- 58:51Speaker 2: Yes, so what people what happens with insomnia?
- 58:54Speaker 4: People actually get this like Pavlovian conditioning to their beds
- 58:58Speaker 4: and bedroom and the thought of sleep because it's so
- 59:01Speaker 4: painful and it's so lonely, and it's excruciating to be
- 59:04Speaker 4: lying there hour after hour not being able to go
- 59:06Speaker 4: to sleep when you are absolutely cooked, exhausted. And so
- 59:11Speaker 4: what happens is you've got to decouple the anxiety to
- 59:14Speaker 4: the sleep space and all the function of going to sleep.
- 59:18Speaker 4: So what you've got to do is you've got to
- 59:20Speaker 4: anchor your wake time at six am, and you have
- 59:24Speaker 4: to restrict your sleep until like a much later bedtime.
- 59:29Speaker 4: So basically, you want to have a minimum of six
- 59:32Speaker 4: hours sleep, and in any less than that it could
- 59:36Speaker 4: be dangerous to operate machine or drive or anything. So
- 59:39Speaker 4: so I am only allowed to sleep six hours, and
- 59:43Speaker 4: so you say, you go, okay, six am, and then
- 59:46Speaker 4: you count six hours back and then that's the time
- 59:48Speaker 4: you go to sleep.
- 59:49Speaker 2: That's so midnight.
- 59:50Speaker 4: And then you do that until like you lie there
- 59:54Speaker 4: and then you are so exhausted.
- 59:56Speaker 2: By midnight that you fall asleep. And then what you do.
- 59:58Speaker 3: Ject if you do it night after night, right, if
- 1:00:00Speaker 3: you're a somnak, it doesn't work the first night, but
- 1:00:02Speaker 3: the second and third night you're going to be so
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: freaking sleep deprived.
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 1:00:07Speaker 4: Yeah, and so but you can't nap during the day
- 1:00:09Speaker 4: and you cannot sleep in They're the two rules.
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: And so eventually you will then.
- 1:00:14Speaker 4: Slide at half an hour, so you get a bit
- 1:00:16Speaker 4: at eleven thirty, then at eleven and then so basically
- 1:00:19Speaker 4: you're retraining that associative conditioning and that you're sleep another
- 1:00:24Speaker 4: thing to do if you've got bad and somebody is
- 1:00:26Speaker 4: lie there. I think it was that out of Harvard. No,
- 1:00:29Speaker 4: it was it was a study out of Oxford. You
- 1:00:31Speaker 4: lie there with the eyes of.
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: Oh you keep trying to keep your eyes open.
- 1:00:33Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, sleep yeap.
- 1:00:36Speaker 4: Cognitive shuffling is a really good one. That's what I
- 1:00:38Speaker 4: use because I've got monkey mind. I'm like, my brain
- 1:00:41Speaker 4: just goes million miles an hour. That's exciting. I actually
- 1:00:44Speaker 4: get excited.
- 1:00:44Speaker 2: I want to do this and do this.
- 1:00:46Speaker 4: So, cognitive shuffling is when you take a word and like,
- 1:00:50Speaker 4: so this is when you're really busy mind. You take
- 1:00:52Speaker 4: a word like slumber. Then you think of all the
- 1:00:55Speaker 4: non related words starting with S so sugar, sand, situation, slither,
- 1:01:00Speaker 4: and you kind of picture them in your head.
- 1:01:02Speaker 2: And then when you run out of S words, you
- 1:01:03Speaker 2: go on to L you think all the words.
- 1:01:06Speaker 3: You're giving your brain essentially a boring task and distracting
- 1:01:10Speaker 3: it from the stressful thoughts.
- 1:01:12Speaker 4: Yeah, because when you say don't think about that thing,
- 1:01:14Speaker 4: what does your brain? It's like you don't want to
- 1:01:15Speaker 4: think about that, and so you rarely get to R.
- 1:01:20Speaker 2: I've never gotten to R.
- 1:01:21Speaker 4: And like I'm like, I'm not a big sleeper and
- 1:01:24Speaker 4: I've got the busiest mind, and.
- 1:01:26Speaker 2: So yeah, I think that's a really really good way.
- 1:01:28Speaker 2: And while you're doing.
- 1:01:29Speaker 4: The breathing, but I think it's just about being disciplined
- 1:01:33Speaker 4: and knowing that this is really important and that if
- 1:01:36Speaker 4: you fix your sleep, so many other things has fall
- 1:01:38Speaker 4: into place. You feel like exercising, you feel like eating
- 1:01:41Speaker 4: that because when you're sleep deprived you want fatty, salty,
- 1:01:43Speaker 4: sugary food. You feel like being nice to your friends.
- 1:01:46Speaker 4: You know, I feel like having sex, which is you know,
- 1:01:49Speaker 4: a good sleep antidote. There's all these things that really
- 1:01:52Speaker 4: good things that happen if you just fix that's what
- 1:01:54Speaker 4: It's called sleep first.
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: And that's it.
- 1:01:57Speaker 5: So people, Robert Ludlum was right.
- 1:02:00Speaker 1: Sleep is a weapon.
- 1:02:01Speaker 6: So if you want to picture, if you want to
- 1:02:03Speaker 6: fix your life and get yourself onto Amazon or book
- 1:02:07Speaker 6: Toopia if you're in Australia and pre order is pre
- 1:02:13Speaker 6: order what's coming and.
- 1:02:14Speaker 4: They think, actually some people are going to read it.
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: It comes out in a couple of weeks, doesn't it
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: a few weeks?
- 1:02:19Speaker 2: Sixteenth of July is.
- 1:02:21Speaker 1: Okay to get the order? Have you done an audible?
- 1:02:24Speaker 2: Oh yes, it was excruciating.
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: I know.
- 1:02:27Speaker 3: It's it's like, did you have the audition to to read?
- 1:02:29Speaker 3: Because I had the audition to read my own book.
- 1:02:31Speaker 4: I know, I thought, but you could have a voice
- 1:02:33Speaker 4: like a chainsaw so you can understand what no idea.
- 1:02:36Speaker 4: It's tough though, Yeah, yeah, that was I was getting
- 1:02:39Speaker 4: crazy room sleep after it's always my brain was like,
- 1:02:42Speaker 4: they're freaking out. But I think I sound like Jamae Off,
- 1:02:45Speaker 4: you know, Summer Heights High, Hi, I'm doctor.
- 1:02:49Speaker 2: King like I'm like, oh.
- 1:02:52Speaker 5: I have actually never listened to my own book podcast.
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: So all good. So Jamma, thank you.
- 1:02:59Speaker 3: This has been a long time coming but more than
- 1:03:03Speaker 3: worth it. So sleep, get yourself onto sleep first, and
- 1:03:08Speaker 3: go short your life at people.
- 1:03:10Speaker 2: Thanks very much, Jemma, thank you. Thanks for having me.
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: Thank you.