The Career Cost of Staying Quiet | Elaine Hering
Most people think having a voice means talking more. It doesn’t.
AJ sits down with former Harvard Law lecturer Elaine Lin Hering to explore why so many capable people stay silent at work, in relationships, and in life — even when that silence comes at a cost. From people-pleasing and perfectionism to psychological safety, leadership, and self-advocacy, Elaine explains why silence is often learned, reinforced by our environments, and mistaken for professionalism.
This episode offers a practical framework for speaking up without becoming someone you’re not — and why finding your voice has less…
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