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Episode #267: The Death of Who You Were · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome to tea time with Amy and Bev. Hey, sister,
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  Speaker 1: how are you doing? Doing good yourself?
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  Speaker 2: What's up I'm doing?
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  Speaker 3: You know, it's a funny process when you think about
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  Speaker 3: a lot of things, and I know we've talked about
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  Speaker 3: a lot of stuff, but it's like I'm good.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going through the death of an ego.
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  Speaker 3: I'm going through a rebirthing process, feeling so going through
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  Speaker 3: lots of emotions, lots of emotions, and it's like it's
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  Speaker 3: because I'm not not been.
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  Speaker 2: The person to sit and fill my emotions.
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  Speaker 3: I'm crying a lot and it's like it then it
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  Speaker 3: feels like so heavy and at those times, So if
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  Speaker 3: anyone's going through this, I feel you.
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  Speaker 2: But it's we.
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  Speaker 3: Gotta kinta, we gotta gravitate towards things are going to
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  Speaker 3: help us. And it's like reaching out, you know, talking
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  Speaker 3: to other people. Also, the other thing I did today
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  Speaker 3: was just doing the chat GPT not to put a
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  Speaker 3: plug out for that. It's like it's like talking to
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  Speaker 3: another person to get some insights. So I started asking
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  Speaker 3: questions because I had a reading recently and she said
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  Speaker 3: that and I had gotten the message that day, which
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  Speaker 3: was ironic, but for me to almost like cutting chords
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  Speaker 3: with the past, it's just cutting chords with the previous
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  Speaker 3: version of myself. And so I went on the chat GPT,
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  Speaker 3: questioning like what does that look like?
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  Speaker 2: What do you know? All these things?
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  Speaker 3: And it's like you'd bring up all this information and
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  Speaker 3: it was to say, well, we can do this letter
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  Speaker 3: and let's talk about what we're releasing. And it's like, well,
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  Speaker 3: what does one typically want to release? Because not knowing
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  Speaker 3: exactly where to go to and that gave me so
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  Speaker 3: much more information and then whatever popped into my head,
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  Speaker 3: I'd go searching up that and so I broke down.
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  Speaker 2: I don't even know how many pages, fifteen pages, ten pages.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, and I went out and burned them
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  Speaker 3: today just because there's a lot of stuff.
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  Speaker 2: But that was what was recommended to me too. So
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  Speaker 2: it's it's just.
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  Speaker 3: Knowing that you're okay, even amidst the stuff, and even
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  Speaker 3: when it's so heavy, when it feels like there is
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  Speaker 3: no you know, light at the end of the tunnel
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  Speaker 3: or end in sight, all of a sudden, there isn't it.
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  Speaker 3: And it's asking your teams for help, you know, asking
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  Speaker 3: for them to help this be more with grace and ease,
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  Speaker 3: or you know, or or asking what do I do
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  Speaker 3: with this information? So for me, a lot of this
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  Speaker 3: stuff is just a lot of emotional feelings out of control.
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  Speaker 3: It feels like I don't have any control. And so
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  Speaker 3: it's interesting because in the past, my ego could have
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  Speaker 3: puffed up and came up to distract and control the show,
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  Speaker 3: and it's like I don't have that same ego anymore.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I can cry on the drop of a hat.
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  Speaker 2: I could.
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  Speaker 3: I sit and I look at Freeman and I find
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  Speaker 3: all these things that I just love about him that
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  Speaker 3: I've never had these experiences before, and I'll start crying.
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  Speaker 3: I'll just start crying there when I'm just looking at
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  Speaker 3: them from across the room, and it's it's.
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  Speaker 2: So much stuff.
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  Speaker 3: It's just so much, and it feels I guess because
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  Speaker 3: I don't feel my emotions or hadn't felt my emotions.
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  Speaker 3: It feels heavy, but it's really it's not. It's a
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  Speaker 3: lot of releasing. I mean, there's harsher ways I guess
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  Speaker 3: like releasing, but it's so it's this way, and I'm
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  Speaker 3: also honoring that I'm taking the time and honoring that.
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  Speaker 3: And if I can't, if I can't manage my if
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  Speaker 3: I can't feel good and grounded, I don't even bring
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  Speaker 3: my grandkids around, just like I don't have the extra
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  Speaker 3: to give them right now or anybody. So it's like
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  Speaker 3: it's been it's been a journey. It's been a journey
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  Speaker 3: and it's been going on since in of aprils.
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  Speaker 1: So and it's not easy, man, when you're doing an
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  Speaker 1: ego check, dude.
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  Speaker 2: And I was horror. Yeah, I was all ego.
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  Speaker 3: I was the bodybuilder, I was the I my egos
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  Speaker 3: what protected me. And that's okay, and because it kept
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  Speaker 3: me safe in the time, right, But it's it's it's
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  Speaker 3: it's a crazy being in the space when you when
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  Speaker 3: it's so unfamiliar.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was at a conference this weekend, so I
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  Speaker 1: was around women everywhere, rooming with a woman, sitting with women,
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  Speaker 1: the whole thing, and to some of them talk to me,
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  Speaker 1: not all of them, about their perception of others and
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  Speaker 1: asking because they know they know I'm a coach, they
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  Speaker 1: know what I do. Just getting my perspective and when
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  Speaker 1: I you know, talk to them about that's how people
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  Speaker 1: show up because that's what they know how to do,
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  Speaker 1: and that's their programming. And you know all the things
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  Speaker 1: that we've talked about over the many, many many months
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  Speaker 1: of recordings that we have for tea time. So just
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  Speaker 1: for the audience, go back and listen to them, because
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  Speaker 1: we have a lot of conversations about these things. But
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  Speaker 1: to recognize that each and every one of us has
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  Speaker 1: an ego. And people will say I'm not egotistical. Maybe so,
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  Speaker 1: but you do have an ego that, as you're a human,
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  Speaker 1: side will depend upon for survival, and that ego will
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  Speaker 1: also want to make sure that it reaffirms that something
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  Speaker 1: isn't safe, so it keeps you in fear. It wants
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  Speaker 1: to prove you are right and they are wrong, which
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  Speaker 1: there's no winners in that. Typically it's very defensive, like
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  Speaker 1: all these things, is what the ego does. And that
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  Speaker 1: ego also is for survival, which we do need, we
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  Speaker 1: have to use that for certain reasons. When you are
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  Speaker 1: stepping into the path of just personal development, not even
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  Speaker 1: you're not even at spiritual awakening or anything that just
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  Speaker 1: starting a personal development path and working on yourself, you
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  Speaker 1: find all these triggers, what triggers your anger, your shame,
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  Speaker 1: your guilt, your criticism, your judgments, what triggers all of
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  Speaker 1: that and what is it another people that trigger you
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  Speaker 1: about it? And then when you start having that self introspection,
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  Speaker 1: the egos like, ain't nothing wrong with me, sister, it
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  Speaker 1: ain't me, it's them. It ain't me, it's them, It
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  Speaker 1: ain't me, it's them. But really, it is me, it's me,
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  Speaker 1: it's you, it's my husband, it's my son. Because we
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  Speaker 1: have our internal I'm gonna use programming, our internal our
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  Speaker 1: experiences that we've internalized and held on to that information.
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  Speaker 1: And when we start looking at all that and wanting
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  Speaker 1: to shift that within ourselves, it's all self awareness and
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  Speaker 1: it's not looking at well Bev said this and it
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  Speaker 1: pissed me off. It's why did what Bev say piss
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  Speaker 1: me off? What is it about her tone, her facial
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  Speaker 1: expression or body language, the you know, the words she used.
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  Speaker 1: What is it about the situation experience that had me
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  Speaker 1: get upset, angrier, pissed. So it's a total inner reflection.
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  Speaker 1: So I can change that within myself. But it's my
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  Speaker 1: ego that says she don't have the right to do
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  Speaker 1: that and say that to me. What's up with that?
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  Speaker 1: Why is she being like that towards me? Why would
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  Speaker 1: she even say that? Why would she use that tone? Right?
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  Speaker 1: And it's like she has every right to she has
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  Speaker 1: every right to show up the way she wants to
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  Speaker 1: show up and say what she wants to say, in
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  Speaker 1: the tone that she has, using the body language that
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  Speaker 1: she knows. It's me. It's why am I having the
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  Speaker 1: reaction to her? And I'm just using these as an example?
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  Speaker 1: Isn't that? But really I do. I this is a
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  Speaker 1: continuous practice for me to utilize situations where I feel
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  Speaker 1: like I can feel like I'm getting frustrated, irritated, pissy, bitchy, whatever.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, well, where's that coming from? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: Why is it? What they did? Or say? Why is
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  Speaker 1: that festering in me? What is? And I'll dig deep.
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  Speaker 1: There's sometimes that may take me a few days, maybe
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  Speaker 1: a couple of weeks before I really understand where it
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  Speaker 1: came from. But I will have that internal question until
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  Speaker 1: it drops in as to well, this happened to you
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  Speaker 1: when you were whatever whatever age, and you're still storing
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  Speaker 1: it in your body and it's coming out And really,
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  Speaker 1: my ego is storing that information to help me survive
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  Speaker 1: and to help me prove I'm right? Just what I
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  Speaker 1: all these things I just said. So, the ego is
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  Speaker 1: an interesting thing on our human side, and when you
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  Speaker 1: want to walk more in a spiritual path, then things
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  Speaker 1: get deep.
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  Speaker 2: I heard it referenced before and it kind of resonates
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  Speaker 2: with me.
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  Speaker 3: What do you think about it? Our ego is also
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  Speaker 3: our identification. It's our you know, it's our of course,
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  Speaker 3: it's our separation, right, But of course we're always going
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  Speaker 3: to have the ego. But it's like, how much of
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  Speaker 3: the ego do you want operating the show? And for me,
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  Speaker 3: it's like I don't want I want less of the
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  Speaker 3: ego operating the show because the ego doesn't.
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  Speaker 2: Know what's best for me.
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  Speaker 3: It might know it's best for me in the moment,
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  Speaker 3: but then again that's not true either because that's the
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  Speaker 3: old programming.
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  Speaker 2: That's the programming.
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  Speaker 3: Oh you've better heard the because it was a tiger
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  Speaker 3: when you're walking down the street and there's no tigers,
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  Speaker 3: you know what I mean, there's it's just a it's
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  Speaker 3: a different space. So it's it's really just you've got
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  Speaker 3: to feel your way through all this shit.
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  Speaker 2: It's not bad, no.
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  Speaker 1: And that as you're talking and you know about the ego,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm saying what I'm saying. I've been internalizing some
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  Speaker 1: things at work, and uh, it's a co inhabited space,
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  Speaker 1: so we're not the only business in this space. And
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  Speaker 1: some growing pains are happening, and some things are shifting
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  Speaker 1: and changing. And I have recently and it actually happened today,
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  Speaker 1: So it's a great, great time to talk it out
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  Speaker 1: so I can hear myself say this is recently and
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  Speaker 1: just as today too it happened. I have felt that
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  Speaker 1: the need or desire whichever word, to be in that
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  Speaker 1: defensive mode and to stand up for our business and
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  Speaker 1: to say what's on my mind, whether it's right or wrong.
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  Speaker 1: And so as we were talking just now, I'm like, Okay, well,
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  Speaker 1: I'm being triggered by something and I know it. What
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  Speaker 1: is that? And what it is is the desire to
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  Speaker 1: use my voice because I couldn't stand up for myself
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  Speaker 1: when I was little, and now that I'm an adult,
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  Speaker 1: almost a fifty four year old adult, who has learned
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  Speaker 1: to use their voice. And one of the things one
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  Speaker 1: thing that happened today where I did use my voice
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  Speaker 1: was that it was toward what had happened the situation
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  Speaker 1: that had happened that I was not involved with because
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  Speaker 1: I was gone, but I just heard about it today.
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  Speaker 1: Was some discord with with my our receptionist, and she's
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  Speaker 1: a sweetheart, she cries at the drop of a hat,
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  Speaker 1: like she's just sensitive, and there was an individual who
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  Speaker 1: had some discord with her, and so today I felt
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  Speaker 1: the need to voice, use my voice to stand up
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  Speaker 1: for her. And as we're talking just now, I was like, okay,
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  Speaker 1: well what's that all about. Well, it's because nobody people
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  Speaker 1: didn't stand up for me or I couldn't stand up
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  Speaker 1: for myself because I was little. Right, you have abusive parent,
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  Speaker 1: parent and all the things, and you don't so you
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  Speaker 1: want to stand up for the person who is not
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  Speaker 1: as strong or voice stous and so that makes sense
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  Speaker 1: to me now. So now I know, thank you, thanks
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  Speaker 1: for showing up for tea time with amyen Bab. It's
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  Speaker 1: been great.
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  Speaker 3: It's still empowering, honestly for the for the individual. But
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  Speaker 3: also we don't know all the circumstances for things, and
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  Speaker 3: I'm not even going to use that as an example.
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  Speaker 3: We could come back and maybe we're responded the way
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  Speaker 3: we responded, because that's exactly what.
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  Speaker 2: Needed to happen. We could come back and defend that, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, or try to think, oh gosh, that I do
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  Speaker 3: the right thing, but also just recognizing that we're always
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  Speaker 3: doing the right thing in the moment, and that was
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  Speaker 3: what was needed in that moment. That person needed to
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  Speaker 3: be defended because they probably weren't dependent as a child
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  Speaker 3: being super sensitive, which I'm understanding now.
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  Speaker 2: It's a it's actually empowering. It's it's a strong sight.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's letting people know it's okay for you to cry,
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  Speaker 3: it's okay for you to have those as there's like
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  Speaker 3: so many things, there's so much dynamics that are happening
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  Speaker 3: in that whole the whole situation. It's it's actually pretty awesome.
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  Speaker 3: And then you know, still having to go to a
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  Speaker 3: job when you're feeling those ways. I'm lucky that, you know,
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  Speaker 3: I have have space for myself at this time to
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  Speaker 3: be able to do that. I can't imagine being in
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  Speaker 3: a in a in a place where someone's you know,
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  Speaker 3: having discord with you, you're an amazing person or you're
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  Speaker 3: a sweet personal that stuff, and having discord which had
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  Speaker 3: nothing to do with her and had everything to do
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  Speaker 3: with the individual, and then it just had to do
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  Speaker 3: with how, you know, how is she going to show
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  Speaker 3: up and handle that?
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  Speaker 2: And it's like you stepped up.
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  Speaker 1: And the other thing is how how was it that
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  Speaker 1: she was a match to that conversation? And maybe it
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  Speaker 1: was the opportunity for her to use their voice or say,
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  Speaker 1: you know, defend herself or whatever the case may be,
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  Speaker 1: or for.
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  Speaker 2: You to defend her. Maybe she needed that, do you
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  Speaker 2: know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: That inner child might have needed that, just like your
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  Speaker 3: inner child would have needed that too.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and when you when you say, you know, the
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  Speaker 1: death of the ego and being you know you cry
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  Speaker 1: and all and be emotional and all that, Well, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we're talking about death. We're talking about something changing and shifting,
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  Speaker 1: and so there would be a grieving process to who
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  Speaker 1: you were, yes, and recognizing that has changed and you
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  Speaker 1: want it to change and you're working on that change.
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  Speaker 1: But it's the familiar part that you're letting go. And
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  Speaker 1: now you're walking in unfamiliar territory because you've not really
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  Speaker 1: been in this territory before. And so the death of
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  Speaker 1: the ego or even the the closing of the gap
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  Speaker 1: of between you and I'm gonna say you in source.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what Wayne Dyer said. You know, ego is
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  Speaker 1: e geo edging got out or edging goodness out, which
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  Speaker 1: means you're getting further separation from who you truly are,
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  Speaker 1: or separation from your sword. Not separation but distance. We
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  Speaker 1: don't separate from it, we just get further more distant
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  Speaker 1: from it. So the more distance we are with more
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  Speaker 1: distant we are from our source, Spirit, God, divine universe,
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  Speaker 1: then the more we are in the human side of
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  Speaker 1: the ego, which is more of the survival, fear, shame, guilt, criticist, judgement,
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  Speaker 1: those heavier emotions. And the more we move closer to source, God,
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  Speaker 1: Universe or love, the less power the human ego has
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  Speaker 1: over us. But we still need the ego. We still
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  Speaker 1: need it as a part of us as in these
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  Speaker 1: human bodies.
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  Speaker 3: It's our identity, right, I mean, it's it's been, it's
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  Speaker 3: amy that is, that is the ego. That's what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: I believe that's what I come to believe. I think
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  Speaker 3: could change tomorrow. But it's like we are. That that's
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  Speaker 3: what gives us, you know, individuality with each other instead
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  Speaker 3: of us all being in the same even though we
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  Speaker 3: are all in the same mix of everything. We are
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  Speaker 3: the collective consciousness at the same time. But this ego
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  Speaker 3: or this identity is what gives us this experience.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and we're all We're all here for an experience.
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  Speaker 1: We're a spirit and body. We're all energy, Our spirits
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  Speaker 1: are all connected, We're a part of the collective consciousness.
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  Speaker 1: We're all intertwined, and our spirit is in a human
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  Speaker 1: body with an ego that is here for an individual experience,
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  Speaker 1: and that individual experience can still know and recognize that
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  Speaker 1: we're all connected. It's just a matter of perception. In
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  Speaker 1: which space do you want to be in are you?
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  Speaker 1: Are you an independent person who who seize yourself separate
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  Speaker 1: from everybody else, or are you a person who knows
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  Speaker 1: that they are energy and is affected by everything that
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  Speaker 1: is and that you're a part of all of it.
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  Speaker 1: It's your choice on your perception. But I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: tell you that your energy and your part of all
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  Speaker 1: of it that is. And I think that we have
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  Speaker 1: and I can speak to this because I went through
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  Speaker 1: it too, that whole transition from that survival and who
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was and all my belief systems and
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  Speaker 1: all the stuff and changing all that may. It was
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  Speaker 1: like a two year old having temper tantrum. It was
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  Speaker 1: not pretty. It was not a pretty transition by no means.
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  Speaker 1: And I was sick of myself going through it. Anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I forget what I was saying, But anyway, do you.
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  Speaker 3: Think when you were going through that and being sick
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  Speaker 3: of yourself going through that, do you feel like that
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  Speaker 3: that would have been like a caretaker that would have
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  Speaker 3: been around you and then not a been like this,
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  Speaker 3: that's enough, your temper tantrum, that's it, You're dead. Like
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  Speaker 3: do you think it would have My mind almost goes
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  Speaker 3: back to those kinds of times, like when they because
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  Speaker 3: I've had a lot of stuff that's kind of it
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  Speaker 3: might have started on the surface here, you know, in
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  Speaker 3: this timeframe, but it actually all went back.
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  Speaker 2: To the programming all the way to the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, just like not even having the patience, like
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  Speaker 3: I'll even watch my kids with the grandkids or whatever,
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  Speaker 3: and I might. I'm more easy going about a lot
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  Speaker 3: of things now than I was when I was raising them,
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  Speaker 3: and I see them like correcting them for things, and
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  Speaker 3: it's like, well, that's not a big deal. But when
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  Speaker 3: I raised them, it was a big deal. So I
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  Speaker 3: gave them that kind of programming. I think that that
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: was not okay or that was wrong, and it was
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: never wrong. But because I was raised that same way,
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: with that same programming, it's it's.
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: Just a and is it just takes one person in
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: a family or a generation to make a change.
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And that's the thing, even typing in stuff like
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: how do I heal ancestral stuff? How do I?
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: I mean I have been asking so many questions just
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: to see what kind of information comes up, and even
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: asking other questions and then also knowing sometimes they don't.
• 20:20
  Speaker 3: It doesn't give you information that you want, and you
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: kind of have to manipulate the way you're asking the
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: questions in order to get the information you want. So
• 20:27
  Speaker 3: it's very I even asked about healing which wounds there,
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: I mean like it because whatever popped into my head,
• 20:33
  Speaker 3: that's what I was asking about, So whatever led me
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: to the next thing, and it was just.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: I just felt like it was very guided.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and well I got to remember about uh ai,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: which is what chat to ptas I used chet top
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: on almost a daily basis.
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: Is that so when you when you search on the web,
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: like I'm going to use Google, and you use Google
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: and search the web for something. Then you have a
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: list of things that pop up and then you have
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: to click on it to go in to read it
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: and see the pictures or whatever. Right, and then you're like, Okay,
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: that's not it, and you're the next one. And so
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: there's all this clicking back and forth and trying to
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: figure out which link is what you're looking for. Whereas
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: chat ept or an ai that is a similar platform,
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: because there are many. It's a it's a pool of
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: all the information on the Internet, and it's going to
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: pull information from what you're looking for, your questions or
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: whatever information you're wanting, and it will pull from that
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: and bring into your answer the data that is collected
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: out of that pool. So you think about all the
• 22:05
  Speaker 1: information anybody's ever put on the internet, all the books
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: and in summaries of books and research papers that are
• 22:14
  Speaker 1: out there, newspapers that are out there, and websites, blogs,
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: all the things. Is like this huge amount of information.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: It just pulls it in and then it will guide
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: you based on your question, how you word your questions
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: of what information it provides you. So, yeah, you do
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: have to I'm going to say, manipulate the words in
• 22:35
  Speaker 1: such a way to get the information that you want,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: because you are if you're literally like talking to a wall,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: and for that wall to understand what you're saying, you
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: have to use the correct, not correct, but the words
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: that you will help it understand what you're looking for.
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, And when you're saying all that stuff, actually, because
• 22:58
  Speaker 3: I'm always like when I'm talking spirit and stuff like that,
• 23:01
  Speaker 3: sometimes I feel like I'm not asking the right questions
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: And now I realize it's actually helping me redefine what
• 23:07
  Speaker 3: am I asking for?
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: What am I really looking for? And then being aware.
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: But we and you still have to use your discernment
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: because it's these are from people, it's not from spirit,
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: or maybe it is, because spirit speaks through people all
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: the time.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, And I do love the AI platform because
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: it helps broaden your thinking as well, because you know,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: you're thinking like there's okay, there's like I got five solutions,
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: but when you put it into AI, it has this
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: vast amount of information and it will give you fifty
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: solutions and they will be solutions you Obviously, your your
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: thought process wasn't that open to think of those things,
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: or not having enough, not having the amount of experience
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: to know to think of those solutions, and so it
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: will it will give you a different way. It will
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: just open you up to different new ideas, different creativity
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: and things like that. I like it for that, and
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: I also like it for multiple reasons. I could list
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: a lot, but anyway, it is a good tool to
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: have and it and one of the things, one of
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: the things that I've recently heard be talked about is
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: that more people are going to an AI platform to
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: get information to help them on their healing process, which
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: is great and and I'm not going to disregard that,
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: but I would say is don't lose the human connection.
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: Human connection is so really important to us and our
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: on our survival that when you rely on AI too
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: much for what feels like a connection to something and
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: feeling that something understands me that it's still a machine.
• 25:22
  Speaker 1: It's not it's not an emotional it's not an emotional
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: reaction or or connection. It is providing information.
• 25:38
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a database. You can't humanize a database. I mean,
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: you know, I don't believe that you can. So, I mean,
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: someone out there might think that that's a possibility, but
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: it's not.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: It's not the same thing as a connection with people
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: for sure.
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but it does get information so that we can come,
• 25:59
  Speaker 3: you know, together and share that information or ace. What
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: do you think about this? I mean, there is so
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: much inform. There's so I've looked up Network's final analysis.
• 26:08
  Speaker 3: I've looked up so many different things and then asking
• 26:10
  Speaker 3: specific questions like how do you what is the touch
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: where do they touch at, you know, on the spine
• 26:16
  Speaker 3: and you know in the I don't know if it's
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: I don't know if they use met meridians.
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: But I hadn't because I hadn't gotten that far into it.
• 26:21
  Speaker 3: But just looking into it how to be your own bank,
• 26:23
  Speaker 3: like looking at millions of different things, there's so much.
• 26:27
  Speaker 2: It just gives you more.
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: It's a great database that it's all of a sudden
• 26:30
  Speaker 3: right there at your fingertips instead of being like going
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: to Google.
• 26:33
  Speaker 1: Like you're saying, well, and it is being used way
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: more than a Internet searching engine that a platform like
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: chad GPT is being used to gather information. The popularity
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: of that is greater.
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: Now, Yeah, it makes sense to me, it does, but
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: it's just how you're going to utilize it, right, It's
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: just like anything, how are you going to Utilz said, well,
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: I'm using I'm using it for good.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, And the more people.
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: That use it for good, the better. I'm just saying
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: because collective, So think about collective consciousness. Our energy is
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: contributing to the collective consciousness of our planet and beyond.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: And it's the same with AI. The collective information that's
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: put in it is what's growing the memory bank of
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: that platform, or the memory bank as a whole. So
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: if you have I don't know, I'm just throwing random numbers.
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: If you have three million people putting in hate words
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: and you only have you know, twenty people saying please,
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: thank you, lighthearted, fun, joyous type of conversation with it,
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: the majority is going to overrule and it's going to
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: be more spiteful, negative, lower vibrational wording than what the
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: other group's putting in.
• 28:13
  Speaker 3: And when you're saying that, I almost imagine if you
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: do put in negative stuff, you're probably gonna get negative
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: stuff back. It's kind of like it's kind of like
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: the mirroring effect. Really, it's just like life. If you're
• 28:24
  Speaker 3: going to put you if you're going to put in
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: positive or focus on the positive, You're going to see
• 28:27
  Speaker 3: the positive.
• 28:27
  Speaker 2: If you want to focus on the negative, you'll see
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: the negative.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get back what you put out. Just imagine
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: that and that what we do. That's the way energy works.
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: Whatever you put out, you're going to get it back.
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: It's going to be mirrored to you. So yeah, same
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: thing with AI.
• 28:44
  Speaker 2: It's fun.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: It's been a nice exploring process for today. If it
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: really did, it really was beneficial for me. I feel
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: like today just gathering that information because it just helped.
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: Sometimes we can't always put our thoughts into words and
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: so something else can or or we don't want to
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: overlook something and that can give you more information. So
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: it's just it's just there's so much information that's out
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: there and I and I also felt like I was
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: guided to that today's to just do that, to go
• 29:10
  Speaker 3: looking for these responses.
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: So I liked it. It was just a I just
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: feel benefited from it. Really.
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yep, And it's uh you said earlier, it's helping
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: you to word things in a way to be more
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: clear on what your question is. And yeah, again it's
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: with AI, you're getting you're getting feedback based on what
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: your question is. Whereas with spirit or your intuition, sometimes
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: there's an interpretation that has to take place, uh, that
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: those messages might drop in or might be a conversation
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: or a book or a song or something like that.
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: It definitely makes us be more in tune. But with
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: the AI I it was similar in what's your question?
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: And how clear are you on your question? Or how
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: are you clear on what you want to manifest or
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: bring to you? How clear are you on that? Yeah?
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: So I like it as far as that goes it
• 30:18
  Speaker 3: really because it's really helps you redefine what you want
• 30:20
  Speaker 3: in your experience.
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: It really does.
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: It really helps you put words to what what are
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: you really looking for? What do you if you're the
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: master creator of your reality, what do you want to create?
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: And it kind of helps you along the way. It's
• 30:33
  Speaker 3: I mean, that's the way I see it's happening for me.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: So yeah, it can be an amazing tool. Yeah, so fun, fun,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: all right, friends, this is tea time with Amy and Bev,
• 30:45
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• 32:15
  Speaker 3: If things start getting too heavy or feel too heavy
• 32:17
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• 32:35
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