Latest / HER / A New Body Fitness for the New Year
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- 0:07Pam Peeke, MD: Hi, I am Dr.
- 0:08Pam Peak, and this is episode number 544 of the Bold and the
- 0:16Brave, her podcast Now today.
- 0:20I am so excited to be joined by a new best friend, oh boy.
- 0:26And her name is Karen Weinstein.
- 0:29how do I know this amazing person?
- 0:31Because I live in the world of fitness.
- 0:35That's right.
- 0:36And she has an extraordinary background, in yoga and strength training.
- 0:43and also really is looking at the aging woman's body, over the
- 0:49years, over the years, 20, 30, 40 years old, 50 years old and beyond.
- 0:55You know, we wanna stay on top of it, but how do you do that?
- 1:01Karen is a certified personal trainer, corrective exercise specialist.
- 1:06and she is a, 500 hour certified yoga teacher.
- 1:10That's a hell of a lot of yoga.
- 1:12Okay.
- 1:13Who's been teaching yoga, meditation and mindfulness since 2008, long before it was
- 1:19cool, and strength training since, 2016.
- 1:24Now.
- 1:24Karen, you were a varsity, you athlete, right?
- 1:29What were you?
- 1:30Karin Weinstein: Yeah, I played volleyball at Rutgers University,
- 1:33so shout out to Rutgers in
- 1:35Pam Peeke, MD: Okay, shout out.
- 1:36Karin Weinstein: I'm now officially a Jersey girl.
- 1:38Pam Peeke, MD: Okay.
- 1:39You're a Georgia girl and that's because you're tall.
- 1:41You are.
- 1:42Karin Weinstein: Yeah, I'm five 11.
- 1:44Pam Peeke, MD: There you go.
- 1:45Karin Weinstein: Yeah.
- 1:45Although I have to say the players now would dwarf me, so I've been
- 1:48back to games and they're 6 2, 6 3.
- 1:51So yeah, it's amazing what changes in a couple generations.
- 1:55Pam Peeke, MD: It's pretty crazy, isn't it?
- 1:58Oh my gosh.
- 1:58Because I'm five foot nine and I played volleyball.
- 2:02I mean, I, they'd use me as the ball.
- 2:04I mean, come on now.
- 2:06Um,
- 2:06Karin Weinstein: Yep.
- 2:07Pam Peeke, MD: they've, they've all gotten so.
- 2:09just crazy athletic and everything.
- 2:12Oh my gosh.
- 2:13So listen, you and I have had many talks about, you know, just women and fitness
- 2:20and really sort of redefining why women want to get fit in the first place.
- 2:27And that really starts with, an examination of.
- 2:32Your own relationship to your body.
- 2:35and you've written some beautiful stuff on this, just, you know, kind of amazing.
- 2:40and since we're looking at the new year, you know what's happening?
- 2:47You know, women are just running to TikTok and YouTube and Google and God
- 2:53knows where else, and getting totally confused about where you even begin
- 2:59to start taking care of yourself.
- 3:01And I think you and I both agree that it all starts in the mind.
- 3:09Karin Weinstein: Absolutely.
- 3:09Yeah.
- 3:09They, especially in January, we get bombarded with so many advertisements
- 3:15and really what they're trying to do.
- 3:17Is convince women in particular that there is something wrong with them because
- 3:21when you believe there is something wrong with you, then they can sell you the fix.
- 3:25And, you know, it's a, a multi-billion dollar industry between fitness and diet.
- 3:30So, I mean, this is something that.
- 3:32personally, I get so frustrated because oftentimes women will come to me wanting
- 3:37to fix something about themselves rather than focusing on strength and longevity.
- 3:43And, you know, kind of closing that gap between health span and lifespan, which I
- 3:47know is something that we kind of chatted about a little bit, through email.
- 3:51Something that just really frustrates me.
- 3:55Pam Peeke, MD: the way I look at it is, you know, women immediately
- 3:59go, oh, if I do X number of those exercises, you know, it's all formulaic.
- 4:05You know, what formula do I follow?
- 4:07who do I follow?
- 4:08Yeah.
- 4:08I just saw something, which was interesting.
- 4:12it was a survey or so, about influencers on social media and if you were a woman
- 4:19who was a perfect influencer, she had a little ponytail and everything is just
- 4:25perfect about you and back and forth.
- 4:27That viewers couldn't stand that.
- 4:30What they wanted was authenticity and they wanted to see someone who
- 4:35was real and maybe even had, you know, a couple of like little flaws.
- 4:42God
- 4:43forbid.
- 4:44Yeah, I know.
- 4:45Seriously.
- 4:46Just somebody who's real for crying out loud.
- 4:49But if you back up, it's all about meaning and purpose.
- 4:55Meaning and purpose without appropriate meaning and purpose.
- 5:00Something that really resonates deeply with you and my meaning and purpose.
- 5:06Karen, may be very different than yours because meaning and purpose in life when
- 5:11you're looking at things like taking care of yourself changes, of course it changes.
- 5:16Karin Weinstein: Yep,
- 5:17Pam Peeke, MD: over the years.
- 5:18So it's not static.
- 5:20actually quite dynamic.
- 5:22So as you get older, you wanna, you know, stick around and, you know,
- 5:26you're starting to think about your health a lot more when you're younger.
- 5:29It's like, what do I look like?
- 5:31And I'm trying to find a mate and, you know, whatever, and back and forth
- 5:36talk to us about that whole issue of.
- 5:39That narrative of meaning and purpose before we can even begin to
- 5:44talk about, how to move your body.
- 5:48Karin Weinstein: part of what you have to know is what you're coming to fitness for.
- 5:51And I think that our culture has kind of done a job on women in terms
- 5:56of the way that fitness is framed.
- 5:59It's all been about, how you look, rather than how you function, and
- 6:04so women focus on cardio before they focus on anything else because.
- 6:08The primary thing that they hear is that they need to lose weight, that they need
- 6:12to be skinny, that they need to fit in a certain size in order to have value.
- 6:18And until we can kind of move women past that, which is really hard to
- 6:23do, and it's something you've kind of been steeped in for your entire
- 6:26lifetime, it's hard to move past that and start embracing the fact that.
- 6:32As your body is changing, as you're aging, we might actually want some muscles, we
- 6:37might actually want to put on a little bit more size and bulk because that's
- 6:41what makes us sturdier as we age, right?
- 6:44That's what's going to prevent falls.
- 6:45It's gonna help to prevent fractures as we age, and those get really important
- 6:50and pretty soon, I mean, I'm in my mid fifties and I already know women
- 6:55who struggle to get up off the floor.
- 6:57You know, they kind of grunt and groan.
- 6:59that is just something that I, I want to empower women, and give
- 7:04them what they need so that they can thrive for an entire lifetime.
- 7:09tend to work
- 7:09with older
- 7:10clients.
- 7:11Yeah.
- 7:11And that's what I want.
- 7:13Pam Peeke, MD: well, you're centering your focus on, function and, Kind
- 7:20of like what you're really doing is you're saying, I'd like you to be strong
- 7:25mentally and physically, and then you know, your body will follow along.
- 7:30And so once you lead with that, what woman wouldn't want to be
- 7:36mentally and physically strong.
- 7:37And when we say strong, I mean obviously, we don't mean like over the top,
- 7:42we're just simply saying, empowered.
- 7:45Karin Weinstein: Yeah.
- 7:45Well, I think it's hard.
- 7:46You and I were both athletes, right?
- 7:48So I think we come at this in a different way.
- 7:51I think if you've never.
- 7:53Been strong before.
- 7:55You don't know what it feels like and you don't know how good you can
- 7:58feel when you're strong and capable.
- 8:01And I think having that athletic background kind of makes strength training
- 8:05as we age a little bit easier because we're used to feeling a little bit of
- 8:09that muscle soreness after a hard workout.
- 8:12And those things can be kind of intimidating or scary for
- 8:15someone who is branded new to this kind of effort in their life.
- 8:20So I think that that's a big barrier for a lot of women.
- 8:23Pam Peeke, MD: Okay, let's really start putting our heads together
- 8:26and help women out there right now.
- 8:29So the first thing is get in touch with your meaning and purpose.
- 8:33You need to spend a moment to reflect, you say, well, I wanna,
- 8:36you know, shed some weight.
- 8:38Why?
- 8:40What's the why behind this?
- 8:42so that what, and by the way.
- 8:46If it's just wanting to look better so that you feel better, I'm down with that.
- 8:52I'm cool.
- 8:53So long as it's sustainable.
- 8:55Is that strong enough?
- 8:57Is it a strong enough meaning and purpose?
- 9:01because I've had people become actually amazingly successful, with
- 9:06that because they just got tired of wearing the same, what we call
- 9:10hide it clothes, they're like.
- 9:12You know, you wear a tent, because you don't want anyone to see your body.
- 9:17and who needs to live around with body shame, you should be, feeling empowered.
- 9:23so really take a moment, that's your first step, and get in touch with how
- 9:30you feel about your meaning and purpose.
- 9:34And you may have to have some discussions.
- 9:37You know, as you kind of become clear with this and the acid test
- 9:42is if you say, okay, here's my meaning and purpose, X, Y, z.
- 9:47You wake up in the morning and you find 65 excuses not to go to that
- 9:53Pilates class or the yoga class.
- 9:55Oh, well, whatever that meaning and purpose thing was that you
- 9:59thought was going to stick, did not.
- 10:02So you better, you know, come back again and let's figure this out.
- 10:07Which one's gonna stick one way or the other.
- 10:10even if it's tenuous.
- 10:13Give it a whirl, whatever that meaning and purpose is.
- 10:17if you wanna play with your grandchildren, if you've always wanted to hike
- 10:22the Grand Canyon, well, you know, having done it twice, rem to Rim, I'm
- 10:26here to tell you, you better be in.
- 10:29and I've seen people do credible things to get into shape to be able to do the
- 10:36travel and things that they wanna do.
- 10:39So those are just some, a few examples.
- 10:41and obviously health concerns.
- 10:44If someone has told you, you know, you're carrying an extra 40 to
- 10:4850 pounds, your blood sugar's up.
- 10:51and unless you wanna, you know, be on medication, here you go.
- 10:55And for all you little happy campers on GLP one medications and all the
- 11:00rest of it, that does not stop you.
- 11:04For one second from taking good care of yourself because you'll never sustain that
- 11:10in a healthy way, unless you already have a foundational amount of physical activity
- 11:17and eating appropriately and getting your sleep and de-stressing and blah, blah.
- 11:21Okay?
- 11:22Now let's just say you've done your little homework with meaning and purpose.
- 11:27How could a woman who's just sort of not been doing a whole lot
- 11:31for a while, how can she begin her journey with her own fitness?
- 11:37What would you recommend Karen?
- 11:39Karin Weinstein: I think it's getting support, whether
- 11:41that's going to a group club.
- 11:43I know that gyms are not everyone's favorite.
- 11:47I tend to see a lot of those folks because they just, women in general
- 11:51are intimidated by doing something like strength training in a gym.
- 11:54If people are kind of in that hide me place, they don't feel
- 11:58comfortable doing a group class.
- 11:59And so I think this is one of those times where doing something online
- 12:03can actually be really helpful.
- 12:05'cause you're in the privacy of your own home.
- 12:07You get to kind of test things out.
- 12:09you get to.
- 12:09Turn your camera off if you need to so that you can do your workout on your own.
- 12:14but I do think that having some kind of support and guidance is really helpful,
- 12:18especially if someone is stepping into this for the very first time.
- 12:22they need to know what to do and what not to.
- 12:24I mean, I work with a lot of women who have osteoporosis and osteopenia.
- 12:29There's very little guidance for folks like that.
- 12:32so finding someone who's qualified, professional, who can actually
- 12:36give you a little bit of a, a program or a routine to follow.
- 12:40I think starting with body weight exercise is a really great gateway.
- 12:44I think a lot of times right now, especially women.
- 12:47Strength training has gotten really big, and we see a lot of women lifting heavy
- 12:51weights, and that's wonderful, but that can intimidate women even more, right?
- 12:56Because women have traditionally kind of been shy about going in the strength
- 12:59training room, and so when they see that, they're like, wow, this is not for me.
- 13:04I could never do that.
- 13:05And they really need to have an entry point that is.
- 13:08Feel safe, right?
- 13:10That they can kind of step into with some measure of confidence and feel
- 13:14like it's something doable for them.
- 13:16So I think starting with something like body weight exercises and letting somebody
- 13:20build some stamina and some confidence there before you, or even asking them
- 13:25to lift weights, which eventually I think everybody should be doing.
- 13:28I have an 86-year-old client right now, after a break
- 13:33because of a, a health issue.
- 13:35She came back and she said, I really miss your yoga classes.
- 13:38I wanna come back.
- 13:39And I said, I think you should do strength training instead, because I could just
- 13:43tell she had kind of lost some of that strength and stamina from having been
- 13:47sick and we're six weeks in right now.
- 13:51And the difference in her, she couldn't finish a class six weeks ago.
- 13:55And last week actually, she finished the entire class for the first time.
- 13:58So seeing something like that, those improvements happen pretty
- 14:01quickly when you show up for yourself and you actually do it.
- 14:05Pam Peeke, MD: Okay, so there's your entry point.
- 14:08Your point about online.
- 14:10You do online, right?
- 14:11Karin Weinstein: I do, I see clients in person.
- 14:13I'm a coach for Kari Prehab, so I'm also a process strength coach for them.
- 14:17And then I teach my classes.
- 14:19COVID changed everything.
- 14:20I used to teach classes.
- 14:22I was running all over the place to different yoga studios and gyms.
- 14:26And now I do everything online basically.
- 14:28I do workshops and things occasionally, but it's amazing how
- 14:32that shifted everything in the way that people have access to strength
- 14:36training and fitness in general.
- 14:38Pam Peeke, MD: And if you go to the website, Karen
- 14:40Weinstein, so that's K-A-R-I-N, Weinstein, W-E-I-N-S-T-E-I n.com.
- 14:49Then you can learn more about what Karen actually does and she's really, a master.
- 14:54with all of this very calm and very centered, and, very
- 15:00tuned into where you're coming from to be able to customize.
- 15:04I think that your whole point about that next step after you kind of
- 15:07look at meaning and purpose is you've gotta get the A team together.
- 15:12And here's the thing, honey, it's like finding a hairstylist.
- 15:16like you gotta kind of.
- 15:19Shop around a little bit here and you have to do trial and error.
- 15:23And sometimes those errors are disastrous, but here we go.
- 15:26And, until you finally find what works for you.
- 15:29So, be aware of the fact that this is all about trial and error.
- 15:33You may.
- 15:34you may not like it.
- 15:35You may wanna do a, some, you know, an in-person kind of situation.
- 15:41Maybe there's a community center, et cetera.
- 15:44But I think the most important thing is what Karen just said, support.
- 15:49You do need support.
- 15:51You gotta ask people questions.
- 15:53is my form okay?
- 15:55Et cetera.
- 15:56Mass majority of women have absolutely no idea what they're
- 15:59doing with weightlifting.
- 16:01I'm horrified.
- 16:03when I enter a gym and I watch what some women are doing, like God
- 16:08Almighty either gonna hurt themselves.
- 16:10Now I've been at it for decades.
- 16:12So have you, Karen.
- 16:14And so we've had Our share of superb coaching we went through,
- 16:19you know, the school of hard knocks and, we've learned it, you know,
- 16:25with our blood, sweat, and tears.
- 16:27that makes us much more aware of what you really have to do.
- 16:31To be able to do this injury free and to understand there's only so much you can
- 16:37get outta YouTube and all the rest of it.
- 16:41so there's that.
- 16:42Okay.
- 16:43Now, many times what I'll ask somebody to do, let's see what you think Karen is.
- 16:49I'll say, are you walking?
- 16:51I mean, I was just walking, or as a cardiology, it was actually a
- 16:55cardiologist up in Boston once said, walk your dog even if you don't have one.
- 17:01in other words, get up off your feminine behind and go out there and
- 17:05walk, and just see what happens if you measure out like what a mile
- 17:10is, how'd you feel after that mile.
- 17:12How long did it take you?
- 17:14and then this way you have something to work toward and you
- 17:18may say, oh, that's not enough.
- 17:20It's just walking.
- 17:21Uh, uh, uh, uh, uh, walking is huge, number one.
- 17:27Huge.
- 17:27Huge, huge.
- 17:28And it's a beautiful entry point because, assuming you're able to walk and you're
- 17:34not disabled, et cetera, you should be able to get out there and start into it.
- 17:38What do you think, Karen?
- 17:40Karin Weinstein: Uh, I completely agree.
- 17:41I mean, especially if someone is going from sedentary and they're just moving
- 17:45into an exercise or fitness lifestyle, it's something they're trying to embrace.
- 17:50I think any kind of exercise is, you know, walking, going, dancing, right?
- 17:56And I think it has to be something that you enjoy.
- 17:58You know, I think that's a huge component is I think that we've
- 18:01kind of started seeing fitness as a little bit of punishment rather than
- 18:05something that is about just the joy of having a body that can actually
- 18:09do all of these amazing things.
- 18:11So I think there's something out there for everyone, right?
- 18:14Whether it's a tap dance class at a community center.
- 18:17Or just right Zuma taking a walk.
- 18:21Anything like that, find a sport that you enjoy.
- 18:24There's that sense of community that often keeps people coming
- 18:27back over and over again.
- 18:29Find a a little walking club so you're not doing it alone.
- 18:32Get a buddy to go with you.
- 18:34So, I mean, I
- 18:35Pam Peeke, MD: Hike, hike, go into nature.
- 18:39when I say the word hike, I don't mean that you immediately ran out
- 18:42to REI and, you know, dropped a wad, on all kinds of equipment.
- 18:46And I just simply mean, you know, get some decent shoes
- 18:50and then get out in the nature.
- 18:52Nature is.
- 18:53Absolutely the Mac daddy.
- 18:55I mean, that's where I love to be.
- 18:57so, you know, it's a way of falling in love with moving your body
- 19:02because the reward is just priceless.
- 19:06You know, you smell the fresh air and you see the beautiful fauna
- 19:10and flora and maybe you're hanging out with a buddy out there too, and
- 19:15just all kind of comes together.
- 19:17That's usually a great gateway.
- 19:20To being able to say, well, you know, I could even be stronger.
- 19:23Hmm.
- 19:23I wonder what the next step is.
- 19:26So
- 19:27then, you know, that's why I like yoga.
- 19:31Yoga for a lot of women is.
- 19:34Also a great gateway.
- 19:36It's like, well, I can use my body here.
- 19:38I'm gonna feel okay.
- 19:40This isn't gonna be some great competition here.
- 19:43And it's, more gentle in many respects, than having a, you
- 19:48know, slam some equipment around in a gym and back and forth.
- 19:53So there are all these gateways where you can kind of move into it.
- 19:57I'm gonna tell you right now, don't forget martial art.
- 20:01Karin Weinstein: Oh.
- 20:02Pam Peeke, MD: Okay.
- 20:02I love martial arts and that just means tai chi and there are multiple
- 20:08levels of Tai chi that are, fairly rigorous, or just gentle and beautiful
- 20:14and will allow you to balance your body and strengthen your body.
- 20:20There are so many options out there, but you have to get off
- 20:24your feminine behind and find them.
- 20:27It's part of the, you know, be curious,
- 20:30Karin Weinstein: Yeah.
- 20:31Pam Peeke, MD: be cur.
- 20:31It's like, wow, what would that feel like?
- 20:34You know, that type of thing.
- 20:35Karin Weinstein: that's where that grabbing a friend and going, especially
- 20:38if you're really hesitant, it helps so much when you have a buddy to go
- 20:41with and it keeps you accountable.
- 20:43Right?
- 20:44Even if you.
- 20:46You know, to me, texting somebody and saying, Hey, I'm gonna take a walk today
- 20:50and just, can you check in with me later on and ask me if I've taken the walk?
- 20:55Because then you kind of have to get back to somebody on it.
- 20:58You know that somebody's gonna ask you about it later.
- 21:00And I think just those little tiny things help the, they help so much with
- 21:05motivating you to actually go and do it.
- 21:08but I think part of it is you have to do it long enough to
- 21:10actually feel the difference.
- 21:12And of course, if you take a walk or do anything exercise
- 21:15related, there's an immediate change in how you feel afterward.
- 21:19But I think it's really that long-term building the habit.
- 21:23And I think part of it is sticking with an amount of time that you
- 21:26know you can actually commit to.
- 21:28So a lot of people go into the new year and they think that's it.
- 21:31I'm going to the gym every single day.
- 21:33I'm gonna work out for an hour.
- 21:34And that's so unrealistic for most people right now in their lives.
- 21:39So instead it's okay, can you commit to 20 minutes three times
- 21:43a week or four times a week?
- 21:45And then once you check those boxes, now let's see if we can do
- 21:49half an hour, four times a week.
- 21:52And you just slowly kind of let it grow and expand in a more
- 21:55organic way rather than forcing it.
- 21:57'cause when you forcing it, it becomes unsustainable
- 22:00right from the get go, right?
- 22:01You kinda have to have the.
- 22:02The smart goals, right?
- 22:03We need it to be sustainable in order for it to actually become a
- 22:07habit, and it's the habit that keeps us coming back over and over again.
- 22:11Pam Peeke, MD: the other thing I'm gonna build on is brand new science
- 22:15that's showing that you could divvy things up into five minutes here.
- 22:1910 minutes there, 15 minutes over here.
- 22:23we all have nutty days, right?
- 22:25And so if you could figure out what it is that you could actually
- 22:30do for those five minutes, and if you think, oh, that's not enough.
- 22:35you are wrong.
- 22:36Okay, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.
- 22:39because the science shows that it like, dollar bills in a
- 22:43piggy bank, it all accrues.
- 22:45what you accrue actually is, better health.
- 22:48I'll give you an example.
- 22:50What if you just did something like this?
- 22:52What if you simply did, you bought a step?
- 22:57One of those little step things, they cost nothing.
- 22:59Just go to Dick's Sporting or, you know, somewhere.
- 23:02And then you just did step ups and you, someone was able to show you some really
- 23:07simple things you could do with that.
- 23:09Oh my gosh.
- 23:11Okay.
- 23:12And now you've got a stronger quads.
- 23:15You're learning balance, right?
- 23:17Because we don't wanna fall off the thing either.
- 23:19and you're getting stronger in general, and you're learning
- 23:23how to hold your posture at the same time and all the rest of it.
- 23:27So how cool is that?
- 23:28How simple is that?
- 23:30And if you had that just sitting around the house, you could run over to it.
- 23:33Anytime you want to, and maybe even it's outside the house, you know, in
- 23:38the backyard, so you can get a little outdoor action at the same time.
- 23:42There are so many things you could do for just five minutes, for 10 minutes.
- 23:48Just chop it all up.
- 23:50It's okay.
- 23:51And I wipe outta your mind that you have to live in a gym for an hour.
- 23:58You don't have to do that.
- 24:00And you can get tremendous benefits.
- 24:03And remember, be patient, you know, maybe one year you're just doing a lot
- 24:08of these, and then the next year you say, yeah, I wanna, up it let's take it up a
- 24:14level here and maybe I'll, I just found out about this great new community center
- 24:19or gym and my friends wanna join and, we're gonna do maybe some group stuff.
- 24:25or whatever.
- 24:26Just keep your mind and your heart open.
- 24:30and you continuously please stay physically active.
- 24:35At the very least, buy a super comfortable mat one with lots
- 24:42of padding, where you can do.
- 24:44Cool things, like bridges and some of your AB work and, straight leg raises
- 24:52and then all kinds of other cool planks, you don't need anything more than, a mat.
- 24:57And this is all body weight.
- 25:00This is body weight stuff.
- 25:01What do you think, Karen?
- 25:02Karin Weinstein: I love that idea of little movement snacks, right?
- 25:05And that's one of those things where if you are sitting at a desk all day, make
- 25:10a list, put it on a little post-it note and stick it off on the side somewhere.
- 25:14So when you have five minutes in between calls or 10 minutes in between
- 25:17calls, you look and go, oh, I'm gonna go upstairs at my kitchen counter and
- 25:21do 10 pushups on my kitchen counter.
- 25:24Right?
- 25:24Something like that is perfect to incorporate.
- 25:26While I always like to say doing lick.
- 25:29Little jumps or hops or stomping your feet while you're waiting for water
- 25:33to boil or something in the microwave.
- 25:35There are all these little times when we're waiting for something and those few
- 25:40moments that you have is a perfect time to sneak in something small like that.
- 25:43Counter pushups, a few jumps, a few hops, some jumping jacks.
- 25:47Put on some music for a little bit and just dance around your living room.
- 25:51Any kind of movement is good movement.
- 25:54Pam Peeke, MD: You gotta keep moving.
- 25:55So when we come back, I've got more questions for Karen about leveling up
- 26:02to do some nice things for your spine.
- 27:06And we're back.
- 27:07Okay.
- 27:08So.
- 27:10You know, for a natural fact that I am a Posture police woman.
- 27:16and you are a posture police woman.
- 27:18So why is posture so important?
- 27:24I mean, just it's important throughout life.
- 27:27but why is it so important for a woman, especially, you know, if she's in
- 27:32her thirties, forties, and now she's looking toward menopause where we
- 27:37have little changes happening, right?
- 27:40Why is posture so important?
- 27:42Karin Weinstein: as we age, it becomes more and more important, right?
- 27:44Because oftentimes, once we're moving through that menopausal transition and
- 27:49we have less estrogen in our body and we start to see some bone loss, and
- 27:54when we have poor posture that can put more pressure on the front of the spine.
- 27:59'cause most of us tend to kind of.
- 28:00Slouch around forward,
- 28:02Pam Peeke, MD: No, stop It really, I mean, I am horrified by what's
- 28:08happened since you know the ad.
- 28:10Vent of social media with everyone's nose stuck in their, you device.
- 28:16And so their neck has either got tech neck going on and then, you know,
- 28:21the whole spine is going forward.
- 28:24it's just awful.
- 28:25I mean, I think everyone should just have a friend take a picture of.
- 28:30You know when you don't know someone's taking a picture and
- 28:33then you'll be so horrified.
- 28:35It will absolutely snap you out of your delusion that you're fine.
- 28:40And then you'll see that you need to constantly correct.
- 28:43I do this with the shoulder roll.
- 28:45Bring myself back into a neutral, spine.
- 28:49I'm doing it all day long because I catch myself doing this and it's terrible.
- 28:55'cause first of all, you look awful.
- 28:57Hey, here's a little something.
- 28:59You wanna drop two to three inches from your waistline.
- 29:03Stand up straight.
- 29:05I mean, I remember seeing this.
- 29:06Karen, I'm not sure if I showed you, oh my gosh.
- 29:10So Kate Moss.
- 29:11You know, the supermodel little person and everything.
- 29:14There was a picture of her that was once done.
- 29:17Some photographer caught her while she was kind of bent over
- 29:20in a little nasty position.
- 29:22I mean, she had a belly.
- 29:24We were all like WW wait.
- 29:26What happened there, and then it shows a picture of her when she's standing
- 29:30up straight and it's completely gone.
- 29:33the belly hanging out was gone.
- 29:35That's because your muscles are lax.
- 29:38You know your abdominal muscles when you're bent over like that.
- 29:42But if you wanna look absolutely powerful, amazing, strong in mind and body.
- 29:49Stand up straight, you know?
- 29:52And, and when I say that, don't be ridiculous.
- 29:55I mean, you're not like hyperextended or something.
- 29:58You're just kind of remembering your ears, your shoulders and
- 30:02your hips are all in alignment.
- 30:04And that's your neutral spine.
- 30:06And try to envision that practice with that, because you'll look amazing
- 30:11and it affects your mood too, right?
- 30:14Karin Weinstein: Oh, absolutely.
- 30:15I believe that the way you way you carry yourself certainly affects
- 30:18your mood, and that is something that becomes more and more important.
- 30:22Especially when we start adding some load in strength training.
- 30:25So practicing that, you know, in things like you know, yoga class where there's
- 30:30some focus on posture, and then carrying those tools that you learn into some
- 30:35strength training is a really good idea because that's where that neutral spine
- 30:39becomes more and more important as we start lifting more and more weight.
- 30:43So having that practice under your belt is always really helpful.
- 30:47Pam Peeke, MD: I think that that's so terribly important.
- 30:50the posture thing is kind of something I play with all day long.
- 30:55and some, another little trick for.
- 30:57This is, this was taught to me by a dear, dear, wonderful friend who's a Marine.
- 31:03and I said, where did you get that posture?
- 31:05My goodness.
- 31:06It looks like, yeah, I mean, your back's like a board.
- 31:09I mean, it's, it is crazy.
- 31:11And he goes, it's simple.
- 31:12We were taught to look straight ahead.
- 31:14Okay.
- 31:15And how many people are like staring at the ground while they're walking?
- 31:18Like, what's so important on the ground?
- 31:21They don't get it.
- 31:22and you forget.
- 31:24Look straight ahead.
- 31:25You could still see exactly where you're going, know, you
- 31:28Karin Weinstein: that's, that's one of those things with older women, right?
- 31:31They start to kind of get afraid of falling.
- 31:33So the head drops, the posture starts to go, and that actually
- 31:37poor posture actually increases the likelihood of falls.
- 31:40So it's actually having the opposite effect from what they're intending, right?
- 31:45They think by being more cautious about what's happening right in front of
- 31:48them, they're going to prevent a fall, but it's actually keeping your chin up.
- 31:51Looking out ahead of you.
- 31:53Having that good posture as you're walking is actually more beneficial 'cause
- 31:57then you have a nice gait pattern and everything else that goes along with that.
- 32:01Pam Peeke, MD: It, it all kind of comes together like a package deal.
- 32:04So that's something to work on in the new year.
- 32:07And if you really, I mean, seriously, I am so serious about this.
- 32:11I want to.
- 32:12Dare you to tell someone that you know, either if you're in a workplace or if
- 32:19you're home and you're bent over your computer, Tell them at some random time
- 32:24when you don't know, they should take a picture of you as you're bent over
- 32:29your computer and you will be shocked.
- 32:33Shocked and amazed at how rotten you look, and you could probably
- 32:37hear your spine screaming for help, help you know, what are you doing to
- 32:44your back already crying out loud.
- 32:46Okay.
- 32:47Now other things we can do.
- 32:49So yoga's awesome.
- 32:51How about Pilates?
- 32:52Karin Weinstein: Yeah, Pilates is, I mean, it's kind of along the same lines as yoga.
- 32:56I think really anything that attracts you.
- 32:59Pilates is not something that I have a lot of experience with actually.
- 33:03I'm more of a yoga.
- 33:04Girl myself.
- 33:05So that was something that, kind of coming out of playing volleyball
- 33:09like we were talking about.
- 33:10I was a little bit of a weekend warrior and beating my body up a little bit.
- 33:14and yoga really helped with that tremendously.
- 33:17and I know that a lot of people have the same experience with
- 33:20Pilates in terms of finding.
- 33:23It helps with their posture, it helps with their core strength, it helps
- 33:25with alignment and just awareness of where your body is in space and
- 33:30how you're holding and holding and moving your body, and I think that's
- 33:34Pam Peeke, MD: Elongation Elongation is very important.
- 33:37No question about it.
- 33:38Alright, let's go to strength training then.
- 33:42how does a woman, what would you recommend for a woman as she's
- 33:46beginning her strength training career?
- 33:50Karin Weinstein: So you always have to take in into consideration where
- 33:53someone is coming from, right?
- 33:55What is their injury history?
- 33:57What is their exercise history?
- 33:59What are their goals?
- 34:00You know, is there something that you would like to be able to do?
- 34:03Travel and be able to lift your suitcase up into the
- 34:06overhead compartment on a plane.
- 34:08So those are all things that you wanna take into consideration.
- 34:11So you might start doing some overhead presses.
- 34:14You might start to do some, just sit to stands, simple squats, things like that.
- 34:20I always, always start with body weight exercise because
- 34:23if you're not able to kind of.
- 34:24Control your own body weight, yet we wanna have that down first
- 34:28before we start adding in more load.
- 34:30but when we start adding something simple like a dumbbell.
- 34:34I can start at three pounds, five pounds, because what I've, I've
- 34:38noticed is that women will walk around their house and pick up and
- 34:42move heavy things all day long, but the moment you give them a dumbbell,
- 34:46that oftentimes weighs less than that.
- 34:49There's suddenly a little bit of a step back, like I'm not
- 34:52capable of doing that yet.
- 34:54You know, they're moving bags of cat litter and dog food, and my KitchenAid
- 34:59mixer, I'm pretty sure weighs 25 pounds and they don't even think about it.
- 35:03They'll pick up grandkids, not give it a second thought, but you could ask them to
- 35:07lift a 10 pound dumbbell, and it's like you're asking them to move a mountain.
- 35:12Pam Peeke, MD: so what's going on with that
- 35:14Karin Weinstein: I just think it's psychological.
- 35:16I think first of all, I think women underestimate the strength
- 35:18that they already have oftentimes.
- 35:20So
- 35:21when,
- 35:21Pam Peeke, MD: point.
- 35:22Karin Weinstein: yeah, I think that they end up coming into a wheat room
- 35:25and there's just something different about a wheat having a number on it.
- 35:29Because now you know how much you're lifting and there's just
- 35:33something psychological about that, that really, that gets to people.
- 35:37And it's something that I use these comparisons oftentimes when
- 35:41I see that people are, hesitant to increase weight, I'll have a
- 35:44conversation with them and say.
- 35:46Okay, let's talk about who does the grocery shopping at home?
- 35:48Are you carrying the bags in when you do that?
- 35:51when you take a trip, are you carrying your own suitcase?
- 35:54And we'll start having a conversation and all of a sudden they realize,
- 35:57oh my gosh, I do this all the time.
- 36:00And it takes away some of the intimidation of actually using a
- 36:04dumbbell instead of carrying groceries, even though there's really not much
- 36:07different about the two of them.
- 36:09Pam Peeke, MD: I think that that's so important.
- 36:12I think we walk in with such stereotypic feelings, about what
- 36:17strength training's all about.
- 36:19and you know, I mean.
- 36:20We've seen on, TV and other places, all these beefy people, walking
- 36:27into, gyms and, doing their thing and they're very intimidating.
- 36:33Or you'll have these women who are kind.
- 36:35Jim Jockeys, who are ripped and shredded and you're like, oh my God.
- 36:40and here I am, just an average body and the rest of it, without realizing
- 36:45No, walk your behind right in there.
- 36:48You own it too.
- 36:50You paid to be there.
- 36:52pick up that weight and really start to do it.
- 36:55And I think that, to your point, once you begin to realize that you are
- 37:00strong, all of a sudden it's like, Hey, you know, this isn't so bad.
- 37:04I had the same feeling many years ago.
- 37:08think dinosaurs were ruling the earth at the time.
- 37:11you know, I was in my medical training and, uh, my residency.
- 37:16And I went to, you know, some little gym where I could escape and kind of, I found
- 37:22that being on a treadmill de-stressed me.
- 37:25'cause in those days all you had was a treadmill.
- 37:28And you know, that was about it.
- 37:30so, one day, a young man, and I'll never thank him enough, whoever
- 37:34the heck, he was just a sweet guy.
- 37:37He was a trainer.
- 37:38And he, Was working out in there and he walked up to me and he tapped me on
- 37:43the shoulder as I was on the dread mill.
- 37:46'cause I was bored to tears, but at least I was de-stressing and using my body.
- 37:52And he said, you know, have you ever thought about doing weights?
- 37:55And I said, what is doing weights?
- 37:58What is that?
- 37:59And he goes, let's just, you know, if, if I could take you
- 38:01over here to the weight section.
- 38:03I said, isn't that where guys hang out?
- 38:06And they said, yeah, you know, no question.
- 38:09But women too.
- 38:10let me, let me just, you know, so I kind of was a little cautious here.
- 38:15I'm like, where am I going?
- 38:16We went in there and he handed me weight and he said, give it a whirl.
- 38:21I'm gonna show you the form.
- 38:23Let's see what you can do.
- 38:24Well, I mean, the rest was his history.
- 38:26I took to it like a fish to water.
- 38:29I loved the feeling of power.
- 38:32It's like, whoa, you know?
- 38:34Like this feels, I've never felt like this before.
- 38:39And to your point, I'm sure I've lifted heavy stuff, but it never occurred
- 38:44to me to do it more deliberately without the purpose behind it.
- 38:50Like, okay, the 25 pound bag of dog food.
- 38:53Okay.
- 38:54That kind of thing, versus.
- 38:5725 pound, single arm dumbbell for a biceps girl.
- 39:02Hmm.
- 39:03That's interesting.
- 39:05What's that about?
- 39:06And so I think that it, it's a real mental play, isn't it?
- 39:12Karin Weinstein: Oh a hundred percent.
- 39:13I think women really just get in their own head about these types of things,
- 39:18and I think that the more we can make these connections to the everyday things
- 39:21that they're already doing, the more we kind of break down the barrier, you know?
- 39:26And then you have the whole, I'm afraid to get bulky thing, which is something
- 39:30that I hear over and over again.
- 39:32but.
- 39:32Women don't understand that when you see someone online or on social
- 39:37media who has a lot of muscle, they have worked so hard for that muscle.
- 39:43You have to eat a certain way to look like that.
- 39:46You have to work out a specific way and you're run of the mill.
- 39:50Generic strength training program is not going to make a woman bulk up like that.
- 39:56there are women out there who would like to get muscles that look like that, and
- 39:59they just have to work really hard at it.
- 40:02we have to do away with that whole, I'm afraid to get bulky thing because it's
- 40:06done women a huge disservice because there I, I actually am working with a
- 40:11client now who shows osteoporosis and the reason she did not strength train
- 40:15was because she was so afraid she was going to get bulky and she said, I wish
- 40:19I could talk to my 20-year-old self.
- 40:21And tell her what was going to happen if I stayed away from the weights.
- 40:25Pam Peeke, MD: I know, and you know, and for you and I who are lifelong
- 40:30athletes, you know, we pray to be bulky.
- 40:33We're like, please God.
- 40:34and honestly, between you, me and the walls, there's,
- 40:39genetics is a monster here.
- 40:41There's no question.
- 40:43I mean, you can't pray to be Serena Williams.
- 40:45You just can't.
- 40:46I mean, you're either Serena or you're not.
- 40:49so there you have it, number one.
- 40:51Number two, regardless, the training technique.
- 40:56It can be optimized, but you're gonna work, you're gonna work like
- 41:02there is no flipping tomorrow.
- 41:04You are gonna work if you wanna, you know, really tone it up and optimize
- 41:12the size of the muscles and stuff.
- 41:14And you're doing this obviously naturally you're not juicing or ridiculous stuff.
- 41:19and then honestly, what I tell women is.
- 41:23You know, your body's gonna take it where it's gonna take you and you'll
- 41:27look like whatever you look like.
- 41:30That's it.
- 41:30We're done.
- 41:31And you can't hope for.
- 41:34So, you know, I'm gonna ask you the question.
- 41:37So do you have anatomical parts that you're just like ridiculously proud of
- 41:43and that you were just sort of born really with some superb muscle in that area?
- 41:50Karin Weinstein: I mean, I think overall I'm a thin person.
- 41:54I've always been thin no matter how much.
- 41:56Strength training?
- 41:57I do.
- 41:58but I know that it's genetic, right?
- 41:59Because my dad was built the same way.
- 42:02His brother, his sister, they all had the same body type.
- 42:05And I got that body type, and that actually is hard.
- 42:10It wor, I feel like it almost works against me sometimes because I
- 42:13think sometimes people think I want them to look like me and I don't.
- 42:17Because to me what fitness is, is has very little to do with
- 42:21the way that your body looks.
- 42:23If your body is functional and it allows you to do all of the things that you
- 42:28want to do with as little discomfort as possible, that is a fit body.
- 42:34Right?
- 42:35So that's the.
- 42:37Picking up the bag of groceries, the dog food, going for a
- 42:41hike with your best friend.
- 42:42If you can do all of those things and not think twice about it, that's a
- 42:47type of fitness that I'm talking about.
- 42:49it's not a body type fitness because so much of that is driven by genetics.
- 42:56So much of that is completely, completely out of our control.
- 42:59Pam Peeke, MD: and that's where your, body fat lands, and I'm always laughing
- 43:04because I have literally a boy butt.
- 43:07Okay?
- 43:07I do not have a behind, you know, every time someone showed me j LO's or Beyonce's
- 43:14behinds, I'm like, I was fascinated.
- 43:16It was.
- 43:17How do you do that?
- 43:18I couldn't even, I was like, no.
- 43:21I'm just like a little, like a board back there.
- 43:24so I ended up with my father's butt and my mom actually has kind
- 43:28of the same kind of thing too.
- 43:30So body fat distribution is also.
- 43:35very much genetic and just look in your own family line and you could
- 43:41see people who kind of look like you.
- 43:43I'm not built like you at all.
- 43:45I'm a very muscular person, and so I look back in my own lineage, you
- 43:52know, involves Austria and Hungary.
- 43:55I'm like, I don't know.
- 43:56I'll look like 'em all.
- 43:59No wonder they're little hardy people.
- 44:01Good Lord Almighty.
- 44:02So, there's a point at which you just have to be realistic.
- 44:07And so I think a really good guideline is just simply do your best with the basics.
- 44:15Do your best with the basics, and then watch what your body does.
- 44:20And just allow it to go where it's going to go because that, you know,
- 44:26whatever God gave you, you're going to see it revealed in a big way.
- 44:31and I think that that's the wisest way to approach this and wipe out.
- 44:36From your mind, some expectation that your body is going to be transformed
- 44:42into some influencer's body.
- 44:46you could shop for a hair color, honey, but you can't shop for a
- 44:50new body that's not happening.
- 44:52instead, honor, respect, and absolutely cherish.
- 44:58The marvelous body that you've got and then optimize the heck out of it.
- 45:05Have fun doing it.
- 45:07to your point about finding things that give you joy, when you're doing it right.
- 45:12Does that
- 45:13Karin Weinstein: Yep.
- 45:14Yeah.
- 45:14Oh, absolutely.
- 45:15And, and we have to keep in mind too that women's bodies, Most women have
- 45:21a little bit of extra fat in front of their uterus because that's an
- 45:24area that the body thinks it needs to protect a little bit, right?
- 45:28So women oftentimes are trying to get rid of what they describe as
- 45:31that little, you know, pouch in the front, but that's there for a reason.
- 45:35It's protective.
- 45:36So I think we have to.
- 45:38Understand that most of the images that we see are doctored in some
- 45:42way, especially now with ai, which can actually do it on the fly.
- 45:46So you can be watching an influencer talking in a video, and at the same
- 45:50time you have no idea that it's cinching in their waist and making their busts
- 45:54look bigger and smoothing out wrinkles.
- 45:57And so we are comparing ourselves to these completely unattainable goals.
- 46:02And not only that.
- 46:03Every decade has had a kind of like a cool body type.
- 46:07And so the goalpost just keeps moving.
- 46:09You know, one year it's super skinny.
- 46:11Another year you wanna have a figure eight type body.
- 46:14Women cannot, possibly, we can't go there.
- 46:18Right?
- 46:18That's just impossible.
- 46:19So we have to let go of all of that.
- 46:22Pam Peeke, MD: Change your hair color if you feel like
- 46:24it, but you not gonna change.
- 46:26Your body, what you wanna do is rejoice and embrace your body.
- 46:32Love it.
- 46:33look at your Bo.
- 46:34Really study it.
- 46:35Go, damn, I've got a good back.
- 46:37You know, look at these legs, come on down.
- 46:40You know?
- 46:41And we could always do better.
- 46:44We could always continue to refine and get healthier and get more fit.
- 46:50Those are the goals.
- 46:51Healthy, get fit, skinny.
- 46:54No, no, no, no.
- 46:57We wanna be strong mentally, physically, wanna be brave, right?
- 47:03We wanna be bold.
- 47:05All of those things are the goals here, and that's why start
- 47:10with that meaning and purpose.
- 47:12Kind of go to that place and then keep it rocking from there on out,
- 47:17and start really building a strong foundation and an ensuing podcasts that
- 47:23we're gonna be doing in the new year.
- 47:25We're really gonna be looking at building a strong foundation,
- 47:29mentally and physically and just taking, you know, small steps.
- 47:34sticky steps, ones that will stick and that are ludicrously easy to do.
- 47:41Five minutes.
- 47:42So all I ask, five minutes, right?
- 47:46And then you go from there.
- 47:48And that includes meditation too.
- 47:50Uh, it takes too long.
- 47:51Well, you know, no.
- 47:54No, meditate for three minutes.
- 47:57Prove it to me.
- 47:58And then what will happen is you love it so much.
- 48:01Next thing you know, 10 minutes went by and you're like, uh, what happened?
- 48:05so do you see kind of where I'm coming from
- 48:07Karin Weinstein: Absolutely.
- 48:08Yeah, I couldn't agree more.
- 48:09That kind of goes back to setting those attainable goals, right?
- 48:13So we wanna make sure that something realistic.
- 48:15You're not gonna sit and meditate for an hour every day.
- 48:18But if you commit three minutes a day, that's doable.
- 48:21In that there's a sense of accomplishment that comes along with being able to check
- 48:25off that box each time that you do it.
- 48:28And
- 48:28I think
- 48:28Pam Peeke, MD: start building and you build upon that in a big way.
- 48:32Alright, tell everyone once again how they can find out about your wonderful
- 48:37work and potentially connect with you.
- 48:40Go for
- 48:40Karin Weinstein: Yeah, well, there are a couple of different ways.
- 48:42So you already gave my website information and my name is spelled with an I, so it's.
- 48:47K-A-R-I-N Weinstein, W-E-I-N-S-T-E-I n.com.
- 48:54in addition to that, I am an a strength coach for Kari Prehab.
- 48:59so that's another way you could find me.
- 49:01I'm going to be leading a cohort coming up at, well, in the new year.
- 49:05I have to figure out whether it's gonna be March or April, but I'm
- 49:08really looking forward to that as well.
- 49:10So those are both ways you can find and work with me a little bit.
- 49:14Pam Peeke, MD: Awesome.
- 49:15I can't thank you enough.
- 49:17This was just fabulous.
- 49:19Our little back and forth, really welcoming women to their own bodies is.
- 49:24Really what we're doing, Karen, thank you so much, and of course
- 49:29we'll have you back on many times to help build that strong foundation.
- 49:34So thank you again.
- 49:36Karin Weinstein: Thank you so much.
- 49:37It's been an absolute pleasure.
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