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make a wish · Dits & Dahs

Sue: Birthday candle. In America, when we go out for dinner or a meal that someone is celebrating a birthday, we usually do the devious thing and notify the staff ahead of time. Ha ha ha ha ha. I done it. I'm I'm on both sides of that one. Anywho, not making judgment, that's what all's saying. As you get out there, get to a place, even spontaneously, hey it's so and so's birthday. Pointing to the celebrant. Fake or real, who knows? And comes to the table a dessert with a candle that is lit. And the tradition, as ever, is always to think of something, a birthday wish, before you blow out the candle and it will be granted to you. Right? I talk about manifestation all the time in the terms of prayer, spell work, birthday candle manifestation, standing in front of the mirror all of the times, they always include. words, spoken or unspoken, with your energy, your little creative energy that you dynamo produce without you realizing it. That is your unconditional love to the depth that you feel it, the make what makes you happy, what gives you joy, and it goes out into the universe with that phrase or words attached, spoken or unspoken. And eventually the universe will pick it up and say, I hear ya. I heard it. I felt it. I know what you want. I'm gonna make it happen for you. And then at some point It arrives. It might not be in the exact manner that you ordered it, 'cause the universe has the option to do what it feels is the response to what you caused, and then you either recognize it for what it is, or you look at it and go, What the heck is this? Why am I receiving this? And you start asking questions about these things. And what happens is this and I'm speaking you today as someone who recently celebrated her sixty-fifth birthday, and I'm also looking at a picture of my fifth birthday. birthday, sixty years ago, with me at the head of the table, smiling with my mouth shut. I must have had some missing tea. But nonetheless I had my chin pointed up and a happy expression on my face and ⁓ I've got my left arm hanging over the arm of the chair, so I'm feeling pretty confident about the whole thing. And I have four of my childhood neighborhood friends, of which I'm recalling Jill and Kelly, maybe Nancy, but I'm not sure who the fourth one us is, was. And certainly don't recognize the five year old faces either, except for one or two. Anywho, the reason why I don't recommend, even now that I've had some thought about this over the last few days, I recommend not having birthday candle delivered to you. And I would even say not even put put on your cake at all. Because the power the the thing isn't the candle Per se that's just an object. Everybody says, we're gonna do candle magic and we're gonna put all of our intentions in the flame and focus on it. Yeah, you're gonna get results with that, but I'm gonna ask you this. Unless you're saying stuff that is really positive, stuff that you wanna receive, are you prepared to receive the negative stuff you're sending out because you don't like someone and figure it's the perfect opportunity without having to speak any words to just jump in on that wish energy and get your projection underway? Well That's what happens. You know, you're not the only person in the room observing that that candle is being blown out, whether you're doing it yourself or watching, you have the ability to channel collectively an energy which is based on the wish energy, because that's what it means. That's why you're doing this, and inject whatever your personal wish is to that originator's wish energy. You can freeload on it. It's not what you should do though, because that's spiritual trespassing. I don't care what you believe in, as one human to another, it is none of your business to get in on the energy of another whether you realize you are or not, you are. And to be aware that you may be opening yourself up to receive energies in the return because you weren't aware you were sending out an energy. Because after all, everybody loves wishing on a birthday candle. Everybody's in a good mood. They're celebrating. ⁓ it's going to be a really good result that I will get from this wish. I get it. But there are also people that don't vibe that way and you just don't realize it. They might not even fully realize it, but nonetheless because they might have an entity attachment for which they are unaware. It's so subtle, it's always been there. How else would you feel about certain things? They feel it's normal. And that entity projects an energy through that person without them being fully aware of what's going on. So if as the one who is instigating what is meant to be the wish on that candle or the vibe of just wishing everybody well spiritually in your thoughts. I recommend to be aware that you are going to receive it. So make it a good one. Make it a positive one. Make it a one that everyone feels as though they're enlightened by it. Because there's always going to be one or two people. You know, you could be in a public place. You c you got a whole bunch of people peeping up your scene. You can't guarantee who's in on the wish and who doesn't connect with it. So you got everybody out there looking on you. Who knows what they're up to? Who knows what entity attachments of. Your best survival tactic, spiritually speaking, is to be aware of it. And to make s certain that whatever positivity you're creating, you're giving it a little extra positive oomph to it as a safeguard, as a defense. You know, you don't go out of your way to be at war all the time with who you are spiritually, of course not. But you are at times you have to be aware enough to keep your defenses up in such a way that it's just simply a matter of being more focused. resonating with what you're saying. Maybe the thing to do is just to take the opportunity to flip it and make it public and say, here's what I'd like all of us to say in the spirit of sharing and celebrating today's birthday. Blah. Whatever those words are. Right? Because you know, probably some people have attended some sort of religious services in the company of others at some point. But you get to hear everybody speak out loud or sing a hymn. Or whatever the appropriate religious music accompaniment might be with lyrics. Or just it doesn't even have to be ⁓ a religious event. It can be just a community minded group of people coming together for singing the national anthem or God bless America or for whatever. Out of all of the God bless Americas that might have been sung during the seventh inning stretch on some baseball game over the this past weekend, the best way I can describe it was he got the words right. But I'll leave that there. Here's the thing. We've all been taught That this is a wonderful tradition. And on the surface it is, but it's also that which is an easy potential hack for dark energies to enter into the manifestation collectively and wreak havoc. And then what happens is that those who originated that energy are going to receive that negative karma in return. Unbeknownst to them, they're not gonna make two and two connections. You know, the battery ran out in my remote. I had a flat tire. You know, an unexpected subscription was renewing renewed and I had to scramble to cover the funds. All of those little minor things that all of us have experienced in life are signs that something energetically, negatively, is impacting you. And that you're not aware of what it is specific. If I defend my little borders, my aura a little bit and not allow people covertly to spiritually trespass me simply by changing that event and not make it happen. You're in control. You don't have to have a birthday candle to celebrate your birthday. I mean and actually celebrating your birthday has got to be done very graciously because after all we all have birthdays. ⁓ you want to have the kind of birthday that everybody wants to have. And that might just mean allowing the day to pass with a cute exchange of sentiments and maybe have a nice meal. As did I with my primary relatives last week. It was a lovely news, actually. Here's what I'm trying to say that when somebody objects or takes offense, when you say you wish not to have a birthday wish candle, or that you wish to make this a collective event where we intone the same words and sentiment together, by taking the time to reframe such a celebratory ritual means that you have a an opportunity To do a really positive thing and put more positivity in the universe for all to share. Because once you start feeding the negative energies, it means that you probably have somebody or group of people amongst you that have entity attachments and all they're concerned about is depleting their physical vessel that they are attached to. We don't want people to die quicker than they need to. We want them to enjoy their lives on and the control that they have of themselves. But when you have an entity attachment and it Expresses itself with negative energy through that person. You'll know it because you'll start having these weird things come. As someone who is a 1.0 ancient soul, I liken telepathy to being a tool that all of us, souls, have. The 2.0 souls read telepathy. They feel it. They may not understand it, but they once they start to relax into themselves and trust their discernment because they unconditionally love themselves, the telepathy, what They will recognize that those external feelings that they are experiencing and recognize them as not belonging to them and shouldn't be there, have been received because their tool of telepathy is sensitive to it. It's like it's like streaming music online. You can't alter it. You can listen to it, but you can't edit it or change it without additional tools. And in the case of a 1.0 ancient soul, I talk about not only being able to. feel telepathically those energies, but then to understand that when they're projected, they are projected by someone who can channel that telepathic energy to implant suggestions and imagery and vibes towards another soul. And once another telepathic old soul sees another telepathic old soul doing that, they both know that that projector has been intentionally spiritually trespassing on others. You have to have permission from that soul for another energy to connect with you. If not, it's nonconsensual. So if somebody repeatedly chooses to lurk in your energy, and you feel it but don't understand why, but you do understand that it's happening to you over and over and over again, that's spiritual harassment. That's somebody who has been told to stop it, but still persists. No, that's not you don't get to do that just because you want to do it. And you might not realize that you're doing it. It might be coming from a subconscious place. Hence the reason we all have to forgive ourselves. Because once you start to forgive yourself, you're gonna start feeling pretty ugly about what you did for a moment because that energy is going where it should go, goes back to you. And now you're gonna have to say, well, all right, am I gonna hang on to this energy and make myself miserable the rest of my physical life or am I gonna do something about it? Because frankly, it hurts. I'm gonna do something about it and expunge it from my soul. And that's when you start releasing that energy. And in my experience, because I can't speak to you, but you can try what I do and see if it works for you if you're interested, is simply to be aware of it and do my darndest to find the things that give me joy and do them. And it's not plain solitaire on your smartphones or tablets. It's reading a book on your tablet. It might even be drawing something on your tablet. It's somet you know, if you're into using smart devices to keep your brain occupied, start using them creatively. You don't even have to buy paper or crayons. Although I must admit, I'm old school enough to enjoy working with physical media when I'm drawing. But it doesn't necessarily mean that I have to do it that way anymore. My suggestion is by filling your brain with that sort of activity and keeping it positive ends up being much more important. Because when you fill your brain with good stuff, you're potentially learning something, you're gaining compassion towards someone or something. It's all in all that level of awareness that only you can do because people do this at different tempos, different speeds. And it's not for anyone to say what the right path is and how to do it and what tools to use and what not to use. No, it's just simply about finding something that gives you joy. Do that. And once you d get into the habit of doing that on a regular basis, whatever frequency it is is up to you, of course. is to recognize that at some point overall you're gonna feel more positive about things. That's your spiritual boundaries being raised to the point that ⁓ generally when somebody starts to pull that stuff with you, you can pull back and say, No, please don't. And those that respond in a negative way then have exposed themselves as having entity attachments. And you then have the opportunity to just recognize it as such and move on. And redirect that energy in a positive way. And it's not for us to tell people that they have entity attachments either, or how to get rid of them. Some are some have been there for generations, so it may not even feel like there's something attached to them that shouldn't be there. So what are you gonna say? They have to come to that on their own. Everybody does. And when they do recognize that they can trust in their discretion and and their intuition is being true to them, because intuition is true, then they they can factor in that what they are receiving, they are receiving via telepathy and that it is real. It is a vision, it is a sound, it is a smell, maybe even a whispered voice of words that guides you. And to take that as truth and if it's something weird, then it's probably not you. And to be able to understand how to be able to protect yourself ongoing just makes life a little easier. And nobody you know, when everybody around the table understands that it's not y you're not trying to be a party poop, you're just trying to redirect the energy in a more positive way, and that you've trusted the people around you to listen to you say this so that you understand, hopefully that you will get the response that you put out in the first place. Then people go away saying to themselves, Hey, I feel really good about that and I don't even know why and it didn't cost me a dime. It's a really small point, but just having had that experience in my family, and I'm very grateful that we had a chance to spend time together and do the things that we did. It just heightens my opinion now that has come about in the last few years more to the fore that is not a projection that should continue to persist in its traditional form. And I say this with the viewpoint that let's come up to your birthday and you've had a very tough year and maybe it's not the happiest birthday you've ever had in your life so far. Well, this is that time to be grateful what you for what you do have in a way that you're at peace with it, such that then you can look upon yourself and say, I don't have the money that I did when when I was such and such and such and such. But when I look at my picture sixty years ago as a five year old, what I see is two neurodivergent children based on facial expressions only. And one of them is me, and that is just with teeth missing, having a closed smile, but the light shining through my eyes, brightly as ever, and everybody's having a lovely time. Because in the end, if you're into zodiac, the Leo is the sun sign. It is that of which is strength. It is by which all of the zodiacs are dependent, including Leo, because we give life with our light. And that it shines brightly in this month in a way that everybody is grateful. As I'm grateful to be recognized as such for being a part of the universe right now. So ⁓ clearly that was happening when I was six years old too. Everybody looks like they're in a lovely time. I think Mom made the cake. I can't really tell what the cake was. It might have been the one where she ⁓ made a a coconut cake that looked like ⁓ a white poodle and took the blocks and did the icing and shaped it to make it look like a doggy. With any event, my point is this. Whether you choose to change the way that you celebrate your birthday with a birthday candle and wish, that's entirely up to you. I'm just providing food for thought here. Or an opportunity to have your cake. Then eat it. Thanks for your time. Thank you for listening and thanks for sharing your energy today. I'm grateful.