When a highly sensitive man stops distracting himself... (INFJ / INFP)

Lightbearer's Library · Sep 29, 2026 · 10m · transcript

We can spend years trying to escape the overwhelm of life. But what happens when we finally stop distracting ourselves and we're left wondering what we're supposed to do with our lives?

I've been thinking about this because my husband and I have both been feeling this sense of boredom lately. As highly sensitive people, we've stopped doing many of the things we used to use to pass the time, and yet there was still this feeling of emptiness that we couldn't quite explain.

And then we talked about it, and I wondered if perhaps what we'd been calling boredom was actually loneliness.

We're lucky…