Latest / She’s Smart / Dr. Katie Takayasu – Is It Stress… or Is It Perimenopause?
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- 0:02Hey, everybody. Welcome to She's Smart. I'm your host, Maria Robotham.
- 0:06Each week, we sit down with incredible women to talk about life,
- 0:10work, and everything in between.
- 0:17Today's episode is one I've been especially excited to share.
- 0:20If you're anyone in your late 30s, 40s, or early 50s, this conversation is for you.
- 0:26If you've woken up at 3 a.m. wondering what is happening to your body, this is for you.
- 0:32If you felt anxious out of nowhere, foggy, irritable, overheated,
- 0:36or just not quite like yourself, you are not alone.
- 0:39Today, I'm joined by Dr. Katie Takayasu. We call her Dr.
- 0:44Katie, an integrative medicine physician and founder of Wellness Insights in Darien, Connecticut.
- 0:50Dr. Katie is board certified in family medicine, fellowship trained in integrative
- 0:56medicine, and licensed in medical acupuncture.
- 0:59She completed her residency at Columbia University, New York Presbyterian,
- 1:03where she served as chief resident and has spent more than a decade helping
- 1:08women navigate the hormonal changes of perimenopause and menopause with clarity,
- 1:14science, and compassion.
- 1:15What I love most about Dr. Katie is that she walks the walk.
- 1:19Her journey through stress, burnout, fertility changes, and discovering acupuncture
- 1:24shaped the way she practices medicine today.
- 1:26She blends traditional Western medicine with evidence-based complementary therapies,
- 1:32thinking about the whole woman, mind, body, and spirit.
- 1:36In this conversation, we talk about what perimenopause actually is, why your anxiety,
- 1:42sleep changes, and mood shifts might be hormonal, what integrative medicine
- 1:47really means, the truth about menopausal hormone therapy, which was previously known as HRT.
- 1:53How nutrition, strength training, and stress management can dramatically change
- 1:57the season of life and how to advocate for yourself if you're feeling dismissed.
- 2:02This episode felt like sitting at a table with a brilliant, grounded,
- 2:06compassionate doctor who genuinely wants women to feel better,
- 2:10not just to get through it.
- 2:11So whether you're in it now, approaching it, or supporting someone who is,
- 2:16I hope this conversation fills your cup the way it filled mine.
- 2:20A very important note, this conversation is for educational purposes only and
- 2:26is not meant to replace personalized medical care.
- 2:28Every woman's body and health history is different.
- 2:31Please speak with your own health care provider before making decisions about
- 2:36medications, hormone therapy, supplements, or lifestyle changes discussed in this episode.
- 2:41Now, let's get cozy as we connect, learn, and laugh together on She's Smart with Dr. Katie.
- 3:18Today. I'm really grateful that you're here to chat with us.
- 3:21This all has tied in with the universe a little bit.
- 3:24Christine Dunst and I are doing a screening of this new docuseries Balance, a menopause journey.
- 3:31We're going to do a screening of it at Le Chat in two weeks,
- 3:34and we're going to just all watch it together.
- 3:36People can ask questions and just kind of women being in the same space,
- 3:41going through the same things.
- 3:43So talking to you, it's really poignant because this is what we're going to
- 3:46be talking about today, menopause, premenopause. You would You're a doctor.
- 3:50You also do integrative medicine. And I'm wondering if you could share a little
- 3:53bit about your personal and professional journey that led you to focus particularly
- 3:57on women's health and integrative medicine.
- 4:01I approach this part of my life so authentically, meaning I walk the walk,
- 4:06talk the talk, do all the things.
- 4:08I think it started when I was younger.
- 4:10I grew up in a very small town in Northwest Ohio, truly amidst farmlands. My town is 7,000 people.
- 4:18It's very tiny. My dad is the local doctor. And I grew up with this very holistic
- 4:24view of what family medicine was.
- 4:27And it was the person you drive your pickup on a Friday afternoon when there's
- 4:32a farming accident and you can't
- 4:33get to the local ER and like dad rushes over and helps you stitch up.
- 4:37I kind of knew that I wanted to do family medicine when I went to medical school,
- 4:40but it really was my journey in residency when I wanted to become pregnant and
- 4:47wasn't having a regular period.
- 4:49Stress was super high. I was eating too much hospital food, not moving my body
- 4:53enough in the right ways.
- 4:55I was getting off steps walking around the hospital, but not in a joy-filled
- 4:58exercise kind of way and really not paying attention to my sleep or my spiritual
- 5:02self, just feeling like a shell of a person.
- 5:05It was my primary doctor who listened to me, my family doctor,
- 5:09and said something like, you should go see my wife's acupuncturist.
- 5:14It was then that I really discovered on the table what it feels like to experience joy again.
- 5:21I thought to myself, I've got to figure out how to do this for other people.
- 5:25They have an integrative medicine fellowship.
- 5:27While I was pregnant with twins, I applied to a fellowship in integrative medicine,
- 5:32moved up to Stanford, Connecticut.
- 5:34And that's how I ended up in this area of the country. I've been practicing
- 5:37integrative medicine for just about 13 years. It's been fantastic, a great journey.
- 5:43Yeah. How are patients typically responding to this combined model.
- 5:48I personally am a huge believer in both sides.
- 5:51I really don't believe that in the United States we do enough preventative medicine.
- 5:55So many doctors just prescribe a fix.
- 5:57How are your patients typically responding to this model, the integrative part of it?
- 6:01Truly, I think they love it. And one of the reasons is that we care so much
- 6:06about the littler details.
- 6:08And also, I care immensely about my patient at this particular stage of their
- 6:13life, whether they're a 30-year-old or a 50-year-old or a 70-year-old.
- 6:17But I care even more about what it looks like when they're 85.
- 6:21Having watched grandparents in my own life age, I know what aging well looks like.
- 6:27We have to be trained at this stage of our life to prepare for what is to come.
- 6:32So when I'm doing squats in my workout class or at the gym, I'm not really thinking
- 6:37about how great my butt's going to look in my swimsuit.
- 6:40I'm thinking about my grandmother getting out of her car and squatting on her
- 6:45own toilet and climbing the stairs to her basement.
- 6:48That's what I'm training for. And that's what I want people to train for too.
- 6:52It's so funny when I see a perimenopausal patient who says something like,
- 6:57well, I've never had cholesterol problems before.
- 6:59And all at once, they're in the red. But when we look back at the trajectory
- 7:03and actually rewind several years, you can see it happening.
- 7:07It's creeping up, right? It's the hormonal sort of influence and the age influence
- 7:10and the genetic influence creeping up over time.
- 7:13But we don't pay attention to that in Western medicine because it didn't meet the cutoff.
- 7:18And these cutoffs are established for a good reason, right?
- 7:21When your hemoglobin A1c goes above 5.7%, your likelihood of complication goes
- 7:27higher. So we call that prediabetes.
- 7:29But what does it mean when you're 5.6 or 5.5? It's not normal,
- 7:34but it's not a diseased state either.
- 7:37So what can we do when we see these 5.5s, 5.4s?
- 7:41What can we do to reverse some of that aging that's happening and that insulin
- 7:45resistance or that cardiovascular disease?
- 7:48What can we do about it now to prevent a problem in the future or reverse what's actually happening?
- 7:53And I think if we were just a little more proactive and looking at things over the course of time.
- 7:58That we would do a better job overall. Yeah, absolutely.
- 8:03Let's go back just a second before we dive into menopause and perimenopause.
- 8:07Can you give like a brief overview of what integrative medicine is?
- 8:13Because I know what it is and I have friends who practice it.
- 8:15But for those listening who aren't really sure about what it actually entails.
- 8:20I always talk about integrative medicine as the beautiful marriage of regular
- 8:24Western medicine, along with evidence-based complementary modalities.
- 8:30Meaning that I'm trained in residency and medical school.
- 8:34I'm board licensed just like every other doctor, but I'm using other tools outside
- 8:40of just prescriptions to influence health.
- 8:42I'm thinking about supplements. I'm thinking about the impact of diet,
- 8:47of exercise, of sleep, of how we attend to our spiritual self.
- 8:51I'm thinking about adaptogens and helping people adapt to stress in their lives,
- 8:55I'm using different modalities that drive shift in the body and reduce inflammation.
- 9:01If we drill down to the root cause of problems in the body, it's unresolved inflammation.
- 9:06We all have short-term inflammation that comes and goes and it's normal.
- 9:10This morning I was lifting in the gym and I lifted a little too heavy. Now I have a little ache.
- 9:14That's an inflammatory process. I need that to happen in order for two days
- 9:18from now when I lift again to be in a repaired state, right?
- 9:21So I'll baby it a little this afternoon, do some foam rolling, put some ice on it.
- 9:26I'll maybe take some ibuprofen to dial down a little inflammation,
- 9:29but I don't want to squash that inflammation because I need it to improve my
- 9:32body again, get it back to normal.
- 9:34The problem is if we injure ourselves and instead of it resolving,
- 9:38it just hangs around and sort of smolders and the pot kind of bubbles over time.
- 9:44That unresolved inflammation is when we have trouble with our health.
- 9:48If we really want to fix our health or to improve it, we need to understand
- 9:53what are those root causes of inflammation.
- 9:54And I think that's what integrative medicine does. It uses all these different
- 9:58tools in a huge toolbox to really get to the bottom of that.
- 10:03Yeah, I wish every doctor did it. I really don't. I don't understand why more people don't do it.
- 10:08Just logically, it makes sense. Okay, so let's dive into the paramenopause and menopause.
- 10:14This, thankfully, has become really front and center in medicine over the last 10 years.
- 10:21Thank God for that because we really needed people to be studying women more.
- 10:25We are so different than biological men when we grow and build and become who we are.
- 10:31So what are the most common symptoms that women experience as they enter perimenopause?
- 10:39The big ones. What are some things that women might start noticing as they're going through this?
- 10:45You know, I think even to rewind it back one little step and say like,
- 10:49what is perimenopause? What is menopause?
- 10:51Just in case people are unclear on the definitions. And menopause is the one
- 10:55day in time that you have been 12 months without a period.
- 11:00Everything after that is postmenopause and everything before that is premenopause.
- 11:05And then we call that sort of blessed 7 to 10 years around that time perimenopause.
- 11:11And the hallmark of perimenopause is lots of change.
- 11:14A lot of women feel great when they are postmenopausal, when they've gone 12
- 11:18months or longer without a period, because even if things are different,
- 11:21at least they're not changing moment to moment, day to day.
- 11:25And that's what makes perimenopause so challenging for still women is that hormones
- 11:28can be really all over the place.
- 11:30I once had a patient who had a very indulgent doctor who was testing her FSH,
- 11:36follicular stimulating hormone, the brain hormone that is basically talking
- 11:39to the ovaries and directing estrogen traffic.
- 11:42It was measuring estradiol levels and FSH over the course of a year or two.
- 11:47And she was doing it every couple of months. and I am not kidding.
- 11:50Some days it looked like she was a 90-year-old woman. Her FSH was like 90.
- 11:56Her estradiol was undetectable. A few months later...
- 12:00It looks like she could get pregnant. Her FSH would be like 10 or 7,
- 12:04and her estrogen would be in the hundreds.
- 12:06It was wild. And I'd never really seen the data before.
- 12:09Just know that when you're having these ups and downs in perimenopause, they are real.
- 12:13And if we were all monitoring these hormones all the time, you'd see all that
- 12:17shift, all that shift to know what's going on in your body.
- 12:20Literally from head to toe, things start to shift. The first thing that tends
- 12:24to happen is someone in their late 30s or early 40s.
- 12:28And the average age of menopause is 51, but the symptoms can start a good 10
- 12:32or even more years earlier.
- 12:34So in your late 30s or your early 40s, you may start to notice changes that
- 12:38are affected by a drop in progesterone.
- 12:41Your periods may become a little heavier.
- 12:43You may notice them a little closer together. They may be more profound with PMS-type symptoms.
- 12:49You could also notice that you're not sleeping quite as well.
- 12:52Really having that like sort of prototypical wakening at 2 to 4 a.m.
- 12:56And having difficulty going back to sleep, you could notice that you're a little
- 13:00more anxious or more irritable.
- 13:01And those are often the soft signs that are happening early that people are
- 13:05just like, oh, I'm just anxious or, you know, I'm just having a sleeping problem,
- 13:09but probably are the very first signs of perimenopause.
- 13:13And then as testosterone starts to wane, and testosterone is waning sort of the entire time.
- 13:19That's when you'll start to notice things like libido change you
- 13:22could notice poor mood because testosterone generally helps
- 13:25us have very positive mood so you could see changes there
- 13:28you could sort of just see changes in your energy and feel tired when estrogen
- 13:32starts to decline and that tends to happen in the mid 40s to late 40s and into
- 13:36the 50s that's when you start having more prototypical symptoms of perimenopause
- 13:41so things like hot flashes night sweats changes to your vision and brain fog,
- 13:47and just inability to like word recall as quickly as you once did, right?
- 13:51I know. That one is terrible. It's the worst.
- 13:54Changes to your eyesight, changes to your hearing, changes at the dentist to
- 13:58your gums, dry mouth, or this awful thing called burning mouth of menopause,
- 14:03which is when you get this sort of.
- 14:05Fiery feeling in your mouth that kind of never goes away.
- 14:08You can get changes to your joints, changes to your muscles,
- 14:12changes to your digestion because, of course, anytime you're manipulating hormones,
- 14:16you can change the microbiome and that can change things up.
- 14:19You get cardiovascular changes. So just like our tissue and our vaginas gets
- 14:23less elastic, as we have less estrogen on board, our arteries also get less
- 14:28elastic. So we tend to get higher blood pressure, more cardiovascular disease and plaque formation.
- 14:33Our rates of stroke go up. We also have more dementia.
- 14:37And then, of course, the impact to bone, meaning we're at risk for osteopenia or osteoporosis.
- 14:43That's not even all the things. But literally, head to toe, there's something
- 14:47happening in every part of our body because there are estrogen receptors everywhere,
- 14:51not just in some of our tissues, but all the tissues.
- 14:54So there's the perimenopausal quick and dirty.
- 14:57That is a lot. So many of those things I have felt so far.
- 15:02I've been there. I know friends have been there.
- 15:05And there are times when I will wake up and call. My sister's two and a half
- 15:10years older than I am. I'm 47.
- 15:12I'll call my sister and she's slowly going through all these symptoms, too.
- 15:16I'm like, seriously, Christina, what is up with my legs burning with sweat in the middle of the night?
- 15:22What is happening to me by night? She's like, I know.
- 15:26Yesterday, all of a sudden, I had to throw open a window because I was dripping sweat.
- 15:30Like, she's a little bit further along. But at least we know now that when we
- 15:35talk to our friends or our sisters or our moms, you know, people in our lives,
- 15:39women in our lives, there's a team around you. everyone's in this club and everyone's welcome.
- 15:44No one really wants to be there, but we're all in it together.
- 15:48Knowing that these symptoms are happening to other people is very comforting.
- 15:52My mom, when she was going through it, barely felt anything.
- 15:56You know, that's genetics for you. When I talked to her about it,
- 15:59she's like, I didn't feel much.
- 16:00It's just comforting to know that we all are going through this and we're not
- 16:03one person having to deal with this whole thing.
- 16:05It's all these women are doing this at the same time together.
- 16:08That's exactly right. There's a camaraderie and going through this kind of phase of life together.
- 16:14And thank goodness we're talking so much more about it. It's hard to discern
- 16:18for our mothers and our grandmothers in further back generations,
- 16:21were they just not as aware?
- 16:23Did they get gaslit when they went to the doctor and they were having trouble
- 16:27sleeping or feeling hot or not, you know, not feeling like themselves?
- 16:31Were they just told, like, just suck it up and move on? It's hard to know.
- 16:35And it's also hard to know how much our environment is influencing these symptoms.
- 16:40The hierarchy of hormones, truly like your stress hormones, your cortisol,
- 16:45and all the things that play into our stress response are probably the most important.
- 16:49Types of hormones to really consider treating first, and then kind of like whittling
- 16:54your way down to thyroid and sex hormones last.
- 16:56And so if you are a stressed out person who's under sleeping,
- 17:00not working out, eating a lot of food out, or just not being mindful of what
- 17:05you're putting down the hatch, then those symptoms potentially could be worse.
- 17:09We do see women who are more clued in, potentially eating more whole organic
- 17:15soy, maybe doing more meditation, taking more better care of themselves,
- 17:19having less stress, actually do a better job, you know, through this perimenopausal timeframe.
- 17:23It's possible that you're had less stress in you and your sister.
- 17:27The symptoms are real. And I think it's important to look at all the pieces
- 17:31that contribute to them, including caffeine, alcohol, spicy foods.
- 17:36Sugar is a huge driver of vasomotor symptoms. And I cannot be the only person
- 17:41who has ice cream before bed and then wakes up in a drench in the middle of the night.
- 17:45Or if I have a glass of wine, as I sip the wine, I am saying goodbye to sleep that night. Yeah.
- 17:53The choices that we make, but then sometimes I'm like, this ice cream is so
- 17:56good, or I just really want this beautiful glass of Sancerre. And we make choices.
- 18:00And so, you know, we have to be okay with our choices as well.
- 18:04Oh, absolutely. Are there stages of perimenopause and menopause?
- 18:08You said menopause is just one day in time.
- 18:11Are there stages you go through to get to that one day? Does it fluctuate for different people?
- 18:18How much time it takes for women?
- 18:21Absolutely. It's a very individualized journey, and some people have kind of
- 18:26all of this happen in their later
- 18:2740s, and they kind of just go fast and furious through all the shifts.
- 18:31Other people have the shifts starting in their late 30s. It's so variable from person to person.
- 18:36The big key piece here is paying attention. If you're not feeling like yourself,
- 18:42consider the possibility that perimenopause is at play.
- 18:46If you are having regular breast tenderness, noticing that your periods are
- 18:50coming closer together and they're really heavy, or you're having lots of clots,
- 18:54or you're spotting all the time, or you just notice that you're irritable 24-7 with your family,
- 19:00these are signs that you should be thinking about the possibility of perimenopause playing into it.
- 19:05And I think all the time we either are gaslit and we're just like,
- 19:08oh, I just need to calm down or, you know, it's not me, it's them.
- 19:11The medical system does it to us as well.
- 19:13So I think we have to advocate for ourselves and really think concretely about
- 19:17what we can do to improve these symptoms because there are so many things to
- 19:21do. And hormones are one.
- 19:23And progesterone and estrogen and testosterone are wonderful.
- 19:25But there's also things like acupuncture and dietary change and all organic
- 19:30soy and omega-3 rich fish and magnesium and all sorts of things that can be so helpful.
- 19:35And we don't really exhaust all our resources there either.
- 19:39Yeah, that was one of my questions. The lifestyle changes that are most effective
- 19:43and like reducing the symptoms, especially early on.
- 19:47And you just answered it because those are all the things you can do.
- 19:51So how does the integrative medicine support the emotional and mental well-being
- 19:57during this transition? I'm an anxious person by nature.
- 20:01And now my anxiety has gone back up. And when I get on a plane,
- 20:04all of a sudden, I'm nervous again.
- 20:06So I recognize this and I'm like, okay, we do deep breathing. We listen.
- 20:11We, you know, all the tapping. I have all these different tools in my toolbox
- 20:15that I can use. But what can other people do to kind of help them emotionally
- 20:19during this change? Because it's a lot.
- 20:22There's a lot going on. Jobs, volunteering, animals, spouses.
- 20:28And then on top of this, there's so much internally going on.
- 20:32What are some things that women can do to help themselves get through this a little bit?
- 20:37There's a lot of data to support the use of cognitive behavioral therapy for
- 20:42insomnia and perimenopausal shifts.
- 20:45The reason that CBT is helpful is because there is some mental emotional work
- 20:51that can be done to challenge the thoughts that we have, to change our behaviors,
- 20:55to be a little bit more in line with what we want.
- 20:59To use those kinds of skills successfully, we first have to be aware of what
- 21:03we're doing and then make a pattern shift.
- 21:06And those two things are actually really hard.
- 21:09As far as taking care of your spiritual self, I'm a big believer in movement-based meditation.
- 21:15So one tool that I've used for years is yoga.
- 21:19And I make space in my life to do yoga on Zoom twice a week for an hour because
- 21:25when I walk away, I feel like a better version of myself.
- 21:29Yes, my muscles are stretched. Yes, I did some push-up chaturangas,
- 21:33but really it's because it changes my emotional state.
- 21:37And we can use other somatic therapies. You mentioned tapping.
- 21:41We could do things like tai chi.
- 21:43We could do acupuncture. We could do other somatic therapies that actually change
- 21:48the mental emotional state.
- 21:50That's a really nice way to get
- 21:53into that meditative state because it's not as difficult while
- 21:56you're moving and doing things state sometimes
- 21:59if you just want to sit down to complete physical and
- 22:02mental stillness your brain's like what are you doing and it's kind of still
- 22:05firing very fast right if you're moving through your life fast like i am and
- 22:10so it probably takes me the first 20 minutes of a 60-minute yoga class to get
- 22:14out of my head and actually even stop projecting to the teacher,
- 22:18like, why are we doing this move?
- 22:20This is so slow, or whatever crazy thoughts enter one's mind during that time.
- 22:25I think movement-based meditation would be very helpful.
- 22:28But I do think making space in your day for physical stillness is key.
- 22:33Physical stillness is hard for many of us who are on the go through the day,
- 22:37running kids around, maybe working a job, volunteering, maybe helping our elderly parents.
- 22:42It's just go, go, go all day long. And if you don't take any time for physical
- 22:46stillness, how is your brain supposed to take a break?
- 22:50The whole point of meditation, which I think is fascinating,
- 22:54is just to relax. Like it literally is a vacation for your brain.
- 22:58There's no other purpose other than allowing your brain to get out of that fight
- 23:02or flight response and back into the rest and digest parasympathetic place.
- 23:07But if we don't give ourselves space for that, it won't happen.
- 23:10And so the way that this might manifest for someone might be.
- 23:13God forbid, take a rest in the middle of the afternoon.
- 23:16Like if you just feel like you've had enough of the day and you have a few minutes,
- 23:21lie on the couch, sit in your office chair and close your eyes for five minutes.
- 23:25Or if you can't do that, go out and take a walk with no distraction,
- 23:29just for five minutes to air yourself out.
- 23:32And I know it's cold outside, but hey, they make really great winter coats and
- 23:36heated gloves, put them on.
- 23:37But these are tools that I use to still my mental space because if I didn't,
- 23:43I would run around like a chicken with my head cut off all the time.
- 23:46And I honestly wouldn't really feel that good.
- 23:48And I really wouldn't get that much done because I'd be too crazed.
- 23:51So we have to make space for these kinds of things. Deep breathing is another beautiful thing to do.
- 23:56And it's not hard. You just have to do it. The problem is we just blow right
- 24:01past it because we've got 10 things on our to-do list. It's inconvenient.
- 24:04And we need to make some inconvenience in our life to pause.
- 24:08I totally agree with you on that.
- 24:10So let's dive into hormone replacement therapy. because it's a big word.
- 24:15I have not talked about it yet. With my doctors, I don't know much about it.
- 24:19I just know it's out there.
- 24:20And I'm curious to learn more about it.
- 24:24So what is hormone replacement therapy in the realm of menopause and perimenopause?
- 24:31So they've actually returned it from HRT, hormone replacement therapy,
- 24:35to MHT, menopausal hormone therapy.
- 24:38And the reason that they've done that is because we're not really replacing the hormones.
- 24:43More likely, we're just supporting them. You don't have to be completely devoid
- 24:47of estrogen and progesterone to start menopausal hormone therapy.
- 24:51You could still be having a regular period or a slightly irregular period and start the hormones.
- 24:56You don't have to wait until things are truly all dried up before you start
- 24:59them. I think that's an important piece.
- 25:01The three components mainly are estradiol, progesterone and testosterone.
- 25:06We used to use things from coarse urine or synthetically to drive hormones.
- 25:12Now everything's being prescribed,
- 25:14mostly, is bioidentical. What's
- 25:17great about that is it's all available through your regular pharmacy.
- 25:20You can get bioidentical, meaning identical to your own hormones, available at CBS.
- 25:25They have them everywhere. And so the first thing people generally tend to use is an estradiol patch.
- 25:30There are three types of estrogens in our body, but estradiol is the most prevalent.
- 25:34So that's the one we use in patch form.
- 25:36And that one you generally change twice a week. The reason for the transdermal
- 25:40or through the skin application of the hormones is because it bypasses part
- 25:44of the processing in the body and thus lowers our risk of heart attack, stroke, and blood clot,
- 25:50but makes it a little more safe, which is amazing. And that's the standard of care.
- 25:54Generally, you start low and then you increase every month or two as the symptoms
- 25:58tell us. You don't necessarily need to check any labs.
- 26:01You don't need to know what your estradiol level is. If you're having symptoms
- 26:04and your doctor deems that estradiol is appropriate for you,
- 26:07then you can start it and titrate to symptoms, meaning if you're still having
- 26:10night sweats and hot flashes, even though you're on the patch,
- 26:13we'll just give you a bigger patch.
- 26:14Then we wait until those symptoms are gone or all gone.
- 26:17I tend to like perfection here, so I like to see all the symptoms gone.
- 26:20To balance that out, if you have a uterus, you have to give yourself progesterone.
- 26:24If you didn't, the estrogen would lead to proliferation of your lining.
- 26:28That would lead to lots of bleeding and aerobatic bleeding, which would not be very fun.
- 26:33The progesterone helps to balance that. In addition, progesterone is really
- 26:37great for helping with sleep and irritability.
- 26:40It kind of calms everything down. And that's an oral pill that's usually compounded
- 26:44in like peanut oil. So it's 100 or 200 milligrams.
- 26:48If you happen to be allergic to peanuts, you can find it from a compounding
- 26:51pharmacy like in a different form.
- 26:53But usually 100 or 200 milligrams, you could take up to 300 if you needed to.
- 26:57And that's once a night, every night.
- 26:59And then the third thing is testosterone. And there's a couple of different
- 27:02ways you can do testosterone.
- 27:04I like to check levels of testosterone before I prescribe it because I kind
- 27:08of want to see where we are and I don't want to overshoot the target.
- 27:11If you overshoot the target, it could lead to things like extra hair on your face or chin.
- 27:16In very rare circumstances, things like deepening up the voice and like that.
- 27:19So you would just prevent that from happening.
- 27:21We give them modest dose and then we check it again in a month.
- 27:24You can get testosterone either from a regular pharmacy, which unfortunately
- 27:28is dosed for a man, so it has to be then shifted over for a lady dose.
- 27:32It's not FDA approved for women yet.
- 27:35And if you don't go that route, you can do it from a compounding pharmacy.
- 27:39And one of the benefits of doing that is it's in a very small amount of cream,
- 27:43and that cream absorbs extremely well into the skin.
- 27:46So it's just a lot cleaner, a lot less messy, a lot easier to use,
- 27:50and the dose can be titrated up as needed. The number one thing that people
- 27:54notice from taking testosterone is that their mood feels better.
- 27:57In a couple months, they feel more positive.
- 28:00Sometimes people notice that their bone density improves, their ability to put
- 28:03on muscle at the gym improves.
- 28:05Once you're on estrogen and progesterone, it's worthwhile thinking about testosterone,
- 28:09or even before that, if you're having more libido or mood changes.
- 28:14Are these necessary to take testosterone?
- 28:16For the duration perimenopause until that menopause hits?
- 28:21Or do you continue taking it after menopause? At what point do they get weaned
- 28:26off of it and stop if they do at all?
- 28:29The guidelines years ago when we were trying to minimize hormone exposure was
- 28:34to stay on it for the least amount of time and then titrate off.
- 28:37But now the data looks like we can stay on it long term.
- 28:41Many women feel so good when they take hormones that they joke that you're going
- 28:46to have to rip this out of my cold, dead hands.
- 28:48Many people now are taking it for the duration of their life.
- 28:52I'm 45, almost 46, and being on hormones, I feel so much better,
- 28:57so much more even keel than I did before. I'm going to stay on it for the duration.
- 29:02I'm interested to see the impact over time on my bones, brain, and heart.
- 29:07Those parts of my body are really important to me, as well as my vaginal health,
- 29:10as well as my mental outlook.
- 29:12Like all these pieces are so
- 29:13important to me. Why would I stop something that's helping me age better?
- 29:18I still have to do my part on all the other fronts, but this is one aid.
- 29:21For many women, it's successful to take for a longer period of time.
- 29:25Yeah, that's very interesting. A lot of women, myself included,
- 29:30get kind of dismissed by their doctors when they bring up symptoms.
- 29:34Like, for example, I had this happen to me. I'm no longer with that doctor.
- 29:39I was talking about, you know, this anxiety I was having, the suggestion was
- 29:43to just go to a therapist.
- 29:45And I was like, well, I already do that. I know the triggers in my life that cause anxiety.
- 29:51This is different. This is a very different feeling.
- 29:54It's completely unwarranted. It comes out of nowhere.
- 29:56So I left that doctor because I was like, this is not, we're not aligned in this.
- 30:01Do you have any strategies for women to advocate for themselves during this process.
- 30:07When they're trying to get information, they're trying to get better,
- 30:10they know something's up, they're not sure what it is, but their gut is telling
- 30:13them something's going on.
- 30:15The biggest piece is that if you have the question in your mind,
- 30:18if this could be perimenopausal symptoms, then you need to search far and wide
- 30:23for the doctor who's going to have the conversation around what to do about the hormonal shifts.
- 30:27And if you're being pushed aside or told like, oh, this is just what you have
- 30:31to accept for this part of your life, or you're too young for hormones,
- 30:35then you just need to search for a different doctor.
- 30:38Because if someone can't even entertain the conversation, like they can't engage
- 30:43with you on that, they're clearly not going to be able to help you.
- 30:46Are hormones going to solve all your problems?
- 30:49Absolutely not. They are just another aid. Like you said, I'm already going
- 30:53to therapy, but I'm having anxiety. If it was really the only thing you needed...
- 30:57You wouldn't have symptoms, right? And I think that's the key part of this. It is multifactorial.
- 31:03It's not just one thing for us to pretend like it's all hormonal or it's all
- 31:08life stuff or it's all my own anxieties about things.
- 31:11That's very short-sighted. Integrative medicine is so helpful because we naturally
- 31:15take a multifactorial approach.
- 31:17It's always about what are the many tools that we can use to help solve this problem?
- 31:22It's not just one tool that will help. I think that's another reason people
- 31:26don't love traditional medicine because it is just prescription writing heaven, right?
- 31:31It's just a prescription. Oh, you're having this, here's a prescription.
- 31:34Not really drilling down into where is this coming from?
- 31:37What are the situations leading to this? for you having
- 31:40an unexplained feeling of anxiety or
- 31:43anxiety that crops up when you're doing something stressful like
- 31:46flying it's worthwhile thinking what can i do
- 31:49both from a mind body and a spirit way to make that feel better hormones could
- 31:54be great and they could be one piece of the puzzle the other piece of that is
- 31:58you need a fertile ground in which to plant these interventions if you're not
- 32:01eating well if you're not getting enough sleep if you're not exercising if you're
- 32:05not having a moment of stillness in your day.
- 32:08Like it doesn't matter if you take hormones or do acupuncture or all these other
- 32:12things because there's no fertile ground in which these flowers to grow.
- 32:16So you've got to do your part in the lifestyle front.
- 32:19And that takes, let's be honest, that takes a lot of work, a lot of effort.
- 32:23Yeah. You live a plant-based diet, right?
- 32:26I am plant forward. So I'm not only plants, I eat animals too.
- 32:30I just want to make sure that people are clear that I do love and eat animals.
- 32:34Okay. So plant forward diet.
- 32:35Good. I'm glad you corrected me on that one. Let's talk a little bit about nutrition
- 32:38through all of this. I've worked with Christine Dunst of Embody.
- 32:42She changed my life with her help. And,
- 32:46she's been such a great guide for so many women. When you're going through this
- 32:51with a patient, what are some steps that people can take that you like to suggest
- 32:56that can help start them on a path of feeding themselves well?
- 33:00If you're not putting the right things into your body, your body's not going
- 33:03to give you what you want back.
- 33:04Like, you've got to put the right things into it. So we're going through this
- 33:09new change and our body needs different things.
- 33:12So what are some things you'd like to talk about adding into that diet and that
- 33:16nutrition to really feed and fuel the body?
- 33:19So I think the most important thing is to really think about the quality of
- 33:24the food that you are eating.
- 33:26When I say quality, I'm talking about organic and farm-raised and all the qualifiers.
- 33:31It does matter if you are eating organic grass-fed meat versus the cheapest
- 33:36form at another grocery store. Those little kinds of things matter.
- 33:40Organic does matter. Not only does it tastes better, but actually having less
- 33:44pesticide residue on your food makes you healthier too, right?
- 33:48We don't want to ingest all that stuff.
- 33:50But if you don't have access to those kinds of foods, and many grocery stores,
- 33:55especially in the middle of our country, you have to think about the quality
- 33:58of the components of what you're eating.
- 34:00You can eat a holistic diet with lots of fresh vegetables and whole grains,
- 34:06but if you're not getting enough protein or fiber, it doesn't matter that it's
- 34:10an organic grass-fed diet because you're not getting the right components.
- 34:14So there's this intersection to me of holistic nutrition, the quality of the
- 34:19food that we're eating, alongside fitness nutrition.
- 34:23Are you getting enough protein? Are you getting enough fiber?
- 34:26What's your carbohydrate intake like? And how does that correspond to how you
- 34:30move your body every day?
- 34:31What's this intersection of fitness nutrition and holistic nutrition?
- 34:35From a fitness perspective, we all need more protein as we get older.
- 34:39It is a virtual certainty. When we are little, I read the stat once and it just stuck with me.
- 34:44You can get a little kid's muscles to grow with as little as seven grams of protein.
- 34:49So if you send your kid to school in the morning and give them a piece of sourdough
- 34:54toast smeared with peanut butter and one egg, like they've got enough protein
- 34:59that they can make muscle.
- 35:00But you give that same thing to a 40-year-old woman, it's not quite enough protein
- 35:05to stimulate her muscles to grow.
- 35:07So getting at least 100 grams of protein down the hatch every day is incredibly important.
- 35:13And that's hard because most of us are not trained to eat that much meat or
- 35:17chicken or eggs or egg whites or protein powders or Greek yogurt.
- 35:22But those kinds of things can be really helpful. And certainly it's helpful
- 35:25to do it with plants as well.
- 35:27So adding in things like full organic soy or lentils or legumes are great sources
- 35:32of protein and complex carbohydrates.
- 35:34And then I think where we really lose out is that a lot of women eat really
- 35:37low carb, especially when they're trying to be super healthy.
- 35:41And if you eat too low carb, you just don't have as much energy as you need to get your stuff done.
- 35:46And you certainly don't have enough energy to run around all day or,
- 35:49you know, do burpees at the gym or whatever it is that you're doing.
- 35:53So this idea of getting enough carbohydrate in our bodies that we're getting
- 35:56somewhere between 25 and 40 grams of fiber a day, as well as a good amount of
- 36:01carbs that give us energy is important.
- 36:04How do you know Oh, if you're getting all these things, you may actually have
- 36:07to do some calculations and take an average three days in your life and track
- 36:11it and then do some calculations and say, oh, I am only eating about 80 grams of protein or shoot,
- 36:17I'm only eating 15 grams of fiber.
- 36:20If that seems overwhelming, that's where health coaches and people like Christine
- 36:24and people that I work with come in because we can help guide you.
- 36:28If all that seems very overwhelming, then just come back to plate real estate.
- 36:31And when I say that, I mean, look at your plate and say, I'm going to fill half this guy.
- 36:36With good vegetables. I'm going to fill about a quarter of it full of protein,
- 36:41both from plants and animals.
- 36:42And then I'm going to give the remainder to a little fat and some complex carbs.
- 36:46And on the days where I might be doing a little more physical activity,
- 36:49I hit my 10,000 steps, I went to the gym, well, then I'm going to eat more carbs.
- 36:53And if I have a day where I got to do a bunch of desk work and drive my kids
- 36:56around, well, you eat a little less.
- 36:58And you just kind of flex it that way and see how you feel. I always joke with
- 37:02patients, aside from cocaine, if you take something or do something and you're
- 37:06like, this makes me feel better, you're probably doing something really great for your body, right?
- 37:11Pay attention. If you eat a certain way and you're like, damn,
- 37:14this feels good, you should continue doing that.
- 37:16If you eat a certain way and you're like, this does not feel good,
- 37:19even if it's quote, quote, right for everybody else, then it's not right for you, right?
- 37:23I love this. I love the plate real estate. That is something that I think everyone can get behind.
- 37:29I've never heard that before. And I think that is such an easy way to get what you need in,
- 37:35in not a way where you're counting and tracking, you know, because there are
- 37:42some people who can't, won't track.
- 37:46They've had history of whatever. Eating disorders, it's a trigger.
- 37:49But knowing that plate real estate, it's just perfect.
- 37:53Makes so much sense. Oh, it's so great. I had a patient once who was like,
- 37:57you should make a plate, like you should is like a baby plate,
- 38:00you know, like with the sections. And she's like, you should design a plate.
- 38:03I'm like, next life. Next, next life. When I have more time. When I have more time.
- 38:08Yeah, yeah, yeah. That made me think of a question. But again,
- 38:11with this mind now, I forget them sometimes. This is what happens. It just escapes us.
- 38:16So you had mentioned if you had a uterus. So women who have hysterectomies,
- 38:21are they immediately into a menopause state?
- 38:26Or will they have fluctuations in hormones as well?
- 38:29So I'm wondering, what does that look like, this transition for women who have to go through that?
- 38:36People get hysterectomies for all sorts of reasons. Probably the most common
- 38:40reason is fibroids that are leading to heavy bleeding.
- 38:43Those are super common because they're estrogen-driven. In that earlier part
- 38:47of our 40s, we tend to have that imbalance of estrogen and progesterone.
- 38:51Fibroids can grow more and cause even more bleeding.
- 38:54If you decide to get a hysterectomy, you can decide at that juncture to take
- 38:58the ovaries or leave them.
- 38:59In a hysterectomy, generally, unless you have, say, a BRCA2 gene or a family
- 39:05history of some kind of ovarian situation that you want to prevent,
- 39:10most times, unless there's something wrong with your ovaries,
- 39:13they will leave them, and they'll take maybe the fallopian tubes and they'll take the uterus.
- 39:18So you won't have any more periods because you have nothing to bleed,
- 39:22but you'll still have the fluctuations of perimenopause because you still have your ovaries.
- 39:27Even though you don't have bleeding to understand where you are in perimenopause,
- 39:30you can use your other symptoms to help you figure out, am I still cycling and
- 39:34what I might do around that.
- 39:36Now, if you have your uterus removed, the body does shift its hormones on its
- 39:40own, which is kind of strange.
- 39:42You'd think like everything would be just the same the next day if I just didn't
- 39:46have a uterus because I still have my ovaries.
- 39:48But sometimes you can have an onslaught of perimenopausal symptoms that are
- 39:52more significant after the uterus is removed.
- 39:55If you have your ovaries removed because of, you know, something that,
- 39:59you know, that needs removed or you have ovarian cancer or you have a torsion
- 40:03or something happens where you need the ovaries removed and you go into surgical menopause.
- 40:07Then you need hormones the very next day, unless they're contraindicated for some reason.
- 40:12Because then you'll go rip-roaringly fast into menopause.
- 40:16And that can feel really, really bad. And so, you know, whether the rest of
- 40:20perimenopause is very, you know, it's erratic, but it's kind of over the course of many years.
- 40:25That happens, you know, in the course of hours. And so it makes sense to then
- 40:30try to think, am I a candidate for menopausal hormone therapy and can I start that right away?
- 40:34Many people will start an estrogen patch right away after they have the hysterectomy
- 40:39or take out the ovaries to help with the estrogen withdrawal.
- 40:42You don't necessarily need progesterone if you don't have a uterus.
- 40:47So if you had a hysterectomy, you could just use estradiol.
- 40:51Some women like to use progesterone even though they don't need it for the endometrial lining piece.
- 40:55They like it because it makes them feel calm and because it helps them sleep
- 40:58better, even if they don't need it for that bleeding risk. You can do different
- 41:03combinations of things, but if you have a hysterectomy, it's important to think about hormones.
- 41:08Or if you have your ovaries out, it's a definite, you want to have this conversation.
- 41:12And of course, there are contraindications, but many women are able to successfully
- 41:16use menopausal hormone therapy after having their ovaries out.
- 41:20This has been such a wonderful conversation. I have learned so much.
- 41:24I think everyone listening to this is going to learn so much and hopefully take
- 41:28the knowledge when they talk to their doctors to get better help,
- 41:33which I think is the key in all of this as we're getting educated, right?
- 41:37Absolutely. Thank you so much for being here with me. I really appreciate your time.
- 41:42I'm sure there are more questions that I have that will pop up,
- 41:44but as I'm thinking about this, some of them get lost.
- 41:47It happens. That's all right. That's the name of the game for this stage of
- 41:51life. But I've enjoyed this too. You're so easy to talk to.
- 41:56Sincerely, you bring such a sense of genuineness to the work that you do.
- 42:00And the other podcasts that I was listening to prior to this episode being recorded,
- 42:05just so I had a flavor of how you operate.
- 42:07You have such a sweet, very genuine way with your guests. So thank you for that.
- 42:12Thank you. Thank you so much. Thank you for that. You're so welcome.
- 42:16We can both fill each other's cups today. Thank you. Yes.
- 42:19I'm going to go lift my weights now. Yeah, for sure. Go and try to get out there
- 42:23and negative 10 or whatever. It's cool. Get your long underwear off.
- 42:27Thank you so much for being here. I really appreciate your time. Of course. My pleasure.
- 42:31And we will talk soon. Thank you. Thank you so much for joining me today on
- 42:36She's Smart. New episodes drop every other Thursday.
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