Why You Keep Falling for the Wrong Person — Your Nervous System Has the Answer

The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi · Apr 10, 2026 · 37m

The connection feels electric. Intense. Like nothing you have ever experienced. And it is also somehow familiar in a way that feels almost like coming home. That feeling is not love recognizing itself. It is your nervous system recognizing a pattern. The most toxic relationships often feel the most magnetic — not because they are right but because they match something unresolved inside you. Jesseca Maria works specifically with the gap between who you are drawn to and who is actually good for you — and what she shares about nervous system activation, attachment patterns, and why healthy love…