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Integrity, Love and Permission: My Approach to Channeling · Grounded and Guided: Channeled Insight, Real Life Lessons and Spirit Lead Conversations for Transformation and Change

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  Hello world and welcome to Grounded and Guided.
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  I'm your host, Lynette Walham, and I'm so glad that you could
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  join me here in this moment.
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  This episode is about my mission, my purpose, and approach as a channeler
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  energetic healer and entrepr.
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  If you've ever been interested in working with me, curious about what
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  I do or just desiring to know me a bit better, this episode is for you.
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  So my mission and purpose has really evolved over time.
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  The more I've chosen to step into this role walk down this path, take
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  this journey, however you might define that, it has really evolved over time.
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  A few years ago though, it really landed very deeply with me that my
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  purpose is to help people heal and.
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  That is really evident in the work that I do, and it might seem a
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  bit broad, that help people heal.
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  So let's take that to the core.
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  At that core, I recognize the work that I'm doing as a channeler and an energetic
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  healer . is really just helping people to release their conditionings, their
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  beliefs, their traumas, their energetic blocks, so that they can just reconnect
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  with their truth, their authentic self, and they can move away from a life
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  that's just completely based on surviving to one that is more soul aligned.
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  Now working in those areas of traumas and getting to the roots of people's
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  conditionings and programmings and beliefs that are really holding them
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  back, keeping them small, causing them a lot of suffering in life.
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  Those can be big things.
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  And honestly, I do not take this work lightly.
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  And I think a lot of, my approach really comes from my past career as being
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  a agriculture and business banker.
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  That role meant confidentiality and integrity were super important.
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  Without those two fundamental pillars, there is no way that I could
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  have had a business in that space.
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  There's no way that I would've had a solid, reputable
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  relationship with my clients.
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  And so I have taken that integrity and confidentiality and I have
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  brought it into the business and my practice with Lynette Welcome Energy.
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  I recognized when I worked in that banking role, I also created a space
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  that just allowed people to open themselves up to me and tell me
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  things, and I could hold that for them.
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  And I feel like that is a characteristic within me that I bring to my space,
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  bring to my practice every day.
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  I often say to my clients.
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  Thank you for trusting me with your energy, and I really do believe
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  that, like I don't take that lightly.
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  I recognize that there is a certain level of trust that you are instilling
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  with me when you choose to work with me.
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  And I really wanna honor that and I wanna respect that with confidentiality
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  and letting you know that.
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  The container that we work in, the work stays in that container.
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  It stays between us,
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  and I feel like that is really important for safety.
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  Over the past year I have created a new awareness around safety and how
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  important it is for someone to feel safe especially when we're doing this
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  work of working with our emotions, maybe opening up some deep wounds,
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  some core wounds, some inner child.
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  Awareness.
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  And so I feel it's just really important that I do whatever I can
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  in my ability to help you feel safe.
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  So I recognize the language I use is a safe and sacred space.
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  So as a practitioner, I am.
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  Healing and growing and working on myself so that I can maintain the integrity
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  of that safe and sacred space for you.
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  So we clear energetically the space that we are going to work in.
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  So whether it's a physical space or we're working virtually, I am clearing
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  that space and putting some boundaries up so that container can be held and
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  we can't be , infiltrated or inundated by energies that are not welcomed.
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  So there's like that energetic safety, but I also do a lot of work on myself
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  to make sure that I can hold you in that manner that you need to be held as
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  I stepped into this role choosing to be a channeler and an energetic healer.
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  I did a lot of inner work on myself, and I did not do that inner work alone.
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  I worked with another practitioner, another energetic healer, and that process
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  helped me see, feel, know, understand the type of practitioner that I wanted to be.
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  In that container with that practitioner, I felt so held, seen and safe, and
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  so it was just really important to me that I do my very best to create
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  that same type of environment for the people that choose to work with me.
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  And sometimes safety doesn't come right away.
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  We have to safety and so we can do that together.
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  Sometimes it takes a bit of awareness and maybe a few actions on your side
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  before you are maybe ready to work with me or even other practitioners.
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  I say this often to the people that I work with.
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  And that is you only get what you are ready for.
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  And so there is an element of safety even with that in that we're not going
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  in and opening Pandora's box, I guess you could call it like opening up.
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  And now everything is just flooding out and you have to
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  deal with everything all at once.
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  Absolutely not.
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  Psyche can't handle that.
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  So we work on what is needing awareness, love, and attention in the present moment.
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  So sometimes that means that you might need to work with me over
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  a course of a period of time because we do need to remove.
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  Some of those very surface, top layers in order to do some of the
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  deeper work that you are wanting.
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  And you may not realize that is what you are wanting at the time,
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  but that, very well could be like where you are desiring to go.
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  And that safety comes to with permissions.
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  I don't just walk around moving through life, tapping into people's
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  energy and reading people's.
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  Mind, body, soul, and spirit.
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  That's not how I work.
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  As I mentioned before I hold myself to a pretty high level of integrity
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  and this work is very much about when someone chooses to work
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  with me, they provide me with the permission, and then we go from there.
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  And sometimes booking with me and showing up into that container,
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  whether it's virtual or it's in person.
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  Sometimes that's not enough permission.
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  I very much can recognize when there is.
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  A level there that we haven't quite really met.
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  There's a certain threshold, of permission that I require in order
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  to do my very best work for you.
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  And sometimes we have to do a bit of a verbal walkthrough through those
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  permissions so that you are open enough for me to do the work that I need to do.
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  And that means like tuning up and tuning into you.
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  So I'm only really tuning up and tuning into you right before we
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  work together in the container.
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  And again, that's about a permissions.
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  Thing and an integrity thing for the people that I work with.
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  But it also is about a little bit about me too, in that I cannot really tune up and
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  tune in to everybody, every environment, every place, everything, all the time.
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  That is not energetically sustainable for me.
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  So I tune up, I tune in when I'm going into a session and working with
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  somebody, and then when we step out of that container, I am then cutting,
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  severing and disconnecting from you closing off that energetic container.
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  And I am releasing it so that we are no longer connected.
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  Another aspect that is a part of my mission and purpose and how I
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  show up as an entrepreneur and an channeler and energetic healer is
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  centered around love and neutrality.
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  So I really do honestly believe that love is the answer that love heals.
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  That love conquers all, and I do my very best to just love you as you are, how
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  you need to be loved in that moment.
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  I also recognize a huge factor in the success of our work
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  together is my neutrality.
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  And as I have mentioned, I've done a lot of work to heal myself
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  and get myself to a place where I can safely hold space for others.
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  And to be able to do that without bias, without judgment, with neutrality, it
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  is very hard for someone to feel seen.
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  Safe and heard if the person that they are confiding in is holding
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  judgment, has preconceived notions as a biased, as an attachment to the
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  outcome, and that is not my role.
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  I do my very best to clear myself, to keep myself neutral.
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  And that is really important so that I am a clear channel for your
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  support team for the messages that are meant to come through for you,
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  and it's very important so that I can hear all of that really clearly.
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  And I can provide those insights, those perspectives that are unique to you.
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  That will serve your highest and greatest good.
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  And that's another part of approaching this work with love,
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  is to recognize that the messages, the insights, and the guidance.
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  That comes forward is coming from a place of love.
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  Your support team loves you.
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  Your spirit guides your soul, family, past loved ones, angels.
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  Source energy is all rooted in love.
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  All of these souls and beings, they want you to be your highest
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  and greatest and best self.
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  So the messages.
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  They come from love, and I feel like that allows us to be able to
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  receive them in a very beautiful way.
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  So there you go.
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  That's how I approach my practice.
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  That's how I approach how I work with a client, and that's my purpose.
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  That's my mission.
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  That's why I'm here.
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  That's why I'm showing op.
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  As a channeler and energetic healer, and that's why I am putting this
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  information out, sharing myself in podcast form is to help people heal.
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  Thank you so much for sharing this moment with me.
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  I appreciate you.
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  If you want to stay connected with me and this podcast, please subscribe to the
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  Take care everybody.