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Preparation Is Positioning You To Win | EP 310 · Confident and Empowered Women

• 0:05
  The
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  messy
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  middle
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  is
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  not
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  a
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  waiting
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  room.
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  It's
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  a
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  training
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  ground.
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  It's
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  preparing
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  you
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  in
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  order
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  to
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  position
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  you
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  for
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  everything
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  that
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  you
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  asked
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  for.
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  And
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  every
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  choice
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  you
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  make
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  in
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  this
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  season
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  is
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  a
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  vote.
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  The
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  question
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  is,
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  which
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  version
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  of
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  you
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  is
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  getting
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  the
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  most
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  votes?
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  Who
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  you
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  were,
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  who
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  you
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  are,
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  or
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  who
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  you
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  say
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  you
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  wanna
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  be?
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  Because
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  the
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  version
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  of
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  you
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  that
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  gets
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  the
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  most
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  votes
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  is
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  the
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  version
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  of
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  the
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  life
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  you'll
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  live.
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  So
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  let's
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  really
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  get
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  into
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  it
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  Hey,
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  hey,
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  hey
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  friend.
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  Let
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  me
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  formally
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  welcome
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  you.
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  I'm
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  Letitia
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  Hopkins,
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  your
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  identity
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  shift
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  coach
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  and
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  founder
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  of
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  Encourage
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  Over
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  Everything.
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  You
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  just
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  found
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  your
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  new
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  favorite
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  podcast.
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  This
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  is
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  Confident
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  and
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  Empowered
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  Women,
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  and
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  we
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  are
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  here
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  every
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  Tuesday
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  and
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  Thursday
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  helping
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  you
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  step
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  into
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  your
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  main
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  character
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  era.
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  So
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  hit
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  subscribe
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  so
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  you're
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  always
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  in
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  the
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  room.
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  And
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  to
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  my
• 1:04
  CEW
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  girlies,
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  you
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  know
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  the
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  confident,
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  empowered
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  women
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  girlies
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  up
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  in
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  here,
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  hey
• 1:09
  friend,
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  welcome
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  back.
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  I
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  am
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  so
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  glad
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  you're
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  here.
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  And
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  now
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  that
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  we
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  are
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  all
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  gathered
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  here
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  today,
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  let's
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  go
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  Okay,
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  friend,
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  can
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  we
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  talk
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  about
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  the
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  messy
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  middle
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  for
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  a
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  second?
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  Because
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  you
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  said
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  yes
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  to
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  the
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  dream.
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  You
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  did
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  the
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  vision
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  board,
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  you've
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  prayed
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  over
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  it,
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  you
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  even
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  declared
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  it,
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  and
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  then
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  you
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  got
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  to
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  work,
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  and
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  the
• 1:34
  work
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  is
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  happening.
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  You
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  can
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  feel
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  it,
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  but
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  the
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  results
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  aren't
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  quite
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  showing
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  up
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  the
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  way
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  that
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  you
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  expected.
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  Not
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  yet
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  anyway,
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  and
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  that
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  gap
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  between
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  where
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  you
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  are
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  and
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  where
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  you're
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  going,
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  it
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  is
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  the
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  hardest
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  place
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  to
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  stay
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  faithful.
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  And
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  I'm
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  not
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  gonna
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  sugarcoat
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  it
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  today
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  because
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  we
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  do
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  ourselves
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  a
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  disservice
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  when
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  we
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  skip
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  over
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  the
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  sting
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  of
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  it,
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  because
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  there
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  are
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  parts
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  of
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  the
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  messy
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  middle
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  that
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  hurt.
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  They
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  are
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  the
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  days
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  when
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  the
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  dream
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  feels
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  so
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  far
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  away
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  that
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  you
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  just
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  start
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  to
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  question
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  everything.
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  You
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  start
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  to
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  wonder
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  if
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  you
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  made
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  the
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  right
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  call,
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  if
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  you
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  should
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  just
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  turn
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  back,
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  Ditch
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  the
• 2:21
  dream
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  and
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  lick
• 2:22
  your
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  wounds.
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  You
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  wonder
• 2:26
  if
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  you
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  should
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  just
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  go
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  back
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  to
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  what's
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  familiar
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  even
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  though
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  familiar
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  wasn't
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  fulfilling,
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  the
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  pain
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  of
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  the
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  in-between
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  can
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  be
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  so
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  loud
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  that
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  it
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  drowns
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  out
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  the
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  progress
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  you're
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  actually
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  making
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  And
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  this
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  season
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  has
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  a
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  name.
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  It
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  is
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  not
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  the
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  stuck
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  season,
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  and
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  it
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  is
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  also
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  not
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  synonymous
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  with
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  your
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  favorite
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  four-letter
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  cuss
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  word.
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  It's
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  not
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  the
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  forgotten
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  season
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  or
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  maybe
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  it's
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  not
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  for
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  me
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  season.
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  It
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  is
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  the
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  preparation
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  season,
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  and
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  it
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  is
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  doing
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  something
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  within
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  you
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  that
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  the
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  breakthrough
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  season
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  just
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  can't
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  do
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  Let's
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  talk
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  about
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  the
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  dread
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  first
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  because
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  it's
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  real
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  and
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  it
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  deserves
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  this
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  moment.
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  The
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  messy
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  middle
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  has
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  a
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  very
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  specific
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  kind
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  of
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  pain.
• 3:18
  And
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  it's
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  not
• 3:19
  failure
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  because
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  you
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  haven't
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  failed.
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  It's
• 3:22
  the
• 3:22
  pain
• 3:22
  of
• 3:23
  not
• 3:23
  yet.
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  And
• 3:24
  not
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  yet
• 3:25
  has
• 3:25
  its
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  own
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  special
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  kinda
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  hard
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  because
• 3:28
  you
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  can
• 3:29
  see
• 3:29
  the
• 3:30
  dream,
• 3:30
  you
• 3:30
  can
• 3:31
  feel
• 3:31
  it,
• 3:31
  you
• 3:32
  know
• 3:32
  that
• 3:32
  you're
• 3:32
  working
• 3:33
  toward
• 3:33
  it,
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  but
• 3:34
  you
• 3:34
  can't
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  touch
• 3:35
  it.
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  And
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  that
• 3:36
  distance,
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  it
• 3:37
  will
• 3:37
  mess
• 3:38
  with
• 3:38
  your
• 3:38
  mind
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  if
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  you
• 3:39
  let
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  it.
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  It's
• 3:41
  the
• 3:41
  whisper
• 3:42
  of
• 3:42
  the
• 3:42
  doubt
• 3:42
  that
• 3:43
  says,
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  "Maybe
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  this
• 3:44
  isn't
• 3:44
  for
• 3:44
  you.
• 3:45
  Maybe
• 3:45
  you're
• 3:45
  not
• 3:46
  cut
• 3:46
  out
• 3:46
  for
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  this,"
• 3:46
  or,
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  "It
• 3:47
  would
• 3:47
  just
• 3:47
  be
• 3:47
  easier
• 3:48
  to
• 3:48
  go
• 3:48
  back."
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  And
• 3:49
  that
• 3:49
  temptation
• 3:50
  to
• 3:50
  turn
• 3:51
  around
• 3:52
  is
• 3:52
  real
• 3:53
  because
• 3:54
  the
• 3:54
  old
• 3:54
  life,
• 3:55
  it's
• 3:55
  familiar.
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  It's
• 3:56
  what
• 3:56
  you
• 3:57
  know.
• 3:58
  You
• 3:58
  learned
• 3:58
  how
• 3:58
  to
• 3:59
  navigate
• 3:59
  it.
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  It
• 4:00
  may
• 4:00
  not
• 4:00
  be
• 4:01
  what
• 4:01
  you
• 4:01
  want,
• 4:02
  but
• 4:02
  at
• 4:02
  least
• 4:03
  you
• 4:03
  know
• 4:03
  what
• 4:03
  to
• 4:04
  expect.
• 4:04
  The
• 4:05
  dream
• 4:05
  requires
• 4:06
  you
• 4:06
  to
• 4:06
  stay
• 4:07
  in
• 4:07
  the
• 4:07
  uncomfortable
• 4:08
  unknown,
• 4:09
  and
• 4:09
  that
• 4:09
  takes
• 4:10
  a
• 4:10
  level
• 4:10
  of
• 4:10
  faith
• 4:10
  that
• 4:11
  gets
• 4:11
  tested
• 4:12
  every
• 4:12
  single
• 4:13
  day
• 4:14
  in
• 4:14
  this
• 4:14
  season.
• 4:18
  So
• 4:19
  how
• 4:19
  do
• 4:19
  you
• 4:19
  stay?
• 4:20
  You
• 4:21
  have
• 4:21
  to
• 4:21
  shift
• 4:22
  your
• 4:22
  focus
• 4:23
  from
• 4:23
  the
• 4:23
  distance
• 4:25
  to
• 4:25
  the
• 4:25
  votes.
• 4:26
  Now,
• 4:27
  I
• 4:27
  know
• 4:27
  you
• 4:27
  hear
• 4:28
  the
• 4:28
  word
• 4:28
  vote
• 4:29
  and
• 4:29
  the
• 4:29
  tension
• 4:30
  starts
• 4:30
  rising.
• 4:35
  But
• 4:35
  set
• 4:35
  aside
• 4:36
  the
• 4:36
  politics
• 4:36
  for
• 4:37
  a
• 4:37
  minute
• 4:37
  and
• 4:37
  let's
• 4:38
  explore
• 4:38
  this
• 4:39
  freely
• 4:39
  for
• 4:40
  a
• 4:40
  second,
• 4:40
  okay?
• 4:41
  Look
• 4:41
  at
• 4:41
  it
• 4:42
  like
• 4:42
  this.
• 4:43
  Every
• 4:43
  single
• 4:44
  choice
• 4:44
  you
• 4:45
  make
• 4:45
  is
• 4:45
  a
• 4:45
  vote.
• 4:46
  You
• 4:47
  are
• 4:47
  constantly
• 4:48
  casting
• 4:49
  votes
• 4:50
  for
• 4:50
  a
• 4:50
  version
• 4:51
  of
• 4:51
  yourself,
• 4:52
  and
• 4:52
  there
• 4:52
  are
• 4:52
  always
• 4:53
  three
• 4:54
  candidates
• 4:54
  on
• 4:54
  the
• 4:55
  ballot
• 4:55
  every
• 4:56
  single
• 4:56
  time.
• 4:57
  Who
• 4:57
  you
• 4:57
  were,
• 4:58
  who
• 4:58
  you
• 4:58
  are
• 4:59
  right
• 4:59
  now,
• 5:00
  and
• 5:00
  who
• 5:00
  you
• 5:00
  say
• 5:00
  you
• 5:01
  wanna
• 5:01
  become.
• 5:02
  And
• 5:02
  whichever
• 5:03
  version
• 5:03
  gets
• 5:04
  the
• 5:04
  most
• 5:04
  votes,
• 5:05
  that's
• 5:05
  the
• 5:06
  version
• 5:06
  that
• 5:06
  shows
• 5:07
  up
• 5:07
  in
• 5:07
  your
• 5:08
  life.
• 5:08
  That's
• 5:09
  also
• 5:09
  the
• 5:09
  version
• 5:10
  of
• 5:10
  the
• 5:10
  life
• 5:11
  that
• 5:11
  you
• 5:11
  will
• 5:11
  live.
• 5:12
  That's
• 5:13
  the
• 5:13
  version
• 5:13
  your
• 5:14
  dream
• 5:14
  either
• 5:15
  lands
• 5:15
  for
• 5:16
  or
• 5:16
  it
• 5:17
  doesn't
• 5:18
  So
• 5:18
  let's
• 5:18
  say
• 5:18
  you
• 5:18
  decide
• 5:19
  you
• 5:19
  wanna
• 5:19
  get
• 5:20
  in
• 5:20
  shape.
• 5:21
  You
• 5:21
  don't
• 5:21
  walk
• 5:22
  into
• 5:22
  the
• 5:22
  gym
• 5:22
  on
• 5:23
  day
• 5:23
  one
• 5:24
  and
• 5:24
  instantly
• 5:25
  walk
• 5:25
  out
• 5:26
  looking
• 5:26
  like
• 5:26
  The
• 5:26
  Vision.
• 5:29
  Lord
• 5:30
  knows
• 5:30
  I
• 5:30
  wish
• 5:30
  that's
• 5:31
  the
• 5:31
  way
• 5:31
  that
• 5:31
  it
• 5:31
  worked,
• 5:32
  okay?
• 5:35
  But
• 5:35
  you
• 5:35
  know
• 5:36
  what
• 5:36
  you
• 5:36
  have
• 5:36
  to
• 5:36
  do?
• 5:37
  You
• 5:38
  build.
• 5:39
  You
• 5:39
  show
• 5:39
  up
• 5:40
  when
• 5:40
  you
• 5:40
  don't
• 5:40
  feel
• 5:41
  like
• 5:41
  it.
• 5:41
  You
• 5:42
  make
• 5:42
  the
• 5:42
  choice
• 5:42
  at
• 5:43
  dinner
• 5:43
  when
• 5:44
  nobody
• 5:44
  is
• 5:44
  watching.
• 5:45
  You
• 5:45
  drink
• 5:46
  the
• 5:46
  water,
• 5:47
  rest
• 5:47
  your
• 5:47
  body
• 5:48
  when
• 5:48
  it
• 5:48
  asks
• 5:48
  for
• 5:49
  it.
• 5:49
  Every
• 5:50
  single
• 5:50
  choice
• 5:51
  is
• 5:51
  a
• 5:51
  vote
• 5:52
  For
• 5:52
  the
• 5:52
  woman
• 5:52
  who
• 5:52
  is
• 5:53
  getting
• 5:53
  healthier
• 5:54
  or
• 5:55
  for
• 5:55
  the
• 5:55
  woman
• 5:55
  who
• 5:56
  is
• 5:56
  staying
• 5:57
  the
• 5:57
  same.
• 5:58
  And
• 5:59
  over
• 5:59
  time,
• 6:00
  those
• 6:00
  votes
• 6:00
  compound
• 6:02
  into
• 6:02
  the
• 6:02
  body
• 6:03
  you
• 6:03
  said
• 6:03
  you
• 6:04
  wanted
• 6:04
  or
• 6:05
  nah.
• 6:09
  Or
• 6:09
  let's
• 6:10
  talk
• 6:10
  about
• 6:10
  love
• 6:10
  for
• 6:11
  a
• 6:11
  second,
• 6:11
  okay?
• 6:11
  Because
• 6:12
  you
• 6:12
  say
• 6:13
  you
• 6:13
  want
• 6:13
  a
• 6:13
  committed,
• 6:14
  healthy,
• 6:15
  loving
• 6:15
  relationship,
• 6:17
  but
• 6:17
  are
• 6:17
  you
• 6:18
  dating
• 6:18
  like
• 6:18
  someone
• 6:19
  who
• 6:20
  believes
• 6:20
  she
• 6:21
  deserves
• 6:21
  that?
• 6:22
  Every
• 6:22
  time
• 6:23
  you
• 6:23
  let
• 6:23
  that
• 6:24
  ex
• 6:24
  spin
• 6:24
  the
• 6:24
  block
• 6:25
  and
• 6:25
  you
• 6:25
  take
• 6:25
  him
• 6:26
  back,
• 6:27
  he
• 6:27
  comes
• 6:28
  to
• 6:28
  remind
• 6:29
  you
• 6:29
  that
• 6:30
  he's
• 6:30
  still
• 6:31
  not
• 6:31
  ready
• 6:32
  to
• 6:32
  love
• 6:32
  you
• 6:33
  the
• 6:33
  way
• 6:34
  you
• 6:34
  deserve.
• 6:35
  Listen,
• 6:35
  Brandy
• 6:36
  already
• 6:36
  said
• 6:37
  everybody
• 6:38
  knows
• 6:38
  almost
• 6:39
  doesn't
• 6:39
  count.
• 6:43
  And
• 6:43
  every
• 6:43
  time
• 6:44
  you
• 6:44
  settle
• 6:45
  for
• 6:45
  someone
• 6:45
  who
• 6:46
  halfway
• 6:46
  shows
• 6:47
  up,
• 6:47
  every
• 6:48
  time
• 6:48
  you
• 6:48
  dim
• 6:49
  yourself
• 6:49
  so
• 6:50
  you're
• 6:50
  not
• 6:50
  too
• 6:50
  much,
• 6:51
  every
• 6:51
  time
• 6:52
  you
• 6:52
  accept
• 6:53
  less
• 6:53
  than
• 6:54
  what
• 6:54
  you
• 6:54
  asked
• 6:54
  God
• 6:55
  for,
• 6:56
  that
• 6:56
  is
• 6:56
  a
• 6:56
  vote.
• 6:57
  And
• 6:57
  it's
• 6:57
  a
• 6:58
  vote
• 6:58
  for
• 6:58
  the
• 6:58
  version
• 6:59
  of
• 6:59
  you
• 6:59
  who
• 7:00
  didn't
• 7:00
  know
• 7:00
  her
• 7:01
  worth,
• 7:02
  not
• 7:02
  for
• 7:02
  the
• 7:02
  woman
• 7:03
  you
• 7:03
  say
• 7:03
  you're
• 7:04
  becoming.
• 7:05
  So
• 7:05
  the
• 7:05
  question
• 7:06
  isn't
• 7:06
  just
• 7:07
  what
• 7:07
  do
• 7:07
  you
• 7:07
  want?
• 7:08
  The
• 7:08
  question
• 7:09
  is,
• 7:10
  which
• 7:10
  version
• 7:11
  of
• 7:11
  you
• 7:11
  is
• 7:12
  winning
• 7:12
  this
• 7:12
  race
• 7:13
  right
• 7:13
  now?
• 7:14
  Who
• 7:14
  you
• 7:14
  were,
• 7:15
  who
• 7:15
  you
• 7:15
  are,
• 7:16
  or
• 7:16
  who
• 7:16
  you
• 7:16
  say
• 7:17
  you
• 7:17
  want
• 7:17
  to
• 7:17
  become.
• 7:18
  Because
• 7:19
  you
• 7:19
  are
• 7:19
  voting
• 7:20
  every
• 7:21
  single
• 7:21
  day,
• 7:22
  all
• 7:22
  day,
• 7:23
  whether
• 7:23
  you
• 7:23
  realize
• 7:24
  it
• 7:24
  or
• 7:24
  not,
• 7:25
  in
• 7:25
  how
• 7:26
  you
• 7:26
  spend
• 7:26
  your
• 7:27
  morning,
• 7:27
  in
• 7:28
  what
• 7:28
  you
• 7:28
  say
• 7:28
  yes
• 7:29
  to,
• 7:29
  in
• 7:30
  what
• 7:30
  you
• 7:30
  tolerate,
• 7:31
  in
• 7:31
  how
• 7:32
  you
• 7:32
  talk
• 7:32
  to
• 7:32
  yourself
• 7:33
  when
• 7:33
  nobody
• 7:34
  else
• 7:34
  is
• 7:35
  listening.
• 7:36
  Every
• 7:36
  choice
• 7:37
  is
• 7:37
  a
• 7:38
  vote.
• 7:38
  And
• 7:39
  here's
• 7:39
  the
• 7:39
  key.
• 7:40
  Lock
• 7:41
  in
• 7:41
  on
• 7:41
  who
• 7:42
  she
• 7:42
  is,
• 7:43
  the
• 7:43
  version
• 7:44
  of
• 7:44
  you
• 7:44
  who
• 7:45
  has
• 7:45
  the
• 7:45
  dream.
• 7:46
  Who
• 7:47
  is
• 7:47
  she?
• 7:48
  How
• 7:48
  does
• 7:48
  she
• 7:49
  think?
• 7:49
  How
• 7:49
  does
• 7:50
  she
• 7:50
  carry
• 7:50
  herself?
• 7:51
  What
• 7:51
  does
• 7:52
  she
• 7:52
  say
• 7:52
  yes
• 7:52
  to
• 7:53
  and
• 7:53
  what
• 7:53
  does
• 7:53
  she
• 7:54
  walk
• 7:54
  away
• 7:54
  from?
• 7:55
  What
• 7:56
  habits
• 7:56
  does
• 7:57
  she
• 7:57
  have
• 7:57
  that
• 7:57
  you
• 7:57
  don't
• 7:58
  have
• 7:58
  yet?
• 7:59
  What
• 7:59
  does
• 7:59
  she
• 7:59
  believe
• 8:00
  about
• 8:00
  herself
• 8:01
  that
• 8:01
  you're
• 8:02
  still
• 8:02
  working
• 8:03
  on?
• 8:04
  Get
• 8:04
  specific,
• 8:05
  clear,
• 8:06
  and
• 8:06
  then
• 8:06
  vote
• 8:07
  for
• 8:07
  her
• 8:07
  consistently
• 8:09
  and
• 8:09
  relentlessly,
• 8:11
  even
• 8:12
  in
• 8:12
  the
• 8:12
  messy
• 8:12
  middle.
• 8:13
  Actually,
• 8:14
  especially
• 8:15
  in
• 8:15
  the
• 8:16
  messy
• 8:16
  middle.
• 8:18
  Vote
• 8:19
  for
• 8:19
  her,
• 8:19
  friend.
• 8:22
  Because
• 8:23
  what
• 8:23
  you
• 8:23
  feed
• 8:24
  comes
• 8:25
  to
• 8:25
  fruition.
• 8:26
  The
• 8:26
  version
• 8:27
  of
• 8:27
  you
• 8:27
  that
• 8:27
  gets
• 8:27
  the
• 8:28
  most
• 8:28
  consistent
• 8:29
  votes
• 8:29
  is
• 8:30
  the
• 8:30
  version
• 8:30
  that
• 8:31
  comes
• 8:31
  to
• 8:31
  life.
• 8:32
  So
• 8:33
  feed
• 8:33
  her,
• 8:34
  vote
• 8:34
  for
• 8:34
  her,
• 8:35
  build
• 8:36
  her
• 8:36
  in
• 8:36
  the
• 8:36
  quiet
• 8:37
  choices
• 8:38
  nobody
• 8:38
  sees,
• 8:39
  in
• 8:39
  the
• 8:39
  standards
• 8:40
  you
• 8:40
  hold
• 8:41
  when
• 8:42
  it
• 8:42
  would
• 8:42
  be
• 8:42
  so
• 8:43
  much
• 8:43
  easier
• 8:44
  to
• 8:44
  let
• 8:44
  them
• 8:44
  slide,
• 8:45
  in
• 8:46
  the
• 8:46
  habits
• 8:46
  you
• 8:46
  build
• 8:47
  on
• 8:47
  the
• 8:47
  days
• 8:47
  when
• 8:48
  you
• 8:48
  don't
• 8:48
  feel
• 8:48
  like
• 8:48
  it.
• 8:49
  And
• 8:49
  instead
• 8:50
  of
• 8:50
  being
• 8:50
  frustrated
• 8:51
  that
• 8:51
  it's
• 8:51
  not
• 8:52
  happening
• 8:52
  fast
• 8:53
  enough,
• 8:53
  Shift
• 8:54
  your
• 8:54
  focus
• 8:55
  because
• 8:56
  if
• 8:56
  you
• 8:56
  don't,
• 8:57
  you
• 8:57
  are
• 8:57
  just
• 8:58
  holding
• 8:58
  it
• 8:59
  away
• 8:59
  from
• 8:59
  you
• 9:00
  Stop
• 9:00
  measuring
• 9:01
  how
• 9:01
  close
• 9:02
  the
• 9:02
  dream
• 9:02
  is
• 9:03
  and
• 9:03
  start
• 9:03
  measuring
• 9:04
  how
• 9:04
  consistently
• 9:06
  you
• 9:06
  are
• 9:06
  voting
• 9:06
  for
• 9:07
  the
• 9:07
  woman
• 9:07
  who
• 9:07
  already
• 9:08
  has
• 9:09
  it.
• 9:09
  Because
• 9:09
  getting
• 9:10
  there
• 9:10
  is
• 9:11
  one
• 9:11
  thing,
• 9:12
  but
• 9:12
  being
• 9:12
  ready
• 9:12
  to
• 9:13
  keep
• 9:13
  it,
• 9:14
  that
• 9:14
  requires
• 9:15
  everything
• 9:16
  this
• 9:16
  season
• 9:17
  is
• 9:17
  building
• 9:18
  in
• 9:18
  you.
• 9:19
  To
• 9:19
  receive,
• 9:20
  you
• 9:20
  have
• 9:21
  to
• 9:21
  be
• 9:21
  willing
• 9:21
  to
• 9:22
  release.
• 9:23
  You
• 9:23
  cannot
• 9:23
  hold
• 9:24
  onto
• 9:24
  what
• 9:25
  you've
• 9:25
  outgrown
• 9:26
  and
• 9:27
  make
• 9:27
  room
• 9:27
  for
• 9:28
  what
• 9:28
  you're
• 9:28
  praying
• 9:28
  for
• 9:29
  at
• 9:29
  the
• 9:29
  same
• 9:30
  time.
• 9:31
  Release
• 9:31
  the
• 9:32
  habit
• 9:32
  that
• 9:32
  votes
• 9:33
  for
• 9:33
  the
• 9:33
  old
• 9:34
  you.
• 9:35
  Release
• 9:35
  the
• 9:35
  relationship
• 9:36
  that
• 9:37
  keeps
• 9:37
  you
• 9:37
  small.
• 9:38
  Release
• 9:39
  the
• 9:39
  belief
• 9:40
  that
• 9:40
  says
• 9:41
  it's
• 9:41
  taking
• 9:42
  too
• 9:42
  long.
• 9:43
  Friend,
• 9:44
  make
• 9:45
  room
• 9:46
  because
• 9:46
  what
• 9:47
  you
• 9:47
  are
• 9:47
  asking
• 9:48
  for,
• 9:48
  it
• 9:49
  needs
• 9:49
  somewhere
• 9:50
  to
• 9:50
  land.
• 9:51
  Don't
• 9:52
  dread
• 9:52
  this
• 9:52
  season,
• 9:53
  friend.
• 9:53
  Use
• 9:54
  it.
• 9:55
  Use
• 9:55
  it
• 9:55
  to
• 9:55
  deliver
• 9:56
  the
• 9:56
  version
• 9:56
  of
• 9:56
  you
• 9:57
  who
• 9:57
  already
• 9:58
  has
• 9:58
  everything
• 9:59
  you've
• 9:59
  been
• 10:00
  asking
• 10:00
  for.
• 10:01
  She's
• 10:01
  being
• 10:02
  built
• 10:02
  right
• 10:03
  now
• 10:04
  in
• 10:04
  the
• 10:04
  choices
• 10:05
  nobody
• 10:06
  sees,
• 10:06
  in
• 10:07
  the
• 10:07
  votes
• 10:07
  you
• 10:08
  are
• 10:08
  casting
• 10:09
  in
• 10:09
  the
• 10:09
  quiet.
• 10:10
  That's
• 10:10
  her
• 10:11
  being
• 10:11
  formed.
• 10:12
  That's
• 10:13
  you
• 10:14
  becoming
• 10:14
  ready
• 10:18
  Ooh,
• 10:18
  friend,
• 10:19
  wanna
• 10:19
  go
• 10:19
  deeper
• 10:20
  on
• 10:20
  today's
• 10:20
  episode?
• 10:21
  I
• 10:21
  have
• 10:21
  journal
• 10:22
  prompts
• 10:22
  waiting
• 10:23
  for
• 10:23
  you
• 10:24
  in
• 10:24
  the
• 10:24
  show
• 10:24
  notes.
• 10:25
  They'll
• 10:25
  help
• 10:26
  you
• 10:26
  get
• 10:26
  crystal
• 10:27
  clear
• 10:27
  on
• 10:27
  who
• 10:28
  you
• 10:28
  are
• 10:28
  voting
• 10:29
  for,
• 10:29
  what
• 10:30
  you
• 10:30
  need
• 10:30
  to
• 10:30
  release,
• 10:31
  and
• 10:31
  how
• 10:31
  to
• 10:32
  stay
• 10:32
  faithful
• 10:33
  even
• 10:33
  in
• 10:34
  the
• 10:34
  messy
• 10:34
  middle
• 10:37
  And
• 10:37
  now
• 10:38
  it's
• 10:38
  time
• 10:39
  for
• 10:39
  our
• 10:39
  favorite,
• 10:40
  the
• 10:40
  self-love
• 10:41
  two-step
• 10:42
  with
• 10:42
  the
• 10:42
  remix.
• 10:45
  because
• 10:45
  you
• 10:46
  know
• 10:46
  we
• 10:46
  don't
• 10:46
  just
• 10:46
  take
• 10:47
  information
• 10:48
  in,
• 10:49
  we
• 10:49
  apply
• 10:50
  it.
• 10:50
  So
• 10:50
  step
• 10:51
  one,
• 10:51
  release.
• 10:53
  What
• 10:53
  are
• 10:53
  you
• 10:53
  still
• 10:54
  voting
• 10:54
  for
• 10:55
  that
• 10:55
  belongs
• 10:56
  to
• 10:56
  the
• 10:56
  old
• 10:57
  version
• 10:58
  of
• 10:58
  you?
• 10:59
  A
• 10:59
  habit,
• 11:00
  a
• 11:00
  person,
• 11:01
  a
• 11:01
  belief,
• 11:02
  a
• 11:02
  standard
• 11:02
  you
• 11:03
  keep
• 11:03
  lowering.
• 11:04
  name
• 11:04
  it
• 11:05
  today,
• 11:06
  and
• 11:06
  make
• 11:06
  the
• 11:06
  decision
• 11:07
  to
• 11:07
  release
• 11:07
  it,
• 11:08
  not
• 11:08
  because
• 11:08
  it's
• 11:09
  easy,
• 11:09
  because
• 11:10
  your
• 11:10
  dream
• 11:11
  needs
• 11:11
  the
• 11:11
  space,
• 11:12
  and
• 11:13
  she
• 11:13
  needs
• 11:13
  your
• 11:13
  vote.
• 11:15
  Step
• 11:15
  two,
• 11:16
  reframe.
• 11:17
  Every
• 11:18
  time
• 11:18
  you
• 11:18
  feel
• 11:19
  the
• 11:19
  sting
• 11:19
  of
• 11:20
  the
• 11:20
  messy
• 11:20
  middle
• 11:21
  and
• 11:21
  the
• 11:22
  temptation
• 11:22
  to
• 11:23
  turn
• 11:23
  back,
• 11:24
  I
• 11:24
  want
• 11:25
  you
• 11:25
  to
• 11:25
  replace
• 11:25
  that
• 11:26
  thought
• 11:26
  with
• 11:26
  this:
• 11:27
  "I
• 11:27
  am
• 11:28
  preparing
• 11:29
  for
• 11:29
  everything
• 11:30
  I
• 11:31
  asked
• 11:31
  for,
• 11:32
  and
• 11:32
  every
• 11:32
  choice
• 11:33
  is
• 11:34
  a
• 11:34
  vote
• 11:34
  for
• 11:35
  her."
• 11:36
  Say
• 11:36
  it
• 11:36
  until
• 11:37
  you
• 11:37
  believe
• 11:38
  it
• 11:38
  because
• 11:39
  it's
• 11:39
  true.
• 11:40
  And
• 11:41
  now
• 11:41
  for
• 11:42
  the
• 11:42
  you
• 11:42
  step,
• 11:43
  And
• 11:43
  it's
• 11:43
  a
• 11:43
  little
• 11:44
  elevated.
• 11:44
  It's
• 11:44
  very
• 11:45
  much
• 11:45
  giving
• 11:45
  VIP,
• 11:46
  if
• 11:46
  you
• 11:46
  will.
• 11:49
  You
• 11:49
  get
• 11:49
  still,
• 11:50
  you
• 11:50
  get
• 11:51
  quiet,
• 11:52
  and
• 11:52
  you
• 11:52
  get
• 11:52
  clear
• 11:53
  on
• 11:54
  who
• 11:54
  she
• 11:55
  is,
• 11:56
  the
• 11:56
  version
• 11:57
  of
• 11:57
  you
• 11:57
  that
• 11:57
  the
• 11:58
  dream
• 11:58
  belongs
• 11:59
  to.
• 12:00
  Write
• 12:00
  down
• 12:00
  three
• 12:01
  things
• 12:02
  she
• 12:02
  believes
• 12:02
  about
• 12:02
  herself
• 12:04
  that
• 12:04
  you
• 12:04
  are
• 12:05
  still
• 12:05
  building,
• 12:06
  and
• 12:06
  then
• 12:07
  cast
• 12:07
  one
• 12:07
  vote
• 12:08
  for
• 12:08
  her
• 12:08
  today.
• 12:10
  It
• 12:10
  can
• 12:10
  be
• 12:10
  a
• 12:10
  choice,
• 12:11
  a
• 12:11
  boundary,
• 12:12
  a
• 12:13
  habit,
• 12:13
  a
• 12:13
  standard.
• 12:14
  One
• 12:15
  vote.
• 12:15
  that's
• 12:16
  how
• 12:16
  the
• 12:16
  version
• 12:16
  of
• 12:17
  you
• 12:17
  Who
• 12:17
  already
• 12:18
  has
• 12:18
  it
• 12:19
  wins
• 12:20
  one
• 12:20
  vote
• 12:21
  at
• 12:21
  a
• 12:21
  time
• 12:22
  Now
• 12:23
  let
• 12:23
  me
• 12:23
  pour
• 12:23
  into
• 12:24
  you
• 12:24
  real
• 12:24
  quick
• 12:25
  because
• 12:25
  friend,
• 12:26
  listen,
• 12:27
  I
• 12:27
  know
• 12:28
  what
• 12:28
  it
• 12:29
  feels
• 12:29
  like
• 12:30
  to
• 12:30
  dread
• 12:31
  this
• 12:31
  season.
• 12:32
  The
• 12:32
  not
• 12:33
  yet
• 12:33
  season
• 12:34
  is
• 12:34
  rough.
• 12:38
  But
• 12:38
  you
• 12:39
  get
• 12:39
  to
• 12:39
  decide
• 12:40
  if
• 12:40
  this
• 12:40
  is
• 12:41
  a
• 12:41
  season
• 12:41
  you
• 12:41
  will
• 12:42
  dread
• 12:43
  or
• 12:44
  if
• 12:44
  it
• 12:44
  drives
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  to
• 12:45
  your
• 12:46
  destiny
• 12:46
  in
• 12:47
  style.
• 12:48
  You
• 12:48
  don't
• 12:48
  get
• 12:48
  the
• 12:49
  promise
• 12:50
  without
• 12:50
  the
• 12:50
  preparation.
• 12:52
  You
• 12:52
  asked
• 12:53
  for
• 12:53
  the
• 12:53
  promise,
• 12:53
  you
• 12:54
  prayed
• 12:54
  for
• 12:55
  it,
• 12:55
  and
• 12:55
  now
• 12:56
  this
• 12:56
  is
• 12:57
  your
• 12:57
  training
• 12:58
  ground
• 12:58
  to
• 12:58
  prepare
• 13:00
  for
• 13:00
  it.
• 13:01
  You
• 13:01
  can
• 13:01
  bemoan
• 13:02
  it
• 13:02
  or
• 13:03
  you
• 13:03
  can
• 13:03
  enjoy
• 13:04
  the
• 13:04
  best
• 13:05
  of
• 13:05
  it
• 13:05
  to
• 13:06
  the
• 13:06
  best
• 13:06
  of
• 13:06
  your
• 13:06
  ability.
• 13:08
  I
• 13:08
  need
• 13:08
  you
• 13:08
  to
• 13:08
  hear
• 13:08
  me
• 13:08
  with
• 13:09
  your
• 13:09
  whole
• 13:09
  heart
• 13:10
  when
• 13:10
  I
• 13:10
  say
• 13:11
  this.
• 13:12
  The
• 13:12
  in-between
• 13:13
  is
• 13:14
  not
• 13:14
  a
• 13:14
  punishment.
• 13:15
  It's
• 13:16
  a
• 13:16
  privilege.
• 13:17
  Not
• 13:17
  everybody
• 13:18
  gets
• 13:18
  a
• 13:18
  preparation
• 13:19
  season.
• 13:20
  Some
• 13:20
  people
• 13:21
  get
• 13:21
  the
• 13:21
  dream
• 13:22
  and
• 13:22
  then
• 13:23
  they're
• 13:23
  not
• 13:23
  ready
• 13:24
  for
• 13:24
  it
• 13:24
  and
• 13:24
  they
• 13:25
  lose
• 13:25
  it.
• 13:26
  You
• 13:26
  are
• 13:26
  being
• 13:27
  trusted
• 13:28
  with
• 13:28
  the
• 13:29
  process
• 13:29
  because
• 13:30
  you
• 13:30
  can
• 13:30
  handle
• 13:31
  it.
• 13:31
  And
• 13:31
  what's
• 13:32
  coming
• 13:32
  requires
• 13:33
  everything
• 13:34
  this
• 13:34
  season
• 13:35
  is
• 13:35
  building
• 13:36
  in
• 13:36
  you.
• 13:37
  That
• 13:37
  sting
• 13:38
  you
• 13:38
  feel,
• 13:39
  it's
• 13:39
  not
• 13:39
  a
• 13:39
  sign
• 13:40
  to
• 13:40
  quit.
• 13:41
  It's
• 13:41
  a
• 13:41
  sign
• 13:42
  that
• 13:42
  you
• 13:42
  care
• 13:42
  deeply
• 13:43
  about
• 13:44
  something
• 13:44
  that
• 13:45
  matters.
• 13:46
  And
• 13:46
  the
• 13:46
  fact
• 13:46
  that
• 13:46
  you
• 13:46
  are
• 13:47
  still
• 13:47
  here
• 13:48
  showing
• 13:48
  up,
• 13:49
  still
• 13:49
  voting
• 13:50
  for
• 13:50
  her
• 13:51
  even
• 13:51
  when
• 13:51
  it's
• 13:52
  hard,
• 13:53
  that
• 13:53
  tells
• 13:53
  me
• 13:53
  everything
• 13:54
  I
• 13:54
  need
• 13:54
  to
• 13:55
  know
• 13:55
  about
• 13:55
  you.
• 13:56
  So
• 13:56
  friend,
• 13:57
  don't
• 13:57
  turn
• 13:58
  back.
• 14:00
  Don't
• 14:01
  look
• 14:01
  into
• 14:01
  the
• 14:01
  light.
• 14:05
  Don't
• 14:06
  ditch
• 14:06
  the
• 14:06
  dream.
• 14:07
  Don't
• 14:07
  go
• 14:07
  back
• 14:07
  to
• 14:08
  familiar
• 14:09
  just
• 14:09
  because
• 14:09
  it
• 14:10
  was
• 14:10
  comfortable.
• 14:11
  Because
• 14:11
  listen,
• 14:12
  low-key,
• 14:12
  you're
• 14:13
  just
• 14:13
  gonna
• 14:13
  spin
• 14:13
  the
• 14:14
  block
• 14:14
  and
• 14:14
  you
• 14:14
  gonna
• 14:14
  end
• 14:15
  up
• 14:15
  right
• 14:15
  back
• 14:15
  here
• 14:16
  anyway.
• 14:20
  Ask
• 14:20
  me
• 14:21
  how
• 14:21
  I
• 14:21
  know.
• 14:25
  Friend,
• 14:26
  you
• 14:26
  didn't
• 14:26
  come
• 14:26
  this
• 14:27
  far
• 14:27
  just
• 14:28
  to
• 14:28
  come
• 14:29
  this
• 14:29
  far.
• 14:30
  Lock
• 14:30
  in
• 14:31
  on
• 14:31
  who
• 14:31
  she
• 14:32
  is
• 14:32
  and
• 14:33
  vote
• 14:33
  for
• 14:33
  her
• 14:34
  as
• 14:34
  many
• 14:34
  times
• 14:35
  as
• 14:35
  you
• 14:35
  can
• 14:36
  every
• 14:36
  single
• 14:37
  day.
• 14:38
  Feed
• 14:38
  that
• 14:39
  vision
• 14:39
  because
• 14:40
  what
• 14:40
  you
• 14:40
  feed
• 14:41
  comes
• 14:41
  to
• 14:41
  fruition,
• 14:42
  and
• 14:43
  she
• 14:43
  is
• 14:43
  worth
• 14:44
  every
• 14:44
  single
• 14:45
  vote.
• 14:46
  So
• 14:46
  keep
• 14:46
  going
• 14:46
  because
• 14:47
  you
• 14:47
  are
• 14:48
  closer
• 14:49
  than
• 14:49
  you
• 14:49
  think
• 14:52
  Let
• 14:52
  your
• 14:53
  choices,
• 14:54
  decisions,
• 14:55
  and
• 14:55
  actions
• 14:56
  support
• 14:57
  the
• 14:57
  woman
• 14:57
  you're
• 14:57
  becoming
• 14:58
  so
• 14:58
  you
• 14:58
  can
• 14:58
  live
• 14:59
  your
• 14:59
  dream
• 15:00
  come
• 15:01
  true.
• 15:02
  The
• 15:02
  life
• 15:02
  you're
• 15:02
  dreaming
• 15:03
  of
• 15:04
  will
• 15:04
  exceed
• 15:05
  your
• 15:05
  expectations
• 15:06
  exponentially
• 15:08
  if
• 15:09
  you'll
• 15:10
  utilize
• 15:10
  this
• 15:10
  preparation
• 15:11
  season
• 15:12
  to
• 15:12
  position
• 15:13
  you
• 15:14
  to
• 15:14
  receive
• 15:15
  everything
• 15:16
  that
• 15:16
  you
• 15:16
  asked
• 15:17
  for,
• 15:17
  prayed
• 15:18
  for,
• 15:19
  and
• 15:19
  more.
• 15:20
  Friend,
• 15:21
  I'm
• 15:21
  voting
• 15:21
  for
• 15:22
  you.
• 15:22
  Make
• 15:23
  sure
• 15:23
  you
• 15:23
  tune
• 15:24
  in
• 15:24
  on
• 15:24
  Thursday
• 15:25
  because
• 15:26
  we
• 15:26
  are
• 15:26
  gonna
• 15:26
  get
• 15:26
  into
• 15:27
  the
• 15:27
  steps
• 15:27
  that
• 15:27
  it
• 15:28
  takes
• 15:29
  to
• 15:29
  become
• 15:29
  that
• 15:30
  next
• 15:30
  level
• 15:30
  version
• 15:30
  of
• 15:31
  yourself
• 15:31
  who
• 15:32
  already
• 15:32
  has
• 15:33
  it.
• 15:33
  I
• 15:34
  love
• 15:34
  you
• 15:34
  so
• 15:34
  much.
• 15:35
  I'm
• 15:36
  cheering
• 15:36
  for
• 15:36
  you
• 15:37
  loud
• 15:37
  and
• 15:37
  obnoxiously
• 15:38
  always.
• 15:40
  Your
• 15:40
  shift
• 15:41
  starts
• 15:42
  now