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Episode 15 | Scabs

What happens when you stop reopening what was already healing?

In this episode of Figuring It Out with Rachel Lee, Rachel explores the idea of scabs — the moments after pain, when healing has already begun, but familiarity tempts us to touch what no longer fits.

This conversation isn’t about reliving wounds or rehashing trauma. It’s about access, boundaries, and the quiet power of restraint. Rachel shares personal stories about expired connections, oversharing, loyalty that turned into self-abandonment, and why not every message, memory, or relationship deserves a response.

If you’ve ever…

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