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What Polyamory Can Teach Us About Love | Interview with Ruffus, The PolyKink Therapist

In this episode, Tom sits down with Ruffus, The PolyKink Therapist, to explore what it means to build ethical relationships, whether monogamous, non-monogamous, or somewhere in between. Ruffus shares how his personal experiences with polyamory, kink, and psychotherapy shaped his approach to relationships and why understanding your own values and desires is essential to finding connection.

They discuss the four pillars of ethical relationships: freedom, authenticity, commitment, and love, and how these values translate into agency, honesty, consent, and compassion. They also challenge common…

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