Latest / Tom's Hirschsprung's Podcast / Episode 109 - With Emily Arner
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- 0:02Speaker 1: You are listening to Tom's Hirshprung's Podcast, a space where
- 0:05Speaker 1: we talk openly about living with Hirshprung's disease. Whether you
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- 0:46Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome to episode one hundred and nine of
- 0:50Speaker 2: Tom's Hirshprungs Podcast. I am delighted this afternoon to be
- 0:54Speaker 2: joined by Emily Jet. Emily, welcome to the podcast.
- 0:57Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. I'm so excited
- 0:59Speaker 3: to be here and talk about this journey.
- 1:02Speaker 2: Yeah, and talk about this this very rare disease. Yes, Yes,
- 1:07Speaker 2: thank you so much for coming on. Now, you have
- 1:10Speaker 2: a son with hirshprungs, and I guess we're going to
- 1:14Speaker 2: talk a little bit, possibly maybe less about the whole
- 1:18Speaker 2: medical side of it and more a little bit about
- 1:20Speaker 2: sort of maintaining healthy lifestyle and and whatnot. And it's
- 1:27Speaker 2: I'm really fascinated to hear this story because again, I
- 1:31Speaker 2: feel like we've been speaking a little bit about I
- 1:35Speaker 2: hear all sides of the spectrum, and this is sort
- 1:38Speaker 2: of potentially sort of the lower side of the spectrum.
- 1:42Speaker 2: But we'll we will, we will see how we get on.
- 1:45Speaker 2: But yet kind of up to you from where you
- 1:47Speaker 2: where you want to begin the journey.
- 1:50Speaker 3: So yeah, I'd love to start with So, first of all,
- 1:53Speaker 3: he's a twin, he's a twin sister, and I we
- 2:00Speaker 3: he was. They were you know, born, no complications, no issues,
- 2:04Speaker 3: and we did not realize that there was anything wrong
- 2:09Speaker 3: for a couple of months now. And I say that
- 2:14Speaker 3: in the hospital. You know, generally when babies are born,
- 2:17Speaker 3: they generally poop right away, and he did not, and
- 2:22Speaker 3: his sister did and he did not, and the nurses
- 2:27Speaker 3: and doctors kind of went, oh, it gets he probably
- 2:29Speaker 3: has a what is it called a Marconian plug, right, Like,
- 2:34Speaker 3: it's probably just plugged up. It happens, you have a big deal.
- 2:38Speaker 3: So I think the day, I think it was the
- 2:40Speaker 3: day after they were born, maybe twenty four hours or so,
- 2:43Speaker 3: after the doctor had come in and had like manually
- 2:50Speaker 3: kind of gotten the what we thought was the plug out,
- 2:53Speaker 3: and he pooped and they were like, okay, no big
- 2:57Speaker 3: you know, you're you're fine, You're you're fine, take them home,
- 3:01Speaker 3: you know, no no issues. So we did and we
- 3:07Speaker 3: you know, again, so having twins, uh, it's it's a lot.
- 3:11Speaker 3: You're very sleep deprived. You just it's kind of you're constant.
- 3:15Speaker 3: You're kind of in this like haze of just getting
- 3:20Speaker 3: through surviving those for a few months with two babies.
- 3:25Speaker 3: And so we we kind of had we kind of
- 3:29Speaker 3: realized kind of maybe a month maybe they were about
- 3:34Speaker 3: a month old, that we realized that there was this
- 3:37Speaker 3: kind of cycle where you know, his and it was
- 3:40Speaker 3: easy for us because he had a twin sister, so
- 3:42Speaker 3: there was a comparison where we could see that, you know,
- 3:44Speaker 3: she's pooping every day like infants normally do, and he
- 3:49Speaker 3: was not. He would generally go for five days. So
- 3:58Speaker 3: so we you know, kind of got into this cycle
- 4:00Speaker 3: with him where we realized that he was going three,
- 4:03Speaker 3: four or five days without pooping, and he would but
- 4:08Speaker 3: he would he would eventually poop, and then he would
- 4:11Speaker 3: just be the happiest baby. He was. He was just great,
- 4:15Speaker 3: like smiley and happy, and but then we would get today,
- 4:20Speaker 3: three four, five, and he would be absolutely miserable. You know,
- 4:26Speaker 3: his stomach would be descended and he would just be fussy,
- 4:29Speaker 3: and you know, we tried all the things with you know,
- 4:34Speaker 3: moving their legs to try and get thinking it was
- 4:36Speaker 3: gas and trying to you know, get the gas out,
- 4:38Speaker 3: and but he is so and then we started to
- 4:43Speaker 3: think maybe he's colicky, and like, you know, we just
- 4:47Speaker 3: but then he but then he would poop and he
- 4:48Speaker 3: and he would be totally fine. So we kind of
- 4:51Speaker 3: let it go because we're like, well, I like, it's
- 4:54Speaker 3: it's we didn't know anything about Hirschbrungs didn't know anything
- 4:59Speaker 3: about I mean, and once again with twins, we're so
- 5:02Speaker 3: preoccupied with just surviving at that point that we didn't
- 5:08Speaker 3: really have the mental capacity to do a whole bunch
- 5:11Speaker 3: of looking into like what might be going on, and
- 5:14Speaker 3: you know, it was just kind of trying to survive
- 5:16Speaker 3: the day to day. So we just kind of dealt
- 5:18Speaker 3: with it and didn't think all that much of it.
- 5:23Speaker 3: I remember having conversations about it, and my husband and
- 5:26Speaker 3: I talking about it and going, it's it is kind
- 5:29Speaker 3: of weird because again, his twin sister in comparison is
- 5:32Speaker 3: is pooping every day and he's not okay, So maybe
- 5:37Speaker 3: it's just his baby, that's just his spot, like maybe
- 5:40Speaker 3: that's just normal for him, like like we don't know,
- 5:43Speaker 3: you know, and we didn't didn't really think much about
- 5:49Speaker 3: it till I think it was his three month checkup
- 5:54Speaker 3: with a three month checkup for both of them, and
- 5:58Speaker 3: we had just kind of mentioned it to the nutrition
- 6:00Speaker 3: and said, I you know, like between the two, like
- 6:03Speaker 3: there's this noticeable difference and when he's pooping and when
- 6:07Speaker 3: she's pooping and kind of their normal cycles for that,
- 6:12Speaker 3: and the pediatrician kind of like immediately all of a
- 6:14Speaker 3: sudden said like hang on, like that's not that's not
- 6:19Speaker 3: normal for a three month old to only be going
- 6:22Speaker 3: every four five, you know, like days, Like that's not
- 6:28Speaker 3: that's that's not what it should be. So she immediately
- 6:32Speaker 3: had us get she wanted us to get into a
- 6:35Speaker 3: GI specialist, and she was able to pull some strings
- 6:38Speaker 3: and get us in very quickly to you know, the
- 6:42Speaker 3: GI specialist, especially at children's hospitals, usually can take a
- 6:46Speaker 3: very long time to get in. She was able to
- 6:49Speaker 3: pull some strings and I think it was like a
- 6:51Speaker 3: week later that we were able to get in and
- 6:55Speaker 3: went and saw them and I don't remember like the
- 7:00Speaker 3: sacked timeline, but saw them and I think they might
- 7:05Speaker 3: have said they might have mentioned hirshprungs kind of pretty
- 7:11Speaker 3: early on. I don't remember for sure, but I know
- 7:14Speaker 3: that they, like, you know, right away said no, we
- 7:16Speaker 3: need to do some more testing and figure out what's
- 7:19Speaker 3: going on. So, you know, they had us scheduled. They
- 7:24Speaker 3: scheduled us pretty quickly for a biopsy. Don't. My husband
- 7:30Speaker 3: remembers like all the dates in the timeline better than
- 7:32Speaker 3: I do, because once again, it's all it just it
- 7:35Speaker 3: kind of all blends together with that point three or
- 7:38Speaker 3: four month old twins. So I so, but I know
- 7:43Speaker 3: that they did. They they did the biopsy, and as
- 7:47Speaker 3: soon as the biopsy came back, they said, no, he
- 7:50Speaker 3: has he has hirshprungs and explain to us what that
- 7:54Speaker 3: is and why that explained his normal like cycle and
- 8:01Speaker 3: why he was only whooping every you know, like why
- 8:05Speaker 3: because his you know, his body literally can't get it
- 8:08Speaker 3: out and so, you know, I mean, that's kind of
- 8:13Speaker 3: a big shock when you're like, you know, in every
- 8:17Speaker 3: other lady, he's like this, He's a totally normal, happy
- 8:20Speaker 3: baby until he gets to the point where it's uncomfortable
- 8:24Speaker 3: and it hurts, and you know, so as soon as
- 8:29Speaker 3: they did the biopsy. They said, yeah, no, we need
- 8:31Speaker 3: to schedule him for surgery, and they I remember the
- 8:35Speaker 3: GI specialist being really upset that the doctor in the
- 8:40Speaker 3: hospital and they were born didn't catch it, especially because
- 8:45Speaker 3: he because they did have to do that you know,
- 8:47Speaker 3: manual merconium plug you know thing and and that, and
- 8:57Speaker 3: because they were twins because I C section. We I
- 9:01Speaker 3: think we were in the hospital for like three days
- 9:02Speaker 3: when they were born. And the GI specialst kind of said,
- 9:06Speaker 3: how did they not notice that he hadn't hooped again
- 9:10Speaker 3: like he should have He should have gone again before
- 9:13Speaker 3: you guys left the hospital, and that it was really
- 9:18Speaker 3: the just the GI specials was kind of irritated that
- 9:22Speaker 3: the doctor didn't hatch that there was something going on,
- 9:26Speaker 3: and that you know that we had been kind of
- 9:29Speaker 3: living with this for three months and that Leo had
- 9:32Speaker 3: been living with it for three months without us realizing
- 9:35Speaker 3: that there was something wrong, so all all that. So yeah,
- 9:43Speaker 3: so they basically then immediately said, Okay, We're going to
- 9:46Speaker 3: get him in for surgery as soon as possible. We
- 9:48Speaker 3: can't can't let this go, like, we need to get
- 9:51Speaker 3: him in as soon as possible. So I ended up
- 9:56Speaker 3: scheduling the surgery for the week before Christmas, so he
- 9:59Speaker 3: was like five months old at that point. So he
- 10:04Speaker 3: and I were in the hospital for about I think
- 10:08Speaker 3: it was about five days that we were in the hospital.
- 10:10Speaker 3: So they did. His surgery went really really well. They
- 10:14Speaker 3: ended up resecting seven inches of his bowel and then
- 10:19Speaker 3: they did the botox shot to help with you know,
- 10:23Speaker 3: just to help loosen everything up. So you know, it
- 10:29Speaker 3: was it was he was young enough. He obviously doesn't
- 10:33Speaker 3: remember that. I doesn't. You know, it was fairly traumatic
- 10:36Speaker 3: for me because you know, I'm in the hospital for
- 10:39Speaker 3: five days and he's and of course he could, you know,
- 10:41Speaker 3: after because of what it is. He couldn't eat for
- 10:46Speaker 3: they wouldn't let him have anything to eat, and I
- 10:50Speaker 3: and barely drink. I think he had an ivy, so
- 10:54Speaker 3: I think that's how he was getting fluids. You know,
- 10:56Speaker 3: he couldn't eat anything. It was like the third day
- 10:59Speaker 3: after surgery, before or they let him eat, and the
- 11:02Speaker 3: poor kid was just you know, he's five months old,
- 11:05Speaker 3: Like he doesn't he's old enough to be laying there
- 11:09Speaker 3: with his head up, you know, propped up on his
- 11:11Speaker 3: arms with his head up and looking at me. And
- 11:14Speaker 3: crying and miserable. Like I just remember it just being
- 11:18Speaker 3: absolutely heartbreaking for me because I couldn't there was nothing
- 11:23Speaker 3: I could do. I just wanted to feed him so
- 11:27Speaker 3: badly and I couldn't. They wouldn't let me, obviously, And
- 11:33Speaker 3: I just remember that that when the doctor did finally
- 11:38Speaker 3: come in and cleared him to eat, was just this.
- 11:42Speaker 3: I mean, I just remember crying and just like being
- 11:45Speaker 3: so relieved that I could finally give him some food
- 11:47Speaker 3: because he was just so unhappy. And then you know,
- 11:53Speaker 3: and then so yeah, I think we were there from
- 11:55Speaker 3: there two days after that, just too for observation to
- 11:58Speaker 3: make sure that he was okay and that that he
- 12:02Speaker 3: was able to poop, and he did. He was I
- 12:08Speaker 3: think at that point because of the botox shot it.
- 12:13Speaker 3: I think he was kind of pooping kind of all
- 12:16Speaker 3: the time. And so they were very happy with that,
- 12:19Speaker 3: and they were like, all right, like he's you know,
- 12:21Speaker 3: after five days, he's he's you're good to take him home.
- 12:25Speaker 3: And really that was kind of the end of our
- 12:32Speaker 3: issues until recently. So he you know, we you know,
- 12:39Speaker 3: had follow ups and he was he was fine, he
- 12:42Speaker 3: was we I mean, he was having no issues whatsoever.
- 12:45Speaker 3: He was he's still kind of always was more like
- 12:51Speaker 3: every other day that he would poop instead of like
- 12:55Speaker 3: every day. It was still a little bit longer timeline
- 12:59Speaker 3: in between compared to his sister. And but you know,
- 13:04Speaker 3: the follow ups, the doctor people like that's fine as
- 13:06Speaker 3: long as it's like every other day, like that's you know,
- 13:08Speaker 3: we're good with that. That's you know, that's fine. So
- 13:13Speaker 3: you know, so at this point he is five and
- 13:15Speaker 3: a half. So we went from you know, five months
- 13:18Speaker 3: old from the surgery to kind of then much more
- 13:23Speaker 3: recently where he's you know, as he got older and
- 13:28Speaker 3: we got potty trained, the daily aspect of it has
- 13:35Speaker 3: kind of always been an issue just in we kind
- 13:41Speaker 3: of have to force him to go sit on the potty.
- 13:44Speaker 3: Like once he once we got to potty training, and
- 13:49Speaker 3: like we could we would tell that he you know,
- 13:51Speaker 3: he would start his stomach was start to get extended,
- 13:53Speaker 3: and we have to go, Okay, we have to we
- 13:55Speaker 3: have to go. We have to go sit with you.
- 13:56Speaker 3: We will come sit with you in the bathroom and
- 13:59Speaker 3: sit with you, U yu, sit on the potty and
- 14:01Speaker 3: try to go. And you know, he had a lot
- 14:05Speaker 3: of resistance to that. He didn't want to do that
- 14:11Speaker 3: because again, at like three and four, he doesn't understand,
- 14:15Speaker 3: like he doesn't understand what is going on. So it
- 14:20Speaker 3: was a lot of so while it felt very normal,
- 14:24Speaker 3: it didn't feel necessarily like we had this giant thing
- 14:28Speaker 3: that we were dealing with all the time. We did
- 14:30Speaker 3: kind of have a fairly consistent just we need to
- 14:34Speaker 3: kind of help him and coach him and get him
- 14:36Speaker 3: to sit on the potting trick because we can tell
- 14:38Speaker 3: he hasn't pooped in two days, like he needs to go,
- 14:43Speaker 3: and he just he kind of can't tell when he
- 14:48Speaker 3: needs to. So kind of now at five, now we
- 14:55Speaker 3: can we can tell him, okay, get your get your tablet,
- 14:58Speaker 3: or get your switch, or go get something and just
- 15:01Speaker 3: go sit and try. And almost every single time he
- 15:04Speaker 3: will poop immediately like he will he will, he will
- 15:08Speaker 3: go right away the second he tries, he goes. It's
- 15:11Speaker 3: just the fact that we kind of have to force
- 15:14Speaker 3: him to go try instead of him he just still
- 15:20Speaker 3: can't doesn't recognize when he needs to. So that's kind
- 15:29Speaker 3: of our daily life with it is. It's really not
- 15:32Speaker 3: all that big of a deal other than the fact
- 15:37Speaker 3: that we do have to just be very kind of
- 15:39Speaker 3: conscious and pay attention to when was this? The conversation
- 15:43Speaker 3: with my husband and I have all the time that
- 15:45Speaker 3: like it. We laugh about the fact that like half
- 15:47Speaker 3: of our conversation is about pooping, and you know, when
- 15:49Speaker 3: was the last time he pooped? We need to pay
- 15:52Speaker 3: attention to that. Okay, it was two days ago, all right,
- 15:54Speaker 3: we need to like have him, we need to kind
- 15:57Speaker 3: of make him go sit and tried. So yeah, So
- 16:04Speaker 3: really just no major issues until this summer. God, I
- 16:14Speaker 3: can't even think of what it was now, but it
- 16:16Speaker 3: was this summer. Oh, I think it was no. Actually
- 16:20Speaker 3: at the summer, it was October and in September he
- 16:25Speaker 3: through throughout the whole month he kind of wasn't acting normal.
- 16:31Speaker 3: He was complaining about his stomach hurting all the time,
- 16:34Speaker 3: his stomach was really distended. But then but then he
- 16:38Speaker 3: would poop, so we would We were like, uh, you know,
- 16:43Speaker 3: it doesn't necessarily seem anything out of the normal as
- 16:47Speaker 3: far as as far as his normal, Like he's still pooping,
- 16:51Speaker 3: we're not. We're not. He's not constipated, so he's still going.
- 16:58Speaker 3: But but something was off off and we had a
- 17:02Speaker 3: lot going along. We were in the middle of packing
- 17:04Speaker 3: to move to a new house, and we just kind
- 17:09Speaker 3: of kept like brushing it off, and we're like, I like,
- 17:13Speaker 3: we're not again. We kind of didn't know what we
- 17:17Speaker 3: didn't know. So we had had like we'd had many
- 17:21Speaker 3: we'd had multiple conversations about the fact that his stomach
- 17:24Speaker 3: was really descended, and we we like it was. We
- 17:27Speaker 3: were a little we were definitely worried about it, but
- 17:29Speaker 3: we had all this other stuff going on, and then
- 17:32Speaker 3: he would boop, so we're like, oh, he must be
- 17:35Speaker 3: it must be okay. And finally we got to a
- 17:39Speaker 3: point and we got to October and we like he
- 17:45Speaker 3: had we had had a couple of days in a
- 17:47Speaker 3: row where he was really complaining of us stomach and
- 17:53Speaker 3: oh and I think and it was it was even
- 17:55Speaker 3: like worse than that where he had started. What really
- 17:58Speaker 3: like triggered us was that he had started to run
- 18:01Speaker 3: a fever. All of a sudden. The school had called
- 18:05Speaker 3: and they said, he's running a fever and he's kind
- 18:07Speaker 3: of really not acting right and we're not quite sure,
- 18:11Speaker 3: like he's running a fever, so you got to come
- 18:13Speaker 3: pick him up, and so we did, and he just
- 18:16Speaker 3: was really really lethargic and not not just not acting
- 18:27Speaker 3: him like himself, Like we picked him up and he
- 18:29Speaker 3: immediately fell asleep on the couch and it like it
- 18:34Speaker 3: didn't like he just we couldn't couldn't keep him awake anyway.
- 18:38Speaker 3: It was like all this, you know, he just was
- 18:39Speaker 3: not acting like himself. It was clearly something going on,
- 18:42Speaker 3: and we finally said, okay, I like it was like
- 18:45Speaker 3: the second day of him kind of acting like this
- 18:47Speaker 3: morning a fever, and we're like, all right, We're we're
- 18:49Speaker 3: going to take him to Children's because something is clearly
- 18:53Speaker 3: off and wrong. And so we did told him about
- 18:58Speaker 3: his hirsch rungs by his surgery when he was five
- 19:01Speaker 3: months old, and they, you know, they right away like
- 19:06Speaker 3: his I mean, his stomach was really distended. It was
- 19:08Speaker 3: really hard. And so my husband had taken him when
- 19:11Speaker 3: I stayed home with our daughter, and they did X
- 19:19Speaker 3: rays and his entire intestines were ballooned up to the
- 19:25Speaker 3: point where they were worried that he was like they
- 19:28Speaker 3: were going to burst, like they kind of at that
- 19:31Speaker 3: point they were saying, we think we might have to
- 19:33Speaker 3: take him into surgery like tonight right away because it
- 19:38Speaker 3: just his his entire intestinal track was like just all
- 19:42Speaker 3: ballooned up. I mean, like it was really you know,
- 19:46Speaker 3: my husband called me and he said, this is like
- 19:48Speaker 3: really bad, Like this is there there. The nurses and
- 19:52Speaker 3: the doctors are like really concerned about this, and like
- 19:56Speaker 3: they're they're kind of talking about the fact that like
- 20:00Speaker 3: he might go into like emergency surgery and you know,
- 20:03Speaker 3: all this, and so they I ended up calling a friend.
- 20:09Speaker 3: She came and stayed with my daughter so I could
- 20:11Speaker 3: get to the hospital as well. So while I was
- 20:15Speaker 3: on my way there, they started doing the sailine flush
- 20:20Speaker 3: where they were what do they call it, where they
- 20:23Speaker 3: you know, put We call it the magic Yeah. Yeah,
- 20:28Speaker 3: so we call it. We call it the magic water
- 20:30Speaker 3: because that's that way. It makes him feel better. That's
- 20:33Speaker 3: that's it's the magic water. It helps it helps him
- 20:39Speaker 3: feel better, So it's magic water. So they had started
- 20:42Speaker 3: doing irrigation, that's the that's the word that they use.
- 20:45Speaker 3: It was the irrigations. They had started doing irrigations in
- 20:49Speaker 3: the emergency room, and they were getting a lot of
- 20:54Speaker 3: poop out, like a lot. I mean, it was just
- 20:55Speaker 3: kind of con that we're getting a ton out and
- 20:58Speaker 3: they were like, all right, well we're gonna we're going
- 21:00Speaker 3: to keep doing this and see if his and if
- 21:04Speaker 3: the if like that swelling of his intestine starts to
- 21:08Speaker 3: go down and we can kind of figure out what's
- 21:11Speaker 3: going on. So kind of long story short, you know,
- 21:15Speaker 3: they did that right away. They were like, we're gonna
- 21:18Speaker 3: admit him, and we're gonna get one of the g
- 21:22Speaker 3: I pediatric GI doctors to come see him first thing
- 21:28Speaker 3: in the morning. And so kind of throughout that night
- 21:31Speaker 3: they did the they did the flush, the wash out
- 21:34Speaker 3: and the trying to get you know, and it just
- 21:38Speaker 3: was this concetant. I mean it was it was so
- 21:40Speaker 3: much that they were getting out and his belly started
- 21:44Speaker 3: to look a lot smaller, started to look a lot,
- 21:47Speaker 3: it was getting softer, and but he was still very
- 21:54Speaker 3: He still was running a fever. They were they were
- 21:56Speaker 3: really worried about that. So I guess the next day
- 21:59Speaker 3: they did a buch of testing. Didn't even realize that
- 22:00Speaker 3: they had done all of these, but they started doing
- 22:04Speaker 3: that was trying to figure out what was causing the
- 22:06Speaker 3: fever and why he was so because because in one
- 22:09Speaker 3: of the things that they had said that night in
- 22:11Speaker 3: the emergency room was they had said, we think that
- 22:14Speaker 3: it's he's got a blockage. That that's why everything is
- 22:18Speaker 3: so swollen and distended, is because we think he's got
- 22:22Speaker 3: a blockage somewhere in there. But there was so much
- 22:24Speaker 3: they couldn't even see on the x ray. They couldn't
- 22:27Speaker 3: even see like they they were like, we can't even
- 22:29Speaker 3: tell because it's just so swollen. So that was they
- 22:34Speaker 3: were like, we need to get as much of it
- 22:36Speaker 3: out as we can to figure out where the blockage
- 22:37Speaker 3: is so that we can get all the you know,
- 22:40Speaker 3: get get that out. And so the the the next
- 22:45Speaker 3: day that the next day, they you know, they were
- 22:48Speaker 3: doing them. They were doing extras pretty regularly to kind
- 22:50Speaker 3: of see where it where he was, and and like
- 22:53Speaker 3: how like what it looked like. And they got to
- 22:56Speaker 3: the point where the swelling had come down enough and
- 22:58Speaker 3: they were like, there's no blockage there. There's no there's
- 23:01Speaker 3: nothing blocking him. So we're not quite sure why he
- 23:04Speaker 3: has not been able to go and why this is like,
- 23:08Speaker 3: you know, as backed up as as he is. And
- 23:14Speaker 3: they finally started running a bunch of tests to figure
- 23:17Speaker 3: out kind of what was causing all this, and we
- 23:21Speaker 3: found were they realized that he had salmonilla. We had
- 23:27Speaker 3: we have no idea I mean they kind of they
- 23:30Speaker 3: kind of said he could have gotten it from anywhere.
- 23:33Speaker 3: And the problem with hirshprungs is because their intestinal track
- 23:38Speaker 3: moves so much slower than you know, somebody without hirshprungs,
- 23:43Speaker 3: that the salmonilla basically just sat in his gut and
- 23:47Speaker 3: just the bacteria multiplied and and got it just it
- 23:52Speaker 3: grew a lot faster and a lot worse than it
- 23:56Speaker 3: would somebody without hirshrungs, because normal, you know, I mean,
- 24:00Speaker 3: for the rest of us, we eat something, we get
- 24:03Speaker 3: salmonilla and probably don't even realize it. We just get
- 24:05Speaker 3: a little bit of an upset stomach, and our bodies
- 24:07Speaker 3: are able to flush it out, you know, quickly enough
- 24:11Speaker 3: that it never becomes like a big thing, which I
- 24:15Speaker 3: didn't realize. I didn't realize that we probably get it
- 24:18Speaker 3: like all the time. Maybe not all the time, but
- 24:21Speaker 3: we as a you know, as as adults, and as
- 24:23Speaker 3: somebody without her springs, we probably get it way more
- 24:27Speaker 3: than we realize it. Just our body is able to
- 24:29Speaker 3: get rid of it, so it doesn't ever become a thing.
- 24:32Speaker 3: Whereas for him, because it because of this just the
- 24:38Speaker 3: slower speed that there, you know, Bowels move at intestines,
- 24:42Speaker 3: move it. It just it became this really big thing
- 24:48Speaker 3: where it was like, you know, it got its dangerous
- 24:52Speaker 3: and he they couldn't get his fever down. They were
- 24:56Speaker 3: you know, they they were doing then the irrigations like
- 24:59Speaker 3: a couple of times a day, which was just horrible
- 25:04Speaker 3: and not fun because at five and five and a half,
- 25:07Speaker 3: he did not he does not did not doesn't like him,
- 25:09Speaker 3: which again which is why we called him magic Water,
- 25:12Speaker 3: because that was at least a little bit like, you know,
- 25:15Speaker 3: he was a little bit better with Okay, it's the
- 25:17Speaker 3: magic Water. And I will say that our the doctors
- 25:20Speaker 3: and all of the nurses we had at Children's Phoenix
- 25:24Speaker 3: were absolutely fantastic, Like they were so so great and
- 25:30Speaker 3: they are, especially the gi doctor. She would come in
- 25:35Speaker 3: and she would sit down and talk to him and
- 25:37Speaker 3: explain what she was going to do and and you know,
- 25:41Speaker 3: and it really made him more He still didn't want
- 25:46Speaker 3: to do it, but it made him a little bit
- 25:49Speaker 3: more comfortable where he at least he trusted her and
- 25:54Speaker 3: he let us, he let us do it, so you know,
- 25:57Speaker 3: so those were those were kind of a battle. Every
- 26:00Speaker 3: time doing that multiple times a day was just you know,
- 26:04Speaker 3: and as a as a mom, it was heartbreaking and
- 26:07Speaker 3: I hated, you know, because it just he just he
- 26:10Speaker 3: would cry and he didn't what they didn't like it,
- 26:14Speaker 3: and you know, because it's not because we because we
- 26:19Speaker 3: haven't had any issues with it since he was a newborn.
- 26:23Speaker 3: We haven't had to do those you know where you know,
- 26:25Speaker 3: they had given us the whole kid, the irrigation kid
- 26:28Speaker 3: and the tubes and like all of that and had
- 26:31Speaker 3: you know, sent us home with all of that when
- 26:32Speaker 3: he was little. We've never had to do it because
- 26:35Speaker 3: he just hasn't had any issues. So having to do
- 26:38Speaker 3: it now at five five and a half was very
- 26:43Speaker 3: traumatic and it you know, it just it it was
- 26:47Speaker 3: it's not something he's used to doing. So it was
- 26:49Speaker 3: very it was very it was hard, but we got
- 26:53Speaker 3: through it. And and that's kind of what they said
- 26:55Speaker 3: that because it was salmonilla, they just they had to
- 26:58Speaker 3: continue to do those irrigations and rinse out as much
- 27:01Speaker 3: of his intestines as they possibly could and continue to
- 27:05Speaker 3: rent it out to help get all of that bacteria
- 27:08Speaker 3: out of there. And uh so, yeah, so that so
- 27:14Speaker 3: it it ended up it worked really well. You know,
- 27:18Speaker 3: he did not have to have surgery, which is what
- 27:20Speaker 3: they were you know, we were concerned with kind of
- 27:22Speaker 3: the first couple of days, they were still concerned they
- 27:24Speaker 3: were going to have to do surgery, and so we're
- 27:27Speaker 3: really thankful that they didn't have to that just the
- 27:30Speaker 3: irrigation was enough to to clean everything out. So we
- 27:37Speaker 3: ended up being in the hospital again at that time
- 27:40Speaker 3: for five days, and you know, it was it was
- 27:45Speaker 3: it's hard because he because of the salmonilla, he was
- 27:48Speaker 3: on I can't think what they call it, but protocols
- 27:54Speaker 3: where he wasn't allowed to leave his room and when
- 27:56Speaker 3: anybody came, when the nurses came in, they had to
- 27:58Speaker 3: put on the full like protective gear, not like just
- 28:02Speaker 3: the masks and gloves, and you know, because because they
- 28:07Speaker 3: wanted to make sure that we didn't he didn't spread
- 28:10Speaker 3: semonil to anybody else, obviously, so he but it was
- 28:14Speaker 3: hard because he couldn't leave his room and he was
- 28:16Speaker 3: stuck in there, and he you know, by the time,
- 28:19Speaker 3: by like the third or third third day, he was
- 28:23Speaker 3: feeling better. He was feeling you know, his his stomach
- 28:26Speaker 3: was feeling better. He was kind of feeling he was
- 28:29Speaker 3: much more back to his normal happy self. They brought
- 28:33Speaker 3: in like a video game system for him to play,
- 28:36Speaker 3: and they were great. They brought him he's a big
- 28:39Speaker 3: Spider Man fans that they brought him like Spider Man
- 28:41Speaker 3: toys and they had all sorts of like games that
- 28:44Speaker 3: they were kind of doing in his room to keep
- 28:47Speaker 3: him occupied and keep him from kind of going store crazy.
- 28:53Speaker 3: But it was still at that, you know, by he
- 28:55Speaker 3: started feeling better and then he wanted to eat. Oh,
- 28:58Speaker 3: and so that was the other thing was kind of
- 28:59Speaker 3: with this episode is that he was not he wasn't
- 29:03Speaker 3: really eating. The probably week before we took him to
- 29:07Speaker 3: the hospital, he wasn't really eating, like he would take
- 29:11Speaker 3: a bite and be like I'm full, like I don't
- 29:13Speaker 3: want any And then once we realized what was going on,
- 29:15Speaker 3: and we were like, oh, that makes sense why he's
- 29:17Speaker 3: not eating because his he there's no room in his
- 29:20Speaker 3: intestine for food, so he so he hadn't really eaten.
- 29:27Speaker 3: By the time he started to feel better, he really
- 29:30Speaker 3: hadn't eaten much in about two weeks, and he like
- 29:33Speaker 3: he had lost he'd lost weight, like he was looking
- 29:36Speaker 3: very like his face looked very skinny. And but you know,
- 29:40Speaker 3: especially where you see him every day, like you don't
- 29:43Speaker 3: necessarily notice it. It's not like this big, huge shock
- 29:49Speaker 3: thing because you see him every day. But then I
- 29:52Speaker 3: had while we were in a hospital in past kind
- 29:54Speaker 3: of he was sleeping and I was just looking through
- 29:57Speaker 3: old photos and I was looking for photos from just
- 29:58Speaker 3: a couple of weeks ago, and I was like, oh,
- 30:00Speaker 3: my gosh, like a huge difference in in just you know,
- 30:04Speaker 3: he's always kind of had a little bit rounder, kind
- 30:06Speaker 3: of babyface, and it like it it was he had
- 30:09Speaker 3: he had lost quite a bit of weight and was
- 30:11Speaker 3: super skinny. So he he started feeling better and just
- 30:17Speaker 3: desperately wanted to eat, like I mean, he was begging
- 30:19Speaker 3: us for food. And then doctors were like, we need
- 30:22Speaker 3: to wait to make sure that we are like totally
- 30:25Speaker 3: cleared out before we introduce food in there again. And
- 30:31Speaker 3: so it was finally yeah, So they finally did finally
- 30:34Speaker 3: clear him and they said, okay, you can have clear
- 30:36Speaker 3: fluids and you know, like jello and gatorade and that
- 30:41Speaker 3: sort of stuff, and he just i mean devoured it
- 30:45Speaker 3: and then wanted more. And so you know, then we
- 30:49Speaker 3: got to the end of the point where they were
- 30:50Speaker 3: like whatever, whatever the next step of foods was. But
- 30:55Speaker 3: you know, pretty simple things. And he and he was fine,
- 30:59Speaker 3: like he I mean he literally every single thing that
- 31:03Speaker 3: they brought into the room, he he ate all of
- 31:06Speaker 3: it and and was but like his he was not.
- 31:09Speaker 3: He wasn't getting distended again, his stomach wasn't hurting. He was,
- 31:13Speaker 3: you know fine. So that was the that was the
- 31:15Speaker 3: at that point that actually was like all right, like
- 31:17Speaker 3: probably one more day and we think he's probably good
- 31:20Speaker 3: to go home. I think we've gotten all of it
- 31:23Speaker 3: and and he's okay, so we did so yeah, so
- 31:27Speaker 3: five days and and and you know again, uh, you know,
- 31:34Speaker 3: just a hospital stay with a child like that is
- 31:38Speaker 3: it's it's difficult because they just they don't understand, and
- 31:40Speaker 3: they don't you can't really explain it to them why
- 31:46Speaker 3: why we're having to do this and and why they
- 31:49Speaker 3: can't why you can't leave your room, and why you
- 31:52Speaker 3: can't you know, see your sister. And I That was
- 31:55Speaker 3: you know, another that was a very difficult thing was
- 31:58Speaker 3: having a twin sister. They've never been apart other than
- 32:01Speaker 3: his two hospital stays surgery and then this one. And
- 32:05Speaker 3: obviously the surgery was five months old, like he didn't
- 32:07Speaker 3: they you know, they couldn't communicate with whatever, Like they
- 32:10Speaker 3: didn't no big deal then, but now you know, five
- 32:15Speaker 3: they he really it was a lot of like I
- 32:17Speaker 3: missed my sister and why can't my sister? And we
- 32:19Speaker 3: did bring her up a couple of times, they brought
- 32:21Speaker 3: her up to come see him, because she of course
- 32:24Speaker 3: wanted to see like where he was and kind of
- 32:28Speaker 3: understand what was going on. And but you know, she
- 32:31Speaker 3: you know, we couldn't obviously, she couldn't spend the night
- 32:33Speaker 3: she had to and you know, it's hard trying to
- 32:36Speaker 3: then manage two five year olds in a hotel, in
- 32:38Speaker 3: a hospital room where we can't leave the room and
- 32:41Speaker 3: there's only so much to do, and so you know,
- 32:44Speaker 3: like her visiting was kind of short, you know, like
- 32:47Speaker 3: hour hour and a half and we're like okay, but
- 32:50Speaker 3: we needed Biggy home and and you know, so that
- 32:54Speaker 3: was that made it kind of extra difficult, just because
- 33:00Speaker 3: it was a life from both of them. It was why,
- 33:02Speaker 3: you know, I miss my miss my brother, I missed
- 33:04Speaker 3: my sister, Like why why can't why can't they be
- 33:07Speaker 3: here with me? And you know, it was it was
- 33:10Speaker 3: tough that part of it. Yeah.
- 33:13Speaker 2: Uh so, yeah, I mean that is for a for
- 33:19Speaker 2: a normal story, a lot has happened set They almost
- 33:24Speaker 2: thinking this would be like a ten minute story and
- 33:27Speaker 2: there's a lot that's happened. But I think, yeah, potentially
- 33:30Speaker 2: one of those where you kind of when you lay
- 33:32Speaker 2: it all out and maybe maybe at the time we
- 33:35Speaker 2: kind of think, O, well, not a lot's happening, But
- 33:37Speaker 2: actually when the hospital stay and the salmonella and kind
- 33:41Speaker 2: of lay everything out, it's actually quite a lot.
- 33:44Speaker 3: Isn't it. It is? It is, and it was it
- 33:47Speaker 3: was definitely the you know, it was definitely a lot.
- 33:52Speaker 3: And you know, like I said, we were kind of
- 33:53Speaker 3: in the middle of moving as well, so we had
- 33:55Speaker 3: all of this other stress going on, and then he
- 33:58Speaker 3: gets sick and we're in hospital, and it was it
- 34:01Speaker 3: was a very I mean that there was a good
- 34:04Speaker 3: two weeks there where it was just like kind of
- 34:09Speaker 3: losing my mind, like stress and like anxiety levels just
- 34:13Speaker 3: through the roof because it was it was like every
- 34:16Speaker 3: kind of minute was like what's going to happen now?
- 34:19Speaker 3: And but at the same time, you know, by the
- 34:23Speaker 3: time he started getting better and you know, we kind
- 34:25Speaker 3: of got through it and got him home. It we
- 34:30Speaker 3: kind of looked at it and went, you know, we're
- 34:33Speaker 3: we're so glad we took him when we did and
- 34:36Speaker 3: that didn't get to the point that his bowel rupture,
- 34:38Speaker 3: because obviously that would have been like cataclysmic, I mean,
- 34:43Speaker 3: so much worse. So we're we're really glad that we
- 34:45Speaker 3: took him to the hospital when we did, and they
- 34:47Speaker 3: were able to kind of figure out what was going
- 34:48Speaker 3: on fairly quickly and start getting in some relief. But
- 34:53Speaker 3: you know, when we look back at you know, five years,
- 34:57Speaker 3: over five years we've had you know, two two major things,
- 35:01Speaker 3: the surgery and then the salmonilla. So you know, I
- 35:04Speaker 3: guess I feel like it it really is not it's
- 35:10Speaker 3: it's not that it's not that much compared to the
- 35:12Speaker 3: amount of time that we've had where he has been
- 35:16Speaker 3: healthy and fine and you know where we don't have
- 35:21Speaker 3: we're not having major issues with it and we're not
- 35:23Speaker 3: having to do the magic water all the time. And
- 35:26Speaker 3: you know, now at this point, he he does we
- 35:29Speaker 3: like I said, we tell him to go go sit
- 35:31Speaker 3: on the potty and oh and they did do they
- 35:34Speaker 3: did the boatok shot again while we were in the hospital.
- 35:37Speaker 3: They did do the boatok shot again, and we they
- 35:42Speaker 3: they kind of said that they think we need to
- 35:44Speaker 3: start doing it regularly, so you know, every whatever six
- 35:49Speaker 3: six months or so. I think we already have our
- 35:52Speaker 3: appointment scheduled for the next follow up with the with
- 35:56Speaker 3: them to kind of determine if we need to do
- 35:58Speaker 3: it again. But they did say that at this point,
- 36:01Speaker 3: like we do need to because we didn't. We weren't
- 36:03Speaker 3: doing that regularly. We hadn't done it since the surgery
- 36:07Speaker 3: because he was because he was fine. We didn't weren't
- 36:10Speaker 3: there was we kind of didn't there didn't feel like
- 36:13Speaker 3: there was a reason to do it. And but now
- 36:16Speaker 3: after this episode, the g I specialists were like, yeah,
- 36:20Speaker 3: like you need to you need to start We need
- 36:22Speaker 3: to start doing it regularly. They've put him in the
- 36:26Speaker 3: They do have a Hirshbrung's.
- 36:31Speaker 4: Uh like group at at Children's what is the word
- 36:40Speaker 4: I'm looking for where they essentially where they just when
- 36:42Speaker 4: they follow them throughout their life to kind of watch
- 36:44Speaker 4: what happens and like essentially research.
- 36:48Speaker 3: So they've put him into that to kind of, yah,
- 36:53Speaker 3: keep track of his progress and how he's doing and all,
- 36:57Speaker 3: you know, all of that. So again, this Children's has
- 37:01Speaker 3: just been absolutely fantastic. They did such a great job
- 37:06Speaker 3: with his We actually ended up for his surgery when
- 37:09Speaker 3: he was five months old. We were in uh, Cincinnati, Ohio,
- 37:13Speaker 3: and we kind of are thankful we were there when
- 37:18Speaker 3: when we had to do the surgery because we found
- 37:20Speaker 3: out that kind of one of the number one doctors
- 37:24Speaker 3: the surgeons is and I totally can't remember a name,
- 37:32Speaker 3: but but and I can't even remember. I think it's
- 37:36Speaker 3: a I think it was a I think it's a woman,
- 37:38Speaker 3: can't even remember for sure, but anyway, I think it
- 37:40Speaker 3: was a woman that she she's like the one, she's
- 37:44Speaker 3: like one of the top first prongs like surgeons in
- 37:50Speaker 3: the country. And we were we were very so we
- 37:53Speaker 3: were very fortunate because we probably would have ended up
- 37:56Speaker 3: being sent there anyways, and we just happened to have
- 37:59Speaker 3: been living there at the time. So we kind of
- 38:02Speaker 3: say it was like a just I think we were
- 38:06Speaker 3: meant to be there because we were meant to be
- 38:08Speaker 3: living there at the time, because we were able to.
- 38:12Speaker 3: We were able because it is so rare and you know,
- 38:16Speaker 3: you don't have a ton of doctors that do this regularly,
- 38:20Speaker 3: and we just we we ended up having access to
- 38:23Speaker 3: a doctor who who does and does this regularly and
- 38:26Speaker 3: deals with Hirschbranks all the time. So we were really
- 38:30Speaker 3: fortunate that that for the surgery that that was the case.
- 38:36Speaker 3: But then now that we're in Phoenix, Yeah, Children's Phoenix
- 38:38Speaker 3: has just been amazing. And I think our journey forward
- 38:46Speaker 3: if we start doing the boat talk shots regularly and
- 38:50Speaker 3: just kind of keeping I think now after this salmonell episode,
- 38:54Speaker 3: I think we are kind of hyper aware of even
- 39:00Speaker 3: we were aware of his kind of normal pooping schedule
- 39:03Speaker 3: and kind of like what he's eating and all that
- 39:07Speaker 3: kind of stuff before, but I think now after this,
- 39:11Speaker 3: like we are we are just hyper aware of you know,
- 39:15Speaker 3: if because even just the other day my husband was like,
- 39:18Speaker 3: I think his stomach looks a little extended, and we
- 39:20Speaker 3: you know, felt his stomach. We're like, no, it's fine,
- 39:22Speaker 3: but I think we're just we're so it was it
- 39:25Speaker 3: was such, it was such, it was so dramatic the
- 39:28Speaker 3: whole you know, salmonella that I think we're we're just
- 39:30Speaker 3: we're very we're just paying very close attention to like
- 39:34Speaker 3: every little thing with him, and you know, is he
- 39:38Speaker 3: is he pooping every day or at least every other day,
- 39:40Speaker 3: and you know, making sure that he's eating you know,
- 39:44Speaker 3: things like yogurt and getting some of the good you know,
- 39:49Speaker 3: probiotics and that sort of stuff to make sure that
- 39:53Speaker 3: we don't go through that again. I mean, now, if
- 39:55Speaker 3: he gets semonilla get like that's there's not much you
- 39:58Speaker 3: can do, like happens, But but catching it earlier on,
- 40:03Speaker 3: I think is kind of we're much more aware of that.
- 40:08Speaker 3: And kind of one of the things that they did
- 40:10Speaker 3: tell us is that, you know, kind of any time
- 40:14Speaker 3: he's gets sick, is running a fever, kind of any
- 40:18Speaker 3: kind of illness, whether it's even just like a cold
- 40:21Speaker 3: or anything, and slowed down there intestinal track even more
- 40:27Speaker 3: than it than it already is and then can cause
- 40:30Speaker 3: additional problems. So even something as simple as a cold
- 40:33Speaker 3: can kind of set off an episode of you know,
- 40:36Speaker 3: having an issue. So that was good, Like I didn't
- 40:39Speaker 3: I didn't just we didn't realize that, and because again
- 40:42Speaker 3: it hasn't happened.
- 40:43Speaker 2: In the past, a lot of why would you, Yeah,
- 40:45Speaker 2: you know, it's like you said before, you don't know
- 40:48Speaker 2: what you don't know. And I think sometimes and I know,
- 40:51Speaker 2: you know, especially people around my age who maybe don't
- 40:54Speaker 2: have Hushbrung's issues or think about it too much. Maybe
- 40:59Speaker 2: I don't know if place it's the right word, but
- 41:01Speaker 2: like you kind of think, oh, well, everything's been fine
- 41:05Speaker 2: for a number of years, and you know you and
- 41:08Speaker 2: then something happens and it sort of snaps everything back
- 41:10Speaker 2: into sort of oh wait, yes he does.
- 41:13Speaker 3: Oh there is a thing that we have to pay
- 41:15Speaker 3: attention to. Yeah, I know, that's exactly it is. I yes,
- 41:19Speaker 3: it was kind of in this false, false sense of
- 41:22Speaker 3: security because he's been fine and we haven't had any issues,
- 41:25Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden, it's this issue and
- 41:27Speaker 3: it's a big issue, and it's you know, like becomes
- 41:30Speaker 3: this big, big thing that we were not pared for
- 41:34Speaker 3: or didn't you know, it didn't didn't expect it to
- 41:37Speaker 3: become as big of a thing as it was. So
- 41:40Speaker 3: so yeah, so now I think we're we're just we
- 41:42Speaker 3: do where we watch him very carefully and you know,
- 41:48Speaker 3: kind of like I said before, he's now he's he's
- 41:50Speaker 3: gotten to the age where now where it's really easy
- 41:53Speaker 3: to say, Okay, it's time to go. You know, you
- 41:55Speaker 3: need to to grab your tablet and go sit on
- 41:57Speaker 3: the potty and try. And he's he doesn't he doesn't
- 42:01Speaker 3: fight us like he does and then he poops immediately
- 42:03Speaker 3: and and and he's signed. So that's so kind of
- 42:09Speaker 3: you know, like managing helping support him and managing like
- 42:12Speaker 3: we just have to be very aware. Okay, he pooped
- 42:15Speaker 3: two days ago, after dinner, today, after dinner this evening,
- 42:21Speaker 3: he's got to go sit and try it. Like we've
- 42:22Speaker 3: got to make him. So it's just kind of us
- 42:28Speaker 3: just paying attention to those things and making sure that
- 42:32Speaker 3: we are we're we're doing those things too that you know,
- 42:38Speaker 3: will prevent us having another major episode because nobody wants
- 42:43Speaker 3: to go through that. It's not fun.
- 42:44Speaker 2: No, but thank you so much for sharing this. I mean,
- 42:48Speaker 2: I know he said, you know that there's there there's
- 42:52Speaker 2: quite a lot to Hirshprungs, even though maybe it doesn't
- 42:57Speaker 2: seem so much at the time. This is I mean
- 43:00Speaker 2: to this story. This still I know you said you've
- 43:03Speaker 2: sort of had you know, one hospital stay and and
- 43:06Speaker 2: obviously initially born with Hirschbrun's diamosed after three or four months,
- 43:09Speaker 2: but still an awful lot has happened in in his
- 43:13Speaker 2: sort of five five and a bit years of life,
- 43:16Speaker 2: which is which is amazing. But no, thank you so
- 43:21Speaker 2: so so much for sharing Leo's story. And I know
- 43:26Speaker 2: you said a little bit about what your sort of
- 43:28Speaker 2: hopes are for the future or for Leo, for Leo's future,
- 43:33Speaker 2: I don't even want to sort of expand on that
- 43:36Speaker 2: a little bit.
- 43:38Speaker 3: I think I think my I think my hope for
- 43:41Speaker 3: him is that as he continues to get older, he
- 43:45Speaker 3: kind of learns a little bit more. And I don't
- 43:48Speaker 3: expect it to happen for you know, a couple more years,
- 43:51Speaker 3: but that he kind of learns a little bit more
- 43:52Speaker 3: about understanding his body and being kind of more aware,
- 43:58Speaker 3: and he is aware that there's an that there is
- 44:01Speaker 3: something kind of different with him than than his sister,
- 44:06Speaker 3: and you know, like they'll we'll have conversations every once
- 44:08Speaker 3: in a while, like where his sister will go, well,
- 44:10Speaker 3: it's because you know, Leo's stomach gets up or Leo's
- 44:13Speaker 3: I don't even I can't even think of what she says,
- 44:14Speaker 3: but she'll say something about Leo's stomach, and you know,
- 44:19Speaker 3: so he'll he'll say, yeah, it's it's like there's something
- 44:22Speaker 3: wrong with my tummy, and we're like, there's not really
- 44:25Speaker 3: something wrong. I mean it kind of, but you know,
- 44:28Speaker 3: like how to explain that to a five year old
- 44:30Speaker 3: so that he understands. So I kind of think my
- 44:33Speaker 3: my goal and my hopes for him or just as
- 44:36Speaker 3: he gets older that he kind of learns and we
- 44:41Speaker 3: can teach him how to kind of manage this thing
- 44:46Speaker 3: and how to be aware of if something is off
- 44:51Speaker 3: with his stomach. That you know, if he's got an
- 44:53Speaker 3: upset stom if his sister has an upset stomach, like
- 44:56Speaker 3: it's not that big of a deal, but if he's
- 44:58Speaker 3: got an upset stomach or his stomach really hurts like that,
- 45:00Speaker 3: he needs to be able to say something and make
- 45:04Speaker 3: sure he's telling us. And just that he can recognize
- 45:11Speaker 3: as he gets old or recognize those kinds of things
- 45:14Speaker 3: that might be a concern that we should kind of
- 45:19Speaker 3: pay attention to and and go, is is this something
- 45:22Speaker 3: or is it is it just you know, he ate
- 45:26Speaker 3: something that upside the stomach. So that so that's my
- 45:29Speaker 3: you know, I mean, I I like I said, we've
- 45:31Speaker 3: got we've got to follow up. He yeah, So he
- 45:34Speaker 3: had the botok shot in October. So I think we've
- 45:37Speaker 3: got our fall up in the spring at some point
- 45:41Speaker 3: to kind of decide if we're going to do it again.
- 45:43Speaker 3: Like when we're going to do it again. So that's
- 45:48Speaker 3: a little you know that that's a little I guess
- 45:52Speaker 3: it gives me a little bit of anxiety just you know,
- 45:54Speaker 3: thinking about this, like having to do these botox shots
- 45:57Speaker 3: regularly and kind of keep up with that, so, you know,
- 46:04Speaker 3: and he because again he's still he still doesn't recognize,
- 46:09Speaker 3: he doesn't feel it when he needs to poop. We
- 46:12Speaker 3: have to prompt him to go do it, and he will,
- 46:14Speaker 3: but we have we still have to prompt him. So
- 46:16Speaker 3: I really hope that he can get to the point
- 46:18Speaker 3: where where he either learns to recognize it better or
- 46:25Speaker 3: that he he kind of just knows I need, I
- 46:31Speaker 3: need to go poop because I haven't pooped in two days,
- 46:33Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Like, And I'm sure that
- 46:35Speaker 3: will come as he gets older and we get you know,
- 46:37Speaker 3: to older and more understanding and all that, he'll he will,
- 46:42Speaker 3: I'm sure he'll get to that point. Just you know,
- 46:45Speaker 3: we're not there yet because he's five.
- 46:46Speaker 2: And that's yeah. But thank you so so much for
- 46:53Speaker 2: coming on. And I wish you, Leo and and jehol
- 46:58Speaker 2: family all the very very best for the future and
- 47:02Speaker 2: no hospital stays anymore.
- 47:05Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, Thank you so much and thank you
- 47:07Speaker 3: so much for having me. Then. It's been great to
- 47:09Speaker 3: be able to talk about this and tell his story
- 47:15Speaker 3: and hopefully it helps some other people kind of know
- 47:19Speaker 3: what they potentially have to look forward to in the future.
- 47:23Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 47:23Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely my pleasures. Thank you so much, Thank you
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