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kaelin did something bad on camera. · Top Five

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  Speaker 1: Episode thirty nine of the Top five podcast. I'm Kaitlin
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  Speaker 1: sitting about right now with traffic half hour away from
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  Speaker 1: my co.
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  Speaker 2: Host who's just sitting, yeah, sitting.
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  Speaker 1: His crutches are behind him. You thank him very much
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  Speaker 1: for his service. It's not been an easy time. If
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  Speaker 1: you can hear, I'm sick. So we're just really doing
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  Speaker 1: this for the tops, the top so they can they
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  Speaker 1: can get they're fixed, because like that when I posted,
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  Speaker 1: when I posted, like when should I drop the episode?
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  Speaker 1: People were like no, like I had drive I do
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  Speaker 1: it yet? And I made them wait a couple days
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  Speaker 1: so I apologize.
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  Speaker 2: They're like two weeks ago, like what do you mean?
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  Speaker 1: They're like, why are you asking him? Like I know,
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  Speaker 1: but you guys, I was so sick, I couldn't even
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  Speaker 1: like it's hold on, let me just explain what this is.
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  Speaker 1: Each week five things were obsessed with one thing we hate,
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  Speaker 1: cried about, or crashed out about. J R. Brown Klein
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  Speaker 1: for real the Top five podcasts on Instagram and YouTube.
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  Speaker 1: We have yes on YouTube, but anyways, I so I
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  Speaker 1: posted that and I was fine, and I I didn't
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  Speaker 1: really go hard for Saint Patty's Day, but I like
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  Speaker 1: went out saw some people.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't get trang like where did you go?
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  Speaker 3: Like I I definitely I didn't feel fomo because obviously
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  Speaker 3: I was at home, but like every other year for
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  Speaker 3: the last like twelve years, I've had to work the
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  Speaker 3: River Dye day and be in like the center of
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  Speaker 3: the craziness and so being able to watch it from afar,
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  Speaker 3: I didn't have fomo, but I was like, I wonder
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  Speaker 3: how it is, and so I wanted to ask you
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  Speaker 3: how that was?
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  Speaker 1: Well, part of it will be my crash out until
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  Speaker 1: you look here. He's that I had a crash out,
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  Speaker 1: but no, I did like such an adult like Saint
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  Speaker 1: Patty's Day, Like I was starting to get sick a
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  Speaker 1: little bit, but like not to the point where it
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  Speaker 1: was like I don't know for me, like it's so crazy.
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  Speaker 1: All I want to do is have nothing to do.
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  Speaker 1: And then I have nothing to do and I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta get the fuck out of here. So truly
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  Speaker 1: just walked over to our friend Jordan's their little studio.
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  Speaker 1: It's like not little, it's amazing, but yeah, it's nearby.
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  Speaker 1: So I walked over. They were doing some like Saint
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  Speaker 1: Patti's Content whatever, and then I just ubered to Casey's
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  Speaker 1: boyfriend's best friends apartment and then literally just had like
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  Speaker 1: a couple more drinks. It was like the most adult
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  Speaker 1: party I've ever been to. There was like so many snacks,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't know. I was like, this is way
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  Speaker 1: too adult for me.
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  Speaker 2: The apartment was like like people prepared for this.
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  Speaker 3: You didn't just end up flopping at someone's house after
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  Speaker 3: drinking all that.
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  Speaker 1: There were themed there were themed cocktails, there were themed snacks.
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  Speaker 1: But I was just like, this is not like I
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  Speaker 1: don't belong here, I'm not good enough. It was funny,
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  Speaker 1: and so I wasn't sick, like really at all. Sunday
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  Speaker 1: came and I'm like, Okay, well maybe I'm just hungover.
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  Speaker 1: But it ended up that I was like getting very sick,
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  Speaker 1: and then like Monday came and I was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: dear God, no, like something's really wrong, and you know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't really like mine being sick. I'm like probably
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  Speaker 1: the only person that's like doesn't really mind it. But
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  Speaker 1: I was like I was down so anyway, So uploading
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  Speaker 1: that podcast was the hardest thing I did because I
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  Speaker 1: could clearly leave my bed, which is now the floor.
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  Speaker 1: If you can see I all by myself, took apart
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  Speaker 1: my headboard and everything.
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  Speaker 2: Oh like I'm you know, yeah, I look at you.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I'm I'm going to hang out now. But anyway,
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  Speaker 1: I literally that my computer was in the next room,
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  Speaker 1: and getting up and walking over to that was like
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  Speaker 1: literally the hardest thing I did that day. So there
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  Speaker 1: was a little bit of a lag just because I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. That's my bad, you guys. But we're doing
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  Speaker 1: another episode and I'm making Jason do this. I was
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  Speaker 1: getting a little bit of a surgery update from you. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: we are unlocked.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, we are at ninety degrees.
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  Speaker 3: I can bend like I can sit like normally at
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  Speaker 3: a chair, which is nice.
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  Speaker 2: It truly is.
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  Speaker 3: And I was able to get because like they lay
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  Speaker 3: you down and they're like, okay, well just like you know,
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  Speaker 3: raise your knee like as much as you can, just
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  Speaker 3: to see how you can like do it naturally, and
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  Speaker 3: like naturally, I got to ninety three degrees, so they're like, okay,
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  Speaker 3: you're ready, So they unlocked me to ninety and yeah,
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  Speaker 3: now I can bend my leg, which is you don't
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  Speaker 3: even realize like how important that is like in every
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  Speaker 3: day life to be able.
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  Speaker 2: To not have your leg be completely straight all the time.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, and then I had a super embarrassing moment
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  Speaker 3: because oh my god, this is so bad. So I think, like,
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  Speaker 3: maybe you could tell me, because you're like a skin
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  Speaker 3: skincare girly. But like, I came back from Turks and
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  Speaker 3: immediately like four days later went into surgery, right, So
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  Speaker 3: like I didn't even really go outside between those like
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  Speaker 3: four days or so, I come back tan as.
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  Speaker 2: Fuck right, and go right into surgery.
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  Speaker 3: And so my I've never like experienced dry skin like
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  Speaker 3: this before, like the driest of skin I have ever had,
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  Speaker 3: like all over my body, Like I'm still flaking, and
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  Speaker 3: I don't know if it's because like I don't know
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  Speaker 3: like the tan or the burn or like what happened.
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  Speaker 3: But my legs look like I have some form of disease, right,
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  Speaker 3: And I could not put lotion on it because of
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  Speaker 3: the incisions, so they're like you can't put lotion on
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  Speaker 3: your leg like whatever. So I just had and I
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  Speaker 3: didn't want to do one leg and the other leg
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  Speaker 3: not because then I looked like really fucking like weird. Right,
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  Speaker 3: So I've just had these dry ass, flaky ass legs
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  Speaker 3: all the time, and I have to wear shorts to therapy,
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  Speaker 3: and I'm sure the therapist is like, what the fuck,
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  Speaker 3: like is wrong with this guy? Like wire's legs so dry.
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  Speaker 3: So then finally yesterday she was like, I didn't even
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  Speaker 3: ask her. She's like, you know, you can start putting
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  Speaker 3: lotion on there if you want. I'm like, I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: thank you. I'm like, I you told me I couldn't,
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  Speaker 3: so I haven't been, and now like I look like
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  Speaker 3: a freak.
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  Speaker 2: I literally like. I ordered Saravey.
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  Speaker 1: From Amazon and great brand.
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  Speaker 3: It just got delivered. I googled what the best lotion
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  Speaker 3: it would be for dry legs, ordered it, ordered it
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  Speaker 3: by the fucking vat. Okay, it is outside on my
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  Speaker 3: front board right now. I'm gonna go get it after
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  Speaker 3: we record and start lathering these bitches up because like,
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  Speaker 3: oh my god, like I'm leaving flakes of skin on
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  Speaker 3: the tables that I'm like at my therapy session and
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  Speaker 3: at the doctor and she's like, you can start putting.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, the sun is very drying. And I guess
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  Speaker 1: for me because I shave my legs so often and
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  Speaker 1: I like feel very dry. If I don't do that. Afterwards,
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  Speaker 1: I feel like I often moisturize my legs, so but
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  Speaker 1: like they definitely get drier from the sun, so that
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  Speaker 1: would make sense. Now, were you sunscreening the legs or
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  Speaker 1: only the face and upper body?
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  Speaker 3: I was sunscreening. I'm trying to think. Ulet me remember
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  Speaker 3: it feels like eight years ago. I was just doing
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  Speaker 3: I think my upper body. I don't think I was
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  Speaker 3: doing my legs, so that probably is the reason they
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  Speaker 3: were like super tan. But I've never experienced flakiness like
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  Speaker 3: this before, Like it's on my arms, like I lift
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  Speaker 3: up my shirt and it's like falling, like the shit
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  Speaker 3: is like falling off of me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm what the fuck is wrong with me?
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  Speaker 3: And maybe it's like because I'm not showering as much,
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  Speaker 3: like so I'm not getting like the like huh, Like.
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  Speaker 1: Usually showering drives you out, like oh okay, you're skin
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  Speaker 1: oils usually. But I wonder if I don't know what's
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  Speaker 1: going on, girl, you're like sound like a snake.
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  Speaker 3: I don't, I know, literally like my legs, like, oh
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  Speaker 3: my god, I haven't. I don't know if I'm going
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  Speaker 3: to send you a picture to put on the dumb
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  Speaker 3: I don't know. Maybe I might send a picture before
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  Speaker 3: I low shit so you can see.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I posted your knee and my sister was like, bro,
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  Speaker 1: what the fuck? And IM like I'm like, I have
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  Speaker 1: about nine more. Do you want them? She's like, I'm good,
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  Speaker 1: thank you. It's that gross but.
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  Speaker 2: Fucking weird. There's a rope in me literal bro literally
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  Speaker 2: like from from home depot.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, i'd be able to take a picture onto you,
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  Speaker 3: but these bitches are dry, and I can't wait till
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  Speaker 3: just like lather them up.
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  Speaker 1: Send us that too. I really need that. I don't
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  Speaker 1: even rub it in. Okay. I have two questions based
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  Speaker 1: on everything you just told them. My first question is
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  Speaker 1: I'm not normal. I'm like an intense overshare to the
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  Speaker 1: point that like it's not right. So you're normal, like
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  Speaker 1: a normal person, Like you're experiencing these like dry lags
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  Speaker 1: and you're feeling self conscious about it to like think
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  Speaker 1: the physical therapist.
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  Speaker 2: Dan, Oh yeah, but you don't.
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  Speaker 1: Say anything like I would immediately oh my god. They
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  Speaker 1: don't let me put lotion on him. So sorry, like
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  Speaker 1: you don't say is that not normal?
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  Speaker 2: I don't.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't know what to say, like, and then I
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  Speaker 3: was like thinking, like okay, well, maybe he's seen like
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  Speaker 3: worse legs, like I don't know, like like I likes yeah,
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  Speaker 3: but then I'm also thinking like oh, but then I'm thinking, okay, well,
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  Speaker 3: when I can finally put lotion on it, what a
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  Speaker 3: stark surprise he is in for when he touches my
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  Speaker 3: leg and it doesn't flake apart when he tries to
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  Speaker 3: do something, do it you have to.
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  Speaker 1: Like blow, like do a snow blow or something.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm all for reveal, you know, so like
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  Speaker 2: I think, like.
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  Speaker 1: Shave your legs and put on like some glowy stuff
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  Speaker 1: just like just not say anything, you know, like Dan,
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  Speaker 1: it did something special for you, right, like you don't
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  Speaker 1: say anything and see if he's like waiting your legs
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  Speaker 1: always like I don't.
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  Speaker 3: This is so oh my god, this is it's so
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  Speaker 3: bad on the my surgical leg because they had to
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  Speaker 3: shave me to like do the surgery, and they shaved
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  Speaker 3: the whole thing, like the whole thing. I can't even
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  Speaker 3: tell if the hair is back because it's so flaky that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. If you guys are eating or like
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  Speaker 1: not into this conversation, I still like I'm eating Marboro
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  Speaker 1: Rads and we're just flaking skin.
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  Speaker 2: Oh so yeah that my doctor told me to put losh.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, that's that's hysterical. She's like, you do know, Like
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  Speaker 1: it's so.
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  Speaker 3: You you follow to tell you that you're dry. I'm like, bitch,
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  Speaker 3: you can tell me. I fucking have eyes. I can
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  Speaker 3: see that my legs are.
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  Speaker 1: Here's a SpongeBob when he has no water, and he's like.
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, girl, I have problems.
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  Speaker 1: Only you would like wait for her to be like
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  Speaker 1: go ahead, Like like, bitch, I'm so flaky, Like I
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  Speaker 1: don't care what you say, Like I really need to.
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  Speaker 3: Shit, don't just don't cake it on the holes. I'm like, girl,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not promising anything. You told me I could do it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm fucking oh we're going in.
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  Speaker 2: I'm covered.
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  Speaker 1: I'm proud of you. Sarah is a good brand and
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  Speaker 1: it's like a drugstore brand, so it's easy to get.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: I just I did it off of I have Amazon credit,
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  Speaker 3: so I just did I did that, and my aspirin
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  Speaker 3: and everything that I needed just got delivered. So I
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  Speaker 3: was like, okay, it's out of box the front porch.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Amazon is like I'm like so anti, but I
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  Speaker 1: like can't quit it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, yeah, it's really nice.
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  Speaker 1: It's too convenient. My second question is, I know that
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  Speaker 1: you were doing a skit when you told Paulina you
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  Speaker 1: were going to Cardi B. Like I could see that
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  Speaker 1: in real time. My question is, did you know because
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  Speaker 1: I was. I was. I was just observing the conversation,
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  Speaker 1: you know.
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  Speaker 2: I think it was like hopefulness.
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  Speaker 3: I think it was a little bit of a skin,
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  Speaker 3: a little bit of like hopefulness that I would be
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  Speaker 3: walking because okay, I'll let you finish your question. But
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  Speaker 3: I think like I was counting the weeks, obviously, because
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  Speaker 3: that's all I have to do, is sit here and
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  Speaker 3: count the world. But I think I was counting the
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  Speaker 3: weeks and I realized that I was one week ahead,
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  Speaker 3: so I thought I was going I would be going
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  Speaker 3: into my sixth week, which meant no crutches. So I
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  Speaker 3: was like, so I was like, okay, like if somehow
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  Speaker 3: we're progressing and I'm like superhuman, like my coming up
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  Speaker 3: party would be Cardi B.
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  Speaker 1: Saturday'd be iconic and ours too, because honestly, I'm sure
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  Speaker 1: we would have had better seats, you know, if if
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  Speaker 1: we could have wielded you, in which we I don't
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  Speaker 1: I don't know that I would ask you to crutch
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  Speaker 1: all of card even a twerk, and like right, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: like that's crazy.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, so yeah, so it was a little bit
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  Speaker 3: of skit, little bit of wishful thinging, but yes, go
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  Speaker 3: ahead finish.
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  Speaker 1: At first you were no, because I think maybe it
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  Speaker 1: was like just based on how you're feeling at that moment.
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  Speaker 1: And then she was like, I mean, I'm always down
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  Speaker 1: if you want to go somewhere, you know, I'll wheel
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  Speaker 1: your ass, but really like laying it on thick because
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  Speaker 1: I mean, of course we want you to go, and
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  Speaker 1: it's fucking Cardi B and we all love for I
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  Speaker 1: feel like there's not a lot of artists that like
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  Speaker 1: we all love yes, And then you were like okay,
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  Speaker 1: and like it was like a very like defeated, like okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm going and I didn't believe it. I really believed it,
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  Speaker 1: and so but maybe you so you didn't know what
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  Speaker 1: my question was, did you know one hundred percent at
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  Speaker 1: the time you answered that, yeah, I know you and
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  Speaker 1: a lot of people around me just do skids if
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  Speaker 1: they don't want to stay the hard truth. And yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I let people down in the moment, which I think
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  Speaker 1: is a lot.
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  Speaker 3: Harsher, but in the long run, it's probably better to
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  Speaker 3: do it that way, like lead somebody on to think
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  Speaker 3: one thing and then and then crush their dreams versus
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  Speaker 3: like just.
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  Speaker 2: At the beginning.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not saying like her dream was for me to
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  Speaker 3: I'm not using the specific exact I don't think Paulina's
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  Speaker 3: dream was to have you go to Cardi B. But
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  Speaker 3: like you know, in like other circumstances, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know it is no, no, no, I no, I truly, like
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  Speaker 1: I would say, it's like ninety four percent of people
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  Speaker 1: I'm surrounded by do that method, so like I must
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  Speaker 1: be And I do know, like if I say like no,
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  Speaker 1: people look at me like did you just say like no?
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  Speaker 3: Like you know what, I like, I don't know what
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  Speaker 3: the right answer is, Like what how what is the
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  Speaker 3: right way to say notice something like I don't know,
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  Speaker 3: Like I.
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  Speaker 1: Don't know either, and I don't think either of us
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  Speaker 1: are doing it right. But I'm like maybe, like I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, should I be doing skits? I'm just like
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  Speaker 1: not a great liar, But I do know that I
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  Speaker 1: can come off like pretty abrasive and direct, and I
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  Speaker 1: know that can be shocking the people too, because they
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  Speaker 1: don't mean it that way. Yeah, okay, that's what I
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  Speaker 1: was curious about, because I mean, Lauren only knows she
• 14:42
  Speaker 1: wants to show up the second Pardi is on. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I don't want to do that, Like I want
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  Speaker 1: to see the opening and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even know if I don't is anyone opening
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  Speaker 3: for her, I don't even think so.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I haven't seen anything of that. I'm social so well.
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  Speaker 1: I want to see the literal opening like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, running into the yeah no, no, and you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, maybe a nice cocktail. Check out the merch.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, oh, if there's good merch, let me know,
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  Speaker 2: I will.
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  Speaker 4: I will.
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  Speaker 1: If there's good merch. You know, I always got to
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  Speaker 1: get a shirt, but I actually think it comes in
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  Speaker 1: hand because I feel like I have some good shirts.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, I just wanted to know. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: even like at one hundred percent, but I feel like
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  Speaker 1: it just is what it is.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you have to.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and like between her falling her like denouncing Ice,
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  Speaker 1: like her talking about God, what else is she? Her
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  Speaker 1: excess family? Like there's so much the party in my
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: pus s Oh yeah that Miley Cyrus remix, like I
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  Speaker 1: have to be there.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, there's gonna be a viral. Something's gonna go viral.
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  Speaker 1: I mean like a hot Toddy or something. And Keith's
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  Speaker 1: going to so she can catch that a moment and
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  Speaker 1: I'll just be like shaking my ass and wondering when
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  Speaker 1: Paulina is going to get there. But okay, got it?
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: And do I know this is a little bit offline conversation,
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: but do I have a plus one or is it?
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: No? So I have one pair of tickets left?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, got it. They were both saying they asked people,
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: so I didn't know if I was able.
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: Oh no, yeah, literally, Well Kiki says she didn't need
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: a guest, so that's why I was like, okay, like
• 16:21
  Speaker 3: you guys can split it.
• 16:23
  Speaker 1: Okay, Oh shoot, because she just said I might ask
• 16:25
  Speaker 1: poor This is like very offline conversation.
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: Well I need to text her.
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's just make sure that's clear because I'm fine,
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: pardon me, yeah, going with whoever.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: Unless she has another hoop, unless she has another way
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: of getting tickets she might have.
• 16:40
  Speaker 1: From maybe like yeah, yeah, okay, all right, I just
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: to before I forgot asked that okay, do you want
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: to get into your top five? And do you remember
• 16:51
  Speaker 1: that you tease something about chat GPT.
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: Yes, and I can start with that one second. We're
• 16:57
  Speaker 3: just taking care of this right now.
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: I actually like love her friend ports just so much,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: so I was excited, but I was also like, do
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: you guys want to meet up? Because again I don't
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: want to go at eight thirty right when Polly is
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: going and like respect, she wants to put gg to bed.
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: But even before Gigi, this was her her method.
• 17:14
  Speaker 2: About yeah, yeah, this is fun.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: Fact she was pregnant when we went to fifty cent together,
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: like it was just so like she wasn't drinking and
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: she kept like somebody bought up shots and she kept
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: being like I just want to pop And I was like,
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: what is going on? Like Brett fifty cent and this
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: is your shit? And then someone was smoking a cigarette
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: next to us, which is something that's like never bothered
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: her before, but she was like, oh, like she was
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: about to pass out. Are you okay? And now back
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, Gig was in there for
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: fifty cent wow, yes, oh my god. And you know
• 17:51
  Speaker 1: what's crazy it was they shut down downtown that night
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: for something. And that was the night that like she
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: took me on one of her side hustle adventures, which
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: like we won't even get into to drop something, take
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: the money up. And then I was like, oh, I
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: could just walk from here, get an uber from here,
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: and then like I literally couldn't get in an uber.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: They weren't letting people back into the city. I don't remember.
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I was like shut down. You had to
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: like walk right like forever.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I watched like in a like very bad area for
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: maybe two miles, and I had to pee so bad
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: that I peed in a parking garage. Like I was
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: fully like living on the street for a minute. I
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: peeed like crouch mindsling. But it was so dangerous and
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: so dumb of me, and like it was because I
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: kept getting ubers. I think that we're like giving up
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: on me because we weren't allowed to go into the
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: city and I was trying to show our FEMA card
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: that we got during COVID and I'm like I'm FEMA,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: Like they weren't letting me in and so I had
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: to like walk on foot. That was a crazy night.
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: Okay, well you yeah, I can go into my I mean.
• 18:59
  Speaker 3: Chat g is one of my top five this week,
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: and the reason being.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: It calms me. It does.
• 19:09
  Speaker 3: I put my problem in and it says, first off,
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: do not worry, this is normal.
• 19:18
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you the reason.
• 19:20
  Speaker 3: Let me tell you the reasons why, and then bullets
• 19:22
  Speaker 3: out the information okay. And I'm like, oh okay, because
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: sometimes Google, like Google will be like you put something in,
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: It'll be like you need.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: To seek immediate emergency and dungeon.
• 19:36
  Speaker 3: It's like whoa, Like I don't think, like I don't
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: fully thinking. You're grasping the scope of the scenario.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to right, Like that seems.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: A little severe, so like, let me give you more detail,
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: right and chat will ask you for these details and
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: then spit out like some helpful hit. And I'm like, wait,
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: I can see why people are using this because I've
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: been very much like just using it for like if
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: I needed help creatively, like needing a starting point or
• 20:11
  Speaker 3: some suggestions or give me a title for this or
• 20:14
  Speaker 3: like whatever. Yeah, but I've started to tell it my problems.
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: Are you still in real therapy?
• 20:24
  Speaker 2: Yes? Every Wednesday.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: However, I can see why people are like using it
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: as a therapist because it's very like I'll read let
• 20:37
  Speaker 3: me read for you an example.
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because if you guys don't know, I don't. I've
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: never used chat GBT. I think I tried one time
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: to ask it a simple question and I had to
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: create a whole log in it. I was like, I
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: don't want this.
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: I have an account, like we're doing everything okay, and I.
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: While I am anti ai, I know that there are
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: like good things, but I also just saw a robot
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: that was supposed to be just a dancing robot at
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: like a Chinese restaurant.
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: Like yes, and.
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just like, this is like what we're I
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: I don't try to hold it back and it's.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: And those are driving cars and like for me, I
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: just feel like I'm not of this time. And I
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: also get nervous that all of our brains are gonna
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: be turned to much. However, I realized it can make
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: my life easier and I'm close. Let me just tell
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: you I'm close.
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: Okay, close, Okay, So I said. The last thing I
• 21:28
  Speaker 3: said I started this conversation was the inner ball on
• 21:31
  Speaker 3: my left ankle is sore to the touch right, and
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: it says the inner ball of your ankle is the
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: medial whatever it's called, that bony bump on the inside
• 21:40
  Speaker 3: of your ankle. It is sore to the touch, especially
• 21:43
  Speaker 3: after recent surgery and getting back to walking. It already knows, right,
• 21:50
  Speaker 3: there is a few common and unusually unseerious reasons.
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: So then it goes into like you recently said that
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: you like did bla blah blah blah blah given you
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: a recovery timeline.
• 22:01
  Speaker 3: This sounds very consistent with your ankle waking back up
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: and being stressed again, especially around that innertendent area.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: It's annoying but usually temporary. Yeah.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: See, like this was not going to give you that,
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: like Google is going to be like if you think
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: it could be swollen a red, go to the er immediately,
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: like you have cancer.
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: You do know that. All it's doing, though, is taking
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: the entire Internet and then like giving it back to you.
• 22:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, it's a person, and it's.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: Okay, hey listen, you know what you know what can
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: it push your wheelchair up right? Right?
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: Okay? Only you can do that. You and Paulina can
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: do that.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: And and and occasionally Marius, who I felt so bad
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: because he was really getting to work out and I
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: felt really bad, really wait, like it.
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: Seemed harder for him than like for Pauline.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: And I yes, yeah, yeah. I was like, whoa, you're winded.
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: You're like twice my size, You're I know.
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: I was like, I'm like, I'm sure it's hard, but
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: I don't think you're not like pushing me uphill.
• 23:17
  Speaker 2: I feel like.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: It's really not hard. The hardest thing is I just
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: want to get good at driving it because I've had
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: so many eyes on me and you know, but no,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: so if I if I want to like dabble and
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: like I love I love it for stuff like that. Actually,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: like what I do use because it just turned on
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: is like the AI mode and Google, which I do
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: love because I can just like is this story true?
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: Like for example, when I heard rumors that Share got
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: high with Future before she said she was giving the
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: award to Luther van Groves, and I really wanted that
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: to be true. So I was like, did here get
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: high with Future before whatever award show that was? And
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: it was like here's where the like how they know
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: each other like this gap ad like he smokes, she smokes,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: like this is where this may have come from. But
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: like that there is no proof that they smoked before
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: the award show, and I was like, damn it. But
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: like I'm like that, I just don't want someone like
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: writing a handwritten card to me with like chat GBT.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: But so if I want to like Gateway and just peruse,
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: which I'm sure will just be like there's no turning back.
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: Which is also what do I have to download like
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: an app?
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: I have the app?
• 24:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and then it also keeps like I have I
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: don't even pay for a subri. I don't have a subscription.
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: I just have the free whatever. But it keeps tabs
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: of like all your conversations. So like I don't know,
• 24:44
  Speaker 3: I've been sitting here not doing anything. So like I
• 24:47
  Speaker 3: wanted to know if anything is on TV tonight, and
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: I'll be like, Hey, is anything on the TV tonight
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: and they'd be like, yes, tonight is the Oscars.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh shit, tonight's the oscars.
• 24:56
  Speaker 3: So I have that, and then I have there keeps
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: like tabs of all your previous conversations. You can like
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: go back and be like Okay. So I went to
• 25:02
  Speaker 3: the doctor for this today and they said, like.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Yet, there's only a certain number of questions, so.
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: You can ask like after so many questions, it like
• 25:15
  Speaker 3: gives you less detailed answers. But I haven't experienced that yet.
• 25:18
  Speaker 3: But I also haven't been like using it like all
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: day every day, like it's just been I've been picking
• 25:24
  Speaker 3: it up randomly.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: But I do appreciate the way it.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Talks to me, So talk to me nice.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, Yeah for.
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: Work, I do, And I think there's probably some things
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: that I do at my job that I could have
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: it do. And I know, I don't know like who
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to make a stand for. I'm not changing it.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: I just I think, like I know this is going
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: to end up scary, but like us.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: A manner, just like use it now, you know? Why
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: not you?
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: No, You're so right. I don't know what I'm trying
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: to prove. I'm also very annoying about the environment, and
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I just hate that it like uses so much water.
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: But like why don't we chat like to like.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: Stop use less water? Yeah, I should ask it. Wait,
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: let me ask you.
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: I know, like we waste so much water if we
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: say like thank you and stuff, which like I tell
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: my Siri thank you and he's like welcome, you know,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: like we do that because it wastes.
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna say, is there a plan for you
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: to use less water and be better for the environment.
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, let's get on that.
• 26:29
  Speaker 3: Let's see what it says. Is it going to fix itself?
• 26:33
  Speaker 3: I mean it should.
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: Right right, like you're you're AI.
• 26:38
  Speaker 3: Let's see it says yeah, Like yeah, it's like yeah.
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: I'm sure I'm not gonna take it.
• 26:49
  Speaker 3: Is a pretty big push to make AI systems like
• 26:52
  Speaker 3: me more water and energy efficient because the environmental impact
• 26:56
  Speaker 3: of DATTA centers is real concern. Here's what's being done
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: and what's improving, and then it gives there's going to
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: be smarter cooling systems, better data center locations.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: Put it in the fucking Alaska or like the Antarctic,
• 27:11
  Speaker 3: like there's nothing out there anyway, right, and then you
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: won't need a cooling system.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Can you ask it? Stop calling me? Can you ask it.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: Using renewable energy?
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: Can you ask it? Like? Is this going to get
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: scary for humans?
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: All right? Yeah?
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Like are you are you going to turn on us
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: at any point?
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: Are you going to turn on humans and create a
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: scary environment?
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, excuse me?
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: Scary environment for the human race? Short answer, no desires, goals,
• 28:09
  Speaker 3: or the ability to take actions in the real world.
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: I generate responses based on patterns and data, nothing more.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: I can't make plans, control systems, or decide to do
• 28:19
  Speaker 3: anything on my own. I was like, well, that's what
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: someone that is trying to take over the world.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: I was gonna say. It's like giving very much like, babe,
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: are you gonna believe them or me? Like it's like.
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: I can't decide anything, Okay, I mean honestly, like I
• 28:36
  Speaker 5: have a fucking spirit, but yeah, the environment was like
• 28:38
  Speaker 5: my main thing, but it doesn't seem like anyone cares,
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: and so.
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: Sometimes this is how it ends. Ready.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: So while it's good people think critically about technology, the
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: AI takeover scenario isn't something current systems like me are
• 28:51
  Speaker 3: capable of. If you're asking because something specific made you uneasy,
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: like a video or news story, I can walk you
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: through that too.
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I'm sure you can toxic ex boyfriend, Like, I'm sure
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: you can. It's like, babe, let me read it and
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: respond like, no, okay, my number one is And there's
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: really no. I don't think there's really anything that has
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: anything to do with what you taking over the world.
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: It's just a cool Kidman period. I just like, I
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: don't like, I'm so sorry you guys. Usually we have
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: a cough button in the studio and I don't have
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: that at home. Like, I don't know, I just think
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: the way that she's like handling her divorce is insanely
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: classy because you know that chunky highlighted bastard did something.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: I just like, I don't know. She's like graceful, she's chic,
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: she looks insane. She's carried herself so well, Like she
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: tells me to put my phone away at the movie theater.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, Like I feel like Nicole Kidman
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: is having a moment. I love to see it when
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: it's not like women of any age. Not that I'm
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: like using that as like you're great for your age,
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: Like she's great always, She's always been an icon, But
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: like I just really love that she's still like a
• 30:16
  Speaker 1: sex symbol and a lot of shows.
• 30:17
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and.
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: She still is literally sexy.
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: Just hot.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: She's hot. She is like funny and witty in interviews.
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I just want to give her
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: her flowers. And like I said last week, I know
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: I said one of her shows. But she has this
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: whole like just coming out with this whole like genre
• 30:33
  Speaker 1: of shows that are just like they're all really good.
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: I heard Scarpat is amazing. I cannot get into my
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: Family Prime currently, so I I need to do that
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: when like my mom's at her phone and sitting still,
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: Like it's very hard to train your parents, you want to.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: She's never there for the code. But anyways, I just
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: shout out to Nicole Kidman, like just really she was
• 30:53
  Speaker 1: married of Time Cruise at one point, which means she's
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: like a survivor. Then she like you know, was so
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: amazing to Keith Ebb and with his like drug problem,
• 31:02
  Speaker 1: like she's been there for him, like I don't know,
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: just like she just she wins the divorce. He was
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: crashing out screaming like right, you know, I don't know.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: She's out here looking hot with that guy from Mulan
• 31:15
  Speaker 3: Rouge at the Oscars.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Oh she took a D eight.
• 31:18
  Speaker 3: No, they were they presented together and they like did
• 31:20
  Speaker 3: this like little flirty flirt.
• 31:22
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was really cute.
• 31:23
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I just I just like just shout out to Nicole Kidman.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: That's really all I have.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah, she's an og for sure. I feel like for
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: a while she wasn't like as respected.
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like I don't know why because she's been Oh
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: and they're making their her in Sander Bullock. We're getting
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: practical magic too. I'm excited for that. But yeah, she's
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: always been like an icon. And like I was, somebody
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: forced me to take an edible one night and I
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: just like was thinking about how like they don't make
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: like movie stars anymore, Like there's no more. I feel
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: like there's no made and I feel like Nicole Kidman
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: like Halle Berry. I thought of a lot of examples,
• 32:08
  Speaker 1: but of course I don't remember. But like I just
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: feel like she's a movie star, like what.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: You Yeah, it's like there's no like glamorousness to it anymore.
• 32:17
  Speaker 3: Like like when you think, like when you say like
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: think of a current movie star, I think of like
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: Jenna Ortega and like it doesn't hit the same, you know,
• 32:24
  Speaker 3: but like she's in stuff, but it's not like it's
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: not like Nicole Kidman.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, or even like like if I was Sydney Sweening's manager,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: like I would just be like you're keeping in your brand, like, yeah,
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: the most sought after girl right now, And I just
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: feel like some of the decisions she makes, some of
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: the things she wraps, like it's not all about money.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: And again, like I'm very I'm also into like sloppy
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: celebrities too. Sorry, I'm not like judgmental. I just feel
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: like it's like they were like movie stars. I had
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: other examples, but all I can think of it is
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: Halle Berry, Nicole Kidman right now.
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: But who Helen Hunt.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: Helen Yeah, I mean like she yeah, an amazing actress,
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I don't I don't know, like
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: if de Memour is a good example like she is,
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: but I don't know. Just when you think like movie star,
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: like I feel like I don't know if that's hitting
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: and no shade, no teat to anyone else. I just
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: I don't know, right, just my thoughts, I'm ye know.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'll go with an influencer that I'm obsessed
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: with right now, who I hope will remain on parapund problematic.
• 33:40
  Speaker 3: But I watch daily videos that she puts up every
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: single day, Courtney Cook. Do you love do you know her?
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: Do you love her?
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: Let me well, let me look, she's.
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: A sweet potato lady.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Courtney Cook. Is she with a sea?
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: Yes, Courtney, I hold on, She's.
• 33:57
  Speaker 3: The one that put the cheese and the sweet potato instead.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Every everyone insane over the holiday. Do you remember that?
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: No, I thought we had the same algorithm.
• 34:06
  Speaker 3: So Courny Cook is this school teacher. I think she's
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: in Georgia somewhere. And she said she used to do
• 34:12
  Speaker 3: videos eating her lunch every day in her classroom and
• 34:17
  Speaker 3: she would she first her first video that went like
• 34:20
  Speaker 3: super viral is she heated up a sweet potato, took
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: the tip off, stuck a giant thing of cheese in
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: the middle of it, and then ate it like like
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: a burrito. And over the holidays, it set the internet
• 34:39
  Speaker 3: fucking nuts. Like the type of cheese that she used
• 34:42
  Speaker 3: was from like Aldie or something sold out. No one
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: could find it anywhere, like everyone was doing this like
• 34:48
  Speaker 3: trend or whatever. And then she started doing like at
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: home cooking videos too. She is a She is such
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: a cool like past I don't know a lot about
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: her husband, but I have a feeling he has something
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: to do with the military, because they have lived everywhere
• 35:04
  Speaker 3: and like like they spend some time in Asia and
• 35:07
  Speaker 3: now they're like back here in America and it's kind
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: of giving like military family, but like she she doesn't
• 35:13
  Speaker 3: show her husband or her kids or no, she started
• 35:15
  Speaker 3: showing her kids. But anyway, so she's also a British
• 35:19
  Speaker 3: lit teacher, so she like makes these very like every
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: week she does a different like British meal, and like
• 35:30
  Speaker 3: you know, all they do is like have different types
• 35:32
  Speaker 3: of vegetables and meat and bread and then just cover
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: it all in gravy. So like she does that every Sunday.
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: And she started showing what a plowman's lunch is, which
• 35:41
  Speaker 3: I never heard of this either, but I think it
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: might also be something British, but it's basically like vegetables
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: and something to dip it in, so it'll be like
• 35:51
  Speaker 3: hummus or some form of like cottage cheese, and it'll
• 35:55
  Speaker 3: be like reddish and cottage cheese, piece of bread, green onion, carrot,
• 36:01
  Speaker 3: like just like but like like a sort of like
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: a charcoot in a way, but like not. She's super unproblematic,
• 36:09
  Speaker 3: super sweet. Then her school told her that she could
• 36:15
  Speaker 3: no longer film in her classroom. So now my girl
• 36:18
  Speaker 3: is in her car every day shooting her lunch videos.
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: So I want people to go support her, because that's
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: fucked up because she did nothing.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: She's just unproblematic. But I love forty cook.
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: I wonder if it's like I wonder what they're really like.
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: It's district, probably some other jealous, bitch ass teacher who
• 36:38
  Speaker 3: was like, wait, I can't you know, get millions of
• 36:41
  Speaker 3: followers from my lunch and what the hell is she doing.
• 36:44
  Speaker 3: She's shooting in her little classroom and her desk in
• 36:46
  Speaker 3: a corner. It wasn't even like she was showing off
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: anything like she was. It was like in her a wall,
• 36:51
  Speaker 3: like or like.
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: An annoying mom oh yeah, or actually yeah, So she
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: she was allowed to tell us that she's not allowed
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: to anymore.
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: So she didn't, but it got out because I don't
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: know how it got out, but all of a sudden,
• 37:05
  Speaker 3: she started filming in her car at lunch.
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, well it's giving.
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, Okay, we'll support her then.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: My favorite influencer is a elderly woman named Alite Anita
• 37:23
  Speaker 1: Lebron l E b r u N. I shared her
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: to My story yesterday. Caitlin far Real, and she is
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: an elderly woman in Minnesota. She she spoke in support
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: of a state bill at the Minnesota State Capitol that
• 37:45
  Speaker 1: would allow nursing homes and assisting living assisted living facilities
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: to host resident focused events where alcohol can be consumed
• 37:55
  Speaker 1: without requiring a liquor license. Okay, yes, listening to Anita
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: tell them, And it was so se because like, yes,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: people don't realize, like they're not allowed booze in there,
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: and like do I understand, Like if I'm a nurse,
• 38:09
  Speaker 1: am I going? Okay? Like we introduce booze? These people
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: can't walk already, Like this is you know, there needs
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: to be like some stipulations. But she's at like her
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: second she's in her second act of life or whatever
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: I like you want to call it. And like she
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: was basically like listen, she didn't say it like this,
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: but she was like this is like camaraderie and like
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: us being able to like talk to each other and
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: share our stories and like reflect on our life. Like
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: that's already got to be a hard place to be in.
• 38:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so like let them have.
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: Let her and the girls have a damn happy hour.
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Yes, I don't have a grasshopper if they want.
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: What's a grasshopper?
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: Oh, it's like what my grandma used to drink. It
• 38:50
  Speaker 3: was the only drink she would ever drink. And it's like, wait,
• 38:52
  Speaker 3: I'm gonna see what's in it? What's so old timy
• 38:54
  Speaker 3: about it?
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: Hold on, yeah, I know about it? Like a hummer.
• 38:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, what's in a grasshopper drink? Let's see?
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: Sweet mint chocolate, bright green, creamy dessert. It's got cream
• 39:10
  Speaker 3: dement white cream to cocoa, heavy cream and ice and
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: it's like green and like mint tea.
• 39:18
  Speaker 2: Okay, she would go for a grasshopper.
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: That's cute. I've never heard of that. Yeah, I don't know.
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: It was just like very sweet and like you know,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: of course everyone's like giggling and whatever. But she like
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: she puts so much like it's so much more than
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: happy hour. And I think Anita and the girls should
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: be able to have happy hour and like to be
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: at that age and be like I want to testify
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: like before Minnesota stay like at the Minnesota State Capital.
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know, so give Anita what she wants.
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 39:41
  Speaker 3: Yes, that's amazing. I'm trying to see if I want
• 39:47
  Speaker 3: to do a music one or something else I'm obsessed
• 39:51
  Speaker 3: with on social media.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: I'll do that one somehow. I have gotten on the algorithm.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: My algorithm is fu wild right now because I have
• 40:02
  Speaker 3: never had this much screen time. But my I'm got
• 40:06
  Speaker 3: on the algorithm of cowhoof repair.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: You see these, I've seen like.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Them clean them. I don't know that I've seen the repair.
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: It's disgusting. So like they take this like and it
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: doesn't hurt the cow. It hurts the cow more to
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: like when they're injured. So like this is how you
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: fix it. But basically what happens is like the hoof
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: something punctures it right and that causes it to like
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: get infected or whatever. So they basically have to take
• 40:39
  Speaker 3: a knife and like shave the hoof down and it's
• 40:45
  Speaker 3: just like hard like I don't know, like I don't
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: even know what to call it, like hard shell that
• 40:51
  Speaker 3: you have to like shave down to the point where
• 40:54
  Speaker 3: it gets to wherever is injured, and as soon as
• 40:57
  Speaker 3: you hit that part, it explodes. It's like like because
• 41:02
  Speaker 3: all this fluid goes, oh jeez.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: And no one's listening, like whoa and you like that.
• 41:13
  Speaker 3: I don't know, like I can't I don't know if
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: I like it, but I can't stop watching it because
• 41:17
  Speaker 3: I'm like I like, I like fear watch it.
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: Like I have my phone up and I'm.
• 41:21
  Speaker 3: Like, like, what's gonna happen, What's gonna happen? And then
• 41:26
  Speaker 3: they like it happens, and then they like end up
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: cleaning it out and put this like medicine on it.
• 41:32
  Speaker 3: And then they have these like fake little they're like
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: uh blocks that they like glue onto it so that
• 41:40
  Speaker 3: when they're stepping, like they can still like step and
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: it feels okay, you know while it like while it's
• 41:45
  Speaker 3: all wrapped and like healing and it works and it's great.
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: But I'm like, whoa, And this is people's jobs. Like
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: they go to these farms when like the cows can't
• 41:57
  Speaker 3: let they like when the farmers notice that, like the
• 41:59
  Speaker 3: cows can't like walk or whatever, right, they these guys
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: go and they like do this, so like what they're
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: doing is good. It's making them feel better. But I'm like, oh, damn,
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: like it's crazy.
• 42:10
  Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, it's probably dangerous to my friend. I mean,
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: I know it's a different animal, but my friend got
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: she has horses, and she got kicked in the job
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: and like literally had to get her jaw wire hut
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: and ship. Yeah, and like I know they don't like
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: mean it, but they are these big animals, so I
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: wonder if.
• 42:28
  Speaker 3: They're in pain, you know, like it's got to hurt
• 42:30
  Speaker 3: so bad, like yeah, how something like.
• 42:34
  Speaker 1: They like kick like that but still it yeah, like
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: it could be dangerous. I don't know, but how Yeah.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: So there's a whole whole community of people that watch
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: this and all the comments are like will I ever
• 42:48
  Speaker 3: own a cow?
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not? But am I gonna watch every single hoof
• 42:50
  Speaker 2: for a pair of video?
• 42:53
  Speaker 3: I think there's like something like I don't know, satisfying
• 42:55
  Speaker 3: about it once it's like cleaned out.
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, it's a my algorithm as well.
• 43:02
  Speaker 1: That's his sit. Yeah, mine is wild too. I'm like
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: getting to the bottom of a lot of stuff like
• 43:06
  Speaker 1: mine is all just like getting to the bottom of things,
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: Like I'm in too many rabbit holes. Like it's just
• 43:15
  Speaker 1: I don't know. There's a lot, like I'm just consuming a.
• 43:18
  Speaker 2: Lot, right, a lot? Yeah?
• 43:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Is it was okay? Is it my turn?
• 43:24
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: Okay. So, speaking of TikTok and like getting to the
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: bottom of things, I want to shout out this girl,
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Ellen Smith. I shared her I don't know what her.
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: Hold on, let me get what her actual name is.
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: Oh no, I don't want that. What is her TikTok?
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: That's her name?
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: Take a talk, Take a talk.
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: It's just says Ellen oh Ellen e l i Z Smith.
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: So I'm guessing her mad name's Elizabeth Ellen Eliz Smith
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: on TikTok. And I'm not sure if you're aware, but
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: there's some drama going on with the Bachelorette.
• 44:02
  Speaker 2: In the moment.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I have.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: I've been listening to your entertainment reports. I'm fast.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there's there's so much going on, and like
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: I have, I have been rocking with these women since
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: season one. And maybe I'll save this for another day.
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: But like I think that some people are like just
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: like thoroughbreds in reality TV, Like some people are made
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: to be in this this animal where they don't take
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: things too serious, Like if something embarrassing happens, like they
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: know like that they need to air it and that
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: it's like they don't really care. They're good sports. They
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: show everything. Like there are some people that are just
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: like made for reality TV. And it's like there's certain
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: shows like the Boys of Southern Charm or like Lindsay
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: Hubber from Summer House. Like I just feel like they
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: just get it. They know what their job is. They
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: want to mention it all. As Bethany Frankl would say,
• 45:04
  Speaker 1: like I don't know. And so these Mormon girls like
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: they most of them, like they are thoroughbreads. They deserve
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: their their flowers. And so the reason I'm shouting out
• 45:14
  Speaker 1: this like specific woman and like by now if you
• 45:16
  Speaker 1: don't know, like what's going on with Taylor Taylor Brad
• 45:20
  Speaker 1: and like that's like, oh I don't have time, but
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: but co crazy. I think that like and I say
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: this all the time, like we as society, like especially
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: with women, like things we've been treated a certain way
• 45:35
  Speaker 1: for so long like bubbling and bubbling and bubbling and
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: like shoved inside. And then I think women started talking
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: to each other about like shared experiences and like they
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: started calling people out and they're like realized, like oh
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: my god. Like I think like most a lot of
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: like minority communities like probably feel like like there's power
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: and numbers, and I think like the patriarchy or whatever
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: is like to make those groups of people feel like
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: they don't have any power or they can't like whatever.
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: I know, it's like you get what I'm saying. Yeah,
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: So I think we swung really far in the opposite
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: direction and then comes like cancel culture, and like that
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: was like way too far, and like I'm very comfortable
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: saying I'm anti cancel culture. I think it's like weird
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: if there's like I'm sorry, I'm gonna pick on like
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: like super left liberal white person who's like advocating for
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: like I don't know, like injustice and like the black community,
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: but they don't have any like black friends or I
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: don't know. I just feel like there's this like this
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: like it's just like a lot, like your heart's in
• 46:39
  Speaker 1: the right place, but it's almost that like a nauseum.
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: It's like where you're not living it and you actually
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: don't know what the experience is like anyways, So I
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: feel like we went way too far in one direction
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: and I feel like we're swinging back a little bit
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: away from that, and I I like that. And so
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: basically what's happening is there's this video of Taylor that's
• 47:00
  Speaker 1: awful from twenty twenty three. It's it's awful, and I
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: want to say the only victim, or like the biggest
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: victim in the situation is her daughter, like that is
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: that is something extremely sad and horrific. But I'm having
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: a really hard time sitting by and watching people only
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: see that video. And yes, like on the nose, like
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: that video is very fucking wrong, but there's like so
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: much more to the story and her ex is so
• 47:28
  Speaker 1: not a victim, like so not a victim. Again, Yes,
• 47:32
  Speaker 1: you can't throw cheers at people. Again, I think that
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: her children are the ones who who suffer the most.
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: Like but that video, again, I'm not excusing it. So
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: I want to be very clear. That video is from
• 47:41
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. She's already gone to court or for this.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: She was absolutely hammered. We don't know what he did
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: before he started recording. Again, the children should have gone away,
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: like she should never. You should never if you are
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: mother or a father, you should never put your children.
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: I've been that child, and I still can find and
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: not compassion. But like what this TikToker said, who posted
• 48:05
  Speaker 1: this really lengthy video, And she's like, I'm a survivor
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: of domestic violence, so like take that into consideration when
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: you hear me defend not defending her, but she said,
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: there's no defending her actions. But there's an explanation, like
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: you can't defend them, but you there is, Like there's
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: more to the story basically, and what we don't, like
• 48:25
  Speaker 1: a lot of people don't get, is like that's how
• 48:27
  Speaker 1: the show started, Like that is why this bitch is famous.
• 48:30
  Speaker 1: The show starts scene one with her outside of that
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: house getting arrested. With the bodycam footage, we know she
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: had a domestic I don't know the children involved at
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: all at all, but it's the same two that are
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: now and there's new domestic charges now, like and we're
• 48:46
  Speaker 1: years and years removed from that situation. I have seen
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: what I needed to see, and that's what makes me
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: really sad because I think I don't know what her
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: bottom is and that's what scares me. I do. I
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: do want to remind everyone though, that like she may
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: have yeah she's still like doing this with Dakota, but
• 49:08
  Speaker 1: he's always going to be in her life. But also
• 49:11
  Speaker 1: maybe she like learned and will never ever expose her
• 49:14
  Speaker 1: children to that again, or like maybe we just don't.
• 49:16
  Speaker 3: Know, and I've just more between when the video happened
• 49:20
  Speaker 3: and now there could have been growth.
• 49:22
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Yeah, that's what I'm saying, and
• 49:24
  Speaker 1: again I'm not excusing her actions. I've been involved in
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: many situations though like that where I have had compassion
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: for the other person. I don't. I just am getting
• 49:31
  Speaker 1: really sick of like the black or white thinking, and
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: it's it's never black or white, and I do have
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: to say, like it takes people, like I think it
• 49:43
  Speaker 1: took her a lot to get to that situation, and
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: again not defending it, but there's there's more to the story,
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: and so I just like it's getting really like annoying,
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: and so just seeing this girl be brave enough to
• 49:53
  Speaker 1: ay share that she was in a domestic violent situation,
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: but also to like be like, hey, it's wrong. But
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: like if what she ended up by saying, if you
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: think that you've seen that video and you've seen enough
• 50:08
  Speaker 1: to know that she's the issue in the situation she said,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: then you should think you're lucky stars that you don't
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: know what it's like to date a narcissist or or
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: be in a domestic situation or anything like that means
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: that like it's not clear to you what's being done
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: to her, and that's a good thing. But I just
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: think this day and age to like speak out against anything.
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: I mean shit like my friend's synagogue got a terrorist attack,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: and I was scared to even like defend the community
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: because every time I like say anything, you know, it's
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: like somebody argues with it, and like something as simple
• 50:37
  Speaker 1: as like no community should be attacked. I'm just like
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm getting really tired of it. So like for
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: this girl to share her story and say like, hey,
• 50:44
  Speaker 1: like this is nuance, like things are nuanced. It's not
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: just like bad like arrest her, she's horrible. Like I
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: just feel like I'm watching so much like discourse about
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: the situation, and I would at least ask people to
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: if you want to judge, like watch the Hire situation,
• 51:02
  Speaker 1: because it's very sad, and I think at minimum, I
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: don't know I'm watching. I was talking to our friend
• 51:07
  Speaker 1: about it, like I'm I'm I was a child that
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: saw way too much, so like I'm really sad for
• 51:13
  Speaker 1: the kids. I also know that Taylor's dad abandoned her,
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: and I know what those issues can do. And I'm
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: watching her try to fix the situation with Dakota because
• 51:25
  Speaker 1: she thinks it'll make her dad, Like it'll fix the
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: thing with her dad and her dad didn't want her
• 51:29
  Speaker 1: and that has affected her her entire life. And then
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: she got a stepdad who literally last season said, you
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: gave it up to Dakota too early. You are getting
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: everything you deserve. These are her parents telling her that
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: God he said, like you acted like a slot and
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: so this is your fault. They literally said that to her.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: So like the family comes into play, and this girl
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: was pointing out like she needs to look inside herself
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: and look at a like fix it. But but go
• 51:58
  Speaker 1: what am I? What is broken in me that is
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: allowing me to be in this position and be treated
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: this way and also like act this way? Like there's
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: just more to the story and I just I'm not
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: defending it.
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: Well, I think like to just from like a broader stance.
• 52:15
  Speaker 2: I think that.
• 52:17
  Speaker 3: I can speak from my life, but I have a
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: feeling that it's a common I don't know, something more
• 52:24
  Speaker 3: common than I think people think is I think everyone
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: has done things in their lives, including myself, where you're
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: very very thankful that it was not caught on video, right,
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Like I've been in situations where things got physical, right,
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: and then sometimes even if you're not that that says
• 52:44
  Speaker 3: nothing about a lot of times that doesn't say anything
• 52:47
  Speaker 3: about the type of person that you are, because I'd
• 52:51
  Speaker 3: like to think that I'm a person that's above that.
• 52:53
  Speaker 3: But sometimes you just get there, and it could be
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: a lot of extenuating circumstances that get you there, right,
• 53:02
  Speaker 3: And all you can really do is like look back
• 53:05
  Speaker 3: and be like, Okay, those actions do not define I
• 53:10
  Speaker 3: am not that person. It was just things that happened
• 53:13
  Speaker 3: at a time that I was not a sound mind
• 53:16
  Speaker 3: for whatever the reason might be, right, there's no excuse
• 53:20
  Speaker 3: for it. But that's not who I am as a person.
• 53:23
  Speaker 3: And so that's why I tend to have a little
• 53:25
  Speaker 3: bit more grace for people when everyone jumps on the bandwagon,
• 53:30
  Speaker 3: especially if it's something that happened years ago. Right, Like
• 53:36
  Speaker 3: every year people make changes in themselves, some for the good,
• 53:39
  Speaker 3: some for the better, right, Like, I'm not the same
• 53:41
  Speaker 3: person I was a year ago. Definitely not the same
• 53:43
  Speaker 3: person I was two years ago or three years ago, whenever.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: Twenty twenty three was right, Like, so you know, I.
• 53:50
  Speaker 3: Think I I sided with you a little bit more
• 53:52
  Speaker 3: of like, let's let's hear more, right than just a
• 53:59
  Speaker 3: thirty second or however long is video clip?
• 54:02
  Speaker 2: Yes, that thirty second video clip is scary and awful.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: Oh wow, what else is going on?
• 54:09
  Speaker 3: Right? And so I think we need a little bit
• 54:11
  Speaker 3: more of that to where it's like okay. And I
• 54:13
  Speaker 3: think it also depends on how that person or whoever
• 54:18
  Speaker 3: it's being aimed at, you know, Taylor in this specific example,
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: deals with.
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: That right and what they have to say right, Like.
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: I do truly believe that when something like this happens,
• 54:28
  Speaker 3: they need to be heard out right, Like let's hear
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: what you have to say now, how it's very important
• 54:36
  Speaker 3: what that messaging is and how I'm looking at it
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: moving forward, you know.
• 54:40
  Speaker 1: So yeah, and like you guys, like I also think
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: about like she just like fucked up probably the biggest
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: opportunity she ever has and may never get another one again.
• 54:49
  Speaker 1: Because ABC has touched both networks and bull shows. She
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: also has like an entire cast that's like rooting on
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: her because she's like the leader to like for their
• 54:57
  Speaker 1: livelihood and their families. Like and if you don't think
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: she doesn't feel the absolute lowest, like when you keep
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: going back to someone or engaging with someone, like there's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: no more shame than like the person who's doing it,
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: And so I just like, I don't know. And also,
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: like these this culture, these women are told they're all
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: getting married before twenty five and having children before twenty
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: five before their brains are formed. They all were so
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: suppressed that like when she started drinking, it was with
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: her ex husband and his friends, and they were all
• 55:31
  Speaker 1: like drinking. They said, like as if they were in
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: like high school for the first time, because they were
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: never able to do it, and so like they're very delayed,
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: and like, of course, yes, when you have a child,
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: like yes, you you definitely, but there are people that
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: like get pregnant young and make mistakes and they're all
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: so young. And I just know, I know I'm gonna
• 55:52
  Speaker 1: like probably get hate, but I I don't know. I
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: just what she did was wrong, But I gotta imagine this.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: This is wild for her because somebody held onto that
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: video for this long.
• 56:03
  Speaker 3: It strategically placed when it was going to be let out.
• 56:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 56:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So it's just like, I don't know. I feel
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: the most sad for the children. Dakota I feel is
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: no victim. I can't imagine what happened before he started
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: recording when it was convenient for him. He's not scared
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: of her. He has returned over and over again. He
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: slept with her the night before she left her the
• 56:27
  Speaker 1: Bachelor Atte. Jesus called her the morning that she was
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: going on the season and said, like, save a rose
• 56:33
  Speaker 1: for me, Like you're not scared.
• 56:36
  Speaker 2: But.
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: And yeah, I don't know, it's just a I'm really
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: more sad than anything about like just like she just
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: it's a big mistake and it's going to affect her
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: life and it's really sad to watch her friends try
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: to like save her from this relationship the whole season.
• 56:54
  Speaker 1: The last season was amazing. I'm really sad it ended
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: like this. I think it's apparent that she wasn't ready
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: to go on the Bachelorette. I think she needs to
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: make sure help. I think she has a severe addiction
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: to this like toxicity. I think he's absolutely trying to
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: get under her skin. So I'm not defending it, but
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: I just think situations are very nuanced, and I thought
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: that that attacker was brave to shit say, here's like
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: another side to it, because it's very easy to go
• 57:20
  Speaker 1: like that's wrong, but like have you have you been
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: in that situation?
• 57:24
  Speaker 5: Do you?
• 57:25
  Speaker 1: I don't know, and so and yeah, I've also like
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: I've been hammered and like if you get drunk when
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: you're in a bad place, like you can do some
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: some function. Again, I've never like abused children, but right, yeah,
• 57:39
  Speaker 1: you know, like thank god. Yeah, so I don't know,
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: it's just like hard for me to see at this point.
• 57:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we just need to know. We just
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: need to know more.
• 57:50
  Speaker 3: It's everyone's so quick to stay on time and ready
• 57:52
  Speaker 3: to attack and ready to judge and ready to cancel.
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: It's like, no, I think just with anything in life,
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: you need to take a little bit of time to
• 58:01
  Speaker 3: learn more, ask more questions, get more details versus like
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: just siding with one viewpoint right off the rep You know,
• 58:08
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 58:09
  Speaker 1: And we knew, we knew that this is this is
• 58:12
  Speaker 1: what hal we knew about this. It's very different to
• 58:15
  Speaker 1: see and the children are new information. But like, yeah,
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know. It's it's it's a rough if you
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: if you have time and want to watch it, it's
• 58:23
  Speaker 1: a it's a fantastic watch because they're so real and
• 58:27
  Speaker 1: there there's a lot there, like between the religion aspect
• 58:31
  Speaker 1: that you know where they live, the swinging that it
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: all started.
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: With, like yes, so much going on.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: But that's sorry, I'll get off my soapbox.
• 58:42
  Speaker 2: No, it's okay. My next two I'm gonna do together. Well,
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: these will be my last two, so then you.
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: Could do two together, right, yeah, because they kind of
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: overlap one. And this is not me just stroking the
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: ego of our company, but our company released a new
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: radio station, TikTok Radio, and I've I've had it on
• 59:01
  Speaker 3: like in the background working.
• 59:03
  Speaker 2: It's really good.
• 59:04
  Speaker 3: Like they have like like they played the current hits
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: like you know whatever, Manchild or whatever, but then they
• 59:12
  Speaker 3: do like there'll be a throwback Drake song or if
• 59:14
  Speaker 3: there's like something shrending like I discovered a Gunna song
• 59:19
  Speaker 3: from there, like whatever, like it goes a little bit
• 59:21
  Speaker 3: that way, and I'm like, oh my god, way, this
• 59:23
  Speaker 3: is really good.
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: And there's like little like.
• 59:25
  Speaker 3: Like I don't know, like funny like TikTok like stuff
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: that you'll recognize, like different trending sounds like in the
• 59:30
  Speaker 3: imaging in between, and I was like, okay.
• 59:32
  Speaker 2: IHeart like you.
• 59:33
  Speaker 3: You popped off with this TikTok Radio like another platform
• 59:37
  Speaker 3: used to do it, and I loved it then and
• 59:39
  Speaker 3: now I like it now. So if you're just looking
• 59:42
  Speaker 3: for a new radio station with you know, poppy vibes
• 59:46
  Speaker 3: but also like some new stuff. TikTok Radio and iHeart
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: Radio is where it's at, and they play probably my
• 59:54
  Speaker 3: favorite song right now, which is my fifth thing, which
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: is I Love It, I Love It, I Love It
• 59:59
  Speaker 3: by Bella Cay. I cannot stop listening to this song.
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know it, I don't know what, I don't
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 1: know it.
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 2: Oh my god.
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 3: It is the song that you set me with the
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 3: girl with the taco or the guy with the taco
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 3: bell where it's like, oh yeah, a bad idea but
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 3: a real good time, like I, well, yeah, I wake
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 3: up singing it. I go to bed singing it. It
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 3: cannot get out of my brain. Like this girl, like
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 3: this song is so freaking good. Her name is Bella
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 3: k b e l l A Kay and it's literally
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 3: called wait, I hope it's not I love you, No,
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: it's I love it.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 3: I love it, and it's like all lowercase, like no spaces.
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 3: It's so so so so so so so good. And
• 1:00:47
  Speaker 3: now my whole algorithm is just like people reacting to it,
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 3: which is like my favorite thing to watch. And I
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 3: think I've done that on my top five before. But Bella, kay,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 3: I love it, I love it.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: Okay, got it, Okay? My last you are quick. My
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 1: first is chicken cutlets. Maybe it's the Italian person in me,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: Like I'm a dick cutlets. I like chicken and meat.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: But sometimes I think you're like me, like if I
• 1:01:12
  Speaker 1: think too much or like there's just it can get
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: a little weird. Like would I probably be a good vegetarian? Yes,
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: I would. I can't get my protein though, so like
• 1:01:21
  Speaker 1: I like, I like that it's really thin chicken. You
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: know a cutlet, right, e'ven met a cutlet? Yeah? Yeah, yeah.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: And then they're like very easy to make, and I've
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: been making them a lot, and like just making a
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: ton and then like you can do so many things
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 1: with them, but like I do need a little breading.
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: I can't do like the grilled It's really hard to make,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: like grilled chicken breast taste good. And I just like
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 1: the thin and the breading. And I've just been like
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 1: making them a lot. I might be rearing like the
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 1: end of that, because I'm getting a little sick of
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: my chicken cutlets. But like I've been in a crazy
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: phase and they're just so easy to like, do I
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: do a little pinco and bread crumbs and I'm I'm
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 1: just like gonna turn into a chicken cutlet my ancestors
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: would be proud. And then I really like an album
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: that you can like put on in its entirety in
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 1: the background, and like that doesn't necessarily mean that it's
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: like you're going for one of the songs or like
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 1: a specific song, but it's like a whole vibe and
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: an energy. It's like, and that's Brent Faiez his new
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: album Fun Fact. He was at the station one day
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 1: and I was too nervous to like ask him, which
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 1: is like really weird because I've met like j Low,
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: but he's really shy, I guess, and so like maybe
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 1: I was taking that different but yeah, like our friends
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: at GC I were like, yeah, I'm just asking him.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: He's so shy, and I was. Then I was like,
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 1: I don't want to make it like I don't know.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 1: It just made me feel weird. Also, it might have
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: been because he's I have like a sex playlist and
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 1: it's a lot of that kind of music and he's
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: on there a lot, so like maybe I felt like
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 1: a little yeah, because I do know that the artist
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: know oh when they get added to a sex playlist.
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 1: And I learned that afterwards, and like literally like in college,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: mind was called like bang bang one being two being
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: But like the fact that like an artist is like
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: gonna get that notification is really funny to me. It's
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 1: just like a smirk. But just his album is like
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: it's great to just like it's all the same like tone, vibe, whatever.
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 1: I love him. He's like maybe not your style. He's
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 1: is super R and B like sexy music, but I
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: love his album. My crash out is so this this retrograde.
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 1: I don't know if you can feel it, but like
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: there's a ton of planet's in retrograde but like mercury
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 1: for sure, and it's been a really rough one. It
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: affects technology, communication and travel, and like I feel like
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: my communication with people is just like something's just like off,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 1: Like I feel like I'm saying one thing and like
• 1:03:54
  Speaker 1: it's being like perceived another way. Like I just I
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 1: don't know. It's like ben happening a lot. And so
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 1: the day that I I and if I get canceled
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 1: because of this, please stn't be my friend.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: I'll archives, but.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: I was. I was at my wits end. I have
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: just been going through like some things and it was
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 1: ramping up before Saint Patti's Day. Then like two consecutive fridays,
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: I was just dealing with something that was like super
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: upsetting to me, and I just was like, I feel
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: like I'm trying so hard to like be easy and agreeable,
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 1: but I feel like it's like these really weird like miscommunicy,
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 1: these really weird situations that just don't feel like they
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 1: would happen normally. It's just feeling really the energy spelt
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 1: really off. So anyway, so I had an awful Friday
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: and I was like I told Jordan, I was like, listen,
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna try to calm. I'm like not in a
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: great place, like I don't I'm not gonna get like
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: super drunk. I'm just like going through it. But I
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 1: I for me, like go doing uff helps me, and
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: so I was like doing it for like self care,
• 1:05:04
  Speaker 1: like going out seeing people like takes my mind off
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: of things whatever. So I did that and I had
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: it already, had taken so much for me to like
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 1: get ready and go that I was just like at
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: my wits end. So like the second that I get
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: to this this party, this girl walks up talking about
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 1: like and I recognize. I'm like, I'm sober, and she's hammered,
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 1: but she's she's committed to being displeased with everything and
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 1: hanging on everything. And she comes up and she's like
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 1: this is bad, like Dirk Clat like Chicago isn't shit,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: like fuck Chicago, like you know, New York is better,
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: And it was just I'm just like, are we like
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 1: really doing that still? Like it's such an old, tired conversation.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: Why are you in Chicago right here?
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 1: Like you're at anyway? So she's like saying all this
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 1: stuff and like whatever, and so she's like nowhere to
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: eat here? No, like she and I was like what.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: And so she's getting frustrated because there's lines everywhere because Chicago,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: are they to Saint Patty's like absolutely insane. I'm sure
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: they do a big New York girlfriend so fad attitude.
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 1: And then she's storming off and I go, hold on, wait,
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: let I want to try to help you, like what
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 1: kind of food do you want? And then she her
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: guard drops down because she was just being an asshole
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 1: I'm like, let let me help you. What do you
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: mean to do? I also was like, let me show
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: you that, like Chicago's not horrible. Yeah yeah, So I
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: give her a recommendation, like you know, and then she
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: is that the same one in me. She had an
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: issue with that whatever, so more bad. And then she
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: says to Jordan, She's like, she said something about New York,
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 1: New York, New York and he's like, well, I'm from
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: New York. And then immediately like disarmed her because she
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: was like, oh okay, like he gets it, and then
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: like he was in the inn with her because he
• 1:06:47
  Speaker 1: was like from New York. So then she like trapped
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: her heart down and she's like, why the fuck would
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 1: you move here? She's like bad attitude, and he's like,
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 1: I honestly think the food's better. And I was like
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: bracing for impacts. And her friend who who I don't
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 1: know if her friend lives here. I don't know why
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 1: she was here. She hated it so much, right, so
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 1: she her friend looks and whispers like it is. I
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: think I don't get the New York Chicago to be.
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 1: I think they're really different. And I also think like
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: they definitely have like their differences and like what kind
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 1: of food they're good at, just like I think Michigan
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: has better, better Middle Eastern food, Like I don't know.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: I'm like why do why can't we all just get along?
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 1: I love both places. So then the conversation, uh, you know,
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: was like well, she's like, well, I'm not even from
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 1: New York. And I was like, bitch, what and she's
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 1: like I'm yeah. And I was like, bitch, you are not,
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: like literally and.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: Drugs done talking to you.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: I couldn't And I'm like you're This whole thing is
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: like how you're a New Yorker and you're better and
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 1: like YadA, YadA YadA. But like it was so elitist.
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you're from Michigan, Like you're from you're
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: from the Midwest, You're from a state that looks like this,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 1: And so Durand's like that's where Kalin's from. So we're
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: back on track with this. I'm a common ground. So
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: then she's like where in Michigan are you from? And
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 1: I'm all excited and I'm like I'm from Metro Detroit,
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 1: which is quite literally like saying Chicago Land. It's not
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 1: saying that I grew up in the city. I never
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 1: claimed to. I grew up fifteen minutes from the city.
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: It was there, weren't a lot of schools like the
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 1: Riot whatever, there's there's but Metro Detroit is encompassing, like
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 1: the greater Area. That's what it means. There's no confusion.
• 1:08:26
  Speaker 1: It's not like I'm from Chicago and I live in
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: like shaumbre. It's not. What's going on? Yeah, like this
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: and she goes, uh, Oakland County with like a bi
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 1: extinct face. I'm like, what's the problem. Because I was
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: so annoyed with her. I'm like, She's like, tell me,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: tell me you're not from fucking Oakland County. And I'm like,
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 1: I'm from fucking Oakland County. What is the problem. And
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: she was like, so you grew up really rich, I know,
• 1:08:54
  Speaker 1: like you're rich.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh my god, I would have
• 1:08:59
  Speaker 2: fought this bit.
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 1: We're getting there, We're getting there. And so I'm like,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, hold on.
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 3: You're I've been watching a lot of batties. I would
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: have fought this bitch in the street.
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: I was like, hold on, you're wrapping New York and
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 1: you're it's way better than Chicago and you're so elitist.
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 1: But now I because of you, if you even knew
• 1:09:18
  Speaker 1: how big Oakland County was, Like I went to school
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: and in like it's not all rich, like there are
• 1:09:26
  Speaker 1: rich areas and she's like only rich people say metro
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 1: To And I'm like, okay, so you have a chip
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: on your shoulder from where and how you grew up.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: Believe you me, my mom grew up poor, worked your
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 1: ass off to live in a nice area, and like
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: I get it all the time, like you grew up.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this was not my life. My mom and
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: I grew up. I grew up in an apartment and
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 1: a one story house with a single mom. But what
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: kisses me off? It is like it was just the
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: flippant like judgment because I wish that, and I actually
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 1: gave some examples of like what I wish I didn't
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: endure in my childhood. Souse. I'm so fucking annoyed with
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 1: this girl. Yeah, like I shouldn't have let her get
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: to me, And her friend starts going like, oh, like
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 1: you grew up rich. Her friend pulls out a camera
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: to start filming me. I go in my head, I'm
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 1: about to get canceled. This is gonna go around. I
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: don't care. And I look in the camera and I go,
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: you know what, fuck you both both assholes you are
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 1: and I and I stormed off and I went inside
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 1: and I said, I may go viral and I may
• 1:10:31
  Speaker 1: be getting canceled. I just told someone to f off.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: I've never really done.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 5: That, like.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: That was warranted in that situation.
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 1: I had been trying to find a middle ground with
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 1: this asshole who was drunk for twenty minutes and I
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: know whatever. I like, I shouldn't have done that, but
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 1: I I had hit my limit. I looked right in
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 1: that camera and I thought, go for it, film me,
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: put it on your screen. And I walked away and
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 1: it kind of felt good. Okay, I'm gonna end this.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: So then get in an uber, go to the next party,
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: whispering with Casey about what she's like, Just tell me
• 1:11:10
  Speaker 1: what happened, because like it doesn't seem it seems kind
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 1: of random, like you're not drunk, Like it doesn't seem
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 1: like you. So I'm explaining this story, whispering about Oakon
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 1: County and Michigan. Damned if a bitch from across the
• 1:11:23
  Speaker 1: room doesn't go oh, you grew up in Michigan. I
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 1: grew up in Michigan. Great, here we fucking go again.
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 1: She asked me where I'm from. I'm from down the street.
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: But hey, sorry, I'm dog sitting again. I literally go,
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: pardon me. She says where she grew up. I say
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: where I grew up. She asked me what the girl's
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: issue was. This bitch does the exact same thing to me,
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: the thing that I am about.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 4: He does it again, and I was like, you know what, Like,
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 4: I have got to go because I don't know what
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: kind of energy I'm putting out there.
• 1:12:15
  Speaker 1: But I certainly did not grow up rich, and I
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: resent someone telling me how I grew up. And it
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: hit me at a bad day. I didn't tell this
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 1: girl to f off. I certainly gave her an attitude though,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: so I apologize to Casey if that causes any issues,
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: but I'll be damned the same conversation didn't have it again.
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 1: I took my ass home. I said, I'm getting pizza.
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: I'm not doing this.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, any right to say that at all? Ever? And so,
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 2: and you.
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 1: Know what, if I like, if you grew up Rich,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: I'm fucking happy for you, I'm not going to judge
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: who you are as a person because I literally said
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: I was born in a place and you're holding that
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: against me.
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like, oh my god.
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah. It was just it was just really it was wild.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, I gotta go because this this
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: energy is weird. Y'all are goofy and weird. I came
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: out to try to get a buzz and so if
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: that ever resurfaces, just know I was at my limit.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think you were warranted in that situation
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 3: to do that, because that's crazy.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: It was.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: It was I would have molly wopped a bitch.
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you have been watching too much baddies. Yeah no,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: I like, I feel like I've been really growing and
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: practicing restraint. But I lost it. And I was like,
• 1:13:30
  Speaker 1: like a Karen that says, you know what good, keep
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 1: feeling like that was me. I was like, keep feeling
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 1: like it was right?
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, fuck you.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 1: I know, but sometimes you just kind of say fuck you.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: Sometimes people deserve a fuck you and they need it.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So anyways, I saved that story for this, But
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: if I go viral, just I don't know.
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 2: My crash out is.
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: I won't go into full detail because this will take forever.
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 3: But I've had a little bit of a setback in
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 3: my walking journey this week, and so I went to
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 3: physical therapy this week, and I was very frustrated because
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 3: I wasn't able to do everything that I was scheduled
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 3: to do and wanted to do. And in my head,
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 3: I'm very much like, oh, this is gonna be. We
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 3: are staying on track, we are going there's no deviating
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 3: from the plan. This is the day I'm losing my crutches, like,
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: this is where we're at. And so anything that deviates
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 3: from that or feels like we are shying away I
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 3: cannot handle right.
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 2: So I cannot take this mentally.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 3: So I get home from physical therapy, I'm very frustrated,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 3: and Mike comes home and we're talking about it, and
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, I'm just in a lot of pain,
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 3: like blah blah blah, and so he goes, well, it's
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 3: like when I hurt my finger and I just had
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 3: to work through the pain. I didn't want to move
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 3: my finger this much, but I just had to. And
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 3: I'm like, do you think I want to stay on
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 3: crutches any longer than I need to, sir? And I know,
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 3: like I will give it up to him. It has
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 3: been a long four and a half weeks. He has
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 3: done a lot, so I'm giving him grace and by
• 1:15:03
  Speaker 3: no mean am my judging him. And he could tell
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 3: after my after my my response, that might not have
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 3: been the best thing to say, because he did change
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 3: his tone. This is not what I want to do, Okay,
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 3: I don't want to do any of not I have
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 3: not done anything I've wanted to do in four and
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 3: a half weeks, so.
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: I am not having a good time. Michael.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: This is not fun. Okay, this is not This is
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 2: not it. None of this is it.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 3: So I think my crash out was just when people
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 3: try to placate your problems and when you're Sometimes when
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 3: I'm venting about something i'm frustrated with, I don't want
• 1:15:45
  Speaker 3: anyone to ever minimalize it and say, oh, you just
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 3: have to do this, or oh you just I know
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 3: you don't want to, but you have to do it
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 3: this way. If you don't have anything constructive to tell me,
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: that's not minimalizing my problem, don't say anything and just
• 1:15:59
  Speaker 3: agree with me like truly, and even if you might
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 3: be lying to me in that situation, I'm good like
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: we don't need you know, if I'm coming to you
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 3: with I will ask you what do you think I
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 3: should do? That didn't come out of my mouth. He's
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 3: not a doctor. I would never ask him what do
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 3: you think I should do?
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 2: Right, I'm just exclination.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 1: Shouldn't have worked through the pain either, like right, yeah,
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 1: back to his finger war. But that's neither here.
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 3: Nor they are right exactly, Like we took a lot
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 3: of left turns in that scenario too.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: Okay, let's not forget flash forward to a four day
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: hospital stay because of your finger. Okay, bro, you work
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 2: through it.
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 3: So that was my crash out of the week. But
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 3: today we are feeling a little bit better. So I'm
• 1:16:42
  Speaker 3: hoping we are moving in the right direction. And yeah,
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 3: that's it.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry that's happening. And just like a word of
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: I don't know what if my chair is knocking on
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: my door, Like I don't know what's going on if
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: you hear the knocking butt unless someone's stuck outside and
• 1:16:57
  Speaker 1: they're trying to get in. Just like I think grace
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 1: is like what I want to end with, Like I
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: just think let's like read the room. I think people
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 1: are not always one hundred percent. And if someone has
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 1: something going on in their life and you're aware of it,
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 1: just just don't Sometimes like ye gives some grace and
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: if you forget or like misspeak, then own it and
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 1: let's move on. I think sometimes nobody's ever on the
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 1: same level in any relationship in terms of what they're
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 1: going through in their life. Let's take things into account's
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 1: let's be kind gentle.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's it.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 1: I think that's it.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: And f you keep recording.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 1: Few, Yeah, keep keep recording me. I literally that's gonna
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 1: come out when I go on the Bachelor or something.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 1: But we love you, guys. We do have a guest
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: coming up. We're super excited. Is that next week or
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 1: the weekend.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: After the week after?
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 1: Okay, two weeks. We have a guest who's super fun.
• 1:18:05
  Speaker 1: I've actually talked to this person before. Obsessed and yeah,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 1: just follow like auto download rate, tell us we're pretty Yeah,
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: give Jason good vibes. I think you like to stick
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 1: to a plan because if we divert then it's kind
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 1: of like a safety thing that we both do what
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: you are moving forward?
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 3: Yes, I am all right. Well, if that's all that
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 3: sounds