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Why Your Wife Went Cold: The Safety Men Were Never Taught | Adam Lane Smith

Adam Lane Smith says most wives don't go cold because they stopped caring. He says they go cold because their husbands never learned to give them emotional safety, and most men never got it from their own fathers.

Adam is an attachment specialist, a former marriage and family therapist, a father of six, and 18 years married. He sat down with me LIVE and we covered a lot of ground.

We talked about the six insecure attachment types and which ones show up in sexless marriages. We talked about how an anxious husband ends up making his wife "the man and the mom at the same time," and why the…

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