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- 0:01Today on the podcast, we're going to be looking at how to
- 0:05market or how to sell your products or your services on
- 0:09LinkedIn. So you have a product, you have
- 0:13a service, you're trying to make some money, and somebody tells
- 0:17you that LinkedIn, that's a good place you can go and find
- 0:21customers there. You can hustle your market
- 0:22there. And so you think, you know what,
- 0:25let me get on LinkedIn. What is LinkedIn, by the way?
- 0:29So LinkedIn is a social media network, but it's more like a
- 0:33business social media network. So yes, people are sending
- 0:37friend requests and people are putting up content, but it's
- 0:41mostly business oriented. So people are going to LinkedIn
- 0:47because they want to network or because they're trying to build
- 0:51a professional brand or they're trying to, I mean, whatever it
- 0:55is that people do on social media.
- 0:56But of course, LinkedIn is purely for business purposes.
- 1:02So the reason why we're tackling that question today, how to
- 1:06market or sell your products or services on LinkedIn is because
- 1:13lots of you on LinkedIn trying to draw more business and you
- 1:19guys are doing lots of things the wrong way.
- 1:25And then you wonder, is LinkedIn an effective place to sell?
- 1:29The answer is yes. LinkedIn is an effective place
- 1:33to sell. TikTok can be an effective place
- 1:36to sell. Pinterest can be an effective
- 1:39place to sell. You name it on and on and on,
- 1:43provided you know how to do it the right way.
- 1:48So that's what we're going to be looking at today.
- 1:51So ultimately the reason why is because I'm still receiving bad
- 1:56outreach on LinkedIn. So my assumption is that lots of
- 1:59you listening to this podcast on LinkedIn and you're trying to
- 2:02draw more business and you are doing things the wrong way.
- 2:07Now, my name is Tavishima Agede, I'm the host of the podcast.
- 2:11If you'd love to connect with me, you can call, send me a text
- 2:14message or a WhatsApp message on 08064662140.
- 2:22Also, if you love these kinds of issues, how do you make money?
- 2:25How do you find customers with social media should be hanging
- 2:28around and where can you get the most or the best or the easiest
- 2:33or the most fun type of customers to work with?
- 2:36Then this podcast is for you. So subscribe on Spotify, Apple,
- 2:41YouTube or whichever player, wherever place you like to
- 2:45consume content. And also a warning, I'm making
- 2:49today's recording at home. The house is empty, but my
- 2:55neighbor is getting his septic tank cleaned.
- 2:59And, you know, we discussed this thing and the guy was talking
- 3:05about how he was going to hire somebody to use carbide to throw
- 3:08carbide in there to solidify all the poop and the pee and
- 3:13everything. And then they'll flush it out
- 3:15and blah, blah, blah. I, you know, when he told me, I
- 3:21told you that look dude, I know that people do this thing but
- 3:25you know, it is Niger and everybody's a professional and
- 3:29carbide and all this carbolic stuff, you know, you throw it
- 3:31into septic tanks and if you don't get the quantity right,
- 3:35you know the thing will explode. Small time you know here boy,
- 3:39before you know, if you damage your foundation, people get
- 3:41injured. You guys say is that the case?
- 3:44I said of course is the case now?
- 3:45No, be Niger, we day Lagos, Abuja, we hear these things all
- 3:49the time. Somebody wants to go and clear
- 3:51their septic tank, they throw small carbolic acid inside.
- 3:54Next name bar, you break a wall. In fact, my wife and I, we've
- 4:00had to go and visit somebody in hospital.
- 4:04OK, No, we didn't go because she ended up being hospitalized, not
- 4:08in Abuja, you know, further out, close to her own hometown as
- 4:12they took her back home so I could take good care for her.
- 4:15That sad lady lost her legs. So there's some dangerous stuff
- 4:19anyway. So basically I'm just saying
- 4:21that you my neighbor, my neighbor is having a septic tank
- 4:24clean. So if as as we're recording now,
- 4:27if you just hear blah doesn't know that that's what happened
- 4:30that you know is explosion. And you know, if you know,
- 4:35you're if you live around with your neighbors, you're cool with
- 4:40them and any of them are trying to do this kind of work, I beg
- 4:43tell them, let them go and hire professional or let them go to
- 4:47the local government. You know, the people that are
- 4:49responsible for cleaning septic tanks, let them come and solve
- 4:51this in a way, because sometimes all these shortcuts that we like
- 4:55to do in Asia anyway, it's not mean that the thing will affect
- 5:01after all, me, I live upstairs. So so anyway, that's the
- 5:05warning. If you had any loud noises,
- 5:07that's what's going on. OK, so now back to the topic for
- 5:11today, how to market, how to sell your products or services
- 5:14on LinkedIn. And like I said, people are
- 5:17sending bad outreach. Now, let me tell you, let me
- 5:21just read out one message that I received in my LinkedIn inbox.
- 5:24And I know it's the kind of thing that you guys are sending
- 5:27because how would I put it? All these ideas for business
- 5:34development, for sales, you know, ideas keep going round and
- 5:37round and round. And so it looks like this is the
- 5:39time now for this kind of idea. So I know that Nigerians are
- 5:42also doing this as well. So let me read the message and
- 5:45then we're going to use the message as a case study for what
- 5:49you should not be doing or for what you could do better in case
- 5:52you're sending out these kinds of messages.
- 5:56So the message goes like this. Hi, I hope you're doing well.
- 6:01Thank you for accepting my invitation request on LinkedIn.
- 6:05I'm reaching out to introduce Blah Blah Blah Online, the
- 6:10flagship product of XYZ Limited. It's a leading Internet access
- 6:18management and billing solution trusted by ISPs, hospitality
- 6:23groups, enterprises, and educational institutions
- 6:26worldwide. With a presence in over 80
- 6:29countries, over 1000 clients, and over 2000 installations,
- 6:37Blah Blah Blah Online currently serves more than 1,000,000
- 6:41subscribers across the globe. We are exploring potential
- 6:45collaborations to strengthen our presence in new regions, and I
- 6:49believe your experience and network make you an ideal
- 6:53partner for this initiative. We would like you.
- 6:57We would like to invite you to join us as a channel partner to
- 7:00promote and represent Blah Blah Blah Online in your country.
- 7:05This partnership could open up significant mutual business
- 7:08opportunities and help us expand our market reach together.
- 7:14Please let me know a convenient time to discuss this further.
- 7:18I look forward to your response. Best regards blah blah blah,
- 7:22Vice President, Business and Operations and product Head XYZ
- 7:27blah blah, blah, product Limited.
- 7:31So for those of you who have listened to the podcast before,
- 7:38you've already heard one or two things that you know I'm going
- 7:40to say. But for those of you who are new
- 7:43listening to the podcast, this is your first time in your own
- 7:45opinion. You say no, the team, OK, now is
- 7:48OK. The team is smooth.
- 7:49It's all right. It makes sense.
- 7:52You can send it no problem. So let's take time now and let's
- 7:56tear this thing down. Let's run some commentary on
- 7:58this thing. So the thing says hi.
- 8:00I hope you're doing well. Thank you for accepting my
- 8:04invitation request on LinkedIn. If you remember from when I read
- 8:09out the message, the guy continue to yarn I am this, I am
- 8:13the best, I am the blah, blah, blah.
- 8:15You know the kind of thing we normally do.
- 8:18Well, this is what the guy should have done instead.
- 8:21Hi, I hope you're doing well. Thank you for accepting my
- 8:24invitation request on LinkedIn. The guy should have now added I
- 8:28see from your profile that you're into XYZ.
- 8:30Can you tell me more about that? And then the guy should have
- 8:34stopped there because the message is too long.
- 8:39And like I keep on saying, people are reading these
- 8:42messages on their mobile phones most of the times.
- 8:46And if you're crafting a message that people have to scroll 3 or
- 8:494 times to finish, trust me, nobody is reading that message
- 8:54when I say no, but I don't mean absolutely nobody.
- 8:56I'm just saying if you send a message to 100 people you know
- 8:59best, believe maybe 5 or 10 people who read it because it's
- 9:03too long. So want to keep the messages
- 9:05short and remember that what we're trying to do is not to
- 9:09sell our market in one message. Rather what we're trying to do
- 9:13is to draw people into a conversation so that we can
- 9:16figure out if they are interested, if there's any
- 9:19alignment in our motivations. And that gives us a chance to
- 9:24now make a sales speech, you know, at some later date.
- 9:28But what we're trying to do is to draw people into a
- 9:30conversation when we send these kinds of messages.
- 9:35So this is all the guys should have sent to me as one message,
- 9:38not just to me, because trust me when people send these things,
- 9:41you know, now a blanket approach broadcasting.
- 9:44So the guy sent this thing to, you know, maybe 100 people or
- 9:48maybe 1000. So you should be high.
- 9:51I hope you're doing well. Thank you for accepting my
- 9:53invitation request on LinkedIn. I can see from your profile that
- 9:56you're into XYZ. Can you tell me more about that?
- 10:00You could have also said, you could have also asked what line
- 10:03of business are you into. You could have also asked how
- 10:08did you get into XYZXYZ being, you know, whatever business it
- 10:12is that you do now, this is the reason or this is the principle
- 10:16behind why I'm saying he should have asked questions about the
- 10:20other person who is receiving the message and their day behind
- 10:23it is something called reciprocity.
- 10:27Most people are decent people and when you give somebody a
- 10:33chance to talk about themselves, they will in return now ask you,
- 10:38what is it that you do? It is now that you now have a
- 10:43chance to talk about who you are, your product and your
- 10:47service. This is how it works.
- 10:53I've said it lots of times on the podcast.
- 10:55So as in romantic relationships, so also in business.
- 10:59For those of us who are guys, we don't show up to a babe And then
- 11:02we begin the vomit. This is me.
- 11:04I'm the greatest, I'm the best. I'm the you show up to the babe
- 11:09looking cool, calm, you know, collected, you know, spray a
- 11:14perfume, fine ball game on point.
- 11:18You ask her questions about herself 1st.
- 11:20And who doesn't like talking about themselves?
- 11:24Of course you'll talk about herself.
- 11:26After a while she would say, enough about me, how about you?
- 11:29It is then you can now say I'm a fine boy.
- 11:32I went to master's abroad, my father is a senator.
- 11:35But you can now be vomiting whatever is on your chest.
- 11:40Reciprocity. Show up to somebody and ask the
- 11:43person questions about themselves.
- 11:47Then the average person will now say, what about you?
- 11:51Who are you? What do you do?
- 11:54Then you can start to vomit. It's the same thing in business
- 12:01as in relationships. So on social media the scope is
- 12:04the same. Thank you for accepting my
- 12:07request. Then you ask the person
- 12:09something about them. They'll talk small, small,
- 12:12small. Then they will now say, oh, what
- 12:13about you? That's how you open the door.
- 12:17That is how you get permission to start talking about yourself.
- 12:20Reciprocity. Reciprocal.
- 12:25Do me, I do you. God no vex ton by ton.
- 12:29That is the idea. Reciprocity.
- 12:33It applies in real life relationships.
- 12:35It applies in business relationships.
- 12:37Now this is also another reason why you ask people about
- 12:40themselves first, especially in the business context.
- 12:43In fact, even a romantic context itself, when you ask somebody
- 12:47about themselves first, it gives you a sense of whether this
- 12:50person is the ideal prospect or not.
- 12:52So for boys now when you pull up on the babe and you ask her some
- 12:55questions about herself, by some of the things she says, you will
- 12:59now know that such a period that this babe outwardly is a fine
- 13:04babe, but from all the things she has said, this one is not
- 13:07wife material. Make her bounce and then you
- 13:09will move. It's also the same thing in
- 13:13business. You ask them something about
- 13:14them from the things that they see in your heart of hearts.
- 13:18You now know that this person truly, truly can never be a
- 13:21customer for my product or my service.
- 13:23And then you will do what you will bounce and move and start
- 13:26talking to somebody else where you have a chance of closing a
- 13:30deal. So ask people about themselves.
- 13:37Also, the same thing applies to you women as well.
- 13:41You can try and take control, you know, flip the script.
- 13:44The boy shows up. Get him to talk about himself
- 13:47from the things that he says. You will now know, ah, this one
- 13:49is no husband material or this one is an F boy or you know, or
- 13:54this one is a Yahoo boy or is a or is AG boy.
- 13:59Let me bounce. So it's the same thing in
- 14:03business. Get the other person to talk.
- 14:05The more they talk, the more you will know.
- 14:07Is this person a fit for me, for my product, for my service, for
- 14:11my business? You now know whether to stay and
- 14:13continue talking or whether you should feed.
- 14:18Save yourself time. Reciprocity.
- 14:24Tone by tone. Do me, I do you.
- 14:31Anyway, let me not flog it. So the message continues.
- 14:34I'm reaching out to introduce blah blah blah online.
- 14:37You know, I'm trying to block the guys.
- 14:41You know the business. Sorry 1 moment after I turned to
- 14:45the door. OK I'm back.
- 14:49Sorry about that. I had to knock on the door so
- 14:51let me check because it could have been my neighbor.
- 14:53Maybe septic tank. Septic tank don't blow and maybe
- 14:56the guy needs help but, and I know it wasn't him so everything
- 15:01is OK. So I've also, I think I spoke
- 15:06about reciprocity before I took off and why I should ask people
- 15:10about themselves, about their businesses, you know, whether in
- 15:14personal or business relationships, because that is
- 15:17what we allow them to now say. Enough about me, how about you?
- 15:20You will not be able to talk about yourself.
- 15:23And then plus there'll also be the added benefit that you'll be
- 15:26able to figure out whether this person is a good fit or not,
- 15:32whether for business or whether for relationships.
- 15:35So now the message continued, Sorry, let me scroll through on
- 15:38my device. OK, I'm reaching out to
- 15:40introduce Blah Blah Blah Online, the flagship product of XYZ
- 15:46Global Limited, a leading Internet access management and
- 15:51billing solution trusted by ISPs, hospitality groups,
- 15:55enterprises and educational institutions worldwide.
- 15:59With a presence in over 80 countries, over 1000 clients and
- 16:042000 plus installations, Blah Blah Blah, Online currently
- 16:08serves more than 1,000,000 subscribers across the globe.
- 16:13Of course, some of you say it's OK now, it's all right, the team
- 16:16makes sense. You know you're talking about
- 16:18yourself in a professional manner.
- 16:21So for those of you who are uninitiated, you're new in sales
- 16:24and the paragraph seems OK. But from a sales and business
- 16:28development perspective, it is too early to start boasting
- 16:32about yourself. You don't even know if somebody
- 16:34wants what you have, whether they need your service.
- 16:38It's too early to boast. All of this is white noise and
- 16:40they're being ignored. So back to the relationship
- 16:43example. You roll up on a babe and you
- 16:44say I'm a fine boy. I have a master's degree from
- 16:48Harvard and my father is a senator.
- 16:50You don't know if she's feeling you.
- 16:51It's too early. It's too early.
- 16:55All the things you're yawning at this stage, excuse me, All the
- 16:58things you're yawning at this stage is off point.
- 17:01It's too early. It is only when you know that
- 17:04the baby is feeling you. They cannot be saying I'm a fine
- 17:06boy. My father is a senator and I
- 17:08went to Harvard. Then you're sweetening up the
- 17:13deal, You're spicing up the deal, making yourself look like
- 17:15a nice prospect, nice husband, material.
- 17:20Or in the beginning, if you don't know if somebody's
- 17:22interested, it's too early to boast.
- 17:24Same thing in business. The guy doesn't know whether I'm
- 17:27interested in what he offers. He's ready boasting about
- 17:30himself, billions of customers, houses like.
- 17:33And so if I have no need for the product or the service, it
- 17:37doesn't matter if he has a billion satisfied customers, I'm
- 17:40not going to take action because, like, I'm not
- 17:43interested. The paragraph itself, and
- 17:48there's no problem in it, But you know, there's a time for
- 17:51boasting. The time is not now.
- 17:53It's in the beginning. It's too early.
- 17:56We're trying to figure out if people are even interested.
- 18:03By the way, those of you guys listening to this podcast, if a
- 18:06baby ever told you you're too full of yourself, this was the
- 18:08problem. You started talking about
- 18:09yourself too quick, started boasting too quick.
- 18:12Relax. First you're interested, then
- 18:15you can now, you know, offload, say whatever it is you want to
- 18:19say. Then in this paragraph, too many
- 18:23technical time, technical times for lay people.
- 18:27When we say lay people, we mean, please don't take this the wrong
- 18:31way, uneducated people. And when we say uneducated, we
- 18:34mean relative to your product or service.
- 18:37So if you've been listening to this podcast for a while, you
- 18:41know that I used to be a wedding photographer and me and my
- 18:44brother used to handle video, you know, doing documentaries
- 18:46and stuff like that. So if I talk about aperture,
- 18:51because you are an uneducated person relative to photography
- 18:58and video, you're a layperson. So when I say aperture, I know
- 19:01what that means. You don't because it's not your
- 19:05field. When I say depth of field, I
- 19:08know what that means, but you don't because it's not your
- 19:11field. If I talk about a two to three
- 19:15aspect ratio, I know what that means because it's my field.
- 19:19You don't. So a mistake that lots of
- 19:23business people make is that they start using technical terms
- 19:26that they know the meaning and anybody who's already in the
- 19:30industry should know the meaning.
- 19:32But you forget that lots of our customers are laypeople, lots of
- 19:35our customers are uneducated people when it comes to our
- 19:38product or to our service. Like take for instance, me, I'm
- 19:42an educated guy, am I not? But when I go to the mechanic, I
- 19:46am an illiterate because if the mechanic says that the internal
- 19:50combustion is off because of something something like me,
- 19:53what do I know about cars? Nothing.
- 19:55So when it comes to cars, I'm an illiterate.
- 19:57So any car salesman or any mechanic or any engineer who's
- 20:03using all those big, big, big, big, big terms because that is
- 20:06all that they know. You are confusing me, the
- 20:11prospect, the client, because I am uneducated and I am an
- 20:16illiterate when it comes to this particular field.
- 20:19So this guy using too many technical terms.
- 20:25Now, for some of us, we already know what it means because, you
- 20:28know. We're in the industry.
- 20:31We like sales, we like marketing.
- 20:32So we know what an ISP means. The average client does not know
- 20:39what an ISP is. 20 theatrical terms, OK.
- 20:45Even before we get to ISP guys say Internet access management
- 20:48system. Now what?
- 20:50What is that? What does that mean?
- 20:52Internet access management system.
- 20:55OK, I know it has something to do with accessing the Internet
- 20:58but like is that a surface or is that a website or is it physical
- 21:03hardware? Is the guy talking about a
- 21:05router? Like I don't know.
- 21:09And the average person who's receiving this e-mail is a
- 21:12layperson. The person is uneducated and the
- 21:14person has no effing idea. So even though the paragraph, if
- 21:22you look at it grammatically, the thing makes sense from a
- 21:25business perspective, that paragraph is OP is off point.
- 21:31You only use technical terms when you know you're talking to
- 21:34a technical person, which is the reason why back to the
- 21:38beginning, you ask somebody about themselves in the
- 21:40beginning. That is how you know you're
- 21:43talking to a technical person when you ask the person, oh,
- 21:47thank you for accepting my LinkedIn request, or what line
- 21:50of business are you into? And then they talk.
- 21:52You now know that, and this is my person.
- 21:55It is then that you can now go technical and tell the person,
- 21:58ISP, this ISO, this disease, international standard
- 22:01something, blah, blah, blah, Internet access system, you
- 22:05know, upgrade, downgrade, ping, this retroactive something.
- 22:08You will not be using all those terms and it will be flowing and
- 22:11flowing well because you know that you're talking from one
- 22:14professional to another. It's also you see.
- 22:18See, this is the main reason why you get somebody to talk about
- 22:20themselves first in the sales context.
- 22:28So Internet access management system, what does that mean?
- 22:31I don't know ISP, OK, I know that means Internet service
- 22:35provider, but that's all I know. All the other stuff that he was
- 22:39saying, honestly, things just went over my head.
- 22:43And to be honest, like I told you, message is too long at this
- 22:46point. Trust me, 50% of the people who
- 22:48he sent this message to, they're not check out.
- 22:50Like they're gone. They're not even scrolling
- 22:52again, they're not. So instead of talking all these
- 23:00technical terms, how about simplifying it?
- 23:02Instead of all these things that he just said, how about saying
- 23:04we have a powerful system that will help you decide how your
- 23:09customers using use the Internet and how much they charge for it.
- 23:14By the way, I have to go online to go and check to understand
- 23:17exactly what an Internet access management system is.
- 23:20So when you go, you know, for those of you who are married,
- 23:23you know, anniversary is coming up, you say you want to treat
- 23:26your wife. So, you know, you take her to
- 23:29Hilton Hotel or, you know, Radisson Blue or whatever.
- 23:34And then you get into the hotel room.
- 23:37It's all nice and cosy. The AC is nice and cool.
- 23:41You know, beyond watch something romantic, you know, with Madam,
- 23:44maybe we have a bubble bath first, you know, settling
- 23:47champagne. You're about to watch something
- 23:50on the TV, but you have to sign in to the, you know, you have to
- 23:55log in the TV into the hotel's Internet first or into your
- 23:59computer into the hotel's Internet.
- 24:02Now the thing that you will click on to now entering, you
- 24:04know, your hotel details and everything so that the hotel
- 24:07will give you access so that, you know, Madam can watch
- 24:09something nice and cozy and maybe, you know, end up with a
- 24:13happy ending. That is what you call the
- 24:15Internet access management system.
- 24:18So you can see I had to go and check the Internet.
- 24:20I had to go and Google this thing to understand what what
- 24:22this guy was talking about. You could have just said it
- 24:30simply. We have a powerful system or we
- 24:32have a system that helps you decide how your customers use
- 24:36the Internet and how they're going to get charged for it.
- 24:40Now the fact that I have to go and check this thing online, it
- 24:47begs 1 fundamental question. The ICP, the ideal customer
- 24:51profile, the ideal audience, the people who you should be chasing
- 24:55after, the people who might need your product or your service,
- 24:58the people who will benefit most from it are my fit.
- 25:03I'm clearly not a fit. He should not be sending me this
- 25:06message because people who typically use these kinds of
- 25:10solutions, like he pointed out in his e-mail, are IS PS
- 25:14Internet service providers. So like MTN, they have to decide
- 25:18how many megabytes are they giving me, how will I sign in?
- 25:21What kind of security protocol is it?
- 25:23WAP protocol is it, you know, whatever all those, their
- 25:26technical stuff. So MTN, you should be
- 25:28approaching MTN. By the way, I'm sure MTN already
- 25:32has their own Internet access management system, hotels and
- 25:38resorts. Those are the people who should
- 25:41be approaching universities like where you or you definitely need
- 25:45these sorts of thing. I don't know if they've put put
- 25:48Internet access in the in, in the student halls because back
- 25:52when I was in in uni, Internet was still brand new.
- 25:55So there was no talk about any of that.
- 25:58You know, back then if you wanted to use the Internet, you
- 25:59go to Cyber Cafe, you go and buy time.
- 26:03And the thing was so slow that you pay for one hour and when
- 26:06you click on www.yahoo.com, you hit enter bound.
- 26:10It will take like 10 minutes before Yahoo open before you
- 26:13read 1 e-mail, like 15 minutes before you do it.
- 26:17Your time will just exhaust broke.
- 26:19You only responded to 1 e-mail. They now have to go and pay for
- 26:22another one hour again. So those are the people that
- 26:26this guy should be talking to. He should be sending this
- 26:28message. You should be doing this kind of
- 26:30outreach on LinkedIn to people who are Internet service
- 26:34providers, people who run hotels and resorts, people who run
- 26:38universities or large secondary schools or large corporations.
- 26:43Now, the reason why I'm bringing this up is because if you check
- 26:45my profile on LinkedIn, there is nothing on my profile to show
- 26:50that I fit into any of these categories.
- 26:52So why in the hell is this guy reaching out to me and thinking
- 26:56I might be a good customer and sending me this message?
- 27:02Lots of you are trying to move market on social media by
- 27:06sending messages to people left, right and centre and you're not
- 27:09even doing some basic research. At the very least, look at
- 27:13somebody's profile, peruse the profile, scroll up, Scroll down
- 27:17and ask yourself, does it look like this is the kind of person
- 27:20who uses my product or my service?
- 27:22If the answer is no, why are you sending a message to this
- 27:25person? There is no amount of perfect
- 27:28conversation or perfect technique that can get the wrong
- 27:33person to become the ideal customer.
- 27:35There is none. There is none, none.
- 27:42If I'm looking for a second wife and I'm going to go and toast,
- 27:48I'm going to go and toast Muslima.
- 27:52It's not going to happen because as far as Muslima is concerned,
- 27:56I'm a Kaffir so she can't marry me.
- 28:00There's no amount of perfect sweet talking mouth.
- 28:03What like it's not going to happen?
- 28:05It can't. It's also the same in business.
- 28:11Peruse the person, look at the situation, look at the business,
- 28:14look at the context. Doesn't look as if this person
- 28:16might be interested. Doesn't look like there's a
- 28:17match here. If it looks like there is, then
- 28:20go ahead. If it doesn't look as this thing
- 28:24should be common sense. I really don't know why people
- 28:26waste their time 'cause this guy will send this message to 1000
- 28:33people in a week and he will now report to his organs.
- 28:36Say Orga, I did work this week, I sent out 1000 messages.
- 28:40What's the point If he sent out 1000 messages and then 96% of
- 28:45them were poorly targeted, were received by people who are not
- 28:49even in your ICP, can you say that you did work?
- 28:51You didn't. This outreach was not targeted
- 28:56and this outreach was not relevant to me.
- 29:02And I know that he's broadcasting this thing, so it's
- 29:05not relevant to. Anyway, you got the point, so
- 29:11let me move on. So the message continues, sorry,
- 29:14let me scroll again on my device.
- 29:17So we are exploring potential collaborations to strengthen our
- 29:22presence in new regions, and I believe your experience and
- 29:25network make you an ideal partner for this initiative, He
- 29:32says. I believe you're experiencing
- 29:34your network. Why?
- 29:37He's making assumptions. He didn't ask me about me.
- 29:40He didn't ask me about what I do.
- 29:42He didn't ask me about who my customers are.
- 29:44He didn't ask me about the kind of networks I'm involved in.
- 29:47He didn't ask me about my personal interests.
- 29:50He didn't ask me about my business interests.
- 29:52How does he know? Then I will be a match.
- 29:58You see, this is also the reason why we engage in conversations
- 30:01with people early on. Thank you for accepting my
- 30:05LinkedIn request. What do you do for a living?
- 30:08How did you get into XYZ business?
- 30:10You know, rapport building, small conversation.
- 30:12People will be talking based on the things that they say.
- 30:15It is now later on, you can now say since you have experienced
- 30:19in so, so, so and so, I believe that you will be an ideal
- 30:22partner for XYZ. As you're saying it, the other
- 30:25person to be shaking their head because it makes sense.
- 30:28And the reason why it would make sense is because you engaged
- 30:30them in conversation earlier. So you have all the extra
- 30:32information that you need instead of making assumptions.
- 30:36He didn't engage me in conversation.
- 30:38So he didn't get a sense of my personal network, the kind of
- 30:42personal networks I have, the strength of my networks.
- 30:45He didn't get a sense of whether our business priorities are
- 30:47aligned. Do make assumptions, Engage
- 30:52people in conversations. So the thing message continues.
- 31:00We would like to invite you to join us as a channel partner to
- 31:02promote and represent blah blah blah online in your country.
- 31:06This partnership could open up significance, mutual business
- 31:09opportunities and help us expand our market reach together.
- 31:14Another mistake. Yes, grammatically speaking,
- 31:17nothing is wrong with this paragraph, but the guy is
- 31:19worried about expanding. He's he's market reach.
- 31:24Have you noticed so far that this message says nothing about
- 31:27me, nothing about the recipient, nothing about the benefit that
- 31:30me I'm going to get? It's about him, him, him, him,
- 31:32him. This is him.
- 31:34This is why he's the best. This is why he's the greatest.
- 31:37This is how many customers that they have.
- 31:40I should partner with him so that he can expand his own
- 31:42market and he's his own, his own market access.
- 31:49Really. Is that how life is?
- 31:52You want somebody from somebody and you show up to the person
- 31:55and you keep talking about yourself, yourself, yourself,
- 31:58yourself. Then your call to action is for
- 32:00somebody to do something so that you you can succeed.
- 32:05Let's go back to the relationship example.
- 32:10My father is a senator, I went to Harvard, blah, blah, blah.
- 32:12I'm a first class student. Something, something, something,
- 32:15something, something, something. Marry me because you will make
- 32:17my life complete. It's not how you do somebody.
- 32:22My father is a senator. I went to Harvard, you know, so,
- 32:25so, so, so blah, blah, blah. Marry me so that my life will be
- 32:28complete. Does that make sense?
- 32:33You complete me. Come and complete me now.
- 32:35So then I toast. And people are doing the same
- 32:42thing in business. Help me.
- 32:47Buy from me. Do this for me.
- 32:49Me, me, me, me, me, me. Make it about the other person.
- 32:54Buy my product or my service or something, something, something
- 32:56because my product or my service will help you achieve XYZ
- 33:00results. It will help you gain this
- 33:03number of customers. It will help you increase your
- 33:07the strength of your network. It will help you make more
- 33:10money. It will help you do this.
- 33:12It will help you do that. That is how you make a pitch.
- 33:17So back to relationship thing. I'm feeling you.
- 33:21I'm loving you all these time they've been spending together.
- 33:24Babe, I like the way their life is going.
- 33:26I'll do anything. You'll be privileged to be your
- 33:30life partner to accompany you on this journey.
- 33:33I beg make me the happiest man in the world or marry me because
- 33:37you'll be an honor for me to walk by your side.
- 33:39Bam, you propose. That's how you do it.
- 33:44You make it about her, and in business you make it about the
- 33:51customer. Sorry for those of you who are
- 33:54listening who are women, I will not ask you to propose to a guy.
- 34:00So don't propose. But anyway, we'll talk about
- 34:02that later. Then the message continues.
- 34:07He says please let me know a convenient time to discuss this
- 34:10further. I look forward to your response.
- 34:16Let me know a convenient time. I look forward to your response
- 34:22if you haven't figured it. Now let me say it much more
- 34:24clearly. Before you get to the point of
- 34:27asking somebody to take the next steps with you, confirm if they
- 34:30are interested first. Don't ask your babe for a date
- 34:36if you don't know that she's interested with you in the 1st
- 34:38place. That's what leads to that
- 34:40awkward scenario, especially back in our day when there was
- 34:42no GSM back in school. You know, you talk to the babe,
- 34:45you agree we are going out on a date.
- 34:47You now show up and then she's not in the hostel.
- 34:51And I want you know what we discussed Now, you didn't find
- 34:56out if she was interested, so she did the.
- 34:59She didn't know how to tell you no to your face.
- 35:01So she did what any other babe would do.
- 35:03She said sure, no problem. Morami Hall, room A5.
- 35:07Yeah, You can come and see me 630.
- 35:11And then you're there. 6:00 sharp.
- 35:14You'll be ahead of time. And then she's now around and
- 35:17he's like ending up with all those silly games that you play
- 35:20afterwards. You see her later on in the
- 35:22faculty. Oh, sorry, this came up that
- 35:24came up. Oh, sorry, I forgot.
- 35:26Oh, sorry, they're so sorry that then after two months of oh,
- 35:29sorry, you now realize, oh, she's not she's not that into
- 35:32you. Same thing in business.
- 35:38Before you try to get somewhere to take that next step with you
- 35:41confirm if they're interested. What the guy did right now was
- 35:48it's my move, 'cause we're trying to do a CTACTA is a
- 35:51called call to action. That means you get the person to
- 35:53take the next step. You get the person to do
- 35:55something with you. But before you do that, confirm
- 36:00if they're interested. This, by the way, even if I was
- 36:05interested, even if the person who received this message is
- 36:07interested, this CTA, this call to action, this proposal for a
- 36:13next step is not direct enough. So first of all, before you do
- 36:16this thing, trial close to confirm if they're interested.
- 36:21So you say, oh, I take it that you're interested in XYZ.
- 36:24Ask the person out front. If the person says no, you now
- 36:28know that OK, there's some steps that you missed.
- 36:30If the person says yes, you continue.
- 36:33OK. If that's the case, would you be
- 36:35OK with us having a meeting? Would you be OK with us having a
- 36:39phone call? Would you be OK with us setting
- 36:42up a Zoom call or would you be OK with us having a physical
- 36:46meeting? We can meet at City Plaza next
- 36:50week, you see? Trial close first.
- 36:54I take it you're interested. The person says yes.
- 36:56If you're OK, would you be OK with blah blah blah, and then
- 37:00you wait for feedback. If the person says yes, then you
- 37:03now dial it in, become more concrete.
- 37:05I am free Monday and Tuesday morning anytime before 1130 AM.
- 37:10Does that work for you? You propose the next step, you
- 37:13propose the time. You don't leave it up to the
- 37:16other person. You are the professional, you
- 37:18take the initiative. If you leave it in the court of
- 37:20the prospect to the other person, the default answers that
- 37:23people will give you are let me think about it.
- 37:27If somebody says let me think about it.
- 37:28After that the person is going to put you in ghost mode or let
- 37:32me get back to you. Let me get back to you from
- 37:36there ghost mode or I'll be in touch when the person says I'll
- 37:41be in touch from there person who would pick call again or
- 37:44respond to your emails or to respond to your messages.
- 37:47Some people say let me discuss my business partner.
- 37:50This is why you do not leave it in the other person's hands.
- 37:54You propose, confirm that they're interested first, then
- 37:57you propose what the advancement is.
- 38:00Advancement is the next step people are going to take or the
- 38:04call to action, propose the call to action, confirm are they
- 38:07interested? Do a trial close, then propose
- 38:10the next step. You propose it, then the message
- 38:15ends. Best regards.
- 38:17Name, VP, business operations and product head.
- 38:21So, so, so and so global limited, blah blah blah.
- 38:25Online. Well, LinkedIn.
- 38:28So all these details are not necessary because it's already
- 38:31there on your profile, quite frankly.
- 38:35Oh, OK, so it's already 40 minutes, so let me just wrap it
- 38:37up. Summary This outreach was too
- 38:40long because he tried to cram too many issues into it.
- 38:45Then the outreach was also too ambitious because this guy
- 38:48assumed that you can get someone interested by just sending one
- 38:51message. By the way, if you're new to
- 38:54business, this is the answer. You cannot get somebody
- 38:57interested with just one message.
- 39:02You can't. This guy did not engage in any
- 39:05rapport building. You should always try and do
- 39:08some rapport building, get the other person to talk about
- 39:11themselves, build some commonality, build some rapport,
- 39:15learn some, learn a little bit about the person.
- 39:18This guy did not do any need analysis.
- 39:22Need analysis is where you see if the other person is
- 39:24interested, if they like it, if they need it, to what extent do
- 39:28they need it, Are they just curious or are they really
- 39:30serious? Then this outreach was not
- 39:33targeted. You should be sending out
- 39:35messages on LinkedIn to a targeted ICP before you send the
- 39:40message or before you send the connection request.
- 39:43Browse their profile, see if these are the people who are
- 39:46most likely to be interested in these sorts of things, or take
- 39:51actions on these things that are related to the product or the
- 39:55service that you have. Then to wrap up, this guy did
- 39:59not put a compelling call to action or advancement at the end
- 40:03of the message. When we're trying to propose the
- 40:06next step, we need to be dialed in.
- 40:08First of all, we need to confirm that people are interested and
- 40:11that they're willing to take the next step.
- 40:13And then we propose the next step and then gain some
- 40:16feedback, gain some feedback about the next step, gain some
- 40:20feedback about the timing. So remember I said, oh, OK, if
- 40:25you're interested, it means, you know, we're all cool.
- 40:28So it means we're cool to have to set up a Zoom meeting.
- 40:32Next I gain some feedback. So my so custom people might say
- 40:35a Zoom meeting, like why Zoom? Now I'm in Abuja, you're in
- 40:38Abuja. Like where's your office?
- 40:40Let's meet, it happens. Somebody might say Zoom and
- 40:48actually I prefer phone calls. So how about we just talk
- 40:53tomorrow instead? Down is even better.
- 40:59Anyway, since I've been talking for 40 minutes, let me bring
- 41:02this way close. Let me just wrap it up this way.
- 41:05So I'm putting a question to you now, dear listener of the
- 41:09podcast of this particular episode.
- 41:11Do you think you listening now? Do you think this guy will be
- 41:15successful with all these LinkedIn messages that he's
- 41:17sending to people? I'll leave it up to you to
- 41:19judge. And if you've been sending
- 41:21messages like this and you're not making any progress, can you
- 41:24nice. Can you now see why you have not
- 41:27been making money with this approach?
- 41:31Too many people complain, especially in Nigeria and
- 41:33they'll say LinkedIn doesn't work.
- 41:35LinkedIn works. The problem is you don't know
- 41:38how to use LinkedIn. So go and learn and just say
- 41:44TikTok doesn't work is not a good way to make sales.
- 41:47The problem is not that TikTok doesn't work, it is that you
- 41:50haven't learned how to use TikTok.
- 41:52Go and learn. Somebody who say Facebook,
- 41:57Facebook groups are dead, they don't work.
- 42:00The problem is not how to think he's dead is that you don't know
- 42:03how to use it. Go and land.
- 42:07Anyway, let me stop ranting out being an angry man on today's
- 42:10episode. So that's it.
- 42:12And that's all for today. Remember, if you'd love to
- 42:15connect, you can call, send me a text message or a WhatsApp
- 42:17message on 08064662140. So thank you very much for your
- 42:25time and attention. I will catch you all some other
- 42:27time and please pray for me. That is my neighbor who finished
- 42:31cleaning the tank without us hearing Boa because without it
- 42:34should explode. There's another.
- 42:37There's another unnecessary wahala now in the compound.