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- 0:00Speaker 1: Hello, my name's Santasha Nabananga Bamblet. I'm a proud yr
- 0:04Speaker 1: the Order KERNI Whoalbury and a waddery woman. And before
- 0:08Speaker 1: we get started on She's on the Money podcast, I
- 0:11Speaker 1: would like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of the land
- 0:14Speaker 1: of which this podcast is recorded on a wondery country,
- 0:18Speaker 1: acknowledging the elders, the ancestors and the next generation coming
- 0:22Speaker 1: through as this podcast is about connecting, empowering, knowledge sharing
- 0:27Speaker 1: and the storytelling of you to make a difference for
- 0:30Speaker 1: today and lasting impact for tomorrow.
- 0:33Speaker 2: Let's get into it. She's on the Money. She's on
- 0:37Speaker 2: the Money. Hello, and welcome to She's on the Money,
- 0:55Speaker 2: the podcast for people who don't want to go broke
- 0:57Speaker 2: over the Christmas period. Ye and as always I'm joined
- 1:02Speaker 2: by Victoria Divine hi Ve.
- 1:04Speaker 3: Hello, we get to talk about Christmas. I love Christmas.
- 1:07Speaker 3: I'm so excited about this episode.
- 1:09Speaker 1: Me too.
- 1:10Speaker 2: Favorite thing about Christmas. I think it's just like the vibe,
- 1:13Speaker 2: like the atmosphere, the lights, the carols, the smells of spices,
- 1:20Speaker 2: that kind of thing.
- 1:20Speaker 3: I am obsessed with Christmas, not as much as miss Jessicci.
- 1:25Speaker 3: If you guys are following her on Instagram. You know,
- 1:28Speaker 3: she's borderline psychotic on Christmas. Like we're talking start of
- 1:36Speaker 3: November and she's like, well, that's when the Christmas tree
- 1:38Speaker 3: comes out.
- 1:38Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's okay.
- 1:40Speaker 1: Well.
- 1:40Speaker 3: I did have a let's call it a heated argument
- 1:43Speaker 3: with my husband the other day because I saw Jess
- 1:46Speaker 3: putting up her tree and I was like, that looks
- 1:48Speaker 3: like fun. And all of my social media content has
- 1:51Speaker 3: now started to become very christmasy because Halloween's over, right,
- 1:54Speaker 3: of course.
- 1:54Speaker 2: And I said to my husband, we.
- 1:55Speaker 3: Should put our tree up because we've got a new
- 1:57Speaker 3: one that we got last year that we couldn't put up,
- 1:59Speaker 3: so it's sat in the box for like more than
- 2:01Speaker 3: twelve months.
- 2:02Speaker 2: I said, we can put it up, and he's like, no, absolutely,
- 2:04Speaker 2: we can't. I was like, excuse me, are you the Grinch?
- 2:09Speaker 2: Ye ruined Christmas?
- 2:11Speaker 3: And it's not even December, and he's like, that's the point,
- 2:13Speaker 3: it's not even December.
- 2:15Speaker 2: It's like, I will help you.
- 2:17Speaker 3: I will decorate the whole house on the first of December.
- 2:20Speaker 3: And I was like, but honey, it's the first of November,
- 2:23Speaker 3: Like we could just do it now.
- 2:24Speaker 2: Yeah, And it doesn't give you much time to have
- 2:25Speaker 2: any Christmas joy. Twenty five days and it's sober exactly,
- 2:29Speaker 2: I need two months of joy. I don't like it.
- 2:32Speaker 2: I don't like stend that joy. You really can flag.
- 2:34Speaker 3: Anyway, let's get into the episode. Not a counseling session
- 2:38Speaker 3: on my marriage. I want to talk about Christmas, but
- 2:41Speaker 3: also I want to talk about the concept of not
- 2:43Speaker 3: going into debt around Christmas, because as much as we
- 2:47Speaker 3: are full of festive cheer, I think that it can
- 2:50Speaker 3: also ring a lot of bells in a lot of
- 2:52Speaker 3: people's heads of going Ah, that sounds stressful, that sounds expensive,
- 2:55Speaker 3: That does not sound like anything I want to do.
- 2:58Speaker 2: How did it come up so quickly again in this year? Yes,
- 3:01Speaker 2: it can be very anxiety inducing one it's just meant
- 3:03Speaker 2: to be joyful. But later on in the show, we
- 3:05Speaker 2: are going to talk about some cheap, inexpensive, and sometimes
- 3:07Speaker 2: free gift ideas that I'm the gift for. Yeah, you
- 3:11Speaker 2: gift your partner yourself. You're like totally. Your present is
- 3:14Speaker 2: my presence. I'm going to be present with you today
- 3:16Speaker 2: and this is my gift. You are welcome, and that
- 3:19Speaker 2: is free. You've got to be grateful because it's a gift. First,
- 3:23Speaker 2: I wanted to know how expensive this time of year
- 3:26Speaker 2: truly is? Truly speno? Are you ready? I'm kind of nervous.
- 3:30Speaker 2: I've collected the stats. Thankfully, these stats won't apply to
- 3:32Speaker 2: you personally, but as a collective. So it's obviously no.
- 3:36Speaker 3: Surprise that this time of year is arguably the most
- 3:39Speaker 3: expensive time of year for everybody. The Australian Retailers Association
- 3:44Speaker 3: and Roy Morgan, who do a whole heap of research,
- 3:47Speaker 3: predict that get this, sixty six point eight billion no
- 3:52Speaker 3: dollars will be spent in the lead up to Christmas
- 3:55Speaker 3: from November to the twenty fourth of December.
- 3:58Speaker 2: Whoa billion? Is that just in Australia? Oh yep, that's
- 4:02Speaker 2: the Australian No.
- 4:03Speaker 3: Yeah, we're just really spent happy during this period of time.
- 4:07Speaker 2: Okay, so is that just Christmas? Gibts?
- 4:10Speaker 1: What is that?
- 4:11Speaker 2: Lots?
- 4:11Speaker 3: It's like the whole festive period, right, So, like it's
- 4:14Speaker 3: everything in that holiday break. So like let's say it's presence,
- 4:18Speaker 3: it's food for Christmas Day, it's all the other Christmas celebrations,
- 4:22Speaker 3: and it's also travel.
- 4:24Speaker 2: I'm very lucky that my family are.
- 4:25Speaker 3: Like, oh, don't travel, that's fine, But some of my
- 4:29Speaker 3: friends are like, all right, so we've got, you know,
- 4:31Speaker 3: breakfast in Geelong, We've got lunch on the morning to
- 4:33Speaker 3: Ninsula and then we have to drive to the Yarra
- 4:35Speaker 3: Valley for dinner.
- 4:36Speaker 2: And I'm just like, that does not sound like a
- 4:38Speaker 2: relaxing Christmas.
- 4:39Speaker 3: But I'm sure you're super happy to see all of
- 4:42Speaker 3: the people that you love.
- 4:43Speaker 2: But like, oh my gosh, think of the petrol costs? Bad? Yeah,
- 4:47Speaker 2: seriously are they adding that to the sixty six billion?
- 4:49Speaker 3: Wild, isn't it. So let's break it down even further.
- 4:52Speaker 3: The average Australian is going to spend fourteen hundred and
- 4:56Speaker 3: seventy nine dollars this Christmas period, So imagine your usual
- 5:01Speaker 3: monthly expenses and now add basically fifteen hundred bucks on
- 5:04Speaker 3: top of that. It's absolutely no wonder that people go
- 5:06Speaker 3: into crippling debt.
- 5:08Speaker 2: During this period of time. Yeah, that's very stressful. There
- 5:11Speaker 2: is a lot of money to be spending for one day, really,
- 5:15Speaker 2: but one day, like I totally get, it's like a
- 5:17Speaker 2: month of festive cheer.
- 5:18Speaker 3: But it's all of those little things that creep up
- 5:21Speaker 3: because you know, if you and I sit down, Beck,
- 5:23Speaker 3: I'd be like, how much you're spending?
- 5:24Speaker 2: Beck, You'd be like, oh, they not that much.
- 5:26Speaker 3: I don't reckon, I reckon. You'd list off a few
- 5:28Speaker 3: gifts that you want to buy, like off the top
- 5:31Speaker 3: of your head. But what you're not factoring in is
- 5:33Speaker 3: the additional drinks for Christmas, the additional festive activities that
- 5:37Speaker 3: you're going to do, you know, the travel to get
- 5:39Speaker 3: to and from places, those things where you're like, I
- 5:42Speaker 3: don't know if you've done this before, but I definitely
- 5:44Speaker 3: have done this before. You get invited to someone's house
- 5:47Speaker 3: for like, oh, come over for some crissy drinks and
- 5:48Speaker 3: you're like, oh, I'd love to do that, and then
- 5:50Speaker 3: you like freak out on the way there.
- 5:52Speaker 2: You're like, oh my god, I'm turning up empty handed.
- 5:54Speaker 3: So you like, pop us the bottle shop, pick up
- 5:56Speaker 3: all the why and maybe a box of favorites.
- 5:57Speaker 2: And why are favorites so expensive nowadays? Well that's the
- 6:01Speaker 2: question that plagues me daily.
- 6:03Speaker 4: It does mean too, because they took all the good
- 6:05Speaker 4: chocolates out. Now they charge more.
- 6:08Speaker 2: No, we see what we're doing. I see what you're doing.
- 6:10Speaker 2: I see you. I don't respect it. Don't like it,
- 6:13Speaker 2: but VI, what is it an average Australian, Like, am
- 6:15Speaker 2: I going to be spending this much? Or is it
- 6:16Speaker 2: like you know, someone with kids? Or what does the
- 6:19Speaker 2: average Australian look like. That's actually a really good question
- 6:22Speaker 2: to contextualize it. So when we talk about an average,
- 6:25Speaker 2: obviously I'll break it down further, but essentially an average
- 6:28Speaker 2: is when you take every single person spending in the
- 6:32Speaker 2: country over the Christmas period and then you divide it
- 6:35Speaker 2: by the number of people in that cohort.
- 6:38Speaker 3: So in that cohort, you could have people who literally
- 6:41Speaker 3: spend nothing because they might not celebrate Christmas due to
- 6:44Speaker 3: religion or personal beliefs.
- 6:46Speaker 2: Sure, all the way up to.
- 6:48Speaker 3: Millionaire families who spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on Christmas. Right,
- 6:52Speaker 3: So we need to contextualize the fact that that doesn't
- 6:55Speaker 3: mean that you personally might.
- 6:56Speaker 2: Spend fifteen hundred bucks.
- 6:58Speaker 3: But I feel like that's actually a really normal number
- 7:01Speaker 3: at Christmas time because once everything adds up, like I
- 7:05Speaker 3: already know that in my head, I've worked it out.
- 7:08Speaker 3: My parents leave about an hour and ten, an hour
- 7:10Speaker 3: and fifteen away from me, the petrol back and forth,
- 7:13Speaker 3: because I know that I can't be there every day,
- 7:15Speaker 3: and you know I've got some work during that period
- 7:17Speaker 3: of time. I'm gonna spend so much more on petrol,
- 7:19Speaker 3: Like I reckon, we're going to budget an extra four
- 7:21Speaker 3: hundred dollars over the month of December, just like traveling
- 7:24Speaker 3: to and from different places, and like my family's based
- 7:27Speaker 3: in a radius of like an hour drive.
- 7:29Speaker 2: Sure that's a lot of money. Yes, that's just petrol.
- 7:33Speaker 2: Especially now for some reason, the petrol pristers aren't going down.
- 7:35Speaker 2: But that's the conversation for another time exactly.
- 7:38Speaker 3: So it might not cost you that. But if we
- 7:40Speaker 3: look deeper into those statistics, right, and we get different
- 7:44Speaker 3: cohorts of people and go, all right, well, bear, how
- 7:47Speaker 3: much does a millennial spend?
- 7:48Speaker 2: That's me. I'm pretty sure you're a gen z Hokong summer,
- 7:51Speaker 2: all the young ones are gen z these days. I'm
- 7:54Speaker 2: millennial too. No you're not, aren't you? Like twelve? I
- 7:59Speaker 2: wish I was right. Well, us millennials, it's more expensive.
- 8:03Speaker 2: You're going to issh your agen z Okay, we are
- 8:06Speaker 2: predicted to spend the most this Christmas. We are spending
- 8:09Speaker 2: on average nineteen hundred and twenty four dollars. Whoa, that's
- 8:13Speaker 2: two grand. That's the true to Bali babe, what the heck? Yeah,
- 8:16Speaker 2: you do so much with that.
- 8:18Speaker 3: Gen Z's they're a lot more frugal. They're going to
- 8:21Speaker 3: spend about one and twenty three dollars this season.
- 8:25Speaker 2: I guess it makes sense because you know, you don't
- 8:27Speaker 2: have as many responsibilities. Maybe you're smarter with your money.
- 8:29Speaker 2: Maybe you're smarter with your money. Maybe you're just a
- 8:31Speaker 2: lot smarter than we are. That's probably what it is.
- 8:33Speaker 2: But as a millennial, it doesn't really look great for
- 8:36Speaker 2: either of us. But I wonder is this more because
- 8:39Speaker 2: of the cost of living crisis or is it because
- 8:42Speaker 2: of other reasons, like how much we're spending? Yeah, Like
- 8:45Speaker 2: are we spending more because of that? Yeah?
- 8:47Speaker 3: Honestly, the overall spend is marginally higher than it was
- 8:51Speaker 3: last year, but there are a few interesting changes to
- 8:55Speaker 3: the stats, right, Yeah, so it's predicted that the spending hospitality,
- 8:59Speaker 3: household goods, and clothing is actually going to drop in
- 9:01Speaker 3: comparison to last year.
- 9:03Speaker 2: It kind of makes sense because if you've had.
- 9:04Speaker 3: A bit of a hard year, Beck, you're going to go, well,
- 9:06Speaker 3: let's not go out to that fancy restaurant. How about
- 9:08Speaker 3: you just come over and I'll make a pasta or
- 9:10Speaker 3: you know, you're going to spend less on the gifts
- 9:12Speaker 3: that you're giving, which is usually household goods, let's be honest,
- 9:15Speaker 3: and clothing and shoes and stuff like that.
- 9:17Speaker 2: But there is.
- 9:18Speaker 3: Going to be a huge rise in a spend of
- 9:21Speaker 3: food and at department stores. So you could interpret that
- 9:24Speaker 3: honestly however you like. But it seems like we're skimping
- 9:27Speaker 3: out on things for ourselves in order to put food
- 9:30Speaker 3: on the Christmas table this year and buy gifts for others,
- 9:33Speaker 3: which I think it's.
- 9:35Speaker 2: Kind of wholesome.
- 9:35Speaker 3: It's kind of sad that it's related to the cost
- 9:38Speaker 3: of living, but like, let's just reframe it.
- 9:40Speaker 2: We're just more generous and kind this year. Sure, that's
- 9:43Speaker 2: a very wholesome way to look at it. But those
- 9:45Speaker 2: are interesting SATs and especially about the food.
- 9:48Speaker 3: I mean, we're going to cut back on going out
- 9:49Speaker 3: for drinks, We're going to cut back on going out
- 9:51Speaker 3: for dinner, but at the end of the day, you
- 9:53Speaker 3: might invite a few more people round to Chrissy dinner
- 9:55Speaker 3: and you know.
- 9:56Speaker 2: Host at home.
- 9:56Speaker 3: So the supermarkets are going to rake it in I mean,
- 10:00Speaker 3: we've got a lot to say on the price gouging
- 10:01Speaker 3: that they're doing at the moment with their billion dollar profits.
- 10:04Speaker 2: But that's a conversation for another day. Don't get us stuck.
- 10:09Speaker 2: But I know that our weekly shops are costing more now.
- 10:11Speaker 2: It's nice to think that maybe more people will opt
- 10:13Speaker 2: to have some of their Christmas celebrations at home rather
- 10:16Speaker 2: than at a restaurant or a pub. But I guess
- 10:18Speaker 2: that's why the food cost is up this year. It
- 10:20Speaker 2: also kind of sounds like a lot of spending is
- 10:22Speaker 2: due to like decking the halls and like getting your
- 10:26Speaker 2: house nice and pretty for Christmas. I mean, you know
- 10:29Speaker 2: when you were little and your mum would be like, Beck,
- 10:31Speaker 2: we have food at home? Yeah? Beck, you have Christmas
- 10:34Speaker 2: decorations from last year. Use them. I don't want to
- 10:37Speaker 2: use I have you seen the kmart range? Like, are
- 10:40Speaker 2: you joking? They've done rainbow?
- 10:42Speaker 3: Oh I'm going to do an entirely rainbow Christmas tree
- 10:45Speaker 3: on a budget because obviously it's KMA and the boxes
- 10:47Speaker 3: are like twelve dollars. Honestly, it's just a no brainer,
- 10:50Speaker 3: just twelve bucks on a whole heap of colored bullballs
- 10:53Speaker 3: old only use one time during.
- 10:55Speaker 2: The exactly and then next year I need a different theme.
- 10:59Speaker 3: But what you're saying is absolutely true.
- 11:02Speaker 2: There is I guess, a lot less to spend on
- 11:04Speaker 2: decking the halls.
- 11:05Speaker 3: In fact, the most alarming part of all of this
- 11:08Speaker 3: is that twenty four percent of people, and that is
- 11:10Speaker 3: almost one in four people, will be relying on credit
- 11:14Speaker 3: cards to cover costs this Christmas season. So that's four
- 11:17Speaker 3: point eight million people here in Australia who will be
- 11:21Speaker 3: pushed into debt over this festive season. And as much
- 11:24Speaker 3: as colorful Christmas balls from kmart are very exciting to
- 11:28Speaker 3: talk about, I feel like we need to get into
- 11:31Speaker 3: the nitty gritty of debt and talking about how bad
- 11:33Speaker 3: that can be because twelve dollars here and there it
- 11:37Speaker 3: adds up.
- 11:38Speaker 2: And as I've said.
- 11:38Speaker 3: Before a million times on this podcast, no one goes
- 11:41Speaker 3: and gets a credit card beck with the intention of
- 11:44Speaker 3: going into crippling debt. No one wants to feel stressed
- 11:47Speaker 3: over the Christmas period.
- 11:48Speaker 2: Lots of people will be like, oh, just chuck it on.
- 11:50Speaker 3: Credit it'll be fine, and then they can't sleep during
- 11:53Speaker 3: that period of time. Like to me, it is not
- 11:55Speaker 3: fair and I think that we really should be contextualizing
- 11:58Speaker 3: what this means and having up more open, honest conversations
- 12:02Speaker 3: with our friends and family about what this means. And
- 12:04Speaker 3: obviously there are a heap of ways to cut down costs.
- 12:08Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, if we are here to help. So basically,
- 12:12Speaker 2: after the break, I think we'll go through and talk
- 12:14Speaker 2: about gifts that are not super expensive. Maybe you can
- 12:17Speaker 2: make them at home, maybe free stuff. We're going to
- 12:20Speaker 2: talk about all that kind of stuff. We'll go to
- 12:22Speaker 2: a quick break and get our lists ready. Let's have
- 12:25Speaker 2: a think. Yeah, because I'm not feeling that festive after
- 12:27Speaker 2: reading all of those stuff. I'm not feeling festive at
- 12:30Speaker 2: all at the moment. But we will.
- 12:31Speaker 4: We will because we're going to have some sick gift ideas, yes,
- 12:34Speaker 4: that are going to save your whole heap of money.
- 12:36Speaker 2: So don't go anywhere, guys, I V we are back.
- 12:44Speaker 2: I'm ready, are feeling more festive. I'm feeling a little
- 12:46Speaker 2: bit more festive too. Actually, we're going to help you
- 12:49Speaker 2: save some cash. You go first. Actually I want you
- 12:52Speaker 2: to talk about I'm us or maybe any time to think.
- 12:55Speaker 3: All right, all right, A right, I have a list
- 12:57Speaker 3: and I've been checking it twice but you do not
- 13:03Speaker 3: have to spend a lot of money on gifts to
- 13:05Speaker 3: show people how much you care about them. And obviously,
- 13:07Speaker 3: throughout the year, I've been dropping hints on the pod,
- 13:09Speaker 3: but we have been creating a list of actually good,
- 13:13Speaker 3: actually thoughtful DIY gifts, because I'm not gonna lie your
- 13:17Speaker 3: kid coming home with a snowflake made out of a
- 13:20Speaker 3: paper plate, while cute, kind of don't want it.
- 13:27Speaker 2: Not a good Christmas resent, sure, you know, not practical.
- 13:31Speaker 3: That's a good present, I suppose, And I mean, I'm
- 13:34Speaker 3: yet to have this baby, beck, So maybe I just
- 13:36Speaker 3: don't understand why my mum still puts a paper plate
- 13:39Speaker 3: with a glued on toilet roll that looks kind.
- 13:41Speaker 2: Of like an angel on the Christmas tree every year.
- 13:44Speaker 3: That I made what like thirty years ago. Maybe that
- 13:47Speaker 3: is a good gift.
- 13:49Speaker 2: That is, so maybe we should be.
- 13:51Speaker 4: Using paper plates and toilet rolls to create all of
- 13:53Speaker 4: our Christmas resuents.
- 13:55Speaker 2: That if you gave me an angel paper plate with
- 13:58Speaker 2: a toilet stuck to it for no reason whatsoever, I
- 14:01Speaker 2: think I would like that. I don't think you would.
- 14:03Speaker 2: I think you'd be like, dang, great, now I have
- 14:06Speaker 2: to hold this thing. No what do I do with it?
- 14:09Speaker 2: Do I throw it out?
- 14:09Speaker 4: It's like getting cards. You want to throw out Christmas
- 14:12Speaker 4: cards or Birthday cards?
- 14:13Speaker 2: Yeah, that's something I still wonder. I keep them just
- 14:16Speaker 2: your case.
- 14:16Speaker 3: What if you ask me and you're like, man, do
- 14:18Speaker 3: you still have that Christmas card? It was really thoughtful
- 14:20Speaker 3: and I'm going no, I just chocked it in the fire.
- 14:22Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm worried about. You say.
- 14:24Speaker 4: Anyway, here are some actually thoughtful presence.
- 14:27Speaker 3: All right, So first lay off the rank. Do you
- 14:30Speaker 3: like that homemade wheat packs?
- 14:33Speaker 2: Oh? Very good?
- 14:34Speaker 3: So you say very good, but you probably don't know
- 14:36Speaker 3: what I'm really talking about it before.
- 14:39Speaker 2: Yes, that too, and someone did maybe one of these ones.
- 14:41Speaker 2: So it is.
- 14:43Speaker 3: So I love this because you can just have basic
- 14:46Speaker 3: stitching skills for this. You could YouTube it. It's fun.
- 14:49Speaker 3: You might want to upscale this festive season if you
- 14:52Speaker 3: have a sewing machine, honestly cut your time in half.
- 14:55Speaker 3: But also you can definitely handstitch it. A sewing kit
- 14:58Speaker 3: from like kmart is honestly with thread with needles, but
- 15:02Speaker 3: the tiny scissors is like five.
- 15:03Speaker 2: Bucks from kmart. Sick. And one of my.
- 15:06Speaker 3: Favorite uses of fabrics is cheap tea towels because obviously
- 15:10Speaker 3: I'm not going to go to spotlight and by like
- 15:12Speaker 3: rolls and rolls of fabric, which I think ends up
- 15:14Speaker 3: being quite expensive but also quite wasteful.
- 15:17Speaker 2: One tea towel equals one weet pack. Yeah, stitched around
- 15:22Speaker 2: the edge, right, so that's not going to fray. Yeah,
- 15:25Speaker 2: money win if you get them from kmart. I'm pretty
- 15:27Speaker 2: sure like a five pack of tea towels is like
- 15:29Speaker 2: five bucks as well. You could be.
- 15:31Speaker 3: Fancy and get like branded ones, like imagine getting like
- 15:35Speaker 3: a Winnie the Pooh tea towel one.
- 15:37Speaker 2: Anyway, interesting that your mind went straight to Winning the
- 15:41Speaker 2: Poo as a brand. I was think of Gucci. Oh,
- 15:45Speaker 2: you see tea towelse you like branded, and then you're
- 15:48Speaker 2: like Winny the Poo.
- 15:50Speaker 3: But do you know what, I'm thinking a lot about
- 15:52Speaker 3: Winnie the Pool at the moment, because I'm pregnant, of course,
- 15:56Speaker 3: and all of my tops now when I put them on,
- 15:58Speaker 3: make me look like I'm Winning the Pew.
- 16:00Speaker 2: Those possibly cute, it's not cute.
- 16:03Speaker 3: I literally look like Winnie the Pooh when I put
- 16:05Speaker 3: my t shirts on in the morning nowadays, and my
- 16:07Speaker 3: husband literally calls me pooh oh. I'm like, yeah, could
- 16:12Speaker 3: I borrow one of your t shirts? Thanks, we're going
- 16:15Speaker 3: for coffee. I didn't need to be attacked like this.
- 16:17Speaker 2: Also, you could call you whinny, but he's gone straight
- 16:19Speaker 2: for poo straight poo.
- 16:22Speaker 3: What a nice guy, fantastic dad material anyway, But what
- 16:26Speaker 3: you're going to do is obviously stitch around the edge.
- 16:28Speaker 3: I'll do a tutorial online for this because it is
- 16:30Speaker 3: actually really really easy.
- 16:32Speaker 2: But what you're going to fill it with is wheat.
- 16:34Speaker 2: Weady buy wheat back ah the pets.
- 16:37Speaker 3: Sure, you can get a ten kilo bag of wheat
- 16:41Speaker 3: for ten dollars. Oh that's cheap, and that's gonna make
- 16:44Speaker 3: like at least ten different wheat packs.
- 16:47Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're.
- 16:48Speaker 3: Really fancy, you're going to walk around your neighborhood and
- 16:51Speaker 3: you're like be spying the whole time. Anybody got any lavender?
- 16:55Speaker 2: I could dry up put in there, good idea. You're
- 16:57Speaker 2: paying for lavender, you could chuck some essential oils, could
- 17:00Speaker 2: put anything you want in there, right. Obviously, Christmas in
- 17:04Speaker 2: Australia is currently during summer, so they're not going to
- 17:06Speaker 2: use it immediately. But a wheat pack doesn't go astray
- 17:09Speaker 2: in my house, got a saw back wheat pack?
- 17:11Speaker 3: Cold at my desk? Wheat pack, you're cold at my house?
- 17:14Speaker 3: Do you want a wheat pack? Heep I made last Christmas.
- 17:17Speaker 2: Honestly, those are timeless gifts. You will never not need
- 17:20Speaker 2: a wheat pack. I agree.
- 17:21Speaker 3: Also, kmart has stepped up the game this year. They
- 17:24Speaker 3: have a whole heap of diy craft things, right clay
- 17:29Speaker 3: using air dry clay, you could hand make some earrings
- 17:32Speaker 3: or candle holders. You could make like a little game
- 17:34Speaker 3: of like Tic tac toe. Oh cute jewelry holders literally
- 17:39Speaker 3: so much. But clay costs between five and fifteen dollars
- 17:43Speaker 3: from like came up Bunning's office works Amazon if you're
- 17:46Speaker 3: smart and planned. But honestly, these are all just like
- 17:49Speaker 3: cam up things. This isn't sponsored by kmart, by the way.
- 17:52Speaker 2: I'm just obsessed and also probably should have been smarter
- 17:56Speaker 2: with my marketing and pr. I should have reached out
- 17:58Speaker 2: to kmart to be like, I'm going to do a
- 18:00Speaker 2: Christmas episode and we should work together. True, but it
- 18:02Speaker 2: didn't do this for free, km up.
- 18:05Speaker 3: I'm doing you a solid the next This has been
- 18:09Speaker 3: popular in our community every year, so I have been
- 18:12Speaker 3: sharing this recipe for the last four Christmases with you guys,
- 18:15Speaker 3: And every year someone messages me and goes, hey, the
- 18:18Speaker 3: I saw you posted this last year and I just
- 18:20Speaker 3: thought it was a bit lame.
- 18:22Speaker 2: Didn't do it?
- 18:23Speaker 3: Did it this year? It's incredible? And that is my
- 18:25Speaker 3: recipe for Christmas crack. Oh you haven't yet had it
- 18:29Speaker 3: because you have not been on the show for more
- 18:31Speaker 3: than a year. But like at Christmas time, I make
- 18:34Speaker 3: so many trays of this stuff and I give it
- 18:37Speaker 3: as gifts and people are always like, the what was
- 18:40Speaker 3: in that? It was incredible?
- 18:42Speaker 2: What is it?
- 18:43Speaker 1: So?
- 18:43Speaker 2: You can package it up really cute, really homemade. You're
- 18:46Speaker 2: not gonna believe me how good this is. Go just
- 18:49Speaker 2: look up.
- 18:49Speaker 3: Christmas crack in my Facebook group because then everybody will
- 18:53Speaker 3: like convince you of it. But it's essentially a get
- 18:56Speaker 3: this saladas. Okay, it's the base biscuit. We then make
- 19:01Speaker 3: a caramel sauce, which is super easy. It's basically brown
- 19:04Speaker 3: sugar and butter m M and then you top it
- 19:06Speaker 3: with chocolate and then you could dress it however you want.
- 19:09Speaker 3: Sometimes I put just some sea salt on the top,
- 19:12Speaker 3: or we might put some like sprinkles or something like
- 19:15Speaker 3: you could literally do whatever you want given it's Christmas time.
- 19:18Speaker 3: I know the supermarket has those like festive sprinkles for cupcakes.
- 19:21Speaker 3: You could put that on there.
- 19:22Speaker 2: Yeah, extra festive, right, doesn't sound that appetizing when I
- 19:26Speaker 2: explain it. But once it's all dry, it cracks and it's.
- 19:31Speaker 3: Like this crunchy, sweet, salty, gooey, like incredible biscuit and
- 19:38Speaker 3: you crack it up. It has to be rustic, like
- 19:40Speaker 3: you don't actually want it to be in the Salada squares.
- 19:43Speaker 3: You want it to kind of be like triangles and
- 19:45Speaker 3: like really rugged pieces Christmas crack, which means you don't
- 19:49Speaker 3: even have to do a good job of cooking it
- 19:51Speaker 3: like it can look rustic, is what we'll call it.
- 19:54Speaker 2: I love that.
- 19:55Speaker 3: I promise I'm going to bring you some next week
- 19:58Speaker 3: and you're going to lose your mind.
- 20:00Speaker 2: I was so excited, but it sounds so.
- 20:02Speaker 3: Cheap, and you make so much of it, and people like, wow,
- 20:05Speaker 3: you made this, thank you, and you just go, yeah,
- 20:08Speaker 3: I made it because I thought you would really love it,
- 20:10Speaker 3: like you could obviously drop in that she's on the money.
- 20:12Speaker 2: It's the best podcast ever. And that's where you got
- 20:14Speaker 2: the idea if it comes up organically Christmas, she's on
- 20:17Speaker 2: the money.
- 20:18Speaker 3: He's a new listener, and that's all we could really
- 20:20Speaker 3: ask for this first five season back, that's all we want.
- 20:22Speaker 3: But Christmas crack is honestly one of my favorite gifts
- 20:26Speaker 3: to give. The next is maybe a little less rustic
- 20:30Speaker 3: and requires.
- 20:31Speaker 2: A little bit more skill. Sure, but I got one
- 20:34Speaker 2: last year and I was super impressed, and that was
- 20:37Speaker 2: a mcrame plant holder. Yes, so one of my girlfriends.
- 20:41Speaker 3: Made it super cheap to make. You can buy rope
- 20:43Speaker 3: from Bunnings for like ten bucks, but.
- 20:45Speaker 2: You can gift it with like a propagated cutting ah
- 20:49Speaker 2: clever smart so free plant money win, and then you
- 20:52Speaker 2: can also give them like the mcrame mic holder. There's
- 20:55Speaker 2: lots of tutorials on TikTok and on YouTube, so like,
- 20:59Speaker 2: you don't just have to make it yourself.
- 21:00Speaker 3: Probably unpopular opinion, don't buy the kids online. They're like
- 21:04Speaker 3: seventy or eighty dollars.
- 21:06Speaker 2: Cancel that. Just find a template online, free mccrame plant
- 21:10Speaker 2: hold a template and it will literally just come up
- 21:12Speaker 2: and show you how to make a whole heap of
- 21:14Speaker 2: different ones. Okay, money win. There's usually a.
- 21:17Speaker 3: YouTube tutorial that goes with it, that shows you exactly how.
- 21:20Speaker 2: Yeah, very cute. The next is a printed photo book album.
- 21:24Speaker 2: Oh so, I can't think of anything more thoughtful than
- 21:27Speaker 2: a friend going through their photo album and finding a
- 21:29Speaker 2: whole heap of cute photos of us together printing them out.
- 21:33Speaker 2: You could print them it Cama. If you've got a
- 21:35Speaker 2: bit more time, you can print them out and be
- 21:36Speaker 2: fancy and send them through to Vista Print, which is
- 21:39Speaker 2: even cheaper. But like, is that not the cutest idea ever? Yeah,
- 21:43Speaker 2: that's like a little memory book of all of your
- 21:44Speaker 2: friend memories. I love that. It feels so much more
- 21:48Speaker 2: special when it's printed out.
- 21:49Speaker 3: Yeah, and if you've got like graphic design skills, which
- 21:51Speaker 3: I do not possess, you do, you could use like
- 21:53Speaker 3: Canva or something to design the book and get it printed.
- 21:56Speaker 3: And to be honest, if you're getting a book printed online,
- 21:58Speaker 3: it's honestly like ten dollars.
- 22:00Speaker 2: You know who's gonna love that? Mums? Moms. Mummy will
- 22:05Speaker 2: love that. Mom's gonna love it.
- 22:07Speaker 3: You know you should do next time you go to
- 22:08Speaker 3: your mum's place, you should raid all of the family photos,
- 22:12Speaker 3: scan the me in and put them in a book.
- 22:14Speaker 2: WHOA, She's basically done the work for you. Yeah? True?
- 22:17Speaker 2: Is that not genius? That's genius fee, that's genius. Smart.
- 22:21Speaker 2: I've got a few if you're ready. Oh, you've now
- 22:23Speaker 2: thought of a number to share? Yes, I think that
- 22:25Speaker 2: was appropriate amount of time to think of a few things.
- 22:26Speaker 2: You're going to say the things I said, I'm going
- 22:29Speaker 2: to go through and say homemade wheat pack. I'm just kidding.
- 22:32Speaker 2: But so have you heard of Christmas crack? I like
- 22:35Speaker 2: to be a little bit savvy, and so I'm thinking
- 22:37Speaker 2: of all the ways I've kind of gotten away with
- 22:39Speaker 2: not spending much over Christmas and birthdays, but most recently
- 22:42Speaker 2: one of my very good friends, we do like to
- 22:45Speaker 2: make things for each other. So either it's like a
- 22:48Speaker 2: picture of a magnet of me and her, Like a
- 22:51Speaker 2: magnet is kind of cute, it's like silly, it's cute whatever,
- 22:54Speaker 2: but not silly. That's actually a good present. That's kind
- 22:56Speaker 2: of cute. Put that on the list. Christmas magnet convenient
- 22:59Speaker 2: you chuck it on your electricity bill or whatever. But
- 23:01Speaker 2: that's not the one I was talking about. Every time
- 23:03Speaker 2: you think of your bill, you think of your friend.
- 23:05Speaker 2: Is exactly and then you creates association and so that
- 23:08Speaker 2: friend now gives you anxiety. That is so ic I
- 23:13Speaker 2: love it. So that's selling it. Yes, and you don't
- 23:17Speaker 2: talk to that friend anymore. Saves your moneycause I find
- 23:19Speaker 2: them present. No, But what I did was I made
- 23:22Speaker 2: an activity wheel for her. So I went through office
- 23:24Speaker 2: works and got different colored cardboards those little like pushpin things,
- 23:29Speaker 2: and wrote down all the things we like to do together.
- 23:32Speaker 2: And so if we're just at home doing nothing and
- 23:35Speaker 2: we feel like we want to get out of the house,
- 23:38Speaker 2: or you're in a relationship with this friend, basically we're
- 23:41Speaker 2: in a relationship. You can do that for relationships as well,
- 23:44Speaker 2: like a date wheel, pop date ideas on popsticks and
- 23:47Speaker 2: put them in like a little that's cute. A friend
- 23:49Speaker 2: gave me that idea. I don't want to take credit,
- 23:51Speaker 2: but take the credit. I might take the credit with
- 23:53Speaker 2: me on this show. Baby, that's true, she's not in
- 23:54Speaker 2: here with me. And then the other thing was me
- 23:57Speaker 2: and my family will kind of do this thing where
- 23:58Speaker 2: we'll just bite other novelty gifts nothing over like five dollars.
- 24:02Speaker 2: And I know, like I don't want to add to
- 24:04Speaker 2: any like junker consumption, your consumption and stuff. So it's
- 24:08Speaker 2: always like just one or two little things that they
- 24:09Speaker 2: will use forever. Always novelty gifts, things that you'll want
- 24:12Speaker 2: to put on your desk in the office, that you
- 24:15Speaker 2: just fiddle with, like little things like that. Nothing over
- 24:17Speaker 2: five dollars is what we do. And then Secret standard,
- 24:21Speaker 2: everyone buys one gift and that's it and everyone is
- 24:24Speaker 2: gifted a gift. Does that make sense? Yeah? No, no, no,
- 24:27Speaker 2: I like that. So you don't have to buy for
- 24:29Speaker 2: everyone wanting to be a game as well, it's a game.
- 24:31Speaker 2: It's silly, it's fun, it's really exciting. You just have
- 24:34Speaker 2: to put out, like maybe whatever the budget is, let's
- 24:37Speaker 2: say two set the budget at anything, anything, let's say
- 24:40Speaker 2: twenty dollars. You just buy the one gift. Everyone's taken
- 24:43Speaker 2: care of. I think that's probably the way I do
- 24:46Speaker 2: it with most people in my life.
- 24:48Speaker 3: I want to be Secret Santa is fantastic. Whenever we
- 24:51Speaker 3: have done like Secret Center at work or like in
- 24:54Speaker 3: our friendship group, they'll set a limit, right, they'll be
- 24:56Speaker 3: like fifteen dollars, and you go, yep, great, I can
- 24:59Speaker 3: afford fifteen dollars, and so can everybody else. Like in
- 25:01Speaker 3: that circle, because otherwise you wouldn't have asked them. But
- 25:04Speaker 3: then you start looking for presents and everything's so much
- 25:06Speaker 3: more expensive, and I just have this idea in my head.
- 25:08Speaker 3: I'm like, if it was just thirty dollars, this would
- 25:11Speaker 3: be so much easier for me.
- 25:13Speaker 2: Mentally.
- 25:13Speaker 3: That's a terrible way of thinking, but I think that
- 25:16Speaker 3: a lot of people will resonate with that. The other
- 25:18Speaker 3: thing I was going to butt in there and contribute.
- 25:20Speaker 3: If you haven't listened to our festive episodes before, you
- 25:24Speaker 3: might not have heard how my family does Christmas. By
- 25:27Speaker 3: my family, I mean Steve's side of the family. I'm
- 25:30Speaker 3: trying to implement it in the rest of the family.
- 25:32Speaker 3: It hasn't gone so well just yet, but we'll get there.
- 25:34Speaker 3: But Steve's side of family, it's literally my favorite thing
- 25:37Speaker 3: ever Christmas time. If you're gifting people, it has to
- 25:40Speaker 3: be handmade, homemade or second hand. So we are not
- 25:44Speaker 3: allowed to go to the shops and buy something new.
- 25:47Speaker 3: You have to handmake it yourself. It has to be homemade.
- 25:50Speaker 3: It could be homemade by someone else, like you could
- 25:52Speaker 3: buy something from a small business and like gift that
- 25:55Speaker 3: and that's okay. One year I got this really beautiful,
- 25:57Speaker 3: like raffia bag that was like handmade, and I was
- 26:00Speaker 3: just like, this is a Slay gift or it can
- 26:03Speaker 3: be secondhand.
- 26:04Speaker 2: And so, like you guys have probably.
- 26:06Speaker 3: All heard it if you've listened to our Christmas episodes before.
- 26:09Speaker 3: But a couple of years ago, I was buying for
- 26:12Speaker 3: my niece and nephew.
- 26:13Speaker 2: I was so excited. I was like, what are we
- 26:14Speaker 2: going to get them?
- 26:15Speaker 3: I knew they were getting a cubby for Christmas that year,
- 26:18Speaker 3: and so I thought, what if we just go on
- 26:20Speaker 3: like Facebook, Marketplace or gum Tree or whatever and find
- 26:24Speaker 3: like one of those play kitchens, and so for I
- 26:27Speaker 3: think it was like fifty bucks, right, so still like
- 26:29Speaker 3: not the cheapest ever, but fifty dollars through a joint present,
- 26:33Speaker 3: I thought was pretty good. Sure, I went over to
- 26:36Speaker 3: I think it was like Fitzroy or something, some dude's
- 26:38Speaker 3: bougie penthouse apartment, and I bought this play kitchen and
- 26:42Speaker 3: it was really well looked after. But he threw in
- 26:45Speaker 3: all of the accessories, so the cups, the plates, the balls,
- 26:48Speaker 3: the little plastic fruits, all of the stuff that would
- 26:51Speaker 3: have really added up and cost a heap of money
- 26:53Speaker 3: to buy fifty bucks money win. That would have been
- 26:56Speaker 3: at least three years ago back. They still use it.
- 27:00Speaker 3: It is still in their little cubby house. And now
- 27:03Speaker 3: whenever I go up to the window of the cubby house,
- 27:06Speaker 3: my niece looks out and.
- 27:07Speaker 2: Goes, oh late, yes please, and a plastic banana that
- 27:12Speaker 2: is so cute yuh.
- 27:14Speaker 3: Anyway, aana secondhand could be a really good way of
- 27:17Speaker 3: doing Christmas this year because you could get a present
- 27:19Speaker 3: that you otherwise wouldn't have been able.
- 27:21Speaker 2: To afford to purchase.
- 27:22Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that, like because that would have honestly,
- 27:25Speaker 3: after you add it all up, that would have been
- 27:26Speaker 3: a couple of one hundred dollars at least just for
- 27:29Speaker 3: the kitchen, and then all of the additional accessories, like
- 27:32Speaker 3: it was only just like IKEA stuff Like it wasn't
- 27:35Speaker 3: you know, fancy fancy hottery barn stuff, but the little pots,
- 27:40Speaker 3: the little plates, all of the stuff so they could
- 27:42Speaker 3: play house.
- 27:44Speaker 2: What a good gift. That's a great gift. And the
- 27:45Speaker 2: kids don't know any different. It's going out in the cubby.
- 27:48Speaker 2: I love that it was all clean.
- 27:50Speaker 4: I chucked all of the plastic wear through the dishwasher
- 27:52Speaker 4: before I gave it to them, and I gave the
- 27:54Speaker 4: kitchen a good scrub out because obviously like that just
- 27:56Speaker 4: feels like the right thing to do.
- 27:58Speaker 2: But slay, I love that and rich reuse, recycle, they say, so,
- 28:02Speaker 2: I love it. I love this idav I think it's great.
- 28:04Speaker 3: And I don't think anyone would genuinely be offended if
- 28:08Speaker 3: you bought them something secondhand.
- 28:10Speaker 2: It's twenty two three. I think people would be like,
- 28:12Speaker 2: oh my god, thank you for thinking of me. Yeah,
- 28:13Speaker 2: think you thinking of me and the planet.
- 28:15Speaker 3: It's actually so much nicer that you put so much time,
- 28:18Speaker 3: energy and effort into sourcing this instead of just marching
- 28:20Speaker 3: into your cam up, purchasing it off the shelf and calling.
- 28:23Speaker 2: It to day. I don't know, I like it better. Yeah,
- 28:25Speaker 2: I love that. That's such a good point. B It
- 28:26Speaker 2: does feel more thoughtful than quickly go in the shops
- 28:28Speaker 2: and dropping like fifty bucks. Exactly. Thank you so much
- 28:32Speaker 2: for helping us save this Christmas. I did want to
- 28:34Speaker 2: go rogue there and say that Christmas time that's not
- 28:36Speaker 2: always spent with family and friends. You might be someone
- 28:38Speaker 2: that doesn't have that. We're thinking of you in this time,
- 28:42Speaker 2: your family. We are your family and friends, So stay
- 28:44Speaker 2: safe out there. We love you. We love you, Bye, guys.
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