
55. How to Handle Conflict in Relationships: The Four Horsemen and Their Antidotes
In This Episode:
We discuss the concept of the Four Horsemen coined by the Gottman Institute. You can use these to identify common trends in difficult conversations and to respond to them in an effective and helpful manner.
1) Criticism
2) Contempt
3) Defensiveness
4) Stonewalling
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Resources:
The Four Horsemen and Their Antidotes - The Gottman Institute
The Four Horsemen
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The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
The 5…
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