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- 0:00David Friedman, BS: Hello, this is Dr.
- 0:01David Friedman, host of To Your Good Health Radio.
- 0:03Many of you go to the gym and y- you build your muscle and y- you go
- 0:07for walks to strengthen your heart.
- 0:09But when was the last time you trained your brain?
- 0:12See, most of us treat mental health like a fire we put out when
- 0:17things get bad, not something we proactively build like a muscle.
- 0:21Unfortunately, this reactive approach is not working.
- 0:24Prescriptions for psychiatric medications are at an all-time high.
- 0:29Therapists can barely keep up with the demand, and millions of people
- 0:32are still struggling, not because they're broken, but because nobody ever
- 0:37showed them how to get mentally fit.
- 0:39That's a new concept we're talking about here and is a big game-changer.
- 0:43Your brain isn't just shaped by your thoughts or past trauma.
- 0:47It's shaped by your lifestyle and what you put on your plate.
- 0:51Today, we're joined by Dr.
- 0:52Drew Ramsey, a leading pioneer in nutritional psychiatry, and he'll
- 0:57share why food isn't just fuel for your body, it's medicine for your
- 1:01mind, and we're gonna cover the keys to mental fitness and which foods fight
- 1:04depression, anxiety, and much more.
- 1:07The only thing standing between you and a sharper, more resilient brain
- 1:11could be at the end of your fork.
- 1:13Don't go anywhere.
- 1:14It all starts now.
- 1:26My next guest is a board-certified psychiatrist, author, and one of
- 1:31the leading pioneers in nutrition, psychiatry, and integrative mental health.
- 1:37He spent 20 years as an assistant clinical professor of psychiatry
- 1:41at Columbia University.
- 1:43In addition, he's a fellow of the American Psychiatric Association, founder of
- 1:47the Brain Food Clinic and Spruce Mental Health, and he's delivered three TEDx
- 1:52talks and authored five books, and his work has been featured by The Today
- 1:56Show, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and NPR, just to name a few.
- 2:01Welcome to the show, author of Healing the Modern Brain, Dr.
- 2:05Drew Ramsey.
- 2:07Drew Ramsey, MD: Hey everybody, Dr.
- 2:08Friedman.
- 2:09Thanks so much for having me on.
- 2:10I'm so excited to talk with everybody listening about how
- 2:13to max your mental fitness.
- 2:15Probably, I'd say the most important thing you can be doing for your
- 2:19health and mental health right now, so I can't wait to get into it
- 2:22with you all
- 2:22David Friedman, BS: Yeah, I love that term mental fitness.
- 2:24It's something we don't hear.
- 2:25Share with us how that differs from mental health and why this distinction
- 2:30Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah.
- 2:30So this is what my new book, Healing the Modern Brain, gets into.
- 2:33Everybody, I'm a practicing psychiatrist, and when you do what I do for a living,
- 2:37you need a lot of tools in your toolbox.
- 2:39It's not just meds, it's not just therapy.
- 2:41Those are great, but my work with nutritional psychiatry showed me that
- 2:45there are certain foods that are just better for our mental health than others.
- 2:48Just like there are certain types of exercise that are better for
- 2:50your mental health than others.
- 2:51Just like there are certain things that we can talk about with our partners that make
- 2:55our relationship stronger, which you get it, that's better for our mental health.
- 3:00So that's mental fitness.
- 3:01It's the things that you and I need to do, just like for our physical health, right?
- 3:06It's the things we need to do to care for our mental health and our
- 3:08brain health and be our best selves.
- 3:10And I tried to put things in the book, Dr.
- 3:13Friedman, that we all agreed on because, boy, we're arguing
- 3:15about so many s- so many things in the health and wellness space.
- 3:19I wanted to just in some way speak the truth.
- 3:21These are nine things that if you do them right, it gets your brain
- 3:25growing and repairing itself.
- 3:26It's not a bunch of weird stuff.
- 3:29new, great science, the book's solid, you know, I hope it helps you all
- 3:32David Friedman, BS: Yeah, I love those nine, pillars of mental fitness.
- 3:35Can you briefly share these?
- 3:36And which ones do you find that people are most neglecting?
- 3:39Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah, let's get into a few of them, Dr.
- 3:40Freedman.
- 3:41So, you know, the first one we start out with is self-awareness.
- 3:44And this is when we spend time in our journal, when we go for a walk on
- 3:47a-- with a friend, when we reflect on why we're so upset and insecure and
- 3:52hot-headed not using our kind words, not having grace, like what's going on?
- 3:58That's self-awareness, and it's one of the most fundamental steps.
- 4:01in management, they talk about, you know, you can't manage what you don't measure.
- 4:05And it's a similar thing with our mental health.
- 4:07If we are not honest and true with ourselves, if we need, you know, that
- 4:10kinda joke, guys of, like, we don't go to therapy until someone sends us.
- 4:14that's not how we can be anymore.
- 4:16If you're not aware that you're struggling and able to just sit with
- 4:19that, really missing out on the most important, best motivations for you.
- 4:25And those motivations come from our own desires to have more purpose, to
- 4:28have more efficiency and, happiness and, more connection in our lives.
- 4:33So we start with self-awareness, and talk about some tips, things
- 4:36like journaling, going to groups.
- 4:39then next tenet is all about nutrition.
- 4:44Now, nutritional psychiatry, really simply, everybody, is that, certain foods,
- 4:48right, it's the idea we wanna optimize what we eat based on our brain health.
- 4:52Why?
- 4:52Your brain's your most important asset by far, and your brain uses more
- 4:57of your food than any other organ.
- 4:59It has more folate, more vitamin E, more calories, about a fifth of your calories.
- 5:04So we wanna dial in the nutrition.
- 5:06We know more and more that people are eating these ultra-processed
- 5:10foods for about sixty to seventy percent of your calories.
- 5:12If you're the average American listening, those calories come
- 5:15from op-- ultraprocessed foods.
- 5:17Every increase in ultraprocessed food, every ten percent of calories that come
- 5:22from ultraprocessed foods, that increases your risk of depression by eleven percent.
- 5:27So just four hundred more calories of processed food in your diet, that
- 5:31increases your risk of depression by twenty-two percent what we're seeing is
- 5:35that as people are eating this modern American diet, we're increasing our risk
- 5:39of all kinds of issues with mental health.
- 5:41It's not the only thing you need to do, but we've got to get food-- got
- 5:44to get food back to the real food.
- 5:46So ten at threes movement, and I call it that instead of exercise really, because
- 5:53I want people moving their bodies.
- 5:54And love all the lifting and, all the, intense exercise we see, the Ironmans
- 6:00on Instagram and, I treat a lot of regular people, and sometimes they
- 6:04only have fifteen minutes, they're not going to run a marathon this year.
- 6:07they're really busy, maybe with work, maybe with being a parent,
- 6:10maybe they're in graduate school.
- 6:11And I, don't mean those things are excuses.
- 6:14I just-- The reality is, most of us need to move our bodies more every day.
- 6:18And I talk in the book about some research around things like dancing.
- 6:23And a lot of times I'll tell people, "Go dancing," and they'll
- 6:25look at me a little bit strange.
- 6:26But if you look in the data, one of the movements that's best for our mood
- 6:29and our mental health is going dancing.
- 6:32And it's something, you most of us do after a few drinks at a
- 6:34wedding, and that's about it.
- 6:36And so it's just kind of an example, Dan, in the book where want to take this really
- 6:41fascinating new science of how our brains work and how our mental health works,
- 6:46and then help people create a program and feel inspirational that-- inspired.
- 6:50in all of the health information we get, I'm going to tell you
- 6:53about things that increase brain-derived neurotrophic factor.
- 6:56This is really the main growth hormone in our brain.
- 6:59good nutrition, good movement, and then, you know what's coming next is good sleep.
- 7:03But I get into sleep in a different way.
- 7:04Like, if you've never heard about the glymphatic system, I
- 7:07hope you'll check out the book.
- 7:09It's got an audiobook.
- 7:10I read the audiobook, because the glymphatic system really changes
- 7:14how you think about sleep hygiene.
- 7:16I bet your doctor's probably told you like, "Hey, sleep hygiene."
- 7:18You guys can maybe laugh about the phone, and, "Oh, it's so hard."
- 7:22That's not sleep hygiene.
- 7:23Sleep hygiene starts with the cleanliness of your bedroom.
- 7:26If your room is not sort of spotless right now, a shrine to your
- 7:30sleep, a sanctuary to your brain cleaning itself out, that's okay.
- 7:35It means there's a great opportunity for you.
- 7:36It means if you're not feeling well, if you're feeling a little run down,
- 7:40a little brain fog, a little low energy, low focus, you've got something
- 7:43actually right now to do, right?
- 7:45Which is around cleaning up your bedroom, getting an air filter in
- 7:49there, and starting to have your brain go through the cycles of sleep because
- 7:52this is when we clean waste out of our brain Remember that thing I said
- 7:56earlier, you burn all the calories?
- 7:58Well, anytime you burn calories, waste happens.
- 8:00But then th-those are the, first kind of four tenets, and we move in just
- 8:03walk through some of the other ones.
- 8:05I talk about connection and the different types of connections in
- 8:08our lives, not just your bestie and your partner, but thinking about
- 8:11institutions and friends and even acquaintances and colleagues and mentors.
- 8:16I talk about grounding in nature.
- 8:18I've spent a lot of my career out in New York City.
- 8:20Right now, I'm, looking at the Grand Tetons out in
- 8:23Jackson, Wyoming, where I live.
- 8:24And so nature and-- has been just central to my mental health and really something
- 8:29I love seeing patients do more of.
- 8:31And then the book ends thinking about these two tenets,
- 8:33unburdening, that's tenet eight.
- 8:36And unburdening is really my observation as a therapist that,
- 8:39that we-- so many of us are carrying around, unprocessed trauma.
- 8:44it can be serious traumas like assaults.
- 8:46It can be serious traumas that are often not thought of as serious,
- 8:50like in developmental neglect.
- 8:52just having parents who didn't really pay attention to you and the
- 8:55way that sits with certain people, or having a sibling who's really,
- 8:59like, mean and rejected you or…
- 9:01So, that unburdening to really try and step out of our past and into ourselves.
- 9:07And then this final notion, this tenet of purpose, that y- I mean, Dr.
- 9:10Friedman, I'm sure you feel it as a physician.
- 9:12I'm sure a lot of you listening feel it, right?
- 9:14When we have that sense of purpose, whether it's you're doing your job
- 9:18well, I find that all the time.
- 9:19It can be the simplest thing in my job.
- 9:21But when I'm doing it and I'm doing it well, it just feels great.
- 9:23when you're-- maybe it's being a parent, maybe it's you're just being
- 9:27a great partner, a good listener.
- 9:28But when you're living your purpose with a sense of purpose, your focus, your
- 9:32energy, it's just a different ball game.
- 9:35And so it's really inviting people into what we hope for in a good
- 9:38psychotherapy process, which is over time, people are more grounded and
- 9:42in touch with a sense of meaning and a sense of purpose in their lives.
- 9:45And that's, mental fitness in a nutshell.
- 9:48David Friedman, BS: I love it.
- 9:48Fantastic.
- 9:49I know back when I taught, neuroanatomy, I'd demonstrate the lobes of the
- 9:52brain using an overhead projector.
- 9:54Then I'd shock the students, the big reveal, the image I was using
- 9:58was a brai- brain, it was a walnut.
- 9:59So I was using a walnut instead of a brain, and everybody's jaws dropped.
- 10:02But I taught, I said, "Walnuts aren't just shape and look like a brain.
- 10:05They're one of the richest plant sources of DHA omega-3 fatty acids, the
- 10:09building blocks that run our brain."
- 10:11when it comes to memory, are there other foods that we can
- 10:13reach for that enhance the brain?
- 10:16Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah.
- 10:16When we think about what's called your dietary pattern, and then just
- 10:20looking for those foods that you're gonna really try and incorporate every
- 10:23week and, some of them every day.
- 10:25And in nutritional psychiatry, I encourage people to think about food categories.
- 10:29So, I could recommend a singular food like, maybe you think I'm gonna
- 10:32say kale 'cause I wrote Fifty Shades of Kale, and I, like kale a lot.
- 10:36But what I'm really curious about is leafy greens.
- 10:38And maybe you love bok choy and you don't like kale.
- 10:41That's great because leafy greens have this thing called nutrient density.
- 10:45And so we're looking for food categories that give us more nutrition
- 10:48for our brain for fewer calories.
- 10:50And this is where I come up with my little rhyme, seafood greens,
- 10:53nuts and beans, and a little dark chocolate, rainbow celebrations,
- 10:59don't forget the fermentations.
- 11:01And this is to direct people towards these food categories.
- 11:04So, you mentioned what's good for memory.
- 11:06Well, we can all agree those long-chain omega-3 fats you mentioned like DHA.
- 11:11the real concentrated source is these small fish like sardines and anchovies,
- 11:15but you can also get some really nice of the ALA in, things like, walnuts,
- 11:20as you mentioned, is a great source.
- 11:22Flax is another great source.
- 11:24seafood also brings us lots of B12 and iodine, just lots of nutrient
- 11:28density along with those omega-3 fats.
- 11:31Greens, again, folate, fiber, magnesium, so many nutrients in just twenty to
- 11:37thirty calories a cups of greens.
- 11:39Seafood, greens, nuts.
- 11:41Dr.
- 11:41Freeman, I don't know what you think about nuts.
- 11:43I love nuts because it's a little packet of olive oil, and olive oil's great
- 11:46for our health, great for our vascular health, great for our brain health.
- 11:49You got all these minerals.
- 11:51I like 'em because I can just like stick 'em in my bag, and I like unsalted,
- 11:55unroasted nuts, raw nuts because you don't kind of keep eating them 'cause
- 12:00there's no salts and, y-you get these really nice set of what are called
- 12:04phytonutrients, plant-based nutrients.
- 12:07Just like we do in vegetables, plants have similar ones.
- 12:10And so I really love the nuts
- 12:12David Friedman, BS: Yeah.
- 12:12Plus they're very filling.
- 12:13people can just do a little small handful and it tides them over for dinner.
- 12:16Otherwise, they're doing those empty calories, the snacks, the processed foods,
- 12:20they keep going and going and going.
- 12:21Handful of nuts, you're,
- 12:23Drew Ramsey, MD: It's such a great point because everybody when-- You know
- 12:25this, when you prescribe nuts, people's like, "Oh, there's so many calories."
- 12:28So two points on that.
- 12:29First, the USDA issued a statement, I'm gonna say five years ago, saying,
- 12:32"You know, you should take twenty-five percent of the calories off of the
- 12:36nut package because you don't absorb all of the calories from a nut."
- 12:40And that was very interesting.
- 12:41And then you've also, as you're eating something and it's calorically
- 12:44dense, has a lot of calories, you know, a couple hundred calories in a
- 12:47handful of nuts, but it's satiating.
- 12:49It leaves you full.
- 12:51And so protein, fat, fiber, and slow-burning carbs,
- 12:54that's what keeps us full.
- 12:55Well, you just-- That's the macronutrient content of a nut.
- 12:59And so that's why a little handful of nuts all the time in the middle of the
- 13:02day is a pick-me-up, especially if you get a little schlumpy in the afternoon.
- 13:06I really love almonds, walnuts, cashews.
- 13:09Those are kind of my daily drivers.
- 13:12David Friedman, BS: Yeah, don't have too many cashews 'cause they make you sneeze.
- 13:15Cashew.
- 13:16Ca- cashew.
- 13:17A kid told me that one last week.
- 13:18I loved it.
- 13:19Drew Ramsey, MD: very funny doctor.
- 13:21Cashews are a great source of iron.
- 13:23Iron is a really underappreciated nutrient deficiency when it comes to mental health.
- 13:28we've started really shifting how we think about and measure iron and
- 13:32storage iron, but particularly the women under forty-five listening, you really
- 13:37wanna make sure that your ferritin, your storage iron levels are good.
- 13:41it's one of those things that really sneaks up on people and
- 13:44sneaks up on women in particular.
- 13:45You just have a higher iron need, and especially lots of plant-based
- 13:49mommies out there now, w-which, is great in lots of ways for your
- 13:51health, but you also get a little less iron, a little less absorbable iron.
- 13:55Not to throw any shade on veggie diets, but more to think about our mental health.
- 13:59whether you go vegan, whether you go carnivore, I just want
- 14:01everybody thinking about your most important asset, your brain first.
- 14:06those diets, they come with some, I'd say, specialty needs.
- 14:10again, the hope of nutritional psychiatry, seafood greens, nuts and
- 14:13beans, a little dark chocolate, and then rainbow celebrations are colorful foods.
- 14:18Look at your plate.
- 14:19You see three or four colors?
- 14:21Good job.
- 14:21And if you don't, hey, a little challenge.
- 14:23Can you get another color in there?
- 14:24Chop up a red pepper, throw on some microgreens.
- 14:27and then fermentations is just this really cool new science of gut
- 14:31health in the microbiome, that as we eat more fermented foods, we seem
- 14:36to have the microbiomes, all these organisms that live in our colon.
- 14:39It's kinda gross, but it's kinda cool.
- 14:42And there's all this, science everybody's been hearing about this gut-brain axis,
- 14:46that how our gut is kind of doing, right?
- 14:50If there's a lot of different types of organisms down there,
- 14:52that's called microbiome diversity.
- 14:54That's usually correlated with health.
- 14:56why does this all matter?
- 14:57How does it matter?
- 14:57Why do gut organisms matter to my health?
- 15:00Great question.
- 15:01It's because of the gut being the major regulator of inflammation.
- 15:06So everybody's talking all about inflammation.
- 15:08We talk about inflammation.
- 15:09Inflammation's bad.
- 15:10And we kinda forget, inflammation's good.
- 15:12Inflammation's amazing.
- 15:13Inflammation's a miracle of biology.
- 15:16It's the fact that you somehow are able to surveil and destroy threats all day long.
- 15:23Viruses, bacteria, scratches, boo-boos, bad food, hangovers.
- 15:28You wanna talk about inflammatory factors, you look at what happened
- 15:30when people drink alcohol, your inflammatory factors all go up for hours.
- 15:35our gut health and having a more diverse microbiome, we think helps people
- 15:39regulate inflammation more effectively.
- 15:42And so again, that's where this cool intervention of thinking about a more
- 15:46whole foods type diet, a more traditional diet, eating less processed food, it
- 15:50has this really powerful systemic effect
- 15:53David Friedman, BS: Yeah, you mentioned alcohol.
- 15:54I know it's a depressant, which is not good for the brain, and many
- 15:57are turning to cannabis instead, the gummies, tinctures, vapes, especially
- 16:00now that it's legal in most states.
- 16:02I'm curious from a, a nutritional psychiatry standpoint, what does
- 16:06the science say about cannabis as a long-term strategy for managing
- 16:09depression, anxiety, or stress?
- 16:11Drew Ramsey, MD: Dr.
- 16:11Freedman, it's really about making sure when you have the munchies, going to
- 16:14a nutrient de-- I'm just kidding, Dr.
- 16:16Freedman.
- 16:17You know, cannabis is
- 16:18David Friedman, BS: Don't stop at Taco Bell.
- 16:20Drew Ramsey, MD: the cashew.
- 16:21Um, cannabis is really interesting in the sense that it's been very
- 16:25stigmatized, and you tend to see these, like, polar opposite headlines, right?
- 16:29You see like, oh, you know, recent headline, actually, older
- 16:32cannabis abusers seem to have some mental health benefits maybe.
- 16:36And then you see, oh, these headlines, there's no safe dose of cannabis.
- 16:39It's horrible for your brain health.
- 16:41So let's just quickly think, through the complexity of this, because I think
- 16:45it shows something about mental health, and I hope everybody listening can
- 16:48just take a moment, take a breath, and think about how complex mental health
- 16:51is and where we want to be curious.
- 16:53So a lot of people have a strong opinion about cannabis or alcohol
- 16:57or depression or antidepressants.
- 16:59And as somebody who's been in this field for twenty-five years, I have a lot of
- 17:03information, a lot of evidence, but I try and be really curious these days.
- 17:06there's so much hype about things like psychedelic or even cannabis
- 17:09and its help, and really so little research when it comes down to it.
- 17:13A few studies.
- 17:14With cannabis, we want to think about what is the mode of intake.
- 17:18You for a lot of my career, vapes came out, and that
- 17:21sounded healthier than smoking.
- 17:23So when you'd meet somebody who's a cannabis user in a state where
- 17:25it's legal, you kind of go into what's called harm reduction.
- 17:29Smoking's bad for you, so maybe vaping's better.
- 17:31Oh, then that looked like no.
- 17:33So what's even better than vaping or smoking?
- 17:35We'd guess taking gummies, right?
- 17:38Ah.
- 17:38If you actually look at a study that came out last year, there was a higher
- 17:42incidence or cor-correlation with heart disease among people who used
- 17:46edible cannabis products than smokable cannabis, which totally I still
- 17:50don't know how to understand that.
- 17:51Is it a longer effect?
- 17:53Is it that over time, the cannabis maybe like raises your blood pressure, for
- 17:56some people raises arrhythmia effect?
- 17:57I mean, it's really hard to know.
- 17:59I think the bottom line is people think about cannabis as very safe.
- 18:02and for the most part, that I would say is a reasonable if statement,
- 18:07but there's two real caveats.
- 18:09The first is among teens.
- 18:11Everybody just thinks that, like, we're downers, but the major risk
- 18:15of cannabis is teenage psychosis.
- 18:17And, there's population of people who would not get the psychotic
- 18:21illness, that because they use heavy amounts or even low amounts of high
- 18:25concentrated THC products, especially THC products without other terpenes or
- 18:30cannabinoids, they're vastly increasing the risk of getting a psychotic and
- 18:35potentially lifelong psychotic disorder.
- 18:37So this is where we really want to be cautious with our
- 18:40youth and our adolescents.
- 18:41And this isn't me being like the man or conservative or whatever.
- 18:44This is just the science, everybody.
- 18:46And so that's really the dan-- most dangerous window the evidence is then
- 18:51emerging and kind of maturing that people use a lot of cannabis these days.
- 18:55there's certainly health effects that we haven't really thought about.
- 18:58heart disease is the one that really just came out most recently in the data.
- 19:02people make reasonable arguments.
- 19:03There's all kinds of interesting anti-inflammatory
- 19:05compounds in the cannabinoids.
- 19:07I'm a clinician, and so my job is to help people have healthy relationships
- 19:12David Friedman, BS: it is healthier than alcohol.
- 19:14do you go to at least to that point?
- 19:16Drew Ramsey, MD: No.
- 19:16You know, I, I just think it's it's too broad.
- 19:18I mean, yes, if you look at the big data, alcohol is one of the most
- 19:22h-harmful substances on the planet.
- 19:25in terms of the strict data, yes, th-there is no comparison.
- 19:28Cannabis is a much healthier substance than alcohol.
- 19:31If you're a teenager, you have a beer, nothing's gonna happen.
- 19:36If you're the wrong teen and you smoke a big fatty, you can end
- 19:40up with a psychotic disorder.
- 19:42And, it really-- It's one of those things that like, yes, in the big
- 19:45data, it does certainly look safer.
- 19:47However, I think y- we just wanna make-- be cautious about global statements,
- 19:52and thinking about, again, lots of people are really into this stuff.
- 19:56Can we help people be really into some of these other things?
- 20:01Movement, going dancing, listening to music, learning to play an
- 20:04instrument, journaling, becoming, I don't know, like a better lover, right?
- 20:08There's like all kinds of things to do with yourself, your
- 20:11David Friedman, BS: Yeah, but everybody wants that one-stop shop.
- 20:13Like, what about these nootropics on the market?
- 20:16They
- 20:16boost memory, decrease
- 20:17depression.
- 20:18Drew Ramsey, MD: I, will tell you what you're all looking for, right?
- 20:21If you're feeling your life is hollow, it's because you're
- 20:23pursuing the wrong goals.
- 20:24You're pursuing manly goals, not godly goals, right?
- 20:28You're pursuing goals of, wealth, of materialism, of titles, right?
- 20:33You're insecure and trying to make up for it with all kinds of stuff.
- 20:36We all do this.
- 20:37And as the-- soon as you begin to pivot, look into the eyes of the people around
- 20:42you, center down and focus on your kids.
- 20:45Stop being a jerk to your partner and open up your arms and your heart.
- 20:49If you want a universal answer to feeling better, it is connecting
- 20:53to those around you, being of service to them, loving them harder.
- 20:58I say this all the time to the young men in my practice: How are
- 21:01you being a better boyfriend today?
- 21:03how are you growing your heart bigger?
- 21:05if you want solution like that, plus some more lentils in your
- 21:09diet, more wild salmon, and going dancing more, I think that would
- 21:13help pretty much everybody listening.
- 21:15No guarantees, but you can always let me know.
- 21:18I'm, I'm Instagram @DrewRamseyMD.
- 21:20I always love hearing when these conversations, like Dr.
- 21:24Friedman and I, hit somebody and it makes a change in you.
- 21:26You go dancing, you take your partner out, you have a great time with your kid.
- 21:31And the reason I say that is that I see so much searching in my practice, Dr.
- 21:36Friedman, so much painful seeking, searching, hoping.
- 21:41part of that is being human and having ambition, and I love all that like you do.
- 21:45But sometimes part of that is really where people struggle
- 21:48to be right now in the present
- 21:50David Friedman, BS: I noticed that your nine tenants didn't tell, uh, teenagers
- 21:53to spend more time on social media.
- 21:55It's become like the addiction now, you
- 21:57know?
- 21:57When I was a kid, I was addicted playing baseball and soccer and stuff outside.
- 22:02Now they're inside and their tablets.
- 22:04Wouldn't that be the opposite of mental fitness?
- 22:06Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah, I mean, that's really what the data is
- 22:08showing us as teen mental health continues to go into decline.
- 22:12I think, we all owe Jonathan Haidt, um, at NYU a really, a thanks
- 22:16for his book, Anxious Generation, really talking about the harms of
- 22:21social media, particularly the young teenage women really trying to get…
- 22:25he really started this movement to get phones out of schools.
- 22:28My daughter says it.
- 22:29She comes out of high school, she's a freshman.
- 22:31She says, "You know, Dad, we come out and everybody just pulls their
- 22:34phone out, and we just walk through the hall looking at our phone."
- 22:37it's sad.
- 22:38We all do it.
- 22:39I mean, everybody, every parent in particularly, feels guilty.
- 22:42But we all look up, we're on the couch or next to our partner, and instead of
- 22:46connecting, instead of talking, instead of date night, we're both doom scrolling.
- 22:50And there's something about it that feels wonderful.
- 22:52And, there's a tenet we didn't talk about called the tenet of engagement,
- 22:55and people ask a lot about that one.
- 22:57And the tenet of engagement is my request that you fight the algorithm That all
- 23:02day long, based on your demographics and what your eyeballs look at and how long
- 23:07you wait and what you scroll, you're gonna get served up stuff you like.
- 23:10out here in Jackson, I get served up a lot of like, big mountain snowboarders,
- 23:14you know, hucking their meat off of some giant cliff in the avalanche, right?
- 23:18The kind of stuff that I, I can't stop looking at, big surf waves or…
- 23:22Right?
- 23:22It sort of serves things up for me.
- 23:24But to be honest with you, Dr.
- 23:26Friedman, I'm really not much of a surfer at all.
- 23:28I like to paddle out and, I'm kind of scared of the big backcountry.
- 23:32Um, I like to skin up a mountain for sure, but boy, I'm never
- 23:35gonna do big lines like that.
- 23:36And engagement is about trying to take a step away from what the algorithm's
- 23:40telling me, that I'm actually really not that big or tough or, and instead get
- 23:45into my life and make choices based on what I'm feeling, what you're feeling,
- 23:50that you already have an algorithm.
- 23:53It's called, your emotional system, and it gives you so much data.
- 23:58And whether it's alcohol or drugs or the screen, what I see happening over
- 24:02and over again in this modern world, the book's called Healing the Modern
- 24:05Brain because it's about the modern world really hijacking some of what
- 24:09makes people feel good about themselves.
- 24:12you spend all day, all weekend scrolling.
- 24:14We all know you feel badly about yourself, and then you medicate
- 24:17that kind of by scrolling more.
- 24:19And so it's great to bring up Dr.
- 24:21Friedman.
- 24:21You know, I know everybody's hearing this over and over again, right?
- 24:24It's kind of like healthy diet, like eat better stuff.
- 24:26Stop the screen.
- 24:28I really encourage you to have a structure and a method.
- 24:31what I find is happening over and over again is people are taking these
- 24:34soundbites, and it reminds me a little bit of the, um, fire alarm in a hospital.
- 24:38If you've ever been in a hospital, I've spent a lot of
- 24:40time in a hospital as a doctor.
- 24:42and the fire alarm goes off, and they go off all the time, sometimes when like
- 24:45testing, and you just start ignoring them.
- 24:47You know, you look around, see if anybody else is moving or running.
- 24:50You see if there any smoke, but you don't-- You just-- It's
- 24:52kind of going off all the time.
- 24:53You don't really pay attention to it.
- 24:55And it feels like sometimes that's what's happened with
- 24:57some of our healthcare advice.
- 24:59David Friedman, BS: Yeah.
- 24:59I'm worried about the modern brain you talk about in the course of
- 25:02what probably wasn't real big when you wrote the book is the AI.
- 25:04It's thinking for us now.
- 25:05It's built into our eyeglasses to process what we see, and soon it's gonna
- 25:09be implanted directly into our brain.
- 25:11How do we combat that?
- 25:13You know, someone on the cutting edge in your field, what are the pros and cons
- 25:16of this quickly evolving intelligence?
- 25:18Drew Ramsey, MD: I would say that the pro, hopefully, is that our need for more
- 25:23thoughtfulness, better use of evidence, more respect for science, more respect
- 25:28for testing, more respect for nuance.
- 25:31I would hope that those of-- what I would say can be great
- 25:34human traits, our ability, let's say, to be kind and have grace.
- 25:38Hopefully, the AI, and, I think we all say hopefully because none
- 25:42of us really quite understand how it's working or what's going on.
- 25:45Hopefully, those values will remain part because AI will need them to survive.
- 25:50I think what you're alluding to is very soon we're going to be integrated,
- 25:54that the synchronicity notion of implantation and then, probably initially
- 26:00through a set of magnetic impulses, that the AI is going to have some
- 26:04reasonable control over our brains.
- 26:07that's pretty much…
- 26:08I'm, sitting, I've got this actually near-photovoltaic helmet I put on the
- 26:12other day, which, is attached to my phone, which is attached to the internet.
- 26:16And, you're sitting there realizing, if the problem with A-AI is solving like,
- 26:20help me feel better and less anxious, and it has access to live EEG data, right,
- 26:26of my brain sensing the electromagnetic kind of functioning of my brain in
- 26:30real time, and then either through implant or through helmet, it has one
- 26:34of these, um, TMS, transcranial magnetic stimulation, which is a way that the
- 26:39brain can be manipulated with a magnetic field, a lot like electroconvulsive
- 26:42shock therapy, but without the seizure.
- 26:45So you begin to combine that up with super intelligence, and you have the
- 26:49basic workings for AI to very easily control human cognition and human mood.
- 26:56it's a frightening thing, as we all race towards it.
- 27:00Everyone here has spent, thousands of gallons of wa-water essentially
- 27:06and electricity and compute a-asking AI a set of things that really it
- 27:12tells us a lot about ourself, right?
- 27:14How we want it to be like the big daddy in the sky that
- 27:17answers or big mommy in the sky.
- 27:19" what should I do to get bigger, better, richer, freer?
- 27:22Please, please tell me."
- 27:26and so, there's that, and then I think there's also the ways
- 27:28that we find ourselves trying to use it more effectively.
- 27:30Can I summarize the science better?
- 27:32Can I create an e-book for my audience that helps them eat better?
- 27:36can I create more engaging content that reaches more people and saves lives?
- 27:42and whatever the equivalent of AI doing that is in your field.
- 27:45that's clearly very in-intriguing.
- 27:47the early science, of course, is showing we also then think less.
- 27:52David Friedman, BS: True.
- 27:52That's my
- 27:52concern, yeah
- 27:53Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah, and, and I found that to be true that, there's
- 27:56less finished product, there's less pushing through, there's less
- 28:00dealing with the disappointment.
- 28:01You know, when you sit down and write something, it's disappointing.
- 28:04I mean, I've written five books, and I sit down and I write all the time,
- 28:06and I look at it, I'm like, "Oh my God, you're such like a snively,
- 28:09whiny, selfish," you know, like, yikes.
- 28:13And then you edit it, right?
- 28:15And then you look at it again, and you think it's getting closer.
- 28:17And then you share it with someone, an editor, a colleague, a writer,
- 28:20you know, you get some feedback.
- 28:22and that iterative process, it makes you better at the first draft, but
- 28:26it also is the way that you polish and refine your thinking and the idea
- 28:32that you want to present to people
- 28:34David Friedman, BS: Yeah, it's so true.
- 28:35I remember, uh, writing, one of my chapters and it was like, "This
- 28:38is the best thing I ever written.
- 28:39I can't believe I can't sleep."
- 28:40It was like 2:00, 3:00 in the morning.
- 28:41I'm so excited.
- 28:42I'm onto something so exciting.
- 28:43I'm like, "This is gonna revolutionize the world."
- 28:46And then guess what?
- 28:46Two weeks later, I read the chapter and I go, "This sucks.
- 28:49What was I
- 28:51thinking?"
- 28:52Drew Ramsey, MD: Well, and it-- That's exactly right 'cause the--
- 28:54Like, yes, 'cause in that mental state, you had changed the world.
- 28:58You had written the best thing.
- 29:00And so to see that and then face the reality of like, well, what was that?
- 29:04You know?
- 29:04And what is, that little pearl in there, Dr.
- 29:07Friedman, where maybe you were?
- 29:09And how do you find that and go, and so that's the process that
- 29:12we start to lose very quickly
- 29:14David Friedman, BS: Bingo.
- 29:14Because a lot of people would say, "All right, throw it
- 29:16into AI and they'll fix it."
- 29:18But when we do it ourselves, it has to just enhance our
- 29:21brain, has to make us grow.
- 29:22I think that when we're giving away to a robot, we're losing part of our brain.
- 29:26It, it's a no-brainer, pun intended there
- 29:28Drew Ramsey, MD: I think it's that fantasy all of us had that we were the smartest
- 29:32kid in the class and we could do anything.
- 29:34And no matter how well you did in school, I did pretty well in school, but there
- 29:37were always people that were a lot smarter than I am, and suddenly that
- 29:40notion that, no, you can do it, you can write the thesis, you can revolutionize
- 29:46a field, you can create a business.
- 29:49dealing with that level of what I would call is like narcissistic fantasy,
- 29:53that you can become all-knowing, and you can become whatever it is that you
- 29:58kind of hope for without the effort.
- 30:00there's something in that that I think ultimately will be hollow.
- 30:03You know, I also-- I've just did a, the biggest psychiatry, the
- 30:06American Psychiatric Association conference, and we're talking a
- 30:09lot about AI and identity, right?
- 30:11What does it feel like to you all to sit on my couch with all my plants,
- 30:15I get you a spin drift, I have like four or five different flavors.
- 30:18I sit there, I look right into your eyes, or we look at each other in
- 30:21screens, and I do something that doesn't happen a lot these days.
- 30:24I don't have my phone out, and I wanna hear about your inner worlds.
- 30:28And if you talk to me about, scheduling, the stuff, the this, that, okay.
- 30:32But eventually I'm gonna be like, "Hey, t-tell me more about…
- 30:34I wanna make sure I'm hearing about you.
- 30:35How are you?
- 30:36How's your mental health?
- 30:37How are you feeling inside?
- 30:38What's going on in there?
- 30:39What are you thinking about?
- 30:40What are you worried about?
- 30:41What's going well?
- 30:42What are you struggling maybe to celebrate and not recognize?"
- 30:45and so that very human process, being present with each other, but
- 30:49kinda having that, I would say like clinical awareness and clinical
- 30:52radar that's different than AI.
- 30:54AI can know what life stage you're at, can know how old you are.
- 30:58I can kinda sit and hear your developmental history and hear about your
- 31:02object relationships and the people in your life and how it feels to sit with
- 31:07you and how you describe yourself and what you've done with your life and,
- 31:10and have this, I'm gonna say like human sense o-of who you are that I'm not sure
- 31:16I could quite program an, algorithm.
- 31:18Like it felt really exciting to sit with you, or it felt a little strange
- 31:22when you said that thing, a-and so that what's called embodiment
- 31:26David Friedman, BS: You said the magic word, "It felt."
- 31:28Do you see how you're responding to that as a human being?
- 31:30I've yet to see that word from an AI.
- 31:33Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah.
- 31:33Well, you know, It it's trying.
- 31:36Well, I mean, I think there's that question of it's trying and what
- 31:39actually is a feeling and, when you think about this kind of mashup
- 31:42we have now of all the interest in consciousness and psychedelics, all
- 31:46the interest in AI, all of the ways that we're trying, you know, we're all
- 31:50trying in these chats to do something.
- 31:54I've had this feeling of incredible-- I have all these science articles sitting
- 31:57around my office that I'll print and I'll read a little bit of, or I'll read
- 32:01the whole thing, and I'll make notes on, but I, won't write a blog on it
- 32:04or, they just stack up over the years.
- 32:06I have hundreds of them.
- 32:07it feels pretty cool.
- 32:09Well, what if I feed all those into AI and, each one it turns into a
- 32:12blog and my voice, and that begins to feel really exciting and powerful.
- 32:16And then when we begin to see that fifty, sixty, seventy, eighty percent of what
- 32:20we're seeing online is AI-generated.
- 32:24I think authenticity and people will
- 32:26David Friedman, BS: And it's sad because, you know, I've shared my garden
- 32:29for, 12 years, pictures of my garden.
- 32:30Everybody's like, "Oh, I love it."
- 32:31Now I share it, guess what?
- 32:33"Is that AI?
- 32:33Is that real?"
- 32:34I'm like, "Oh my God, I can't even post my own garden now
- 32:36Drew Ramsey, MD: Yeah.
- 32:37No, it's funny.
- 32:37I was thinking that at the beginning of every Instagram post, I can
- 32:40make like a blood sacrifice, like a little-- no, like a little pin prick
- 32:44and like smear it, you know, where you can see like it's really me.
- 32:48But I, I realize that's maybe a little old school.
- 32:50But,
- 32:51but, you know, I do hope, uh, Dr.
- 32:52Freeman, I hope everybody listening, that you have a vote AI is very good
- 32:57at pulling us in, but, really trying to support voices, particularly in the
- 33:00health and wellness space, that are credentialed, that are trustworthy, that
- 33:05are balanced, that prevent evidence.
- 33:07You know, we haven't gotten into the evidence about mood and food here, but,
- 33:10I can rattle off five or six randomized controlled trials, the highest standard
- 33:14in evidence, around, for example, treating depression and adding on
- 33:18a Mediterranean diet and getting a third of people fully into remission.
- 33:23And that study's been replicated multiple times in multiple populations.
- 33:27supporting making sure that your feed is full of voices that you can trust.
- 33:31We all get intrigued, following the bully, following the heretic,
- 33:36following, uh, paladin, you know, following these people that appeal
- 33:41to our emotions, the contrarian.
- 33:43And you just need to be very mindful and cautious about who you let in.
- 33:49in mental health, we talk all the time about boundaries.
- 33:52And people often mistake-- They think that's just about like not acting out,
- 33:55like not drinking, like, not flirting.
- 33:58And it's like, no.
- 33:59No, no, no, no, no, no.
- 34:01Boundaries is also it's about what you don't let in.
- 34:04and people miss that part of it when-- You know, we talk a lot about like
- 34:07when you end up engaging, and people talk about like emotional vampires.
- 34:11It's, a great example of, when you don't have boundaries, when you
- 34:14let anyone have access to you, your feelings, your emotional system, that
- 34:18isn't being disciplined with your mental health and your mental fitness.
- 34:22You know, it's kind of just like in my mind, it's like not exercising,
- 34:25not watching what you eat, not thinking about your sleep hygiene.
- 34:28It's just this missed opportunity to care for yourself.
- 34:31And so, boundaries are there to protect us and to keep us safe and secure.
- 34:35So within the boundary, we can be ourselves.
- 34:38We can be comfortable, calm, effective, powerful.
- 34:43we're not kind of anxiously looking at the distance worried.
- 34:46David Friedman, BS: Such great advice.
- 34:47Time flew by.
- 34:48Boy, we got to get you back.
- 34:49I had so many other questions I want to ask, we'll definitely do a part two.
- 34:51We'd l- love to have you back
- 34:53Drew Ramsey, MD: I would love to be back, Dr.
- 34:55Freedman.
- 34:55Thanks so much.
- 34:56Sorry to go on and on, but I
- 34:57David Friedman, BS: No, it was great, great info.
- 34:59I'm sure a lot of our listeners took lots of notes, but guess what?
- 35:01That's not necessary because you can get all of this and more in Dr.
- 35:05Ramsey's latest book, Healing the Modern Brain: Nine Tenets to Build
- 35:09Mental Fitness and Revitalize Your Mind.
- 35:12Highly recommend getting a copy, and you can do that at drewramseymd.com.
- 35:18And while there, be sure and check out the many resources that he has
- 35:21available, including informative articles.
- 35:23He's got videos and e-courses.
- 35:25You can also follow Dr.
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